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| 2 | If you have to publicly brand him, he’s not the one sisI cringe so hard when I see stuff like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | N.V.M.Girl, what did I just fucking read.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 06:29 AM |
| 2 | When I read this I knew it belonged hereI'm actually going through this right now. Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 10:02 PM |
| 9 | Guys who ask you out but then refuse to suggest a plan for what you’ll be doing together...If a man ever asks you the week of if you have plans (and this includes the up coming weekend), you always say yes. You have to seem busy/be busy. He has to schedule for the next week/ weekend preferably in advance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 09:29 PM |
| 5 | Someone talk me out of this insanityDon't text him back AT ALL. Block him on everything. Now. I don't care if you work with him or if he's your next door neighbor. He doesn't exist to you anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 09:42 PM |
| 13 | Is it just me or do ugly men just generally treat you horribly or worse?I dated a hobbit and he cheated on me with a woman that's older than his mom. And then he lied to and ghosted that woman. Can you imagine how sad that woman was! She was 56 years old for fucks sake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Help from older FDSers: how to not get down about my ageThere are good men your age out there. Don't even worry about the ones that suck. You won't end up with a loser because you love and respect yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 06:34 PM |
| 14 | Actual r/wholesomememesThis is transformation porn, but I love the spin on this. These types of cartoons are super cute and heart warming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:21 PM |
| 2 | What, too many standards?I've said far worse on there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 05:45 AM |
| 9 | I.....WHAT? The things some women will put up with. FDS is so necessary it’s not even funny.He's TWENTY FIVE 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:28 AM |
| 40 | To all of us who read "Why Does He Do That?"I just got that book in the mail yesterday and my bf had opened my package thinking it was his. He was kind of pissed. But he just said he was mad about something else lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 03:10 AM |
| 10 | After stringing me along in a situationship for three months, fuckboy is now angry and upset I’m dating someone else (LONG, sorry)I loved reading this. That was a hard lesson to learn, but you did the right thing and I bet you won't hesitate to drop a man in the future. Good for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 04:49 PM |
| 8 | Imagine having to be told that women don’t find your self important “nice guy” rants and moral posturing attractive and that neither entitled you to sex.Men are all about self interest.. but God forbid a women have a good time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 08:46 PM |
| 8 | Buying your fiancee a ring like this just because it is the cheapest.....Shoot.. my self love ring is more impressive than that. That's the kind a ring a kid buys for his high school sweetheart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 08:29 PM |
| 6 | Tradwives think people are triggered by them because they’re jealous, rather than crippling anxiety that they may be making decisions that could devastate themselves and their childrenI completely agree with you, but I think it's in bad taste to go out of your way to preach at non FDSers. If a happy house wife came on here and started to preach we would shut that shit down, and I would never walk into my Army-wife aunt's house and tell her she is foolish.. we all have different lives. I love making my own money but my life path is mine, and being independent does not give me the right to put others down and give them unsolicited advice. In my opinion FDS cultivates and values… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 08:19 PM |
| 13 | Tradwives think people are triggered by them because they’re jealous, rather than crippling anxiety that they may be making decisions that could devastate themselves and their childrenWhile being a homemaker can leave you vulnerable I would never shame a woman in that position. Most cultures push women into that role and it's a really hard, and thankless job. When you come across someone who is genuinely happy being a homemaker you should leave them be. Just like we would never push someone to quit a job they love. The only exception I can see for this is if you're family unit is impoverished, in that case everyone should be working. No exceptions. I get that this may be an u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 07:29 PM |
| 7 | Guys would use my tip to make their dinner cheaperI would say "oh you aren't going to tip?" And add to the total so the waitress isn't stiffed. Then I would say "This isn't going to work. Thanks for joining me for dinner though" and never speak to that man-child again. I directly correlate being selfish with money to being a selfish partner and lover. Never settle or date down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 04:32 AM |
| 53 | I’m sick of them jumping in to talk about something they know nothing about and making it about their experiences.I used to play devil's advocate and argue for the hell of it... When I was in middle school. These men need to get out of their mothers basements and get hobbies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 03:30 AM |
