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Definitely not a good look, especially when its pointed out how rapey it looks but they don't seem to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 11:01 PM
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I can't believe so many adult men in this thread don't understand that no means no. My 7 year old gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 10:40 PM
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If men dont want to be treated like rapists they shouldn't try to coerce women into sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:38 PM
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Its definitely rapey behaviour regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:49 PM
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That doesnt make it ok. No wonder so many women dont trust men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:43 PM
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You dont think any of those behaviours listed in the OP are illegal?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:28 PM
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People could be decent and not coerce others into sex, how about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:50 PM
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A lot of men partake in coercive behaviours but dont want to be seen as coercive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:45 PM
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Dude was charismatic and acted like a decent guy before showing his true colours. They didn't go after him because he was an asshole, they went for him because he pretended to be someone he wasnt. As for the breaking up with the college boyfriend then going back to him, people are generally immature in college and have plenty of growing up to do so thats not unusual at all. People go back to exes all the time because theyre familiar.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:54 PM
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Its not settling to end up with a guy who doesn't beat you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:04 PM
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Bullshit. And abortion isnt murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:12 PM
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That doesnt mean women harass and are more violent than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:29 PM
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Thats not even true. Research shows men have a markedly higher tendency towards post rejection hostility, harassment and violence compared to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 07:20 PM
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The bar is absolutely lower for men. I've been treated like Dad of the year for changing my own kids nappies, parenting my kids, attending school field trips, actually damn near anything I do parenting wise. For my wife it is just expected, not praised by others like I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:32 AM
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I can believe that. A lot of dudes dont seem to believe just how creepy and gross other men can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:15 AM
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Easier to get attention, which is what hes talking about. He also doesn't care if any of the attention is negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:03 AM
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You guys all over estimate how much attention average women get.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:58 AM
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Then how are WOMEN born with their assets?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:09 AM
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Yeah and not all women are hot. Most of them are average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:57 AM
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You said women are born with their assets. Theyre not. Female babies and male babies look the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:54 AM
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Women arent born hot, babies arent hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:48 AM
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Hot people have it easier. Most people are not hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 05:45 AM
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That doesn't even make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:42 AM
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Great, another tangent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 11:11 AM
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Sure you did. Good for you? I'm married with kids so I'm not interested in adding to my tally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:46 AM
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You can't even keep to your own topic. You're all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:27 AM
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No one who gets women talks like this bro. Its like you've googled things to say to make it sound like you know what sex feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 10:08 AM
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Dude has never even touched a woman I bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:54 AM
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No, we continue til I'm done.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:39 AM
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Dude has never had sex before clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:28 AM
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Never had that problem and getting her off first is the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:05 AM
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You say that like its a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:44 PM
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You dont make sense, how does a man and a woman being equal in a relationship make it homosexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:16 AM
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Then literally no one is equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:55 AM
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People can be equal without being the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:44 AM
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Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:38 AM
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Why does equal mean a homosexual relationship to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:37 AM
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What do men offer today?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:15 AM
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Whatever they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 03:49 AM
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Those women arent struggling to find long term partners. Theyre single by choice and dont want one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:11 PM
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Thats not genuine desire, its desire for their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:09 AM
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Women dont say that, men just claim they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:52 PM
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Men having low standards are only screwing themselves over.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:19 AM
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And women cant be competent at anything practical? No, with a bucket, a sponge and a hose. Its very common where I am from.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:34 AM
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So people have to know how to fix a car to be friendship worthy? What a load of shit. I've never heard of a woman trading in a car instead of washing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:56 AM
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Yes but it has mostly been through work and incompetent men. Kids can wash a car bro. Women in general arent incompetent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:44 AM
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How would it harm an activity?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:31 AM
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I can't be curious why other dudes can't seem to manage friendship with a woman? I have a heap of female friends and think dudes are missing out on a good thing by avoiding friendship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:30 AM
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Can do all that with female friends bro. This may come as a surprise to you but women also move house and wash their cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:20 AM
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What do you get from male friendships that you can't get from female friendships?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:00 AM
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Men sell their bodies when they make porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:04 AM
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I'm currently the sole provider in my marriage. It wasnt planned this way, just made things easier after we had a bunch of kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:33 PM
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You think women are shitty partners. If the good ones wanted you, you wouldn't think they're shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:11 PM
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So all the men you've been with have been like that? See you've just described all the women I've been with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:09 PM
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Good women clearly don't want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:02 PM
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Can you just answer the question please?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:46 PM
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No, I am both loved and love others. Could you answer the question please? What has made your male partners so good that women just dont live up to?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:29 PM
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Im not talking about friends, your op is about partners. How many male partners have you had and what made them good partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:14 PM
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How many men have you been in relationships with?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:16 PM
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Wow a whole 12 upvotes, thats so impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:38 PM
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It doesnt matter whether thats your actual goal, thats how your posting comes across.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:05 PM
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Stop thinking of women as the enemy bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:07 PM
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If everyone is reading it that way then maybe people have a point. You're the only accusing me of beating my wife though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:07 PM
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I've not even once laid a hand on my wife in anger. What about my comments suggests I'm a woman beater because thats a pretty insane take?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:54 PM
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You don't even have any kids to protect from any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:46 PM
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Oh thanks. Nothing unattractive about them, I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:54 AM
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What is a hip dip?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:19 AM
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No woman will ever let that dude impregnate her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 08:13 AM
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This is how my marriage works. Equal payment to her retirement fund and she has access to all the bank accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:30 AM
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Nah, I love my wife for who she is not what she does for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:11 AM
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I didnt ask which state, I said where.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:33 AM
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I'm not American so I dont give a shit about childcare fraud in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:15 AM
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Maybe if the fathers were paying for their kids they wouldn't need subsidised childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:07 AM
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Illegal where?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:54 AM
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What do you suggest happens to the kid then? Not raised by mum, not raised by dad. Do they raise themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:49 PM
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Did you read the OP? His idea is for the men to get custody then dump the responsibility on his mum/sister. Im literally responding to his argument. Youre just making up random shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:46 PM
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Where did i say any of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:42 PM
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Making his female family members pick up his slack isnt the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:41 PM
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Then men should step up themselves instead of pushing the work onto other people. Kids should be raised by their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:20 PM
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Your argument is to give men primary custody while still neglecting their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:15 PM
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Men should get primary custody so they can dump the responsibility on someone else? Nah, if they want primary custody they can actually raise their kids themselves like women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:09 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:33 AM
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Its not even the majority though, you've just decided it is, that doesnt make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:09 AM
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Here's a thought, different woman say and like different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:02 AM
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I got your notification for your comment with your other account champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:11 AM
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You're only wasting your own time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:55 AM
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Disagreeing with you isnt bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:55 AM
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Hes special for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:01 AM
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Your links are all YouTube videos, most people wont waste their time watching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:51 PM
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You're talking about social media as if it is real life. Social media is all about click bait and you've fallen for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:50 PM
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Ive told you a few times already I'm not watching your links. Write it all out or quit bothering, I'm not here to watch your videos. Spend less time on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:23 PM
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Social media isnt real life dude. Get a grip on reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:18 PM
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He doesnt have a partner or kids. Hes preparing for his hypothetical future children, that will never exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:09 PM
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Hes been told numerous times. He thinks others reading the comment thread will watch them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:06 PM
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Who? Who is openly admitting to using custody? Not clicking your links.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:52 PM
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He wants the mothers punished.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:37 PM
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If I remember correctly it was your wording that suggested that was your plan re custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:40 AM
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25 years? Haha what a joke. Thanks for the laugh bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:10 AM
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According to this sub a woman who waits too long isnt attracted to him enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 12:42 AM
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Women cant really win in this regard, half of men will say dont give it up too quick and the other half will bail if they dont get it quick enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:53 PM
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You want them to play hard to get?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:24 PM
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Seems like a shit waste of superpower. Sure you could sleep with whoever but that could mean shit sex with someone who just starfishes. There would no guarantee the sex would even be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:19 AM
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There are far uglier women than the women youve posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:42 AM
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Then stop linking in comments to me. I'm not bullying you. Im pointing out that just having a check list isnt enough. There would need to be MUTUAL attraction. You could find a woman who meets all your criteria but looks like a run over foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:50 AM
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Already said I'm not watching that. You are missing a rather large piece of the puzzle. Even if this imaginary woman existed, what are the chances that she would even like you, let alone be attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 03:37 AM
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There are already 'are we dating the same chick/girl' pages. My wife joined our local 'are we dating the same guy' page and the number of cheaters she has come across that we know is insane. Shes shown me whats posted and there is never any sexual details etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:29 AM
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Whatever you say dude. If that was the case how come you dont have a wife and kids already.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:03 AM
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All that shit is very counter productive to your goal bro, women see that shit and will run a mile. If you can't that then you're beyond help.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:09 PM
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Obsessive posts about future fathers days, shitting on feminism, penis monster, mens right, revtrad, posts looking for a partner/offering pussy eating practice. Should I go on?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:15 PM
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His post history is disturbing also.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:31 AM
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Im not watching that. The woman you want doesnt exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:23 AM
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Even if you manage to meet this this 1 in a million unicorn of a woman, what are the chances that you meet all her criteria for a relationship? Think you're pushing shit up hill mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:42 AM
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Which industry is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:51 AM
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I didnt say no men were, but definitely more women. Usually poll answers vary depending on how the question is asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:55 AM
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Theres no conscription in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:28 AM
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You argued that feminists dont do anything to fight conscription.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:27 AM
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Feminists are mainly women, like fuck any of you guys here would be out protesting for their rights. Why do you expect them do it for you? Especially with the way you speak about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:16 AM
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Then quit blaming feminists for mens laziness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:13 AM
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I havent experienced any disadvantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:00 AM
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If men are so anti conscription why don't they fight it themselves? Why do you need women to do it for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:59 AM
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Rape isnt funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 05:32 AM
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People need to understand that life can interfere with their sexual relationship. Shit gets busy, people are tired and kids are hard work. There isn't always time and energy to fuck like bunnies years into a relationship and that the sex won't always happen on a consistent schedule.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:03 PM
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I meant the link to safeandequal, not all that other shit. Your own post said it had faced no public scrutiny in the 5 years its been in place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:56 PM
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Its faced zero public scrutiny so you've said, which mens even men arent speaking out against it. I read through the link, it doesn't seem anti men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:44 PM
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This seems more like a mental health issue than feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:52 PM
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Took all of a few seconds man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:47 AM
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Just proving a point bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:35 AM
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How else we would know you tried to participate in Girldinnerdiaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:30 AM
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Hes a pig for wanting to use women as a fuck hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:48 PM
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My wife and I wouldve done this had I been the lower earner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:47 AM
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Someone who just wants to get laid is a pig who just wants to stick his dick into women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:38 AM
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Then why is 'women initiate more divorces' repeatedly used as an argument in this sub? This this thread even. Because you dont mind blame as long as its towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:41 AM
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That just because more women initiate divorce doesn't mean shes the one at fault for the relationship ending. Dudes on this sub, and others blame women for the high divorce rate when in actuality it doesnt mean jack shit if you dont take into account what ended the relationship in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:07 AM
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Im saying who initiates the divorce isnt necessarily the person who ended the relationship. Husband walks out of a relationship ending it. Wife then the one to file for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:51 AM
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Women initiate the divorce after the relationship is already ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:43 AM
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Single doesnt mean never had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:25 PM
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Average guys have girlfriends/partners. Most men arent virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:06 PM
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My interest in women isnt only sexual. Thats all you bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:00 PM
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Guarantee she picked up on your superior attitude so yeah I very much doubt she will speak highly of the date, or you for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:17 AM
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Your wording suggests you do. You talk negatively about her throughout your post. Get your ego in check if you want to have better luck in future.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:06 AM
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Youre not judging anyones hobbies yet you refer to hers as lacklustre, sounds pretty judgy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:00 AM
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Sounds like you think youre better than her because she likes video games and you like pretentious art galleries.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:55 AM
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No, exciting and magical are OPs words. She is pretty fuckin great though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:03 AM
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If they aren't exciting and magical then why do you want one so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:36 AM
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Everyone should have high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:41 AM
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The women are doing a pretty good job of explaining it themselves. They dont need your 'help'.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:23 AM
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Whats the purpose of yours in this post asking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:05 AM
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Sure man, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:26 AM
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Kinda sounds like youve taken a lot of dick bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:08 AM
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Hahaha you say that as if men never lie about anything
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:34 AM
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I am referring to the dudes here, not dudes in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:32 PM
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Hell no, I've never met dudes in person who say shit like what goes on in here. My comment is about the guys in here, making post after post, those dudes are not ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:30 PM
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How many wars have you fought in? Im at a whopping zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:09 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:06 AM
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The opposite of whatever OP meant by fine in his post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:45 AM
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Explain this whole sub then. Those who post are not fine by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:36 AM
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The posts in this sub certainly do not give the impression that men are fine on their own nor do women care if they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:30 AM
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Hours in day - hours asleep - hours working = ??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:29 AM
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Never had one, i've never asked, shes never brought it up. Its irrelevant to me anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:52 AM
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If you want to be a bum bro then just do it. Most people are spending the greater part of their day working, not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:10 AM
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Having a job is less than the bare minimum bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:01 PM
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Did you read your own source? That doesn't say they've never been on a date with a woman, it says 44% didn't have any romantic relationships during THEIR TEENAGE YEARS.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:27 PM
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Most average looking dudes are getting dates just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:55 PM
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I was repeating back what he had said, he mentioned grooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:32 PM
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Most dudes are not getting plastic surgery to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:31 PM
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Maximum effort is have a job, work out, bathe and dont dress like a slob?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:22 PM
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Having a job and going to the gym considered high effort these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:15 PM
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Gaslight society how?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:53 PM
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The manosphere thrives because many men want maximum results with minimal effort and thats what the manosphere tries to sell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:49 PM
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This sounds like some form of prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 11:34 PM
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You treated that man like a weirdo though. You're not owed love from anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:34 AM
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You said some dude approached you and you lied about your name etc, why is it ok for you but not ok for women? To women, a lot of men approaching are just like that creepy weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:12 AM
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What do you want feminists to do about the mens loneliness epidemic?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:54 AM
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Sure there is, you can't stop people from judging you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:00 PM
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So its ok for you to not be honest but women should be?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:30 PM
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If both people want the same thing theres no issue. The issue arises when one wants to force someone else into traditional roles to suit themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:17 AM
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Her posts arent complaining about dudes not fucking her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:15 AM
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Its a women wont fuck bi men post. Clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:54 PM
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Women dont tend to make 'men won't fuck me' posts on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:34 PM
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Or they just dont make a big deal about it, nor try and make it other people's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:24 PM
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Then stop referring to it as loneliness when its obviously sexlessness youre bitter about. There are sexless women too. Less of them but they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:09 PM
4

