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| 5 | Women aged 40+ are now having more kids than women under 20. Implications?Few questions relevant to RP here. Is the concept of the "wall" breaking down? These 40something women don't seem to give a shit that their eggs are degraded and that their kids have a high likelihood of being born with crippling mental/physical disabilities. They're pumping out offspring regardless. Your post betrays your strong feelings on the matter. It seems like your feelings are overshadowing factual arguments? Any woman can give birth to a baby with chromosomal abnormalities, even a 20 ye… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/16 11:42 PM |
| 19 | CMV: Men only pump and dump low-value womenThis thread produced a lot of discussion about when women should first have sex with a man if they desire a relationship with him. Many women in the thread argued that a man will lose interest in a relationship if they have sex too soon, especially on the first date. That claim seems absurd to me; in my experience, men only pump and dump low-value women. You're ignoring that a man's interest (or how he values her) can change. After sex, how he views her is going to change. Men who are avoiding c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/16 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Let's play a game: What does wanting to have sex to this song say about the person?Let me start it off https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h-EgychhX4E If this song absolutely sets them off what does it say? If this song sets the listener off, it says they're a white suburbanite who grew up in the late 1980s? if you're into this song you probably also a pop music fan such as Duran Duran. Like many 80 pop songs, in my opinion there wasn't a lot of substance behind the lyrics. It was a catchy tune with sexual overtones. Trivia tidbit: did you know in the video, the model, Caroline Co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/16 01:17 AM |
| 4 | How come TRP doesn't make people entirely anti-relationship?Love is an illusion anyway, there are 0 evolutionary explanations for "romantic love" whatever that is. It's a lie to romanticize sexual desire. Love is the physiological change in the brain that in animals we call bonding. Its purpose in biology is for child rearing. What RP seems to forget is that sex is for procreation. It's only been more recently in human history we've been successful at thwarting biology to prevent pregnancy. the study of biology also shows that primates need physical affe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/16 02:50 PM |
| 19 | Having casual sex with complete strangers but, wanting to take things slow with guys you date. Where's the logic in this?Here's the logic: Women often feel that if sex happens on the first date, there's a big loss of respect. And unfortunately it is true that some guys will disappear once a stranger gives them a one night stand What that woman might really be feeling is that it's because she does like that boyfriend guy that risking him disappearing would be significantly more painful. She needs a little time to feel sure that he will stick around. Men: the best cure for this situation is to not always vanish when… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/16 03:22 AM |
| 0 | CMV: The pushing of "Unwanted Sexual Attention" creates a unequal social hierarchy among men, that extends far beyond relationshipsI say she's a stuck up snot. It doesn't make her prettier or better than anyone else. It only means she's stuck up. I would not make any generalizations about women based on one snotty young woman's rude comments.No wonder her boyfriend won't sign up to play with her. She sounds like she's not much fun to be around. Usually when someone is stuck up they always have a greatly inflated sense of self value/attractiveness. It doesn't mean they are that awesome. It means only they think they are, bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/16 01:42 PM |
| 1 | I sometimes don't understand the point of debating TRPWhy must TRP have a stance on race? And what stance would that be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/16 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Q4RP: Is it in men's nature to destroy each other? If so, why should women and/or society care?Men's problems are women's problems, just as the reverse is true. Those men are someone's husband, father, or son. It hurts everyone when a family loses a father to death or incarceration. I don't think it's true that all women are empathetic and all men aren't. Some women aren't. Some women are downright evil they're so self centered; they don't care who they hurt. Women may not be as likely statistically to shoot or stab someone, but they cause destruction in their own way. Conversely there ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/16 01:59 AM |
