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Question for RedPillfullmoonhermit/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 06:52 PM
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Right? Most of the conservative women I know just look like “regular women.” Everyone from the lady in the trailer park down the road with five chihuahuas and a confederate flag on her truck to the middle aged woman with a nice sweater and perfectly manicured hands who volunteers at the animal shelter where I work to the devout Catholic Filipino lady who goes to my mom’s church. Those women vote Republican and espouse socially conservative viewpoints and they all live very different lives. The m…
/r/ExRedPill04/03/19 03:35 AM
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Stop the self-pity and learn to look outward. Try to make real connections. Enter with empathy and a genuine desire to connect rather than an end goal. Don’t strategize and don't assume you know someone's intentions. I’m not attractive. I’ve had people insult me, throw me away, even fuck me as a joke. It hurts a lot. But when I date someone, I go into it believing they’re a good person deserving of my respect and attention. The only thing you can do is let yourself be vulnerable and kind. See ot…
/r/ExRedPill04/03/19 03:28 AM
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I feel like you missed the point of my comment. You’re fixated on this.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/19 08:34 PM
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I think it’s fine to complain about other genders in venting conversation. Most people do it, it’s not meant to be a serious credo. It’s when it becomes a way of life that harms others that it crosses the line.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/19 03:48 PM
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As a woman, I can tell you that most women I know tend to go for same age or older guys. I’m very surprised you’ve developed this impression. Perhaps because something noticeable about you is your youthful looks, so you just tend to get complimented on it more. It doesn’t indicate a larger trend. But also, there are so many people out there not considered attractive by society’s standards who are in relationships. You can find them easily if you look.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/19 03:41 PM
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To be honest, I don’t think you respect women, and it seems likely the women you’re involved with can sense this. You’re pretending you don’t buy into shit like “cock carousel” and “post wall,” but you use those terms in exactly the same way red pill types do. Women with low self-esteem are likely drawn to you in part because they sense your disdain. You’re mad because some women reject you, you’re mad because some women want you too much. Women are flawed and sometimes shitty, therefore, I gues…
/r/ExRedPill15/02/19 04:27 AM
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She would know it. Women report symptoms of birth control all the time. If your arousal and desire or your feelings for a partner start to decline, you notice. You may not associate it with birth control, but you notice. If you're worried, just ask her if she's experiencing that. Like any side effect, it doesn't happen to everyone. Be open with her.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/18 11:59 PM
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Do you know men who wouldn’t remotely fit into the red pill mold of what an alpha is who have wives and girlfriends? Why not ask them how they met and wooed their partners?
/r/ExRedPill07/05/18 07:52 AM
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I don't pay for it now, but I used to have a subscription to a website. A custom performance would make me uncomfortable I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 01:59 PM
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I'm honestly not sure. What I like may not appeal to most women. I like femdom a lot, especially with men who are really vocal. BDSM, especially with people who seem to have a real connection. Fetishy stuff. I think in general, including clit stimulation in more porn would be a good move. Women like a variety of things, but almost all of us can find appeal in seeing genuine clitoral orgasms. Porn that feels more real.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 01:11 PM
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I have actually paid for porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 01:06 PM
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But what's your point? Both men and women pursue those of similar attractiveness regardless of their reasoning which refutes a lot of what RP tells us about women's standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/16 10:21 PM
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Bro, Tom Hardy is never going to come to my house and fuck me. Do you seriously think I can't be attracted to any dude who isn't as hot as a good looking celebrity? Nobody would be having sex if that were the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/16 03:29 PM
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Fanfic is full of a pretty wild amount of body diversity. I think a sexy plumber book could take off in the right circumstances. Certainly, there is appeal for women in the blue collar guy as well as the business man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/16 03:28 PM
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I remember watching a documentary on PBS that really stuck with me. They asked people to rate themselves by attractiveness (1 to 10) then separated them into two groups. Then they asked them to approach another person in the room they were attracted to. Nobody knew what numbers the others had chosen. Well, turns out, the fives went to the fives and the tens went to the tens and the ones went to the ones (with some slight variation, ie, a six going to a five or an eight to a seven). They had done…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/16 03:25 PM
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Ahahahah really?! I haven't heard this since high school. It's the closeted boy's anthem and it's horseshit. For the record, a sex act doesn't make you gay or straight. It's a preference and an identity. It's about attraction, not where you stick your dick. We're going to base our sexual conclusions on Ancient Greece now? I suppose men should also start fucking their teenage students to really get in on the Greek way of life. Speaking of, would anyone mind drilling a hole in my skull, Roman styl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/16 03:16 PM
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My partner has to be invested in mutual pleasure. Caring about my needs in a real way. Whether I orgasm or not is secondary to that. So that's the difference between some asshole who uses me as a sex toy and someone who genuinely tries to make me feel good. Does that make sense? It's not so much the goal as the intent. For me, achieving orgasm can take a long time with a partner, so sometimes I just want to do other things. Other times, I want an orgasm, and I ask for one. Just depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/16 04:35 PM
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I mean, it depends on the individual for me. I hate the term 'neckbeard' and it implies some personality issues. I've found feminine men and fat men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/16 04:28 PM
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So it's personal bias, gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 07:16 PM
