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hmmm this is really concise dude thanks
/r/seduction16/06/17 10:23 PM
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well maybe once every couple months I'll lock eyes with a girl and we'll share a reciprocal smile, but its so rare. Like I said, I generally stand upright and walk with purpose to show off my height, so there's something wrong on the looks end and in my 22 years - 5 years really of being seriously frustrated with dating - Ive NEVER been able to pinpoint what the problem is.
/r/seduction16/06/17 09:50 PM
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well im working on getting bigger rn but face seems to be all that matters these days. And its worse when IM CONFIDENT IN MY APPEARANCE BUT' WOMEN THINK IM HIDEOUS (see pic)
/r/seduction16/06/17 09:44 PM
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IVe TRIED the always smiling route - Ive tried the Serious route. Nothing works. People find me hideous and I really dont fucking understand why.
/r/seduction16/06/17 09:27 PM
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naw my hairline looks even worse with long hair - my hair doesn't grow that way
/r/seduction16/06/17 09:20 PM
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buddy -Ive tried that a million times. NOBODY (especially not attractive girls) makes eye contact with me. Period. Im not the type who looks down at the ground when walking but I dont ever even really think of approaching cuz I feel like Im not allowed to.
/r/seduction16/06/17 09:20 PM
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my pics later down in the thread ... girls react to me like Im a monster bro I dont understand
/r/seduction16/06/17 07:51 PM
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and u misunderstood. I LIKE HOW I LOOK. WOMEN DO NOT.
/r/seduction16/06/17 07:38 PM
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ya i do alll that - really just basic stuff imo. And yes I jus graduated an am working currently.
/r/seduction16/06/17 07:36 PM
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tbh mostly making music - not really a social activity tho.....
/r/seduction16/06/17 06:47 PM
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so my face is a problem too then?
/r/seduction16/06/17 06:27 PM
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lol im sorry but IM pissed off
/r/seduction16/06/17 03:51 PM
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lmao
/r/seduction16/06/17 03:29 PM
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lol i can assure u i dont play football...but thx. I think ive watched TOO many youtube videos to the point where this shit just seems harder than it really is (couple with self-doubt and cognitive bias related to my experience out there)
/r/seduction16/06/17 03:03 PM
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yee truesay
/r/seduction16/06/17 03:03 PM
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yee def have the chubby cheek problem - which is funny cuz im actually quite skinny (tho been lifting and eating so tryna bulk maybe thats why)
/r/seduction16/06/17 03:00 PM
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angles just weird i have a fade
/r/seduction16/06/17 02:59 PM
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meh I didn't really get the vibe that these guys are fibbing tbh, especially cuz I see it on here so much. Maybe its just my location im not sure. The main problem is every single woman I've been with in my 22 years has been someone I've met off Tinder so now that its not working for me I find it hard to try different avenues!
/r/seduction16/06/17 01:10 PM
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ive read models like three times hasn't made me feel better cuz I'm unable to put initiating into PRACTICE
/r/seduction16/06/17 01:08 PM
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U didn't get the second part of my rant (and I'm really sorry to keep venting about this shit) but even in these public places women are highly unreceptive - I don't know if it's a personal thing but I get SERIOUS stay the fuck away vibes, so between that and online dating and nightclubs (which also are looks based) I feel kinda screwed. I might have to post a face pic to understand whats up. I've been working out and focusing on becoming not so lanky too.
/r/seduction16/06/17 10:50 AM
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well then I really dont know wtf im doing wrong :(
/r/seduction16/06/17 03:01 AM
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maybe they find a taller black dude too scary and thus unattractive? Though I dont think I have an intimidating demeanor tbh :(
/r/seduction16/06/17 02:39 AM
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most i got was 100 matches in 8 months - that was a while ago. I'm also 6'4" so u must have a face like a God
/r/seduction16/06/17 02:35 AM
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yes but it just means as a non-white u have to be ABOVE-average looking whereas the way i came out was just below average
/r/seduction15/06/17 06:47 PM
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well they wont even acknowledge me irl so im fucked
/r/seduction15/06/17 06:47 PM
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yee I am black, just wish height reduction was a thing so I would be less intimidating and weird-looking
/r/seduction15/06/17 06:03 PM
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As a fellow black dude, I feel absolutely no sympathy for posts like this. Why? Because there's men like me who watch the way they dress, who get constant haircuts, and guess what? NO WOMEN show us any interest whatsoever. We are FUCKIN INVISIBLE
/r/seduction15/06/17 03:50 PM
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this is exactly how I feel, and being an ethnic minority its been pretty shit lately. Even if I get a match and send a non-"hello" message, it just gets ignored
/r/seduction15/06/17 03:40 PM
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well my hair would be boring with no personality otherwise, so I need that plus the little facial hair I have to give me 'character' - otherwise I just end up looking like a super boring nice guy. Ill PM u later.
