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I'm not mad I just don't talk to these people. I think you were hurt by my comments. You don't know what I look like. Hot girls have feelings and low standards too. Nothing wrong with falling in love with someone who reminded you of your soulmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:43 PM
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but this dude IS a brain fart. Lol true. Well right now as I'm writing this he is calling me again. I'm with him still because he does not let me go, I tried to dump him for months. Recently he cried for hours and begged me to reply despjte me fucking explaining WHY I want to dump him. I was young and stupid, I was 19 and he was 29. I never was in a relationship before. I was a naive virgin. It's sad. I didn't have the balls to voice what I disliked even when he said 13 year olds are hot I was s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:28 PM
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He makes the effort. He can go down for 30 minutes straight. Maybe just other issues are causing me to not desire him at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:25 PM
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He is not abusive at least not overty. Ya know he is sweet. Always messaging: 'baby good morning 😘😘😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️ my little sunshine girl I love you have a good day ❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘😘😘' Every message is like that. No exceptions. I loved it before but now when we have obvious issues (I want to dump him cus he is pedo boring stupid annoying racist) these messages are very annoying. Like the only thing he can do is sorry lick ass. Not solve problems. He ignores when I'm miserable that again I left my parents ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:22 PM
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He has many red flags - pedophile (called 13 year olds hot) stupid (thinks everything in life is balanced and if he got fined for improper driving it means he in the past he got excess money for the exact sum of the fine and the universe now takes it back) wants kids (despite me being a kid myself), almost a decade older than me (boring 30 year old with frinkles), was racist towards me. So yeah it's the same guy. Also the same guy I on here called the most beautiful guy on planet. Fucking bastar…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:18 PM
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The same one. I'm trying to dump him for months.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:15 PM
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Yes how it was before I met the dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:57 PM
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Thank you so much for the support. Yes I do live with family it's all fine. I called him a pedophile because he said many things about 12-13 year olds girls being hot and grown up 😔 or that he likes the fact I look 14..... This 30 yo b1tch would constantly tell me to wear for example this dress over another because 'in this dress you look 18-19, but in this dress I like most you look 14'. He said it many times which naturally lead me to conclusion me looking 14 and NOT even 18-19 is so important…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:19 PM
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I already knew it like. But there is a difference between not putting brains at the top ~5 priority, and actively wanting a dumber wife/gf. Because a dumber wife won't challenge your views. Then men say it's men who drive evolution further. But how can you evolve and improve if all your views (including rly stupid ones) are met with your closest person's silent agreement or indifference cus she does not understand anything. My same bf who I ranted about btw asked me if I am a career woman (he's …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:11 PM
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It has to do with the post. The reason guys like less intelligent women is to spew b-s1t like this and feel like a smart God.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:41 PM
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I tend to challenge almost every view of my SO. But that's because his views are rly stupid and I consider him to be dumb person in many respects as well. The dude is 30 btw. My point is that many men have views that need to be challenged or they will keep thinking they are the right ones if every woman in their lives always silently agreed or pretend to be dumb. 1) Like when I say having kids is too dangerous, wars, famine, overpop, crisis. He says that you must just not think about wars and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:59 PM
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And that even if you did make it women still only find the top 1-2% of men attractive. Yes it sounds closer to reality. Maybe not 1-2 but like 5-7%.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:59 AM
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Isn't top 20% kinda... Lot?? Look around, can you say that every 5th woman is model looking slim hot attractive? No? Maybe cute, pretty that's it. Actual women who rank 8-9 are like top 5%, and a 10 would be like top 1%. For men these numbers are even lower (lookswise) But due to high social status, success and confidence men can be within the top x%. BUT NOT 20%. Otherwise this would mean every 5th guy is either hot desirable or successful rich. No. More like top 5% or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:31 AM
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Women don't even have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:42 PM
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I don't like this benefit. I got an abortion for the first time and since then my health became rly bad. I don't have energy for anything and at 20 feel 35. My body became much weaker. That's the price I paid for amazing orgasms the guy had with me because he liked it raw better 😡 and yeah I was too scared to say wear a condom or no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:23 PM
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Your anecdotal experience clears nothing. Many men don't pay a single cent of child support and never/barely see their baby. They have that luxury. Then they can appear like when the child is 10 and she will the a-h0le if she won't let the man to talk to his own child.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:21 PM
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Why though? What if he is the one unwilling to have children or pay child support and she wants a baby / does not mind a baby so she has sex with him regardless if he has or has not condom. Why would she care if she won't get pregnant fine if she gets she is happy to keep it. He will be the one f here right. And he won't be able to complain cus he brought that on himself. If a woman does not want a baby/abortion then I agree she has to be cautious and not have sex unless he wraps it up but men i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:18 PM
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But only he can choose whether to actually cum or no. She can only state boundaries and it's just words that don't mean much. Woman does not have this choice. Even if she tells him don't cum inside me!! A man can still f up or lie and still cum inside. Even if a woman tells a man baby cum in me, it's only a man's choice to listen to her or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:57 AM
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All I'm saying if a man does not want kids he should not cum inside a woman, even if they wear a condom. She also has a cool ability to call out where she wants him to cum, and we almost always gleefully put it wherever she says. It sounds like if she says cum in me he will do it gladly (which I won't be surprised many men will) then those men will complain she baby trapped him. 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:47 AM
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Even with the condom you don't cum inside a woman. It breaks in about 40% of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:55 PM
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Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:55 PM
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He can choose if he let's himself cum inside her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:54 PM