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Why do you think that? I'm genuinely curious. I'm working class and my work involves lots of physical labor. My family has always been poor because my dad became a paraplegic when I was very young. Maybe I'm an outlier, but I'm not sure why the pretentious urbanite stereotype is so prominent in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 07:08 PM
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Friendship? Yeah, probably. I do like to hash out differing world views, and as long as they're not assholes, I've got no problem chilling with various kinds of people. But sex or romance are a no go. That's too much of a belief gap for me, and it would be very tough to build trust with someone who sincerely believes things about women that go against my identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 06:58 PM
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I know this sounds cliche, but almost any boob is a great boob. I'm into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 06:54 PM
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No. If anything, I might assume he's less shallow and be more attracted, even if that's not necessarily true. People have types.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 06:15 AM
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Active listening involves truly absorbing what the other person is saying and responding to the needs they've expressed. I know this can be tough! I'm someone who also wants to rush to solutions right away. When my loved ones are suffering, it fucks me up. I want that to immediately be fixed, and I'm unsettled when it's not. But sometimes, that decision isn't in my hands, and what the person I care for needs is support and understanding so that they can choose how they want to resolve something.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 10:19 PM
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Sorry, I'm not really understanding your point here. Are you agreeing with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 10:14 PM
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I like my work. I find it fulfilling. I hated being unemployed. I felt like a useless asshole. My work means I can be productive and maintain my financial independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 10:03 PM
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"Okay."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 10:00 PM
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But hopefully not "remove thy shift" since that's what we're trying to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 02:56 AM
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Good for you, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 01:00 AM
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All our children should be taught by goats.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 12:55 AM
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Sounds borderline sociopathic to me, but to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 12:51 AM
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What the hell does codependency have to do with it? What point are you trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 12:44 AM
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I have no problem with any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 04:58 PM
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If you think it's easier to survive on your own instead of with another partner contributing, you haven't been a single millennial working for shit wages. I assure you, my money isn't going to shoe shopping. It's paying off rent, utilities, insurance, phone, groceries, etc... all on my own. I'm not married and I pay for the privilege. My LTP doesn't live with me. But I also don't think it's particularly selfish of me not to want to get married. I can contribute to people's lives in other ways. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 04:55 PM
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What you described is not respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/16 12:37 AM
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I'm not arguing that you should have to respect anyone, just that your conception of respecting women "more than many people do" is off base.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/16 11:56 PM
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Why is my potential any of your business and how is it respectful of you to assume you know better than me about what I should be doing to "improve myself?" That's not respect. At best, it's condescension.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/16 11:47 PM
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We tend to read each other's moods, and if we sense something amiss, we ask if something's wrong. Then we try and talk it out. Sometimes, it takes a lot of conversations to get to the root of the issue, other times we can tackle it immediately. Bigger issues involve constant negotiation--like how much time should be spent together, etc, etc... It's not high drama, but it can be quite tiring. (I'm a woman dating a woman, fwiw).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 04:23 AM
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I like it. I get off on it. I do think the sex industry in general needs more regulation, oversight, and safety assurances for those working within it. As with any vice, it's important not to let it fuck with your life. But yeah, porn is enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 04:18 AM
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As individuals with their own individual reactions. Wealthy people generally make me uncomfortable. Someone else's mileage may vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/16 04:15 AM
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I'm good, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 02:52 AM
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Yeah, I'm all for letting the CIA brainwash citizens. Sounds like a great idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 07:48 PM
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This is not a requirement. My girlfriend doesn't particularly like oral sex. We get each other off on the regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 02:18 PM
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Thanks for doing the footwork on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 09:54 PM
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Locker room talk: that girl has amazing tits and I would love to grab them Sexual assault talk: I can grab that girl's amazing tits and get away with it because I'm in a position of power Also, he was entering this woman's workplace and saying insanely degrading crap about her, while also saying degrading shit about another woman to her coworker. It's incredibly juvenile and rude and disrespectful. Keep that shit at home with your buddies, if you've got to talk like that at all. I don't go to a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 06:34 AM
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I was too young to vote in the 90s, but bet your ass if this stuff came out and Bill was running now? I'd have some serious concerns. Not over affairs, but over inappropriate behavior and possible assault. Clinton would have a harder time being elected these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 06:27 AM
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Clinton was a Rhodes Scholar. Trump thinks 'bigly' is a real word. I know which one I'd rather have addressing the UN.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 06:26 AM
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Meeting people in online platforms catering to your interests is useful. Websites designed just for dating or hooking up are rougher in my experience. I met my current girlfriend through a blogging site because of a shared interest in writing. I was on dating sites for awhile, but it was mostly men sending me sexual come-ones without even a hello. Pointless. Even on websites designed for sex, an introduction wouldn't go amiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 11:53 PM
