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| 1 | Most women can’t admit that they care about looks just/nearly as much as men because they see themselves as the sophisticated and non-primitive gender as opposed to men.Honestly the truth is somewhere in between. I had a friend who was as good with women he’d tell me all the stories of how he banged this girl or that and he was extremely confident. But when he told the story every girl was a straight 9 always “oh that’s the hottest girl in the city”. One day I finally asked him to show me these women and fine none of them were ugly but they were straight 6s but peroxide blonde and tanned. He just had a type. So yeah every blonde with big false lashes and a nice… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Do you believe the women on amiugly?This is definitely true. There’s actually a lot of cute women that get overlooked. I swear to god. I mean there’s women that are beautiful, loyal, romantic, genuinely not superficial, they love you and find you the most handsome man in the world. But they’re only single for maybe 5 months their entire lives. Like I mean, girl I knew she was the best girl in the world and I didn’t appreciate her we were so close but she wasn’t glamorous even though she could have been. After me she glows up start… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingExactly man, it’s not just that. What I’ve noticed is not only are these type of women, extremely loyal and truly sincere in loving you but they’re not superficial. They actually have that Disney type love that is good for a guy that just wants a great girl. You treat her right she loves you harder. She finds you uniquely more handsome than anyone else. As in, I remember the first girl I met like this, she was still a virgin when I met her and she was so beautiful that I never even recognised it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingBro the more tragic thing is the most attractive kind just normal and loving girls I knew were so loyal, they were the kind to get a bf at 19 and be with him for 8 years etc They’re on the market their entire lives for only a few months LOL But my experience with these woman is don’t be an idiot the grass is never greener if you dump her she’ll have a new guy in a few months and stick with him for the next decade and you will never get her back.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 04:41 PM |
| 11 | CMV : Men assume a woman to be attractive, and are more forgiving of negative traits. Women assume men to be unattractive and try and find the cracks between all the positive traitsThat’s definitely true. But the most annoying thing is women that offload all their spite and most deliberately hurtful behaviour onto the guys she’s not into (tolerates). Guy she’s into pumped and dumped her that weekend, left her on read and drove her into a heartache and jealous fury by posting openly on social media with women that are prospects or conquests? Well instead of giving the guy an earful she will be extra cruel to the puppy dog guys that are orbiting her. I’ve noticed this specif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 01:32 PM |
| 4 | PPD women be like:I don’t get it honestly. In my town I regularly see women with shorter guys. Like maybe it stands out but when I see a normal 5’6 guy who looks happy and secure in himself it’s no surprise when I see his partner is a 5’10 woman. I swear. It’s really common where I’m at. But maybe it’s because tall women don’t ever seem to care how tall their boyfriend is in my experience as long as he’s not insecure about it or doing awkward stuff like saying “you’re never allowed to wear heels”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Discussion : Whats the most eye opening real life example of TRP in action you’ve ever experienced?It’s definitely complicated I watched a UK documentary and they were following around confirmed DV victims and she’d talk about how the guy beats her etc and they kept catching her texting him and it came out she’d met up with him multiple times off camera during the course of the filming of the documentary. When they confronted her about it she just started blubbering. I mean that’s the conditioning in action, a whole comfort blanket of people can give support direction and have the person walk… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:03 PM |
| 4 | Some girls are really open to be attracted to all types of guys, others are really judgmentalI knew a girl that genuinely preferred “bears”. She was like slightly above average attractiveness but she confessed to a friend of mine she just preferred like husky guys. Like a bit bigger than a dad bod. Not an obese waddler but the kind of guy that is big kinda fat but very active and cuddly likes to move just the same and is “fat person fit” ( the kind that is a fat guy that can walk 6 miles to work every day. Some women are different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place.Whenever this happens on Twitter or in some Reddit sub like deuxmoi The borderline femcel gossip girls first say “yeah like men shouldn’t date anyone under 23 because their brains aren’t developed “ Then you get another one replying “ew honestly I think even 27 or younger is gross” And then another is most upvoted saying “yeah I think any grown man should only date someone 30 or over otherwise it is quite creepy” It’s such clear and simple shrew like projection. It’s not even like they complain … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 07:11 PM |
| 2 | We are much too hard on people that feel insecure for lacking a desirable trait, people that HAVE that trait are often even more insecure (A post on /r/tall showing how obsessed and insecure many tall people are about people being taller than them)I don’t think he was being emotional I think his words going past you so he had to elaborate more. I wouldn’t accuse you of being deliberately obtuse but I think it should be clear what he was trying to say at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 06:57 PM |