| 1 | The Power of "The Makeover"Interesting theory. But are those makeovers? Or just the natural profession of a young man maturing and settling into his natural style? Just my opinion: I'm not convinced the "after" pictures were that much better. Guy #3 especially looks unapproachable in the after pic. At least in the before person he looked real. I hate it when a man can't smile in an informal photo. Why isn't he smiling? He looks salty. Is he still angry at women about not getting that prom date? I don't know. Whatever the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/16 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Is a man withholding affection from his partner as cruel as a woman withholding sex from her partner?Sex is a form of affection. "Cruel" is all relative to how much the deprived person is hurt by its absence. Some people aren't very affectionate and wouldn't notice. Others need to share in physical affections, and it would likely distress them. This isn't a man version woman comparison. Sometimes men withhold frequent sex in a relationship. If you visit /r/deadbedrooms you will find both men and women struggling with little to no sex in their relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/16 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Men should not have any empathy for womenMy outlook: there is no cost involved to develop some empathy towards others, male or female. How I choose to interpret and act on that empathy is another thing. Just because I understand the suffering someone is going through doesn't mean I'm morally obligated to drop what I'm doing and save them. It's possible for me to take care of my self and try to understand others at the same time. Besides, without empathy it's extremely hard to have good communication and understanding of others. How can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/16 10:05 PM |
| 6 | Cmv: society refuses to shed light on the reality that is the gender ratio because women need to feel likecspecial snowflakesInteresting research into the ratio of males:females conceived and born http://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2015/03/30/396384911/why-are-more-baby-boys-born-than-girls I would be curious to see the ratio around end of teenage years. Knowing that teen boys are much more likely to take risks, I'd bet the mortality rate removes more males than femalew. I feel the difference is so small that it really won't impact the social aspects of dating as a whole. With the Internet and modern transportat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/16 09:39 PM |
| 3 | "POKÉMON GO MIGHT JUST BE THE PERFECT DATING APP (YES, REALLY)"I'm on /r/pokemongo and frequently there are posts titled "if you see a cute guy/woman playing, let him/her play". In other words, players aren't going out to put themselves on display for others visual sexual enjoyment. They're out there to play. A good comparison is gyms: people working out in a gym are there to work out. They're not there to give others fantasy material or a potential hook up. Try to think of it this way: what if you're engrossed in doing something important to you, and you'r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/16 06:29 PM |
| 2 | do women underestimate male sexuality?the average guy in his sex prime (early 20s) would easily have sex with 85% of non overweight pre-wall women. That's your opinion of what an early 20s man is attracted to. But one mistake I see is the assumption that all men are attracted to the same type of women. (Or that all women are attracted to the same type of men, eg. "Chad"). that is illogical. Different people are drawn to different things. I feel TRP makes their life harder on themselves by convincing themselves all women only want a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/16 02:59 AM |
| 0 | The meaning of sex for menSo what you're saying is that men are no better than dogs? I'm not sure I like the dog man analogy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/16 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Is feminism a part of patriarchy?The problem with debates about "feminism" is that we all have different opinions about who we identify as feminists and what we think they stand for. I do not agree feminism must attack Christianity. Feminism says nothing about a particular religion. Feminism is merely raising women to have the same value and options in society as a man. That's it. As far as Christianity: what is practiced as Christianity in today's world does NOT align with Jesus' teachings. Jesus said to take care if the poor.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/16 02:27 PM |
| 5 | How is it possible to grow up and not know men want sex when you're a teenager?Your question doesn't make sense to me. Are you saying you think no teens (male or female) think that men (as in adults, not teens) want sex? I knew they wanted sex as soon as I felt my own hormones kick in and I felt the urge. I think the part teen girls don't understand is that most teen boys in out culture want ONLY sex. They're what we used to call horn - dogs, so horny they don't think straight. And maybe a percent of teen girls today are like this, too? My solution to avoiding the horndog … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/16 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Q4 Non-RP: If you can understand how the woman in the quote feels, can you understand how a TRPer feels?As a woman, I do not understand the sentiment in the quote. While it's true some men may have treated the person in an awful manner, it is simply not true that men (in general) are awful (in general). I hate sweeping generalizations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/16 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Why are people so sure the only way to have a fullfilling life is to have romantic relationships/marriages?Our culture judges us by the job we hold and the person we date. We are defined, labeled, pigeonholed by these two things. By not participating in having a job and a SO, people don't know what to think. It's hard for them to imagine anyone choosing it. So if you really want to get comments from people choose an untraditional job AND be single! They will assume you're mentally ill or something. The answer is that you shouldn't give up what you do or don't want to do because you worry what people … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/16 11:43 PM |
