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| 2 | What is really a "10" to men objectively speaking?I agree with you. But it’s just a set that people seem to agree with. I think their shit isn’t based on actual beauty but rather like facial measurements and whatever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 07:10 PM |
| 2 | What is really a "10" to men objectively speaking?r/truerateme their standards You can see more guides on their definition of beauty and shit. But at the end of the day it’s subjective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 01:55 PM |
| 1 | why do women dominate teaching?I think u should teach if it’s what u want. Change the mold. I volunteer with kids and today they were begging us to find male volunteers so male children could feel more comfortable. So there is a need for you!! I know that’s not what you asked but had to say something | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/03/23 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Speaking up about mistreatmentThat is all absolutely fucked. My ex told me his previous gf tried to rape him. But thankfully he’s giant so he could stop her but he talked about it like she was just being a bit annoying. He didn’t even realize how fucked what happened to him was. She did things my abusive ex did to me (lock me in a room,slapping) and same thing. Just like it was a quirk she had | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/03/23 03:21 AM |
| -2 | Who's missing from the conversation of intimate partner deaths?Another mistake would be to include homicide suicide statistic in your final tally because those men killed someone then themselves so it can be inferred that they were probably the abuser not the victim of the abuse. Also legal intervention while a mistake can be made the cop would typically (or should) shoot someone who is holding a weapon so in this case this person is probably the abuser as well. Still staggering statistics for sure. And any suicide stat I think shows how much the male gende… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/03/23 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Who's missing from the conversation of intimate partner deaths?Wouldn’t the math for the third slide be 10/75=16% Which would be 1.6 of 10 Because 75/100 murders are from intimate partners and 10 of that 75 are male. Or am I mathing wrong ? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/03/23 02:38 AM |
| 12 | Interesting series of posts about infidelity and divorce from r/relationship_advice, your takes?He didn’t describe her as neglectful. He said the dishes weren’t done and he came home to their son in Pyjamas (did he just assume the kid had been in them all day?). Postpartum depression is not experienced by all women. It’s very serious and can lead mothers to lose their mind and even kill their babies or themselves in some cases. Really it sounds like his issues started as soon as she got less attractive if u read what he’s saying. Also when u marry someone u agree To ups and downs. On both … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Western Women, how much of a turn on is it for you if a guy is rich?On paper I’m like damn a rich guys would be nice. But when I really think about it it’s intimidating. I’m never gunna be rich so I’ll be living off his koney and depending on shit maybe I’ll feel like I have to ask to use koney. Sounds awful. I’d rather have my own small amount of money then feel like I don’t own anything. Or like a burden. But I guess that depends on us and then in that case it has nothing to do with his money. Sometimes when I see a guy who has a really good job or looks rich … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 07:56 PM |
| 5 | What are women even expected to do during the courting phase?I’m not. I’m just saying u say women have no expectations. But then u say u expect to hve sex and that men ghost women if they don’t have sex. How is that saying it’s a reward. I don’t think most girls have a certain date. I think they either like the guy and do it when they feel the need or they want to feel comfortable and safe before they have sex with someone. Nothing to do with withholding sex (but I know some people do that) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 07:52 PM |
| 6 | What are women even expected to do during the courting phase?Isn’t that an expectation then? That women have to put out ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 07:49 PM |
| 1 | What are women even expected to do during the courting phase?I posted something else. I was just informing him women hve something to lose to so I think it does address what he’s saying OP is also saying that women do not participate in furthering the conversation he’s the only one talking apparently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 07:47 PM |
| -1 | Benevolent sexism is underreportedA lot of sexism against men come from society (including women) but a lot of it is internalized. Men being more likely to die by suicide 1. They chose more violent methods 2. They don’t seek help like women tend to (professional or unprofessional). This is because men tell other men more than women do to suck it up and not cry. Where as sexism towards women ie. I can have sex with my girlfriend even if she doesn’t want to or she’s a slut for having sex with more than 5 people but I wanna fuck 50… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is underreportedEveryone should watch tough guise it’s a great documentary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 06:17 PM |