| 7 | We are much too hard on people that feel insecure for lacking a desirable trait, people that HAVE that trait are often even more insecure (A post on /r/tall showing how obsessed and insecure many tall people are about people being taller than them)Actually it wasn’t from searching randomly this was all in just one thread, you can go see the thread yourself, the comments I posted weren’t even cherry picked. Literally every comment is of people expressing that sentiment I just picked some at random: The post: www.np.reddit.com/r/tall/comments/43wuld/why_do_many_tall_people_react_negatively_when/ You may just have to remove the “np” it’s a years old archived thread anyway. I also think this wasn’t the first thread I saw years ago, there’s be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 04:29 PM |
| 1 | We are much too hard on people that feel insecure for lacking a desirable trait, people that HAVE that trait are often even more insecure (A post on /r/tall showing how obsessed and insecure many tall people are about people being taller than them)I swore I flaired it as a “discussion” I don’t know if mods can change the flair and if they did I find it weird they didn’t notify me that they changed it. Maybe I had a brain fart I’m going to change it to “discussion” and if it changes back it’s definitely the mods and I won’t touch it again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 03:05 PM |
| 2 | We are much too hard on people that feel insecure for lacking a desirable trait, people that HAVE that trait are often even more insecure (A post on /r/tall showing how obsessed and insecure many tall people are about people being taller than them)I’ve never seen tall guys with this attitude Part of me wants to be mean and say it’s the Reddit factor. But have you never been with a group of. Guys and they clear their throat and straighten up their back? Start doing that thing where they put their hand on their head and run it across the air to see who is taller 🫡. What I’ve definitely seen it with is when guys see a tall women. I remember a post on Reddit this 5’8 guy had this 6’4 STUNNER of a girlfriend. And he posted this picture of this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 03:00 PM |
| 7 | We are much too hard on people that feel insecure for lacking a desirable trait, people that HAVE that trait are often even more insecure (A post on /r/tall showing how obsessed and insecure many tall people are about people being taller than them)I love this explanation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 02:54 PM |
| 1 | We are much too hard on people that feel insecure for lacking a desirable trait, people that HAVE that trait are often even more insecure (A post on /r/tall showing how obsessed and insecure many tall people are about people being taller than them)Yeah that makes sense honestly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | We are much too hard on people that feel insecure for lacking a desirable trait, people that HAVE that trait are often even more insecure (A post on /r/tall showing how obsessed and insecure many tall people are about people being taller than them)That I find so crazy. If you search breast reduction on YouTube I remember multiple women I saw that were in 20s or 30s and they were getting reductions and the passionate reasoning the first one I saw gave was how humiliated she was because of her breasts. She didn’t like them. “I was walking on the street and all I could see is my huge breasts sticking out in front of me I knew I couldn’t take it anymore” Or words to that effect. https://youtu.be/qy1xhUCntvA She wasn’t even talking about back … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 12:09 PM |
| 3 | We are much too hard on people that feel insecure for lacking a desirable trait, people that HAVE that trait are often even more insecure (A post on /r/tall showing how obsessed and insecure many tall people are about people being taller than them)I think the humble bragging aspect is more when the conversation has nothing to do with height and you’ll see someone be saying “oh I’m 6’7 and I think this”. The only funny thing incels ever did when I saw them trolling on Reddit was when a guy would do that, they’d respond “oh I wouldn’t know about that I’m 6’11 and my experience is y” and the original responder would be like “oh really?! Maybe I will still grow I’m stil 21” I found them going out of their way to do that and screenshot it, a b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 12:00 PM |
| 1 | We are much too hard on people that feel insecure for lacking a desirable trait, people that HAVE that trait are often even more insecure (A post on /r/tall showing how obsessed and insecure many tall people are about people being taller than them)The post: www.np.reddit.com/r/tall/comments/43wuld/why\_do\_many\_tall\_people\_react\_negatively\_when/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 07:28 AM |
| 8 | Who came up with the idea that women like douchebags?The hardest thing for some guys to understand who are often socially inept and aren’t socially active enough is that life doesn’t work like the movies. This was extremely toxic for so many guys growing up in the early 2000s I remember so many movies (written by men) where the chumpy kid who is shy and doesn’t know how to talk or be entertaining has the hot girl “see something in him” then dump her “jerk boyfriend” who has to be a jerk because he’s taller, good looking and maybe has money or high… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/22 05:00 PM |
| 1 | If women are so much more willing to have sex while drunk, Why is there a gray area of consent?Looooooooool Cmon bruh you know you took it too far with that because no sane person would say that in real life during a discussion of lack of consent when extremely intoxicated in public without anonymity. I just imagine at a debate “ waaa waaa what you whining about you want to drive drunk and crash into people or what??” LOOL I don’t think many of these cases of dudes expelled or charged when both parties are drunk are fair and in the past it was seen as a mutual mistake, nobody needed to go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 12:00 AM |
