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So explain the difference between familial love and romantic love. Pointing out the additional elements of romance and/or sex isn’t what I asked for. None of those things are reliant on each other. All I said was, simply, that you can love more than one person in your life. YOU are the one who made this about incest or whatever for some reason. Btw, people who insist everyone else suffered a trauma are just suppressing their own trauma. If you were molested or raped as a child you need to seek h…
/r/AntiFeminists31/05/22 03:19 PM
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You’ll do anything besides actually answer my question huh. I asked, ‘explain the difference you implied, if it’s not sex’. The difference in love between a romantic partner versus other love. Just because it could involve sex doesn’t make the BASE love different. It’s just an addition to that base. So explain how the addition of sex/romance drastically changes that base love.
/r/AntiFeminists30/05/22 04:44 PM
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So explain the difference you implied, if it’s ‘not sex’. You aren’t actually arguing. Just denying what I say. Which isn’t an argument. You did bring up sex, when asking ‘is the love for your parents the same as a partner? Sounds incest-y to me’. Incest is typically thought of as sex between family members. So explain how it wasn’t about sex. I also never said all love is the same. I said you can love more than one person at a time. Keep up.
/r/AntiFeminists29/05/22 11:03 PM
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It’s definitely weird, but I’m not going to judge a child for how they grieve.
/r/AntiFeminists28/05/22 10:47 PM
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Where did I applaud it? Or even say it was okay? I’m saying y’all should leave a grieving child alone instead of judging her. It’s gross. Also, he is dead. Unfortunate but true. You can’t disrespect the dead by having a life. People would have said the same shit if it had been a year, or before she finished school, or whatever amount of time. Apparently you wouldn’t have been satisfied unless she never felt live again. And teenagers aren’t exactly known for their long term relationships. It’s no…
/r/AntiFeminists28/05/22 10:44 PM
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Lmao, sex and love are not synonymous. Asexual people exist and have marriages. People stay married long after they stop having sex. Pretty immature to base love on sexual attraction. Real love is doing right by someone, regardless of how you feel about them at that moment. I thought love was a feeling when I was a teenager, before I had a husband or a son or any ‘real adult’ experience. It’s more than a feeling. It’s a moral commitment to someone else’s success and growth, to support them and e…
/r/AntiFeminists28/05/22 10:43 PM
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So parents only love one child? You can only really love one parent? Can’t love your kid and your grandma at the same time, damn. Love is abundant and unlimited. There’s no ‘most real’ love. That’s the most lukewarm take I’ve ever heard. That’s how 14 year olds date. Actual, solid love isn’t a feeling. It’s a choice. Thinking love is a feeling will ruin your relationships.
/r/AntiFeminists28/05/22 10:19 PM
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Dude really said ‘sorry I’m unable to do a modicum of my own fact checking so I’ll just restate a meme’
/r/AntiFeminists27/05/22 10:52 PM
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So at 16 she should become abstinent? Swear off men because her high school boyfriend unfortunately died young? Jesus Christ you guys are pathetic. Also you can love more than one person in your whole life. Doesn’t invalidate your former feelings.
/r/AntiFeminists27/05/22 10:51 PM
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Yeah but if the lead doesn’t look exactly like them how will they relate!! You’re going to make them watch some wahmen movie?? /s
/r/MensRights05/03/22 07:20 PM
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Lmao wish that were true
/r/MensRights05/03/22 07:20 PM
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So how about they grow up in normal adult households with normal adults who have normal partners. You know, like the majority of people manage to do just fine. Single parents, of any gender, aren’t just bringing home random people every weekend.
/r/MensRights05/03/22 07:18 PM
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Look up stats for kids raised by single fathers. Same shit. It’s because it’s hard to raise a kid in a society that doesn’t have a ‘village’ anymore.
/r/MensRights05/03/22 07:16 PM
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lol yep because only men can work /s
/r/MensRights05/03/22 07:13 PM
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Don’t have kids you don’t want to support then? I have to pay for my kid because I made him. That’s how life works.
/r/MensRights05/03/22 07:13 PM
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Based on what data, exactly? Also there’s many alternative housing options besides big ugly western cardboard houses.
/r/MensRights05/03/22 07:11 PM
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Lmao to this man thinking men do the majority of child care. Are we just ignoring basic reality now? If you all work there is no one to watch the kids. If some of you stay home, there’s less money. If you pay for child care while all you men ‘support your family’ then that’s more money out. At least think the comment through before you add it.