| 0 | Benevolent sexism is underreportedKids liking their mom more than dad: Women are taught its ok to feel. To share emotions. Men’s re taught to be tough and to not share feelings or asking someone to share. So it makes sense kids feel closer to their mothers. This is sad. Men should be allowed to feel and it would benefit their lives and the lives around them so much if societies view on men changed. And that’s what toxic masculinity is. It’s the be stoic have no feeling repress men. It’s a big part of what leads to male on male v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Benevolent sexism is underreportedOk if ur talking first work countries maybe. But women are having their clits cut out as children (not the same as circumsision because fgm is supposed to remove pleasure from sex—although I’m against circumsision myself). Women are married off when they are children. Women are multilated (acid burning) and it isn’t punished. This is just a few things cause I don’t feel like writing so much. So it is ignorant to say that everywhere in the world the injustices of men and women are equal. Women ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 06:11 PM |
| 5 | What are women even expected to do during the courting phase?Also women get rejected as well. Lots of men are only looking for sex and get that from a girl and dip. Men aren’t vibing with you so the reject all sorts of shit. Both sexes have the same risk of rejection with the added burn that a lot of them have their own timeline (if u fuck them before 5 dates ur not gf material) different standards but same shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 04:43 PM |
| 1 | What are women even expected to do during the courting phase?Women have to look nice (do u know how long and how much effort and money women put into their looks especially first dates), further conversation (wth r u trying to date a piece or cardboard???), women usually offer to pay (at least most of the girls I know do) but I know men will insist. If a girl has nothing to say or add to the convo she is either shy/inexperienced or she’s not vibing with you/the conversation. Are the women your going out with really not adding to the conversation?? U shoul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Honest and genuine question. What is it that women actually want?My question to you is why are you asking what do you want to achieve? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Honest and genuine question. What is it that women actually want?Do you really believe that’s how ALL women are based of a girl in a comedy sketch and one or two experiences you’ve had ? There are lots of young people in relationships. Most of the people I know are not single so a women’s list is not that intense. It’s just something you see on tv or Reddit and grasp onto as the reason things aren’t working out for you. It’s the exception that women r so extreme. Sure probably every woman has a few things she needs in a relationship (maybe financial independe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?Have you ever dated a girl for a reason other than sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular womenIt’s crazy how similar I feel Canada and America are but then so vastly different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular womenAlso a lot of stats I looked at showed Asian people are way less obese. So maybe u r only around people of a certain race | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular womenAre you talking about real life girls u meet or are you just thinking in terms of online shit you see? I feel like where I live (Ontario) I don’t see that many very fat men or women ages 20-30 roughly. Way more skinny-average-a little big. Also women are more likely to date chunky (not huge). I see way more less then chunky girls dating chunky guys. I work at a restaurant so I see a lot of random young couples. I mean it doesn’t account for everything but that’s just my observation. Maybe depend… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 07:09 PM |
| – | Why do woman deny their preferences so much?Noo it didn’t I’m just trying to work it out in my head too aha. Actually now that I think of it (I’m a server so I’ve worked with some money greedy people) these women at least to me have said they want very rich men usually old so I guess more like a sugar daddy. But maybe it’s already just an implied thing? More like a transaction. I don’t know it’s stupid cause everyone can see what women like this are after. But maybe that makes the question stupid in the first place. Why ask when we alread… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 04:17 PM |
| – | Why do woman deny their preferences so much?Yeah also it’s an awkward question to ask some too right ? I’m trying to think of a good comparison off my head but there’s definitely questions if I asked I would lie about. One thing I look for in a partner is financial independence (I’m never going to make enough money to support 2 people). But if I was getting to know a guy I probably wouldn’t just say that. I discuss it with my friends both male and female. I just think if this guy was courting a girl he wouldn’t say hey I only like ucause … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 04:05 PM |
| – | Why do woman deny their preferences so much?if a woman like this said to you she could only date rich and powerful/famous men. What would your perception of her be? And a man who says he could only date got young women what would you perception be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 03:55 PM |
| – | Why do woman deny their preferences so much?And these men have a preference where they would only date insanely hot young women (preferably with status as well)But do u think if u asked them why they date the chick they would say that? Or would they say they liked her? Genuinely curious cause I don’t know any really affluential people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 03:50 PM |
| 5 | Am I incable of loving as a women like red pill saysGood point I tend to avoid or ignore the 3/4th wave because I feel like they tend to make women look stupid haha | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/23 03:33 PM |
