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1

Be non chalant about it, women change their minds like the wind changes direction, no use getting worked up about it
/r/seduction29/07/26 12:29 AM
3

Dont go out with him
/r/seduction27/07/26 06:38 PM
3

You are old school then, probably very charismatic
/r/seduction26/07/26 01:41 AM
1

Are you selective? I feel like its a struggle on the apps and I dont reach even close to my true potential, I can get laid any day, dont get me wrong, but its quality I want not quantity at this point
/r/seduction26/07/26 01:35 AM
1

Its not about what you say..its how you say it, the energy behind it. I comment on their bodies all the time.
/r/seduction07/07/26 08:59 PM
-1

I have a lot of experience with women, blackpill is very far from the truth, a woman will not moist herself for an absolut retard like Clavicular just because he looks "pretty", maybe a 17-19 year old. Yes aesthetics matter, but blackpill is just dumb.
/r/seduction07/07/26 11:07 AM
1

Get it out of your system, its not all you think it is. But its important to get out of your system. I dont waste any time chasing critters these days.
/r/seduction21/06/26 09:13 PM
1

Why care about STDs? Its 2026. Dont do dumb shit, but honestly dont be an autistic redditor
/r/seduction21/06/26 09:11 PM
1

The apps algo reward effort these days, more time spent checking the profiles, engaging in convos etc, maybe try that
/r/seduction25/05/26 09:01 PM
5

Hooking up in my 30s was significantly easier than in my 20s, I could easily be in the hundreds if I wanted to, still getting matches but I cant bother dating these days, its become boring
/r/seduction25/05/26 08:58 PM
1

There is no way thats true, even if you were to flaunt you should get way more matches
/r/seduction25/05/26 08:50 PM
1

Maybe you have a point, I will think about this
/r/seduction25/05/26 08:44 PM
1

Rejection creates obsession, in contrast obsession creates repulsion. Neediness is akin to obsessive behaviour and naturally creates repulsion. Ive lived this many times in my life.
/r/seduction25/05/26 04:17 PM
1

I wasnt even quoting manson tbh, the non neediness thing is way too verifiable
/r/seduction25/05/26 03:41 PM
98

If they are into you they are into you, its not about the compliment itself, but about non neediness, everything else is a gimmick, thats the only thing you need to mind, are you being needy by doing this or saying that?
/r/seduction20/05/26 09:54 PM
1

I have a top 1% natty physique, it does attract women, dont fool yourselves, but I know I look great not because of them, but because how gay guys look at me everywhere I go, all the time. So I tend to agree, blackpill is a myth past the 17-23 age gap, girls beyond that age require more.
/r/seduction19/05/26 08:51 PM
1

10/10 girls dont even exist, the gym delish girls are always not so pretty face wise, but then the 10/10 face girls dont workout hard enough because they dont need, so they dont have 10/10 bodies or even close. So 10/10 overall doesnt exist and thats looks wise, forget overall package.
/r/seduction19/05/26 08:09 PM
1

This is what I figured out as well
/r/seduction15/05/26 02:34 AM
8

You get over it eventually, I am past a few dozen lays, it gets boring
/r/seduction15/05/26 02:32 AM
2

I look really good at 36, I can get matches with 21-25 easily, but it doesnt help that much with older women, they look for other stuff
/r/seduction11/05/26 11:51 AM
1

Looksmaxxing /blackpill is a myth, works less and less the older you get.
/r/seduction11/05/26 11:34 AM
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Im in the top 5% overall, if a girl doesnt put out I probably wont message again, in my mind its her chance to take, not mine. Unless I find her extremely attractive at which point I will give her a second and at most a third chance. So yes, I do believe that withholding at least once is good, if a high smv dude is really into you that wont deter him. I actually tell the girl its her only chance if I dont want her too much during the date, not directly of course, but I find a way to make that cl…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/26 09:06 PM
16

Thats bs, when a pretty girl gives me head I can cum on command
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/26 05:16 PM
12

You are trying early, at the peak of your SMV, use this as your leverage to choose well. But there is no Mr. Perfect out there, remember that, not a single person will fit all your criteria, choose wisely, some qualities are far rarer than others.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/26 10:47 PM
1

We had history and unfortunately I gave too much consideration to potential
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/26 08:47 PM
-1

Ex is finally leaving my house, 1 year after the fling. I tried it with her, but the behaviour never changed. The other girl tried contacting me a few times during this year, now she is with another dude. But I probably wouldnt date her seriously, shes too young for me (23, I am 35, ex just turned 26). I want peace and maturity and what Ive learned is that young and beautiful very likely wont give me that.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/26 08:41 PM
14

My relationship with my ex sounds extremely similar, I checked out long ago because she showed the very same traits, despite me being the 100% provider, doing way more house chores, being the rock of the relationship. Didnt give me peace for months, years and unsatisfying sex, I ended it and searched for it elsewhere. Had the best sex of my life with a girl that fell in love with me, ex tried desperately to get back and we did, but the girl that fell in love with me was hell bent on fucking it u…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/26 08:21 PM
4

I had 5 girls in one week at one point, your girls sounds better than the last 50 put together. You have little experience and hit a jackpot, thats all Im gonna say.
/r/seduction08/01/26 12:03 AM
1

Ig influencer who gives a shit. Chicks will be chicks, if anything she probably comes with more redflags than avg
/r/seduction13/11/25 06:31 PM
-5

Like salsa and bachata huh
/r/seduction21/10/25 02:16 PM
1

Its a numbers game, have you looksmaxxed?
/r/seduction15/04/25 09:02 AM
1

Its pretty rare for me to get shit tested, but I also have a natty greek god body and a good looking face, but I think it has more to do with me not going for the shit testing types, its not worth my time
/r/seduction07/04/25 12:27 AM
3

You think way too highly of yourself, its unappealing, high value girls see through this egomania way too easily
/r/seduction24/11/24 07:05 AM
1

Stop pedestalizing them, they are full of flaws
/r/seduction21/11/24 07:47 PM
6

Great answer, very eye opening. When the relationship starts to dwindle and fall apart you have to do your part, work hard to get to where you want to be, if she doesnt follow through or things dont improve, it is time to let it go. Because as OP pointed out in one of the best posts ever made on this sub, being single is great and you can have sexual and emotional fulfillment without being in a LTR.
/r/seduction21/11/24 02:18 PM
2

OP's post is the best post you will ever read on this sub, go read it, then read it again.
/r/seduction21/11/24 02:08 PM
8

I think bars and alcohol make your life way easier if the point is to have sex, coffee dates only for girls that you see as potential girlfriends or at least something more solid. Paying everything in the first night is a good measure as well
/r/seduction20/11/24 01:16 AM
13

Dont ask them on expensive dates, have a dress style that makes you look young and fresh, be more flirtatious from the get go when meeting them in person (not so much before, can backfire too easily cos everything is a reason for a girl to unmatch you)
/r/seduction20/11/24 12:48 AM
58

If the girl puts in the fuckboy category your chances of getting laid in the first date grow exponentially, if she sees a future with you she might slow down to make you invest more. Basically comes down to how you choose to portray yourself.
/r/seduction19/11/24 10:40 PM
65

8 years of casual dating without one LTR? Hmmmm
/r/seduction19/11/24 10:23 PM
4

Work out and looks maxx, if you are not kissing in the first date and fucking in the same or second date you are doing it wrong.
/r/seduction15/11/24 10:45 PM
6

They dont have that at all, I pretended my way into being a fuckboy and did that so well I became better than the naturals, but it is all tailored and scripted, even though I am insanely good at it (100% kiss rate first date, sex around 90% first date), it doesnt come naturally to me and makes me nervous everytime, but I love the rush of conquering a new girl even though Im way better at being a lover when there's intimacy involved than just a fuckboy, tho I can develop intimacy very very quickl…
/r/seduction15/11/24 10:39 PM
1

Nah, they dont smell shit. Wont even elaborate, ignoring her unless she comes up to him is 100% the way to go
/r/seduction15/10/24 06:20 PM
7

Generally speaking, if you are in the top 5% of the male population its rarely worth it to give up your possibilities as a single man to be in an LTR
/r/seduction23/09/24 02:16 PM
10

Idk, I feel like the vast majority of women I banged would be down to be LTRs, I am quite physically attractive, but no tats or too strong fuck boy vibes, I also have my shit in order and good future prospects. Nevertheless, Im frustratred cos Im not banging away the real 9s and 10s 20-25 tinder hoes, probably should get some tats, young girls are drawn to guys that look dangerous and exciting, even though they are just low iq no futures.
/r/seduction23/09/24 01:47 PM
11

Very good analysis. Ive done the whole rodeo as well, felt empty from casual sex and now with a gf I feel like a caged animal, suffocated. Perhaps I chose the wrong one, perhaps Im broken inside.
/r/seduction16/09/24 11:48 PM
16

You need to get out of your head, dont beat around the bush, if you see a girl you are attracted to, go talk to her, if she wants you, 1 minute is enough for a kiss. I see a lot of dudes that have the balls to come up to a girl (which I have problems with), but they have no clue how to escalate, my success rate for kissing and sex is insanely high because I go for what I want when Im talking to a girl, sometimes I start first dates by kissing the girl.
/r/seduction15/09/24 07:41 AM
3

Honestly, stop being a bitch. Meat always falls in the vegan's plate.
/r/seduction14/09/24 05:53 PM
1

Dont need matches
/r/seduction07/09/24 03:08 PM
3

"But where do you find them?" Simple, dating apps, most attractive girls put their insta on their profile. Dont expect to match them on tinder, just hit them up on insta. Of course you need to have your shit in order, but I find that quite a few of them follow back and respond.
/r/seduction07/09/24 02:46 PM
19

By messaging 30 girls at once, all numbers these days
/r/seduction07/09/24 01:54 AM
1

Yes, I am somewhat antissocial and getting to look like a greek god made it so I went from banging nobody to as many as my libido can take when I was single. Take the black pill, looks are almost everything.
/r/seduction15/08/24 04:09 PM
3

There are tons of women that ARE really hot in photos and real life, are you gonna pedastalize them now?
/r/seduction15/02/24 02:52 AM
3

I am not your usual Chad, introverted and definitely not the social skills guy, I lost my virginity at 27 (current BC is 50) and yet my gf is an easy 9 (23yold, 15k+ instagram just from being hot and pretty af) so theres that.
/r/seduction06/09/23 01:03 AM
7

I dont think its fake confidence, men need to go through that phase, otherwise there will always be that nagging thought, that feeling of unfulfillment, of never being able to get the girls, relationships and sex you truly want, not that the ho phase guarantees that you will, its about quality, not quantity. The vast majority of people settle because they feel like they cant get better, but they want better, which is why we have so many disfunctional couples.
/r/seduction26/10/22 12:02 AM
1

Monk mode is completely fine if it doesnt fuck up your mental health and you actually use the time to improve instead of masturbating and playing video games, you can grow by leaps and bounds if you use the time you have somewhat efficiently
/r/seduction10/10/22 03:08 PM
1

True self improvement comes from within is bluepill bullshit philosophy. The grind is the grind, quantity and quality pussy comes from the grind, theres no running from this truth.
/r/seduction10/10/22 03:06 PM
4

Just enter their orbit, match bathroom times, stuff like that, if you hang around your girls waiting its extremely unlikely that they will come to you, some might, but its rare
/r/seduction08/10/22 10:02 PM
-2

I do more than fine. Math doesnt add up, deal with it or post proof
/r/seduction02/10/22 10:38 PM
-6

An 8 will have 0 issues with OLD and gets approached consistently, an 8 also wont be seen hanging out on her own, never ever seen that in my life, math doesnt add up. I am betting on a 6, then your story makes sense
/r/seduction02/10/22 07:21 PM
1

If everything you do is to further yourself, yes it does, because then you arent doing something for the sake of just enjoying the activity, you are doing it to further yourself in some way. Every little thing you do is to get somewhere at some point, you arent really present. It's an insidious way to live, because you can easily stay forever in grind mode deceiving yourself thinking that you are getting the most out of life, but you never truly enjoy it, think about that person in a vacation on…
/r/seduction01/10/22 05:47 PM
1

You sound like you live the life of an ant, always doing something, mindlessly going from task to task, life is more than that
/r/seduction01/10/22 05:33 PM
1

Thats crazy, I get more pussy than I can handle from OLD, but I respect the hustle
/r/seduction27/09/22 04:47 AM
10

Theres no fucking way game trumps looks, an uggo cant game his way into the pants of a 7+, this is dellusional. I think status trumps everything, tho I doubt that there is genuine desire if the dude doesnt look good, the girl will fuck you for what you can provide her, no tingles, barely passable sex, etc.
/r/seduction26/09/22 05:26 PM
1

Disagree, my BC skyrocketed because of Tinder, could I have done the same with cold approach? Maybe, but I would to spend a lot more time and resources. With tinder I just call them directly to my house or a nearby bar, quick and efficient
/r/seduction26/09/22 01:05 PM
1

Dont force the vibe, I find that a little bit of alcohol and talking to other people, such as the barman, gets me in the mood to approach, my success rate when approaching is pretty high because I also wait for IOIs, which I get all the time when I go out, working out and getting a Chad body helps
/r/seduction26/09/22 10:00 AM
3

Chick doesnt respect you enough to turn off notifications? Bad place to be bro, this one is for the streets, pump and dump
/r/seduction25/09/22 09:33 PM
1

ITT: Extremely clingy beta male trying to survive in the harsh OLD environment, oh boy.
/r/seduction22/09/22 05:10 AM
-1

Unless she gave you blatant signs, dont be so quick to judge disinterest, we vastly, I repeat vastly overestimate our ability to judge what other people are thinking. Listen to this weeks episode on Hidden Brain
/r/seduction21/09/22 10:17 AM
1

If its a phrase that a disney prince would say, dont say it, its a pussy drier
/r/seduction20/09/22 12:27 AM
1

Im 5'10, my height is totally fine here in Brazil. I dont enjoy gay guys' attention either, I suspect thats how most women feel when they get attention from dudes they find unattractive, its just unwanted. Most of my hookups came from OLD as well, I need to start converting the hotter chicks that show interest irl tho, quite a few wasted opportunities there.
/r/seduction19/09/22 07:41 PM
1

theres a face threshold, Im a good looking dude, gay guys give way too much attention and I get the odd girl approaching when I go to bars, but I feel like 8+ (male model face) are a tier above even if my body is almost always superior. A shredded physique wont help a sub 5 face, its almost useless, thankfully there are niches for those guys
/r/seduction19/09/22 05:38 PM
1

Im shredded, top 1% natty body, I consider myself a 7.5. Most of the population is actually below 5 considering that more than 3/4s of the american pop is either overweight or obese. 8+ is chad territory. 8-10 swim in pussy, doesnt really matter much.
/r/seduction19/09/22 01:17 PM
1

Autistic advice lmao
/r/seduction19/09/22 10:52 AM
3

Is this a troll post? Ive never seen so many redflags, but then again im jaded and this could one of those movie stories, good luck chap, you are gonna need it
/r/seduction19/09/22 10:51 AM
1

7.5 is way above average and chadlite territory, you are oblivious
/r/seduction19/09/22 02:35 AM
-6

I am kissing as early as the first minute I see them, at the latest 30-60 minutes in, all of them ended up at my place so far
/r/seduction19/09/22 02:31 AM
1

Just put on your profile that you are looking for something long term, beware of players tho, being one, Id just ignore this to bang you if you are worth the effort, there are tons of dudes like me on tinder, telling you like it is.
/r/seduction18/09/22 12:28 AM
0

Dont be a meek a bitch
/r/seduction15/09/22 10:35 PM
0

My rejection rate is insanely low and I still have mad approach anxiety, its just a fucking grind
/r/seduction15/09/22 04:08 AM
1

No such thing as a soulmate, you can also approach wearing phones, just lower the sound, there are no rules to this
/r/seduction15/09/22 04:05 AM
2

Very wise comment, this is a very valuable lesson that Ive been learning recently
/r/seduction13/09/22 04:31 AM
2

I find it funny when a fatso think that they have a shot, bro, do you think I worked this hard to look amazing to hookup with you? Id just stay inside all day playing games and eating Mcdonalds if the prize were you, fucking goddamn.
/r/seduction13/09/22 04:05 AM
1

They do, rarely, im a 7 with a hard to maintain 9+ natty physique, I get the 8s+ here and there, especially when they are travelling
/r/seduction13/09/22 03:53 AM
22

You cannot talk about India without talking about racism, living in Brazil, I know literally 0 indians, but whenever I see a dude from India talking about women/dating life on reddit or elsewhere, racism comes up. All things considered, op is beating the odds for thriving in his environment, though I suspect that his height helps quite a bit as it is way higher than the average indian
/r/seduction13/09/22 02:41 AM
2

Out of the charts awareness of your life circumstances and capacity to thrive against all odds, I salute you, my friend, you are a winner. Good luck in future endeavours
/r/seduction13/09/22 02:34 AM
1

A 35 has to work insanely hard to look nearly as good as 20yold that just exists, its not even the same game imo, I look at them and they are down
/r/seduction13/09/22 01:28 AM
2

More mature women are way easier to deal with, but the quality of the goods is considerably lower, especially because most of them go through the ho phase riding on genetics and never taking care of themselves, what we get is a 20-25 peak and then its all downhill for the vast majority
/r/seduction12/09/22 09:19 PM
1

Quite a few girls do that to me, some say they love me the very first date during sex, but I look like a greek god naked, Id wager thats the reason, anyway, I give exactly 0 weight to it, women change their minds like the wind changes directions. I would never say that I love someone the first time I meet her, no matter how attractive. Women have a fickle mind.
/r/seduction12/09/22 04:31 PM
0

You can claim your woman without making her your gf, love is allowing, if you feel the need to label your relationship to lock a girl down, thats a beta move.
/r/seduction12/09/22 04:17 PM
3

Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of relationships. Why would a man ever want to lock a woman down? Generally speaking, theres no logical reason, men can have multiple women, father multiple children at the same time. Only low value dudes feel the need to lock a woman down. "Man, if I dont make her my gf I cant get another like her anytime soon". Thats usually the thought process of a dude that asks for a girl to be his gf, that or being madly in love, but very often that…
/r/seduction12/09/22 04:13 PM
1

Given the information available, this is the major point. It is also how you can get multiple women in the same venue sometimes, they dont care, they want the highest value dude and even if you arent, apparently other girls are saying that you are
/r/seduction12/09/22 10:40 AM
2

Love this quote, it fits me so well, very little was given to me in this life, the most basic of things I had to fight for, makes me proud, perhaps too proud
/r/seduction12/09/22 03:42 AM
5

Sounds fishy, abs >>>>>> being a fatso in terms of aesthetics, powerlifters def dont slay
/r/seduction12/09/22 02:01 AM
-15

Who cares, we are all gonna die bruh. Being celibate to prevent STIs is coping to deny your inability to get laid.
/r/seduction12/09/22 01:59 AM
9

250 lbs at 5 11"? You pin like mad bro, I couldnt give less of a shit about your podcast or insta following, its not a replicable lifestyle, not because its inherently hard, but because you need to be interested in doing it in the first place. I fail to see how you are of any higher value than OP.
/r/seduction12/09/22 01:54 AM
4

They are, do you stare at girls you arent interested in? I know I dont
/r/seduction10/09/22 03:38 AM
1

Loser mentality, theres no such thing as having trouble gaining weight, not nearly as much as uninformed people think there is. Eat more, lift more, read important books: No more mr nice guy, Models etc. Its unfortunate that so many dudes were raised so bluepilled that women give them the "you dont have a penis treatment".
/r/seduction09/09/22 06:34 PM
5

Yea, I find that most people dont want their problems fixed, they want you to commiserate and validate their pain
/r/seduction07/09/22 09:37 PM
0

The dude you answered to sounds like he doesnt have a penis. You sound like a nice guy trying too hard to impress, you guys really gotta work on your text game
/r/seduction07/09/22 02:31 AM
-1

I really doubt she was an 8/10, 8/10s dont really use dating apps, and when they do they chase nobody (because they match with everyone, including multiple Chads that will initiate), if you were Chad you wouldnt be doing the "fuck you" scene in front of the mirror, the math doesnt add up. That aside, you really need to work on your mentality, you are pedastalizing girls like mad.
/r/seduction05/09/22 03:10 PM
9

Why are you putting feelings into this, son? Its a game, to win it you gotta play it to the best of your abilities, you are projecting your whole shit and values into this for no reason.
/r/seduction05/09/22 11:19 AM
1

How do you know that he hates himself? Its all a game bro, play the game.
/r/seduction05/09/22 11:15 AM
11

I see no diff, because theres none. At the limit everything that alters your appearance is the same, this includes bodybuilding, tattoos, jewelry, height lifts, all the same.
/r/seduction05/09/22 10:58 AM
5

This thread is basically filled with "thanksimcured" posts. Tell that shit to everyone wearing makeup, expensive clothes, cosmetic surgeries or chemicals, pads, etc etc. because they are all the same fucking thing as wearing lifts This sub is about improving quantity and quality of lays for most people, accepting you are a gnome is less effective at that than doing what op's done, prove me wrong.
/r/seduction05/09/22 10:55 AM
19

Are you another one of those "you are projecting bad energy bro" clowns? I dont see this any different from makeup, boobpads, cosmetic surgeries, etc. Its all about maximizing your looks through whatever means available to you. This thread is full of morons and people in denial. There's essentially no core difference from doing this and anything else that alters your appearance, the consequences and acceptance are obviously different, but these bullshit replies about lack of confidence/energy/ya…
/r/seduction05/09/22 10:43 AM
9

I see no diff, make up is also the same shit, deception.
/r/seduction05/09/22 10:40 AM
2

This is all in your head, when I lost my virginity the girl was none the wiser, its not that hard dude.
/r/seduction05/09/22 09:08 AM
1

Thats exactly my point dude, OP sounds way too desperate when he is very young and essentially starting out, my advide is take your time and work on yourself, thats all, no magic advice other than that
/r/seduction04/09/22 10:19 PM
3

4 years behind in what sense? Losing your virginity doesnt do anything, its not a magical event. You can start really late and get a bodycount astronomically higher than people that start at 16. I had sex with 30 different girls within less than a year, a few of them are fwbs, so the number could be considerably higher if all of them were always new. The starting point is not meaningful at all.
/r/seduction04/09/22 09:20 PM
2

20 yold is nothing, you have a lot to learn, take your time, hit the gym, read the relevant books. Young people really have little to no perspective, I always get a laugh when I read desperation such as this coming from 16-25 yolds
/r/seduction04/09/22 07:39 PM
-1

Dude, your answer is so fucking simple: the gym. Lazy ass motherfucker.
/r/seduction01/09/22 12:44 AM
4

You were obese, seeing yourself in a bad light is natural and will take time to deconstruct, dont be too hard on yourself, just remember that you are the prize, they have to impress you.
/r/seduction31/08/22 10:27 PM
2

If none of them are stable fwbs with some emotion involved you dont need to give them too much attention or compromise yourself
/r/seduction31/08/22 07:13 PM
5

If you want success, fit the expectations, if you are part of a niche, the girls matching you will expect a particular set of behaviours, behave as expected and you will have success, that is if you want to hit quantity + quality poon , it is what it is. After you hit it you can start showing some of your true character. Did you expect that they would be surprised by your peculiar interest for Naruto and gaming? This doesnt apply only to black dudes, most people fit a niche and its provenly bett…
/r/seduction31/08/22 02:04 AM
11

Tell them how many skins you have, their panties will drop
/r/seduction30/08/22 07:26 PM
2

You would do the same if you could, your mentality didnt change at all in those 2.5 years, this comes through easily
/r/seduction30/08/22 11:07 AM
5

You are an entitled little shit, stop crying like a jealous bitch. You are so negative that Im 100% that shit oozes out of you. Keep grinding, you are young, get your fucking mind in order. It is not in a good place. Stop fucking crying, it serves no one, especially yourself.
/r/seduction30/08/22 10:07 AM
1

Why is your case special bro? :)
/r/seduction29/08/22 10:37 PM
1

In my experience really young girls are sorta retarded and will do that a lot for no apparent reason, just learn to expect random ghosts, blocks and disappearing outta nowhere
/r/seduction29/08/22 10:35 PM
2

Just whip out the dick and lay it on her hand, that oughta work
/r/seduction28/08/22 11:21 PM
41

Getting the women you desire has a rippling effect through all areas of your life, do I believe that this is the only way to achieve inner peace? No, I dont. Do I believe that Im better than guys that cant pull this off? Yes, I do, because I know how incapable, meek and weak I felt all the time when I couldnt pull this off, this deeply affects how you perceive yourself and your behaviour. Call it ego, narcissism, being superficial, whatever. I call it what it is, nature's calling, its always the…
/r/seduction28/08/22 06:58 PM
1