/r/MensRights05/03/22 07:10 PM
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Bc statistically women are safer drivers, young men are statistically the least safe drivers. They’re just basing it off the letter you circle on your paperwork, it’s dumb but there’s at least some data to explain why.
/r/MensRights05/03/22 07:08 PM
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Statistically marriage shortens women’s lives and makes them less happy than being single. Still plenty of women getting married. Sometimes shit works and sometimes it doesn’t, that’s life. If you want to restrict your life choices based on stats of other people’s lives, that’s cool. Not everyone does that, because it’s sad. Also, that’s not what ‘no fault’ divorce means. My father used to r*pe my mother in her sleep, is a diagnosed narcissist, beat his kids, cheated many times, left my mother d…
/r/MensRights05/03/22 07:05 PM
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They are. I know three groups of women doing this. They just aren’t posting it all over the place because they don’t care 🤷‍♀️
/r/MensRights05/03/22 06:59 PM
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So they’re counting bisexual people as all lgbt relationships? I’m queer/functionally bisexual and have dated more men than women. It would make no sense to class all my relationships as gay. Already a huge hole in your data.
/r/MensRights05/03/22 06:58 PM
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If you’re not gonna help why speak?
/r/MensRights05/03/22 06:55 PM
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Yep, that’s why women are the majority of prison populations. Oh wait.
/r/MensRights05/03/22 06:54 PM
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Took you two weeks to come up with that? Boooo.
/r/MensRights24/02/22 07:36 PM
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Love the deflection to a completely unrelated ‘point’. Very predictable. I’m sorry you’re sad because you think you need sex to live. You don’t. You presumably have two hands for a reason. If you don’t have two hands they make toys to help with that.
/r/MensRights20/02/22 12:19 AM
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So go take your meds then? Idk why you’re telling me.
/r/MensRights20/02/22 12:17 AM
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https://youtu.be/UCja5NaOAi0
/r/MensRights19/02/22 12:30 AM
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‘You still don’t see the backwards logic in withholding sex from a guy you like and giving it to guys you don’t?’ Your entire hypothetical is assuming women fuck men they don’t like. Also don’t have to ‘admit’ you’re promiscuous. People are allowed to date and have sex. Just get tested like adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:29 AM
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https://youtu.be/UCja5NaOAi0
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:23 PM
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So no source. Cool. Women don’t fuck guys they don’t like. The hypothetical you’ve spun doesn’t happen. You have a fundamental misunderstanding of female sexuality. I find plenty of people cool or nice, doesn’t mean I want to date or marry them. Do you struggle with the concept of one night stands/casual hookups, or friends with benefits? Most adults don’t date to just hang out. They want someone with compatibility past sex, for a long term relationship/marriage. A woman having casual sex with s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:18 PM
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……..then why the need to bring up the Soviet Union and anything else related to communism? As if it matters? People die for money/the rich. The end.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:04 PM
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You’re offended I haven’t driven drunk? Weird flex. Never brought up police brutality against men of color (or just poc in general). I’m aware of it and didn’t bring it up because it’s not relevant to the post. She deserves whatever consequences she got. They vary by where you live. I used the term fine/ticket because OP said that. Don’t know why you’re acting as if it’s a competition of who has it worse. ‘It’s not even close’ because it’s not a competition.
/r/MensRights18/02/22 10:02 PM
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Your hand is free. Jack off like everyone else. You DO NOT need to fuck a person.
/r/MensRights17/02/22 04:43 AM
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Yay I get to carry the mental load of grocery shopping AND pay for it? How fun.
/r/MensRights17/02/22 04:42 AM
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Proof that average women get laid more than average men? I’d love to read it. Please explain how women ‘pick men that are bad at sex’. As if you know someone’s sexual skills before having sex. Go ahead, make it make sense. With that same logic, why don’t you just pick women that will fuck on a first date? Still waiting for you to explain who all those women just ‘getting sex from’ on demand. Since it’s apparently not average men. Is your argument that women can get on demand sex from like super …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:38 AM
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Because they’re dying for oil and rich old men? I didn’t mention capitalism because I’m not a communist. Weird assumption.