Then call it what it is, sexlessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:59 PM
13

Real life should be fake?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:21 AM
15

Real life isnt a porno.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:53 AM
1

Id say anyone is perfectly equipped to solve their loneliness. Some people just expect women to do it for them, via sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:06 PM
1

Separate, a person could have sex with 50 people and still be lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:46 PM
2

Sex is one thing that no one is owed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:34 PM
7

Youre a part of society, being part of society means giving a shit about the safety of others. You dont need to go over the top supporting people but punishing people for not fucking you is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:33 PM
5

The op isnt talking about friendships. His whole argument is about not getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:53 PM
4

A person could have sex with 50 people and still feel lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:52 PM
6

Its not about owing anything, its about being a decent human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:48 PM
121

Loneliness and sexlessness are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:54 AM
3

My wife is the same no matter how much I tell her she doesnt need to apologise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:27 AM
14

In my experience women over apologise, often when an apology isn't needed as they weren't even at fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:06 AM
2

Men who think that are delusional. Their bank balance may peak then but thats about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:45 PM
1

No. She works hard too raising the kids while I'm working. If I wanted to sleep with other women I wouldn't have gotten married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:34 PM
1

If someone has to perform niceness then theyre not actually nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:47 PM
0

Saying men have rights to sex inside a marriage is rapist speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:09 AM
48

By that logic keep an eye out on your husband coz if he helps a woman he must want to fuck her. Some men might be like this but not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:19 PM
5

You think average men arent attracted to average women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:39 AM
6

If shes not attracted to him then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:15 AM
6

Any time a game is announced with a not so attractive female character there is uproar from man fans about her not being hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:11 PM
8

And you ignored every instance of sexual music by men that got mentioned, even more so when the man was black.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:04 PM
4

No women should lower their standards, some need to raise them even.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:48 AM
0

Yes they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:44 AM
2

What solutions do you suggest?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:39 AM
6

Clearly the relationships where she banged them after 2 dates didnt work and maybe shes trying something different this time in the hopes that it will.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:52 AM
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I never said women didn't. Women do for sure, but so do other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:31 AM
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A lot of those insults come from other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:16 AM
–

The dudes in that sub need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:15 AM
5

Outlawing abortion and wanting women to be sahm are about control. Women do care about mens issues, theyre just not about to leap in and solve them for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:05 PM
1

I didn't seek out my job, they came to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:43 AM
-2

Him?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:34 AM
-1

Don't know, we dont feel the need to discuss every aspect of our pasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:23 AM
26

My wife and I selected each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:05 AM
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I have passions, hobbies, a job, money and a family
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:43 AM
6

No, I think they no longer want it when its a shitty deal for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:47 PM
-1

No, I think they become desperate and either dont know or dont care that its not attractive and then get pissed off when women are interested. It puts women off them even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:37 PM
5

The sooner men learn desperation isn't attractive the better it'll be for them, and everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:59 AM
3

I was selective from the start because I'm not desperate. Can't speak for other dudes though...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:11 AM
34

Women have to audition too. I wasn't about to wife up the first woman who showed interest. I kept looking til I found what I wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:18 AM
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Even old grannies have an easy time finding men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:16 AM
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No one, theyre alone in their mum's basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:37 AM
10

Not everyone wants to be paired off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:58 AM
11

I dont want to pair everyone off. I dont want people to feel obligated to form relationships with people they arent attracted to and arent compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:15 AM
1

You gotta a source to back that up coz it sounds likes its been plucked?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:10 AM
29

Not sure why so called looks matches are repeatedly brought up on this sub. Just because 2 people are of apparently equal attractiveness doesnt mean they'll be automatically attracted to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:24 PM
24

How about proposing a solution then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:33 PM
3

Trying a finger without asking is assault too bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:40 PM
5

It may be reality but it is also controlling. Doesnt make it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:49 AM
6

Pair bonding isnt a thing and if it were people wouldn't pair bond with people theyre not compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:49 AM
10

Have a grown up conversation when you realise you're not compatible with someone, it isn't hard. Guarantee you leave your wife over her getting a tattoo or for her refusing anal, and you'll be laughed out of every room full of people who know about it. Its pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:16 AM
8

I think theres a slight difference between threatening to leave your wife because she wont let you fuck her in the ass, and threatening to leave her if she murders someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:34 AM
12

Yeah thats a logical act to leap to, murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:14 AM
11

Not hard to just tell someone you're not compatible without making any threats.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:32 AM
14

Common sense actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:31 AM
12

Those are not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:11 AM
21

I already said its not controlling to leave. Its the threatening to leave if someone doesnt comply with your demands that makes it controlling. You are saying do what I want or else, that is a form of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:02 AM
14

You are trying to control someone elses behaviour by threatening to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:01 AM
13

Its not controlling to just leave. It's controlling to threaten leaving when someone refuses to comply with your demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:57 AM
25

Ultimatums are a form of control. You're basically saying do what I want or else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:52 AM
31

If you feel the need to give ultimatums then your relationship is fucked anyway. Anyone who would leave their wife because theyre obsessing over sex acts shes done in the past is a fuckin moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:50 AM
5

Its not a matter of effort, takes fuck all effort for me to have an orgasm. Half the fun comes from making her cum. You should try it some time. Worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:39 PM
18

I wouldn't leave. Firstly I'm not into butt sex and secondly what she did with previous dudes isnt relevant to my relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:17 PM
20

Almost every woman I know works and provides for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:27 AM
20

Where are all these women seeking providers?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:51 AM
3

No, mine divorced when I was at high school because my dad kept cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:18 PM
6

There would definitely be some.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:48 AM
5

I would let her explain herself but the relationship would be over.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:04 AM
3

New Zealand too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:56 AM
3

You won't be competing with prostitutes. In NZ prostitution is legal and its only the bottom of the barrel dudes paying for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:55 AM
35

Why do most arguments against feminism always come back to your sex life. Says a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:19 PM
1

Studies on emotional intelligence show women outperform men in 11 of 12 measures. Why am I not surprised you only focus on the ONE where its reversed. Putting in more hours doesn't mean you get to avoid chores altogether. Sure the contribution would be smaller but you live there, you contribute to the mess, you eat the food, so you can clean up after yourself and do your share.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:22 PM
3

Why do care what other people masturbate to? It really doesn't affect you in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:25 AM
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Yeah you're asking the wrong people. Only fuck boys know the answer to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:18 AM
6

I said SOME dudes bro, not all. Plenty of dudes with fat women as partners or wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:17 AM
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Cheat with other married people or prostitutes. Fuck boys won't suddenly be ok with fucking one person. They'd find a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:55 AM
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And plenty of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:47 AM
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You may not need attraction but the majority of people do. Thats generally what differentiates romance from friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:23 AM
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You aren't owed anyone's attraction. Employment and relationships are not the same thing. People are entitled to choose who they fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:07 AM
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People not being attracted to you isn't discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:56 AM
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A strong social circle and hobbies can often lead to romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:54 PM
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Theyre not gaslighting you. Theyre letting you know that your looks arent the only thing getting in your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:30 PM
0

Complain about women choosing assholes while simultaneously being assholes themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:10 PM
-1

Anecdotal. My experience is the opposite and its mainly the dudes that have monkey branched.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:00 PM
2

Some men do need do better much like some women do. If you take offence to the statement then it likely applies to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:54 PM
12

Some dudes like fat women. Research shows women are generally more emotionally intelligent than men. Don't forget anger and expression of anger is also emotional and a lot of men sure as shit dont have good control of that. Working more hours doesn't earn you a personal maid. If you live in a household, you contribute to the running and maintainance of that household. If you cant clean up after yourself, pay for a maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:53 PM
3

Yes but when I asked you where his accountability was you still made it about her and what she was doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:18 AM
3

The law isnt required to force feed it to women. Men seem to be the ones requiring that. Think that shows who really needs to work on showing accountability and it isnt women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:46 PM
2

Why are women expected to take accountability for their actions themselves but men only if it's forced upon them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:39 PM
4

So he isnt taking accountability, the law is holding him accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:22 PM
8

Again you're putting all the accountability on the woman and failing to put any on the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 09:10 PM
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Thats a whole lotta words for lets hold women to a higher standard but dont you dare expect the same from us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 09:08 PM
9

Man gets a girl pregnant out of wedlock with a hook up or fling, refuses to marry the girl, refuses to be a father to the child, tries to demand an abortion. Where's his accountability in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:22 PM
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I dont think you know what accountability means. If you did you'd know men also avoid accountability. Certain people will always avoid accountability, gender doesn't come into it. You just want to be mad at women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:03 PM
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Choice is choice. Men dont have to opt for crappy choices. Accountability for all. If women should choose better, men should too. Again, number of options is irrelevant, some women would have only as many options as some men. Not everyone is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:56 PM
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But men still choose, they can choose to reject their options if its not someone they're interested in or attracted to. According to this sub there are an abundance of gold diggers and baby trappers about. If its aimed at women it should be aimed at men too. To deny that is to avoid the accountability you expect from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:35 PM
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Thats irrelevant, they may have less options but they still make choices. Typical to expect accountability from women but absolve men from it altogether. No surprises there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:15 PM
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Cant have one without the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:51 AM
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You do realise that would mean an increase on whats paid in child support currently for the majority of people? And that is more inline with my initial comment stating child support should represent the actual cost of raising a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:56 AM
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What counts as essentials in your view?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:45 AM
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The price of a basket of essentials would mean struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:36 AM
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So you wouldn't give a shit if your child struggled while not in your care? Please dont breed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:08 AM
11