The older the women, the more upfront and easy it will be, dont overthink this, just ask her to meet up, I guarantee that she will go 100%, she clearly wants to bone.
/r/seduction28/08/22 03:57 PM
3

You are in the top 1% of dudes, enjoy the race. You dont need to latch on to any girl that falls in love with you, it will happen all the time. Beggars cant be choosers, thats mostly why people start and stay in unfulfilling relationships, you have no reason to do the same. Dont start a relationship because of perceived expectations, do it because you found someone very special that you love to spend time with, that will contribute to your life and growth, or just dont do it at all. You are very…
/r/seduction27/08/22 04:22 PM
6

If you are good looking and the girl gives you IOIs, pretty much any place is the place. Hell, Im quite the focused and self centered guy at the gym, no chitchat kinda dude, and still I had some flings with multiple girls at my gym. Flirting with girls at the gym is very common, regardless of whatever the reddit basement dwellers think or say.
/r/seduction25/08/22 11:48 PM
3

Stop putting women on a pedestal, these pretty girls offered you their looks, but what else? You clearly had enough going for you that made you valuable to them
/r/seduction25/08/22 04:20 AM
1

Low smv, big balls, good job OP. I have like 1/10 of your initiative, but my success rate is like 90%, if I go for it, it goes down. I wonder how good looking I actually am, theres no way Id go through what you did and keep going. I usually only go for girls that give me strong IOIs, but any random bar I go to 3+ girls will do that
/r/seduction25/08/22 12:59 AM
4

Thats cute. Stop bullshitting yourself
/r/seduction24/08/22 08:46 PM
2

I wouldnt say all my matches are girls I wouldnt approach, I get decent matches every week, but all of them are below my level, at least in terms of fitness, some pretty girls here and there.
/r/seduction24/08/22 04:36 PM
4

1,80 81kgs, avg height in Brazil is only 1.73 tho
/r/seduction24/08/22 04:38 AM
15

You can learn how to socialize without ever really enjoying it, its a cross you have to bear for the quality poon
/r/seduction24/08/22 04:37 AM
33

Im way above average and I still dont get the top quality girls on dating apps consistently, shit is tough, I think avg and below dudes are wasting their time and possibly money on these apps, get shredded first. For reference I think I am a chadlite, at least a 7 (chads are 8+), but if you are into my type some girls think I look amazing.
/r/seduction24/08/22 03:38 AM
4

I post insta stories working out or shirtless consistently, they get a lot of views and a few likes from girls, its clearly successful, I have a top 1% natty body tho, people ask if Im roided, but im natty, you get the point.
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:42 AM
2

Strike while the iron is hot isnt only for women, men with options are basically the same, I almost never go after girls that didnt put out the first time for whatever reason, I wanted her then and there, thats especially the case for random girls at bars and clubs
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:39 PM
3

You guys are dellusional, sub 6s can never pull an 8, maybe very rich or famous
/r/seduction22/08/22 10:07 AM
7

Leaving on seen is straight up disrespect
/r/seduction18/08/22 02:27 AM
2

Yes, once you are able to have multiple girls at the same time it gets hard to want to commit to one, usually they all have different qualities, Im trying to find one that blows my mind, no dice so far
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:17 AM
0

Im gonna blow your mind. Calling someone insecure doesnt invalidate their argument, shocking, I know. Now go and live with your new found wisdom
/r/seduction16/08/22 08:52 PM
-2

Cant be an incel term when a dude with 25+ lays in a few months uses it, can it?
/r/seduction16/08/22 04:12 PM
0

Chad isnt incel terminology and I dont care what you use or dont, stop trying to divert this into an ad hominem cesspool because you cant deal with reality.
/r/seduction16/08/22 02:52 PM
-1

You want a tall, outgoing good looking dude that has a gym body, thats a Chad. Im Chadlite (worked hard to get here), I have plenty of options and I will not commit to a girl that is not at my level, I expect natural Chads that have even better options to do the same. The gym pop is like 80% dudes 20% girls, yet they expect a greek god when they dont even lift, its fucking annoying
/r/seduction16/08/22 02:39 PM
9

She described standard chad
/r/seduction16/08/22 02:22 PM
1

That layla chick is a low 7 at best (generous), if you want Chad to commit its gonna be really hard, you can hookup with plenty tho
/r/seduction16/08/22 02:22 PM
1

It can compliment a women's body, side panties fuck is sexy as hell. But overall its totally passable
/r/seduction16/08/22 03:50 AM
0

Her SMV is probably in the dumpster tho, I could have sugar mommas if I wanted to, but my dick has good taste and is kinda picky
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:42 PM
1

I always agree and amplify in a playful tone, works everytime
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:08 PM
45

I dunno, letting it faze out is way better than sending a message that clearly expresses that the person isnt even worth trading messages with, idk about this one kev. Imo its way better to just answer unenthusiastically after a few days, even if they keep at it, eventually their interest will die down. Way more emotionally intelligent than "sorry, but you arent even worth the time I would spend typing, k thx bye."
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:06 PM
2

Bro garden gnomes are fucked its a fact
/r/seduction14/08/22 02:18 AM
1

I love this, you actually took matter into your hands and came up with a solution when no one else would do the same given the same circumstances. Fucking impressive.
/r/seduction12/08/22 01:22 PM
3

Sociopaths get laid a lot, nice guys arent sociopaths at all. Let's stop this sixth sense bullshit people like to spread about women, sociopaths are very successful, obviously people dont have as good of an instinct as they think they do.
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:29 AM
2

Next time just leave blatantly disrespectful messages on seen, you behaved like a full blown beta when you asked if she was still coming
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:24 AM
0

Its not that nuanced, Im a very logically driven guy, I looksmaxxed and now I swim in pussy, when theres a will, theres a way, fuck that "emotion" bullshit.
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:30 PM
0

Rejection is different from "I would die a virgin if this dude and I were in an isolated island for life". I like using this one
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:48 PM
-19

Eeeh not really
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:42 PM
2

Its nuanced, Ive gone out with dudes that were so below my level that I got all 3 girls and they got zero, nada. Doesnt matter if the dude pulls girls if they all pay attention exclusively to him.
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:55 AM
1

Im your age, had sex with 26 women in less than a year, a few stable fwbs in between, most girls between 20-25. If you think you are old, you are too old. If you dont, you arent.
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:36 AM
1

Yea watch vanilla porn, its pretty close to the actual thing
/r/seduction03/08/22 12:59 PM
2

Sex isnt hard, when I lost my virginity the girl was none the wiser, next time just do it, get out of your head
/r/seduction03/08/22 12:34 PM
1

I usually just look at them and gauge, Im used to random making out after suddenly seeing a girl in the shared bathroom area, just spontaneous making out in general, I dont believe comfort is needed, they either want you or not
/r/seduction03/08/22 09:36 AM
1

Confidence is often misleading and overrated, you can be confidently wrong, people just likely wont know. In some situations, one of these being seduction, being blindly confident has no downsides, when taking financial decisons (and many other areas) though, being confident can lead to your downfall.
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:37 AM
2

You dont need to be macho, its all about behaving confidently and knowing and going after what you want. Im a pretty quiet guy, but Im usually kissing and escalating in like 5 minutes, dont hide your intentions and go after what you want
/r/seduction02/08/22 06:35 PM
5

That was great, even complete failure wouldve been fine, but I think the results were pretty good. Keep going op
/r/seduction01/08/22 10:46 AM
-1

Yea this is the true blackpill, genetics trump everything. I think I can get with the 8s and 9s (I have already, at least the natty 8s, never got with the gym stacies), maybe using roids and going for god tier muscles is the way, maybe its style? Not sure. Im pretty close to maxxing out for a natty. I am starting to get 7s consistently and they almost always comment that I look way better in person. At the same time, I see couples with girls 8 and above with dudes way below my level
/r/seduction01/08/22 02:41 AM
-1

On average I see 0 reasons to date my age (im 32), I look way way younger than women at my age, also younger girls look considerably better, have less baggage and generally want to have fun without much impediment, I dont want to settle down and have kids (even if I did, younger girls have better eggs), so really theres not a single advantage
/r/seduction30/07/22 11:33 PM
4

This is 100% true, you need to change your patterns of thinking and suddenly one day you will notice that you dont feel as shitty around people, talking to strangers or approaching
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:34 PM
0

A very common one is the "im not going to sleep with you today". I dont even take it slightly seriously
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:36 AM
1

You missed the point entirely, shit tests at their core are subconscious, they arent malicious at all, its something women evolved to do, nothing toxic about it. When I said you have no experience I meant that you just havent cognitively learned to identify shit tests at all
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:20 AM
1

I mean that you are talking about something you know very little about and you just dont notice it, goes right over your head
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:09 AM
1

Women shit test all the time, they dont do it to be mean, they do it subconsciously to test your masculinity/confidence, you are just a beginner.
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:07 AM
4

You seem like you talk a lot, but escalate too little. I have multiple fwbs going on, pretty much all my dates and random pickups end up in sex the very first night, I dont have enough dick for that much pussy. Anyways, I would never do 1 hour phone calls, maybe with an LTR of 1 year plus, you seem to be putting a lot of effort in the wrong areas. I would have to look at you interacting with them, but theres for sure something wrong going on, maybe you dont show enough enough sexual desire and m…
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:02 AM
5

The rational part understands, the subconscious doesnt, you have to hammer it in through experience
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:07 AM
-1

Im usually making out in the first 5-10 minutes, sex on the first date almost always happens (like 90% of the time), if I want to go bareback they are also up for it. I look way better than the average dude tho, especially nekkid. If she doesnt put out on the first date the second one usually doesnt happen, unless shes hot, then she gets the second or third one, avg girls get 1 shot (but usually only last 2-3 encounters). Point is
/r/seduction30/07/22 12:49 AM
0

You gotta level up, slaying low level bosses is easy, time to get the hotties
/r/seduction29/07/22 07:14 PM
0

Im always straight forward: come home so you can bounce the chocha on my sausage works
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:10 AM
11

I think some women are too easy to seduce and it makes the whole process boring. I came to this realization today laying in bed with a chick I invited out of the blue this wednesday, it was all too straight forward. Theres little to no excitement in easy lays at this point and I have a hunch that its brains, not beauty (assuming an acceptable baseline, mine is 7) that make the difference, seducing a smart girl that figures out your shit is much more entertaining
/r/seduction28/07/22 12:11 PM
18

Numbers honestly mean very little, not to burst your bubble but thats a low bar
/r/seduction28/07/22 12:05 PM
1

20 years old is basically nothing, stop using that as a crutch
/r/seduction28/07/22 08:30 AM
1

Instead of getting defensive you should try to learn something and improve. And not that it should matter, but no I have never embarrassed myself because I drank too much, and you shouldnt care if people do this or that, be harsh with yourself and accepting of others, thats how you diferentiate from the masses.
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:35 PM
1

Yea you gotta cut the draggers, life is too short to waste time with those.
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:31 PM
1

You asked her out in front of everyone while drunk, you are a socially inept moron. Move on and do better next time, dont waste any more of your time thinking about this chick, in fact just silence her shit or unfollow
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:18 PM
2

I spin mad plate (I have to drop girls all the time, not enough dick for them all), I never say or do stuff like this and then ghost, there will be no strong demonstrations of attraction/affection from me (and I expect most men) if its not a somewhat stable feeling thay wont vanish the very next day like it happens with women.
/r/seduction27/07/22 04:48 AM
-3

I dont like using pre-selection, its too strong, makes things too easy and reduces the thrill of the conquest
/r/seduction26/07/22 12:40 PM
0

Lovely guy means you dont have a dick, you gotta show them you have a dick. Subscribe for more wisdom.
/r/seduction24/07/22 04:46 PM
23

Share just enough to get yourself comfortable, oversharing isnt good in a lot of ways, get a therapist for that
/r/seduction24/07/22 06:17 AM
2

Idk dude, I think there are a few dudes here on the same boat as me, humans are never satisfied
/r/seduction23/07/22 11:18 PM
8

Its not about complicating, its about increasing quality. I have many options and want almost none of them. I want hotter girls. Im way past the sex for sex's sake phase
/r/seduction23/07/22 11:02 PM
2

There are tons of challenges you can pursue, "I have no motivation to push myself because I have everything" is a bullshit excuse, there are a lot of things money cant buy, genuine attraction is one of them (though to be fair money will be a lot of help here too)
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:53 PM
4

Oh boy your life must be so tough
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:30 PM
2

Your whole spiel is completely useless, isolating is good, fuck trying to build rapport with a whole group, its entirely too inefficient for a lot of reasons. My god this sub went to ass.
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:30 PM
1