| 1 | What does The Red Pill actually offer that I can't find somewhere else?How to manipulate and coerce women into putting out without feeling bad for it. It's like PUA type stuff but with a whole theory behind why women supposedly deserve or supposedly want to be treated like crap, tricked, pressured. For example you can learn that "no means no " doesn't apply to TRP men because women supposedly want you to push through last minute resistance. Oh and if she claims rape, she's probably lying. And it's a circle jerk for bitter jilted men to commiserate on how life is so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/16 01:51 PM |
| 0 | (Q4Men) Would you like to pursue career as a male escort/stripper?As a woman i will say: I would pay for sex. If my current long term relationship were to crash and burn, I seriously wouldn't want to date for years to come. But I still enjoy human contact and getting laid. The problem with hookups is that the sex is often disappointing and the men I'm sorry to say are selfish about it. I would GLADLY pay money to avoid the dating game bullshit and be sure the guy would put his best effort in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/16 11:21 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women are slowly waking up and walking away from men.Women arent better human beings than men. There are good and bad examples of both genders. Yes some women are deciding to not date for long periods of time. Maybe their career or other interests are more important. If a man did this, he'd be a confirmed bachelor and admired for being so independent. But if a woman does the exact same thing, it's a gender statement? I think you're jumping to conclusions. As a woman my outlook is that I don't "need" a man; I do want a man. I recognize the positive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/16 10:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women aren't afraid of or threatened by sex botsSexbots, as in animated sex dolls? Who would be threatened by that? It's like a man feel threatened because his girlfriends vibrator is some fancy complex 20 speed tower-of-power. Who cares. It's still not sex. It's masturbating. Who cares. If anything, maybe it would be good for women? There is probably a small percent of men who see women as mere sex objects and who use women. Perhaps if those jerks can get Sexbots they won't need to maniulate, mislead, drug, coerce, or force women to have sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/16 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Men if you got a woman pregnant before marriage, what would you do?So what you're saying is you can trust her enough not to give you aids/hepatitis from unprotected sex? But when she ends up pregnant, you can't trust her when she says it's yours. Wouldn't it be wiser not to have unprotected sex if you can't trust them on the things that matter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/16 03:39 AM |
| 9 | Men if you got a woman pregnant before marriage, what would you do?One thing to consider, at least in the US: abortion services are getting harder to find. In some states women have to drive many hours. They may be required to do a drive twice thanks to mandatory waiting periods. They may be required to have someone drive them if they're getting anesthesia with the surgical abortion. Prices aren't cheap and almost never will insurance cover it. It's not accessible to all women. It always puzzled me that men who felt this way about an unwanted pregnancy in their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/16 03:35 AM |
| 6 | Men if you got a woman pregnant before marriage, what would you do?I've heard in some rare cases a pregnancy does occur after vasectomy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/16 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Would you turn a relative in to the police?This speaks more about the respondents views on law enforcement and the legal system. If you believe in the law and believe in the system, you won't make yourself an accessory to a crime. I believe nobody I'm close to would commit any serious crimes. If hypothetically there was someone in my family cooking meth or running a protection racket or whatever, I think I'd distance myself from that person long before their criminal nature became obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/16 10:21 PM |
| 6 | RP Men, what kind of women would react this way to the sexist backlash?To what sexist backlash? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/16 10:12 PM |
| 1 | An odd sex question for women of PPDWhen I'm really aroused, I think anything that might normally seem painful morphs into something that's exciting. Deep penetration feels awesome. Then again for me, being a little rough also feels awesome. If I have zero arousal, such as the doctors office, it's extremely unpleasant when the cervix is touched. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/16 03:20 PM |