See I think child support should reflect the actual cost of raising a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 11:36 PM
3

Not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:55 AM
10

OP proposed demonisation of step fathers of all people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:17 AM
15

You dont know how someone will parent until they become one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:40 AM
15

If a man doesnt agree to equal custody but instead avoids it then he should be required to pay hers then. Edit: most women want the dad in the kids lives. Its the men choosing not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:17 AM
21

Nah, 50/50 is increasing all the time. Both parents will have legal fees to pay and yeah whoever has more custody will get more child support. There are multiple studies on this. Keep that blindfold on though bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:00 AM
22

In contested custody cases, men who ask for custody get it between approx 70 - 90 percent of the time. The issue is, a lot of the time the men dont actually want custody of their kids. In an ideal world default 50/50 would be the norm but actual dads are gona need to step up if this is to become reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:50 AM
22

When dads ask for custody they get it. Unfortunately too many are happy with a lot less.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:43 AM
45

How about demonise dead beats and neglectful parents instead. If a Dad is doing his share of parenting his kids then there would be no need for step dads to pick up their slack.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:37 AM
5

Large doesnt mean mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:57 PM
-1

Id rather die alone that fuck a sex robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:43 PM
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Yes I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 09:06 AM
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I have a son. I want him to be himself whatever that might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 09:00 AM
7

Gotta be employed to afford that bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:52 AM
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My wife watches the game with me and wants sex just as much as I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 08:31 AM
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Dude is just a selfish ass that wants bjs coz theyre all about him. If it was an issue of sexualising you he wouldn't want bjs either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 12:09 AM
1

Yeah hes not the only billionaire in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:44 PM
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Its not failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:09 AM
3

There would definitely be an upgrade from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:31 AM
4

So women in general are all high value then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:17 AM
11

Jay Z looks like a foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:11 AM
4

Men do release oxytocin during sex. Levels spike during and stay elevated for approx 30 mins after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 09:46 PM
10

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:30 AM
16

They shouldn't lower their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 01:16 AM
5

Thats true for most guys here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 01:15 AM
17

You specifically saying women can choose who they want isnt the norm of the red pill dudes on this sub though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 01:06 AM
21

Theres post after post on here complaining about women's standards and how they need to lower them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:52 AM
33

Then why do they frame it as unfair and claim something needs to be done about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:20 AM
-1

Everyone is capable of bad behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 02:44 AM
2

In NZ 86% of the fire service is made up of volunteers. Approx 15% are women. The women don the gear and put out the fires just like the men do. Theres no hiding doing office work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:01 PM
1

Women like sex too bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:56 PM
0

Figured as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:13 AM
0

Why does there need to be a reward? Do you need a participation certificate just for existing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:47 AM
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I'll take listening to women over whatever the hell this is anyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:37 AM
3

No its not. Sex is about mutual attraction and pleasure not rewarding someone's behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:29 AM
4

Sex isnt a reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:06 PM
3

Being older doesn't stop someone from being a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:02 PM
0

Because thats what the post is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:01 PM
4

Nope, you made a list of the shit you changed as you got older. Some peeps get to that sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 04:39 AM
9

Nah plenty of men in that age range have hobbies and a heap of those characteristics you took ages to develop.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:30 AM
14

Nah bro, broke and living in parents basement is pretty much the definition of loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:26 AM
4

Probably an ai bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:23 AM
16

Its not better coz youre older. It got easier coz you stopped being a broke loser living in his parents basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 03:21 AM
3

The courts would decide much like they do when men are accused of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:12 AM
8

People who are raped shouldn't have to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:21 AM
4

No but the post is about men beating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 09:55 AM
6

How is any of that relevant. Can you focus on the actual topic being discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:56 AM
4

Be more specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:49 AM
15

Because you cant force a medical procedure on another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:40 AM
13

The baby wouldn't exist without the sperm. The cost of raising a baby far outweighs the amount of child support the primary parent receives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:40 AM
18

Because its his kid, if he didnt jizz inside her then the kid wouldn't exist. Why should it be anyone elses responsibility than the 2 people who made it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:33 AM
20

No, he gives up control when he leaves his share in her oven.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:12 AM
19

You make the baby, you support the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:08 AM
16

Explain control. Not sure exactly what you mean by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:03 AM
20

And if she doesn't want to modify her body either? Vasectomy, wrap it up or no nookie for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:02 AM
1

Fuck no. No excuse for violence against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:49 AM
29

If we supply half the ingredients then yes we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:48 AM
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The reward for working hard is a good life and a decent paycheck not a woman. You could be the hardest working dude in the world and you still arent owed a young virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:00 AM
3

The same things men do wrapped in different packaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:21 AM
25

Bi women date more men because there are more men than bi women or lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:21 AM
3

If you need to splash money around to get someone's attention thats all they'll want from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:42 PM
3

They do, they feel the same way about your pay cheque.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:41 PM
14

Where was your father in all this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 09:14 AM
9

Got sources for all that? And okcupid doesnt count. Edit: its a bit redundant to reply to all my comments then block me bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 09:04 AM
9

Thats gona depend on the man. What does he want and is she willing to offer it. Should be a two way street of course but if either aren't happy there's no need to stay in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:55 AM
5

Deaf? What kinda dumbass would ask that question when none of this conversation is audible. Self own bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:10 AM
8

Go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:04 AM
7

Reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 07:38 AM
6

So what, if its not something they want they dont just have to accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 07:13 AM
5

Yours included.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:43 AM
2

Well now you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:42 AM
3

Yes, me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:18 AM
4

Most of the talking points on this sub are wrong in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:13 AM
5

Yeah no, everyone is not working and taking care of the household though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:11 AM
18

More, not all, plus the women are busy working too, its not the 1950s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:06 AM
19

Who says they're actually doing equal labour though? Its less lopsided than it was in the past but it sure isnt equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 05:45 AM
10

Well you'd need to ask them for specifics but if women are earning their own money and dont want a seemingly lesser man than themselves, then it makes sense that youre going to have to have something else to offer if what youre currently offering aint cutting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 05:28 AM
19

Its not entitlement to want an equal partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 04:37 AM
17

No, they complain about men who cheat, cheaters arent just the top whatever percent of men, regular men and bottom of the barrel men will also cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 04:36 AM
16

Being a decent, genuine person with a good sense of humour seems to do the trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:48 AM
12

If women only wanted a pay cheque theyd only be going after rich dudes and wouldn't give a shit about making their own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:44 AM
17

Speak for yourself man. A lot of average men have plenty to offer women, and have women who are interested in what they have to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:43 AM
19

You're delusional if you think only the so called top men cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:40 AM
11

Men only care about mens issues in regards to how it effects them as an individual, not as a general group. Women on the other hand care about issues for women in general, and also mens though to a lesser extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:41 AM
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Men need to offer more than just a pay cheque, thats not a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:39 AM
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Fat dudes are a thing too bro. If you dont want to date fat chicks then dont, no one is forcing you to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 12:58 AM
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People arent going to suddenly be attracted to less attractive people. Meet someone's standards or miss out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:54 PM
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You cant force attraction. Wanting women to get into relationships with people they arent attracted to is the perfect recipe for resentment and a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:10 PM
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Women swipe on people theyre attracted to. I dont see how thats a problem. Its not their fault theyre not attracted to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 07:44 PM
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This appears to be some kind of strange rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 08:11 AM
1

He was shitting on some woman's comment being the exception when his viewpoint is also the exception, not the norm. Its called debate not lets all agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:30 AM
7

For you, dating is too much work for you. Other men dont seem to have that problem. Theyre going about their lives dating, getting into relationships etc without issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:47 AM
6

Have you considered that your view that dating is too much work for straight men may also be an exception and that actually the norm is that most men can actually get dates etc no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 01:38 AM
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You think most women are in unsatisfying relationships? You mustn't think too highly of men then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 11:40 PM
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So most women then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 09:51 PM
1

I only have great sex. Majority of dudes would rather have sex and get an orgasm even if the sex is bad, than not have sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 09:24 AM
10

Its better than not getting off at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:37 AM
28

A man can still get off during bad sex. For a woman that aint happening and can actually be painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:34 PM
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Fat people are partnered up all over the place. Fat men with fat women, fat women with thin men, thin women with fat men. Its all there. Some fat women dont want fat men, some fat men dont want fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 09:18 PM
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Its not an insult but a lot of men will take it as one which is why its so effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:59 PM
4

Has it so far? Shaming and trying to guilt someone for not fucking someone is manipulative as all shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:02 AM
5

I dont know the answer, shaming women for not wanting to fuck someone isnt it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:45 AM
2

Not from complaining about it on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:23 AM
3

It doesn't need to be called out, people can date who they want and refuse those they dont. It isnt really anyone elses business and no amount of complaining about it will change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:38 AM
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So we should all be sleeping around?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:13 PM
1

Sure men are likely more visual in terms of how they get aroused. Womens arousal is more reactive. But if women think anyone is hot then theyre clearly visual too. If women weren't visual no one wouldn't be complaining about women's standards because theyd be fucking any old random neckbeard looking dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:07 PM
1

You think most people are in relationships with people who dont even like them?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:56 PM
3

Why do you think bi women are obligated to date bi men? Straight men dont have to date straight women just because both are straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:55 PM
1

The best relationships are when things are mutual. A relationship where she likes him more may benefit him more.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:01 PM
3

Most older men are not that. Women are visual too and its important that they also attracted to their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:45 PM
9

Old men are wrinkly and bald, how is that a benefit for a woman .
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 01:03 AM
1

Thats not womensplaining, if thats even a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:01 PM
1

Who are women in relationships with then? Last I checked they weren't all lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:14 AM
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Chances are those with 100 likes would still turn to nothing. Having to sift through all that shit would become a chore and theyd likely stop searching or theyd be at it all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:38 PM
1

Making rules is their job. You can cry about it all you like but its been done with good intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:03 PM
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They have, moderating the sub includes banning over posted topics that more often than not encourage hatred, misogyny and violence. The mods have done their job for the benefit of the sub they moderate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 09:41 PM
1

A man will get 2 who are actually interested in them as a person, a woman will get hundreds of likes from dudes who haven't even read her profile and swipe on everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 08:31 PM
1

They were blaming women, hence why it was banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:55 PM
3

Then yes, I hold others to the same standard. Venting is fine, blaming your problems on others, especially when its misplaced blame, is a problem. That sub didnt want to devolve into a cesspit of hatred which is exaclty where it would've been heading.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:52 PM
1

All women have their faults much like men do. Blaming them for everything going wrong in a mans life is a whole other thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:23 PM
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I don't run that sub, i'm merely speculating. I imagine its much like the n counts/ looks posts on this sub though. People don't want the same old shit in every post. Plus constantly blaming anyone and everyone but yourself shows a major failure to take accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:18 PM
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There's a difference between venting and blaming women for their dating woes. I suspect the latter was the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:28 PM
37

I chase money and material things coz I like having nice stuff. Sex has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:41 AM
8

Reality disagrees bro. Look around, its not hard for women to secure a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:34 PM
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Nope, approximately 20% aged 18-29 are classified as obese in Austin Texas. Again this does not include those who are overweight, only those classified as obese. Also over 30% of kids in Texas are either overweight or obese. This number increases as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 01:17 AM
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Its still a large amount of obese people. Jumps up to about 60 % when you account for overweight. Thats not gym maxed or whatever you call it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:26 PM
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The obesity rate is about 30% in Austin Texas. That doesnt even take into account those who are simply overweight. Me thinks youre talking about your arse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:19 PM
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What planet is this happening on?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:01 PM
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Its bullshit when speaking in general too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 06:31 PM
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Nope, I don't cheat on my wife. I am fully committed to her and she gets plenty of positive attention and gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 09:39 AM
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Never paid for it, never will. Cant understand why some men are desperate enough to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:07 AM
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Id rather have sex with women who actually want me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:44 PM
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Thats kinda the point bro, using his own stupid argument against him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:20 PM
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The one night stand wants to fuck you, the escort wants your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:22 PM
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I'm not sure why he is surprised, people who get paid to do something are generally good at what they do, even if its faked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 03:15 AM
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She was doing what you paid her for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:27 AM
1