| 10 | Red Flags When Dating with ChildrenI have children and I agree. Let him bring up kids, be honest and study his reaction and actions for the next few months before you let him meet your children. Do not introduce a man you are not officially in a relationship with to your children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Why would you ever write something like this on your dating profile?Zero punctuation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 07:31 PM |
| 1 | LVM marries a 18 woman when he’s 32 and ends up sexualizing her childhood sexual abuse (aka « grown ass men who groom teenagers are gross but we’re supposed to be surprised»)He either always liked it or recently just started watching that kind of porn. Poor OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 05:07 PM |
| 7 | “b-B-bUt mEn aGe lIkE fInE wInE rEeEeEe“ 🤢🤢Medford Oregon? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 04:48 PM |
| 5 | Cannot be clearer.I was about to comment that my love is very conditional | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 12:55 PM |
| 3 | Level Up- your favorite clothing sources?I have a very similar issue with my chest when it comes to finding clothes that look nice. What you should think about doing is getting a thin belt or two to accent your waist when you purchase a dress that has little to no shape. Don't follow any trend that does not suit you. If you really want to level up invest in timeless items that will withstand years and years of wear. They are usually expensive though, but totally worth it. Items like a well made little black dress and a leather jacket a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 04:49 PM |
| 6 | LmaooooThank you so much. Sometimes people with mightier professions like doctors and nurses look down on us, and I truly appreciate that you said that. I just got home from a ten hour shift and this was really nice to read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 05:05 PM |
| 6 | LmaooooCollage.com I just typed into Google "turn my picture into a blanket" and a bunch of sites popped up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 02:01 PM |
| 3 | LmaooooDamn, thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 05:14 AM |
| 230 | LmaooooI have known this fuck boy for like half of my life and we send screen shots on insta to eachother. He sends typical scrote shit, and when I feel like it I send him shit like this. Also, I only have a phlebotomy certificate, but I am damn tempted to get it turned into a blanket. Editing to say that I infact just turned it into a blanket. I'll have it by July third. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 01:16 AM |
| 30 | Proof that FDS works , husband cheats wife with younger woman abandons her during her pregnancy , wife goes full FDS instead of cOmuNIcaTE and cOUnseLIng ,demands all and half of his paycheck , scrote regrets comes back begging .I love it when I truly feel proud of strangers. She is awesome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 10:04 PM |
| 5 | THIS is why you don’t engage in BDSM. Some of these men are deranged!I stopped reading about 1/3rd of the way in. That was getting gross. I'm sorry for everyone who received a message like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 07:22 AM |
| 3 | This bus is too loud! Wish I had understood this soonerHonestly, I already have an exit plan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 12:37 AM |
| 5 | This bus is too loud! Wish I had understood this soonerLol my bf currently has these nightmares. That honestly brings a smile to my face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 09:22 AM |
| 8 | Reminder: you don't need a man to buy you flowers, buy them for yourself because you deserve it!I do this about once a month | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 11:17 PM |
| -2 | How would you react if your boyfriend wouldn't go down on you unless you shaved? Would you break up with him? Or would you consider shaving a small courtesy you're willing to grant?Say that you'll shave if he does, that's it. You said that it's a feminism thing, but if you both compromise and do it there shouldn't be a problem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 02:08 AM |
| 168 | This has loads of angry reacts but men do this all the time lolI think her reasons for leaving suck, but I honestly can relate. My boyfriend and I both smoked for seven years, and I quit (he still smokes). I am learning Spanish and eating healthier and he has stayed the same. I'm ready to get fit and juice fast and he couldn't care less. Self improvement matters to me and I feel like I am outgrowing him. I want more out of this relationship and want to travel/go on a vacation that isn't camping. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 11:44 AM |
| 26 | Pedophilic scrote logicThis is just gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 04:11 PM |
| 2 | I was sexually assaulted last weekend. Cautionary tale in the time of a pandemic.Thank you for opening up and thinking of others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 08:58 AM |
| 5 | My (22F) bf is not taking COVID-19 seriously and it’s making me not want to be with him.Sis, dump him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 08:51 PM |
| 13 | Should I cut him off?You should be dating other people too. You are not exclusive. This sub is basically based on the book "the rules". Pick up a copy and you will get a full indepth guide on how to date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Choices... The Pickmesha and Corona Virus editionShe just made up a fucking story just to let everyone know that she would let her child die. She's not just a pickme, she probably has a mental illness and someone needs to go check on her child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 08:22 PM |