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Aw, you don't think Trump would grope Donna Kelley? What a shame for her. I know I stay up all night weeping over the fact that Donald J. Trump will never grab my pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 11:43 PM
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If I had to rank the Republican primary politicians by physical attractiveness, Trump wouldn't even beat human grease stain Ted Cruz. Motherfucker is ugly as sin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 11:39 PM
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Didn't you get the monthly hive mind newsletter, fellow female?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 11:37 PM
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I think he's a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 11:35 PM
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Believe it or not, polyamory isn't inherently sexual anymore than monogamy is. Talking about who you date or are in a relationship with shouldn't be weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 05:13 AM
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Also true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/16 07:25 PM
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Ah I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/16 06:12 PM
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Gotta be honest, I have never heard that saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/16 05:38 PM
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You've met poly people in your daily life without realizing it. Most poly people don't tell everyone they meet that they're poly because they're afraid they'll be judged. Weird, I know, since you and everyone here seem so accepting and open-minded about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/16 05:37 PM
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I appreciate you keeping an open mind, that's very refreshing. Best of luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 11:11 PM
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Absolutely, I could be with one member of one gender for the rest of my life. I don't want kids, but if I did, same answer. I currently have a girlfriend, and I don't feel like I'm missing anything. It's just like you in a monogamous relationship--probably, there are other people who would be great partners for you, but that doesn't mean you yearn to go out and pursue them. You love and are committed to your SO. While I understand your concerns, I think they're misguided and a little ignorant. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 10:50 PM
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But being bisexual isn't about not getting what you need because you aren't dating a man or a woman. I don't miss dick when I'm dating a woman or vagina when I'm dating a man. I'm falling for one person who meets my needs in specific ways. Every time you date someone, you're going to have things to offer and things you can't. That's the nature of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 08:47 PM
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Good for sluts, I'm happy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 08:27 PM
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I'm with you on both Blair Witch and Lynch movies. A good disturbing David Lynch feature makes me feel like crying and vomiting at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 08:17 PM
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I don't know, I guess? I don't care much about makeup, but I have nice long hair and I like girly things. My friends and coworkers (the women I conversed with) are all across the spectrum in terms of gender presentation. I'm not saying women are just like men, but we're certainly similar enough to both enjoy our own hobbies and interests and intellectual pursuits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 07:55 PM
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This video explains it all: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=wCF3ywukQYA
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 07:52 PM
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I talk about horror movies all year long. It's a special thing I share with my mom. She's a horror movie freak. I'm taking her to a convention this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 07:51 PM
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Yeah, fear is so subjective! I love finding out what gets people going. I find movies about children in peril, especially if it's filmed from their perspective, incredibly intense because of their level of helplessness. My best friend is freaked by possession. It's fun. There's been a lot of great stuff out lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 07:50 PM
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Yes, let's!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 07:45 PM
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I saw it in theaters. I thought it was wonderfully atmospheric and eerie, though it didn't scare me. Still very entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 07:38 PM
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What happened to you, buddy? Do you need a hug?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 05:53 PM
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Hahaha you're kidding right? I don't know how to answer this other than to tell you that you're incredibly wrong. Things I talked about with women this morning: horror movies, the vice presidential debates, my mom's plumbing problem, my job performance, photography, animals, Halloween, what to do this weekend, Medieval Times, the history of the Black Panthers, and anxiety. I live my life. I care about specific men and the well-being of people in general, but I don't factor in men when I think ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 05:36 PM
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I hate to be a cliche here but dating is tough in this modern world. We know too much about one another and too little at the same time. Communities are fractured. Also, we're busy. People are working their butts off. I know previous generations did too, but even so. I'm tired on the weekends. It's amazing I have a girlfriend considering how much of our time is spent napping on one another or winding down from work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 05:31 PM
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Most women don't prefer to work? I'd love to see any facts backing up that, buddy. Women have been working forever. Only the upper classes could afford to let women stay home without contributing. Also: raising kids is work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 05:28 PM
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I'm a homebody mostly, but I do like to hang out at two local cafes, one that's a queer hangout and one that is focused on sex positivity and kink. They both have neat events and speakers and ways to meet interesting, friendly people. I also enjoy the museums and zoo around here. They're all free. My friends and I hang out at each other's houses and watch Netflix and drink beer. I like taking my dog to the park and catching a movie every once in awhile. Magnificent Seven was really good. Craft f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 05:17 PM
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But don't straight people leave their partners too? I don't get the double-standard on bisexuals on this. People break up and cheat and lose interest regardless of orientation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 05:10 PM