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But I still agree that if a 30 man clean, tall, attractive and hot he will be desirable to younger women (I dated such man at 20 but I still wished he was 8-12 yrs younger and always looked at his young pictures dreaming). And if on top he has money and level grounded then some 20-24 yo chick will definitely agree to marry such a catch and be a sahm wife or whatever they want. It's ugly fat saggy rude boring wrinkled 30 year olds (who constitute over 95% of men this age) who make young women go …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:35 PM
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Except that father can choose to vapor into thin air and never pay a single cent, while the woman is subjected to 9 months of physical disability, pain, organ tearing, bones breaking, to two decades of child support and child-rearing, all alone. All because a man likes cumming inside a woman. Why can't women demand that men undergo the same pain they do and give their newborn baby all to father and disappear from child's life too. Or why can't women demand that men undergo sterilization so that …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:27 PM
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He can choose whether to cum inside a human female. She cannot. She must live with his choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:21 PM
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I mean I'm not actively shaming of course cus I have life. We just reject those guys and sometimes if 30+ persist I tell to touch grass and call them pedos.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:16 PM
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I was just disproving your point. You said only older women shame men it's because they are mad men want younger I btw shame 30+ men who like girls my age as well and I'm 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:11 PM
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I was 18 when I shamed a 32 yo grown ass man for liking 14-20 yo girls. I told my sister to GET THE F OUT and he is creep. I was 19 when I felt icky and disgusted when a 30-31 yo man who was a cab driver said 16 year olds are hot and grown up🤢 (he thought I was 16 btw and shoot his shot with me and I felt dirtied by his attention and the fact he likes 16 yos) And I was 20 when I was even more shocked by a 30 yo male saying 12-14 year old girls are hot 😭. And that the fact I look 14 is good and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:36 PM
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I'd say men do initiate most of the divorces, just not legal. Many men can say to their wives 'lets divorce I don't give a f*ck about you' 'if you don't like it let's divorce'. But won't so sh1t for that. Just will keep treating their wives like they are nothing. So it's a woman who goes up and files a divorce because she knows relationship is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:42 PM
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It's true however I believe trying to be a better as a person is beneficiary for women, because it can attract better men, and behaving / being better can also make those men want to commit to you and be only yours, not just have fun or just date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:35 PM
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I was depressed and bored and hated myself, wanted to off myself so I rented a flat bought alcohol+pills but could not do it so I spent the night crying and listening to Rihanna. So I'm a typical deadinside zoomer haha.... I installed tinder for some emotional support, created fake account and just wanted to talk to people. I did the same in reddit. I just wanted someone to support me. Everyone was genuinely worried, but only he was worried most of all, proposed to meet and talk, I was in no goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:17 AM
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Simply put, I think a man's love for a woman is deeper. If you really want to see the peak of what romantic love looks like, look at great lengths a man will go to for the woman he loves. It's not deep love, it's horniness. Men will go great lengths just to have opportunity to see female body naked and touch it. Men even willingly risk their lives for the chance to have sex. Some go to a war just because they can rape someone. Remember the movie, where men from some asian country (maybe Taiwan o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:24 AM
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There was a post from March here about the most important things in life (needs) for both women and men. For women it was the feeling of security, stability and safety, for men it was sex. And since women can achieve what they need for themselves or get it provided by their parents (in case a woman prefers living with parents all her life) they often don't feel the need for a partner (my sister is 28 financially stable lives with our parents since age 21, supports them financially, because she l…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:59 AM
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Don't lose it as soon as you can girl. No. Wait. The right man will appreciate it and you will appreciate having first time with someone you care about rather some random stranger who won't remember your name in a year. You are unique and don't listen to jealous women (I'm 21F lost v at 20) who props wasted their virginity on nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:45 PM
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What about who want family and children, love and stable relationship.? What about long distance relationships where men are ready to wait to see you and be loyal for years until there is a chance to see each other? You think teen boys DONT think with their dicks?? They do but they don't need it to love. they don't demand it. They are FINE with just seeing the girl, just getting to hear her voice and knowing what he feels is mutual. That's it. It's normal if they want intimacy of course it's jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:34 AM
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No they still would. Just not all. Look at many of the teen boys madly in love with girls and they don't need sex just seeing her would be more than enough. Then there are many grown and young men who say sex is not the most important in the relationship even though they want and like it, but love, companionship, support, and then eventually mutual children is what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:45 AM
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I don't want children at all (cf + an) but majority of women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:55 AM
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They don't. Imagine if a woman wants a child/children (how men want). But does not want to be pregnant at all. Surprise b1tch you have to just because you were born female. Either suffer in loneliness without children you want so much or go through childbirth you dread that will irreparably change your health and body. It's like pick lesser suffering. And most women realize the better go through pain just so that they could have their children. They are willingly go through it for future generat…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:28 AM
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And men don't have to worry about pregnancy and childbirth and all the horrible suffering women endure. Most men will never die in war while most women experience this several times in their life. If women didn't do it, humanity would go extinct. All people only exist because women went through 7-9 month of pregnancy and childbirth and dedicated their whole lives to cleaning poop and dealing with screaming toddler. While all men did was experience pleasure and orgasm. Funny thing it's men who ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:08 AM
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Guys who are drafter are treated inhumanely... The horror stories I heard... Even criminals in jails get treated better, get better food than soldiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:52 AM
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Women can not choose to not get pregnant. What if they want children (how men want children);but don't want to get pregnant? Guess what YOU'LL have to because you are female. Sorry bud you don't want to be pregnant but there is no other way if you want a family and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:51 AM
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Yes my boyfriend who is 30 (I am 20) is so broke that no woman older than a teenager will ever agree to date him lol...... Like imagine a super trash car and super trash little flat and a super greedy man on top of that and that is my boyfriend. Yes he is attractive... 6'3 and beautiful. But for women just beauty is not enough. I don't want to live in trash my whole life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:44 PM
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21F dating a 30M. Not only does it feel like he is my father, he feels like my grandfather. His views are so outdated and music he listens to is the music even my 50 yo parents don't know. Since I started dating him, I looked at all his wrinkles and imagined him 17-24 and wished he was that within that age. Several times I accidentally called him 'yes dad' and then realized it was not my dad haha.. He rly felt bad lol. There are benefits to him being older though. I often act like his daughter a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:37 PM
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no single broken relationship is man bad or woman bad. It's fine then. (Sorry for long text) Well then there is love and hope. We all are also not the best as person but people who love us always hope we'll be better instead of discarding us and seeking better. If you love a person and that person has a quality you don't like, you will try to navigate them and support them. Especially if otherwise everything is perfect with them. I only had one man and that man will probably be someone I'd marry…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:05 AM
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Everything is so easy for you I am sure you lead a perfect life. You never had breakups or bad friends 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:46 AM
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So men whose wives are screaming bitchy karens and kid abuserr, sex deniers are at fault for choosing such a wife so they should not complain about nagging wife and sexless marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:40 AM
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Lmao you can't win here. Just say women are to blame with everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:31 AM
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What? They have been dating for 3 years before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:24 AM
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Because one girls husband never bought anything for their daughter. Not even a toy. Would never give a cent to buy her clothes or food. Would buy food himself. And naturally never payed alimony once they divorced. He started cheating well soon into marriage. Cheated for 3-4 years while this girl desperately tried to save marriage, but in the end just could not take it anymore. You seem to think it's women fault only divorced happen. Men who are shitty father's and shitty husbands apparently are …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:11 AM
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Exactly what I was implying. 'do you watch porn OP' was a rhitorical question. Pornography was created to cherish the sick minds of rapists and abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:39 PM
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You refuse to admit that men absolutely choose abusive women and stay with them. Therefore all your point about men disliking bad women is completely irrelevant. There are tons of screaming karen bitches married to normal everyday men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:14 PM
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And if it was the husband who did that sh1t to a wife and she still married him and never left? You'd protect her too? Or say it's her fault. Even if I was not there I absolutely believe she is capable of that because I have seen with my own eyes my whole life what she is like. When I was 13 she told me I will get raped by 4 men who will abduct me and when I wanted to suicide to prevent such horrible fate she enjoyed my fear and despair. She would force my twin bro to wear female lingerie and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:08 PM
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You are stupid or pretending? You yourself just said that yes men accept abusive women because their peepee craves instant sex and since they don't have many options they are desperate. She would ruin the floor and then demand him to wash it again. Called him a bastard child and joked how good it is he does not have parents he is easier to control. And she still jokes that me and my twin brother are not his, that she cheated because I look half russian. She is sahm and always took all his wage h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:02 PM
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Yes she would step with her dirty shoes on the floor he just washed. Just to assert dominance. And it was before they got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:54 PM
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So there is no stimuli for a woman to be better person because people can adore her for her looks and confidence. Being a bitch and a bully also helps her look 'cool'. And then you say men don't like bad traits in women and are not attracted to non committal sl1ts. I also don't have many options and never had. But I'm not desperate. I love my boyfriend but I can drop him any second if he does anything I disapprove of. I also could like an attractive guy and try to be appealing to him but he woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:43 PM
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Men aren't the choosers Men still can choose if they choose to choose. They just don't and stick with what they have for pure reason to stick his dick and not be alone. They don't have infinite options. And women don't have infinite good options. It's hard to find a man who won't cheat, watch porn, stare at every passing attractive woman, who wants a committed relationship, children, who works, is willing to be a protector, who won't spend time with buddies drinking beer just not to be with a wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:29 PM
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You say that yet I'm sure you watch porn and enjoy their performance. You yourself actively open porn sites and seek out the content. Even the fact you watched interviews with them shows you actively looked for pornstars. You masturbate to them with one hand and points a judging finger on them with another. If no porn existed (like how phub deleted tons of videos) men would scream and still try to get content elsewhere. But yes all sex work exists cus women's fault and women are h . O. Es not be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:55 PM
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The father should have thought better before choosing an abusive woman as a wife. Now he and his kid pay for his mistakes. for who didn't understand it's a reverse on the blame women get when their hubby turns out abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:48 PM
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You blame single moms but where was the dad?if she is so horrible he is free to take full custody and raise kids himself. But men don't want to. Don't blame the women for NOT abandoning their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:45 PM
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So you are confirming that men think with dicks only and build friendships based on what their dicks and instincts tell them. Not because they actually enjoy the company or can similar interests? Sighs and then you hate it when we call y'all animales who can't even do decisions and think straight unless you masturbate 😂🤣 and your brightest times is post nut clarity. And just seeing a boob is enough to turn males brains off. How were males allowed to be in gvrnmts I don't know. I think we should …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:55 AM
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One is my boyfriend so no sh1t Sherlock ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:50 AM
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I'm just reflecting and being honest. I hope you cut those guys loose from your life as that shit is not good for their mental health. Haha I tried... They don't let me go 😊 I straight up told them they better go because I have some issues. They value me and love me too much to do that. They say they don't need anyone but me. I'm not forcing anyone to be with me. On the opposite - I'm a very secretive loner type of a person and it takes effort to get me out of my shell and keep in touch with me.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:36 AM