| 13 | I'm an obese, single mother and these are my demands. You must be over 6'3" (no exceptions), stable house and income, like MY kids and want more kids, be interested in marrying a single mom, and etc....People often refuse to believe I’m “only 6’2 “because it’s so common for 5’10 guys to round up to 6’ that when they see me they say “ you must be taller” I don’t blame the guys, because a lot of women are so rigid about it it’s just a dumb number they have in their mind and they’re only like 5’4 or 5’5 much of the time and can’t even tell the difference. Oddly I find that the taller a woman is the less they care about height, there’s so many tall women in my area and they’re always with a guy th… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/01/22 08:10 AM |
| 2 | I'm donating this meme to all the FDS members here since you aren't very good at making them, yourselves.What’s wrong with her wanting a cawk big enough so that she can have her man hit it from behind With big 🍑 big capabilities are required 🍆 ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 04:17 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women that approach have a huge advantage to those that just sit around and wait to be approached.I’ve had women approach me when I’m abroad and it’s not dodgy at all. I think if you travel and you go somewhere where you’re an exotic commodity women generally stare when in the middle of Eastern Europe they see a tall well built guy that isn’t the same colour as them. I’ve been lucky enough to have women approach me when I went to a different town and god I’m grateful. It basically streamlined everything, no bullshit, she just approached me was very friendly and said where are you from nice t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 09:30 PM |
| 3 | It seems like men don’t really approach women anymore, especially in the west. What are your thoughts on this?Bro I’m loving these stories this shit just make some laugh, it’s so weird with all this gender war crap. Looking back on memories and the shit women would do to go out of their way to get a guy it really makes it all seem silly. I remember this girl I know who go married to a guy, she had found him on a train at a festival but didn’t talk to him, but became obsessed after or something and scoured like hundreds of groups online looking for him and finally found him all with the assumption that y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 04:52 PM |
| 9 | It seems like men don’t really approach women anymore, especially in the west. What are your thoughts on this?Haha the “she so obviously likes you” is often the girl commanding her friend “ go tell him I like him and see what he says”. If you don’t bite they just move on. But many times the girl would literally have her friend go and tell the guy they like him while they watched ( that was when we were in even younger years). It’s so funny to look back, women were quite forward but often in a way that would protect their dignity. I only met a few women that would straight up ask you out, they were fucki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Do women really have a bunch of orbiters waiting in line for their chance to get with her?It definitely does happen but it’s an extension of teenage cliquey nature. There were girls that were so popular that they had 200 likes on every picture they uploaded and tens of comments each blowing smile up their ass.. But I knew girls that were less confident and quite shy and didn’t wear make up but my god she was so hot when she wore make up, it just wasn’t her style, she was a geeky quiet girl. So the popular girls would have orbiters from basically every school in the area. Then as adul… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/21 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Youtuber Alexander Grace says that pursuing casual sex is next to impossible for all but the very top men, and most men are better off finding a high quality woman and getting out of the dating market asapI totally disagree. Look at the obesity statistics in the U.K. and then in the USA it’s even worse. Remove the homeless men from the dating pool, remove the mentally insane, remove those literally in prison LOL Now just think how few men are in good shape, if you’re in good shape that puts you so far ahead of everyone. I recommend going otter mode, ive not really known many women that are desperate for the gymcel mode guys that have bulked hugely.. Women I know do like height but in terms of bui… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 05:17 PM |
| 2 | John Anthony Lifestyle Scam And Worst PUA In The Worldfollow james tusk, he's actually the real deal, he does long live streams and many of his pick up videos have gone mainstream, he's a good looking guy but does loads of approaches and often gets blown off, he's pretty wholesome and legit. John Anthony is fat, receding hairline and dresses like a slob and pays for hookers and has been exposed 10x over now, he's clearly not well, he was lashing out at all the competition trying to make himself seem better people pointed out he clearly has extreme … | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 11:13 AM |
| 2 | John Anthony Lifestyle Scammed My Friend And Threatened Him With ViolanceWow, in one of them he exposes that the guy even bangs transexuals, which in pick up is seen as a no-no. And come on, who believes a guy like him, pudgy with a receding hairline saying "I HAVE 1300 LAYS".. And that ridiculous video he did with 3 women in a room loudly protesting "they're not hookers!!" but what woman, dresses like that and willingly obeys a man on camera with no shame when he says "Turn exactly like that.. s-s-show your ass". It was obvious they were hookers. And he's been expos… | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 09:40 AM |