Trust me on this, I hooked up with more than 20 girls in a few months, most want to remain as fwbs, but more importantly, I have no fucking clue how many I made out with in these last few months because they were too many, I know how to recognize interest almost instantly, everything on your post reads as high level of attraction. Give her something back, girls usually dont give too many chances and definitely rarely give those to shy dudes too afraid to act.
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:23 PM
1

Bro this chick wants you to bone her, are you blind? You need to go to therapy and work on your insecurities or something, also go to the gym, also meditate. Girl puts her hand on the dudes belly and he wonders if she likes her, my god this why the population is in decline. She wants you 1000000% , what are you gonna do?
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:16 PM
3

My average is higher (3 new/month) and could be even higher if my fwb retention wasnt so high, dudes be starving out here. Go fucking lift, get ripped, swim in chochas, its not rocket science (ymmv, doesnt apply to tiny dudes and too ugly, but works for the vast majority)
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:04 PM
2

Meditate, read about the topic, dont identify with the thoughts and push through
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:00 PM
2

I did the same, except my quest started after I broke up in august 2021, turns out being ripped makes girls wet. I am a socially anxious dude (got a lot better over months of doing this), live with mom and sister, banged 25 since august 2021, most want to remain as FWB, but I only keep the best looking ones and keep switching for better ones. Its hillarious to me that so many guys find this hard to believe
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:57 PM
2

I had a very similar experience to op in the same timeline (actually mine is august 2021, I read it wrong), my number is in the 20s, but my retention is too high because many want to remain as FWBs (and so do I, sex gets better), if I only went for new girls my number would probably be above 50 or higher, theres an endless source of girls on Tinder, its a marvelous thing. Here is the thing, I live with my mom and my sister, girls dont really care, if anything it makes them feel safer.
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:51 PM
2

Aka no standards. God bless. Id choose celibacy over having sex with quite a bit of the creatures I see these days.
/r/seduction22/07/22 06:30 AM
1

I was a virgin with my first gf that was decently experienced and she was none the wiser till I told her so years later, I was dominant from the get go and I think switching polarity isnt good in most cases, either this guy grows into his masculine dominant side or it wont work, so I guess show him the roles but leave plenty of room for him to take charge
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:44 AM
3

I have infinite pussy from OLD, its still sorta low hanging fruit (6s and 7s, rarely 8s, I dont go for below 6, at this point I should only go for 7+), cold approach is the way for the top quality girls in my experience. Important to note that Im pretty close to natty peak and get approached by girls when I go out, so Im decently good looking and ripped. Also my profile is very suboptimal, all selfies, mostly gym pics and no bio besides height. I think that optimizing pics is key (im lazy). Watc…
/r/seduction22/07/22 01:20 AM
1

Exactly, most men also have zero standards so it compounds the issue, making it really rare for women to experience rejection.
/r/seduction21/07/22 01:13 PM
1

Women are generally much worse at handling rejection, I dont even get an emotional spike. Meanwhile if I reject a mythical landwhale she somehow has the bravery to call me gay, the level of dellusion and lack of acceptance is off the charts
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:48 AM
2

Send a dick pic that should settle things
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:30 AM
-5

In my experience older ladies are desperate AF and have low standards
/r/seduction20/07/22 06:24 PM
1

Idk dude I want this guy to get laid and be happy as well, life is too unfair sometimes
/r/seduction20/07/22 05:22 PM
2

Harsh truth is that you are small as fuck and fat, hot girls and dudes too get outraged when someone well below their attraction level goes up to them thinking that they have a shot when they clearly havent worked on themselves to be up to par (minus height, you got shit luck there), you might not get this response everytime, but thats what an attractive girl will think, hell, thats what I think when an uggo approaches. I recommend hitting the gym and moving to southeast asia where people are ti…
/r/seduction20/07/22 11:33 AM
1

? Want proof? I got pics :)
/r/seduction20/07/22 03:06 AM
0

Im 32, I date 20-25 yolds without spending a dime on them, they uber themselves to me. Never simp guys.
/r/seduction20/07/22 12:15 AM
1

I have a huge roster, but theres not enough time, I will try to put them together and see if it works lmao
/r/seduction18/07/22 06:53 PM
4

Same brother, when a girl plays these games its just a huge turnoff and not worth my time
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:24 AM
4

Wheat is def not a moron and his rating is pretty accurate
/r/seduction16/07/22 03:56 PM
2

Updage your profile pic with a good quality clean one so I can evaluate. You could just be going for the 5% men at the top in online dating that just dont want a LTR, why would they? They can have their own harem. Usually a dude at this level is either already taken or keeping a harem and wont settle. Assuming you are as attractive as you say, either take your sweet ass time till you find Mr.Perfect or go for not so attractive dudes. Im gonna give you my perspective, it took a lot of effort to g…
/r/seduction16/07/22 03:48 PM
8

Op is either Chad or has no standards, Im betting on the second, I could get 3 dates per day, but I think I will pass on the mythical creatures as another redditor succintly put it
/r/seduction16/07/22 01:36 AM
2

First paragraph is too funny
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:58 PM
-2

Same bro, I didnt get to Brad Pitt @Troy level to slay land whales, I do fine on Tinder, but Id say girls are at least 1 full point below me looks wise, when I match stacies (8+, insta hotties) they are way harder to get anything going
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:56 PM
1

I wanna see you saying that with a 4incher. I wonder what came first, the realization of dick size, or the self- doubt and lack of perceived worth. Im close to a 7incher, but I understand the small dick curse, its a nightmare.
/r/seduction15/07/22 05:36 PM
2

But he only said that because people are wrongly regurgitating the alcoholic argument, if anything what Im saying is even more important. Im showing him that there is a way for him to accomplish what he wants when he already made it clear to what extent he would go to get it done while everyone else is just shutting it down with flawed arguments
/r/seduction15/07/22 05:22 PM
0

Im speaking from experience as I resonate with op a lot. He is seeking help from people that just dont understand his situation at all. Do you think that a dude that journals, meditates and works out is gonna be an alcoholic for shits and giggles? If you think so you clearly have no clue about the issue at hand. Im not gonna go on a rant about anxiety, but I will just say that in some situations you will need to perform otherwise you wont get a second chance, its now or never. Lets have a clear …
/r/seduction15/07/22 05:11 PM
0

Im also speaking off of my own personal experience and calling bullshit
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:51 PM
1

The dude clearly already has performance anxiety, how long will it take for him to be confident sober? How many missed lays?
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:51 PM
4

Says who? I do that and Im pretty sure I drink way way less alcohol than the average person. No alcohol the entire week (ye no beers watching football games), but some to get more comfortable here and there when going out, last time I got drunk? Cant remember This entire thread is just parroting the alcoholism argument without actually getting down to the nitty gritty of things. Who the fuck would take a shot to drive? A moron, thats who.
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:47 PM
1

You were doing it wrong mate, I do take a shot or drink some wine before meeting a girl Im particularly interested in to calm my nerves, but I absolutely do not feel the need for it the day after, for reference most of them sleep in and remain as fwbs without any further need for alcohol. Your whole verbiage about not feeling like you are good enough is not only bullshit, it also doesnt solve anything, people have anxiety, saying coachy shit isnt gonna help them get shit done
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:41 PM
2

Read my comment, its the best on this thread. People are dumb and just regurgitate shit. Do what needs to be done, a guy like you wont get addicted to shit.
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:35 PM
31

You dont need to rely on it, this argument gets touted a lot, but if people used their brains they would realize that: 1- First impressions or first dates matter immensely, keyword is first. 2 - In second and subsequent dates you will be much more relaxed around the person that you already know and not need any or little help to calm your nerves. In conclusion, yes Im a heavy advocate for using substances in precise amounts to get shit done (this is very different from abusing and getting hammer…
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:33 PM
2

Your conclusion for no price makes absolutely 0 sense, I also wouldnt want to spend a second of my life around the likes of you. ✌️
/r/seduction15/07/22 01:08 PM
-2

I think its pathetic if you need to do this, but no one needs to know, just lie, who cares.
/r/seduction14/07/22 07:03 PM
0

You sound meek and with zero confidence, you cant hold a masculine frame in this mental state and women like men. You need to change that.
/r/seduction14/07/22 05:29 AM
10

This is just coping bro, look up "halo effect", its not just in dating, everyone bends over to please good looking people, it basically makes people fill in the gaps and extrapolate that you are good at everything. Did patrice actually pull a lot of girls? Did he even get laid? Dude was morbidly obese and acted and talked as if he was a god, Im sure his sex life wasnt great.
/r/seduction13/07/22 03:44 PM
4

Invite her to drink some wine at your place, or watch netflix etc. I usually just downgrade flakers to 0 effort land without burning the bridge, unless she gives a very valid reason for the flake. Very attractive girls get 2 shots, average only get 1 chance, I have too many options to waste time with those
/r/seduction13/07/22 12:40 PM
4

Dont burn bridges, no need to get emotional over this, understand that women are specialists at ghosting, accept and move on, if she wants she will come to you, or you can shoot a msg a week later if she doesnt say anything. Just dont waste any more of your time or mental space on any girl that does this. But again, do not burn bridges, there are tons of reasons for people to disappear, life happens. Ive had success multiple times after reengaging even months later, the key is not getting pertur…
/r/seduction13/07/22 12:22 PM
9

You should really get a life bro
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:42 AM
18

A poetic defence to cold approach. Quality of girls being considerably higher is a major point for me. I do more than fine on OLD, but I only got the 8+ experience by approaching (albeit with the aid of alcohol)
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:56 AM
1

If he didnt look good he wouldnt be getting matches, at the same time his flake rate is way too high, Im lazy as fuck and still get more women than I can handle. Something is really off here
/r/seduction11/07/22 05:44 AM
1

I dont like using condoms, but if she was really attractive Id wrap it up to do it
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:39 AM
2

HIV is on a completely different tier, this shit kills you slowly and reduces quality of life, even if its fully controlled, life expectancy being mostly the same doesnt mean that your life will be just as good as someone that doesnt have it. Herpes is not even worth thinking about when compared to HIV
/r/seduction11/07/22 02:51 AM
1

Ball is in her court, let her be, if she says nothing then you wait a week and do a slight nudge
/r/seduction11/07/22 02:08 AM
4

It is, you are part of a tiny minority of men capable of achieving that. I believe every man should go through a casanova phase: you build confidence, you learn how people perceive you, you learn what you like (people with small body counts just dont get to enjoy sex to the fullest, one thing I quickly learned is that high levels of compatibility and amazing sex doesnt happen all the time), and many other benefits. Men tend to do all kinda of mental gymnastics to justifiy their lack of conquest:…
/r/seduction10/07/22 11:55 PM
5

Symptoms are the same, both can be present orally or genitally, essentially no difference.
/r/seduction10/07/22 11:30 PM
2

Sweet summer child, here, let me pat you on the head, its all gonna be okay.
/r/seduction10/07/22 11:29 PM
5

How the fuck would I know, biiitch?
/r/seduction10/07/22 12:28 AM
6

Strawman, I never said anything even remotely related to what you asked.
/r/seduction09/07/22 11:07 PM
-11

Bro, an attractive women does not, by any stretch of the imagination, worker harder than a man to get somewhere in life. Stop getting pegged and grow a pair. Attractive women get everything for free.
/r/seduction09/07/22 09:12 PM
1

High value comment. One major problem is that more and more men are being shunned for being masculine and as a result we get increasingly higher numbers of virgins below 30 (its around 28% in the US at this point), lower birth rates, worse mental health, etc.
/r/seduction09/07/22 09:11 PM
1

There are sub 5s (facewise) in this world, no amount of gym time can fix them, the dudes have to literally be very above average in everything else to have a chance, Im sure you can think of a few dudes that fit this criteria. I repeat, a shredded shrek is still shrek.
/r/seduction09/07/22 10:11 AM
1

Einstein was the one that said that btw
/r/seduction09/07/22 10:04 AM
2

This is all great advice, except for people that want to actually look good instead of yet another mediocre gym goer because soon enough you will be wasting A LOT of time talking to all your acquaintances every time you go to the gym. Id rather go lift, get a Chad body and get girls elsewhere.
/r/seduction09/07/22 05:37 AM
1

You do know that the dudes that look at you like you are meat are being genuine and honest, while the ones that follow a script like this one are the covert sociopaths right? They still want sex, they still talk about you like you are just meat, the only difference is that they just hide it under false pretenses, just like OP. I know a guy that is a trainer at my gym that does just that, plays the social butterfly game, but its so easy to see through his bullshit, if you pay any amount of attent…
/r/seduction09/07/22 05:33 AM
2

