~ archived since 2018 ~
~ archived since 2018 ~
| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | This is why you’ll NEVER approach any women! part. 1 | Fundamentals | fuckthisoneainttaken | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Magic tricks/personality tests | Resources | fuckthisoneainttaken | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 03:04 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | I stopped my scooter ride for her - On being present and why you don't need dating apps!Well, as a Romanian, I can pretty much assure you that Eastern European girls are more receptive to street approaches and stuffs like these, since our country as many other neighbor countries that back in time we’re part of the Soviet Union, the things rested like the way it used to be before the arrival of internet and stuffs like these. I also live in a foreign country, I live in Belgium, and as an Romanian that was kinda used to approach on the street, things seem kinda hard over here, since … | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 01:00 PM |
| 5 | Okay folks, we need a thread on not getting quickly attachedAs Alexandre Dumas said in « The Count of Monte-Cristo » - « He who has felt the deepest grief is best able to experience supreme happiness. We must have felt what it is to die, that we may appreciate the enjoyments of life. » Go on, get attached, get your heart broke, and you ll learn how to much you should attach. It’s like the whole seduction thing: only by doing things in the wrong way you’ll learn. It’s something totally normal. | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 11:37 PM |
| 4 | How should I play this?I would like to help you out, but you should move on. Approach new girls, there are a lot of girls on the hallway, and maybe u ll find the one that will be better than the girl that gave u her number and doesn’t respond. | /r/seduction | 11/02/20 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Date is set. How to send a reminder to her if we are still on before the date?I usually ask her about the date the day we should see eachother. You should make her see that you aren’t desperate, and ask her 2-3 days before. That’s a bad move. | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 06:25 AM |
| 0 | I'm 39 and getting judged for sleeping aroundWell, I don’t really give a fuck about what others think about my life. I have fun, I’m socializing, I’m nice with everyone, then don’t see any problem if I go approach a girl and then have sex with her or not. It’s really normal, and if someone judges you about doing this, then is because they cannot do it. Usually, people judges a lot something that’s seen as an bad habit in the society. Ok, alcohol is not okay, doing drugs is not okay, but socializing isn’t also okay now? If there would be no… | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Magic tricks/personality testsExactly. It’s not for impressing girls, it’s just for times i gotta interact with a group and need to make them see me as a nice guy, and not a treath, since there’s a lot of protective guys and girls that you need to impress so you can actually talk with the target in private. And as you’re a stranger, talking won’t help you that much, since they’re not interesed into knowing your life but having fun. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Magic tricks/personality testsBro, you just picked up the wrong post | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 03:15 PM |
| 2 | I’m going to get good with women!I’m totally loving this one. Got it from Neil Strauss’s book? ;) | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 06:06 AM |
| 4 | If you were a nerdy, introverted man how would you attract women?You should try these few basic things I recommend to any begginer: Go to the mall, get some new clothes, make some good outfits, assort them with necklaces, bracelets, maybe earrings if u like, or rings. Get some serious amount of accessories. You’ll be more eye catching. Show respect to your body. Get a proper hygienic routine, go out and do some sport, maybe jugging, going to the gym, or even becoming a member of a boxing club or stuffs like these. And get some nice photos of you while doing s… | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Going on dates with girls who are less attractiveThe thing is the same, only two things are different: 1. The aspect. 2. How the girl is seen by the other mens. 1 - Her aspect is different. A is 5/10, B is 11/10. But they are womens. 2 - The 5/10 is less approached by mens, and sometimes even bullied. The 11/10 is like a god for most of mens. She’s entirely tired of those “You look soo gorgeous” things. Validation’s not the key. Go for making her a compliment, then turning it around and say something about an aspect you find unattractive. It’s… | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 12:13 PM |