| 12 | The Clingy GuyThank you for sharing. That was awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 08:02 AM |
| 6 | Would you be able to list him as an emergency contact?He travels out of town randomly for work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 10:17 PM |
| 9 | Would you be able to list him as an emergency contact?My bfs mom is my emergency contact for me and my children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 07:48 PM |
| 28 | Men: You get what you giveI laughed so hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 07:12 PM |
| 14 | Blocked!!No hun, we don't approach men or chase after them. If they are genuinely attracted to us or interested in us they will go out of their way to get in our face and introduce themselves. Always let them make the first move. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 11:52 AM |
| 3 | Broke up with my boyfriend over social mediaAh, gotcha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 01:33 AM |
| 98 | In one sentence, comment your best dating advice...GO!Don't stay with someone just because you've invested years into the relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 08:50 PM |
| 12 | And dying with cats is supposed to scare me into a relationship like that?! LmaoThis is my worst nightmare. God, I feel all types of sorry for that woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 08:47 PM |
| 31 | Broke up with my boyfriend over social mediaIf she calls the cops they might make him stay somewhere else for the night, but she can't permanently kick him out if he's on the lease. They have to have an adult conversation if one of them is going to leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 08:43 PM |
| 4 | Facebook dramaIf he can have her then leave... What on Earth is holding you back? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Facebook dramaBreak up with him. Both of you are too old to be playing games. He's either for you or he's not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 07:15 PM |
| 5 | Breaking up with Live in BFFind a new place to live then pack up everything you own while he's at work and ghost him. or write him a note and leave it on the kitchen counter. Change your phone number, delete FB. Or block him on everything and make all of your accounts private. Just disappear from his life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 02:59 AM |
| 3 | newbie who is shocked and tiredI'm lucky this hasn't happened to me yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 04:19 AM |
| 13 | The film was about a woman finding her power and getting rid of a LVM. Midsommar by Ari AsterAnd when she's like 70 she has to jump off a cliff onto a rock, so she doesn't grow old enough to burden the community. There is no way they were going to let her leave. I 110% agree that she leveled up and took out the trash though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 03:05 AM |
| 13 | I've started to use the phrase "forever girlfriend" in passing.I'm not blind. I see them. I'm leveling up before I leave. My plan is still unfolding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 02:06 AM |
| 22 | I've started to use the phrase "forever girlfriend" in passing.I actually took him up on it so I can have proof that I have been a paying resident here in case I need it. (He owns the house) I love you guys 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on having a sex toys thread?I'm honestly saving this port just because of your comment. Thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 08:24 PM |
| 22 | I've started to use the phrase "forever girlfriend" in passing.He offered to put my name on the trash bill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 08:13 PM |
| 4 | How do you women feel about uncircumcised penises?Uncircumcised is great. I actually think it feels better. I did not have either of my sons circumcised because they were born perfect just they way they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 08:05 PM |
| 41 | I've started to use the phrase "forever girlfriend" in passing.I just used this term last night referring to myself. I explained to my bf that I am buying my own car because I need my own assets. I am twenty five and need to protect myself if we aren't getting married anytime soon. He was frustrated and trying to convince me that I don't need my own car because he has two. I explained that nothing we share is in my name and I need to be more independent along side contributing to the household. I'm projecting that I will be able to buy a $15,000 car outrigh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 08:02 PM |
| 4 | Pickmeishas really piss me offGirl, my heart! You have the shiniest spine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Confused (but not falling for it?)Just block him. Love and respect yourself enough to move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 08:23 AM |
| 45 | I'll probably delete this later but... lemme tell you about the FIVE different guys who said they wanted to see me this weekend. 🙄Hey, I'm not trying to put you down but you were making yourself too available. If a man asks you out on a weekday for the upcoming weekend you should tell him you have plans. You can go as far as letting him know you haven't made plans for next weekend yet, but it's better to let him ask when you are free next. Also, don't chat with guys online for extended periods of time. If he wants to get to know you he can put in the time and effort and do it in person. And remember, when you are texting o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 07:16 AM |