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It's not about men not choosing to date them. It's about people actually hating them. Men not just not date them. They want them to not get dates. They are convinced they should not get a decent partner. If they do, they hate it. They say single moms are western worlds biggest problem. That they are the cause of all trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:03 AM
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My boyfriend has a coworker. Lets name him Kay. That coworker is married with a little son under 2. Kay has an ex wife and ex son (yes for men with ex wives even children become ex). He payed alimony no problem (which is surprising most men try to avoid paying by applying unofficially or smth). But half a year ago the company experienced crisis due to war so it fired 3/5 of the stuff. Hundreds of people lost the job. Not only that, they continuously kept cutting the wages. And now they said that…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:54 AM
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And then there are women whose husbands pleaded for a baby, were on their knees begging to get her pregnant, promising. And then they are single mom's.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:41 AM
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And if it's just one kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:15 AM
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I don't have kids at all (thank God) but I have cousin and friends who are and my heart bleeds for struggles they endure. I know they had the ability to abort but they truly believed it's for ever especially since all of them have been married to the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:15 AM
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Because they chose to fuck raw repeatedly So men who chose to fuck raw repeatedly also deserve hate and their lives ruined and nobody willing to date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:13 AM
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A drug addict is pathetic by most of society but he gets compassion. It's always the 'well his mother died when he was 7' ' he had a tough life'. Same for rapists. I have seen men outright say that sex is pleasure so they understand rapists. And that rape is just a little mistake made, no reason to jail a man for that and ruin his life. And murderer could have had reasons to kill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:57 AM
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Whose fault it is that men don't marry the women they got pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:55 AM
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So if a man cheats and woman divorces him it's her who ruined the family? Should she just tolerate for family sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:54 AM
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You can't know. Not all pedos say outright 'oh your daughter is 7 she is such a cute child in a few years time when is a bit older I will rape her'. Most of them don't start doing it until several months or years have passed. They wait when mother is not at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:53 AM
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Mostly because the man cheated. Hardly any man cheating on his wife will want to abandon her. It's cool having a young childless fun side piece and also a wife who cooks cleans is loyal and raises your genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:51 AM
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What does sexual autonomy has to deal with it. It sounds like it implies she made the baby from some party where she got rawdogged by stranger or from one of the fwbs. When majority of single moms have had a husband or a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:47 AM
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Single mothers even get blamed when their man rapes her daughter. She is told she should not have dated while having a girl child. Meanwhile hardly anyone blames the rapist. The mother should not have dated at all or should not have had the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:45 AM
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Because all three always get some justification, but not single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:43 AM
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I'm a 21 year old radfem + 'right' on political scale. And what that dude said is true. He used one point and led it to the end. Where exactly did he run off the rails ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:40 AM
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The Right: "All Women are Dishwashers and homemakers and naturally made to submit to man" "Women should not have the right to work" "Women should marry as young as possible and have at least 3-4 kids" "Any man marrying a non virgin is a simp and cuck" "There are girls and women. Girls are virgins, women are those who had 1 sexual partner and that partner is her husband. All the rest are h0es, b1tches, sl1ts, used up with mileage, degenerates and so on" "Cheating is acceptable for men. You can't …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:36 AM
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I'm at fault for this to some extent too. Being exposed to reddit and instagram, reading lots of degenerate male comments in incel subs, where they literally say that female suffering brings them joy and screams from women being raped is like a music to their ears, that most men would fck 12+ if the age was lowered to twelve, and so on. Plus reading a radfem subs such as fds significantly affected my mindset. I was convinced all/most men were like that. And that women are indeed victims of these…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:21 AM
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Said a fifteen year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:09 AM
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It does though. Few months ago in my country several grown ass men (around 28-38) went with a 14 yo girl and drank with her in sauna. Then they raped her. Everyone (both women and men) blamed the girl saying it's her own fault what did she expect when going to drink beer with men in sauna. I was among the few ones who asked instead. WHY did the grown ass men took a FOURTEEN YEAR OLD and DRANK alcohol with her in the first place. Plus they don't understand that consent to alcohol does not equal c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:58 AM
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I think OP is right but only if the virgin is like 16 or 19. All h0es were virgins one day, they usually started out before 20. If the virgin is 22-24 then she has proven to be able to restrain herself and choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:24 PM
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It's a novel/fiction. I believe it's genre is realism, history, drama. Pretty dark book, I'm only first several chapters in, I already feel my heart pain for the oldest daughter and just everyone lol. If you had an abusive parent it might be extra difficult to read. Some people get depressed a bit during/after reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:43 PM
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There are strong and independent SAHM women. Say my mother. You could say she is abusive and over confident. We joke with my dad that she should have worked in a military as a commander or a guard in prison and every man, even worst criminal, would be afraid of her, and in military all men would get up in time only to avoid her rage, plus our mom could have been able to let off her steam, aggression and desire to dominate and humiliate. But she was the one who was able to apply my dad for a good…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:53 AM
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Reminds me of a book I am reading now, 'Hatters Castle', written in early 20th century, describes life of a family of late 19th. A main hero, Browdy, lead of a family, is a super aggressive man who demands total submission from his mother and wife and children. They can't even breathe and talk near him. Abusive man. All his household is scared sh1tless of him. He abuses his 3 children too - but the only child he loves is his youngest daughter who is 12, even though this girl seems a bit stupid (…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:23 AM
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There is nothing worse in the world to wait and lose virginity to a man who will cheat on you, talk about boobs all the time, stare at every attractive girl, and overall be a shitty boyfriend and person. But it feels so good to give your first time to someone who truly loves you, who wants to spend his whole life with you, who is loyal, attentive, understanding, and you are surrounded with love and care everywhere you go. And you love this man back. I think many women, when eventually meeting th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:09 AM
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I'm 21 but I still think and act like a child/teen. I have a man who is 30. Oh gosh he first must have thought he was lucky for snatching a 19 year old youthful virgin girl who on top of that looks 14-16 (he himself told me I look 14 which apparently was smth he liked. Is it pedophilic?) Well I have issues and one of them is I act like a toddler very often and need pampering and basically babying. He is like my father having to always run after me, baby me, tolerate my mood swings. I get offende…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:40 AM
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It's because men are unattractive as a gender that's why aged man looks better than aged woman. I explain. Women and girls as a gender are a LOT prettier and attractive than men and boys. You have probably seen thousands of beautiful women but a lot less beautiful men. So naturally, aging ruins everybody's looks. It's savage. And because women are a fairer sex, it's a lot more visible on them (since you have something to compare with), while men didn't change much, as they were ugly they stayed …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:26 AM
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You think girls have to date seriously at age 15?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:18 AM
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I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:18 AM
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And pay the mother that went through labor to give you this kid.. sounds fair. At least some helping her with finances beside a kid because she is ALSO WATCHING YOUR KID, which is being a free nanny (yeah I know it's her kid too but she is the one caring for it not you). Omg I can't with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:18 AM
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Pay for kids they made.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:17 AM
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Almost no man is worth having kids with in my opinion. It's not about him. He would be a great dad. I'm just not having that risk. Yesterday he told me his cute dream about our son who has my cute brown eyes :) yeah a good guy. He has one flaw though - brokeness and greed/money saver trait. never lends nor gives money. No debts at all. And that's why I think he has nothing but a small flat he inherited and a cheap car that can break any day. That's why despite his great personality, kindness and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:14 AM
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Ya know in my city recently a 21 year old young woman leapt from a window with two twin kids because the father left and she could not afford the kids and she realized she can't deal with children and possibly heartbreak all alone. But yes h0es are gonna lie and men are the best gender ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:48 AM
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He can but he does not even do that. Not a cent. Because he has another wife and another kid so obviously the ex child is not his problem anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:45 AM
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What is a box payment dare I ask. And what is bbl And a father can simply buy his kids food and school supplies. What about medicine, winter clothes and shoes. What about smartphone? What about kids activities and games. If you are gonna just buy it food ur kid is not living, it's surviving and u provide a basic necessity for it not to die. What a great dad. Do you have any children?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:44 AM
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Men will rape their daughters if god forbid the mom leaves her with dad. You rather not. Imagine once the daughter turns like 8-9 or 11-12 and the dad didn't have sex in years. Well we all know what happens in such cases. Majority of child p0. Was produced by dads raping their little daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:41 AM
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Yes it's the 100% of all the single moms. I already told you there are girls who have been in a relationship with guys for years before a child and yet these a##-oles still cheated and never payed a cent for their children during and after marriage. I got pregnant by my boyfriend last month and he pleaded for a child (we have been dating 1+ year) proposed to marry promised he will care for us will never abandon or cheat that sort of stuff. I went and aborted and I'm so happy I did 👍🏻 not gonna b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:40 AM
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So he's being smart And all the while his wife struggles with $300 wage a month ;) wow he is so smart for leaving his kid starve or eat cheap macaroni and dress worse than all his classmates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:35 AM
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She wants to leave then he shouldn't be forced to support her They are already divorced he is married to another woman, why do you think she was the one to leave him 🤦🏼‍♀️ And you can support your child without supporting your ex. Support as in buy the kid food (spoiler alert: the child needs a food every day, not just $15 a month), summer/winter clothes, shoes, school clothes, school thingies like pencils bags they total cost a lot, also kids need smartphones (that are not worse than those of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:33 AM
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Just wondering, do you have a dad? An actual good dad who always provided, cared about you, never drank too much, never beat/offended your mother, never played video games, actually helped with household, never beat you or your siblings if u have any? Who never cheated on your mom? Who was married once? Who spent time with his family instead of drinking beer with his buddies while your mother did everything? Do you have a father? A dad? Rly curious. If you are from a single mom household, it's r…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:57 AM
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My boyfriend works with a man who asked to fire him and then apply unofficially for a job so that he could avoid paying legal alimonies to his first wife and child... A man does not even want to know if his child is fed or starving, his wife might not be able to afford a housing, good, work and raise a little kid. My bf's cousin (and coincidentally, my sisters best friend) dated a guy, let's name him Kay, for very long then they married and my sister split up with her bf (they 4 were all best fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:50 AM
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Lmao try harder. I also had 1 man in bed only + 1 drunk hookup I regretted .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:48 AM
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Well maybe 90% is not exactly right, but I am a woman with like... 12 sisters (cousins) and sisters like us share every intimate detail. Only one sister genuinely loves sex, she can look at a man and crave, she does not need anything for sex, she really enjoys it. But she is sadly the one who will get called a sl1t by society's standards. All the rest 11 including me will admit once under the influence of alcohol that they never or rarely orgasmed during sex, that they don't like sex that much a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:02 AM
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You are just hurt to hear it, but honestly sex with men is not something to pursue, it's rather something to avoid. Proof: that's why women try not to drink too much in clubs, try not to walk at nights too often, build boundaries early on in a relationship, swipe left on those who state 'casual' etc etc. Hell, ask any woman... Dear women, can you please unveil their illusions and chime in and say the only reason 90% put up with sex is because of marriage / relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:56 AM
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Hmm i would not mind it if my man had lexus and a bigger house. It bothered me a lot in the beginning because my family is a lot richer than he is now at almost 30. It bothered me a man at that age didn't manage to get anything and I worried it means he got no potential. I was young (19-20 yo) and never dated before so I had low standards regarding finances, but always had medium to high standards regarding beauty and have a strict type (tall blue/green eyed with good face + confident type) But …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:47 AM
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I'm not a feminist baby. Have a poll asking if women would choose a good sleep/good movie/good food or sex with a man. (NOTE: a man, NOT the man, if women have a husband/bf they love they might potentially choose sex with him over food or sleep) I have an attractive boyfriend that I love, and I enjoy having sex with him not because it's sex, but because it's him. If back then he offered me just casual sex not a serious relationship, I would of course block him and never see him again. But since …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:26 AM
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Because unfortunately babies are the best you can get from sex with a man (if u want them ofc). Bc men don't try to give you orgasm, think you are 'used' after sex with them, you can catch feelings for him while he just passes time with you, your body count goes up which is enough to bully a woman, guys will tell everyone they fucked you, majority of men are hairy beasts and majority dicks are repulsive. So yeah, I can't see myself valuing sex with a man ever. I am sure if a woman is offered sus…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:18 AM
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So a 30 yo male gotta go for a 30 yo and so on?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:48 PM
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Well of course having a good man you are attracted to all to yourself, be exclusive in LTR and possibly building a family is always preferable to sharing a 10/10 Chad. However if I'm left with no choices other than having a generic loser (short, ugly, stupid, lazy, has lots of addictions, weak, boring etc) or having a 10/10 being shared, I'd rather choose second. Being with the first guy will make me horribly unhappy and I will be horrified to have his kids, having sex would be a torture. While …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:29 PM
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Yes most women are really plain looking. You could meet only 2-3 beautiful woman in a workplace with 12-14 women. Maybe additional 2 of them might be sort of cute but not a percent more than that. That just could have been my high standards for beauty both for women and for men but assuming 80% of women are beautiful is absolutely incorrect. Even in a country known for female beauty (take Russia for example) I can assure you 80% of women there if you bother to notice, are NOT attractive or beaut…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:52 PM
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Attractive and/or beautiful women are rare too, but still much more than attractive men. When I was in a new high school, I (then 17F) was honestly genuinely pleased and proud to see just how many beautiful girls there are, lots of in every class. And I could not help noticing that I only met one beautiful guy IN THE WHOLE SCHOOL. He was like 15 but I didn't care he was 2 yrs younger because there were no attractive guys my age in my school.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:48 PM
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so now, average guys are not even "allowed" to use prostitution You are over here thinking I date average guys. But answering the question, a guy absolutely can use prostitute services, it's just that I won't consider him suited for a serious relationship if he ever did. Max what he will get from me is easy going friendship. Trust me, decent men don't ever go to prostitutes. There are men who are disgusted by it. I also find it funny how a man can have standards, like, a woman gotta never hookup…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:31 PM
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If I had to pay for him or split I'd probably rather be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 10:36 AM
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I think it's true. Before I had first sex I was so ashamed of even letting him buy me a bottle of water lol. I would say I'm not hungry so that he didn't waste money. After we had sex, all changed. I felt I wanted some exchange or like reparations for physical damage lmao so I became okay with him wasting lots of money on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:52 AM
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I (F) find it important so that a man never had hookups, ONS, never ever used sex workers services (like prostitutes and strippers). I also worry about him having too much sexual relations. My boyfriend is exactly like that which I approve. We both do not support prostitution, hookup culture, lots of sexual partners. I like that he never told me how much women he had in bed because he is embarrassed it would be too many. My only issue is that he lost virginity at age only 16 but that might just …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:43 AM
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What you said either does not make sense or I'm too drunk it's 1 am lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:14 PM
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You are a bit stupid right? I literally described their behaviour. I DON'T like a guy/guys touching me especially how THEY touch makes it seem like I'm a prostitute that is about to perform a lap dance on them. Like they bought me. When they harass and stalk you ruining your hours of fun. When you dance on the dance floor but they think you dance because you are a h0e that definitely will go to sauna like they suggest. 😭😡 Even with my boyfriend (1+year together) who is 6'3 green-eyed attractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:33 PM
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What you said sounds like I said some sort of hypocrisy lol 👀 like I can't like the attention of a polite cute guy my type if I hate the attention of rapey-vibes-giving or ugly men almost all of whom turn out to be rude and entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:18 PM
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I think I would not be offended if my man wanted a DNA test esp in case a child does not look much like him. Id just keep joking and troll how it's his neighbors / bosses child and once the test came back positive I'd say it's either a mistake or that perhaps his sperm is stronger than his brothers after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:06 PM
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I seem like a girl tired of filthy men's glances and touches ☺️ that's it. Imagine gay men always gawking at you, touching or grabbing you while you pass, esp gay men who are taller and stronger than you that you can't fight. Imagine it happening since ur like 13. I wonder how you'd react then my baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:00 PM
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You don't understand it. You think that a man gotta approach anyone until at least someone says yes. What women want is a man not looking for anybody, just living their life, then one day meeting someone special that they click with, falling in love with her and being with HER because she is special in some ways for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:10 AM
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Yes that's why I always check a man's followings. A guy (very attractive in my opinion, like a Ken barbie came alive) has been trying to get a date from me. I just checked his followings and saw it was like 30+ girls that don't follow him back/didn't accept his friend request lmao. I realized the pretty boy was just shooting their shot with anyone. I turned him down. My current boyfriend was not following any girl from our city, was not following any model, any woman at all except very few femal…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:06 AM
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I hate when I go to clubs, karaoke clubs and so on and get approached by men. I get gawked at, looked at (esp when on one table there are 5-6 men and all look at me I just want to die 😭😭), and the WORST is when I get touched by them or hugged by them when I simply pass by not even noticing them until they touch me. 😡 Note: it happens even when I wear a baggie tshirt and jeans like I'm all closed like Billie Eilish lol, plus no make up at all.. 😡 I hate when guys try to get to know me once I say …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:45 AM