| 1 | I'm a complete beginner and I approached 7 women tonight; got rejected by all 7. No, it doesn't make me feel better at all. I want to be castrated so I can finally stop thinking about women. I hate them so much.When you start approaching girls, as a begginer you’re more in your head than into the conversation. Stop overthinking, go ahead and say what you want. Same thing happened to one of my friends I helped out into seduction. The guy just approached almost 10 girls. All of them leaved, rejected, and stuffs like these. I just refused to let him go home without getting a girl’s number or social media profile. He almost approached 16 girls, and, in the end, after all those rejects, the last girl, she w… | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 12:04 PM |
| 0 | Bad news: Didn't get the number. Good new: I had the balls to approach.Bro, look. There is no bad news. Didn’t got her number? 0 fucks given. It rests tons of girls you could get their numbers. Look. When I firstly started to approach womens, I failed for getting instant-dates, phone numbers or social media profiles. And why? Cuz my last line sounded always like “Can I have your number/Instagram/Facebook?”, or “Would you like having a coffee with me?”. Then I just realised how stupid those things sounded. When I firstly got a girl’s phone number after approaching h… | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 11:53 AM |
| 2 | UPDATE: So I made my first approach everNice job mate. At the end, try leaving with this line: “I really enjoyed being around you, but I’ll have to leave. I would love to continue this conversation, but I’m already late for my work meeting/smth similar.” If she’ll give you her number/social media profile, she’s into you. If not, then, pass by. Not all the womens are intelligent ;) | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 11:12 PM |
| 1 | How do U stop being in your head and stop giving a fuck ? Like I’m always in my head and like self conscious I wanna be more confidentSome of my routins I used to release myself from overthinking: Saying “Hi.” to any women i would find attractive and passed by. Laying down on my back while reading a book, in the middle of the street. 30 min would be enough. Going and asking a beggar for a coin. (Toss a coin to your pick-up artist, Oh valley of seduction) Making compliments to every women I would interact with. Maybe the girl that serves at the bar, maybe the girl you saw another day in the library, or maybe the girl that’s wor… | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Tips for opening/flirting in loud venues?I find this amazing for creating sexual tension. You’ll get the chance to approach her so she can hear you, and that gets her chill about getting touched by a stranger. And you’ll also be more relaxed since you’ll be more chill about being close to her. You can practice your tonality and voice level with an friend, until you find the perfect levels of making yourself heard, but not as an neolithic tho. Also, you’ll start being more receptive and hearing all the stuffs the chick is saying since y… | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 10:58 PM |
| 4 | Push and pull works but don't know what to sayLook. I got into that stuff, and found some method that helped me a lot when it comes into picking up online: Start talking to her at different hours everyday. Don’t waste to much subjects and time into the conversation, since you wanna date her. Try to convince her to grab a coffee with you. Faster and sooner. “I’m not into social media. And I find you awesome, so why not grabbing a coffee and spend half an hour/an hour or maybe two for talkin f2f? I find it more human.” Never ever waste time o… | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 10:45 PM |
| 5 | Is it a good idea visiting the same venue for 3 long daysYou’re just enjoying the festival. Don’t give a fuck about what people would say. Even if you’re there to approach girls, then, fuck em shit talkers. No one would ever come at you and say “Yo bro, stop approaching girls 3 days in a row in the same place.” Because the thing is that no one gives a fuck about your life. And this aspect is also a funny thing to say. If you ever approach the same girl the next day, then, you should even say something like “Hey, I just felt in love.” Then make a 2 sec… | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Finally made an effortReally nice job brother! Keep up the good work. | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 10:25 PM |
| 1 | We all know girls are attracted to guys who don’t give a fuckWell, that shit applies to in our case. Since a girl would ignore you, don’t even look at you, you’ll become paranoic after getting attention from her friends but not from her. Same shit that guys do: Go interact with an group of chicks and boys in the club, but ignore completely the target. She’ll be more than angry, but she’ll start to think only at you, and why you aren’t into her. Cuz you know, there’s a lot of guys, that fall in love at the first sight, and start bending into their knees fo… | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 10:23 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter