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190

Haven't been asked, but I had someone remove it without saying anything. I was livid, but kept it composed. Had a stern talk with her afterwards. If she at least is consensual, it's okay to say no.
/r/seduction05/10/21 10:29 PM
4

Stop overthinking it. She already knows. She can read. She's not hung up on height. 85% of guys are gonna be shorter than her.
/r/seduction29/08/21 03:04 AM
1

Some people just need their personal space. I don't like texting or talking to someone 24/7 no matter how much I like them. I need time and space to rest and recouperate.
/r/seduction26/07/21 06:23 AM
1

Agreed, but don't give her your number... Take hers. Especially for a latina, gender roles are more prevalent.
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:40 AM
2

Could be anything. Pride, she just wasn't that into you, saw you only as short term, lost attraction to you, her girlfriends are guiding her, or was seeing another guy. Or a combination of those and more.. best to let it go. Hit the gym. When she sees you with an 8 weeks later having a blast on IG... Imagine the things that will be going through her head.
/r/seduction18/07/21 08:33 PM
8

She definitely feels sad and upset, but she's not going to show it. You simped up to her and let her walk all over you, instead of being the man and telling her behavior is unacceptable, and that you take priority over her girlfriends. The power will swing more in your favor the less you care, and you already moved a step in that direction by saying no to FWBs. Go no contact. If she messages you, think it over for days before responding. If you are an 8 and she is a 4, you already got more optio…
/r/seduction18/07/21 08:05 PM
2

Hella stalkerish bruh, don't do it
/r/seduction17/07/21 03:49 AM
1

You're overthinking it. Having a bunch of girls in your phone demonstrates preselection.
/r/seduction14/07/21 07:29 PM
1

L O L
/r/seduction12/07/21 02:13 AM
1

Not true. Women don't build an emotional connection from banging.
/r/seduction10/07/21 04:07 PM
1

Not true. Women don't build an emotional connection from banging.
/r/seduction10/07/21 04:07 PM
0

As you don't text her, her hamster will start spinning. When you pour gasoline on the fire by leaving crumbs pretending you're preoccupied with another chick, she's going to go ballistic after you.
/r/seduction10/07/21 02:21 AM
3

No need to overthink it, she's throwing herself at you. "Come through and lets find out." Then provide a date, time, and location.
/r/seduction09/07/21 08:07 PM
1

Disagree. Women don't want to think about these things, they want you to lead. Make plans, offer her a choice. If she's interested she'll say yes, else she'll say no and and counter offer when she's free. Everything else is a no.
/r/seduction09/07/21 12:11 AM
2

Prior experience tells me studying for a PhD in engineering means not having a life, unless you want to count books as a life. 😉
/r/seduction08/07/21 05:40 PM
7

Maybe. He could also be shy and inexperienced. At the current rate, you have nothing to lose.
/r/seduction06/07/21 04:00 AM
8

Stop playing games. Text him.
/r/seduction06/07/21 03:51 AM
1

You're gonna do fine bro. Be outcome independent of her. You're going there to have a good time, and if you have a good time, so will she.
/r/seduction01/07/21 09:49 PM
1

This * 100. If you show no physical intent and just randomly grab her, its like you were revealing a hidden motive. Which can come off creepy.
/r/seduction27/06/21 04:51 PM
2

Pull her in to cuddle on the couch. Rub her side gently up and down, teasing her and getting slowly closer to her sensitive areas, as you're cuddling her. Tilt her head and kiss her after a good 15-20 minutes and she's soaking wet and waiting to be fucked.
/r/seduction27/06/21 04:10 PM
3

The needy nice guy in you wants to make an impression on her. Who gives a fuck? What will it accomplish? She's dead bruh.
/r/seduction27/06/21 02:54 AM
2

Nah bro. You can be handsome and not have game. Only thing that guarantees success is numbers and putting yourself out there. Looks != success for men.
/r/seduction18/06/21 06:08 AM
1

Balls dropped
/r/seduction15/06/21 03:29 PM
1

You can say anything if you say it with confidence and the right positive demeanor. Even if its totally absurd. Try asking for directions.
/r/seduction12/06/21 08:32 PM
2

"Hi, what's your name?"
/r/seduction12/06/21 05:31 PM
62

I'm in the top 1% financially. It alinates you, people treat you differently, you don't know who you can trust. Definitely is lonely at the top.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/21 04:14 AM
1

Do you like watching him fight them or just horror scenes in general? I could imagine it makes you horny seeing your man fighting.
/r/seduction01/06/21 03:25 AM
2

Honestly, it sounded like she just loved the attention of a guy orbiting her. I don't know, I'm reading a 10 sentence summary and inferring my own conclusions based on experience. Peacock a bit on social media, get her to bite, and then play hard to get like you're seeing other girls and she'll have a 100% role reversal. However to me, it's not worth the effort. Hit the gym instead.
/r/seduction25/05/21 11:14 PM
1

You'll fly to her, you'll move for her.. bro. Unless there's a reason, you giving up power in a potential relationship is a beta move. Girls want a challenge, not a "yes ma'am."
/r/seduction25/05/21 11:05 PM
1

You sound desperate AF, dries up a girl faster than the Sahara.
/r/seduction25/05/21 11:02 PM
1

It doesn't matter much if you ask or go for it. I asked the other night and her response was to make out with me. It's all about the build up. There needs to be attraction and tension, she should feel comfortable with you as you've already broken the physical barrier. If escalating to a kiss is a small step for her because you've already been touching, hugging, and flirting with each other, she isn't going to feel like a slut. I chose to ask because for my last two dates, both girls called me a …
/r/seduction19/05/21 02:51 PM
1

Approach either way, disengage if not interested.
/r/seduction18/05/21 08:54 AM
2

Sounds like she was tryna get laid bruh. She hit you with the "wyd?" aka "u up?"
/r/seduction12/05/21 04:44 AM
2

It's uncrossed as we speak. What you gonna do about it?
/r/seduction06/05/21 07:13 PM
1

You calm her judgemental aspect of herself by saying it's perfectly normal you're not judging her for getting her needs fulfilled, etc etc and don't make it a prerequisite, the less she thinks about it the more she'll do it.
/r/seduction04/05/21 04:47 AM
16

You did pretty good bro, keep at it. Words of advice: just physically escalate before you go for a kiss. Think of a kiss as 6/10 difficulty move while going on a first date. If you go from 0 to 6, you're going to be thinking too much and have a chance of failure. If you take smaller actions before doing it, you can calibrate and escalate accordingly. For example: nothing -> greeting hug (1) -> guiding via lower back (2) -> hold hands (4) -> getting physically close (5) -> kiss (6) If any fail al…
/r/seduction29/04/21 02:56 PM
2

That's what I thought when reading this, you sound like a narcissist bruh.
/r/seduction15/04/21 02:54 AM
50

Who cares, don't let some basic shit test stop you
/r/seduction02/04/21 09:37 PM
2

Ok please tell me this is a troll 😆
/r/seduction09/03/21 05:10 AM
6

Damn, what a catch. I have NO IDEA why a girl didn't give you her real number!!
/r/seduction09/03/21 05:08 AM
6

Stop watching porn
/r/seduction09/03/21 04:50 AM
5

Dude, as a homeboy who it took a while to get laid, the problem is within yourself. You feel entitled to pussy because you're X/Y/Z, no one is entitled to anything. That's atypical beta nice guy behavior. If a woman gives you a fake number or doesn't respond, you come off creepy. That's all that matters to a woman, and she probably did it because she felt you'd blow up on her if she rejected you. Find a wingman and they'll be able to see the stuff you're missing, and vise versa. Plus it makes it…
/r/seduction09/03/21 04:48 AM
10

From my experience, it's likely the 3rd date you fucked up. A girl invites herself to YOUR place to play CHESS is looking for sex. Getting cold feet or nerves isn't the same thing as not wanting to do it. She didn't want to feel like a slut or what not, she wanted you to be a man and lead her and seduce her to sex organically. There is what a woman says and what a woman is actually saying.
/r/seduction03/02/21 05:04 PM
1

San Francisco. Bunch of rich tech bros and not enough women.
/r/seduction16/01/21 06:37 AM
1

100% she's fishing from you. Spike her emotion with a funny compliment and try to meet her
/r/seduction09/11/20 12:05 AM
1

Do it. Who cares if they reject you?
/r/seduction28/10/20 05:09 AM
3

You sound like a fuckboy, if she's not looking to hook up you're gonna fail. Unless she's that into you.
/r/seduction17/10/20 12:27 AM
2

If you don't care about a relationship, keep doing what you're doing. Doesn't matter who initiates. If you want to find out if she's emotionally invested in you, leave some subtle indicator you're upset with her and go no contact. After not hearing anything from you, she's going to get upset and reach out. If she doesn't, no harm no foul you can move on. If she does, she's not trying to tip the power in your favor.
/r/seduction03/10/20 07:06 PM
1

Some girls are just too shy to make moves, she's interested enough to keep seeing you. If you're not doing anything physical by the 6th date, you're friend zoning yourself or she already friend zoned you. It's worth attempting to salvage by escalating, but if it doesn't work out and she rejects you just move on.
/r/seduction03/10/20 06:55 PM
3

Stop apologizing so much. Make a plan to smoke hookah and invite her. Don't be in your head all too much. Break the contact barrier and then escalate to kissing.
/r/seduction01/10/20 02:50 PM
1

You have a silver blonde look going which does lend you to the albino look, but regardless you're attractive
/r/seduction30/09/20 05:22 AM
1

I don't know. There's not enough information. It could be anything: neediness, bad grammar, annoying laugh, etc. Some girls just want attention, if you can't get that information from them its going to be an uphill battle. But if you're not communicating in English but not using decent punctuation, start doing so. Don't get so attached to one girl
/r/seduction23/09/20 02:50 AM
5

maybe because you type like you are twelve that could possibly be it right it wouldnt be hard to use punctuation right i dont think im being unreasonable
/r/seduction23/09/20 02:41 AM
1

Protip: they're just as horny now
/r/seduction19/09/20 05:49 AM
4

Here's an idea. I don't condone this but it will be enlightening. Create a fake dating profile with a "bad boy" and have exciting, "get in your pants" kind of conversations. Be confident, arrogant, and tease women. See how it goes. Then try a personality shift and be timid and nice and shy and see what happens. Different profiles attract different people, but the one thing everyone wants to have is fun, exciting conversations. Not dry "hows the weather" kind of bullshit.
/r/seduction15/09/20 05:53 PM
5

Whatever you decide to do when hanging out, you test the waters by breaking the touch barrier. Push her playfully or grab her arm, if she doesn't move further away you slowly get more physical => hand around shoulder or back => cuddle => kiss => touching each other => undress. Every time you do an action, depending on her action/reaction calibrate your response and escalate/deescalate/keep the path.
/r/seduction10/09/20 06:02 PM
1

I started out like that too. Be outcome independent, don't focus on winning a 2nd date. Focus on having as much fun as possible for yourself and let the chips fall where they may. It gets easier after every date until you stop giving a fuck.
/r/seduction04/09/20 05:44 PM
1

Are you a moon? Because you're in her orbit
/r/seduction30/08/20 01:09 PM
3

Who knows. If you put yourself in her shoes, there are a billion reasons she might have been hesitant, like her past or just having a bad day. She might have been seeing a guy who she's into and hoping for a relationship. If she uses an excuse, she's just not interested. It's akin to the "I have a boyfriend" card. Some guys take rejection really badly and get persistent and aggressive, don't be one of them. Sounds like you did everything fine but the pootang gods weren't smiling on you today. Be…
/r/seduction26/08/20 07:13 PM
4

Walk away. She wasn't interested.
/r/seduction26/08/20 07:05 PM
10

I'd walk out too, huge red flag. Show someone some common decency if they're taking time out of their life to take you on a date and "pay for your drink."
/r/seduction23/08/20 04:20 AM
2