| 20 | Myron Gaines Exposed as a Sugar DaddyI just searched "myron gains" to find this thread not a member here. Iwatched fresh and fit recently but it's funny that people have started calling out Kevin Samuels for his obsession with shitting on women. I actually like the entertaining and kind of spicy and open and more honest gender discussions. I think Fresh and fit is a good format. But... They exposed themselves. They're really desperate to cater to the aspiring "high value men" that watch them. But they clearly aren't high value men … | /r/ExRedPill | 12/08/21 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Jealous women over 30 are shaming an older man for wanting to date younger women. Young 20-somethings are still hitting up his DMs.man, the relationships I saw were often downright illegal, but lol if you went to the school hottie and said "why are you dating a 23 year old guy, he is a paedophile!! Date men your own age!" they'd tell you "Shut up you immature jealous little wimp, you don't understand you're too childish, go away, I love Jeff, he is in a band and he has a car and a flat he shares with roomates" Like seriously, the shit I saw.. And multiple of these women are now married to different guys but they were seriou… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/06/21 12:03 PM |
| 1 | To women that seek out partners a foot taller than them... Why?I see it A LOT. IKR? That's why I'm scratching my head that these posts don't match up with the reality I'm seeing. The one time I saw a 6'2 girl her boyfriend was waaaay shorter. And these are really sweet looking couples. I think in the UK height isn't made as big a deal, maybe in America it's different and people have ironclad ideals, my experience has been that I have seen this again and again and again. Any time I'm driving I will always see these kind of couples on the street. Normally guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/20 12:52 PM |
| 3 | To women that seek out partners a foot taller than them... Why?Exactly, no guy has ever rejected a woman for having"breasts that are too small". Honestly you'd need to be swimming in options as a guy before such a thing to even occur as a possible thought. But even though big boobs are awesome, it's just not something you'd discriminate over.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/20 11:12 AM |
| 3 | To women that seek out partners a foot taller than them... Why?I'm not a woman so I'm responding here: I've never seen tall women care that much at height, they just don't want a man that will be obsessed about it and take it out on her "ohh why are you wearing heels you make me feel short" "I wish I was taller, are you less attracted because I'm tall" The thing is it seems shorter women are doing it to make up for their lack of height, they like having a taller guy as a symbol almost. But on the street I see 5'11 women hunching over to dote on their 5'8 bo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/20 11:09 AM |
| 50 | Why isn't male hypogamous nature ever discussed?"Why is a man who sleeps with a lot of women a "player" and a woman who sleeps with a lot of men a "slut"" Well, when you imagine a guy who is very successful with women and has slept with hundreds, what's the first thing you think he must be in terms of quality. Likely very confident, outgoing, likely successful, driven. Resourceful , possibly financially well off or even wealthy. A woman that has had many men, possibly 100s? She likely is a prostitute? Mentally ill party girl that can't stop l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/20 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Women that give you mixed signals or aren't really too interested in you, or keep you waiting when you message them aren't worth your time.Exactly, I admit the biggest player in our group was the most working class lad who was about 5’8. He immediately pulled this one extremely arrogant model girl That thinks she’s gods gift. NOBODY pulls her, but he did that same night. All the other lads had rich parents and we’re all 6’ and up but nobody pulled as well as he did. And when you look at him, sure he has a decent face... but he wasn’t a super model or even highly attractive. It’s just the way he carried himself and the way literally… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Women that give you mixed signals or aren't really too interested in you, or keep you waiting when you message them aren't worth your time.They're not all dating ugly guys, the point was that it was largely unsuperficial. And different girls had different interests. One guy is a big artist and the girl who has several tattoos is madly into him and they've dated for years and have a kid on the way. Another girl has a dad in finance and she's dating a guy that has a very junior finance position and they love talking about investing and have been together for ages. Obviously some of the guys are very good looking but a lot of them rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 09:01 AM |
| 0 | Women that give you mixed signals or aren't really too interested in you, or keep you waiting when you message them aren't worth your time.We're just talking past each other lol.. But I admit I enjoyed the conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Women that give you mixed signals or aren't really too interested in you, or keep you waiting when you message them aren't worth your time.Didn't you just say in your previous post that they were dating short, chubby, and kinda goofy looking? Now you're saying they're dating their top tier dreamy guys. Bro, they're not all the exact same person, the point was some of them were dating guys you wouldn't think would get any matches on tinder but they were with the hottest girls in the group. This is over a period of years and some women in different groups and some were former models so yes while some dated less attractive guys others… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/20 08:02 PM |