Most men are mediocre, this extends to selfcare and grooming as well, dont be mediocre, does that answer your question?
/r/seduction09/07/22 01:57 AM
-6

Not Chad bruh, you dont have the facial structure nor the body, def above average tho, congrats
/r/seduction09/07/22 01:22 AM
45

Are you insane? This is a completely fine response, Id say shes enthusiastic even (the game bit)
/r/seduction08/07/22 10:18 AM
4

Do you do the sex? If so, then its fine from time to time. Do you hope to do the sex and havent yet? You are her girlfriend
/r/seduction08/07/22 09:45 AM
3

Why not? Just be weary of the pump n dump, men in positions of power generally have a lot of women after them
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:52 PM
2

This is important info for sure, if I saw this Id definitely be weary of making any serious move beyond hooking up
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:24 PM
3

Thats not how men think at all, our natural way is to talk a lot with girls we are attracted to/like, but like the dude you answered to said, we learn through experience that theres a pattern to how receptive women are to this natural behaviour, shit goes down in flames a lot of the time, its very predictable. So in the end theres a lot of pretending going on, but you cant know for sure. Your dude could be: 1 - playing the field, you are one of many, the higher smv the dude, the more likely that…
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:14 PM
2

Which country ? I live in a major city in BR and girls here generally dont give a shit about gringos, I definitely wouldnt be fazed by american girls
/r/seduction05/07/22 11:08 AM
7

I mean, I do the same lol, 20 minute drive is too much for most girls, but for the right girl I could go for an 1 hour drive, so there you have it
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:28 AM
3

Dude I found a clean 8+/10 with 0 posts, private insta and 300 followers, she takes fucking long to answer tho fbm
/r/seduction04/07/22 08:18 PM
-1

Polos only look good on ripped dudes, I guess if you are muscular and fat it could look fine as well
/r/seduction04/07/22 05:58 AM
5

My closing rate is way higher and I always escalate, if im horny sex happens 95% of the time. Very different experiences
/r/seduction03/07/22 10:00 PM
3

Theres a cognitive dissonance going on here, you say you wont bend for anyone or any woman, yet at the same time you behave as if everyone is more important than you. With time and behavioural changes you will align this. You are doing fine
/r/seduction02/07/22 12:50 AM
6

Just ignore its 1 month
/r/seduction01/07/22 07:32 PM
12

You are mistaking vulnerability with being blunt and 100% honest all the time, that said, I didnt read the whole book but I also disagree with the whole "be vulnerable" shit, lots of evidence out there of this not working at all. If I were to be honest, the more self centered, narcissistic and manipulative I am, the more I have sex with higher smv chicks, being honest, kind and sympathetic doesnt really work in my experience, its all about games.
/r/seduction01/07/22 03:07 PM
0

How are you doing on Tinder? Are you wearing clothes that fit well? At this height and weight you are probably a bit on the slim side. Im at 80kg 1.77cm
/r/seduction01/07/22 02:55 PM
13

Women compliment me on how muscular I am all the time, stop being disingenuous, getting jacked made my life so much easier, I literally invite girls to my house and bang them on rotation, easy as that. Muscles will not be a huge boost to a below average face or a small dude tho, but if you are an average guy, the gym is your temple, the iron is your god.
/r/seduction01/07/22 02:34 PM
3

You need therapy my guy, thats the best thing you can do. I will give you three things to do: Gym, therapy and reading three books in this order Dale Carnegie's How to win friends and influence people, No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover and The Subtle Art of not giving a fuck by Mark Manson. You got some shit to work through, I would also recommend getting into daily meditation.
/r/seduction01/07/22 12:45 PM
13

Nice, you got this, baby steps.
/r/seduction01/07/22 02:32 AM
1

Bro you are bi, your opinion is invalid, try posting feminine pictures and matching with hot chicks, literally never happens. And I do just fine on Tinder, not as well as I would like or think I should do, but I got a few girls on rotation, I cant complain, a life without tinder would be harder
/r/seduction01/07/22 12:20 AM
1

Found the simp. Online dating is rigged dude. Im a good looking dude with the body of Brad Pitt @Troy, women are so fucking delusional because of Tinder that fat/below avg girls behave as if they have a chance, precisely because even them have more matches and likes than a dude like me. And dont fucking come with your simp shit talking about personality, tinder is looks and looks and looks
/r/seduction30/06/22 11:57 PM
1

Yea, its impossible to click with everyone, forcing things is quite often a waste of time
/r/seduction30/06/22 03:14 AM
14

Did you have the sex tho
/r/seduction30/06/22 03:13 AM
2

I did not drop my standards, I have 5 good looking gym going chicks on rotation, I could have more, but I had to drop some because I have other stuff to do in my life, I am also no chad, im gym made chadlite
/r/seduction29/06/22 11:49 PM
10

Yep, this is the answer, the one with lower SMV does the dancing, and the more unreciprocated the dance, the lower the perceived SMV, never chase.
/r/seduction29/06/22 06:54 PM
2

Bro, I dunno anything about the gay community, but a 5'3 would have trouble getting girls even in Vietnam
/r/seduction29/06/22 03:49 PM
1

Its a weird one, did you ask what was making her uncomfortable? Maybe she has body image issues
/r/seduction29/06/22 08:12 AM
1

How was she shutting you down? How many dates? How often did you guys make out? This is a weird situation, if anything older girls are easier. Not that 25-30 is old by any means. At first glance Id say that after multiple dates without sex she just lost any interest.
/r/seduction29/06/22 07:45 AM
3

It is indeed a very interesting thing, I will try to pay closer attention to this
/r/seduction29/06/22 03:15 AM
52

So many garbage answers in this thread, its like you guys learned nothing in this sub. OP, just be laid back and casual about it, assume that she wants to see you just as much as you want to see her, which is very likely the case considering she actually messaged you. No needy shit, quick and short convo and ask her out, dont be too accomodating.
/r/seduction27/06/22 10:44 AM
4

Bro im 32, I have multiple girls on rotation, ages range from 20-24, look at Leo and fuck what other people think, I couldnt give less of a shit about age gap, girls at their sexual prime are within this age range (20-27), deal with it. Especially because if you know anything about sexual and relationship dynamics you would know that this is more than fair, dudes in their 20s are usually stuck holding their dicks till they make something of themselves while girls start their sex life really earl…
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:41 AM
3

Bro that Aragorn shit works for me, I must be really handsome
/r/seduction26/06/22 12:32 AM
1

Thats exactly it, you get nervous, cant get hard despite being mentally aroused, then when you get it up you are so aroused it ends up in 2 seconds, happens to everyone one time or another.
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:54 PM
1

You definitely can observe yourself thinking, this detachment to the natural occurence of thoughts is something that you can develop through meditation, consciousness is the prior condition required for thoughts to appear, I understand that we have a predisposition to patterns of decisions, but we can train ourselves to think and behave differently, to essentially think differently, to change and form new habits. Saying repeatedly that everything we do was already predisposed, even that apparent…
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:06 PM
12

Theres a high degree of objectivity to beauty.
/r/seduction25/06/22 11:42 AM
2

Can you expand on that? I listened to Sam Harris talking about the illusion of free will, but Im not fully convinced, there are logical gaps. Where did you read about this?
/r/seduction25/06/22 11:40 AM
3

Ive ruined a couple fwbs by confessing, you gotta let them chase, if you confess before her, then she will perceive herself to be of higher value and lose interest, especially girls high on the hot scale, if shes avg or normie and you are clearly above her, its fine to confess, shit is retarded like that
/r/seduction24/06/22 10:43 PM
1

This makes sense, except for the fact that OP should also be perusing other options instead of just waiting for the leftovers at 8am
/r/seduction24/06/22 10:16 PM
1

Id be pissed if my gf did that shit
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:59 PM
1

This is a known tactic women use to keep you interested and feeding her attention/validation, dont take the bite next time, take a week to answer.
/r/seduction23/06/22 04:31 PM
3

Probably low level of interest, multiple girls on his plate, whatever the case may be, if you offered him sex and he said no its time to collect that very little dignity left and peace the fuck out.
/r/seduction23/06/22 04:29 PM
0

Seems utopic, this day and age most men are starving (90%)
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:46 PM
2

I wanna gonna read his novel, but after this excerpt it lost all possible credibility, im outta here
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:30 PM
6

Are you completely insane? This all reads like crazy
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:00 PM
1

About these concepts, nobody is alpha all the tjme, nobody is beta all the time. Just because a dude defends his family it doesnt mean that he wont act like a beta bitch 99% of the time
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:38 PM
1

You need to learn more
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:35 PM
3

Yea women are by nature undecisive and change opinion like the wind changes direction, just keep hitting them up every week or so if they arent complying, usually the dynamic changes after the first time I have sex with them
/r/seduction22/06/22 04:14 PM
3

You are low priority online, doesnt mean she will feel the same in person
/r/seduction22/06/22 04:10 PM
3

Do you think its too much to do this on insta? I dont like the idea of everyone I know seeing these antics. Too bad I dont use snap
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:23 PM
5

I think a few girls definitely get upset and shit goes down in flames, its probably a net positive. Wonder if I should do this on instagram, I dont use snap
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:22 PM
2

Video games also induce the release of too much dopamine, there's a reason why you can just forget the world and play a game for a whole week or even more, its too stimulating, its not as bad as porn, but its up there. Gotta cut back on that as well
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:56 PM
96

Least of your problems and likelihood of her getting banged by him again is astronomically high
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:49 AM
112

Nope, fucks up my general drive, my sex drive and my appreciation for normal beauty
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:46 AM
2

On the flip side there are dudes like me that lose interest if a girl plays hard to get for no reasonable motive
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:38 AM
7

I think helping you with this is above this subs paygrade, you should look for a professional to discuss this. I honestly feel like my life would be much easier if I was a narc, Im drawn to the idea of just doing whatever to get what I want, but mostly I am too sympathetic to do that on a regular basis, I suppose I have some weak narc traits in my shadow
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:46 PM
6

Theres no such thing as an inherent trait, this is something you quickly learn after you dive a bit into meditation or even psychology, the ego is a creation, ergo you can choose to let go of your shitty traits or embrace them, but dont be stuck on a limbo. Btw, women are generally very attracted to dark triad, they love the anxiety and intense rollercoaster of feelings they get when dealing with a deranged moron.
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:35 PM
21

Probably something to do with your supercar bro
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:27 PM
93

I usually just lose interest if I was on the fence about a girl, not chasing that poon k thx bye. It only works if I was already very into the girl in the first place, so it didnt really work, I was gonna stay regardless of sex
/r/seduction21/06/22 02:33 PM
8

Is the bodycount high quality? Deep down I feel like if I fuck the girls I actually desire deeply (8+ all around), I will finally be content, its not about quantity, its quality. Shit is so fucking shallow, but it is what it is I guess
/r/seduction21/06/22 02:40 AM
0

You keep insisting on projecting your shit dude, I dont even watch porn, I would have no libido left for the girls I have sex with on a weekly basis, I literally swipe right on less than 15% of girls, 0 fatties 0 uggos.
/r/seduction20/06/22 07:11 PM
0

Im not trying to be a tough guy, all Im saying is that Im not gonna commit so much time to talking to girls that Im not highly interested in, plus Ive had sex multiple times without spending nearly as much time. Seems like a lot of investment to me.
/r/seduction20/06/22 06:25 PM
1

Even overweight chicks get more likes than above average/chadlite dudes, thats why so many women are full blown delusional these days.
/r/seduction20/06/22 06:23 PM
-7

45 minutes? If I talk to any random girl for 45 minutes shes hopping on that dick, are you guys giving out lectures or something?
/r/seduction20/06/22 06:07 PM
11

A decent hack for this is to just try to socialize, the problem is that you are thinking too far ahead and trying to get something from the girls, isnt it much easier to interact with the old lady or the janitor or your male friends? Its because you want nothing from them.
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:22 PM
2

Generally speaking they really just want to fuck, at least that has been my experience, you can test the waters, looks for IOIs, theres always a risk, maybe dont do anything if you arent willing to leave the lessons
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:21 PM
9

Milfs are so so easy, they tend to be overtly sexual compared to girls my age, just enjoy the ride
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:54 PM
10

Staying all day with a girl is not conducive to getting shit done, I often dont eat nearly as well, dont get much work/study done and sometimes dont even go to the fucking gym and by the 4th or 5th I fuck her its not as enjoyable, for me I think staying 12 hours seems optimal for most girls
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:10 AM
1

