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| 8 | Empathy, The essential skill. How do you train yourself to read and understand people?You want to know a fast way to train yourself to read people better? Watch award-winning films. Seriously. This is one of those times where getting popcorn, relaxing and watching a film can help. It's like, one way to get better at writing: read more. You consume and let your mind work its magic most of the time. What you can do, to make sure you're getting it, is pause the film and predict what will happen between characters. If you're watching a romance, pause it when you catch a woman smiling… | /r/seduction | 15/10/16 06:01 PM |
| 1 | When should I give up?You don't have examples, so we can't exactly tell you what to do. For all we know you could be texting, "you like sucking dick, babe?" With them replying, "uhh" please leave me alone What are you talking about with them? Are you rushing it? When you tell jokes, would it make your friends cringe reading them? Every form of communication has its quirks. Texting's quirk is that it has little priority in anyone's life. If it hurts your ego to think that you're not top-of-mind in getting a quality re… | /r/seduction | 13/10/16 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Been using tinder for a few months. Haven't matched with any high quality women (9's and 10's..) Anyone care to critique my profile?Whatever you wish, man. Just don't go out of your way trying to find a guy that looks like Alf | /r/seduction | 13/10/16 03:15 PM |
| 4 | I have figured out what “prevents me” from becoming vulnerable. What’s next?Next step: refine your mental models! Did you know the entire human race used to think the world was flat? Granted, we came to our senses once we accepted reality and decided "well, we fucked that up." That's an underrated process: accepting you're wrong about a held belief and changing your viewpoint. It is literally world changing. That said, I'll go with what you wrote. I'm afraid of what bystanders will think about me... I'd get labeled a weirdo. Alright, why? Walk yourself through it. Go de… | /r/seduction | 12/10/16 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Been using tinder for a few months. Haven't matched with any high quality women (9's and 10's..) Anyone care to critique my profile?Tell you what. Make a FB profile and fill it with pictures of an average guy. I'll choose the pictures and write the Tinder profile. Give me two weeks and I'll get you matches. If not, no problem. You choose how you want to think and live. | /r/seduction | 12/10/16 05:11 AM |
| 3 | Been using tinder for a few months. Haven't matched with any high quality women (9's and 10's..) Anyone care to critique my profile?This will be fun. Send your profile my way as well. For anyone reading this late, what the other guys are saying is bullshit. Do women swipe left more than right? Duh. Guys do it, too. Do women only get on Tinder for vanity? What the fuck, alright. I won't get into that. Can you match with attractive women? Of course, if you do it right and don't think like these "coaches." Here's a very obvious fact: Tinder gives you choices. Women have more options, attractive ones even more. Guys, not as much… | /r/seduction | 11/10/16 07:59 PM |
| 57 | How do I initiate for sex?It's in the small details. Have you walked into a room where two people just argued? Scrunched eyebrows. Shoulders up. Closed off. Almost like you can feel the anger of their thoughts. It's like seeing your friend frown and knowing to ask, "is everything ok?" Her tension is like that. But it varies from girl to girl. A few weekends ago I was walking downtown. Random girl stops a few feet from me. She mentions how I would look better with the top button of my shirt closed. I tell her to close it.… | /r/seduction | 08/10/16 10:29 PM |
| 155 | How do I initiate for sex?Let's remove the jargon first. "Initiate" and "isolation" is already creepy. It sounds like a command when you're playing a video game: "target isolated. Initiate sex sequence." The way you think is going to reflect in the way you speak. If you're thinking jargon, you're going to be in your head. You have this beautiful girl right next to you -- why build a mental wall between you and her? Better question: how does a conversation between you and a girl lead to sex? There is no special go-to. Sor… | /r/seduction | 08/10/16 07:24 PM |
| 2 | the tinder effectYeah, that's not true. At all. The men who write the wittiest comments get upvotes from other men who like that. The men who have actual conversation with women get, surprise surprise, dates with women. You can gladly look through my conversations on Tinder. Which leads to texting. Which leads to meeting them in person. I wouldn't say, "talk normal" if it didn't work. | /r/seduction | 08/10/16 07:03 AM |
| 3 | Going on a 1st date with a spoiled, hot, party girl. How do I handle this type of girl?Be in charge. That's the simplest mindset you can have on your date. How do you this? When she asks where you guys are going, you tell her. No options. If you want to grab ice cream and walk, "we're getting ice cream and walking around downtown." If you're both feeling each other, bring her in. Grab her hips. If you're sitting, grab her thigh while looking at her. Own the tension you both show each other. If you go through a crowd, grab her hand and lead her through. If you have a different opin… | /r/seduction | 07/10/16 08:14 PM |
| 3 | I've been having a problem lately where the first date goes really well, but I'm not able to convince them to go on a second date...Why wait 2-3 days to set something up? Have you suggested potential plans the same day, or when they text you? Do you ghost them after the first date until days later? Do you have each other on social media? Give more detail because all I'm getting is "we both enjoyed it, but then they don't follow up." | /r/seduction | 07/10/16 05:59 PM |
| 1 | the tinder effectWho said anything about replying with witty comments all the time? | /r/seduction | 07/10/16 05:12 AM |
| 3 | the tinder effectThere is so much generalization here. Tinder is like anything else (besides being online). The only added benefit is that you both know you find each other attractive. Your profile was good enough for her to say, "I'm interested." For what? Who the fuck knows. Find out. Generalizing removes the fact that the person on the other side is a real fucking person. With that said, if you have "game," you can get laid wherever you want. It is not "weird" to cold approach. God forbid you talk to a new pe… | /r/seduction | 06/10/16 07:54 PM |
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