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V shaped torso muscles (low body fat %) trendy haircut with youthful hairline square jaw Ewww it's not even attractive to me. I actually hate super muscled men. Trendy haircut would look good only on teenagers (sorry). Idk about square jaw tbh. My only types of men I find attractive are men who look like young Andrew Lincoln or young Eminem. It's different for everyone. I have talked to girls and every one sent pics of guys that they wished their partner resembled and 8/10 I just considered plai…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:56 AM
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Maybe. Well he loves me I love him
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:08 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:06 PM
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You misunderstood me. I made his life a bit harder meaning I was not always the agreeable easy zero effort girlfriend who he can drive to shitty places wasting $5, giving $7 presents expecting me to piss from happiness, while simultaneously saying he payed for his (abusive horrible!!!) exes trips to another countries, payed for her $2000 expenses, bought her clothes everything she wanted. Made his life harder meaning I was stubborn at times, made him chase me at times to see if he genuinely want…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:21 PM
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Oh man, I'm glad my partner isn't like you. You misunderstood me. I'm sure your partner is not like me because you didn't buy her $9 gift for her birthday and tried walk dates on her while simultaneously saying you paid for your exes trip to Egypt, Thailand, payed for her $2000 expenses, bought her this and that. Do you realize how shitty I felt hearing that? I felt like I was an agreeable easy girlfriend. All I wanted is him to make me feel like a GIRL he dates and loves that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:19 PM
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I am not mad. I have just exaggerated it. I'm not obsessed over what he's done for exes or what he would do for another. I'm just not gonna accept low/zero effort regardless of my feelings for the person. All I did was try to agree with your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:51 PM
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I love this comment so much. But then it takes me until I want something fancy for once, to find out if the guy likes me or likes low effort. I made my boyfriends life harder at times to see which one is this. Didn't want to be cheap easy gf with 0 standards. And I proved to myself he really loves me not low effort. I'm not gonna be his 0 effort 0 money put easy gf that he won't even make a wedding for. I'm not the econom pack you can get at the store. I don't care how much I love you I'd rather…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:44 PM
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what if he dates us because he doesn't need to do as much for us as for other girls, what if he dates us because he can't get the girl he actually wants, what if he dates us because we we're just there? Omg I thought I was the only one who over thought this. My boyfriend had an abusive ex gf (she is genuinely crazy, I just know it) and he payed for trips to Egypt, Thailand for her etc. She was older than him, had probably 20+ body count and calmly admitted to sleeping with men for money. He met …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:06 PM
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Lmao like really, then they should wife up a woman who sleeps with them straight away because she is genuinely attracted to them. But hey, they don't consider them wifey material anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:56 PM
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she wouldn't even look his way and end up with some better looking guy WHY do you keep assuming that only ugly / average looking guys can be 'good/nice guys' 'hubby material'? Why can't attractive and tall men be genuinely good, loyal, hardworking, with low body count, marriage and family oriented? There are tons of men like that. RP theory crashes when you look at what happens irl. I know in person a HV tall slim stunningly beautiful man (who has a leading position in a job) 7 years married to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:47 PM
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Lol you wish you was lazy like me haha 😉. But thanks for your words I'm very happy to hear it. I am just lucky that I didn't use make up since early teens while all other girls did now they can't live with it... I had a beautiful confident shiny classmate back then that at age only 16 wasted 2 hours every morning and every evening for make up while I preferred to sleep lol and sad case whenever she overslept and could not use make up she was quiet, insecure and wore glasses so that nobody saw he…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:16 AM
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because they decided they couldn't date until they'd graduated uni or got a certain income level. No shit it's not even 'they decided'. It's often PARENTS (esp mom) who put the pressure. My mother always yelled at me when at 18 I wanted to just at least walk with a guy saying that I didn't yet finish my uni I should think of study not relationships me stupid whore! I was like mom I'm gonna graduate only by 23 do you want me to be the untouched and unkissed virgin who never spoke to a guy at that…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:21 AM
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Id rather have periods than being unable to live without images/videos of naked women, the touch of the woman and being all obsessed about pussy and tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:27 AM
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I waste about 0 for my looks lmao. I just wake up, wash and go. Literally. Yeah very rarely I might buy some cheap lipstick, I might dye my hair once a year, I even do nails once a year, that all costs much less than buying toilet paper 🤣 Yet I'm very pretty 👍🏻. Even going out to clubs I just so lips and eyelashes and done under 5 minutes and I look great. 90% of time I never use any kind of make up at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:24 AM
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How much does a usual 3 room apartment cost? (Around 70-80 m2)?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:16 PM
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Well for 1-2 people no kids 2k usd is like a lot, like VERY much. For a family like mine that loves spending (5 ppl) it's quite decent but we sometimes make more than that but keep it quiet cus ppl will be super jealous of such an enormous wage (2-3+k USD a month). Maybe it’s your location Yes, Russia/Kazakhstan. Maybe prices are just lower here or us people are used to shit wages. I think it's the latter because majority of people literally earn 200-300 USD a month. Not even a minimum wage. Jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:07 PM
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much less something so small like $2k/mo $2k a month is small? If I made such money a month id be freaking HAPPY and rich lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:01 AM
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In my country 2000 USD a month is a fucking lot I'll never have to work again I'll be fucking rich. I can save up 30-40% a month and live incredibly well, help my family and be happy. So it's 50/50 on one hand a love is hard to find and you can try and make such money together, on the other hand making 2k a month in my country is close to impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:53 AM
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I'm just saying it's silly to infantilize people. Of course at 30 I will have different problems and I'll change as a person. 20s are very important years because that's the decade you (most likely) live on your own w/o help from parents or older siblings. You fail, you win, you fail again, you get experience and so on. If you meant it in that sense, I agree. But stop treating 30 year old as a new 20. Because you gotta get your sh1t together and be responsible far earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:14 AM