Because she wanted to start using condoms as we had no exclusivity (I was seeing other girls), but then I said that it would be better if we just stayed friends, pretty bad, I know, then it went to shit from there, she flaked a couple of dates, there were audios crying etc.
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:19 PM
1

This dude is correct, if your mental state depends on how your relationship is going with a girl, you are fucked, Ive been through a very similar situation to yours recently, only difference is that I fucked up and pushed her way, either way, its bad to be this attached to any girl
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:04 PM
1

This dude is correct, if your mental state depends on how your relationship is going with a girl, you are fucked, Ive been through a very similar situation to yours recently, only difference is that I fucked up and pushed her way, either way, its bad to be this attached to any girl
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:04 PM
2

Introversion and fucking around dont mix unless you are part of the 10%
/r/seduction17/06/22 01:24 PM
-1

I wish I had so little anxiety that I was this oblivious and had to come on reddit to ask this, damn
/r/seduction17/06/22 12:01 AM
2

My body looks amazing for a natty, took me 4 years to get here, but around 1 year I was already doing pretty good, there isnt a major difference in attention you get from good to amazing body, its mostly in your head, though obviously it keeps girls coming back when you get naked, lots of compliments all the time
/r/seduction16/06/22 11:00 PM
9

You missed the point, unattractive men are usually treated as less than humans, women are very often rude, call them creeps, etc.
/r/seduction16/06/22 07:24 PM
1

Stop coping bro, you know the lengths youd go to hit that poon
/r/seduction16/06/22 07:21 PM
21

I think telling her to slow down has high odds of everything going down in flames
/r/seduction16/06/22 09:05 AM
1

Its hillarious how pretty much all the fickle behaviour posts are from women to men, ghosting rates must be 90 to 10 lmao
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:15 PM
2

Its hard, its something we do our entire lives, it takes a shift in beliefs/values and time, meanwhile you should try your best to be concious of this tendency and behave accordingly. I look better than 90% of the male population and still overvalue hot girls because Ive always done that since I was a but a young buck, it takes time.
/r/seduction15/06/22 02:53 PM
3

This isnt about raw numbers, its about quality of options, Im 32 now, dating girls from 20-27, theres literally not one woman at my age on tinder around my smv, meanwhile a 30+ woman will be hard pressed to get a high smv guy to commit to them. Even if you ignore the old adage that "women are born, men are built" in regards to life in general. Men simply age much better, we produce more collagen, elastin and sebum, our skin is firmer, ages better and looks younger and if you take good care this …
/r/seduction15/06/22 02:30 PM
9

Thats her prerrogative, theres no "winning girls over", your only job is to set up dates, have fun and hook up. If you push this relationship is doomed to fail, its a tale as old as time
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:00 PM
-14

18 to 28 tons of options, 28+ they hit the wall, value starts going down, a high smv dude at 30+ has way more quality options than a 30+ women
/r/seduction15/06/22 07:15 AM
2

Yet to see aggression coming from random dudes, statistics say that almost all the time its their garbage choice of a boyfriend that ends beating them up, not someone that they dont know at all. Something about women being drawn to dangerous sociopaths and calling average decently raised dudes creeps, it is what it is.
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:26 PM
2

Yea chick offered her insta just so she wouldnt get her head bashed in, makes sense✌️
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:18 PM
1

Did you watch this on a disney movie? Ive never seen a girl in danger because she rejected some dude, let alone at the gym, dellusions of grandeur at its best, its comes back to what many are saying in this thread, a lot of women have this gigantic ego and think the world revolves around them, solipsism at its best
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:17 PM
9

Bru, they have thousands of followers, you can spin whatever narrative you want, its obvious that they have a decent amount of high SMV dudes available at any given time, unlike the pre social media time when they were stuck with whatever they had in their immediate surroundings (works, friends, hobbies, etc)
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:47 PM
17

Which coach? A 3/10 like anthony something? Hot girls get insane validation on insta, they know their worth
/r/seduction14/06/22 12:39 PM
0

I keep 5 girls on rotation and look for substitutes from time to time (prettier or better sex, or more fun to be around). The time gap keeps them all highly interested, I dont spend more than a couple days with any of them every 2 weeks, so I will see one on a wed/thursday and another on the weekend, maybe a new one from Tinder on friday or saturday. I find that this rotation makes it better for everyone involved, the interest stays high. I dont ask for exclusivity from any of them, but I suspec…
/r/seduction14/06/22 06:32 AM
1

Who cares, approaching is the hard part, if you get this down, you can do it again a million other times
/r/seduction14/06/22 06:14 AM
2

You are an idiot, its just like they say, you cant teach someone that doesnt want to learn, you should learn from this guy, he knows what he is talking about. We are not static beings, as Alan Watts wisely put "you are under no obligation to be who you were five minutes ago", have you always been a shy meek fuck with no balls? Do not despair, you can change that if only you were willing to try. The ego is a construct, you can demolish it and build it again, thats called change, radical change of…
/r/seduction14/06/22 06:03 AM
3

You answered it yourself, they know they arent good enough, aim higher
/r/seduction13/06/22 08:37 PM
57

I wonder which virgin fatso came up with the concept that going down on a girl is simping
/r/seduction13/06/22 08:16 PM
2

Damn dude your dick is so big they come by just seeing it, you are a god dude 🤣
/r/seduction13/06/22 08:08 PM
1

Hard disagree, one instance of a random person saying something about you isnt really indicative of anything, besides, ownership of who you are is much more masculine and attractive than changing because of anybody's perceived image of you
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:58 PM
5

No more than 1 hour distance relationship bro
/r/seduction13/06/22 03:38 PM
1

You are wrong :)
/r/seduction13/06/22 12:08 PM
3

Fuckboys fuck casually and also get into relationships, at least that has been my experience, its a great compliment imo, it means that you are good at this fucking stuff.
/r/seduction13/06/22 12:07 PM
17

I am still waiting for the ignore part, is there a part 2 of this post??????????!
/r/seduction13/06/22 12:00 PM
1

The only option you have with your schedule is honestly tinder, invite them to your house and fuck before midnight so you can get your 8 hours in, the question is, is your SMV high enough to do that in a consistent basis? Remember that you only have one life and time waits for no one
/r/seduction13/06/22 11:41 AM
3

This makes 0 sense, Im not Brad Pitt, but I look good, pretty much every night I go out I can be successful with approaches even though I rarely do it, often they just give me so many IOIs I go for it or a friend introduces us
/r/seduction12/06/22 07:04 PM
2

This is fine
/r/seduction12/06/22 01:12 AM
6

I also have social anxiety, Ive made out with girls while slightly trembling from the adrenaline, just push through
/r/seduction12/06/22 12:08 AM
3

You dont need an excuse, I go out alone all the time and I always end up making out with a girl, compared to going out with friends its way more efficient
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:55 PM
37

On the contrary, going lone wolf is efficient as fuck, if you go with friends you often just stay talking with each other and nothing happens
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:53 PM
1

Why escape room? I dont think thats a good place for a first date at all, bar first, get lose with alcohol, escalate and bang, works for me like 90% of the time, dunno wht people have such terrible closing rates
/r/seduction11/06/22 07:11 PM
2

Edit some paragraphs in please, thanks
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:13 PM
1

Depends, for relationships? Yea, for sure
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:09 PM
1

Yes, getting muscular made me get a fuckton more matches, you have to understand that a 6 will match with 7s and above, there will be plenty of dudes wanting to bang them. You have no choice but to match down to have a chance in online dating. Im close to an 8 ( face is a 7, body is a 9+, so basically chadlite) and I dont get the 8+ girls often, I match with them occasionally, but 6s and 7s are my go to because they just come to my place without making it hard for me
/r/seduction11/06/22 01:49 PM
0

Like I said, you mind your own business
/r/seduction11/06/22 01:08 PM
13

Are you trying to bang the guys or the girl? Focus on the task at hand, if you are talking to her, forget the guys and pay attention to what you are doing. Sounds like you are doing this for the wrong reasons, this shit is about enjoying yourself, not winning the casanova competition of who gets laid the most/is the most alpha in your group.
/r/seduction11/06/22 12:33 PM
-2

Keyword is usually, it makes sense too, girls that get tats are often more "open", libertarian, non-conformists, less so these days because it has become so common to get tats
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:10 AM
6

You already answered you own question, you are judgemental, you can easily bypass this by saying that you do not wish to know about their past sexual encounters, which is what I do, I am aware that it affects me in some way, so why go through the trouble? Solved.
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:06 AM
1

My profile only has a line stating my height. One pic dressed up, two shirtless (top 1% body), all selfies, I could definitely optimize, but I dont feel like going through the hurdle of getting awesome pics. I do more than fine on Tinder btw, got a few girls in a fwb situation from there.
/r/seduction11/06/22 10:49 AM
5

She doesnt owe you sex because you spent money on her dude, thats a nice guy mentality. Next time dont spend nothing or do it knowing that they dont owe you shit
/r/seduction11/06/22 10:46 AM
1

She wasnt feeling it anymore, it happens sometimes, stop worrying about it
/r/seduction11/06/22 10:05 AM
-4

Too many tats are usually a redflag for promiscuity aka gigantic bodycount
/r/seduction11/06/22 08:44 AM
2

Silence her on insta and move on
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:04 AM
1

I think her asking your name is a good sign, but you shouldnt have gushed about how beautiful she is
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:06 AM
26

Move the fuck on, nothing she can say will help. I will tell you whats wrong with you, you need women's validation too much to feel good about yourself, thats the most beta a man can be
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:21 AM
7

Looks are looks, game is game, a photo of an ugly guy looking confident wont do jack shit, its laughable
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:09 AM
12

How is this the most upvoted comment? If you get to the third date and still dont have the balls to kiss a girl and keep waiting for the magical perfect moment, of course the vast majority of girls will be turned off, Im surprised he even got to a third date, the girl was obviously into him I always kiss on the first date, in fact its usually at the latest 30 minutes in, hooking up also very usually happens on the first date, but I will accomodate a girl that takes more time to get comfortable (…
/r/seduction10/06/22 04:47 PM
6

Women get dick so easily that uggos/fats have the audacity to consider that a high smv dude will want them, it rattles my nerves a lil bit. Like, sweetie, I didnt spend my mental health, time, energy and sweat looksmaxxing to get with the likes of you, get a grip.
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:35 PM
2

Damn that was hella cute, Im kinda jelly, the whole thing sounds more exciting than just asking girls to come over to fuck
/r/seduction10/06/22 10:10 AM
7

Dont say "and fuck", she will get the hint without you going full retard, just suggest going back to your place or hers, she will then likely ask if you live alone, make up an excuse, suggest hers or simply comply.
/r/seduction10/06/22 09:34 AM
4

No compliments, unless they are very genuine and not generic, generally do not compliment girls.
/r/seduction10/06/22 09:13 AM
19

Escalate, put your tongue in their mouth, next
/r/seduction10/06/22 07:36 AM
16

Get used to ghosting, just reengage at a later time depending on how warm she has been, sometimes works, to me its just a numbers game, 2 might ghost, but another 2 are up for going out, etc. At this point I dont give a shit about ghosting
/r/seduction09/06/22 04:04 PM
1

Its all true, on the same token life is usually fucking easy for women during their youth, because their beauty and youth is inherently very valuable, while most boys have to grind their way into being valuable.
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:06 PM
-1

You need to be at the top in any given environment to get the girls, walking around with Chads will serve for nothing but to hurt any chance you might have, because just like you said, every girl wants a piece of Chad. Just lone wolf it or go out with a different group.
/r/seduction09/06/22 10:35 AM
22

Lol if she starts talking about intersectional feminism and how all men suck I will get the explosive diarrhea, maybe right there on the spot
/r/seduction08/06/22 11:07 PM
51

I never asked for consent and never had any problems with it, I think the odds of asking backfiring in some way are greater
/r/seduction08/06/22 09:09 PM
1

Im from Brazil, I dont think its sexist, I just think its the way things are, just like e.g men are more prone to doing risky things, women are much more driven by emotion. We are after all animals, arent clear differences between males and females observable in nature? There you go, not everything is a social construct or a fruit of distinctions in personality, there are patterns of behaviour for both sexes.
/r/seduction08/06/22 02:06 PM
1

Also true, I see your point
/r/seduction08/06/22 01:52 PM
3

Depends, tattoos definitely do, dunno in the US, but 100% in Brazil, decent tats def increase SMV
/r/seduction08/06/22 01:35 PM
1

Prague maybe
/r/seduction08/06/22 01:24 PM
1

I am not from the US and I love women, well, some of them, the ones that deserve
/r/seduction08/06/22 01:06 PM
1

Getting laid on the reg my friend ;)
/r/seduction08/06/22 05:12 AM
1

This could also be a problem, lets say I find you interesting enough to ask you out and possibly hook up, being a dude with plenty of options and yet available to a relationship if things progress well, I most definetely will not waste my time with slow paced dating and risk wasting my time on a girl that I eventually find out isnt a good match. Not sure if you catch my drift, but there are plenty of guys (especially in the higher end) out there that think like me, that want simple, non-attached…
/r/seduction08/06/22 02:55 AM
12

Honestly it comes down to attraction level, if an attractive girl is forward and chases me instead of the usual back and forth, push and pull game, its a highlight of the year, it feels really good. My honest recomendation would be to try this with guys at a similar level to yours.
/r/seduction08/06/22 02:46 AM
-7

Fucking idiotic girls cockblocking you, its always the unattractive ones doing that too, I think its just jealousy tbh, shit gets on my nerves. Anyways good job op, approaching groups is hard af. My adrenaline runs too damn high and I get the jjtters, its really uncomfortable
/r/seduction08/06/22 02:35 AM
0

I have long dates all the time with many girls, no click needs to happen. In fact the most recent girl I truly got interested in couldnt (or wouldnt) really stay for more than a couple hours in any given date. I wouldnt say spark is a myth, but its way overblown, its all about interest, dedication and letting yourself get involved, you dont choose who you are attracted to, but basically everything else starts with a choice.
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:29 PM
1

Retarded logic is retarded, think of all the gigantic number of couples that got to know each other slowly in school, work, friend groups. Then again, people arent very logical in the first place
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:22 PM
1

I get obsessed with hot girls I encounter all the time, thats not love bruh
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:18 PM
2

Women arent in control of their emotions at all, they are controlled by them way more than men. In fact they love this idea of fully trusting whatever they happen to feel, which is of course dumb as fuck.
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:13 PM
24

Really dislike this idea of having to "consistently bring excitement into her life", Im not a circus clown that has to be constantly performing for someone else's entertainment, which is exactly why I keep multiple women on rotation, if they start wanting too much, too demanding, they get the boot, feels like Im trying to balance the force on my own out here, fucking social media has ruined it for everyone.
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:51 PM
2

My success rate is like 90%, if I get a date, I get laid, go for the kiss as soon as possible and escalate, then bring her home. I dont ask, I look for clues and go for it, usually start by touchin her arm/thighs
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:36 PM
-2

I started being successful on Tinder after I got the body of Brad Pitt@Troy, its doable 🤣
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:20 PM
29

Kinda wanna see op, so many women are full blown dellusional about how good they look
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:35 AM
5

Fear is the little death that brings total obliteration.
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:38 AM
15

Low level of attraction, she was probably slightly drunk and regrets making out with you is my take. Also, hooking up is usually used for when you have sex, I dont even count making out, who cares? Like you said, she is out of your league, though maybe this is the result of you projecting this feeling outward and her noticing it.
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:16 AM
5

Then drop hints, its not hard. Just compliment them, doesnt even have to be in person, over text does it 100% of the time, if he is into you he will respond positively, men are simple, you dont need to learn game.
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:43 AM
8

How is it the guys fault when she admitted that she cannot comunicate her interest in any shape or form? Stop being a beta nice guy dude, it wont give you any chocha
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:41 AM
-1

Its literally too fucking easy for girls, if they are attracted to you, all you have to do is keep talking to them, if they dont bite, call them handsome or a similar compliment, they will get the hint and go from there. Shit is so easy it annoys me (assuming you are decently attractive in the first place, if you are not, you are fucked, "hot guys" have good options)
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:34 AM
1

You dont really need to dive deeper into this, just ask them out to find out or whatever, lots of girls that are DTF or willing to be in a fwb wont outright say it because of antislut defense, you are making this hard for yourself
/r/seduction06/06/22 05:04 AM
2

With bieber? any of my girls would hop on that dick, but I never like using celebrities as an example, you should think of normal dudes. An unknown Chad can fail in some situations, but get the job done in others, depends on a lot of factors.
/r/seduction06/06/22 02:46 AM
3

Thats what a fatso would say, my body is hard carrying me through all my issues, shirtless pic looking yolked and suddenly my tinder matches skyrocketed, girls like my stories when I post stuff shirtless and they also look and give IOIs when I am at the beach, its consistent, fucking get out of the couch and go lift.
/r/seduction06/06/22 12:24 AM
1

Maybe look into facial harmonization?
/r/seduction06/06/22 12:19 AM
2

Circumstances really do matter quite a bit, if you had any amount of experience you would know that
/r/seduction06/06/22 12:17 AM
1

This surprisingly works extremely well, I just decided on a whim to make it seem like the the prettiest girl Ive ever dated (currently) was chasing me and she bought it, she couldnt come running faster
/r/seduction05/06/22 08:11 PM
63

Paragraphs dude, fucking paragraphs, this wall of text is unreadable
/r/seduction05/06/22 09:41 AM
1

"We are under no obligation to be who we were 5 minutes ago" Alan Watts
/r/seduction03/06/22 08:27 AM
1

Just lift brothers.
/r/seduction03/06/22 05:24 AM
2

You can reengage a couple times after a few days, but be direct, dont beat around the bush, if she doesnt give you what you want its a waste of time and energy
/r/seduction03/06/22 04:43 AM
2

When a man sees an attractive girl, he is already invested, he doesnt need anything else. When a girl finds you attractive, you need to make her invest on you, if she wont give you her time, there's nothing you can do, investing more will only serve to further hurt your chances, let her do the chasing because thats the only thing that works.
/r/seduction03/06/22 04:37 AM
3

Let her be, silence is also an answer. Dont give her free validation, there are already tons of idiots doing it.
/r/seduction03/06/22 04:32 AM
1

You need to develop outdome independency regardless, you will always be nervous regardless of how many times you approach if you do not detach your value/happiness/mood from the outcome
/r/seduction03/06/22 12:35 AM
1

The minute she saw me, she couldnt take her eyes off. I'd rate her a solid 8.
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:04 PM
1

You need to have clout for very attractive girls is what I found to be true, I had a girl basically ditch a dude to be with me during a party and insist that I get her insta twice (so very high level of attraction) just go cold in DMs from the start, a complete shift in behaviour, that happened a few more times with hot girls, I am pretty sure that its because im fairly low profile on insta.
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:50 PM
1

Dude, I regularly go out to bars, I have social anxiety (which means I rarely cold approach) and still, at any random night I will end up kissing 2-4 girls, this is not an exaggeration, and bringing one home if Im feeling it, meanwhile fat guys get nothing, also what the fuck is a "seducer"? Imagine being into PUA in 2022. You are being dellusional
/r/seduction02/06/22 07:37 PM
-1

Stop spreading bs, fat bald guy never in a million years beats Chad/Chadlite even if they have close to 0 game. In fact I want to see what op looks like, girls randomly approach me when I am at bars or partying and Im not Brad Pitt
/r/seduction02/06/22 07:14 PM
20

Looks have a really heavy weight, I have a lot of issues to work through in regards to finance, mental health, social skills, game and without diving too much into the whys, I basically used the gym as an escape route and my body is basically in the top 1% now, couple this with an above avg face (around a 7 more or less, def not Chad) and looks alone made me have more women than I can handle on a weekly basis.
/r/seduction02/06/22 10:13 AM
1

Continue to ignore. If you give her what she wants (attention) ,you are basically saying that she can bend you to her will like a bitch.
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:23 AM
2

Thats exactly what she's doing, she likes the attention, continue to ignore her. You said your piece.
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:20 AM
2

What if you dont like talking to people? Small talk and chit-chatting makes up the vast majority of the talks that go on with random people, its fucking boring and It becomes a chore to do it often, I generally dont find most people interesting enough to talk to on a regular basis because its not intelectually estimulating and often feels like a waste of time. I enjoy flirting and the seduction game, but talking to everyone sounds like way too much pain, thank god for Tinder I guess.
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:50 AM
0

Only thank her if she says it first, you are the prize, boy. No "thank you for blessing me with your magnanimous pussy m'lady"
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:36 AM
1

You need to pull back and do the same, asking her to answer you faster will make her drier than the Sahara, you can either play the game or remove yourself entirely from it if its not up to your preferences, but you cannot bend the rules. Also, if you are anything like me you are already too invested in this chick, you need to silence her shit on insta and pull back, let her initiate everytime.
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:27 AM
17

Mah boy Epictetus is a genius
/r/seduction01/06/22 09:32 PM
8

Not the way to go dude
/r/seduction01/06/22 05:43 AM
3

Pete davidson isnt ugly, he is chadlite, good facial structure + insane game + money + clout, the dude is easily a 9, he can bang anyone he wants to, Kim K is a downgrade. A billionaire can also fuck whoever he wants to, if a dude has fuck you money (x100000) he obviously isnt playing by the rules.
/r/seduction31/05/22 11:03 PM
3

Looks matter a lot, I looksmaxxed so much that girls approach me, I very rarely have to do anything, they come to me and stay (sometimes, 8+ girls want more), despite my subpar game, Im also broke.
/r/seduction31/05/22 11:00 PM
29

Actually great advice, forcing things when you arent feeling it is pretty bad
/r/seduction31/05/22 10:56 PM
4

Its amazing how this shit is always the same with girls that have tons of options, you match her interest and you get instantly fucked
/r/seduction31/05/22 08:09 AM
3

In my experience its pretty hard to have abundance mentality without abundancy, I only started to give less fucks when I had multiple options at my beck and call
/r/seduction31/05/22 07:52 AM
10

Too much validation seeking on insta, high bodycount and low effort on convos (this is number 1, I cant ditch them any faster)
/r/seduction31/05/22 06:52 AM
1

Dont ever waste time with maybe girls
/r/seduction30/05/22 06:23 AM
186

This is truth most of the time, you do get your oddball here and there, you gotta look for the patterns, some people really dont use social media much, that said, I doubt that a girl thats really into you waits 24+hrs to respond
/r/seduction29/05/22 11:27 PM
7

+1 for unkempt, everyone has fades, its too fucking common now
/r/seduction29/05/22 10:52 PM
2

I mean, approaching is definitely much harder than just talking to random girls that pop into your group from time to time, he isnt wrong about that
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:11 PM
15

This is anecdotal evidence, I do way better on tinder than on my social circle, it quickly got weird for me after hooking up with a couple girls from the same circle, it only invites intrigue
/r/seduction29/05/22 11:03 AM
1

War and Peace Vol.2. Ok, seems like you live in rich western european country, results will be skewed because everyone has $ so your looks have a huge weight, I am curious about that in particular
/r/seduction29/05/22 02:01 AM
0

Bro any random gym has plenty of jacked guys with unredeemable faces, they do not slay, stop delluding yourself.
/r/seduction28/05/22 04:37 PM
2

Gym wont save an uggo, it will add a couple points to a high end normie tho, like a 6 can get close to an 8 which is Chad territory, but a 3 is a 3 (there are nuances, but generally you can tell before the dude enters the gym), unfortunately the gym wont save everyone.
/r/seduction28/05/22 04:34 PM
0

Yea im willing to bet that this dude gets 0 quality pussy and will continue to do so in his lifetime
/r/seduction28/05/22 04:28 PM
-1

Girls love narcissists, they just have to be good looking
/r/seduction28/05/22 04:21 PM
1

Yea, anyway, chicks must be pretty good at faking with the leg trembling and knee jerk reactions to continued touch on the clit post orgasm, or maybe they arent oscar winning actresses, who knows at this point
/r/seduction28/05/22 06:30 AM
1

Guess Ive never heard that before huh, do you have sex with girls? ;)
/r/seduction28/05/22 06:20 AM
1

I always insta approach girls that smile, girls that give no clear signals not so much, but then again I never went out with the "this is approach day", I should start doing that cold approach yields the best looking girls
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:18 AM
1

Its what Ive experienced
/r/seduction28/05/22 02:06 AM
1

False, some girls do orgasm from penetration without even spending that much time, its about compatibility and how much she finds you attractive, one of the best feelings in the world happens when you can make her cum with your dick alone
/r/seduction27/05/22 09:49 PM
2

Meanwhile 95% of girls on bumble start the convo with "Hi", nigga please dudes have been trying to maintain convos since the dawn of time
/r/seduction27/05/22 07:57 PM
15

The way you talk about relationships screams beta, I read your post and was like "so this dude is looking to be a sugar daddy". Bro, with the setup you are offering you can find the hottest girls, tons of girls want this dynamic
/r/seduction26/05/22 07:08 PM
1

Considering you guys know each other for 4 months, Id really bet heavily on him not being interested, in a smaller time frame maybe you fucked up, but not here, just move on
/r/seduction26/05/22 10:51 AM
7

Its fine, you dont need to approach groups, dont get discouraged, it gets easier
/r/seduction25/05/22 06:25 PM
13

I would say no to chubby, it is what it is, a dude that has options can have standards
/r/seduction24/05/22 10:02 PM
-7

You come off a little bit too feminine with all the enthusiasm and emojis, but if its working I guess its fine, maybe its the age group or something
/r/seduction24/05/22 06:30 AM
2

Lol nah, my 20s fucking sucked, I am a late bloomer, I also got into the gym really late and finally have a great body, which I work really hard for, thats why Im wondering
/r/seduction24/05/22 03:50 AM
2

I regret having sex with girls I had little attraction to, I didnt learn anything either, subpar passionless shitty sex is worthless, they shouldnt even make the list, I can get that any day of the week.
/r/seduction24/05/22 02:17 AM
8

I usually get numbers really easily on Tinder, setting up dates is the hard part for some reason, maybe Im not building enough rapport idk, I dont really care because I have a few fwbs so with new ones its all quite low effort, if shes up for it, then great, if not, who cares?
/r/seduction24/05/22 12:56 AM
2

This makes me wonder how good looking I am, cos I can make out with multiple girls in a couple hours any random night with this "only approach when she smiles or looks at you etc" tactic, I never randomly approach a girl that gave me 0 signals.
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:39 PM
7

This is great advice, going for the long run is pretty much fail proof. Casually interact with her one day, then do it again a few days later and soon enough you will interacting more often, unless she doesnt like you and avoids, but at least you will have your answer
/r/seduction23/05/22 12:40 PM
2

Exactly, people asking for advice cant just be themselves, because they've been doing just that and getting shitty results
/r/seduction23/05/22 12:32 PM
1

Dont waste time with girls that arent enthusiastic, its either fuck yer or fuck no
/r/seduction23/05/22 05:00 AM
1

You can try neck exercises as well, look up jeff nippard for that. I know its fucking weird as fuck training neck but it does seem to make a huge difference making a dude look more masculine, someday Im gonna get into that shit
/r/seduction22/05/22 05:45 PM
5

This is bullshit, I am fucking broke and I have plenty of options based on looks alone, I also know quite a few dudes with money that do nothing but beat their own meats. We are in the age of online dating, girls have jobs and their own money, cash wont carry an uggo anymore, looks never mattered more
/r/seduction22/05/22 05:41 PM
1

This isnt good advice, the clock is ticking, waiting for yourself to level up to then pay attention to your romantic/sex life is garbage and thats how you end up with rich beta as fuck dudes that have 0 clue, or even worse, because nothing guarantees that your life is gonna head in a good direction, you might just end up fucked without fucking, thats no bueno and quite possible as well
/r/seduction22/05/22 05:17 AM
1

Dude Ive had friends like these my entire life, I always knew that I shouldnt even entertain the low value chicks, but the dudes I hang out with thought it was more than fine, being low value themselves, only when I went lone wolf I started getting actually attractive women, god bless.
/r/seduction22/05/22 05:00 AM
114

Reads like fiction, sry bros
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:28 AM
3

I get the same from 30+ women, they basically drool, younger are obviously more reserved and just look here and there, though I do get approached from time to time by 20 somethings. Its so easy that I dont want them lmao
/r/seduction22/05/22 12:01 AM
2

You are not responsible for her relationship and nobody is "taken", its just someones turn. At this point shes the one that has to make a move, but dont let her having a relationship hold you back, it doesnt really make much sense. Making a move on a friend's girl makes you a garbage tier human tho, so I hope the dude isnt your friend
/r/seduction21/05/22 06:05 PM
1

I agree, its great advice, I also have social anxiety. Ive often beaten myself down for having it, but its not really something you have control over, owning it seems the right way
/r/seduction21/05/22 05:06 PM
10

Nah shy is directly tied to lack of confidence, blackpill dictates that past a certain rate (8+) a dude can be shy, he is just too high value as is.
/r/seduction21/05/22 12:13 AM
35

Beautifully put. Ciao
/r/seduction20/05/22 09:07 PM
2

Dude, this was one of the best posts Ive read in a while, coming from a well read 32 yold dude, I hope you reach your goals my man. Godspeed.
/r/seduction20/05/22 07:21 AM
2

Yea sure
/r/seduction20/05/22 07:17 AM
5

Yo any chance of a pic of you two together for science?
/r/seduction20/05/22 07:13 AM
1

This is confusing, Im not close to triple digit, but theres no fucking way a below 6 wont immediately put out IRL, regardless if they have a boyfriend, I dont even look in their direction tho. Which city do you live? Mine has 1.5m people
/r/seduction19/05/22 09:05 PM
1

Honestly I dont even the see the point in cold approach if you have great success in the harshest environment, online dating isnt good for the average looking man and you get to pick the most attractive girls instead of lucking out on finding one in your average day to day, we are also moving in the direction of online dating more and more each day. With that said, you are very likely approaching in shit environments and dont have enough game for cold approach, this can be learned, meanwhile loo…
/r/seduction19/05/22 08:55 PM
2

That mostly explains it, try approaching girls at bars instead of the fucking grocery store, you would be surprised at the results
/r/seduction19/05/22 08:50 PM
2

Thats just not true at all, online dating is a much much harsher world for the avg man, if you dont look good you are fucked, no chance. Cold and warm approach works for the avg dude with social skills, I would bet on op being not so good socially plus trying to approach in weird situations
/r/seduction19/05/22 08:49 PM
17

Dude, you guys need to chill, this dude is minimum Chadlite (or fits a very specific fetish, seems to be the case here), if you are good looking enough thats all you need to do, I have a similar experience with tinder, the only thing I'd add is that timing is important, hot girls have a lot of options so you dont want to set a date too many days after you start talking with her. Edit: Im mad confused, this dude is 5'5 with 20% BF, the dude he said looked like him doesnt look good at all. Thats a…
/r/seduction19/05/22 08:43 PM
2

3 in a row makes it a decent possibility that your sex game is weak, but its also possible that they only wanted casual sex and you hinting at wanting an LTR scared them away, or any other number of reasons. Being good or great in bed does not guarantee that she will come back, but its often the case.
/r/seduction19/05/22 12:07 PM
2

Watch wheatwaffles, Id only believe those numbers from a sub 3-4.
/r/seduction12/05/22 09:20 PM
2

Very good post, should be at the top
/r/seduction12/05/22 09:17 PM
-1

Im glad Im great with my eyes and body language, those phrases sound lame af to me and Id never say shit like that. I dunno if its a guy thing, but one thing I quickly learned is that when the dude starts talking in porn my dick retracts, brazillian porn for example is unwatchable, the entire time the dude wont stop saying shit like "how do you like me pounding that little pussy", stfu dude nobody wants to hear it. Anyway, I think Im onto something cos dudes are quiet as monks in mainstream porn…
/r/seduction12/05/22 09:10 PM
2

Thats not it either, because this shit takes time and effort and both are valuable, you want a middle ground here, build just enough rapport for the particular girl to be comfortable to come out, I think its a skill to acquire, especially because its hard to understand and convey emotions through texting when you dont know someone
/r/seduction12/05/22 03:07 PM
5

Absolutely true, but everyone gets rejected, I dont have many problems getting multiple girls in a any random night out, but there will always be girls that dont like you and reject you, if you dont have successful experiences to balance those instances its hard to maintain confidence
/r/seduction12/05/22 02:50 PM
60

Rare, beauty disparity makes people feel bad, especially when they go out and get 0 attention. I think girl groups tend to be considerably more balanced than guy groups
/r/seduction12/05/22 02:44 PM
2

You are already fucked, run away and cut all contact to save your time, energy and mental health
/r/seduction10/05/22 03:59 AM
1

Dont try to please them, please yourself
/r/seduction01/05/22 12:37 AM
1

Cheap bar near my house, or they come directly here
/r/seduction30/04/22 11:38 PM
3

You guys really really need to get into the gym, I have so much pussy Idk what to do with it (but not the one I want , so meh) 2 shirtless pics, bio only states my height. 400+ likes 85 matches, Im not really actively using it either (got enough girls on rotation), also, I am fucking broke.
/r/seduction27/04/22 05:58 PM
1

Its not always that clear cut at all. There are levels of interest
/r/seduction09/04/22 06:19 AM
0

if his SMV is high enough he doesnt need to approach, last 10+ girls I've been with just came after me hard ( I don't move an inch to go after because I have a gf)
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 04:29 PM
1

You can't be too ugly, a gnome, or too good looking ( think Leo Dicaprio) if you are either one of those, lifting won't help you that much, but it's a major game changer for below average to decent looking dudes.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 04:27 PM
5

look up clarence kennedy, dude drinks 3 liters of soy a day and can probably outlift 5 of you. :) Shit post.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 07:29 AM
3

There's this bar in walking distance to where I live that I very regularly go alone. My M.O. is : sit at the bar, listen to music I actually enjoy with headphones on and look around autistically. Every single time I wanted to pick up a girl, I did. While wearing headphones, I stick out like a sore thumb. If anything it's easier, much easier to fly solo, because you don't waste time you could be hunting socializing.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 04:19 AM
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if anything you guys should appreciate this for the comedy value, not because its unbelievable or autistic, but because of the fucking hillarious writing style. I know I did.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 06:48 PM
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Not to my experience, everytime I've given advice at the gym, they've showed gratitude and even interest in me afterwards (mostly women), I also hate having to correct people so they don't kill themselves, so it rarely ever happens.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 06:44 PM
6

jesus, your mind is full of crap.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 09:30 AM
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Pls delete this to save face. If this is true (probably a troll) you've completely wasted valuable years of your youth,
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 12:08 PM
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This is so fucking distant from reality that it should have it's own "BP example" flair. Truth is: yea people are gonna notice you're a little shit, but what you should do isn't deny their acknowledgment, just dont give a shit about It instead.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 07:14 AM
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Meh, you shouldn't give a shit about having tried this out, if anything, caring about "showing weakness" is weak as fuck itself. Seems to me like a true dgaf attitude and mindset wouldn't come up with this interpretation of yours at all. You got your ego involved too much, you care too much.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 06:11 AM
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Test kills, want proof? Eunuchs live on average 10-15 years more than their peers.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 05:10 AM
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american heart association doesnt know shit and is financed by companies that sell junk food to the population.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 10:52 PM
3

I call utter bullshit on you having a PhD in CS after reading most of your comments, you sound like a retarded rabid dog that can't let go of a bone.You are simply incapable of answering or arguing in a logical manner, I've actually never seen so many ad hominem and strawman comments in a row, so how the fuck did you get past basic discrete math with your way of thinking?That's right, you didn't. Now go away, go seek validation elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 03:33 AM
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Maslow's hierarchy is considered pretty much obsolete by most nowadays. To put it simply, different people grade their needs differently. Also, people don't put other needs on hold just because they have yet to satisfy what could be considered their most basic ones.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 04:29 PM
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The truth is that men need to fuck women so badly that our entire being (mental and physical health) depends on our ability to attract a woman's attention and have a successful encounter, primarily, being sexually validated (not only through sex, IOIs for instance could be enough) builds men's confidence in themselves, the increased confidence obviously increases the probability that we will have a successful encounter with a woman, hence its a positive feedback loop. That's why TRP insists so m…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 04:14 AM
3

Ryan, sweetie! wake up!! it's time for school.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 03:48 AM
2

you should probably read the thread again, the whole point is that low bf gives you face gains, you said a 9/10 chad slayed despite being a weak ass, no shit he did, what a fucking surprise.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 03:43 AM
1

Not even a tiny chance this isn't fake, I thought some of you had brains to figure it out.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 05:40 AM
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Overall I enjoyed your post, but I have to point out that working or studying for many many hours without sleeping is simply retarded, the human brain's cognitive processes don't work that way, so much so that doing stuff like "working 60 hours straight" is pretty much always worse than working 12 then sleeping for 8 hours a day, since your productivity and cognition starts to rapidly decline each hour past your bedtime.That obviously doesn't mean that you can't work more, e.g 14 hours a day, so…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 06:02 PM
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I could get an arts degree with excellent grades without trying at all, same won't happen with an Engineering degree.Two completely different animals.Also, I feel like as long as there's a strive for improvement, the content doesn't matter.Only women, with the limited brains that they have, value a tiny amount of proper (in their mind) hobbies/activities and life styles, don't think like a woman.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 07:48 PM
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