/r/seduction15/06/17 03:13 PM
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exactly - theres a certain 'Tyrone' stereotype of super masucline, huge black dudes that I dont live up to
/r/seduction15/06/17 03:11 PM
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Im 22 and been struggling with this shit for years...I get a regular fade haircut I think looks good, but it doesn't do shit. I NEVER get women eye-fucking me:; ever. It seems its about shit you can't change (i.e. facial genetics, jawline)
/r/seduction15/06/17 10:48 AM
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naw I don't think being black is holding me back tbh -- theres just something I haven't pinpointed yet.
/r/seduction15/06/17 10:47 AM
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at least u get IOIs....
/r/seduction14/06/17 11:05 PM
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I NEVER look down but it doesn't mean shit...I don't get what the point of this post is
/r/seduction14/06/17 11:04 PM
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I dont think so necessrily...its not about approch anxiety its just theres some men like me who under NO circumstances women want talking to them
/r/seduction14/06/17 08:50 PM
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I spent too much time as a nerdy kid at all boys school that I never internalized the memo that women find lanky men genetic trash. Couple that with being called skinny all that time and I internalized that Im just too ugly to ever get a gf
/r/seduction14/06/17 08:46 PM
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The once in a blue moon I DO get out to a venue wit my small group of friends, its really a hit or miss. Most of the girls at these venues go solely for good looking dudes they can show off to their friends. Women act all repulsed around my and its soley due to the way I look an its really starting to piss me off
/r/seduction14/06/17 08:45 PM
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Oh fuck off with this ive message plenty of black chicks on POf only to get ignored most of the time- not to mention a lot around here are just plain ratchet or fat
/r/seduction14/06/17 08:42 PM
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I don't really have problems conversing or socializing with people (including women) - they JUST dont find me attractive
/r/seduction14/06/17 07:13 PM
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tbh my tiny social circle from high school (all boys education) aren't really the type of dudes interested in going out to meet women....
/r/seduction14/06/17 07:12 PM
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well I would have to start at - where the hell am I supposed to meet women outside of the workplace?
/r/seduction14/06/17 06:49 PM
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most of the aforementioned girls ive been with (and most i match with on tinder) are white. Im not too hung up on the racial element of dating as I once was, but maybe its a hindrance if you're an ethnic minority and just not good looking enough.
/r/seduction14/06/17 06:48 PM
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lol ya i meant fat neckbeard really
/r/seduction14/06/17 06:47 PM
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uhhh well seeing as BBW porn is a thing and like i said a TON of average looking dudes are dating obese women - yes I think women tend to be more vapid and shallow when it comes to dating these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 03:49 AM
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average looks and good personality isn't good enough for women in their 20s nowadays - its a fact. So many guys I know get ZERO attention from women, its incredible seeing men in their 30s and 40s married to attractive women from a previous time....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 01:10 AM
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wrong. Feminism is slowly killing any need for women to seek a provider, hence young women these days SOLELY GO FOR LOOKS. Shallow, vapid culture we live in. Social media and Tinder have exacerbated the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 12:58 AM
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well maybe the cultures just changed, but most dudes I knew in uni were single and couldn't even get women to have CONVOS with them, let alone be sexually attracted to them. They have no interest in average-looking men anymore because THEY DO NOT NEED MEN TO PROVIDE FOR THEM.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 12:44 AM
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THIS. I've seen (and personally know) plenty of what I think are perfectly average, decent-looking dudes being relegated to dating landwhales because womens standards are insanely difficult to meet in 2017.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 12:39 AM
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As someone who just finished uni (at a very party-oriented uni in a party-oriented city) lemme tell u - 80% of men (average dudes) who go out to bars and clubs thinking they gonna get lucky are leaving empty-handed. No hookups, no numbers, no sex, nothing. Most women these days act like they're not even heterosexually attracted to men - he has to be super good-looking, and that is pretty much all that matters today.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 12:34 AM
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