I am aware of YOUR President sure. I am not American myself. Theres a whole world out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:51 PM
1

Being kind and generous makes someone a simp? Thats ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:22 PM
2

So if men have these qualities they are feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:44 PM
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If you get to a point in a relationship where doing nice things for your partner is too much for you then the relationship has run its course.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:17 AM
7

Then explain femininity?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 07:13 AM
6

They know more about it than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 06:40 AM
13

So if men are open, kind, generous, giving, authentic and caring, thats makes them feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 02:27 AM
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You're telling women they dont know what femininity is but somehow you think you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 11:16 PM
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A man trying to tell women what femininity is...hmm I'm sure there's a word people use for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 11:09 PM
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Oh I know, I only mention it as its pretty commonly mentioned and believed to be true on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 07:27 PM
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No you avoided outright saying yes. So why do women on here get so much hate if theyre just doing what's natural?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 07:26 PM
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How is that lifestyle supposed to benefit women though?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:33 AM
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"Are you just exaggerating or do you genuinely believe those things are true for all women." Sure some might.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:30 AM
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I never said all women. Sure there will be a small percentage of mostly religious women who believe men are the head of the household etc and that the women's job is in the home but for the most part that isn't the case. An explanation for why some women convert? Youd need to ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:20 AM
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You said it shouldn't be the norm for women to have jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:01 AM
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Women want the freedom of choice much like men do. They want to choose their own jobs, make their own money so theyre not dependant men. They want to be able to make decisions for themselves. Very few women convert as adults, more leave religion altogether
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:00 AM
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Because they dont know any better and are raised to think thats how things should be. A lot of them come to their senses though when they realise the men theyre stuck with are basically oversized toddlers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:50 AM
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Women want jobs though, thats the whole point. They dont want to be cooking for and cleaning up after a grown man. Its not pitching in or helping her. He should do his share because he lives in the house and contributes to the mess, not as a favour to her as if its her job. Clean up after yourself or move back in with your parents. Women dont want to mother you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:39 AM
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That would only benefit men. Women dont want to be domestic slaves for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 08:32 AM
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Men tend to pay more and earn more. Part of the reason women contribute less tax is biological, women have higher costs for health services due to their biology and do more of the child rearing. Theres also the gender pay gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 07:28 AM
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People pay taxes, men and women, thats how society works. If you dont want to pay taxes then go off grid and stop using services that other people's taxes pay for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:58 AM
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Is it natural for women to go after these men? Yes or no will suffice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:23 AM
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Id rather you just answer my initial question instead of trying to avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:48 AM
3

So its natural for women to only go after the top (insert percentage here) of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:43 AM
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That's a whole other discussion but I would say male promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:08 AM
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Then why are dudes in this sub constantly shitting on women and calling them gold diggers, even when its not true, if theyre apparently just doing what comes naturally?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:55 PM
2

Money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:53 PM
29

Are the women only doing whats natural by going after men who are loaded?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:10 PM
3

Men are more vocal about their loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:37 PM
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How exactly do you want others to show their empathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:41 PM
5

You want all the women killed off and your country to be become a complete sausage fest?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:08 PM
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From what I can tell they do have empathy, they just dont show it by having sex with those men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:09 AM
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33% of 25 year old men are overweight, when combined with obese it jumps up to 65% combined. Just accept the fact that young men are fat too. In 18-24 range its close to 20% just in the obese category.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:13 PM
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Nope, approximately 65-70% of men aged between 20 and 39 in the US are classified as either overweight or obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:04 PM
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And young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:31 PM
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Then why did my wife suggest eloping?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:12 PM
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No, men are fat too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:10 PM
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Nope, your type is who youre attracted to. If someone else likes you that makes you their type not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:28 PM
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Women don't want to be forced into relationships they dont want, I see from your comments thats what you think should be happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:26 PM
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Pharmaceutical use? I assume you mean for depression and anxiety? I raise you the male suicide rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:22 PM
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Well congrats, because of that view a lot of women dont give a shit about men and theyre doing just fine. Its the men who are lagging.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:25 AM
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Why should a woman give a shit about your feelings? A woman shouldn't have to sacrifice anything for a person she doesn't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:32 AM
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Women dont need to defend their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:20 AM
5

Men have plenty to lose by cheating. Grass is greener where its watered. Men can lose relationships, family, and trust by cheating much like women can. Plus if someone will cheat with you, they'll cheat on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:35 PM
10

Dressing single? There's no dress code for being single or being in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:28 PM
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No sure why you think a fight is required. When you ask someone on a date just be sure to mention you want to split dinner or whatever the date is. It isn't hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:56 PM
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This is psychotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:06 AM
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As a man I have never once considered myself to be available to the public. No one should be automatically available to the public.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:08 AM
3

Every person on earth is capable of acts of casual sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:02 PM
0

Wow a heap of examples from the 1800s, its like it was just yesterday. Not sure why you think those example are relevant for today.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:01 PM
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Women wanting marriage and children is decreasing every day. In younger generations more men than women want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 02:20 AM
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I actually dont think anyone is the prize and have never heard it outside of this sub, hence why I am commenting based on what ive read on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:58 PM
2

Oh I know they don't, but how can men be the prize if a lot of them - based on what I see on this sub, aren't wanted at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:26 PM
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Men care, they are constantly complaining in this sub about the amount of likes or attention women get on dating apps while they get none.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:41 PM
3

As a married man, surrounded by other married or partnered people, I know that, but overall in young and middle age more men are single than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:33 PM
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Yeah sure but to be the prize as op puts it, you have to be wanted at all, a lot of men arent wanted at all, that was the point i was trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:26 PM
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Old men or women chasing young men or women are both gross old perverts, no double standard there. Also young men and women dont generally want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:12 PM
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Wanted is wanted, either way women are generally wanted, men not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:02 PM
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A lot will yeah, not every man is a gross old pervert chasing younger women. Most people get into relationships and marry people who are a similar age to themselves. In the scenario you describe Mr Law degree hasnt been snapped up by anyone either so perhaps isnt the prize he thinks he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:01 PM
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Prizes are wanted by people though, men arent wanted by as many women, most women are wanted by men. Also sperm quality decreases with age, with increased risk for genetic mutations, neurodevelopment disorders and other health issues for the resulting children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:43 PM
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The only time I've heard the women and children thing was when my kids watched titanic, oh and dudes complaining about it in this sub, and somehow ignoring the fact that boys are children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:09 PM
2

Red pill does not mean reality, the matrix is a movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:05 PM
5

You don't speak for men then, who are you to decide what men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:02 PM
3

Disagree, men are far more vocal about women's baggage than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:15 AM
6

Its just as common for men to carry over baggage from god knows how many relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:31 AM
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How about no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:28 AM
16

Face definitely matters for a lot of guys, probably even most.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:26 AM
4

Just because someone is your size equivalent doesn't make a match.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:21 AM
18

Men dont want submission, YOU want submission.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:47 AM
6

So why are you ignoring the fact that its now law? If you want to argue about shitty laws etc from the past then the women will win this argument every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:31 AM
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Florida is one state out of how many? And a red one at that. The research shows that when men ask for split custody they get it the majority of the time. Also I just looked up Florida and its a 50/50 time sharing aka custody, state.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:26 AM
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Court decisions are generally whats in the best interests of the child and family court believes its in the best interests of the child for both parents to be involved. Most fathers do not even request custody. Youre already ignoring the research available on this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:09 AM
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Men do get custody when they ask for it though, thats not a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:57 AM
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Dudes in this sub do exactly the same thing, ignore any proof, deny the results of any research.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:52 AM
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Research suggests its actually women that require variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:13 PM
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You are allowed to argue with women. Where does it say you can't?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:06 PM
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Why is women having surgery easy but men getting surgery hard? Plumping an ugly woman's tits and lips isnt going to make her hot if the rest of her face is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:10 AM
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You havent contributed though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 03:54 AM
9

Ill take that to mean unemployed then. Why should the safety net only protect mens jobs? Women need jobs too. We all have bills to pay regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:37 AM
9

Women didnt have a choice back then. Jobs should be available to everyone. What job do you do that was stolen by a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:19 AM
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Stealing their jobs? Ha good one. They're not mens jobs, they're peoples jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:38 AM
6

Yes they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:20 AM
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I'm aware they can. The majority arent, just like the majority of men arent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:52 AM
5

Huh? This isn't even your post unless you're rockin multiple accounts. Is that all you all you want women to do? Not say mean things?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:46 AM
5

Most women dont go around bad mouthing men all day. Is that it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:41 AM
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How exactly do you want women to help men? What should they be doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:47 PM
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Dude refers to basic adulting and contributing to chores as slavery. God forbid men are expected to contribute to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:21 AM
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The whole post is an example as to why women are choosing to stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:59 AM
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I took his words and re-stated them, literally reading what is there. If it wasn't what he meant then why did he say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:50 AM
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Isn't it? "They expect men to open the doors and, clean the house be equal. Basically be like their servant" Direct quote by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:46 AM
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On what planet is wanting to be equal the same as expecting someone to be a servant?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:26 AM
1

Because some men cant cope with not having a woman handed to them on a platter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:40 AM
1

A single good experience doesnt cancel out a series of shit ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:29 AM
1

People dont exactly have quality man tattooed on their forehead. I imagine they've gotta sift through the shit til they find what theyre looking for, much like men do when they're looking for the kind of partner they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:24 AM
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I am, your post shows you dont understand how women think, theyre not men, they dont think like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:18 AM
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I read your post didnt I? And I happen to disagree. You were the sexist guy right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:13 AM
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I'm not surprised either, some people find it hard to see things from a perspective other than their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:02 AM
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I didnt realise we were arguing. Already been over the quality thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:58 AM
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Of course not, women have eyes too and want to be attracted to any dude theyre gona be with, that does without saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:36 AM
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Not everyone is attracted to the exact same look. Attractiveness is subjective. One person's 10 is another's 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:07 AM
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Yeah but what men see as a quality dude isnt necessarily what a women sees as a good dude. Dude can be a great mate, great guy, yet still be a shitty partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:01 AM
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Theyve made it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:53 AM
0

Not if what the person gets is absolute shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:41 AM
1

What makes you think theyre getting quality?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:40 AM
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Do understand the concept of quality over quantity?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:05 AM
0

Most women arent lying when they say they love someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:17 AM
1

Youre the one who brought my relationship into the conversation man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:30 AM
1

Still sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:09 AM
2

Oh so you're just sexist then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:02 AM
1

Then your daughter solicits the services of a prostitute herself, male or female, cool with you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:54 AM
1

So youre ok with fucking prostitutes but its not acceptable for your daughter to become one, only other people's daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:40 AM
1

Not sure what you're getting at here, the relationship I have with my wife is very different from the relationship I have with my mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:37 AM
2

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:32 AM
1

Youd be perfectly happy for your daughter to grow up to become a prostitute then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:29 AM
2

Orgasms speak for themselves man. Part of being an adult and being in a relationship is communicating with your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:08 AM
2

Uh the OP says its better. Hence my questioning of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:50 AM
2

Our sexual relationship suggests otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:49 AM
1

Doesnt make it not pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:43 AM
0

Thats a pretty sad way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:34 AM
0

Could change at the drop of a hat for men too. Thats human. As for them sharing stories and laughing etc you'd be delusional to think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:24 AM
1

Went through with the request? Oh no, women wont just give in to sexual requests they arent interested in, how dare they.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:22 AM
2

The respect is definitely pretend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:18 AM
0

Women in consensual relationships do care about men or they wouldn't be with them. There are shitheads of every gender but its far from the majority. Professionalism in your presence sure, do you honestly believe they dont share stories between themselves though? I'm sure they have a great laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:08 AM
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People can and will criticise regardless. Women were restricted back then, women arent restricting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:05 AM
4

A prostitute may not gossip with your mutual friends but they would 100% gossip amongst themselves. They also wouldn't give a shit about your sanity or mental health, or about you in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:20 AM
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You think sex is better with someone that doesn't actually want it and just wants a paycheck?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:14 AM
1

