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Sounds like it's not very fun to blow you.
/r/askMRP13/02/17 10:28 PM
1

Those are shit tests, Bob.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:53 AM
1

My two cents those sound like comfort tests, especially since the same theme seems to be reocurring and you don't seem to have passed them yet. What about her tone made you think.shit test?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/17 02:54 PM
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The direct approach 'yes I either wanted to fuck you or go to sleep' probably won't hurt you, but you've got a great opportunity to A&A this shit man. Sit down, drop your face and take a very serious tone, "Yeah I've been meaning to talk to you about this baby, because I just got some not great test results back. I didn't want to worry you, but the doctors confirmed it to me today. [long pause] Whenever I get turned for sex down it lowers my heart rate significantly. If you're not careful baby y…
/r/askMRP07/01/17 10:51 PM
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Repeat after me: 'I have no interest in making friends with other men who are trying to fuck you.'
/r/askTRP20/12/16 08:09 PM
1

Yeah exhibit A to my point onpot right here. I'm sure it aids in your physical recovery from that workload as well.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 06:22 PM
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I'd be willing to say booze does those things to a degree but weed is pretty good for you. I know lots of heavy smokers who are incredibly driven & successful. Most of the heavy smokers I know, actually. The whole 'lazy pot smoker' thing is mostly a stereotype.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 06:17 PM
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Chill the fuck out dude. She's not a 'black girl;' she's just a girl who happens to be black. You treat her like you would anyone else. It's not complicated.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 06:14 PM
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The connection is already there for her, possibly pretty strongly. She's using them as a big old compliance test for sex. I think the question you need to answer is how to break it without being a dick about it. Right now I bet dollars to donuts she's framing the massage for her and the sex for you. Seems like you need to establish that you're not her masseus & that sex brings you closer and is for both of you. It sounds like you know she enjoys them and are willing to give them semi-frequently …
/r/askMRP13/12/16 06:30 PM
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I'd tell her that I wanted to respect her feelings on the matter, but that I would like to see our friends. I'd also say that I think that in the spirit of Christmas/holiday time it could be a good opportunity to establish that while the beef may not be resolved yet, the friendship is ultimately more important than the beef, and that gestures like this often have symbolic value that can lead to a resolution (assuming that this is true/relevant in this case, of course; I'm flying blind here regar…
/r/askMRP13/12/16 05:02 PM
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Given what you've said here, I'd say repeating that to yourself over and over again forever is key.
/r/askMRP10/12/16 04:28 AM
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My dude, you took the complete and total wrong approach to this. Like, full blown emotionally tone deaf George Costanza exact fucking opposite of how you should of approached it. You told your wife to break with decades of her family tradition or be without you & her kids on Christmas over text??! Are you fucking kidding? But wait, there's more. You then followed it up by getting sucked into an angry discussion over the discussion (entirely her frame and you ate it all up, hook line and sinker).…
/r/askMRP09/12/16 07:06 AM
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You have to be a troll.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 06:17 PM
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"We both know that this "sky is falling" BS has to come to an end ASAP. Let's talk about what goes on and what can be done to alleviate the stress. It isn't good for our kids, it isn't good for you, and it isn't good for our relationship. Are you willing to do what it takes to get things back on track? Great shit right here. Direct, empathetic, great framing.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 03:09 PM
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Man the fuck up dude you sound like a whiny little bitch. You've obviously got problems. Men are problem solvers. Game plan to solve yours or stop whining about it. Set your long term goals and plan out the daily actions that will take you to them. Don't go overboard though. Keep it simple. 'Reaching sub 15% bf and getting laid' seem good enough to me but that's your call. Post over on Own Your Shit in Married Red Pill. Couple more thoughts: 1) Keep lifting. Heavy. Game gets much easier once you…
/r/askTRP07/12/16 01:53 PM
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"Ok, but I'm taking you out to Bar/Restaurant/Club X next weekend and you're wearing it then." If it's a particularly revealing dress it is a bit weird to wear it to the movies, though if that's the level of submissiveness you want in your relationship I can't tell you that's inherently wrong. It's a bit outside typical relationship expectations however, so I imagine it will take some work & communication to get there. Either way you gotta get rid of this butthurt beta shit though. She's a woman…
/r/askTRP07/12/16 06:16 AM
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This is about control. I'd let her know what you really think of it asap. If it were me I'd tell her both that I expect sex to be an important part of the relationship and that it makes me feel closer to her. If she needs to not have sex to feel closer it would be an issue for me. That's the honest response.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 05:59 AM