| 4 | Women that give you mixed signals or aren't really too interested in you, or keep you waiting when you message them aren't worth your time.First of all, you have no idea what these women have actually done, only what they've told you. I do actually, I've known all these people since pre-pubescence and what happens in the group strays fast. We know which girls are messy, the girl that was having threesomes at 15 with much older guys. The girl who let her boyfriend fuck her with a refrigerator bag because they ran out of condoms, the girl who let two guys fuck her at once because one really wanted to lose his virginity and she didn't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/20 07:13 PM |
| 93 | Women that give you mixed signals or aren't really too interested in you, or keep you waiting when you message them aren't worth your time.Honestly, when a woman is right for you you don't have to do all this bullshit and you don't have to be degraded or have her play games. Everyone I know that's in a relationship they found a girl and she immediately liked something about them, maybe they both skii and he was really good or she liked that he listened to the exact same band as her because he was wearing their t-shirt or she just liked his style. From that moment you don't need to be "left on read" she's going to be overly eager to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/20 01:29 PM |
| 4 | [Repost to hide name]: “Intelligence is key” says the 24yr old concubine with 4 kids from 4 different baby daddies.Jesus, I know so many real low class people that would take that, being given that lump payment and a path to smoke weed the rest of their lives is all they'd want. They already spend all their benefits on weed. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/08/20 03:18 AM |
| 15 | [Repost to hide name]: “Intelligence is key” says the 24yr old concubine with 4 kids from 4 different baby daddies.Yeah in my country having a child at 16 is basically a meal ticket, especially under our previous left wing government. They would get a social housing... For life. And on top of that can claim childcare e.t.c and all kinds of benefits. There are areas where there's multiple generations where the mother popped out a kid at 16, got on the social housing list, nabbed herself a free property and that's it, then her daughter drops out of school at 16, nothing to do, may as well get pregnant it'll ge… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/08/20 03:16 AM |
| 3 | If women cared about male n-counts then how come they still sleep with/date men with high n-counts?Dude you gotta share some "rise and fall stories". Can you please drop just one (more if you're bothered to type) story about what a guy was like when he was younger, stats like "was 6'2, in shape/ athletic or muscular and he did x and did y and told me about z, now he has x career or y position and is bald or is fat or is in debt or whatever the exact scenario is" Not out of gleeful schadenfreude more just interested, I heard a story about a boy who was the "pretty boy" in his teen years and al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/20 07:45 AM |
| 2 | Men who "know what they want"Two, women are rightly afraid of the potential consequences of simple refusal/rejection. Come on. Meeting a girl then being miles away from her after the date, you're not going to kill her for being honest. I'm not talking about "saying it's not you it's me", That's one thing. I'm talking about purposefully manipulating a guy in a deliberate way so that when you're done having fun with your first choice, second choice and even third, months later you can come back to him and be like "heyy" And w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/20 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Men who "know what they want"If that's true, why do some women learn purely manipulative behaviours from a young age...? Why do some women as teenagers know never to just say to a guy "I'm into someone else" instead they will always choose the option that leaves you on the back burner so that if they no longer have what they want they have plausible deniability so that they can just pick you up off the burner. They will say "Oh I'm just not ready to date right now, I've been stressed because of work and I've had a lot on my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/20 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Men who "know what they want"When you're that fixated on the number, surely you are more turned on by being able to say "she was 16" more than anything else? I say this because I don't find it unbelievable, younger women are often easier to get with, are more adoring and simplistic and "whole" in their love. You can get lovebombed easily and they just want you, no demands, no expectations. I'm speaking about legal age gap relationships (it's 16 generally in Europe). But generally, when you look at that one girl that was dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/20 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Men have a much harder physical standard in order to be attractivebro, i appreciate your politeness, but do you not see any weirdness in you saying "5s are below average", the point of a scale is for people to have mutual comparisons and understandings. Things like "10s are celebrities" is irrelevant. There are women I see every day, and even more in central europe that if you swapped their name from "Oksana Mozorov" to "Noomi Rapace" suddenly she'd be seen as hotter because she'd have the status and notoriety. "Women that are 6/7s aren’t throwing themselves a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Is there any way for low-to-average women to desire low-to-average men?They need to stop associating their digital social currency with their real life social currency. Simply put, there are women in this country (a country that has had shifting BMIs to the point that both men and women are too fat) who: Never leave the house without make up. Every single day you see them they have thick foundation, their brows done and heavy eye make up, fat but they contour their cheekbones daily to give an illusion of bone structure. They wear high waisted pants to cover their g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Men have a much harder physical standard in order to be attractiveNot really. I've hung out with guys that when we walk around in the city women turn their heads to have a look constantly and make a show of starting to change their topic of conversation and speak more loudly to attract attention while consistently glancing at them. These women were not "4s" looks are subjective and they'd generally be any quite attractive woman. The "4s" would just become mopey and dejected/ act invisible. They don't even try to attract the guy, they know they may get humiliat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/20 05:39 PM |