An attractive women doesn't necessarily equal a good fuck. I dont understand this obsession some people have with wanting to fuck a so called 9 or 10. Physically attractive also doesnt mean there will be chemistry. Would it be worth it for this free pass to cheat when she just lays there like a sack of potatoes? Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:45 AM
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Thats gona depend on the person, some people only care about looks, some value personality over looks while others value looks over personality. Most want a good combo of the two. Chemistry and compatibility are major factors too though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:50 AM
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If I was serious about someone then I wouldn't feel the need to fuck other people and would wait til they were ready, would expect the same in reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:34 PM
17

Like how unmarried women were referred to as 'old maid', 'spinster' or leftover women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:28 PM
3

Neither are you, yet only one of us is trying to speak for men in general and it isnt me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:11 PM
2

No WE dont, thats something you do. Ive never compared my size to any of my mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:00 PM
0

No, but if a dude barely leaves his house, doesnt socialise, is standoffish, basically isolates himself then that could contribute to his inability to form a sexual relationship with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:02 AM
1

What makes you think the women campaigning against body shaming are the same women who body shame men? Have you even considered that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 10:50 PM
1

No I dont, women spoke out against body shaming after being shamed frequently, yet theyre still shamed for gaining a little weight, not shaving, wearing too much make up, wearing not enough make up etc. Men have no problem vocalising not wanting 'fatties' or a fav in this sub, 'landwhales'. If you want to start a campaign against men being body shamed then have at it, women have organised their own. If men want it they can organise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:14 PM
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Thats the same reasons women say body shaming is wrong. See, not a gender issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:53 PM
0

Yea they do, they say body shaming is wrong all the time, usually in reference to height or penis size.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:30 PM
4

Interesting that you have no problem calling out women's preferences but when its mens then suddenly they can desire whatever they want. Do you think a traditional woman is a reasonable request for a man with no job and who lives with his parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:44 AM
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Bit hypocritical of the op don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:50 AM
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He can believe in having a traditional relationship all he wants but good luck finding a woman who wants that with a man who doesn't even have a job, op for example, and relies on mummy and daddy for everything. Dude wants everything handed to him on a platter while offering zilch.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:41 AM
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My comment is in response to him saying women these days don't want to cook, in general most people don't want to cook, they do it so they can eat. Sure some people enjoy it but for most its just another thing you've gotta do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:08 AM
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No surprising, he wants a woman to do it for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:06 AM
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Your post suggests men dont. You want women to go back to their roots and make no mention of men doing the same. I cook, I take care of my family as does my wife. Women are right to not want to have to mother their spouse. Women dont want to cook either, most people just do it out of necessity. Just because im also a man doesn't mean ill blindly defend men when I think what's being said is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:36 AM
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Men don't want to cook or take care of their family either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:29 AM
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Being an older virgin could also be seen as a consequence of one's actions too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:53 PM
2

People can think someone is their looksmatch but others might not agree. People have different ideas for what is attractive and what isnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:15 PM
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I'm not sure why they need to say anything, other people's standards, superficial or not, are their own problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:17 PM
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This is not a gender specific thing, both men and women do this, though men usually use fat, ugly, slut etc even if none of those things are true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:55 AM
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Prostitutes exist for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:07 AM
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Because a lot of the dudes here dont like to be called misogynists even when its true. Perpetual victimhood, its all about them and fuck everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:26 AM
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Same shit different day dude. Thats this sub every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:19 PM
10

My wife and I have frequent and enthusiastic sex. Her enthusiasm levels with prior partners is irrelevant to me. Shes sleeping with me not them. If you're not getting enthusiasm then either the sex is bad for her or shes not really into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:18 AM
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Firstly no, secondly even if that did happen the current generations would be riddled with stds.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:33 PM
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So just dont worry about disease then? Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:22 PM
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Doing the bare minimum is a good start. Women arent always the tidier person in a relationship either but somehow they manage to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:19 PM
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Yes, its her name, her decision. My name isnt any more important than hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:54 PM
1

Tha basics are the same. Thats not an excuse, men have eyes, people go on and on about how visual men are, they can see mess, they can see what needs doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:51 PM
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Women also generally have weaker criteria than what he stated. He cant use a statement to make his point and then say no actually that doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:58 AM
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Do you seriously think submissive, presentable to family, attractive/hot, playful/emotionally stimulating (not TOO dry), not lazy/can do housework, not promiscuous, and brings peace (not drama) - is equal to hot and not unbearable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:56 AM
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Well which is it then? First you say "Men want a woman that is submissive, presentable to family, attractive/hot, playful/emotionally stimulating (not TOO dry), not lazy/can do housework, not promiscuous, and brings peace (not drama)." Then you say "I want a woman that is hot and not unbearable." Those are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:55 AM
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Why dont you believe those reasons are because theyre attracted to them and like them as a person? Anyone can be used, abused or settled for, relationship or not, male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:05 AM
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What? Thats a very specific scenario and not even close to the norm. Of course no one will see that as a compliment. Your post is about hook ups vs relationships, not gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 04:28 AM
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More inexperienced gun owners is not a sensible solution. America has a big enough gun problem as it is. Even more trigger happy gun toters would end in disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 04:15 AM
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I think its weird, wanting someone forever is more of a compliment in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:54 AM
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Why should a woman need to make a chore chart to try and get a man to act like an adult. Men aren't children, they don't need their hands held through basic adulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:28 AM
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Entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:03 PM
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No, depended on the relationship and what kind of connection we had. People are individuals, what works with one person wont necessarily be the right fit for another. I didnt expect the same treatment either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:59 AM
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Motherhood and fatherhood are only easy for those who do the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:07 AM
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Good parents dont use ipads as 24/7 babysitters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:57 AM
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No, men dont own hobbies. Hobbies are for whoever enjoys them. If you cant enjoy your hobbie just because a woman also enjoys it then thats a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 08:01 PM
0

Its not needed at all actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 03:27 AM
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Just get them off before you stick your dick in, its not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:57 PM
4

Its a debate post and I have said I disagreed and why. Did you just want everyone to agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 10:04 PM
1

Anyone can have an opinion, you should wear what you like though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:38 PM
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Nah its male selfishness, cant claim it as anything but when so many women have spoken out saying a lot men dont even try to get them off. I have a rule, she comes first. I get mine after.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:33 PM
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Men not marrying sluts is a myth. Both genders are free to slut it up, or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:46 AM
1

The only place ive ever even seen in mentioned is reddit. And thats usually even brought to light with posts like, do women like bi men.....etc, women arent screaming it, entitled people just cant seem to accept when someone isn't interested and need to get over themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 08:27 PM
3

Imaginary women arent really relevant to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 08:24 PM
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Its not perpetuating harmful standards unless people are screaming it from the rooftops. You cant convince people to find something attractive. Attraction is individual, its personal, and no one should have any say on what other people find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:03 AM
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Theres nothing immoral about refusing to fuck someone. Complaining that people arent attracted to you will only kill their attraction further. People are allowed their preferences. If you dont fit someone's then move on til you find someone that you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 10:23 PM
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No, just the ones who think women are tainted by sex, used up, ran through etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 08:35 PM
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People can choose who they share their body with, there's nothing homophobic or racist about it. No one is entitled to interest from anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 01:26 AM
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Are you new to this sub? Its repeated on here all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 01:24 AM
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Men are the ones claiming women are used up and ran through if too many dicks have touched them. Men reinforce the idea that women being fucked by men taints them or ruins them, makes them no longer pure. Maybe those women are just using mens logic for their own benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 12:35 AM
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They should do whatever they agree to. If there is a huge income discrepancy and they're to go 50/50 then it makes sense to live by the means of the lower income person.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 01:14 AM
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Men slut shame out of jealousy. They wish they could be sluts but the majority fail miserably.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 11:00 PM
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Not liking, hating, whatever. The point remains the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:27 PM
1

Search the Matilda effect. Its literally been happening all throughout history
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:24 PM
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I literally just mentioned the word hate, I dont understand why you see that specific word as so important. Who cares if some women hate video games, those women just wouldn't be compatible with men who love them. I dont see an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:22 PM
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The title should represent whats in the post, no one has to like video games, both women and men can hate video games. Both women and men can hate sports. Both women and men can hate tiktok or insert whatever activity here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:11 PM
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The initial commentor on this comment thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:54 PM
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The title of your post literally says they arent mature, they're boring, those are your words bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:53 PM
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Then who mothered my children?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:52 PM
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I think you've got that backwards mate, for pretty much all history men have claimed credit for women's achievements.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:51 PM
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They are incredible feats. Women aren't men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:45 PM
0

Theres a dude in this comment thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:44 PM
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My wife is a gamer, she was a gamer before we met. She doesn't use twitch, sell bathwater or have only fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:25 PM
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I disagree and I say that as someone who games. Its not an issue of maturity, its merely different interests and preferences. People arent boring just because they dont like video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:21 PM
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I'm married and I think redpill is just an excuse for men to hate on and blame women for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:10 PM
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Because people have different definitions of what is considered a good man. From a man's perspective a man could be a good dude, friend, bro etc but from a woman's perspective that doesnt necessarily mean they'll be a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:21 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:24 PM
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Treating others as lesser is not the right thing. Taking away people's rights is not the right thing. Society runs smoothest when everyone is happy, not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:00 AM
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Why do I need to benefit from it? Doing the right thing and being a decent person is enough reason to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:37 AM
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Women don't believe they can change a man's sexuality. Thats very much a male thing, some are quite vocal about it even believing that lesbians just havent had the right dick yet. As far as women married to gay men without realising, yeah that happens more than people realise and so does the reverse, a lot of men married to lesbians without realising. Some people dont even come to terms with their sexuality til later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 06:50 PM
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I don't live in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:33 PM
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Depends if you want to have sex again. Ive never been told I'm bad in bed though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 08:49 PM
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They can age right alongside me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 09:30 AM
6

Looks matter for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 03:08 AM
1

Do men 30-40 dress differently to men in their 20s? I cant say ive noticed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:28 AM
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Because the attraction part goes without saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:46 PM
2

You wish women looked after their kids? The majority do. Why dont you wish men looked after their kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:37 PM
1

Safe havens arent worldwide, we don't have them NZ, if you abandon you baby here you will face criminal charges.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:34 PM
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Women stay and raise the kids, men seem to want rights but no responsibility. If a child is born both parents should be responsible for its well-being.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:26 AM
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Then the child is not just her responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 11:17 AM
1

Women take responsibility for their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 10:48 AM
0

No, pro choice, but ultimately the women's choice as she carries the majority of the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 10:28 AM
3

The truth hurts man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:10 AM
5

To work on your mental health, help you work through your problems and come up with methods to help you cope. Its not to help you get your dick wet, thats prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:41 AM
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Therapy is for the big head not the little one mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:27 AM
5

If children are women's responsibility, should men then have any rights concerning those children? Its a yes no question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:53 PM
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Then it should be entirely up to the woman as to whether the man can have anything to do with the child. If a child is always a woman's responsibility then all those men saying women are keeping their children from them can go take a giant fucking leap right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:10 PM
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Maybe men should just, you know, take responsibility for their jizz and not impregnate women if they don't want kids. Women don't become single mothers on their own, deadbeats create them by knocking them up and refusing to take accountability for their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:19 PM
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No, its not women's fault theyre not attracted to all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:04 AM
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It doesn't need to be rational or measured. Attraction is involuntary.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:10 AM
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She's not throwing it on any man, he throws it on himself when he impregnates her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 09:23 AM
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Nah men can be held just as responsible for their spawn as women are. A child's well-being is more important than your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 09:06 AM
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Logically, if men were worth dating they would have no problems getting a partner. Its not women's fault alot of men arent worth their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:47 AM
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If you knock someone up you take responsibility for your mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:54 AM
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Your kid, your responsibility, if men took responsibility for their kids there would be a lot less single parents and a lot less kids growing up in poverty and without a father figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:09 AM
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You can't make women want to fuck you bro, they either do or they dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 09:43 PM
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Men will bitch about their right to abandon their kids then shit all over the efforts of single mothers all in the same breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 08:37 PM
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Women already pay child support dude, its not a men only obligation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 08:31 PM
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This is fucked up even for this sub dude. Most women dont fantasise about sexual violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:53 AM
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They don't need to take accountability for something thats not their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:46 AM
7

There are literally dudes commenting on this post blaming them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 01:52 AM
4