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Most people have finished developing by their late teens or 20s. Actually your youth ends by 26, and at 30 you are a grown aging man/woman with wrinkles and every young person 16-22 considers a 30 yo fucking senior lol. And now you people want to say by 30 you are still teenagers who only just stopped developing? LMAO. You are a grown person who gotta have their sh1r together, many people at that age have children who go to school. At that age it's too late to say you only now know what you want…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:10 AM
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I actually know quite a good amount of women (some are my sisters) that have no trouble sleeping with a guy/guys and not feel anything after, not worry, that sort of stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:32 PM
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I don't think it takes tremendous self control not to fck strangers as a woman, why would I want to risk pregnancy std, being used, catching feelings and so on. I think it takes tremendous self control as a woman to fck around and still maintain mental health I'd go crazy and get depressed if I slept with someone who is not my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:18 PM
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And also by 30, your youth ends
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:44 PM
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What? I became confident and interesting as WELL, I stopped being cringe and awkward, because I GREW UP, AND ALSO became beautiful. Stop assuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:08 PM
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I also was ugly girl until 16.5-17 years old and I could not get almost no guy I liked not even because of appearance, but because I was awkward. After I blossomed and became very beautiful. Had no trouble getting the prettiest guy in school/uni/city. See if I gave up at 13-16 when I was suffering rejection after rejection from boys where would I be now? The difference is I DIDN'T give up and I forgot about every rejection right after it happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:01 PM
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compare that to girls that are socially inept with low self esteem, who NONE OF THEM ARE VIRGINS Incomparable. Just because a girl can get sex (which is about every girl) does not mean she can have love and relationship and family and companionship. She'll simply get used like a cum sleeve does. She can still be desperately alone. Meanwhile if a guy can get sex it most likely also means that he can get love, companionships, relationship and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:57 PM
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If it's true then why people in my basement object when I try to have sex with them 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:54 PM
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A commitment from a man under 23 years old is by no means less serious than a commitment from a man 30+ years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:48 PM
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What if a woman has fun all her youth but never slept with anyone in clubs (no drunk sex, no fwb no ONS etc). Like I like to party, party, sing, dance, drink and party again till 6-8 am but I would never ever sleep with anyone. I go to club with my sister/s, we go back together. If god forbid drunk sex happened I'd kill myself the same day. I only had 1 man and that is my LTR boyfriend. Question is, is a woman who has fun clubbing and partying but without sex and similar stuff, considered decent…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:31 PM
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How many men are acceptable by you and other men of your worldview? Like 0-2 or 1-4 or what? Or it's not the number that matters but rather if it was a serious relationship. I just know some RP want deadass a virgin or the one whose only man was her late (dead) husband, if she divorced she is out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:27 PM
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in a major city is not trying My city is not major, like 300k ppl. Where did you meet your husband and when Honestly ... I don't know. It just happened. I didn't look to date like at all, my 18 and 19 years I just... Played games, watched movies, read books. Then just one day two months before me turning 20 I met him. And he never let me stray from him I honestly tried haha but he would not let me go 😊. I was a virgin so he is my first, and he rly values it so much for some reason. He is 7 years…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:12 PM
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Men that are good with women know that women don’t value men who give away their commitment easily—you can keep beautiful women on the hook by doing this. My man gave me commitment during first days of knowing each other, within 5 minutes of us talking he said his goal is marriage and children and guess what that is EXACTLY what attracted me, I'm 5'6 slim pale beauty. So you are not exactly right. It's the opposite, if the guy did this uncertainty thing to me, I'd drop him the same day, regardle…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:01 PM
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If they get no sex at all without a committed relationship and / or marriage, then guys will want to settle down as young as 19-23
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:53 AM
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you wanted the security of divorce money in case he tries to abandon you with kids. Why is this so hard to admit? It's perfectly rational I'm a woman and I admit that. I would only marry the one I truly love (I'd never marry for money) which is my boyfriend and I straight up told my boyfriend that I need marriage for these exact reason. And that I would never give birth if a man refused to marry me like why would I carry all the risk for the one who can then leave me with nothing. Why would I gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:12 AM
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So sign me up for a life of casual dating. Ah, you should have stated that at once. It's okay then I got it. I just thought you actually wanted a baby/babies and a family but was scared of divorcing. I have a bf whose friend never married because he said he was scared shed take the half and more and yet he had 2 women!! give him children. His first woman lived with him for around 14-18 years, gave him two sons, and when they separated he even refused to pay alimony because he said he was convinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:13 AM
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Why do you assume you'd get divorced btw? Don't be a h0eman yourself, find a decent woman who is not interested in casual dating and wants commitment and family. And there you have it 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:43 PM
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But you realize raising a kid alone is very hard? A child, especially a newborn baby up to 1+ year NEEDS a mother to feed it. Growing up the kid will forever feel lonely for not having a mother. Yes many families are without fathers, but most people would choose a fatherless home rather than motherless. And the most beautiful thing about having a kid (imo) is mixing your genes with the genes of your loved one. You look at your beautiful husband or wife, and your realize your baby will be 50% her…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:29 AM
3

I feel so lucky I have a marriage/family-minded man, who is also 6'3 green eyed and very attractive.. Only a year later I just started noticing how awesome he is and that I never want to let him go. Dating is such trash and despite him being my first, me being just 21, I don't want to date around and explore.. I used to think I will date for fun lots of guys and that settling at age 20 is too soon, but finding a right person is so hard I'm afraid I will regret my whole life if I ever dump him fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:04 AM
2

I date a 6'3 attractive 9/10 man and my future husband, wdym 6'3 beautiful men can't be good loyal devoted boyfriends who treat their gfs right? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:29 PM
1

You think a good man can't be good looking, 6'4 tall, smart and sexy AND be faithful and commit to one woman? You think only ugly and plain men can be good while attractive ones just gotta be some assholes who cheat and abuse 🤣 98% red pill men think like this pretty sure it's cope
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:52 AM
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