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| 4 | [RANT] My Observation of This Sub: Most of You Would Rather Cry Online Than Build Real ConfidenceI remember when people used to post online without trying to make money. That'd be my rant observation. It's obvious to me when a post is by someone forcing themselves to create "content" and trying to advertise themselves. | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 05:16 PM |
| 6 | Authenticity when datingThis is the entire concept of the blue pill. The girl represents society and her advice represents standard messages and cultural narratives about dating & relationships. It's full of bullshit, but the fiction exists because it is a lie that makes people comfortable. The way the real world works is stressful. Telling a young person who is obviously concerned about dating that "things may not work out" is hard to do. How can he discover what factor about his personality is getting in his own way?… | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Asking Girls Out Randomly Can Sometimes Be The Only Way?I feel for you. I pay a lot of attention to the length of organic interactions I get with women, including non-strangers that I see weekly, and it makes me depressed sometimes. I think the answer is "yes", you have to ask girls out randomly without a lot of buildup. You can go from 0 to 60 by switching on a more flirtly voice and telling them you want to take them out sometime. Or you can keep your normal voice and go "I know this is a little random, but you seem like a smart/great/unique girl, … | /r/seduction | 21/09/24 02:38 PM |
| 0 | Cold Approach Fundamentals for BeginnersYeah, not all strangers, but to clarify: what about when we set aside things like bus stops and queues? Like if you go to the store, is it pretty normal for you to talk to one random dude in the grocery aisle and talk to one couple walking the opposite the direction on the sidewalk? This is far from talking to "all" strangers, but it is hard to achieve in reality. Most people in these situations can't be opened with a playful side comment or fun joke observation because there is a large gap in s… | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 01:37 PM |
| 4 | Cold Approach Fundamentals for BeginnersMake a habit of talking to all strangers, not just people you’re attracted to. I think this advice is something that is repeated because it sounds good and would be nice to achieve but it doesn't easily work in reality. If you are walking around an area where everyone isn't making eye contact, where people aren't naturally close to each other, and it is a bigger interruption to open a random person, then there is a bigger need to state an intent to the interaction. Yes, when looking at your life… | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Going to a singles event with about 100+ women in attendance (and 100+ men). Any tips on sticking out of the crowd?Honest question: Where did you find a singles event? | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 05:18 AM |
| 2 | What questions can I ask girls when approaching?What's the guessing game? | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 01:02 AM |
| 1 | How much of dating is really a choice?Everything that is culturally acceptably to say is written from the perspective of married people. "Choice" in dating/relationship circles often just means stuff like "I only now have learned/consciously realized that X is important for me to look out for". | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 03:50 AM |
| 1 | How to show interest in a guy?Yeah we chat a lot! So i don’t want to ruin it if I ask him out and he says no, then I wouldn’t want to join the group, it would be too awkward Don't worry, I don't think you should ask him out directly. I think you just aren't aware of your other options. The key to answering your question can be summarized as: to send the signal that he isn't like everyone else to you, you have do things that one normally doesn't do with everyone else. Here is my guide for you: Ask him questions that go deeper… | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 05:06 AM |
| 2 | How to show interest in a guy?That's a good start, do you normally have a chance to talk to him when he shows up or is it not that social? | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 12:04 AM |
| 1 | How to show interest in a guy?Is it a guy you are seeing in a regular environment (workplace, social circle, weekly interest group, gym, etc.) or is it a guy where you aren't expecting to bump into again? | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 09:42 PM |
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