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| 3 | I don't know how to escalate smoothly (in a not awkward manner0 when I have a girl over, yes I have read the Di Carlo thing. | fuckbitchesgetmoney1 | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 08:24 AM | |
| 3 | Hey Seddit I haven't been here in a while. Anyways, I have a question: What are some good moves, lines, or strategies when a girl approaches you? | fuckbitchesgetmoney1 | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 03:14 PM |
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| 2 | How to maintain value when heading off to fraternity partiesYes, there is huge liability associated with fraternity's, so we all have to take steps to reduce liability anyway we can. | /r/seduction | 30/10/13 07:56 PM |
| 1 | How to maintain value when heading off to fraternity partiesI agree, pulling at your own frat party is a joke. Too easy, the girls go there knowing what their getting into so half the battle is over. House parties are way better for actually spitting game as you probably don't have rapport and social value with all the girls already. | /r/seduction | 30/10/13 07:54 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Charity Halloween Party f-close with a "Miss America 2013" costumed former flingExactly, don't give them an opportunity to stop you, stop yourself and leave them asking for more. | /r/seduction | 28/10/13 10:23 PM |
| 14 | [FR] Charity Halloween Party f-close with a "Miss America 2013" costumed former flingeverytime we made out I pulled away... This move is super effective. It builds huge amounts of attraction when you pull away and they still want it. It shows you're classy, know what you want, and also have the confidence that you don't need to dive in right at the moment. It gets the girl wondering why you're not so over eager to continue. And makes her want to not 'fail' at pulling so they hit on you a little more and want more attention. Doing this is something that doesn't make sense in the … | /r/seduction | 28/10/13 10:00 PM |
| 6 | Need help with a girl in my classShe wants the d. Hs girls aren't that forward unless they want the d. | /r/seduction | 28/10/13 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Things get extremely weird if you don't escalate to a kiss?In the least rapey way I can say this, my general thought is as long as she lets you keep going, keep going. As long as you're respectful, just keep working until you get a no. If she stops you, then you probably moved too fast. | /r/seduction | 13/09/13 03:12 PM |
| 4 | You often need less game than you think.The last 15% is the tip. | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 03:58 AM |
| 37 | Advice to all of you from a bi guyGetting hit on by gay dudes changed my whole perspective when it came to approaching chicks. | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Something that completely changed my game.I used to have a huge escalation anxiety problem. I am not sure when I was able to get rid of it, but I noticed halfway through the Super Bowl party I was at that I felt perfectly comfortable placing my hands in the necessary places, not being awkward about my touches and I didn't feel weird about making body contact. I remembered when my big challenge was trying to put my arm around a girl. It feels good to see my improvements. Sorry that got a little off topic, but your mention of EA reminded … | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Something that completely changed my game.I've been working at it for a while and the beginning was tough, but recently things have been clicking more and more for me. I feel like I'm about to encounter this snowball and I look forward to it. | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 01:50 AM |
| 13 | The One Defining Moment That Changed My LifeYa, my current roommate takes the cake when it comes to banging random bimbos at inconvenient times, but even he has the courtesy to send me a text or two as a warning so I don't walk in or have a chance to leave. There is a slight difference between being oblivious and having zero empathy or compassion. I feel like this situation truly plays jump rope with that line. | /r/seduction | 01/01/13 03:33 AM |
| 1 | What is everyone's game plans for New Years Eve?It's cold in Canada. At least that's what I assume. | /r/seduction | 29/12/12 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Story Time: Kids These Days (How Not To Pick Up A Hooters Girl)Waitresses at any restaurant are always easy to banter with. That's actually a good practice for people with AA. This McLovin kid needed to embrace the fact that this chick, no matter how bad he fucks up, still has to come back with at least a half-way decent attitude for like an hour and a half. I'm not saying go to restaurants and make a fool of yourself, but newer PUAs need to see these as extra opportunities to practice. | /r/seduction | 14/12/12 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Senior in high school, is it even worth it at this point?I was having this mindset half-way through my senior year. People liked me, I didn't know why. I began hanging out with these people and they became my friends. There is no better time than now. | /r/seduction | 12/12/12 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Sometimes, you have to chase themThis was good to read. I have been in a slump recently and been having some flakes from girls with interest. I will take note of this. Shoot a few of them a text next week. | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 06:24 PM |