| 4 | [Q4all] Can you do this? Do you know someone who can?When you're getting laid on your terms, you're texting her "come over, I want to fuck you" and having it happen precisely the way you want it. Yes it happens. My partner will text me he wants a bj, and I'll stop what I'm doing & go do it. If he wants, it turns into piv sex, but it's fine if he just needs a quickie to help him get to sleep sometimes. But it is wrong to think this scenario is getting laid on the man's terms. Both people are getting something out of it or it wouldn't happen. (Unles… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/16 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Women of PPD: Is bad sex better than no sex?Is PIV even your preferred type of sex? For me, yes, but I'm also huge into oral (giving and recieving). And I'm also into anything my partner is really into. His excitement fuels mine. There's a thread on a post from the other day about how some women prefer dry humping (myself included) to PIV, and as that thread is pretty buried at this point I think it deserves it's own post. If it's about getting off, I'd rather be licked should PIV not be doing it for me. Dry humping doesn't seem like it i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/16 12:30 AM |
| 1 | How did natural selection produce our vastly superior intelligence as humans if all women are after Chad Thundercock?This theory ignores that up until recently in human history, life was very dangerous for men. They hunted large game, and they went to war. So it makes sense they might not live long enough to have enough sex to result in children. Dont get me wrong. Womens lives were dangerous, too. Childbirth claimed many women (and even now still kills some American women). But death in childbirth means she was able to pass on her dna to at least on first. I reject the whole "chad" premise because I don't thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/16 11:11 PM |
| 4 | [CMV] Being overweight is a non-starter in a relationship.What you're really saying is you are bigoted against an entire group of people based on a single common visual trait. It's your right to be a bigot if that makes you happy. But I don't agree with bigotry of any kind, no matter what mental gymnastics you do to make it look good in your mind. I'd debate you on the reasons you give for hating fat people, but I suspect you really aren't open minded on this. doesn't matter if you can or can't prove "health reasons" to reject a whole group of people b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/16 04:49 AM |
| 1 | TRP isn't mysoginist, it's androgynist.I don't take issue with you believing women should be "feminine". My bone of contention is that you don't believe them to be EQUAL. For example, some TRP followers doubt women can even love...? Or that women are just animals driven by their base nature, cannot be trusted, etc. The idea that women not only deserve to be manipulated, but it's somehow good for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/16 04:18 AM |
| 5 | Q4All: Does general reddit advice give women the benefit of the doubt and have bias against men? What about general society?You lost me at her being a murderer. A fetus isn't a person. Murder applies to people. Claiming it's murder sounds so ridiculous it's hard for me to take the rest of it seriously. Should she be taking action that affect family planning without his permission? No. But any birth control decisions or even the decision not to ejaculate vaginally affects family planning. Yes she is wrong for leading him on when he wanted a family. Absolutely! This isn't a male or female thing. This is a shitty partne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/16 04:08 AM |
| 1 | What's your opinion on dating apps becoming more exclusive?I think dating apps are no different than hanging out at a local bar on a Friday night. In my opinion, the quality isn't there. And some sites really attract the self absorbed, vain, and flaky. Any attempt to filter the site is just going to bring you a slightly smaller number of mediocre results. There are so many other ways to meet people, online and offline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/16 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Should a severely obese person use this dating strategy?Overweight/obese people do actually have sex and relationships, and I mean real ones, not just used by fetishists. I know it's hard for some people to believe. But yes, a person can be fat AND be successful at having their relationship needs met. A person can be fat and also be athletes, models, business people, you name it. Just because you may not find big women attractive doesn't mean every other man must think as you do. Take for example Tess Holiday, a professional model. She's quoted as sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/16 03:18 AM |
| 1 | CMV: the success of obese women with healthy men on Tinder disproves the common Bluepill meme that incels have excessively high standards for sex partners.Health =/= low body fat. Have you ever seen an active drug addict? Or some alcoholics? Or some mental illnesses, eating disorders, some physical illnesses. Fitness =/= low body fat. Fat people can be active, even pro athletes. If you believe the BMI scale, a significant number of NFL athletes would be "overweight to obese". Attractiveness is not black and white, objective, or universal. Having higher body fat =/= no standards. And if you think obese women can't find men, you're misinformed. Abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/16 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Question for women: Does anyone else prefer their (male) potential LTRs to have a low partner count?I have no preference because that number is just a number, it does not define a man as a person, and frankly it's not really my business. As long as everything was consenting and legal who cares the number?? Previous sexual history is only relavent in terms of: will a partner infect you with a STD? And, if it a relationship, it's nice to know if they do or don't have kids. Beyond that: stuff done before dating is history. Anyone who judges another person based on a simple numeric value is showin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/16 01:24 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Sex is not a big deal for women.We have to weed out the creeps, rapists, and users -- so there goes a % of the advances. We weed out the completely self centered jerks because if he's self centered about everything else, there's no way he's going to care about the woman's satisfaction -- there goes another % of advances. Keep in mind it's generally harder for the average woman to climax. And sex without climax isn't nearly as much fun. So now I've got to filter out those who appear not to have those skills and who can't learn.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/16 09:59 PM |