On this sub prime is pretty much exclusively talked about in sexual terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:28 AM
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A sexless prime, how depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:36 AM
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If the amount of sex a dude gets in his prime is the same as the sex he gets not in his prime, is he really in his prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:20 AM
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Some people dont get a prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:53 PM
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Is it really your prime if no one wants you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:44 PM
1

Or you know, they have jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:07 PM
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And this is why women are beginning to see men as superfluous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:26 AM
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The only place I've ever heard the terms low value and high value when speaking about people is online.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:11 AM
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Reliable??? Too funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:51 AM
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No, that sounds like a miserable existence to everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:18 AM
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Chris Brown is a celebrity so thats not really a good example to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 01:52 AM
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Fuck no, thats got dead bedroom written all over it. People should be free to choose their own partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:59 AM
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Ok so do nothing then and quit complaining about mens mental health and the suicide rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:03 PM
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Do you perhaps talk too much or interupt?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:47 PM
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Other dudes seem to socialise just fine in those scenarios so framing this as a male problem isnt accurate. Its an issue with you and your social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:44 PM
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How do they know it wont work for them? You even said yourself MOST, not all. Theyre assuming it wont work for them and not even bothering to try then complaining that no one cares. You can see a doctor and get treatment for depression without therapy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:42 PM
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What kind of groups are you attending? Are you trying to socialise with both men and women or just women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:33 PM
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They wont actually know for sure until they try. Then they need to find a purpose. That is something they need to do for themselves, others cant do it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:22 PM
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They are acknowledged. There comes a point when people need to take accountability and put some effort into solving their issues themselves. If youre depressed see a doctor, seek therapy instead of shitting on it. If you've got an alcohol problem, same thing, seek help, people have to want to get better, others cant do it for them. Social isolation, go out and get involved, join groups, go to social events. The community is there, people just need to actively take part instead of sitting at home…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:04 PM
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Can you be more specific? People can be hostile in general and not just towards one gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:57 PM
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Whats your suggested solution here? How do you want this addressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:42 PM
3

Those women have been the younger women dating older and see it for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:00 PM
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They wont be taught that a man is expected to be a provider and protector. Theyll be taught how to be independent adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:57 PM
3

Not everyone wants one mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:56 PM
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The point is I'm not instilling that shit nor trying to mould them into a future trad wife bang maid. If thats a choice they make on their own then so be it but I am raising them to look after themselves and make their own choices based on what is best for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:30 AM
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I have zero intentions of instilling wifely/maternal duties in my daughters. They're their own people and can make their own choices as to whether they want to get married and have children. No way will I train them up to essentially mother some pathetic loser of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 03:18 AM
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Most women have been there, done that, and know the reality of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:58 AM
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Guess I just imagined all those posts about women's rights, women's standards being too high, 80:20, mens loneliness, ai sex bots etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:42 AM
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Almost everything posted on this sub is some shitty generalisation about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:27 AM
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The amount of men getting degrees isn't zero bro, there just happens to be more women for once. Plenty of men are still bothering. None of this suggests women are anything close to incompetent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:40 AM
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Same could be said about the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:22 AM
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The data is against you mate. More women than ever are graduating college/university.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:15 AM
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Can't say ive seen it. More dudes complaining about being 'lonely' when they actually mean sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:10 AM
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I'm a normal dude in a normal relationship. No degenerates here, yet plenty of love and passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:53 PM
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Women just quietly get on with life. Men complain and try to make it everyone else's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 10:42 PM
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Dude, you're a virgin claiming women are mostly vanilla in bed, do you realise how ridiculous that sounds. You've never even had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 06:05 AM
11

Virgin men past a certain age are seen as bad based on their actions and the bullshit they spout, similar to a lot of shit in this sub, not for simply being virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:19 AM
12

At least they'd be looked at as decent people. The more men that lie and deceive, the more men in general will be 'tarred with the same brush' and seen as dishonest and deceitful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:14 AM
18

So men will keep lying then keep up the woe is me, no one will fuck me attitude, great.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:41 AM
26

Or how about this, women should have whatever standards they want, and men should be decent people, not lying pieces of shit that women prefer to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:17 AM
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What in the fuck did I just read.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:42 AM
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People who lie to get what they want are pieces of shit. If men were just honest and genuine from the get go then dating wouldn't be in the state it is now and women wouldn't be so wary and untrusting of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:20 PM
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Some asshole made it up. Looks have always and will always matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:14 AM
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Women don't necessarily think they're winning by being single, they're just happier single than they would be in relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:04 PM
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Don't worry, I already have, though I tend to think of myself as average.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:09 AM
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Its really not that deep bro, could say the same about the whole post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:53 AM
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Women want to fuck men they're attracted to, shock horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:28 AM
1

Women don't need to like the majority of men. They only get into relationships with men they like though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:40 PM
7

Men aren't the leaders in relationships. Women just let them think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 04:50 PM
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Women aren't meant to raise their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:50 PM
8

I didnt offer any advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:54 AM
0

Look at my other link then man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:19 AM
1

https://kotaku.com/half-gamers-women-switch-ps5-xbox-pc-owners-girls-stats-1850524629
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:42 AM
0

https://www.gamesindustry.biz/esa-48-of-video-game-players-are-women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:30 AM
8

So what. Its not women's fault they're not attracted to more men. You cant force attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:29 AM
7

Whats wrong with that. I'd also put in more effort with women I'm more attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 03:10 AM
12

There won't be any progressing, you do the bare minimum, you'll get the bare minimum in return. Sounds like a pretty sad and shitty way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:38 AM
34

If child support actually took into account the real cost of raising a child then welfare wouldn't be necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:19 AM
0

A female gamer just looks like a normal person much like a male gamer is just a dude. Most gamers, male and female, aren't streaming shit, they're just having fun gaming with mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:50 PM
1

I never said mens reading didnt count as real reading. I just said most men dont read romance. Women do game though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 08:54 PM
0

Ah a gatekeeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 08:31 PM
1

My parents never had the talk with me nor did my wife's parents with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 08:12 PM
1

What games were campaigned against?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 07:28 PM
0

What does that matter, gaming is gaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 07:23 PM
1

Porn is exploitative. Smut doesn't hurt anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 07:07 PM
1

Women make up almost 50% of gamers so it makes sense that some games should appeal to them as it isn't just a male hobby. The percentage of men who read romance novels is far less.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 07:00 PM
1

You wouldn't even know it if they didn't tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 10:12 PM
1

No one should ask anyone else to change to suit someone else's preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:00 AM
3

Yes that particular preference is elective, but women aren't the only ones with elective preferences, everyone does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:50 AM
4

Enable them how? If they don't want you then they don't want you. No one is gona be everyone's type.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:06 AM
1

Its no different to men not wanting to date a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:05 AM
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Those aren't close to being equivalent. All of the mens actions you mention are choices they make. Women can't just choose what they're attracted so just telling them to lower their standards is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:27 PM
2

No, rapists are to blame for raping.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:52 PM
1

Yep, firstly they chose to take drugs, secondly they chose to take too much drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:07 PM
6

I'll say it again, children cannot consent to sexual activity with adults - that is rape. Pushing a button and adults abusing children is not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:36 AM
3

Children don't 'have' sex with adults. They don't just 'do' it. Adults rape children. I still stand by my initial comment. Seeking something out is a choice, clicking the button is a choice. Parents still play a role in allowing their kids unsupervised access to the internet, that should be monitored. The majority of boys and men are not addicted to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:30 AM
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Children cannot consent to sexual activity with adults. Its the parents that should be held accountable if theyre allowing their children unsupervised access to the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:16 AM
5

The post is about mens libido not little girls. And if a dude is fucking an under-age girl hes a fuckin rapist pedo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:55 AM
13

If you choose to start using fentanyl in the first place then yeah sure do. Taking drugs to start with is a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:05 AM
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I mean yeah if you choose to click a button and watch porn that is your own fault. You could always just not click the button. Whos fault could your choices be but your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:35 AM
8

Lucky all round, she's much better with finances than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:01 AM
24

My wife was a stay at home mum for years. She had full access to all the accounts, equal contributions made to both our retirement accounts, and we both got the same spending allowance for our own personal spending.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:03 PM
4

You dont claim the negative though, only the positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:59 AM
15

WE? You're claiming credit for shit men of the past did. Where's the almighty we when rape and abuse statistics came up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:21 PM
6

What do they need to do to fix themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:11 AM
3

Dude you're bitching about women not wanting to help men then on here stating you think the only thing women provide is sex and romance. Why would women want to help someone who thinks that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:45 AM
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They don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:48 PM
8

Some will be, sure, the only one they need to take it up with is the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 01:22 AM
7

Not liking being called a hivemind isn't a matter of thinking its a good or bad thing. Its more that when speaking that way about an entire gender, its factually incorrect. Its not that its bad, its that it isnt true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:35 PM
3

Solved in societal ways how?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:38 PM
12

Most women want their kids to be looked after properly and most men don't want to be the primary caregiver.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:36 PM
2

If you can't understand you learn more about something by reading information about it, than you do by just looking at it then I'm not sure what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 04:12 AM
1

None of that was ever common sense. Common, yes. Common sense, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:59 AM
1

Common sense. Some people seem to lack it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:21 AM
1

I don't know, but more likely than attempting to match with someone you know nothing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:09 PM
4

Can I have an example of a problem women will complain about but don't want solved?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:09 AM
3

So you're against venting in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:58 AM
1

I guess I just don't see how's its a gender issue. Most people don't like it admit when they're wrong, not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:56 AM
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Doco or not its still going to attract a certain type of person willing to air their dirty laundry on TV. Those who want attention more specifically. They're not the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:47 AM
1

Reality tv and social media aren't real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:40 AM
6

If men are raping and abusing women then yeah that is mens fault, who else would you put the blame on? Makes sense to blame those who commit the crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:21 AM
3

You're more likely to find someone compatible if you read the bio though. By not reading the bio you're wasting both your own time and the other person's.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:08 AM
6

Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:43 AM
4

Money, money draws younger women to get into relationships with old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:25 AM
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Men want to fuck women they're attracted to, women want to fuck men they're attracted to. Thats all there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:09 AM
3

Weird, I've never been called any of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:09 AM
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This is such an online take.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:40 PM
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Then don't, seems an odd thing to hate on women for though, its not like men will leap to your defence either, despite the fact they're far more physically capable of protecting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:16 AM
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Your height is irrelevant, men are stronger than women, even at 5'6 you'd still stand a better chance against a man than a woman would.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:05 AM
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Most women wouldn't be capable of protecting a man against violence. I'm not promoting a lie, I'm speaking from experience. The people I surround myself with are nothing like the men or women that are complained about in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:56 AM
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The average man cares about women, the average woman cares about men. Those who don't and only care about themselves are the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:49 AM
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So do you believe all those who complain about the male loneliness epidemic and who cant get relationships, are unstable?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:48 AM
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I thought it was women that didn't want relationships what with all the men complaining about the male loneliness epidemic etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:27 AM
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The average man cares about more than just himself and whether or not his dick is wet. Most at least try to be decent people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:26 AM
3

Never said it was, has far more backing than your opinion though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:25 AM
0

Research suggests otherwise bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 05:08 AM
1

Like Mark Davis, Las Vegas Raiders owner and his young girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 12:03 AM
2

Leagues dont exist, attraction is subjective. One person's 8 is another's 5. Just because someone deems themselves a 6 doesn't mean other apparent 6s will be attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 06:35 PM
6

Women are not prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:35 AM
1

I think the confusion lays around what is actually meant by the male loneliness epidemic. Dudes will say they're lonely and others will suggest joining groups and making friends. The lonely dudes will then say thats not what they want, they want women and sex to cure their loneliness. Thats not loneliness, that's sexlessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:10 PM
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Hitting the wall isn't a thing. Men want women regardless of age.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:58 PM
9

