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To stop using tinder and go to a bar or pub and meet people in person.
/r/seduction01/07/18 11:51 PM
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Pro tip.... we all are. Not a single PUA or confident person will say that the first approach of the day doesn't scare the hell out of them. And if they they do then they are lying. We just have to take a leap of faith and hope to God that someone catches us. Don't forget to put on a smile and a brave face tho, it helps.
/r/seduction12/05/18 09:55 AM
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This is what I thought too but every time I tried to cuddle she seemed uninterested and didn't want To, turns out she wants to take it slow so we don't rush into it, which is fair enough
/r/seduction29/01/18 08:10 PM
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Dunno.. Ask for an opinion and have a little story for it such as "my friend was thinking of getting a new dog but didn't know what to call it so he asked me.. what do you think? I was thinking Ghost since his name is Jon 😉"
/r/seduction08/12/17 11:08 PM
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Your call man, she could be being dry cause the convo wasn't interesting to her so you would need to change the dynamic and basically reinvent your new approach with the same idea as before but that you are funny, confident and exciting.
/r/seduction08/12/17 09:10 PM
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Don't worry about it, if she doesn't respond then you move on, learn from your mistake and keep trying, no point in hanging around lol
/r/seduction08/12/17 04:58 PM
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Did she text you? If so, just keep being cool, set up a meet and go have fun. If not, then nothing lost.
/r/seduction08/12/17 04:54 PM
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As long as you are going out and trying different things then that's good, at first I wrote down some openers etc on my notes in my phone just for memory too so no judgement. Tinder is really difficult tbh, there's two rules to it 1) be good looking 2) don't be not good looking. It's hard to do tinder seeing as the girl is always going to be in control over who is swiping to connect them together. This is why I try avoid it, meeting people in bars etc are just easier cause everyone is at ease be…
/r/seduction27/03/17 12:15 AM
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Are you going out sarging at all? All of this stuff needs you to go out and field test it to see how it works for you. You shouldn't be taking physical notes, rather just mental ones.
/r/seduction26/03/17 07:46 PM
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Yeah absolutely, you are both bypassing it by ignoring and responding to it by maintaining frame.
/r/seduction26/03/17 05:49 PM
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Not so much for dating and the simple reason for that is that I don't want to be in a relationship since I'm still in my early 20's but as far as lays goes then absolutely. I had built rapport with a girl who stayed at the other side of the country but was down visiting one of my friends, the next time I saw her she wanted to talk to me and I could tell she was dtf because she was getting REALLY close to me. I then allowed her in, but during the set I would tell her "we can't do this" or when sh…
/r/seduction26/03/17 05:33 PM
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In all honesty, I find it works because if you keep saying that you're just friends to them then because you are denying them and telling them no, that they tend to work harder for your approval.. has to be worked with a little bit of flair and your own personality so that it becomes effective. At this point, I'd say that I use this and false rejection a lot more since I field tested it.
/r/seduction26/03/17 05:26 PM
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Couldnt agree with you more, at the moment I'm testing telling them "we're just friends" to almost beat them to it in a way so that I'm still in control of the frame but also so that they chase since they no longer have the Trump card on me... sounds crude or dickhead/fuck boy in a way but the way I see it is that you are literally using a girls pickup game against them.
/r/seduction26/03/17 04:34 AM
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Man I fuckin love push/pull, its so simple and so effective. Side note that might be worth mentioning, you sorta did but never developed it, is that text game NEEDS to be kept short. This is an absolute must, too long and like you say, it plateaus.. that and both parties can't tell what real emotion is being shown. Great report man!
/r/seduction25/03/17 10:47 PM
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I second this, from just scanning his (or her) posts, its pretty obvious that they are possibly young and so have no confidence. Now is the time to gain some by approaching and seeing what works for you and what doesn't. Not to sound cheesy or like one of those older people but "they can only say no" which shouldn't bother you as long as you learn from it and improve.
/r/seduction25/03/17 10:34 PM
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Is that not what I've said in this?
/r/seduction23/03/17 11:46 PM
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Just be careful my friend, I'm assuming you're young. It sounds like you might be getting a bit of oneitis. However, sounds like you did a pretty good job of cold approaching and got her talking tho.. now you need to begin the escalation, bear in mind that she is shy so don't be too full on but show her that you're confident and charming. I'd say to follow up on hanging out, take her bowling or something exciting but make sure that you appear as the 1% so that she knows you're an interesting guy…
/r/seduction08/12/16 07:28 PM
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My insta reaction is "what am I? Your boyfriend?!" And say it with a big cheeky/wry smile and sorta laughing but always said with a chest full of confidence as to not seem defensive or less flirty
/r/seduction06/07/16 09:35 PM
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Just ask her this "do you wanna kiss me?" But say it with confidence, this isn't you asking her for a kiss, this is her wanting to kiss you cause you're a desirable person. This has worked everytime for me and my friend too.
/r/seduction15/04/16 10:06 AM
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