/r/MensRights16/02/22 12:00 AM
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Obviously, you shouldn’t force people to die for capitalism. Still don’t see what the draft has to do with women or feminism.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 10:27 PM
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So how come women can get sex whenever, but men are some sad babies that scrounge for sex? Who are those women fucking? Some imaginary man? Logic doesn’t follow dude. Spoiler alert, average looking or unattractive women have the same time getting laid as decent or unattractive men. Women also like to enjoy sex, surprising I know, so it’s zero percent helpful that we can ‘easily access’ bad sex. There is a million reasons someone might not ‘fuck on a first date’. Obsessing over whether or not you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:41 PM
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Predictably, a vague response bc you can’t make or defend an argument. Didn’t what? Take responsibility? I’m aware.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 08:30 PM
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Literally who said it was about their own genitals?? Body shaming is towards other people. Also never denied that women body shame men. I said they didn’t start the ‘small dick energy’ thing. Keep moving the goalposts weirdo.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 08:04 PM
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Failed? No no, retired to be a stay at home mom because I felt like it. If you’re projecting your own constant failure just say that. A retired sex worker that has fucked more women than 10 men combined, probably does know what women want. Big hint, it isn’t two hours of giant dick. Keep deluding yourself hun.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 07:36 PM
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If you’re not going to be constructive then piss right off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:35 PM
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You’re awfully triggered that someone with literal resume experience in professional sex might gasp not agree with your uninformed perspective on what dick size women want. Because it doesn’t agree with your fantasy of what women want. Who could have seen that coming! /s
/r/MensRights15/02/22 07:30 PM
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Lmaooo, still deflecting. Does someone put quarters in your ass crack to get you to spout the same unrelated 3 things over and over?
/r/MensRights15/02/22 07:27 PM
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Took an hour for you to come up with that drivel? C’mon dude. At least put some effort in. You ignoring that women didn’t cause the idealization of big dicks that 90%+ of them won’t be comfortable having sex with? That’s really the hill you wanna die on dude? So predictable from you. Dodge logic and weave around facts. Edit to say I notice your weird edit with tacked on shit. Knowing where dick shame comes from doesn’t mean you ‘encourage it’. Unless, following that ‘logic’, you encourage genoci…
/r/MensRights15/02/22 07:21 PM
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Good for you. The term you’re looking, and what I’ll continue to use, is toxic masculinity. Use whatever you want. Also pretty easy to Google the definition of toxic masculinity and see how it would apply accurately here.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 07:07 PM
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Not comparable, because having sex isn’t ‘good treatment’. Sex isn’t a reward or a ‘resource’. You can be an extremely kind and supportive partner without having sex. You can be a negligent and abusive partner while having a lot of sex. I’ve had both situations. You’re conflating basic relationship respect with receiving sexual pleasure. These aren’t the same things. Sex is not love. Physical intimacy exists without sex. Closeness and love exist without sex. Why this obsession with when a woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:04 PM
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Boo hoo. Convo doesn’t go how you want so now you’re some victim of the feminine. Block and move on if you don’t like someone.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 06:55 PM
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Convenient to be able to not care about origins. Never said or implied it was only up to men to fix the draft. Anyways…….
/r/MensRights15/02/22 05:40 PM
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If a kid picks up a bad habit from another kid, they’re both doing something bad, and one kid introduced it to the other kid. Acknowledging who ‘started it’ isn’t a crime. I never said men don’t get body shamed. Never said it was false. Argue against my actual comments instead of your other voices. If you can’t handle basic comments don’t go online.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 05:36 PM
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Didn’t ignore it. I’ve acknowledged it several times. I made a comment on how women picked up the ‘small dick energy’ meme from men. That sentence is grammatically correct, don’t see your issue. Seethe and deflect I guess? Edit sick to dick, autocorrect
/r/MensRights15/02/22 05:27 PM
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So where did I body shame men? Unlike your continual weird attempts to ‘fat shame’ me, there isn’t any shaming in this thread. You’re arguing with some shit you made up in your head. Nothing I actually said.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 05:21 PM