| 1 | The greatest challenge for the 21st century male is to find a woman who is more interesting than his left hand.If your relationships with women are no more fulfilling than with your hand, you're doing relationships wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/16 11:04 PM |
| 2 | The greatest challenge for the 21st century woman is to find a man that adds to her quality of life.I personally think it's getting to the point where in order to be happy in a modern longterm relationship, you have to desire being in a relationship more than you actually desire the person. There will always be some people of either sex who choose to remain single indefinitely. Unfortunately this is where another double standard is applied. For men, he's called a bachelor, and some praise his independence. But if a woman did it, she was a spinster or old maid. Up until recently women were sham… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/16 02:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV- Cardio is really important for women.What works for your body may not work for others' bodies. This might be a better topic for a fitness type sub? I hate cardio. It's never helped me lower my body fat. Sure, doing it regularly helps with stamina. But, no, no matter how much I did helped. I even saw a trainer regularly in addition to almost daily activity: swimming laps, treadmill, walking, you name it. I built stamina and strength, but the scale didn't move.. If I'm going to exercise, I'm not going to do it to punish myself. I enj… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/16 12:13 AM |
| 0 | Should sex education cover false rape accusations?The debate question is, should sex education for minors, whether it be in high school, middle school, etc, whatever the age is, cover information and statistics about false rape accusations? Not any more than any other discussion on the law should discuss false accusations of other crimes -- which as far as I know is close to zero. It's common sense that you don't lie to police and you definitely don't lie to create a whole story & sign a written statement. A liar knows they're telling lies. I d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/16 12:51 PM |
| 2 | [Q4Women] Do you ever get tired of being feminine?Is it hard to be feminine all the time? Do you have to prove your femininity to others? What does it mean to "be" feminine. I'm female if I'm in a dress or a tshirt. I'm female if I'm getting a cute new haircut or using power tools. I don't have to prove anything to anyone. Do you have to prove your masculinity? That's such a crazy idea. Reminds me of the stupid national debate over who can use which bathroom. Nobody has to prove their sexual identity to others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/16 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Should deception count as rape?Think of it this way: Youre a hetrosexual guy. You see a nice looking woman at a bar. The two of you decide to go back to your place for some fun. You start to take off her dress to discover she is actually a man. Did you consent to sex with a man when you invited that person to your bed? Wouldn't you be a little upset to find someone used trickery to get sex from you? What if that person used a dark room, sweet talk, and a few drinks to get you turned on. You have sex. Later you turn the lights… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/16 03:23 PM |
| 0 | The Surrendered Wife: Sex!This strikes home. I've struggled on and off with deadbedrooms situation. A DB can happen to either sex. I'm a woman who loves sex and would do it daily if I could. The next part is, interestingly enough, suggesting that women initiate sex less. It doesn't work. I've tried it. I am the higher libido one in the relationship, and no matter what I do, my behavior doesn't control his libido. Initiating less means he thinks I'm not in the mood. Now, I realize both of those previous attempts were heav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/16 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Could a system like in the Republic ever work?He basically suggested marriages should be based on eugenics. The "best guardian men" would have sex with the best women and also be allowed to have multiple wives (for the sake of eugenics of course). Once born the kids would be taken away and raised by nurses and the parents wouldn't know who their kids are (that is so that they will consider all children of society their own and thus work hard for all of them) Do you think something like that could ever work? Would it have overall good or bad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/16 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Why the heck would anyone want to be a woman?If women were