| 34 | Brought to you by our very own Kevin32, this poor whore can't find a man because she's been a literal prostitute and when men find that out, they vanish for some reason. (This is the rest of the story.)Women have a laundry list of things to exclude you by, even things you really can't help like being below the magical 6'. God help you when it comes to how harsh they are about excluding you based on things within your control. How many woman would ever consider a man who admits "I have sex with 80 year old women for pay, basically I've had sex with hundreds of old ladies and ate their pussy, ate their ass and likely had unrpotected sex with any woman no matter how crusty that would give me mone… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/07/20 11:48 AM |
| 10 | Swipe right if you're at least 6'. No beards!Omg, exactly! If you see a hot girl in front of a private jet or in dubai it just sets off alarm bells that she is ultra high maintenance (likely gets passed around by much older men to access luxury and even though it's basically prostitution she rationalises it as 'dating') or she has chased after players and is very superficial (the kind of players that rent super cars and flaunt and pretend to be more than they are). You see this all over tinder. If you post a pic of yourself with a fancy … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/07/20 09:43 AM |
| 48 | Cool Wine Aunt Reassures the Good Men!The worst example is when people say, and I've heard guys say this cheerfully: "Yeah I have a pact with this girl I've known since we were 14, before we went to college she said if we aren't with someone and married by 33 then we will promise to marry each other" I have heard multiple instances of this. The guy doesn't understand he's being scammed. Imagine a guy saying to a girl, I've just won the lottery and I'm partying and having fun and yoloing, If I'm not married by 35 when I've likely run… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/07/20 07:03 AM |
| 54 | Starting the weekend off right with a sex worker who wants to know when and how to break to her new boyfriend that she gets fucked for money (but only a couple-three times a month!) As always, stay out of their subreddits or you'll get the banhammer. We don't brigade, ever!Radfems in their subreddit before it got banned were always harping on about how all sex workers are trafficked and abused. They simply cannot understand that some are just addicted to fast money. To be a 19 year old that flunked school and can make 2000 dollars in one day (even more if in high class agencies) vs making 400 in one week of long hours, yeah, a lot of women choose that. If you go on their subreddit or even look at sexworker forums like saafe they all talk about the one thing they c… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/07/20 06:25 PM |
| 10 | Starting the weekend off right with a sex worker who wants to know when and how to break to her new boyfriend that she gets fucked for money (but only a couple-three times a month!) As always, stay out of their subreddits or you'll get the banhammer. We don't brigade, ever!Theres several posts on that subreddit where the woman is a sexworker and she admits she has a boyfriend and refuses to tell him. The most disgusting one was she has a "christian" boyfriend, the kind that values chastity and she is a full time prostitute screwing several different men a day and saying she "values him" and she won't tell him. The ones on that subreddit are definitely totally child like. They will say stuff like "I hate telling boyfriends, it never ends well". And rather than conn… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/07/20 06:21 PM |
| 15 | Unfair trial in NSW currently underway. Evidence of 12 prior false rape allegations from the complainant is not being presented to the jury.Because society has been dumbed down and journalists manipulate. Nobody wants to Appear to be arguing against rape victims. There was some bad cases in the past like sheryl Arujo who was gang raped by men in a bar, they just grabbed her when she walked in and taped her. The defence then attacked her on the stand and claimed she was a slut etc. So yes I understand shorty defence lawyers added to it as it seemed even in the most clear cut case hey they will call the woman a slut. But, then they ma… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/20 10:01 AM |