| 2 | I feel as if my "Nice Guy" persona is hurting me more than helping meI think this is a valid point, chances are if you are friends with these people, you agree with them on most shit anyways. And chances are you are a nice person, so if you speak honestly all the time, a) its funny and b) people will respect you more. Not to be a jerk, but it currently sound like you are a bit of a pushover. | /r/seduction | 19/07/12 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Is this normal?Your proper use of the word juxtaposition brightened up my day. | /r/seduction | 16/07/12 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Is this normal?This is chill, I have lady friends that I would not want to hook up with because I love them too much as friends. Like bmduffy said it is essentially "You love her, but you're not in love with her." Someday you might be, but right now you're not. And that is entirely okay. One of the things this makes me think of is that Alex Clare song Too Close. Basically you are emotionally attached to this girl, but not in a romantic way. I feel like as guys it is socially frowned upon to "friendzone" girls,… | /r/seduction | 16/07/12 02:57 AM |
| 71 | How I got girls to touch me.Please go around and just touch females all the time. It is a very good idea. | /r/seduction | 20/06/12 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Looking for insight from females who don't care about abs..Can you expand a little on the social pair bonding? Wikipedia iny gives animal examples and the rest of the google search turned up academic journals. | /r/seduction | 03/06/12 07:27 PM |
| 3 | What is the significance of a girl's number?As a younger male, I understand what your question is. I feel the same way, not so much that there are other ways to contact them, but that it has never seemed terribly difficult getting a girls number. I mean, looking back it was hard at first, I suppose it was that fear of rejection, but now I wouldn't say that I expect it when I ask or I expect them to give it to me, but I am not worried that they will say no, I am always pretty sure they will say yes. I guess in that way it loses it's mystiq… | /r/seduction | 31/05/12 04:15 AM |
| 2 | When a girl tells you she thinks you're hot/cute what's something you can say back to that?"I couldn't agree more." or one of my favorites "and I'm not even wearing any makeup!" | /r/seduction | 27/05/12 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Good response to "I just met you..."?We have a storm trooper here: Nothing to see, move along. | /r/seduction | 27/05/12 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Invited to spend the weekend at a lake house by a group of girls.Luck is when preparation meets oppurtunity so in this case the oppurtunity is the lake house with the 2:1 ratio and the preparation should be him having crafted a little bit of game. | /r/seduction | 27/05/12 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Number closed 2 chicks from Dorney park, help please.I think you answered your own question. They are too far away to be reasonable (unless you're looking for a relationship) so then chalk it up to a good learning expirence and continue to hone your craft. You should be proud of those n-closes. And you should also be proud that you approached 20 girls. | /r/seduction | 27/05/12 05:41 PM |
| 1 | I think this girl is into me, we're going to the same house party on Friday, next move?Dont use the phrase "alone" with her immediately. I personally dont like that phrase, i know its important to isolate, but alone seems like a creepy word. Remember the plausible deniability thing. So say something like, "it's kinda stuffy in here, what to go outside and get some air?" "it feels busy in here, let's go find a spot that's bit more calm" "I'm hungry/thirsty/etc. let's go get food/drink from store/cigarettes/etc." You'll kinda know when to make a move. The conversation will stop, but… | /r/seduction | 27/05/12 05:37 PM |
| 3 | I'm that SAP on the bus. I'm not subscribed to this subreddit but it keeps getting mentioned in posts and PM's. Thought I'd give it a try.Its ok to make mistakes, just don't make the same mistake twice. | /r/seduction | 27/05/12 05:23 PM |
| 2 | [FR] #Close. 5 minutes on a train. Didn't say a wordDon't forget to put a cover on that TPX report. | /r/seduction | 26/05/12 03:54 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I Now Know How Bill Buckner FeltYa, you watched that hangin' curveball go by for strike three because you were looking fastball on a 3-2 count. Actually right now you're doing the right thing, you're going back to the film room and seeing what you did right, so you can bag those moves, lines, etc. And also you are taking not of what you did wrong so you know next time. This reminds me of something my football coach used to tell us 'Its okay to make a mistake, but don't make the same mistake twice or I'll stick my foot so far u… | /r/seduction | 22/05/12 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Here's something I've never said in my life...From a social perspective, she's your second cousin, dude that's weird. From a genetic perspective, so she would theoretically be distance enough from you that it isn't dangerous, but still see #1 From the perspective of getting some from a chick you never seen before at a family christmas party, niice. But still see #1 | /r/seduction | 22/05/12 02:58 AM |
| 2 | According to the sidebar text/phone game, I made a huge mistake but is there a way to recover?Agreed, if I get a number and don't make quick contact, but decide later on (a week or two later) I call. A call shows a little more effort than a text, a text can just seem like 'oh, whats good?' etc. which is fine a day or two after you get her number. But after a few weeks a call shows 'hey, I was busy. I still want to meet up with you.' | /r/seduction | 22/05/12 02:48 AM |
| 3 | A word of cautionHe is gonna go to his stoner uncle who grows his own weed. His uncle will be on the couch listening to his problem while taking a bong hit, sit up, blow out the smoke and say "Dude, you need to love-close her." | /r/seduction | 16/05/12 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Me and conversation startingFirst off, I am going to say I am not goodlooking.. actually I am good looking, but I'm not hot. I don't have a six pack, I am not thin, and I am kinda short. So I am definitely not making ladies swoon with my body. I was the same all through high school. The thing to remember is this: if they are interested in you then you can talk about anything you want and they will be interested. (note: this next part is for mostly not being awkward and creating an engaging conversation, I am not sure if it… | /r/seduction | 16/05/12 04:30 AM |
| 1 | convince me that my looks won't prevent me from getting laid.I used to feel this way about my looks, I was always chunky. I still am chunky, not overly large, but I have a gut. I finally asked a girl point blank "does it bother you that I'm fat?" she said no, and so have most other girls. They don't place as much stock in looks as they do in personality. As long as you aren't ugly, which it sounds like you're not, then you'll be fine. | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 06:35 AM |
| 2 | I give up trying to find out on my own, what is the next step after flirting to lose my virginity?Ya, man high school chicks is not a fun game to play. But you know what? All that flirting you are doing is good shit, keep it up and some chick will want to fuck you. If you think you're too old to still be a virgin, I didn't lose mine until I was 18. I wanted to lose it before that, but when the time comes its the right time. | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 02:11 AM |
| 7 | List of texting openers. What are some of yours?texty text Damn that's some serious middle school game right there. EDIT: my iphone deleted the texty part of 'texty text' | /r/seduction | 24/04/12 10:25 PM |
| 3 | Getting unstifled/in stateI try to do something embarrassing, stumble into a chair (not drunkenly, just, absent minded), fall, make a really stupid joke or action or what not and then laugh about it. I feel it shows I'm just there to have fun, and then I can have a ready made line or joke to tell when I open. | /r/seduction | 24/04/12 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Girl never texts me back the hour before we are supposed to hangout, should I text her now?I'll text someone an "ok" to acknowledge I received the message. But I don't expect a reply from that, and I don't respond to those. | /r/seduction | 24/04/12 05:42 AM |
| 2 | My main fear in approaching women is having a dull conversation/running out of things to say.I remember one time I was having a pretty lame conversation, realized it and straight out said "Wow [laugh], this conversation is the definition of small talk." and we proceeded to make jokes about how lame it was etc. It helped change the direction of the conversation and gave us something we both could relate to/share to talk about. | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 01:27 AM |
| 3 | Just a smileI'm just not a big fan of the old mexican dude that work the drivethru at my BK | /r/seduction | 14/04/12 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Do women make good wingmen for guys? Any stories appreciated...I'd rather go in-n-out than be stuck with five guys. That sexual enough for you? | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 10:52 PM |
| -2 | Do women make good wingmen for guys? Any stories appreciated...I am here to report, after a trip to the east coast, In-n-out is better. Hands down. five guys was good, but it still has nothing on in-n-out. the fries at five guys were better though. but the burger itself? in-n-out all the way. | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 09:40 PM |
| 5 | Simple trick to give your wingman some confidence when in fieldgetting high>sex You have some interesting priorities. | /r/seduction | 09/04/12 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Lurking for several months, first [FR].What you found was confidence. Confidence is King. | /r/seduction | 15/03/12 05:37 AM |
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