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Then purchase yourself out of the draft. Unless you brought that up for a completely irrelevant reason and couldn’t actually find a comparable situation. The draft is a violation of human rights, no one should be forced into military service. I’m not going to pretend that anything other than toxic masculinity caused the draft. The stereotype of men being the ‘strong protectors’ backfired. Two sides of the same coin.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 05:15 PM
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C’mon that’s all you got? And on a brand new account. How predictable. Run away then.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 05:12 PM
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I’ve been a sex worker. I’m a size queen. A fetish is not the norm. But thanks for your half ass and inexperienced attempt at explaining anyways. Most women don’t want a ten inch dick. Big, for them, is max 6.5-7 inches. So like big ish but still frequent enough irl. The most popular dildos for women are 6-8 inches (including the 1-2 inch length you can’t actually fit inside your body that is the handle/suction) because they want a normal sized dick when they’re alone. Porn isn’t real life kiddo…
/r/MensRights15/02/22 05:05 PM
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Which normal people don’t do. This is some random behavioral nonsense made up by a man, so they could find any way to rationalize a woman not fucking them. The small pool of people (men or women) who do this (denying sex to manipulate a relationship) are just emotionally unwell and need counseling. Also, plenty of people go through different stages of their sex lives. Has nothing to do with you as a man. Someone might want more frequent casual sex at one point, and then want to wait for sex late…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:40 PM
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You said women want large dicks. We (general woman population) physically cannot comfortable or even logically fit large dicks in our bodies. So make it make sense. ‘Educating’ lmao heavy handed use of that word for sure
/r/MensRights15/02/22 04:22 PM
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So then why did you default to ‘no u 😡 you’re predictable 😡’? Make your own point. You not knowing anything about the vagina isn’t my problem or fault. Edit there’s the downvote, let’s see what the excuse is this time folks
/r/MensRights15/02/22 04:18 PM
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So you’re saying I believe in equality and hate misandrists? Spot on, looks like this conversation is over. Back to gentle parenting my son.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 04:12 PM
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Yikes. Can’t even make your own reply? C’mon dude, at least try. Add some flair and originality. Not my fault you didn’t know how long vaginas are and have to backtrack.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 04:09 PM
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Nice deflection bc you don’t have an argument. Very predictable.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 03:54 PM
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I said ‘god’ in the slang term and autocorrect capitalized it. I’m not religious. Also yikes, did you stretch before this massive reach? Raising kids and doing the majority of unpaid emotional and physical labor isn’t ‘free at home or for pleasure jobs’. Wish I could afford to be this ignorant about life 🙄
/r/MensRights15/02/22 03:54 PM
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Yikes. Slaves can’t ‘earn’ anything. That’s kind of the whole fucking point of slavery. Y’all want to be oppressed so bad.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 03:52 PM
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I’m sure they would have, if it was legal for single women to open bank accounts and live alone back then. Also, rape exists. Coercion exists. Those women had NO CHOICE for keeping or not keeping their baby. Learn to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:51 PM
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Depends on about 15 different things. Where am I in my cycle? Do I feel like having to shower again when I get home? Did the guy bring his own protection or do I have to babysit him about using a condom? Does the guy seem like he’s having a lot of unprotected sex or does he seem educated about safe sex? Do I have a way to get home later? Do I have anything with me to spend the night if that happens? And on and on. It’s not just ‘hey I like this guy so I’ll punish him by making him wait’. Nor is …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:49 PM
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Nope they deleted at least 20 other comments off this post, not just mine.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 03:45 PM
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Yep. Because the average vagina being 5 inches long means we all want foot long dicks. Totally makes sense. Cope and seethe hun.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 03:44 PM
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Good to know some men are self aware lol
/r/MensRights15/02/22 04:15 AM
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A couple countries, depends. I know several women who had babies adopted out against their will. I know another woman who was allowed to get married at 15, to a grown man, in America in the 70s. Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:14 AM
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Yep. Men couldn’t possibly have started any small dick memes or jokes. Women definitely didn’t hear it from other men and start using it.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 04:13 AM
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Same reason they choose women with huge asses, implants, or injected lips. Humans think ‘more is more’. It’s a porn problem, not a men’s problem.
/r/MensRights14/02/22 11:55 PM
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In the 70s you could also force adoption and pregnancy onto those women. They could be sent away to a ‘single mothers’ camp and have their child literally stolen and placed for adoption if they were unmarried and pregnant. So not exactly the comparison you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:52 PM
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Would you rather have sex once or sex for a while? Who cares when y’all fuck? I waited to fuck my husband until a few dates in because I was switching birth controls and having weird side effects. Had absolutely nothing to do with how I ‘ranked’ him. Not everything is about you, you, you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:38 PM
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Since almost no one is giving an honest answer. It’s because they still want the validation of ‘having a woman’. They generally go for ‘pick me’ women who will do anything for male validation, regardless of how sexist their views/comments are. It’s a toxic circle all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:30 PM
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So was I. He’s not the only director in porn. There’s also many categories and kinds of porn. I’ve been a sex worker and most men prefer porn with average sized penises, or they don’t care about the penis size. Overly large or small preference is more a fetish than the norm. Also generally a fetish held by bisexual or gay men, as straight men don’t tend to focus on the penis during porn.
/r/MensRights14/02/22 11:18 PM
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But then they’d have to actually take accountability and fix their own problems, instead of pushing them onto everyone else
/r/MensRights14/02/22 11:14 PM
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This thread is fucking hilarious lmao
/r/MensRights14/02/22 11:14 PM
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Except for this whole post lmao
/r/MensRights14/02/22 11:11 PM
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I heard that shit from other men so…….
/r/MensRights14/02/22 11:09 PM
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God how I wish this were true
/r/MensRights14/02/22 11:08 PM
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In literally every men’s catalog I’ve ever opened, especially from mall stores like jcpenney and shit like that. All average Joe Schmoe body types or ‘dad bods’
/r/MensRights14/02/22 11:08 PM
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‘Porn’ isn’t a monolith with one standard or expectation. Don’t speak on shit you don’t know about dude.
/r/MensRights14/02/22 11:06 PM
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No no, the penises put in porn (majority filmed and directed by men) are unrealistic. This has nothing to do with women expecting some huge dick that the large majority of us don’t want or like, much less could even fit in our bodies.
/r/MensRights14/02/22 11:05 PM
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Yikes, the moderation is strong on this post. Can’t say shit here except agreeing apparently 🙄 lest you hurt someone’s feelings lmao
/r/MensRights14/02/22 11:02 PM
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seriously how are people not noticing that? Girl made a dumb ducking choice to drink and drive, 10000% deserved a ticket. Not being followed home and harassed while she’s under the influence. Two wrongs don’t make a right.
/r/MensRights14/02/22 10:09 PM
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Yep, totally complaining because she’s hot. Definitely not complaining because a cop is objectifying her and following her home. I’d rather pay the fucking few than deal with that shit. Cops are psychos.
/r/MensRights14/02/22 10:08 PM
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It’s one year retirement age difference, odd but nothing crazy. They obviously should be equal. If you want to retire ‘early’ just beat the system I guess.
/r/MensRights14/02/22 10:01 PM
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Nope. Making it more of a men’s issue. Men wrote the draft, men can complain to other men about it. The draft has little to do with feminism, unless you wanna discuss it from a human rights violation perspective.
/r/MensRights07/02/22 01:44 AM
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Proven how? Plenty of women dating guys of all heights. Some people act like the 10% of guys over 6ft are the only ones having sex or girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:06 AM
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Didn’t mean ‘nice’ as in niceness but I can understand the confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:05 AM
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Didn’t answer my question.