| 2 | So it’s slowly becoming common knowledge that oral birth control can an effect on women’s libido and mate preferences. Has anyone else noticed this?I'm a guy and it makes me recoil in pain just imagining having a vagina and that imaginary vagina having something implanted in it. Wtf. I don't like that, even thinking about it. I'm not surprised more women don't get it. From what women told me about just "hitting the cervix" feels like, it makes my skin crawl that certain procedures require scraping it and that iud stuff makes me want to faint and I don't even have the relevant anatomy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/20 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Makes sense 😅Dude I totally agree, subs like these deal in absolutes but theres plenty of people it goes differently for, plenty of poeople that had different standards. The world famous Wyatt Earp was dating a prostitute for gods sake. He just didn't care. A lot of people just find who they like and date them and don't care what other peopel think. I agree a lot of these radical feminists are angry and alone and projecting but with regards to people "settling" that happens all the time. Life long partnershi… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/06/20 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Women that complain about men that they're disinterested in approaching them, should APPROACH MEN.Sorry to hear that man. Not saying that is what happened but a lot of kids got screwed HARD by their parents thinking they were being smart "Oh I won't let my kid have a phone until they are 14" "I don't let my teens use facebook or myspace and if they do I make them add me" or "I didn't let my 15 year old stay the night at a party". These coming of age experiences are how a lot of people got lucky, also social media like I said. I'm sorry if you missed out in any way. It's not too late. I think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Women that complain about men that they're disinterested in approaching them, should APPROACH MEN.Only a few years ago lol less than 10 years (don't want to cumulatively dox myself by dumping info that can be combed through.) That's the thing though, it all depends on where you are and social class and most of all putting yourself out there. If all the kids joined myspace and you didn't have a page.. You're not part of the group. If all the kids joined facebook and you didn't.. You're not even involved. I even remember back in the facebook days, people would do "random adds". It was basicall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 09:48 PM |
| 4 | Women that complain about men that they're disinterested in approaching them, should APPROACH MEN.I've had a lot of women approach me throughout life. I've seen them do it to others, especially over social media. It happens. It depends on your circles and what social class you're in and where you live. I had a really fucked up life and obliterated self esteem but I must have been attractive? Because it's not normal for 8/10s to approach you? Anyway, when I was younger a lot of the time girls would just openly show they were crazy for the "hot guys" (mostly not physically attractive, more ric… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/20 05:31 PM |
| 15 | The women of r/niceguys and r/FemaleDatingStrategyI remember this post on /r/purplepilldebate https://imgur.com/a/SQtLyRY It unequivocally proved that FDS are the types of women that cannot pick a man and pathologically if a decent dude treats them like a "queen" the kind they call a "High Value Man". They would not date him or find him attractive. They flat out admit that they rejected those men. "I had just hottened up after growing up ugly" "I was going through my bad boy phase". But it still doesn't make sense to me. How can you flat out ad… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/06/20 03:32 PM |
| 1 | How Are Women Viewed by The Average Man?That's actually kind of true, "the girls" were treated with such reverence and when there was a time they needed to be given privileges, they were spoken of in such hushed tones. "the girls will be allowed to complete their push ups in the manner that is more appropriate for them". " When we go on the the next round of this game don't be overly aggressive towards the girls." And there was every Disney movie showing the idea of male disposability, the man sacrificing himself, changing and running… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/20 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Do you feel like the amount of relationships you’ve had makes your current relationship any less exciting and/or enjoyable?This is so true. If I dated every woman that asked me out over the years I would have had many many many girlfriends. But I had a lot of extreme personal problems so I pushed them away. There were some where they were maybe a little not my type but I should have still dated them. People can grow on you. I know I have grown on people because I've even had some women not like me then later like me after us spending a year knowing each other. People can grow on you. I had a lot of luck and when I w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/20 06:08 AM |
| 3 | Q4RPWomen - how, and, to what extent do you view and interpret RP?People forget that tinder was easy to get success with just four or five years ago. Seriously when it first came out it was easy to get matches. Now? 80% of the user base is male and that’s not including the bots and women who are just there to shill their insta or do it for attention. What’s left is few high quality women, more the type that are endlessly promiscuous going for man after man, not the type an “AFC” is going for. If you look for the article in the daily mail about most popular tin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 07:32 PM |
| 1 | I constantly read on this sub that men don't put nearly as much effort into their appearance as women. Other than common sense and being physically fit, what can men really do?I don't mean to say all women and also what I feel is you don't need to have an entire reactionary ideology to understand that women saying "oh just be nice" when you ask for advice was just a platitude and you need to follow what works, just look around at the successful guys. Likewise, seeing that the popular kids/people are all in the loop socially and follow fashion trends and give off an image of value can just be understood and you can adapt. Personally for me, I just don't see how followi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 11:31 AM |
| 0 | I constantly read on this sub that men don't put nearly as much effort into their appearance as women. Other than common sense and being physically fit, what can men really do?Gucci, Armani, Hugo Boss e.t.c and I'm talking about teenagers, Superdry was more the bare minimum people were wearing. I'm from the UK so the conversion of £200 is actually more than 200$ (before the pound sunk). That is a cheap jacket lol, since I was 15 I have been investing in jackets that cost 500$+ everytime I bought a new jacket. This is shit advice lol. I imagine most men wear 200$+ jackets, since getting decent ones for a price below that is hard. You're just coming off as trying to hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 07:06 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: What is degrading about the male gaze?I can think of two times I saw other men interact with women that put me in a pause. One time a white dude was standing on the pavement, he was overweight and baddly dressed, smoking a cigarette. Two maybe early 20s ( about 20 or so years younger than him) young japanese girls walked past, he openly turns his head to follow them with a massive huge grin on his face. He doesn't make any sense, he just goes "come on! Yeaaaaah" and beckons them to him. They do not even break their stride or turn ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 06:56 AM |
| 4 | I constantly read on this sub that men don't put nearly as much effort into their appearance as women. Other than common sense and being physically fit, what can men really do?Honestly, so much of attraction is relative. My "style" growing up means I rejected the bravado and arrogance and the "tryhard" to "look like you're not trying hard" fashion that the really popular and high status guys in my group had. The one common thread other than being decently good looking is they ALL dressed in designer clothing, they'd be wearing Gucci, Superdry e.t.c What's more they'd talk about what looks good and they'd always be following the trends , when there was a time everyone … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Why is it always "female hypergamy" and not shameless male thirst that is complained about?It's like 80% male and that is not including the hordes of bots and also the women on their just to tell you to sign up for their instagram or shill their cam site subscription e.t.c Seriously a lot of complaints of tinder are just because it's dying. I remember like 4 years ago on tinder it was so easy to get matches. That's because it was still hot and fresh and everyone was trying it and women had plausible deniablity of "just trying the hot new thing". Now, I'm sure the gender imbalance is w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/20 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Attractive men have always had it easierBy outcast I don't mean like a pariah, I just mean he wasn't in the "in group", he was in the group chat as a "hanger on". And my point on gender relations was that I'm not a redpiller and I'm not an ideologue I've seen these kind of dynamics play out for both men and women doing stuff like this. I'm open minded and see these things as more of a human thing, that people do when they get wrapped up in social dynamics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/20 08:31 PM |
| 2 | What do you think life is like for attractive men? Compared to attractive women and other menI had experiences that are complicated because I grew up in an upper middle class environment with rich kids school as an ethnic minority. There were less girls in ratio to boys, I found that when I was younger since I was taller, I'd just "end up" in the group with the most outgoing lads and the hot attractive girls would be mingling within. When we got older there started to be taboos about "dating black guys". It was weird to see the transition, the white dudes in the class would shame any wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/20 11:57 AM |
| 3 | Why hasnt the fear of STDs and its untreatable mutations led to women treating high n count men and those who participate in casual sex as harshly as men treat high n count women?Growing up as childish as it sounds men seemed to actually brag about getting STD's. As long as it was something like Chlamydia at like 17 guys would never be embarrassed if their friends cracked on them in a group talk "remember that time you got chlamydia" because it was very obviously them feeling it gave them social clout as a "risk taker" and a "player" and someone that has a "passport" that "proves they have a lot of secks". It's so childish looking back on it but that's how it was. Nothin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/20 10:58 AM |
| 5 | Attractive men have always had it easierHonestly I saw those kind of dynamics even in High school, there were attractive guys and they would bully a lot of kids during the edgy teen phase, there was this one girl that they would always call racial slurs for her indian ancestry. She just tolerated it and said nothing, one time a less attractive and popular kid made one passive comment just "chiming in" on the joke train and she immediately shut him down and suddenly became offended, meanwhile when the hottest popular well off kids were… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/20 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (24 May 2020)Exactly! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/20 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Do you think a lot of women feel like they're wanted in public?I know exactly what you mean. I've actually been asked out my women maybe once or twice on average every year of my life. Given that I was dealing with real personal problems (understatement of some awful life experiences beyond my control) I just wasn't ready to receive affection. It was actually jarring to have a woman that is "out of my league", tall, skinny, blonde, cute.. And she comes up gives me a full hug and is talking in a very sugary way. I just became unsure of what to do. I would ei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/20 06:09 PM |
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