| 5 | Oh this one made the men and pickmes angry on IG.Idk about the "doesn't speak unless spoken to part". I don't want to constantly be the only one starting conversations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 07:51 PM |
| 23 | Promise I’ll swear off LVM no matter how much I want the validation. It’s not worth it!I legit just laughed and told my bf that was two feet away from me that I don't want one anymore and then read this to him while laughing. He just sighed and "casually" left. I'm still dying 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 05:51 AM |
| 17 | This week in my city a mother and her 3 young children were doused in oil and set on fire by their father and burnt to death. He prevented bystanders from trying to save them. Lead detectives first statement was to consider if he was ‘driven too far’.Upvoting this feels strange. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 07:39 AM |
| 2 | [Advice] How to keep cool around a guy I likeWhen I was in high school I was so attracted to and infatuated with a boy named Drake that I couldn't even look at him. We had one class together and I was so head over heels attracted to him that I couldn't even think when he was around. I totally get what's happening here. I just wanted him to disappear. He made my face so red every time he looked at me. This guy was not even hot idk what was happening to me. Anyways, what you have to do is act like/ fully accept that he has rejected you. Act … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 10:11 PM |
| 15 | Recovering Pickmeishas: Highlight Some of Your Lowest Pickmeisha Moments/Relationships(I'm bisexual) Saying I'd be down for a three sum. Never again. It didn't happen but I cannot believe I was so ride or die for that guy. Looking back I had a lot of pick me moments. I even stayed after I was cheated on by a different guy. I feel like I'm a completely different person now. And I'm so happy with who I am now. I still have work to do but I am honestly so much healthier now that I have really started to love myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 09:34 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜"made of pudding" I'm dying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 08:08 AM |
| 16 | So strange seeing it from the LVM perspective. He literally doesn't care about her at all.Ooof what an asshole. I truly hope she breaks up with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 07:09 AM |
| 8 | How do I cope?A cigarette never tastes good the second time it's lit. Same goes for relationships. Never go back to an ex. He is not the one. The way you stay on track is by taking serious care of yourself. Your inner and outer self. Also, outside of studying you need to get excited about something! Read a new book or take a spin class. Try veganism for all I care, just pick something and dive into it. It must be hard to constantly see him, but he is not that special, and if you miss his sweetness and touch s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 06:35 AM |
| 6 | Lack of Communication?That sound terrifying lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Starting over?Figure out what divorce will leave you with and get a career going. I went to school to become a phlebotomist after I figured out that my bf ain't shit. We have two very young boys and I am like three weeks into my new job now. I'll be free in about two years. Find yourself a good career that won't require you to move mountains, and then leave him. Don't jump ship suddenly because that's how you become stranded. Be calculated and diligent. Buy everything you will need before you go and have mone… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 04:13 AM |
| 14 | Jobs in which you encounter the most LVM...Lol fast food. Most young people use it as a stepping stone, but some people (men usually) take it way too seriously and project their insecurities onto others... Like we were all getting paid the same. And oddly enough when I worked for an after school program a few years back some guys were also having power trips while not actually giving a fuck about the kids. I have a real job now and have yet to encounter a lvm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:49 AM |
| 33 | Seeking advice: how can you test whether a guy is with you just for your looks?You should be very mindful of what they say and do, but also what they don't say and do. When you have been dating a guy for a few weeks you can start to tell by what you guys talk about. When someone genuinely likes you they will remember things you've said and bring up things you care about. The conversation should be natural and enjoyable. When men only care about how you look they won't try to dig that deep and learn about you. let him lead the conversation sometimes and see how it goes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 03:43 AM |
| 3 | Stop the presses, ladies, this divorced bald man has advice!Stop being a single mom... What? Does he expect single mothers to just drop their kids off in the woods and take off, or put them up for adoption? For the sake of a possible new relationship? Most woman do not set out to be single mothers. And the ones who do should not be looked down on. He's an AH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Don't we all know the feeling???👌👌👌 No, you're not half the man you think that you are...And you can't fill the hole inside of you with money, drugs and cars...I'm so glad I never ever had a baby with you...'Cause you can't love nothin' unless there's somethin' in it for you...I actually liked it, but someone commented that their brain broke trying to figure out what genre it was and I agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 05:29 AM |
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