as you described, then I suppose it wouldn't be attractive to be female. Is it possible some of your assumptions are wrong? Women do have their challenges in our society. We still deal with sexism, descrimination, lower pay, wrong stereotypes, lower pay, far more likely to suffer sexual assault, etc. We can bring life into the world. If you do like children, this is the most powerful and beautiful feeling. Motherhood is only a burden if you choose to see it that way. It's so empowe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/16 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Q4 Women: Ever pretended to be a guy in online dating?No, I have not. As curious as I am, my ethics won't allow me to pretend to be anyone I'm not. And part of it too is that I had a lot of close male friends. Some saw me as one of the guys. I'd get to hear their unedited recounts of their experiences with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/16 10:15 PM |
| 9 | Q4 Women: Ever pretended to be a guy in online dating?That being said, when I posted as a woman, I got copypasta of a man's fantasy that had nothing to do with the persona I created. Usually they launched into an explanation of the pleasure they want to take, rather than the pleasure they want to give. Also, even if I said I wanted a man of a certain race or age, I would get responses from every man. They don't read the posts. If I posted two listings back-to-back, two totally different personals, physical descriptions, fantasies, I'd get the same … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/16 10:12 PM |
| 0 | Feminists claim ad showing the phrase “‘Don’t worry babe, I’m not filming this.’mov.” is promoting rape cultureI see an article but I don't seem to see a link to the actual advertisment. I'm on mobile so maybe that's why it's not showing up? Nonconsentual filming of women is a HUGE thing women worry about. It should never be taken as funny or appropriate for an ad. The idea that someone thought this was funny is indeed a sign we live in a rape - culture society. Any case where nonconsentual sex, nonconsentual taping if women, or any type of sexual assault is depicted as entertainment, yes, that's a sign … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/16 07:09 PM |
| 9 | Is women's sexual freedom a positive force in society?Women deserve sexual freedom because women are people and all people deserve freedom. If some men are threatened by it, the problem is with the insecure men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/16 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Is Obesity the reason for the warped SMP in America?I think blaming body shape is someone's way of looking externally for a cause that truly is an internal issue. I know chubby guys who have the charisma to pick up women without trouble. I know thin guys who sleep alone every night due to lack of confidence, lack of trying, lack of social skills, who knows what. Same goes for women. A confident curvy girl who knows how to flirt shouldn't have any problem getting attention. Being super skinny isn't the cure all for every thing. I have a few former… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/16 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Q4 Women/BP: What do you think the average day is like for most men?Edit: For the purpose of specificity, I'd like to focus on males of upper/lower middle class background, ages 21-29 with no outstanding mental or physical deficiencies What culture and subculture? Where they born & raised in america? What do you mean by mental deficiency? Mental health isn't black or white; everyone falls on a spectrum. Even "physical deficiencies" isn't black or white. Is being 5' tall a "deficiency"? How about 5'6? Where are we drawing the line between defects? Is being dark s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/16 08:46 PM |
| 4 | How would you fix the 'boys crisis in education'?Great answer. But I think your idea would be great for both genders I feel strongly that public schools need a major overhaul for both genders and all grades. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/16 04:11 AM |
| 16 | Q4RP: What do you think a day in the life of a woman is like?Is it possible your circle of friends needs a big change? Your sample set doesn't match up at all with my experiences. As a woman: I have 2 college degrees, zero criminal record, zero drama, no drug use. Of my female friends, they're full time employed in white collar jobs, no criminal history I know of, no drug use. I am aware some women do live messed up lives but they aren't in my social circle or neighborhood. I always assumed they were in a very small minority living in a low socioeconomic … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/16 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Are short men automatically placed in the beta provider zone?No. Source: I'm a female. I don't agree with any of your assumptions about women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/16 09:23 PM |
| 1 | ELI5: Women having it 'easier' when it comes to dating and sex.It's generally accepted on here that the average woman has an upper hand in dating and sex compared the average man. That's probably because of the demographic: more male than female, more TRP type thinking than not. Go over to a female dominated sub and I'm not sure that's the consensus. Yes, an unattractive, obese woman may have more difficulty than the average man (the argument frequently trotted out by those who can't accept that this is the reality), but if we're purely talking about averag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/16 03:14 PM |