| 2 | If a woman has a lot of sexual partners/experiences, does she become harder to please sexually as time goes on?Are you a man ? Then I’m sorry you don’t know what sec is like for women. As you have never and never will experience it. Most young women fake it and their sexual style is geared toward male pleasure. I could go on and on. Where do u get ur information from?? Genuinely curious I kind of agree with you in one sense but I think my view is less centred on women being pure and men doing whatever. I think people dating and having sex with a lot of different people is part of the reason there is less… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Am I incable of loving as a women like red pill saysSo weird because all the time we hear about how man and women are different naturally. And women r supposed to be more loving and nurturing. But you believe a small group of people ? Being young makes us so impressionable. I think it could benefit you to stay out of these types of forums. Discover yourself. And what you like. Instead of googling guidelines and acting accordingly. You’re gunna create habits and maybe it’s not even what you want because you try to fit the mold here. Figure out who… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/23 02:55 PM |
| 4 | Am I incable of loving as a women like red pill saysFeminists can’t love ? Or u mean extremists ? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/23 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Not feeling desired is what makes most men (including me) have problems with women.Men r actually magical creatures. They don’t need our ten step skin care some how 😭 my wallet is crying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Not feeling desired is what makes most men (including me) have problems with women.That’s really sad and disheartening that so many people feel that way :( I’m sorry that’s what you’re dealing with. If therapy isn’t an option you should at least work on positive self talk. What we think becomes our reality. No one has literally “nothing” to offer. Remind yourself of that. And also when you think of the women you like u don’t just think about how good they look do you? You probably aren’t as ugly as u think. In my life I have maybe met 5-10 actually ugly people. So what r the o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 03:31 AM |
| 0 | What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for.Lol our value. What is your perceived male value ? Genuinely curious. As I’ve never had a baby I think my value in a relationship has been emotional support, financial, probably entertainment, sex, maybe some other shit. There is so much more to women. I hope one day you learn that and can find a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 03:03 AM |
| 8 | A Modest Proposal: The Bachelorette TaxIf these women aren’t settling down doesn’t that imply that they r working and therefore will be prepared for retirement just as a working man would provide for his stay at home wife ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 02:53 AM |
| 3 | Young men provide in peace their labor to the society, in war their blood; in exchange they get to get a wife to have children and he is deeply invested in the well being of society, modern society destroyed this social contract and expects young men to uphold a society that gives them NOTHINGMore men are likely to kill themselves for a few reasons. Men usually use more violent methods which r more likely to work. While women usually use methods like pills (very hard and slow to OD like that) Also men are much less likely to seek help. Because of society and their own views on howa man should be. The “be stoic and don’t be a pussy” thing is a huge culprit for this. Which is exactly what toxic masculinity is (you should watch the tough guise documentary on YouTube. It was made by a ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Guys are not unattractive because they're insecure, they are insecure because they're unattractive. I feel like this is a common misconception.You’ve given me so much to think about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 08:48 PM |
| 5 | Guys are not unattractive because they're insecure, they are insecure because they're unattractive. I feel like this is a common misconception.It’s like the chicken and the egg. Probably both r true. Depending on the situation. I met this guy and I was very attracted to him. But he was really insecure. We went on a few dates and I loved talking to him but his uncomfortableness rubbed off on me and I felt awkward as hell especially at the thought of physical intimacy with him. I ended it despite finding him attractive and enjoying talking to him. If u r bad at something. Say picking up girls or dating. But u keep trying to force urself … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Which privileges aren’t women able to see?Yeah I know it’s based on experience also I was just using logic for the men out there looool. People can deny things they haven’t experienced but u can’t deny the facts I don’t think it a privilege is what Im saying. I commented on my answer saying because everyone else is saying that’s a privilege women have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Which privileges aren’t women able to see?Only because so many people wrote this as a female privilege. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Which privileges aren’t women able to see?I know there are many good men out there. But the reason women might be more trusted or people feel more safe around them could be due to statistics on rape and violent crimes. Like obviously u can’t assume everyone is a rapist or is gunna hurt you. And logically everyone knows you aren’t narrowly avoiding assault constantly lol. What I’m getting at is would it still be considered a privilege when it’s more about preservation? And it’s based in some truth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Which privileges aren’t women able to see?People r more inclined to help us. That’s why criminals sometimes use women to lure people in. If ur car broke down you might be more likely to get a ride or help from someone. But at the same time this can be a disadvantage. Because people might think they can over power you when ur in this kind of situation. If you were struggling with a heavy weight at the gym a guy might help you but wouldn’t notice or want to emasculate another man. It is more acceptable for us women to have a range of emot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 07:19 AM |
| 5 | Which privileges aren’t women able to see?Is the friend thing true ? I feel like more of the guys I know still have groups of friends that they have known for a long time. And most of the girls I know are lucky to have one proper friend besides their boyfriend. But maybe it’s just the people I know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 07:05 AM |
| 3 | What is the female equivalent of height on a guy?I’m not sure if you’re a man or a woman but it is very difficult to build the side of the hip while simultaneously shrinking your waist. There is a natural bone structure different in women. Also some people hold their weight more naturally on their lower half. I’m still saying it’s not the same as height though. But it’s not that easy. I’m curvy whether or not I hit the gym. I’ve always been like that my entire family is hourglass shaped. I know girls who are at the gym more than me working leg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 06:03 PM |
| 7 | What is the female equivalent of height on a guy?U can’t widen ur hips. You could grow an ass, but you can’t creat that hour glass shape. But some men are attracted to different shapes. Like some guys like curvy and some guys like girls with no boobs. So it’s not the same as height (like some girls don’t care about height but overall it’s tall guys who are more coveted) the ideal body shape for women fluctuates like a fashion trend as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Promiscuity and casual sex is unfair to men therefore men are 100% justified in not dating promiscuous women. Which is 100% about personality and not looks.You are definitely right about women having more power in casual sex because I’ve seen men have sex with some questionable women (I mean belligerent, obnoxious, annoying, unattractive women get laid with no effort). I’m not exactly clear on what ur saying to be honest. But I don’t think it’s exactly right. Like women who r single but Pursue casual dating and sex don’t necessarily turn down men they would have perfect relationships with. I’m sure a lot of them want LTRs but they have their own is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 03:06 AM |
| 1 | At what age have you personally felt most sexually desirable to the opposite sex?I get creeped on a lot now at 27 because of my part time job. But man I got stared at and hit on the most when I was like 17-20. By men of all ages. I went on vacation once and everyone referred to me as 17 as a warning (not that I was trying to get with anyone anyways lol) but I probably also used to go out more and I didn’t have a car back then so 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 03:00 AM |
| 5 | Women who hang out with old sugar daddies are often emotionally manipulative and should be shamed just as much as the old menI’m pretty sure gold diggers are looked down on. Same with sugar babies. People consider them basically prostitutes who aren’t viewed very highly in society. Which U even believe urself. So obviously people look down on these woman? also both parties r not stupid. The man wants a hot young thing to have fun with and have sex. And the woman wants money or maybe whatever connections he has? I think for the most part both parties are aware of what’s going on. But there are also age gap relationship… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 02:40 AM |
| 1 | How can I get better at making conversation funny and interesting ?https://www.reddit.com/r/BrosDatingAdvice/comments/xplvb6/conversational_threading_the_basics_of_building/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?Not really. In ur previous post u even say that older women can’t compete with younger women. Yet here u day age doesn’t matter women can hide it. Ur just venting out ur own insecurities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?The common denominator in not being laid is u. Not the women. If u try to get with 100 girls and none of them want u OP. The problem isn’t women. It’s u. Take ur own advice and be more submissive. Listen to women. Like here for instance. And maybe u can get a woman instead of being bitter. Smile. No one likes a man who frowns | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?I also wanna add women put so much effort into how we look. We shave. We do our eyebrows at least once a week. Wax facial and body hair. Do skin care routines that take 20+ minutes every day. Long hair is a hassle to care for. We buy expensive clothes and makeup. It’s expensive and hard to keep up to beauty standards. What amount of effort, money, time do you think the average man puts into these things? So being attractive is not easy. Man some of my friends spend 100 every three weeks on her e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that men have it harder than women because what makes a man attractive can't be faked or is extremely difficult to achieve?It’s harder for men to get laid. But not to find someone to settle down with. Not sure which ur asking about. But that’s not on women and our standards. The sex thing is because men don’t think. They just want the sex. I mean obviously men have standards. But women have to worry about getting pregnant or slut shamed or murdered. On top of having things drilled into their head that make us less sexually open. The reality is women don’t ask for much. I’ve seen the ugliest guys with hot chicks. I’v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 05:58 PM |
| 4 | Need some insight hereThat’s what I would do. Don’t message her somewhere else. And don’t bring up her ghosting you till after the date. It will make u sound bitter about it. Which will make u less likely to get a date. But there is nothin wrong with shooting ur shot. U don’t lose anything. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Need some insight hereDid u message her on tinder ? | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 04:16 AM |
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