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I am super into my fellow bisexuals. Check out hot people with me! Share in the experience of being kind of a weird outlier in communities! Bring it on! If you fooled around with dudes but aren't bi, that just means you're probably open-minded, which I'm totally into.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 05:08 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 05:06 PM
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I wouldn't worry about it. I'd feel honored to be trusted and kind of turned on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 05:05 PM
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I have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 01:29 AM
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I'm lying about all of it because it's a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 11:38 PM
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Since most of RP doesn't seem to mind this scenario, I am now taking applications for a silent, cheerful sex toy who makes me pies and vacuums.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 04:51 PM
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I don't care if women are wild and liberal. If you're staying safe, have fun. It harms no one. I would put money on most of BP agreeing with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 04:46 PM
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Setting aside the arguments against your assertion (other people have stated them eloquently), why would BP care if it was true that women have lots of casual sex? Feminism asserts that women shouldn't be judged for their sexual choices. There is no reason for BP folks on the Internet to lie about casual sex as it proves nothing. You're not their boyfriend. They don't care what you think of them. Maybe they're just telling you the truth based on themselves and the women they know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 04:41 PM
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Cool, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 04:01 PM
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Why? Why should that be important because you think it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 03:58 PM
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See the points I made above.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 03:55 PM
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You're making a big assumption there. I think you need more women in your life. A hell of a lot of women work hard to support themselves and their families. Women are rejected and hurt and struggle too. You need to get out of your own head on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 02:47 AM
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Adult men perfectly capable of making their own decisions. Not to get all political, but capitalism is by nature about getting as much from the buyer as possible with as little cost from the supplier. I agree that there are better ways. Can I interest you in some r/socialism? Maybe get a webcam consumer regulator in there, start a porn union?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 01:23 AM
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Lots of jobs are pretty stupid. No supply without demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 01:18 AM
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Webcam pornstars are a pretty small minority of women. Also, webcam guys (mostly for gay dudes) exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 01:15 AM
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They're horny and it gets them off to interact with these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 01:10 AM
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Why should I give a shit about someone else's personal choices? By all means, go your own way, but leave my gender out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 01:09 AM
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That's completely absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 01:03 AM
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Not true. I can only orgasm when my friends on Facebook send me a dank meme. It's in my wiring. Hot people fucking does nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 10:24 PM
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I don't agree, actually. I think there is a certain subset of women who fuck dudes to raise their self-esteem, but even with low self-esteem, most women aren't going to go out and have casual sex with men they aren't interested in. Lowered self-esteem =\= horny and ready to bone more men. Maybe different men (though I'm skeptical of this too), but not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 10:21 PM
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When are you publishing this study? Can I read it in a science journal?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 09:51 PM
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I think it has a lot to do with environment and upbringing. Self-esteem varies amongst men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 08:36 PM
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If I think my friend looks gorgeous, I tell her so. If I don't, I keep it to myself. I don't really get the concept of the "over-compliment." Unless you're lying to get something or bothering someone with it, what's wrong with any compliment? At worst, it's a show of support and friendship. At best, a sincere sentiment. You might be overthinking this a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 08:34 PM
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Sorry? I didn't say anything about that. I think self-esteem varies regardless of how you look.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 08:31 PM
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Unless you're complimenting a narcissist and feeding their harmful delusions, I don't see anything wrong with compliments. I am sincere when I compliment my friends. Maybe not everyone is. I don't see it as particularly harmful either way. Self-worth (not arrogance) is always a net positive. You want your friends and loved ones to see the good in themselves and be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 08:09 PM
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It's terrible when people feel good about themselves, isn't it? I wish more people acknowledged how horrible and ugly they are. I hate seeing people support one another. If women had less self-esteem, surely more men could get laid!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 08:01 PM
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Fair enough. Misread your initial post.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 06:19 PM
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I'm in a polyamorous relationship, but I have little-to-no interest in screwing anyone but my partner. I'm busy. Got shit to do. I'm really not sure about "all women." I don't understand cheaters of either gender to be quite honest. In my monogamous relationships, I never thought about cheating. It seems like a very high risk/minimal reward endeavor. If my partner and I weren't working, we either tried to work it out or broke up. Thus, fucking other people was once again on the table. Granted, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 06:05 PM
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Look, there are going to be a bunch of RP men coming in here trying to justify their behavior, but behind all of that is your one and only answer: they're sexist. They can't justify, through experiences or statistics, their belief that women are inferior sex objects. They're bigots. That's all there is. I have some thoughts about sexual violence and catcalling with regards to men, but that doesn't mean it's okay for me to believe that men are inferior and there for me to use. There is a differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 06:02 PM