/r/MensRights07/02/22 01:05 AM
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So getting romantic attention isn’t valid in a conversation about romance. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:15 PM
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Good for you girl! Better to date a normal confident man than some sniveling man-child who’s obsessed with ‘chads’. Which, btw, seems a little fruity to me but I digress lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:11 PM
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Seriously. Men want some hot young wife, but degrade a woman for wanting basic financial stability and responsibility. Because one is eye candy, and one is an actual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:10 PM
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The privilege of what? Being self aware and not a gross human being? Oooo, such privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:06 PM
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Yep. Learned it from my dad. Could have just said ‘normal men’ but the standard of normal is skewed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:05 PM
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That your issue isn’t with your height. It isn’t with your face. It isn’t with your hair. It’s with your garbage personality. Probably easier to just ignore than and pretend you’re some ugly beast though, that doesn’t involve becoming a better person or effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:04 PM
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Entropy? Do you know what that word means? Pregnant people can still work out. I’m confused what your actual question is. You’re mad men generally find me more attractive after a baby? Take it up with them. That’s not something I could control, just a side effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:00 PM
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What? Confidence has literally nothing to do with ‘treating you like a princess’. My husband is confident, which means he has his own friends, interests, knows what he likes, sets boundaries, and respects himself. Nothing to do with how he treats me, everything to do with how he treats and values himself. Try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:57 PM
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Tell me you don’t know anything about genetics or skincare without telling me. But hey, at least you admit you’re not a real man lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:45 PM
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Huh? Where did I say they were ‘too high’? Men should have high standards. All people should, you should love yourself enough to want good things for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:43 PM
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So you’re following ‘how to cult 101’. Gotcha. Definitely not super creepy and controlling at all. Why have a woman who can think for herself, when you can control her with religion? The fact that you said ‘godless modernity’ on a smartphone, on social media, is peak irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:30 PM
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So where does it say you have to waste your time? Where is it asking for that? Women don’t like desperate men flinging themselves at us. It’s an active turn-off. We like confident men who know what they want, aka have standards. You realize your comment summarizes all dating, right? That’s literally what dating is. It’s meeting people until you find one you’re compatible with, and you both reciprocate. If you’re dumping energy into women who clearly don’t want you, seek therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:29 PM
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Maybe to you, sure. America does love to push a pedophilic standard of beauty. I’ve found more men hit on me after I had my son, they like the motherly energy and hips. Then again maybe I attract real men, instead of ‘men’ who like fucking ppl who look like kids. Who knows. Weird that you’re projecting your personal image onto my husband. Is it because you’re both 5’11 or…..?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:26 PM
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That men should get higher standards instead of sneering at women for having self respect. Ever think that maybe women don’t want men with ‘’’relaxed’’’ standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:20 PM
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Left out the part where you use religion to ‘keep your wife from straying’ aka manipulation. Religion isn’t a tool to keep your wife somewhere. Maybe focus on being a loving husband instead of a control freak.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:19 PM
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…….okay? If you don’t like women just say that. You don’t have to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:18 PM
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So what planet do you live on where women controlled the military through history? Or could force men to do anything? 🤔 I’m curious
/r/MensRights06/02/22 08:15 PM
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So do you lack the ability to read your previous comment? Women are ‘worth’ whatever they are to someone who likes them. Their size or energy doesn’t dictate what their ‘allowed’ to ask for.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:51 PM
2

Your comment saying men’s standards are ‘much more relaxed’. Aka low. Your standards have nothing to do with what women want, or why they don’t want to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:50 PM
2

So if women have all these great options, why not pick a ‘nice’ one? Your ‘logic’ doesn’t follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:49 PM
1

It 100% is. They’re asking a woman to risk pregnancy and STDs so they can ‘test their compatibility’. As if these guys want more than a warm jerk sock anyway lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:47 PM
1

Yikes dude. So you’re saying men have low standards and only want a pretty face? Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:45 PM
1

This comment is fucking hilarious and wish I had an award for you. Take my poor gold 🥇
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:44 PM
5

Sources? I fucked my husband on our second date because he’s emotionally secure and sensitive. We have a son now and a great little life. Y’all are just bitter and it comes out your pores, women can sense it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:42 PM
3

As opposed to what? Buying a woman on Amazon? How else do you meet a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:40 PM
-4

Well of course, men have lower standards. Not hard to jump through a hoop that’s barely off the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:38 PM
3

So you’re blaming women because men have low standards? Makes sense /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:37 PM
4

Hi, traditional feminine skinny woman here. We don’t want you. Piss off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:36 PM
3

This is honestly, so sad and pathetic. You realize you’re planning emotional abuse and manipulation out loud, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:35 PM
1

And who’s fault is it that men will fuck anything? Hmmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:34 PM
3

So tell me why women regularly end up with dudes that aren’t as hot as they are. Also my husband is 5’11. So it’s possible your pussy-drying attitude is what’s deterring the ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:34 PM
4

Not really. Most of the ‘options’ are just sex-desperate mediocre men, which isn’t really an option at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:17 PM
2

Nice predictable deflection. Internalized misogyny exists. Be mad all you want dude. Men passed the selective service. It was all men, if I’m not mistaken. Considering there were very few women in office at the time. Other men decided your life was worthless. Take it up with them. I don’t think anyone should be drafted. It’s a violation of your basic human rights.
/r/MensRights06/02/22 06:52 PM
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Who starts the wars men ‘have’ to fight in? Who voted in the selective service? Who decided women were ‘too delicate’ to hunt and made it a boys club? Methinks this sub won’t like the answer…..
/r/MensRights06/02/22 06:37 PM
0

Google ‘who voted in the selective service’. Go ahead. The draft also hasn’t been implemented since the 70s.
/r/MensRights06/02/22 06:34 PM
2

Thank you!! I had the same experience in high school and it absolutely sucked. Theater had to raise our entire own budget, band was chronically underfunded, any art program was nonexistent my last two years of high school. I just love art and want to invest in kids and my community. Plus there’s a direct link to funded arts programs and reduced dropout rates, less teen crime, etc. Not to mention it’s a great outlet for kids. One of my favorite quotes is ‘I study war so my son may study art’. It’…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:00 AM
1

That has nothing to do w your claim. I meant like any shred of actual proof. Wanting the best for your kid doesn’t mean disadvantaging other kids, wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:29 PM
1

True based on…..?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:00 PM
1

That’s not what this convo was about. You were ranting that people only care about their own kids. Which isn’t true, and you didn’t want to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:11 PM
2

…..okay? They’re allowed to be bitter people. Doesn’t affect me. I grew up middle class half my childhood, knew parents like that. Also knew great parents who donated to the schools bc they wanted to help less fortunate kids. Assholes exist in any place, that’s life. I support arts and music for kids because they deserve it. Try and make me the bad guy all you want dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:39 PM
1

We did it before we had kids. Or even planned a kid. Our kid might not even go to public school. You can stop projecting your feelings onto others now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:58 PM
3

Huh? No, we opt in for extra taxes. It’s like 1-2% extra/optional for art, music, and play stuff in our state. We literally live below the poverty line. Don’t condescend me. You act like it’s bad to care about other kids? We did this before we had kids. If you’re selfish just say that, no need to insist everyone else is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:55 PM
5

Most parents aren’t like this. What benefits my kid also benefits other children. That’s why my husband and I pay extra taxes for libraries, art programs, playgrounds, etc. We’re poor but want to invest into the safety and education of our community. Because those kids will probably be my kids friends and neighbors one day, and I want them to do good in life as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:46 PM
9

Love if you could name those ‘anti male’ laws. Oh and maybe look up who voted those laws in, as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:43 PM
-1

They typically don’t vote though. At least from what I saw living in the American south. They’re loud and dumb but don’t actually vote most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:42 PM
2

Because, generally, they don’t experience as many hardships that would ‘make’ you understand progressive ideas. Most men I know don’t understand reproductive issues, stalking issues, marital law issues, etc because they aren’t affected by them. Same as how rich people don’t tend to understand the struggles of poor people. There’s also the narrative of ‘I’m the expection’ more among men (in my experience). They’ll vote for laws that don’t even help them, but help people they could be, example wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:39 PM
-4

What? I’m not defending the girl. I’m telling OP to get real advice instead of some ‘women are gonna steal your money’ divorcee rant.
/r/MensRights04/02/22 04:53 PM
9

Mental illness or trauma doesn’t excuse abusing others. Barring severe mental illness, she knows BREAKING AND ENTERING is a crime. Clearly she’s ‘’’normal’’’ enough if she had a relationship. Don’t make excuses for her.
/r/MensRights04/02/22 06:25 AM
-15

Your life isn’t his, or a universal experience. Told OP to judge based on his situation instead of some ranting comment. Seethe I guess.
/r/MensRights04/02/22 06:23 AM
6

Shit take. There is absolutely levels of abuse. Yes people react to shit differently, but there’s few things bigger than repeated sexual crimes against you. There’s trauma and there’s Trauma.
/r/MensRights04/02/22 06:07 AM
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Yikes. Don’t take this random dudes experience as the be-all-end-all. Figure this out based on your actual experience with your ex.
/r/MensRights04/02/22 06:03 AM
0

Okay, doesn’t matter I still see women on it. I don’t care to talk to some bitter dude anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:07 AM
0

Anyone can use Grindr, just not many women do. Don’t see why it’s a ‘bad’ thing, they just don’t prefer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:01 AM
0

Guys shouldn’t get dick pics either. You getting them doesn’t invalidate women not wanting them. I see women on Grindr. Not many, because it’s generally unsafe to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:55 AM
0

I’ve had sex with several virgins. Just be confident instead of sniveling and insecure. Or at least ‘fake it til you make it’.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:54 AM
0

Tinder doesn’t allow distance tracking or photos anymore because of harassment. People got stalked w the distance feature, and obviously sent tons of unsolicited dick pics. Pretty easy to figure out why women don’t want random pics and tracking down to the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:43 AM
-1

It’s more work to date a decent guy than to be single. Like losing money in a business. Having a bunch of shitty options helps exactly zero percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:27 AM
0

‘Hetero Grindr’ yep it’s called tindr, already exists
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:23 AM
1

Not everyone bases lust on ‘ooo muscle’. I’ve met guys at parties that were averagely attractive or even unattractive, and hooked up with them because they had a magnetic personality. Definitely more often than I’ve hooked up with a random hot guy, especially if they weren’t interesting. Mediocre personality is an instant turnoff, but mediocre looks are easy to ‘make up for’ by being kind and well groomed. Most women I know use the logic of ‘if a man is well groomed and kind, he’s likely more at…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:36 PM
1

Wait, do attractive men generally fuck other men? No? Then why is their opinion on male attractiveness relevant? Y’all can play the self pity game all day. Women don’t care about body type, outside of don’t be a skeleton or a circle. They care about personality and frankly, yours doesn’t seem enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:19 PM
0

Lmao what? The projection is strong with this one. I’m 130-135 at 5’7. When I was breastfeeding, I progressively dropped down to 1400 calories a day and lost zero pounds. I also tanked my milk supply. After weaning, I lost weight (20 lbs) eating 2000-2200 calories a day. No change in exercise style or activity level. Y’all can whine all you want. If you don’t understand how female systems function and affect the body, just say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:17 PM
1

Yeah getting laid once isn’t exactly goal of the century. Women like nice confident guys, body type isn’t super important.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:00 PM
0

Metabolism during pregnancy and breastfeeding is a whole other ball game dude. The metabolism of a pregnant woman runs similar to that of a marathon runner, all day every day for almost a year, and stays elevated through breastfeeding. Biology says ‘nurture the baby and body with calories, don’t burn them off, we need it for lean times ’. Biology doesn’t say ‘quick lose this weight now that the baby is out, we need to look skinny and cute’. That’s why many mom blogs tell you to not worry about w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:59 PM
1

Damned if you do and damned if you don’t. Men don’t care to help themselves. They just want to bitch about women and expect us to still fix their problems, just like mommy used to.
/r/MensRights19/01/22 05:36 PM
5

How are you typing while holding a gun…….? Serious question. Can’t be voice to text.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 04:41 AM
6

Oh right I forgot this sub banned women bc they’re women. How dare we want to learn about the possible issues men face to help our own sons. /s
/r/MensRights28/12/21 04:34 AM
5

I mean, with this attitude, there’s a reason they don’t like you.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 03:08 AM
1

I’m wondering who said men are obligated to date women they sleep with. Promiscuous people are usually having more casual sex because they don’t want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:26 AM
1

Yay! So glad they revamped that series and actually made it interesting.
/r/MensRights10/11/21 12:34 AM
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