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| 1 | Pickup is really frustrating -- sometimes you overcorrect and outdo yourself, then sometimes you don't do enough. It's messing me up.Lol, this kinda became "how to deal with hecklers", but I hope you can see the social grace and elegance in the guy's response and demeanor. It's 3AM and I can't really think straight, and I know that if I don't respond to this right now, I probably won't for another couple of days. | /r/seduction | 19/12/14 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Pickup is really frustrating -- sometimes you overcorrect and outdo yourself, then sometimes you don't do enough. It's messing me up.Let me try to demonstrate by using an example situation. Suppose you're talking with a girl when some asshole comes up to you and tries to swoop her away: You and girl: blah blah blah Heckler: Nice shirt bro! Is that from Walmart? How would you respond? Are you going to get defensive about your shirt? Would you try to out-perform or "out-alpha" him? Would you get in his face and tell him to buzz off? What would you do if he was persistent, physically bigger, and more verbally skilled? Heckler: N… | /r/seduction | 19/12/14 11:08 AM |
| 2 | People say I ask too many questions. What is this an indicator of?Perhaps you're jumping around topics a lot. Also try to mix in questions with statements, jokes, sexual innuendos, etc. For example: You: So who's going? Friend: A and B and C You: Ahh...I haven't seen C in a while. I heard he was blah blah blah Friend: Yeah, he blah blah (Talk about C for a bit I guess) You: So going back to this gathering thing...where will this be? I dunno. Something like that. When you get told that the interaction is like an interview, the dialogue prolly looks like this: Y… | /r/seduction | 15/12/14 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Pickup is really frustrating -- sometimes you overcorrect and outdo yourself, then sometimes you don't do enough. It's messing me up.Being funny gets you attention. Don't try to be an entertainer because all it does is make girls laugh--you want to get them wet. You want to aim for attraction. Definitely listen. Yeah, you'll prolly get more results as the funny, talkative guy compared to the quiet guy, but you eventually want to calibrate yourself and become the sexy and socially graceful guy. | /r/seduction | 15/12/14 03:00 PM |
| 2 | I Need Day Game HelpIf you objectively look great and you have a sexy vibe, then you can initiate the interaction with something as simple as "hey". If you're good with projecting your vibe and body language, girls will generally know what you're about unless they're socially inexperienced. If you're not too confident about your looks or vibe, then you have to address the fact that girls will be wondering "Why is this guy talking to me on the street? Is he trying to sell me something? Is he gonna rape me? Is he jus… | /r/seduction | 15/12/14 02:51 PM |
| 2 | What are some key differences between boyfriend material and FWB material?Think to yourself: what's the difference between girlfriend material and a slut you see as only a fuck buddy? If you want to come across as a guy to be used as a penis and nothing more, these are some things that come to my mind at the moment: don't demonstrate high value or provider-like qualities (don't cook for her, don't tell her how financially stable you are, don't talk about future family plans, don't go shopping with her, etc); keep things sexual with innuendos, dirty talk, dirty jokes, … | /r/seduction | 15/12/14 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Openers for pairs or groups of womenNo offense, HappyJerk, but I'd like to modify your response to say "Hi ladies, I'm X" ;] We all want to be a ladies' man right? Well, the word "guys" when referring to ladies makes us seem too friendly. We don't want to be friendzoned. Unless there is a situation/context that I can play off of, I do direct game, so I will also tell you that being simple and to the point is the way to go. It makes you seem confident, powerful, and dominant. Don't beat around the bush for too long. Make your inten… | /r/seduction | 12/02/14 12:29 PM |
| 1 | 18 Years old, recent single, can't seem to be interesting around ladies.And the parts about you that you don't reveal? Well, let her find out. It's much more exciting for her when she "discovers" you rather than you blurting out "I do these, I like those, I am this, I drive that". | /r/seduction | 12/02/14 12:09 PM |
| 2 | 18 Years old, recent single, can't seem to be interesting around ladies."Yeah...uhh I do research...and I ski..." You're not at a job interview. stymy said what I wanted to say, but there are a few more things I want to add. You actually do stuff ("I volunteer in a research lab, I'm heavily involved in endurance sports"), so you're not painfully boring/plain. That's good--it's good to be an interesting, three-dimensional person. What you want to do is get her talking. Find out what she likes to do, what her passions are, what she wants to do after college, etc. Then… | /r/seduction | 12/02/14 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Good responses to "Are you guys dating?"Yes, we're actually expecting a boy | /r/seduction | 12/11/13 10:03 AM |
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