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Aren't you a woman doing the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 05:56 PM
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You're making a huge assumption about how most girls are raised and treated growing up. Some kids are coddled, boys and girls, but I think it largely depends on other factors like class, culture, and circumstance. I was certainly not coddled as a kid. I was exposed to struggle early on, expected to contribute, and heavily disciplined if I got in trouble. I worked in childcare for years. Some kids are spoiled, some aren't. Gender doesn't enter into it, though it can change how kids express the wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 05:37 PM
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Most victims of sexual assault of any kind will generally tell you that the trauma centers on the helplessness and fear and, in many cases, shame. While physical impact can vary and be compared, I think it's inappropriate to measure one person's psychological trauma against another and make broad assumptions. People will all process it differently, as with any experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 05:33 PM
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If you're not getting as many orgasms as you'd like, you can make efforts to change that. Speak to a partner, buy a sex toy, engage in fantasy, etc... While I think it's important that all partners do their best to be reciprocal, sex isn't about keeping a tally sheet of orgasms. At least not to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 05:28 PM
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Appreciate it!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 05:24 PM
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I finally found the CDC report way down at the bottom of your second source, and I can't find the data to support these statements. Granted, I'm tired, and I'm on my shitty iPad, so I may have missed it. Anyone else want to peruse? Here's the link: http://www.cdc.gov/ViolencePrevention/pdf/NISVS_Report2010-a.pdf For the record, I'm not saying you're wrong or right, just that your sources are suspect. I certainly support more resources and support for male viticms of abuse regardless of the numbe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 03:54 AM
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Almost all of the links on the eWorld page don't work. Can you link me directly to the CDC statistics? I've tried finding them with no success, though I did find the infographic on partner sexual violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 02:17 AM
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http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Chimp%20Out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 02:07 AM
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Leslie Jones isn't a radical feminist. Some people hate and make fun of her because they dislike her voice and appearance. I like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 04:35 PM
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I can't judge them as individuals, but I often enjoy and appreciate ambiguous and unorthodox approaches to gender. So as a whole? Yeah, I like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 04:24 PM
1

That phrasing doesn't seem racist at all. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 04:20 PM
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I'm a woman. I was raised Roman Catholic. I went to Catholic schooling all the way up to college. Taught Sunday School for awhile. I'm currently agnostic. I'm the kind of person who needs to see something with my own eyes to truly believe it (or see evidence via a reputable source), but much is unknown. God knows (no pun intended) I tried to believe for many years, but eventually realized struggling for faith was more of a burden than a blessing. I find the concept of a God with a plan too cruel…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 08:48 PM
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I find it can be harder to pick out and read interested women even in gay spaces, but easier to date them than men once I've got the foothold. Not because women are better, but because I find that other queer women understand more of my experience right away than men and we tend to have more in common. Just my personal experience and doesn't mean that great guys aren't worth the effort. My current girlfriend did the initiating with me, but I enjoy courting. Paying for dates, giving gifts, compli…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 08:38 PM
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My female friends don't give two shits who I've slept with. If you can't trust your friends not to fuck your partner, you've got terrible friends or serious trust issues. The rest doesn't concern me much either, so I think, though there is obvious stigma attached to promiscuity, it effects every woman differently. I seek out like-minded partners and friends who don't judge me for that and enjoy the benefits of honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 09:57 PM
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I prefer people I know, but I don't speak for all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 08:22 PM
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Probably true, but being fucked isn't a garuntee of pleasure for a woman, so few women will take whatever comes at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 08:19 PM
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Okay, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/16 03:44 PM
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Yes, because it's false equivalency. A mental illness isn't exactly the same thing as CP or Downs Syndrome. I also have a mental illness. Those words you reference don't apply to me. I don't get why you have no interest in basic adult politeness, but that's your prerogative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/16 03:37 PM
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Internet discourse =/= the real world. Women who debate the use of terminology aren't necessarily collapsing every time someone is offensive in their lives. Women still seem to be working and coping just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/16 03:34 PM
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I think disabled people have plenty of experience with "the real world" that you wouldn't be able to imagine without walking in their shoes. Living life as a disabled person puts you in contact with all kinds of hardship and isolation and pain. But it's too tough for you to not say a rude word. Cry me a river. I suppose it's helpful for them to know not to waste time on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/16 03:31 PM
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That it's not an advantage that you can make money from sex you don't find pleasurable. Men can do that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 12:26 AM
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Women in sex work aren't generally attracted to their clients regardless of their orientation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 11:57 PM
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For what it's worth, my father became a paraplegic and suffered brain injury in 94. My parents kept a loving marriage thriving until his death in 07. It's anecdotal, but take it as you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 11:51 PM
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Presumably, you have a dick and asshole. Some guys are into that. Why not go into sex work?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 11:49 PM
