| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 9 | I don’t like pretending | fuckyeapancakes | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 11:55 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | I don’t like pretendingThanks, so how do i do it ? I'm already doing things i like in life, can't really imagine what would change my need to be needy | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 07:33 PM |
| 2 | I don’t like pretendingNever said i only want that from relationship, also you're the only one that actually suggests that putting your needs first is not attractive. Every other source says otherwise (guy who puts her needs above his own is supposedely needy and not so confident about himself) and to be honest i think i'm in the middle, i don't let girls walk over me but i always try to think about what she wants/needs. I do not understand first part about fucking, please elaborate/explain ? | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 06:45 PM |
| 1 | I don’t like pretendingI guess it depends on how you perceive spamming, i actually think that i spam more with my guy-friends than those girls i talked to (who turned me down) Main thing was (i'm guessing here) that i was always trying to go for next meeting too soon, even like two days or day after. But again i always thought people do that especially at the beginning when they start meeting each other. | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 06:41 PM |
| 1 | I don’t like pretendingThat's my problem man, i start too soon and can't help it. Thanks for reply | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 06:38 PM |
| 2 | I don’t like pretendingThat's what i think, also i didn't phrase it correctly - i don't spam and vent, i just like to text with a person i like, and i don't get these rules "don't double text back" "don't text back in less than x amount of seconds" why act like i'm not interested and excited if i am ? I rarely find any girl who likes to talk much tho - few that did quickly ignored me, others are actually in relationships with some of my colleagues (i feel less anxious around them since i know they don't hit on me - an… | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 06:33 PM |
| 2 | I don’t like pretendingYou sound like one of those people who say „if you really love her, you should let her fuck another guy” because she is all that matters right ? That doesnt work that way, i also need to feel comfortable and not pretending someone else | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 06:20 PM |
| 1 | My #1 go to plan for an awesome 2nd date!Thats cool and all, but how you guys get free house (living with parents here) ? I cannot afford my own flat so how you do it then ? | /r/seduction | 02/06/18 07:52 AM |
| 2 | Asked her out, bombed and embarassed myself from nervousness, but she said yes.Hey, good comment, i get what you're saying. I'm always wondering tho, at which point should you start blaming your game. Say you're not into being super dominant and you feel natural when being more neural (not showing sexual interest, at least not directly, overall playing it very safe). Most of the people here would say that you lower your chances of getting a girl - so should i change ? Getting dominant and acting like someone who women desire is hard and takes practice - but then again if y… | /r/seduction | 01/11/17 03:20 PM |
| 0 | Asked her out, bombed and embarassed myself from nervousness, but she said yes.i wouldn't say that, 5% is the approach, 95% is what you do when you meet her. You have to ask yourself if your objective is to ask her out, or to get to know/fuck her. I'm not trying to be negative here but that was my experience, getting a date is easy because girls are curious at first. Then you go on a meeting, things get awkward or she's in a bad mood and it all goes to shit. | /r/seduction | 01/11/17 09:21 AM |
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