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By all means.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 05:43 AM
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You're responding like a petulant child who just discovered passive aggressiveness. If this is your sober reaction to this low level of confrontation it doesn't surprise me at all that you've been told to calm down in social situations when you're fucked up.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 10:18 PM
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Have you considered that they may be right?
/r/askTRP06/12/16 02:21 PM
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Ahh, that's different then. I'd probably just say 'of course, but never someone respectful/undeserving/etc' and leave it at that. You could probably pressure flip it and ask if she had?
/r/askTRP05/12/16 08:19 PM
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👻 Boo!
/r/askTRP05/12/16 05:09 PM
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Have you tried 'Excuse me could you lend me a hand with something?'. Might be too much. How about 'Who's got one thumb and is about to get your number?' Regardless you have to find a way to address & make her feel comfortable with it as soon as possible in the interaction. The best way will be something that shows you are comfortable with it. That goes for dates as well as cold approaches. Can you think of a good punchline to 'Wanna know the worst part of dating with one hand?'
/r/askTRP04/12/16 12:22 AM
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Nah she's hamstring hard. Though that doesn't really rule out a man either I suppose.
/r/askMRP19/11/16 10:58 PM
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Except it's not what you want now, is it?
/r/askMRP19/11/16 10:57 PM
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Doesn't change what I'm telling you. For the record I'm not placing blame or saying that it's definitely possible to have the relationship you want with this man; I'm saying the approach you are taking will not work. You can only control yourself. Go learn about that from a red pill perspective.
/r/askMRP19/11/16 10:45 PM
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You've crafted a massive narrative around your husband and your perception of his faults that you will need to let go of if you want things to get better. A nagging, disappointed wife will never make him feel like a man. You cannot control him, you can only control you. Honestly the more you try the worse it will get. You'd be much better off supporting him without expectation than what you are doing now. My advice to you is stop trying to fix him and go read red pill woman or red pill wives. I …
/r/askMRP19/11/16 09:41 PM
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I'm not sure if this is covered in any MRP material but lately I like to conceptualize disruptions to routine as life throwing me a shit test. You failed this one. Proper response is to laugh, maintain frame and handle your shit. Why not move your gym time? Or get to the gym an hour earlier while the baby is sick so you can be home to run the morning? Hell, why aren't you doing this already while she's pregnant & finishing her PHD?
/r/askMRP04/11/16 12:37 PM
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Unrelated to the boundary with your wife, but have you had your child evaluated to see if he's on the Autistic Spectrum or suffering from some other mental or developmental disorder? At his age months can make an enormous difference in his development. A lot of time your state or local services may offer free evaluation & therapy. Whatever is going on it sounds like his needs are pretty different from your other kids in some way. At the risk of the obnoxiousness of sticking my nose into your par…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 02:54 PM
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Problem solved. Assuming the problem is actually about waking up.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 07:13 PM
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Fuck dude get your shit together. Why the fuck didn't you already have a plan in place to help her learn English? She literally left everything behind and doesn't speak the language. I doubt the money stuff is the real issue here. She's making an extremely stressful transition and you're completely failing to lead. What's more, a great resource/solution is literally handed to you and you can't be bothered to even pay attention, much less plan for it? She may or may not be able to get her shit to…
/r/askMRP20/10/16 01:19 AM
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Not all men who ascribe to The Red Pill are looking to manipulate, though certainly some are. A lot of the men here are just trying to get a better understanding of some of the broader, general rules of attraction and the behaviors it takes to be successful sexually. Often the way we were raised or the habits & demeanor we were taught by society at large doesn't actually lead to the kind of romantic success we expected or wanted. Further, a lot of men, initially, are frustrated & angry at this d…
/r/askTRP17/10/16 02:49 PM
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Really sounds like you want a nicer car and are looking for the internet to justify for you.
/r/askMRP16/10/16 05:16 AM
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I fucking love these. And the fact that half of everynody here can't see it's a gag only makes it better.
/r/askMRP14/10/16 04:30 AM
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Two solid stories right here.
/r/askMRP12/10/16 02:56 PM
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"I gave you my heart, not my eyes."
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 06:54 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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