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Me, my entire life, and most of the women I know. Women are people. Just like men, there are assholes and angels and everything in between. We're all trying to get by. I also work at a non-profit. All of my coworkers but one are women, accepting lower wages to contribute to the community. Our board is mostly women. The majority of our donations come from women. When I go to nonprofit conferences, most people there are women too. Now, I'm not saying this means men don't care and aren't charitable…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 11:45 PM
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Feminism is the belief that women should have equal access to the opportunities and rights men receive. Depending on the region, this can mean different things: body autonomy, wages, government representation, healthcare, safety, etc... It doesn't mean that some women aren't more fortunate than some men or that every woman is experiencing the same level of oppression. Because feminism is such a broad community, the costs and benefits can vary wildly. I consider myself a feminist, and I think my …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 03:54 PM
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You must be fun at parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 01:19 AM
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She's beautiful. Tall and squishy and has the softest skin ever. Lovely beaded braids down to her shoulders. I call her my sun bear. Her mind is remarkable. She's a writer, and her imagination and talent is what initially drew me to her. She has a powerful, compelling intellect. She's really fun in the bedroom and she brings her creativity there too. She understands me and is patient with me. She builds me up when I'm down, but isn't afraid to give it to me straight. She has an adorable, shamele…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 06:06 PM
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Maybe because a lot of fat women have similar experiences, though I'm sure that assertion falls on deaf ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 06:39 AM
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A mistake on their part, then. I have a vibrator; I don't need random men who want easy pussy to not give me orgasms. Sincerity is easier to spot than some would think. But I also think, assuming they're doing it in appropriate settings, fat guys can do well if they clean up nicely. Some women like more meat on the bones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 02:12 AM
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Depends. I usually mention I'm in a relationship and they back off. I've had a few not leave me alone, but usually that's a "too much drinking" situation. Or a cat caller, but I don't consider that a proposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 02:05 AM
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An understandable reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 11:03 PM
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Speaking as a fat woman, while I consider myself something of a "niche market" for dating (with men, at least, as lesbians and bisexual women tend to be more open to it), I attract a decent number of men of various shapes and sizes. I have to say though, I tend to get propositioned more by average to thinner men. I've always wondered about that. Is it a confidence thing or an attraction thing? Fat guys just don't go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 10:56 PM
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Well, everyone's got to have that one special coworker who sells them weed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 10:47 PM
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It's meant to imply that you care about them, and would find their loss upsetting, not that they carry a certain amount of value in quantifiable ways as compared to other people. So care, or in the case of those you're close to, love. While any relationship, platonic or otherwise, requires give and take, love and care don't always follow such a strict metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 10:46 PM
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A liability in what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 08:17 PM
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What a depressing perspective. While I think it's true that human realtionships involve give-and-take, I just can't agree that necessity is our only motivation, at least not in the U.S. and other Western cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 09:33 PM
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I'm not sure how this squares. Do you think most marriages aren't born of mutual attraction? Or relationships in general, for that matter? Doesn't that mean that quite a large chunk of the population is experiencing attractiom?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 09:26 PM
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I wouldn't date anyone who subscribed to the idea that women are inferior intellectually, can't be trusted, and should be controlled. I think TRP dehumanizes both men and women, placing all their worth on how well they fit into arbitrary gender roles or how they function as sexual objects. It's reductive and sad. I worry that some of the people who get involved take it to harmful extremes. Could I be friends with a RP person? Maybe. Not close, but friendly, perhaps, so long as they aren't hurtin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 07:23 PM
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Most don't, but some do. When you're niche marketing, so to speak, you can edge out competition with a nice dress. A fat woman in sweatpants and a tank top gives a different impression than a fat woman in a classy dress that shows off a little cleavage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 07:14 PM
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I would say the way you dress matters, but it's not necessarily dependent on a universal definition of "well." How we present ourselves sends signals, intentional or not. So you can guess about someone's social circle, social status, culture, etc... It isn't always accurate, but we do it regardless. It's on of many components to deciding who we approach or respond to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 07:12 PM
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Well stated. When men ask me why women don't like to be propositioned in public spaces (because they would love it), I ask them to imagine being approached by a larger man instead of a woman. And when they say, "well, I'm not attracted to men," I tell them that most women aren't attracted to men who randomly approach them in public either. I'm bi, and I do like being approached by women, but not by men. It's a whole different ballpark.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 01:22 AM
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This handful of replies in this thread on reddit. Sure, I think you could make some broad generalizations re: femininity/masculinity, but things like "a swimmer's physique" are certainly not universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 04:32 AM
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Why would I have a problem with a subculture that sees me as a childlike, inferior, subservient fuckhole incapable of empathy that they need to control, use, and manipulate? You tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 04:30 AM