Sounds like a shit test to me. She wants your validation that she's worth pursuing. Act like you don't care if she thinks you're the alpha / player type, that's the only way to pass it.
/r/seduction21/08/20 01:42 AM
2

This happened to me twice this year, almost exactly the same story. I heard a woman's perspective on this, which I'll try to paraphrase and add my opinion in. Women are naturally scared / anxious of meeting a guy alone, and you need to make it as easy as possible for her to see you. You had a really hot lead, she was into you. You schedule a date and go silent for a few days, and that lead starts to cool down. She starts losing attraction and feels maybe, just maybe you're only trying to meet to…
/r/seduction20/08/20 02:21 PM
2

Stereotypically hot guys usually have chiseled facial asthetics and short hair or a buzz cut, cute guys usually have the boyish good looks and long hair. One looks like a bad boy, the other looks like a good boy. They're both attractive.
/r/seduction20/08/20 06:13 AM
2

Delete her number.
/r/seduction16/08/20 07:34 PM
3

You're gonna get plenty of more opportunities and you're going to fail them. That's just how it goes. Practice talking to strangers, be comfortable in situations with random strangers and you'll be fine.
/r/seduction16/08/20 05:01 PM
1

Got set up with the "hot" roommate of a co-worker. Just you, dawg.
/r/seduction16/08/20 05:55 AM
1

Sometimes a girl just wants attention and validation. Filter them out faster.
/r/seduction15/08/20 01:27 AM
3

Just tell her, you're looking at this wrong. You were on a journey most men don't take, learning how to conquer the anxiety of approaching the supermodel type confidently. She knows she isn't a supermodel. And she stole you off the market because she's an undercover supermodel. Sure she wasn't your end game, but you realized you already found what you wanted. Edit: someone worded it better than me above. I honestly thought the stuff you said about her was 10x better than any slight from your jou…
/r/seduction14/08/20 02:37 PM
2

I've been getting called that too lately. Never did until about 2 years ago when I went through a mentality shift of not giving a fuck and being not very interested in them as a person. Chances are, you actually are a fuck boi tryna get your dick wet mate. Own it, don't be defensive. It's very disarming.
/r/seduction12/08/20 11:56 PM
5

If you can hold a conversation with a friend, you can do it with a girl. Treat them like a human / friend and add in flirty banter in the middle and you'll do fine. Also, practice. Be outcome independent and just get better every time.
/r/seduction12/08/20 11:35 PM
1

It's completely fine as long as you own it. Be confident and bring it up in an assertive way that makes it not a big deal. If you don't give a shit, no one gives a shit because they don't hold any power over you.
/r/seduction08/08/20 02:56 PM
2

Believe it or not, it bothers women more when they think a guy lost interest in them. They just get over it faster with another guy. Find something or someone to occupy your free time. Learn to not give a fuck when she sees you living your best life and attempts to reattach.
/r/seduction06/08/20 02:56 PM
1

Stop overthinking this shit like an autist. Strike up a convo, evaluate her response, and fuck her or fuck off.
/r/seduction05/08/20 06:41 AM
1

Set the stage, let them know verbally in your conversation it is a man-woman romantic interaction. If they just see you as a friend, KINO will be rejected. If they aren't receptive to your verbal escalation, physical escalation is generally risky.
/r/seduction01/08/20 06:05 AM
5

This is the most autistic advice I've ever heard.
/r/seduction31/07/20 02:05 PM
1

Lmao you're trying so hard to come off the victim but you made your bed 100 times over. Break up with "Erin" and go be off with your fuck buddy, there's no way this ends well.
/r/seduction03/07/20 09:40 PM
11

As a Midwest to Cali transplant, I can vouch 100%. The west coast dating scene sucks, we gotta deal with 4s who act like 9s. Go to NYC and you'll drown in pussy.
/r/seduction22/06/20 01:43 AM
1

I remember my ex from years ago, when I knew nothing about seduction. When we broke up, I tried chasing her and wanting to fix things, and it just drove her further away from me. Took time off dating to work on myself and move on completely, and the dynamic changed. She consistently keeps trying to get my attention but I don't give a fuck about her anymore and don't want her back. Go no contact. If she starts to miss you, she'll start chasing you, if she doesn't you didn't stand a chance anyways…
/r/seduction06/06/20 04:15 PM
2

Karma, my dude. She holds all the power now and you are the one chasing. It doesn't sound like you know what you want and once you catch her, you'll lose interest.
/r/seduction06/06/20 04:01 PM
8

Wtf? The girl is probably less than a year younger than you and that's a problem? You think people will think you're a pedophile?
/r/seduction06/06/20 02:14 AM
1

You're spinning everything in a negative light but the reality is that you should be spinning everything in a positive light. "I barely missed the cutoff for an advanced high school but still got in one anyways." You don't need a CS degree to work at Google/FB, you need a work ethic and some prior experience coding. They get millions of applications each year, what are you going to show to stand out from the pack? Be confident you can achieve anything you want in your professional life and you'l…
/r/seduction05/06/20 06:20 PM
1

You'll probably first fall into the short term relationship or fling kinda thing first. Maybe a LTR with a crazy woman or a low value woman if you're not careful. There's billions of women out there, everyone wants to feel loved and accepted. You just need to make yourself vunerable enough to be okay getting rejected. You're overthinking this, work on yourself and women will come. A lot of girls are attracted to muscular guys, get fit as fuck if that's your only option.
/r/seduction05/06/20 06:26 AM
25

Mad props dude, you're a madman, especially in today's age. I think you're missing golden opportunities to develop your socialization skills by not talking to girls who are taken. More important than getting laid is developing the ability to control and socialize in any situation. It'll also warm you up for talking later on.
/r/seduction05/06/20 03:27 AM
1

It's the exact opposite, you didn't pursue her so you didn't make her feel attractive and give her the butterflies. If she invites you over and to stay the night, that's the old school version of Netflix and chill. Get her to come over or go visit her, and slowly and comfortably escalate to sex. It's generally not a question you ask, a girl wants to be led and have some form of deniability: "it just happened so fast."
/r/seduction04/06/20 12:25 AM
2

What's the book?
/r/seduction03/06/20 06:18 PM
1

She lost attraction for you, duh. Would you break lockdown for Scarlett Johanson? Well she's not gonna wait 2 months to meet Brad Pitt, either.
/r/seduction03/06/20 02:38 AM
3

If she's actually as innocent as she's portraying herself to be and she's not just a wolf in sheeps clothing (BPD), I'd be surprised. Tread with caution, stay away from them.
/r/seduction03/06/20 01:34 AM
2

Almost. The one way it backfires is if they she is actually emotionally exposing herself to you by asking that, and you just dismiss it like an asshole.
/r/seduction03/06/20 01:19 AM
3

Whether or not it is one, you should treat it as one nonetheless
/r/seduction03/06/20 12:35 AM
1

If you share the same values and something you strongly believe in and you're not just tryna get your dick wet, sure, why not
/r/seduction03/06/20 12:21 AM
181

A simp is someone who submits to a girl to win their affection. Spending money on a girls nudes and posting thirsty comments on a girls thirst trap IG validating her looks hoping for her attention in return. Alpha males shame these people too.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/20 10:16 PM
2

If you've invited her to hang out and she skirts the message, she's gonna know why you suddenly lost interest
/r/seduction02/06/20 03:23 PM
4

Read books by men, they are first hand accounts of mens experience with the opposite sex. I can understand self help should come from the same sex, but the market for these kinds of books for women is small.
/r/seduction01/06/20 08:07 PM
1

All these people who give you blanket encouragement are tone deaf. If you want to succeed, you're going to have to do a complete 180 in life. It's not going to be easy. You're going to have to do things outside your comfort zone and approach women. And you're going to fail, you're going to fall flat on your face. And it's going to hurt, and you're going to have to get back up and keep going knowing you're gonna fall back down again. Even when you think you can't fall anymore, you're still gonna …
/r/seduction31/05/20 05:28 PM
1

Different strokes for different folks. Dip yourself into everything, find what works and build on that. There is no universal guide because your experience changes with geography
/r/seduction30/05/20 03:25 PM
1

Spin the story: You didn't come because something important came up. And try again.
/r/seduction30/05/20 03:00 PM
9

If you give women enough feelers or are significantly high value, quarantine doesn't matter under normal circumstances. You just have to be worth the risk.
/r/seduction30/05/20 02:56 PM
253

No one wants a pen pal unless they're already in a relationship
/r/seduction30/05/20 12:23 AM
1

^ this. Don't excuse your behavior. Tell her you had plans in the city so it must be her lucky day.
/r/seduction26/05/20 03:16 PM
1

Flirting is a just a way of showing romantic interest subtly. Try teasing an attractive quality about her that she is proud about: "Yeah I can tell you checked out all the books from the library, nerd" "Must get rough sending all those guys to the ICU with that booty" It's really not so much the quality of the flirting, its about how and when you deliver it. Is the conversation going good and she seems highly interested? Say something flirty. Be quick and witty and say something that will escala…
/r/seduction26/05/20 03:12 PM
2

Turn the conversation away from school. Ask about her interests, flirt, and escalate as you test the waters and see how she responds.
/r/seduction26/05/20 06:06 AM
2

Yes, yes he fucking likes you. He's not staring at you because of that huge zit on your face.
/r/seduction25/05/20 05:08 PM
2

Yes. It doesn't matter what you say, it matters what you make them feel
/r/seduction24/05/20 05:46 AM
1

Lmao you friend zone her and she blocked you. Just what 99% of guys would do if they had 99+ women waiting to message them
/r/seduction20/05/20 11:28 AM
1

A tyrone here. Got hit on enough to know I was attractive, but no social skills with girls to capitalize on it
/r/seduction19/05/20 04:13 AM
1

The way I read your messages to her was if you're asking for permission to take her out. It comes off as if you're putting her on a pedestal Just tell her you're free after X on Tuesday, lets goto starbucks
/r/seduction06/05/20 01:58 AM
1

Honestly some girls like a man to tell them what to do. She gave you an open invitation, you tell her the date and time.
/r/seduction06/05/20 01:47 AM
1

No one cares about the movie unless you want to sit around and talk about it like girlfriends. Keep escalating. I'm not a pro by any means, but 30 minutes in was all it took last time.
/r/seduction23/04/20 04:03 PM
4

Own it, look like MJ and learn how to dance
/r/seduction14/04/20 03:55 PM
0

Giving a massage is a very physical interaction. They have to be comfortable with you to accept it, or in the mood themselves. Also this is hella creepy.
/r/seduction29/03/20 05:16 PM
4

You need self confidence bro, no girl wants to sympathy fuck a loser. Go join a gym or start taking boxing or mma classes. Get some self confidence and don't give a shit and you'll attract women
/r/seduction22/03/20 05:40 AM
1

I used to be in the same boat. What I found out was that you need to make your opportunities instead of waiting for something to happen. Once you are in the 20s, girls don't ask guys out like that anymore. You know that girl who keeps giving you IoIs and seems super friendly to you? Make a move. You're expected to be a man at this age and make a move. That's all there is to it. The first one will always be the hardest, but then you realize it's really nothing and everything will start falling in…
/r/seduction21/03/20 03:33 PM
0

Good shit, learned some things myself. I'm a bit skeptical about the parts on what sounds like you changed your personality over night, but it sounds like you've made massive improvements in your day to day and the results are showing.
/r/seduction19/03/20 02:25 PM
1

Try to fuck her, but don't be blunt... Pique her interest. Tease her and get her to send dirty pics until she's begging for you to come over.
/r/seduction18/03/20 12:54 AM
2

You actually think she's going to say that? You're planning for something that won't happen and your pickup line is going to make you cringe for the rest of your life.
/r/seduction25/01/20 07:32 AM
1

Women who go through men like nothing generally have cluster B personality disorders. They're not worth the trouble.
/r/seduction10/01/20 12:41 PM
-8

The original quote is akin to men possessing women. D Directly substituting words in the exact same quote, I can't help but think it means women possessing men. Not a fan.
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