If you let women get away with doing nothing in the modern ERA then congratulations on allowing yourself to be a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:31 AM
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Women don't give a shit whether you're horny as long as you don't push it on them or make it their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 09:44 AM
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If a woman had regret after sleeping with the situationship they'd cut it off, make it a one time thing not continue to sleep with them. None of that changes the fact that women like sex, women get into situationships so they can have sex without the stress of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:46 AM
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Women in situationships aren't being used for sex any more than men in situationships are. This may come as a shock to you but a lot of women actually like sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:57 PM
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Who have I blamed and for what? Though if you want to claim credit for the positive stuff you had no part in then you should be willing to cop to the negative shit too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:00 AM
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Did you read the OP by chance? The OP literally uses those words, attack and antagonise women politically and socially. Are you going to answer my question? End of paragraph 2 if you're having trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 04:37 AM
1

Do you believe deliberately attacking and antagonising women politically and socially is the behaviour of a mentally healthy person?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 04:10 AM
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The only house I have ever built was made of lego and was pretty average. Men and women of the past built society together and function better as a whole as opposed to individually. Pisses me off when dudes claim credit for all the buildings and infrastructure. Most of them didn't do jack shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 11:47 PM
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Showing empathy is about being a good person not winning or losing. This whole takes seems a little sociopathic dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:40 PM
1

No way bro, I don't have the same taste in women as my parents do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:39 PM
6

Women not only go to therapy more but also invest more in their friendships and get support there. Men rely on their female partner for all that support.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 02:33 AM
9

I'm pretty sure its the other way around bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 12:30 AM
5

I don't have the required chromosomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:13 AM
17

No one is worthy of love and intimacy just for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:07 AM
4

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 11:19 AM
2

My initial comment specified that she does it all when I am at work. When I am home I contribute but she definitely does more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 10:42 AM
3

When I'm at work? My job doesn't allow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 09:24 AM
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I can't speak for others but in my relationship its definitely my wife. I work longer paid hours but when I'm at work she literally takes care of everything else as well as working part time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:50 AM
5

What do women as a group need to apologise for?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:50 AM
10

Empathy should be a two way street, need to give it to receive it. I think showing some accountability would be a good start, instead of men blaming all their issues on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:36 PM
9

Cool story bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:05 AM
16

Yeah this sound made up bro. When you've gone wrong with your fantasy is saying its all the women you've been with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 05:38 AM
16

Interesting because my experience is almost the opposite. Where exactly are you meeting these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:46 AM
4

Do you believe the media always shows the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:07 PM
13

Probably because they can get a better read on someone in person. On paper someone could seem like a perfect match but if the vibes aren't there then it won't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 08:41 PM
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Thats only half of what I said though, men will turn on them too, they'd be completely isolating themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:25 AM
3

The majority of men aren't the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 11:20 PM
26

Good luck with that, if men were the prize they'd be treated as such. But no, men are more desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:45 PM
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It won't though, it'll just ensure they're single forever and it won't just be women that steer clear. Men will too, no one will want to associate with someone that has to try to bring everyone else down to make themselves feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:29 PM
30

That won't improve the lives of struggling men, it'll only make things worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:48 PM
1

You even admit yourself those are extreme examples, most of the loser dudes being talked about here aren't fortune 500 or celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:14 AM
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Most dudes on here don't seem to want a woman who has fucked a lot of dudes so why is it a problem when women don't want a dude who's fucked a lot of dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 11:05 PM
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Nah those kinda dudes are the ones no one wants anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 10:02 PM
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More gibberish, super.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:28 AM
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They're your words bro, and yeah stories, stories aren't always factual.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:27 AM
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The title of your post starts with "women giving themselves to bad men".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:19 AM
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Women don't give themselves to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:50 AM
1

If the posts in this sub are anything to go by then you've got this entirely backwards. Or is the male loneliness epidemic a thing of the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:12 AM
1

Abusers don't immediately start abusing. They're usually charming as fuck to start with then once they're comfortable then they start with that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:53 PM
3

Disagree that they have to be hot, almost every dude I know has done the casual thing and they're mostly pretty average. But either way, why shouldn't they fuck dudes they find hot, needs to be some degree of attraction there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:50 PM
15

How exactly is casual sex only for women to have and enjoy? They've gotta be having it with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 09:20 AM
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I'm not assuming anything, I didn't say all dudes who fake their looks have shit personalities. You've jumped to that conclusion all on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:46 AM
3

Chad is a ridiculous made up term.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:24 AM
2

Thats true too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:18 AM
6

Dudes who are ugly on the inside are rejected for both their looks and their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:16 AM
2

No its not, you can polish a turd all you like but at the end of the day its still a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:14 AM
5

If you have literally nothing in common with someone, not a single shared interest, are you really going to enjoy spending time with that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:10 AM
3

Some after communication with them, others by just observing their behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:07 AM
2

Disagree, I've met plenty of people of both genders who are ugly on the inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:03 AM
5

Most people prefer a combination of the two. Someone could be the hottest man/woman on the planet but if they're boring as batshit that relationship isn't going to last long.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:02 AM
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Theres nothing stopping anyone doing all that shit now, have at it dude. No amount of shoe lifts and hair plugs will cover for a dudes inner ugly though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:45 AM
9

Any man who thinks others should shut up just because he says so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:37 AM
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Men aren't the authority on everything. Men that tell others to shut up would do well to learn that and how to keep their emotions in check. If a man lashes out then he lacks self control and is the one at fault, not those who refuse to do as he says.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:00 AM
1

Changing the way in which boys are parented from the get go would be a good start.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 04:41 AM
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Relationships that go to shit when the women is more successful is due to the fact that some men can't handle it when women are more successful than them. Thats a failing on the man's behalf not the woman's. And as far as distain for less successful men goes, why should anyone be expected to settle for a bum, male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:38 PM
6

Men don't even show compassion for other men. Perhaps start there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:25 AM
6

Women do have empathy for men, they just don't express that empathy by opening their legs for any and every dude they meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:40 AM
14

So what, that doesn't mean women shouldn't have jobs and earn their own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:45 AM
16

There is no problem, hence it doesn't make sense for OP to question why women are ok with submitting to bosses and ignore that men are also doing the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:10 AM
16

So what's the problem with women wanting a paycheck at the end of the week?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 04:26 AM
34

Why are men all for the idea of submitting to their bosses?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:37 PM
4

Which tv shows and movies?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:28 PM
8

Don't know that for sure, she has a higher drive than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:08 AM
5

He didn't specify men on average, he just said men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:06 AM
36

I dont want to fuck every woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:24 AM
3

If men were the prize then women would want them. There are no prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:33 AM
2

Theres no assumption, they make it obvious that they hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 06:41 PM
5

No, calling a bunch of misogynists misogynists is not hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:07 AM
3

What I say and do isn't hateful and dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:31 AM
1

Jail for saying men don't generally need as much protection from sexual harassment? Thats a bit of a reach. Interesting that thats what is sparking outrage here not the actual assaults and harassment that actual women and girls experience on the Mexico city subway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 05:52 AM
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Black people aren't the problem here though, men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:03 AM
0

Men are the ones causing harm on the subway. Stop trying to deflect by bringing race into it as a whataboutism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:55 AM
0

None of that changes that fact that most of the shit incels spout on about is misogynistic. Just because incels are misogynists doesnt mean all misogynists are incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:45 AM
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Because men dont generally need as much protection from sexual harassment. A man is better equipped to defend himself, unfortunately for women and children that isn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:12 AM
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How about men keep their hands and words to themselves then it wouldn't even be needed. Other people's safety is more important than your hurt feelings. Edit: 9 out of 10 women on the Mexico city public metro experiencing sexual harassment isnt a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:09 AM
3

I also fail to see how that makes boys disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:37 AM
8

So it wasn't you being sexually harassed so who cares right? Its not punishment, its an attempt to keep people safe. Those who speak against things like this are the reason they need to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:20 PM
9

Thats very specific. Did anything occur prior to the cars being set aside for women and girls? Edit: nevermind, I googled, those cars are there for a reason, Mexico has a major issue with violence and sexual harassment towards women and girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:13 PM
3

Where are 12-18 boys disposable?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:06 PM
18

Last time I checked boys were considered children.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 10:53 PM
9

Most of the shit incels say is misogynistic. Thats a pretty good sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 10:50 PM
3

This is adding so much to the debate...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:17 AM
3

How about no?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:40 AM
41

Then find someone who is ok with a cheap ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 01:40 AM
2

Attraction is a very important piece of the puzzle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:58 PM
1

Those professions all have higher rates of infidelity so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:44 PM
3

You want women to give men they aren't interested in a go, a chance, whatever. Women shouldn't have to lower their standards as to not offend unattractive dudes. The word triggered is overused and doesnt really apply in this conversation, and its only been used here in an attempt to shut-down the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:30 AM
4

Give more guys a go? Dude, women aren't fairground rides where dudes are entitled to be next in line.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:24 AM
40

Lowering your standards and getting into relationships with people you dont actually want is a recipe for dead bedrooms and resentment. No one should be expected to lower their standards to appease others.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:57 AM
3

If you don't want to protect her then don't. But don't worry, there are plenty of other guys out there that will without complaint.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 11:11 PM
21

Men do have choice, you don't have to say yes to the first willing woman, you make the choice to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 08:52 AM
6

No, most people seem to believe there is jail time as a potential penalty for not paying and having googled I see that it is an actual possibility. I just personally don't know of anyone who has gone to jail for not paying. That said I am also not American and it may be a more common punishment there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:14 AM
12

How often does this even occur? I literally don't know of a single person who has been sent to jail for failing to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:12 AM
19

If most men loved their children enough to pay for them there would be no arguing against child support. Sending people to jail isn't necessarily about money/cost, it's more about correcting shitting behaviour and deterring it future.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:11 AM
29

If there was no penalty for non payment then the majority of people would just stop paying altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:00 AM
25

There is nothing intellectual about this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:19 AM
1

Dudes would still need to pay child support, and pretty much everyone would think they're pieces of shit and would avoid them like crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:18 AM
8

I don't believe in the idea thats sex ruins or devalues anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:30 AM
–

This post is marked as a debate not a circle jerk. People don't stop having opinions just because they're married or partnered up. Plus, I commented on a reddit post, thats not exactly throwing a parade.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:12 PM
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This mentality is the exact reason women are put off men. Women aren't doing what some men want, those men think hey let's take away their rights so they have no choice. Women are then rightfully pissed off and avoid those men like the plague, said men then cry about women not wanting anything to do with them and refuse to see the reasons why.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:48 AM
5

Leagues are irrelevant, just because you deem a man and a woman both a 5, doesn't mean they're automatically going to be attracted to eachother. Plus one person's 5 is another's 7, looks are subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:32 AM
7

I've never heard anyone dismiss men's safety concerns. On the other hand seeing women's safety concerns dismissed is a frequent occurrence. This post for example. Saying they exaggerate their concerns is dismissing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:34 AM
11

Dude would have to find someone willing to have sex with him first.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:54 PM
6

I've only ever heard dudes say shit like this to try to convince their girlfriends they should be ok with strippers etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 06:06 AM
10

So basically men are just passively waiting to be chosen? Sounds kinda pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:25 AM
12

Unless you want a non-consensual relationship then there has to be a decision to date by both people. If I hadn't made the decision to approach her then she wouldn't have even had a decision to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:45 AM
10

And I could have just as easily chosen not to approach her, but hey I chose to. I chose her and she chose me. I could have just as easily decided not to get into a relationship with her if it wasn't a good fit. Men aren't forced into relationships every time a woman says yes, they are also choosing that woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:17 AM
9

I chose to approach her first, I was the initial chooser.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:45 AM
17

Where does this weird idea that only women do the choosing come from? I certainly chose my wife and didn't just go for it with the first woman who said yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:21 AM
1

Who is being pressured into taking testosterone? I've never heard any one say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:11 AM
–

Most people are average and have no problem finding partners
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:19 PM
–

Women are attracted to average men, you can see it everywhere you go, everytime you leave the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:05 PM
2

Oh I googled it, there just didn't seem to be any articles that didn't mention prairie voles.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:43 AM
2

Do you believe everything you read on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:38 AM
0

I did read the article. The majority of the research used was on prairie voles and other animals that they then tried to apply the results of to humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:26 AM
2

Applying findings from pair bonding studies on prairie voles to humans is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:05 AM
5

Humans dont pair bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:28 AM
5

Even if that was the case (which its not), the majority of women are not sex addicts going to town on themselves several times a day with 9 inch dildos. Either way I still call bullshit. Any desensitising effect from use of vibrators is temporary.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:21 AM
5

Bullshit, after sex the vaginal muscles contract and the vagina goes back to its pre-arousal state.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:09 AM
6

I don't have a girlfriend, nor am I insecure about my size whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:02 AM
7

Having sex with someone else would not relocate her cervix.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:01 AM
9

Your penis can't change the location of her cervix. The cervix can be higher or lower based on where shes at in her cycle. Please read up on women's anatomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:56 AM
15

Dude get an anatomy lesson, a large penis won't stretch out or change the elasticity of a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:24 AM
1

And the fact thats it is worldwide means its not only for Americans. If you want American only go to an ask America sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:22 AM
1

Where does it say this sub is only for Americans?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:03 AM
1

Ah of course, America, the centre of the universe, in their mind anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:13 AM
2

Who said anything about Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:02 AM
1

What a load of bollocks, prostitution is legal in my country and only those who can't attract women partake. Women haven't done anything to try and stop it, they don't give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:25 AM
7

They're literally just doing their jobs. Edit: to the dude who has replied below - how do you expect me to answer your question after you've blocked me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:07 AM
21

This is so delusional, shes putting on an act that you're paying for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:04 AM
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Most of the comments about the orange buffoons small hands and tiny dick have come from men. Why is that women's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:36 AM
1

I don't need a male only gym, to me a gym is a gym, but then again I don't harass women nor do I have any issue with women only gyms.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:55 AM
3

Women don't want men to lead. They want a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:54 PM
13

Holy tangent dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:50 PM
1

Never said looks were all that mattered. Looks need to be A priority, not the only priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:43 PM
5

Yeah so what, seat belts and air bags are designed around men's safety. Men's and women's bodies aren't the same and a seat belt and airbag does more to protect a man in a crash than it does for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:38 AM
1

You're really just going to ignore the rest of my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:27 AM
7

Seat belts, air bags etc, crash test dummies are predominantly male. A 2019 study showed that women are 73% more likely to be injured in a frontal crash compared to men, even when accounting for height, weight, and age. This disparity is largely due to the fact that male-based dummies do not accurately represent female anatomy and biomechanics, which can affect how a car's safety features perform in a crash.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:22 AM
5

There isnt enough demand for men's only gyms.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:23 AM
8

All the safety features in a car are built with men's size/body in mind. Women are more likely to be severely injured in car accidents because of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:18 AM
10

That wasnt what you asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 09:12 AM
10

You asked for male only spaces and I gave you some examples. Besides being hired for entertainment women aren't welcomed in gentleman's clubs. Women having clubs doesnt change the fact that there are also male clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:44 AM
6

Gentleman's clubs, fraternities, grindr, sports clubs. They're there, you just need to actually look for them if you want to partake.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:39 AM
2

Who will look after all the kids the men abandon when they realise how hard it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:15 AM
3

Basic standards are on the floor when some dudes won't even wipe their own ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 10:30 PM
7

He also says dont prioritise looks. Looks need to be a priority if you want to be attracted to your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:08 PM
11

A shitty relationship isnt better than no relationship at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:26 PM
14

Whats stopping him from leaving exactly? If hes willing to settle himself for someone who isnt attracted to him and won't fuck him then thats on him. No one is forcing him to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:22 PM
10

There needs to be focus on the physical part. Very few women only focus on the physical part. They want partners they have shit in common with. Men are more likely to only focus on physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:18 PM
11

People focus on looks because thats where the initial attraction comes from. Looks are important. She should at least get to like the look of the face she will be up close and personal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:58 PM
11

So you think women don't need to be attracted to their partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:46 PM
0

Because women actually want to like and share interests etc with their partners, not just have any willing dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:10 AM
1

Nah, I chose my wife. If I didnt I wouldn't have approached her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 01:44 AM
9

If a woman wanted you enough she would approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:20 AM
18

I don't know any dudes who want virgins, I certainly don't. Some of us have evolved beyond thinking as if we are animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:45 AM
16

Why should a woman approach dudes she's not attracted to? The whole idea of a romantic relationship is mutual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:12 PM
16

I know a lot of bitchy men already. That still doesn't explain why it's ok for men to submit to their bosses but not women. It's almost like you're talking out your arse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:00 AM
15

If thats what they want to then go ahead, makes no difference to me what other dudes choose to wear, or women for that matter. Still waiting for an explanation on why.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:46 AM
14

So why shouldn't women submit to bosses but men should?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:41 AM
29

No, men aren't the default, they just think they are. Women aren't trying to be like men, they're just getting on with their lives as they see fit. Why dont you see an issue with men submitted to their bosses?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:22 AM
29

Women aren't imitating men, they're behaving like human beings. Men aren't the default. Why is it always mentioned about women serving their bosses but never about men also serving their bosses.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:13 AM
3

Nope, she's never said either of those things. If she's not happy with my size she's kept it to herself. Like I said, I haven't had any complaints and she isn't suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:37 AM
3

No they dont, they don't want dicks that'll hurt, anyone who thinks they do watches too much porn. Of course there are dicks out there bigger than mine but I don't give a fuck coz mine works just fine and I've had zero complaints. Stop worrying about what other dudes have in their pants. I don't waste my time comparing myself to other dudes, I'm happy with what I've got.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:23 AM
-1

I've only ever heard other dudes make those jokes. I make them too. Otherwise this seems to really be an online thing. As for size mattering, of course it does to a point, nobody wants anything thats either too big or too small.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:30 PM
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A lot of them still live with their parents for a start. What do my friends have to do with anything? I'm not interested in women young enough to be my daughter. They say it online all the time usually when old dudes are trying to justify trying to date them. I'm not about to go up to young women in the street and ask them how they feel about dating old men coz that'd be fuckin creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:47 AM
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A woman in her 20s has barely lived, has fuck all life experience and is young enough to be my daughter, not to mention differing maturity levels. No thanks. You can try to justify it all you like but the majority of young women think dudes in their 40s are old creeps and aren't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:35 AM
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I'd feel like a creep because of the age difference and the fact that we would have nothing in common. Early 20s are barely out of their teens and are still college age. I'm a grown man thats been working for over 20s years. We are at different stages of life. Also, I'm not bluepill.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:22 AM
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Because I don't want to be a creep? That's fuckin weird man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:14 AM
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I'm in my 40s, I'd feel like a creep doing anything with a woman in her early 20s and therefore wouldn't want anyone in their 40s creeping on my kids when they're that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:04 AM
10

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 07:19 AM
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Of course a woman isn't going to find emotional vulnerability attractive in some rando dude she isn't otherwise attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 12:16 AM
3

Probably the same reason as you, to share my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:14 AM
-1

Who cares, people are attracted to whomever they're attracted to, its not something you choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:29 AM
1

Straight women are attracted to straight men, no surprises there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:08 AM
3

I'm married and have had a vasectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:54 AM
7

Bothering someone going about their day is doing something to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:12 AM
6

Clowns who think women shouldn't be able to vote for any reason are the same who get off on the idea of taking women's rights away in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 06:42 AM
2

Men can be as bitter as they want, they'll still only have themselves to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:53 AM
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No one's forcing you to take a job fixing the road in the scorching sun. Plenty of men have jobs as pen pushers and plenty of women do jobs that are hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:35 AM
6

I wouldn't know, I've only fucked attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:40 AM
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Because single women prioritise home ownership more than men. You think parents all over the world are only buying houses for their female children?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:26 AM
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I'm sure it has happened but its not the majority. Getting a job can be who you know as opposed to what you know but that isn't specific to either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:06 AM
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You don't have to live in an expensive city to have a decent standard of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:02 AM
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Most women aren't prostitutes mate, if you're paying them for sex then thats on you. Most women study and earn their jobs and internships then provide for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:54 AM
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I meant they need a job. The dude I'd replying edited in to add a provider. I was talking about having a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:52 AM
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What a load of crap. Single women are more likely to own homes than single men are. Guess their fluffy bunny studies and part time jobs are more than enough to pay the mortgage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:42 AM
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Do you live in fantasyland because thats not how things are in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:39 AM
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Doesn't change the fact that they have jobs and dont need a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:31 AM
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No one is forcing you to pay for first dates, if you don't want to pay then dont and dont date women who expect it. It is relevant, women have jobs, women pay bills, the majority of women aren't living purely off someone else's paycheck and the majority of those who are, are at home raising kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:26 AM
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They do need one, they have bills to pay just like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:23 AM
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Women have jobs now mate, they don't need a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:00 AM
1

People can't be cancelled on an anonymous forum nor does any of that endanger their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:26 AM
39

Take a look outside, women fuck bums and hobosexuals all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:23 AM
13

Pretty sure it means good sex bro, not a literal penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:47 AM
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No one should have to lower their standards, but if there's someone you want then you either need to meet their standards or back off. Don't expect others to have to change for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:14 AM
2

Who's been cancelled for calling women fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:12 PM
2

People use it because it'll hit a dude where it hurts much like most dudes will leap to calling a woman fat or ugly regardless of whether it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:06 PM
2

What other option do small dicked men have other than work with it? If they want their lives to revolve around the size of their dick then nothing anyone says is gona change it. Would you rather people condescendingly praised their size. There's more to life than dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 07:29 AM
1

Men talk about it more because men care about it more. Can only work with what you've got and if men with small dicks are constantly thinking about it then thats their issue to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 07:06 AM
1

Well having a small dick is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 07:01 AM
3

Small dick energy doesn't mean literally having a small dick. I also know a heap of dudes who say that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:44 AM
1

Well it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:46 AM
1

Women don't expire, all sorts of hanky panky goes on in resthomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:16 PM
7

Wrong, a lot of men do, they're so obsessed with having a big dick that they want it even knowing it would be painful for their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:13 PM
1

Dating itself is discriminatory and there aren't any prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:08 PM
9

She wasn't having a dig bro, interesting that you seemed to take it as one though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:15 AM
4

Doesn't change the fact that no amount of complaining about it will change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 08:54 AM
6

The reasons behind women's aversion is irrelevant, people fuck who they want to fuck and if that counts you out then too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:56 AM
4

Abortion isn't killing children. Men abandon their kids all the time and no one bats an eye, when a woman does it she's the scum of the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 06:20 AM
4

Yeah that's true, women are held to a much higher standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:56 AM
2

Women need to use their bodies to provide sustenance and shelter for their kids too bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:30 PM
22

Its pretty simple dude, if you don't want to be celibate then don't get into a relationship with someone who's celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:11 AM
7

Depends on the ex and why the relationship fell apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 01:56 AM
1

My wife isn't bothered with how long I last as long as she's come first.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:24 PM
1

No, I don't feel pressure, I want more money coz I like to buy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 10:24 PM
10

Disagree, I'd only ask my wife for one if I thought she had cheated on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:52 AM
5

This sounds like made up tiktok 'science'.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:18 PM
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So it's women's fault that the assumption will be that she is dumped with the kids and her career will be the one to suffer? Just sounds like more men trying to avoid responsibility. Men choose to have kids and just assume the wife will take all the hits without offering to do the same for their own kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:00 PM
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Women make that sacrifice because when kids are involved someone has to and men generally won't do it. Men also choose to have kids but dump that responsibility on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:09 PM
1

I chose a high paying job because I wanted it not because of pressure to provide, and yeah working long hours sucks but the pay-off makes it worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:19 PM
17

No they're not, men make the choice to be shitty, that's on them, not women. So many dudes go on and on about women taking accountability on this sub, how about take some accountability yourselves instead of blaming women for your own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:20 AM
17

Women aren't to blame for men choosing to be horrible fathers and partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:42 AM
3

Those who are most worried about gold diggers are strangely those with the least gold to dig. Also if I was taking someone out on a date it was because I wanted to treat them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:09 AM
15

People wanting to have sex is biological, if it could be ignored that easily then we would cease to exist. Yeah that's it, nevermind the cost of packing up all their belongings, finding a new job, somewhere to live, transporting all their stuff. If only they wanted it enough those expenses would disappear. This isn't fantasy land where if people want something enough it just magically happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:56 AM
15

Sex is fun and telling people not to have it is ridiculous. Moving costs money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:48 AM
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