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I know RP doesn't like to hear this, but attraction is highly subjective. It's not that I don't think women value physical appearance (we do), just that we factor in a lot of other things as well. Those are harder to quantify. Looking back on my partners, I can't really pin down physical commonalities or personality traits except for one: I felt very comfortable very quickly with them. I think that's huge for many women. It allows you to let your guard down and that's when sexual attraction can …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 04:14 AM
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He's a shitty lover or a rude person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 02:27 AM
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How is it an issue that you don't get laid though? Birth control and abortion are about unwanted pregnancy. Another human being growing in your body against your wishes seems less severe to you than not getting laid? Rape is a criminal act that severely traumatizes people (men and women). Slut shaming isolates people from a community, though it's not as severe as the other things you mention. Not getting your dick wet isn't comparable to any of those things, and for that matter, there are plenty…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 02:16 AM
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You think most women are pro-draft? Didn't men in power create the draft? Pretty sure most other people were against it by the time Vietnam rolled around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/16 09:40 PM
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We do. When's the last time you worked on an Amnesty International campaign for those girls? You do a lot of work in sex trafficking prevention? Or do you just bring up sex trafficking victims when you want to make an argument in reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/16 09:39 PM
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You're joking, right? Hire a hooker, why should I care about your dick? A person's ability to support themselves off of their labor is not even in the same league as whether or not you get laid. You're not entitled to sex. I'm not entitled to sex. No one is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/16 09:37 PM
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I wouldn't date anyone who made a living off of illegal activity or morally fucked up business. I don't have kids, I just have no desire to be mixed up in that. I'd much rather have an ethical partner, poor or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/16 09:33 PM
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I don't agree with everything Hillary Clinton has done, nor do I trust her completely, but I agree with her on far more issues. I'm voting for her. I think Donald Trump is a dyed-in-the-wool narcissist. I wouldn't vote for him in a million years (unless the other candidate was Pol Pot's reanimated corpse or something).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/16 09:29 PM
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Female validation or pussy? Working to gain something for yourself isn't the same as caring about the wellbeing of women. It's like saying a woman who wants to marry a man for money cares about him because she lost weight and is wearing makeup and heels to pursue him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/16 09:27 PM
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Metaphors aren't literal?! But okay, so the women are the horses. I didn't get that because most people phrase it as "riding the cock carousel," which seems to imply getting on and off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/16 01:13 AM
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Okay, I realize this is slightly off topic, but is anyone else miffed by the whole "cock carousel" terminology? First of all, when you ride a carousel, you pick one horse, then go in a circle on that horse until the ride is finished. Unless you're some carousel lunatic, you're only going to go around on one once or twice in a single carnival outing. So by that logic, the female rider of the cock carousel is fucking one or two guys, not a bunch of them. And then let's talk about the horses. The m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 11:34 PM
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So that's why the scat fetishist at my work took a shit on my desk. It all makes sense now!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 11:26 PM
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We're all individuals, capable of good and bad, controlled largely by our choices. Instincts, hormones, experiences, and societal pressure enter into it, but our choices are key. While we can look into trends and statistics to guide us on a larger scale, in every day life, it's important to see others as unique human beings, not representatives of groups. Approaching life that way makes you a smarter, happier, and more compassionate person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 10:20 PM
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No. Femdom encompasses a hell of a lot of different kinks. That's a very specific one that only some enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 11:04 PM
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It is important to me. I'm a strong person who was raised by strong parents, my mother included. I know many strong women who don't take anyone's shit. I know women who have survived cancer, recovered from severe mental illness, taken care of a family of nine when a husband died, fought in Iraq, fought back against abusers, climbed the ladder in male dominated business, regained the ability to speak and function after a stroke. My own mom raised me, took care of my paralyzed father, her dying mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 09:15 PM
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1) I'm not uncomfortable with prostitution. I think it should be legal and regulated. 2) It would really depend on the context. Why he went to a sex worker, did he make sure he wasn't participating in an abusive organization, how he treated her, how he regarded her, his behavior in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 09:06 PM
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There are plenty of same sex schools for boys and girls all across the country, and I think they are beneficial for both genders for a variety of reasons--not just performance in education. So long as they are run by responsible, ethical people, I have absolutely no problem with them. My high school was an all girls school, and it had a huge impact on my self-esteem and quality of life. Rather than think about "fairness," I think they should open an all girls school because it's a pretty good id…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 10:22 PM
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It's astonishing to me that anyone would try to claim that TRP is only about betterment of self. I've seen so many comments about how women are children, women should be controlled, women are inferior intellectually, women are whores, etc, etc... I've seen rape and abuse excused multiple times. TBP exists because women are astonished by the level of bullshit that goes on in that sub. Ridicule is a mild response. Want to get rid of trolls? Start in TRP. TBP will disappear on its own if that ever …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 06:01 PM
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With any sex act, if your partner seems to be withdrawn, silent, stiff, upset, etc... it's a good idea to check in. That's not only a consent thing, it's being a good sexual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 05:54 PM
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Women like good sex as much as men do. Finding it is a harder proposition. Giving a woman an orgasm is more complicated than giving one to a man. Finding a random guy in a bar who you can a) feel comfortable/safe with, b) are attracted to, and c) enjoy sex with isn't as easy as RP men make it sound. It's just kind of a pain in the ass, frankly. A vibrator only needs a set of double A's.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 05:49 PM
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These are assumptions based on your own biased worldview. I could easily look at a muscular man and decide he's vain instead of industrious. I could see an attractive woman and assume she's unintelligent and forced to get by on her looks. But I wouldn't know anything about the accuracy of these statements without knowing these people. There is also this assumption that everyone wants the top of the heap, by traditional standards, when they seek a partner, which I'm sure comes from evolutionary t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 04:50 AM
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You're asking a small and extremely biased sample size here. You should try hitting up the ask subs too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 04:36 AM
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Welfare has been on the decline since the 90s, with two thirds of welfare money going towards job search, training, and programs that are supposedly meant to reinforce nuclear families rather than money directly to the impoverished. More and more programs now require work. So is "modern PC society" is to blame for lower birth rates due to welfare or higher ones? I'm getting mixed messages here. But you're right, we should probably just let the poor die.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 04:33 AM
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He's not pursuing the right women (women who share his interests or women who are roughly as attractive as he is), he's not being objective about his own approach, or he just hasn't gotten lucky yet. Modern dating takes patience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 10:25 PM
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I think it's unwise to assume we know the cause behind declining birth rates. There are many theories, but the research is still very lacking. I also don't think that this is a problem for most countries facing a resource-poor future. A smaller population is beneficial for many regions (with some exceptions).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 10:15 PM
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Our kids would be delicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 11:08 PM
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There are always crazy people with horrible taste in partners. I'm sure a small number of men would love to screw that one lady in the glasses who murdered her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 10:59 PM
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When you remove constraints on women, women are slutty, shallow hedonists. That's real female nature. This is just untrue. I mean, sure, some women are. Some men are too. But the idea that all women just want to fuck around doesn't make sense. The fact that people enjoy pleasurable sex is human nature at work, for both genders, but it's hardly the number one motivating factor for women. And if you want to go all evolutionary theory on me, I would argue that the moment women figured out that sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 10:58 PM
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Again, I see absolutely no proof to back this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 05:45 PM
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It's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 04:46 PM
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Why do you assume this has anything to do with masculinity/femininity? Japan and America are two different cultures that approach gender in different ways. It could be more about workload, technology, and the changing ways we communicate and relate to one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 04:44 PM
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I don't get this idea that women were somehow happier on the whole in their relationships at some point in the past, nevermind the concept that they were supposedly happier because their men were more "masculine." Men have been complaining about their wives not wanting to have sex with them for decades, if not longer. I see this a lot around here, but I see very little that proves these assumed facts. Surveys about happiness are incredibly hard to verify because of changing social norms and caus…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 04:39 PM
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Men do those things too, they're just not acknowledged as often. You can find a lot of it on reddit, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 01:09 PM
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Excellent point. I come from a long line of female farmers and factory workers who brought home the bacon and raised kids. It's never been easy to survive on one income alone for most families.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 02:24 AM
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First of all, I am skeptical of the idea that women are "over emotional" as compared to men. It's important to take into account decades of bias and propaganda telling us that women are more emotional, more manipulative, etc... I don't believe that, frankly. I've known manipulative men and manipulative women. Emotional men and emotional women. The difference tends to come down to how they are emotional/manipulative and how they are perceived by others. As to passive aggression... why are people …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 02:17 AM
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If you're talking about genuine repulsion as opposed to indifference? People hurt each other. Trust is lost. For some, sex drive and attraction can overcome that, but for others, that hurt makes sex almost intolerable. If you feel your partner has used you, taken advantage of you, or wronged you in some way, allowing them access to your body can be very challenging. I'm not saying this is a gendered thing. I think it can happen to men or women. But this has been my experience. I became repulsed …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/16 01:55 AM
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This is a completey ridiculous and deeply saddening world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 06:47 PM
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Don't be a sexist asshole. That's the productive advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 01:05 PM
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Wow, you're really reading a whole lot into my comment. I'm not talking to her husband. I'm talking to her. I didn't tell her to ignore her husband's needs, I told her to take care of herself. You can't give to anyone else, relinquish control, all that shit you mention until you are on solid ground emotionally and physically. You can't assess a situation and begin to find a solution until you're clear-headed. All I said was that she deserves love and care and help. That she deserves praise for s…
/r/RedPillWives07/08/16 03:31 PM
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It shouldn't have to be your priority. You deserve to be able to put your emotional and physical energy into caring for your children, your work, and your own well-being. If you don't want to excercise right now, don't. I don't know you or your husband, but whatever problems you're having, whoever is to blame for each issue, you are a strong, beautiful person for putting everything you have into keeping you and your kids going. Self-worth is so important to being able to function and see things …
/r/RedPillWives07/08/16 05:24 AM
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