| 6 | Why is it universally accepted that men mature a lot slower than women do, but misogynistic when you say women "stop" maturing around 18?Women aren't "at their peak" or "fully matured" at 18. That's silly. Have you met some many 18 yr old girls? I was 18 once myself and I know I was an immature pain in the ass at that age. A lot of the mistakes I made then and into my early 20s were because I wasn't mature, confident, sure of what I wanted, focused, or wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/16 01:13 PM |
| 13 | Do women really have 'baby fever'?Some women do to the point where it's an unhealthy obsession. We say they have "baby rabies" because sometimes they really do sound insane Many woman are perfectly happy waiting or never having kids. Check out /r/childfree There are some men who are also really into having kids. They tend to be of certain religious subcultures. They believe "go forth and multiply". Occasionally I'll meet a guy who has too strong a drive for kids out of a misplaced ego thing. One guy I was friends with got off on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/16 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Q4BPW: If a guy is "attractive" enough, can he get away with saying outlandish things more so than the average joe?I'm not sure I'd take anything seriously from Tinder. That's like my toilet posting a study about humans poop. I don't agree attractive people get away with bad behavior. A man I find attractive another woman may not or vice versa. Everyone has preferences. The only universals should be common sense things like clean clothes and regular showering. And I think there are judgements we automatically make on someone who has cleanliness issues, and it's those judgements that make us be less tolerant … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/16 03:04 PM |
| 3 | [CMV] Incels do not try hard enough.People who are self-identified incels or incels by the traditional definition just simply do not try hard enough to be happy. Happiness and sex aren't interchangeable words. Are you bothered they're not getting laid or that they can't find happiness without sex? They do not do anything to improve themselves, they usually say they do, but I have my doubts. Instead a lot of them go on forums and subreddits such as r/Trucels or r/Foreveralone. You really don't know for sure what a person is doing, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/16 03:01 AM |
| 1 | ForeverAlone stereotypes and dignityHere's the deal. Society will judge you no matter what. If you are seeing someone, some people may have comments about that person. If you're dating someone of the same sex, then the comments are about the person AND your sexual orientation. If you date many people (especially if you're female), society may say you're a slut. If you date people who don't meet others standards of beauty, you may get stigmatized for "dating down". If you date someone significantly older/younger or poorer/richer, y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/16 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Women not prioritising men's looks doesn't make biological sense.Which of these two would be the better bet for a woman of the past?: What Era and culture? In hunter gatherer cultures, her ability to contribute to the village/family may be just as important if no more so. Is she able bodied, a good worker, strong enough to carry water to the village, at least smart enough to know how do domestic duties of the time? In a caste based culture being born to a better caste is more valuable than just looks. In a culture where family tree dictates leadership, marryi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/16 01:04 PM |
| 2 | What are genuine psychopath traits and are they useful?Someone who is truly a psychopath has got to be diagnosed by seeing a qualified mental health professional. So the first problem in discussing psychopaths on the Internet is that almost none of you are psychologists or psychiatrists. One: you can't teach yourself to have a mental illness. Anything you are doing is just acting two: it's called an illness because it's seen as disease that impairs a person's ability to function successfully in society and achieve ones own goals. True psychopaths te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/16 12:19 AM |
| 4 | Isn't negging just banter?There's a difference between playful banter among good friends & a guy trying to weaken a woman by making jabs at her. If she's isn't laughing after and returning the "joke", it's probably not a game for her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/16 11:30 PM |
| 1 | "Until we reassess what it means to be a “real man” then men will continue to beat their wives and murder LBGT people to ease their own self-loathing."He's a terrible example of a case study. His religion is very homophobic, which may or may not be to blame. He reportedly abused his exwife, and who knows why he did that. Some report he was a self loathing gay man, and he was supposedly seen at the gay nightclub on previous nights. He had many issues. Having serious issues isn't a one in a million occurrence for men in america. It's that this particular guy took it out on society instead of seeking help (therapy) or simply committing his own su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/16 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Is male entitlement behind domestic violence, school shootings and the events like the Orlando shootings?I wouldn't call it entitlement. Maybe more like lack of positive role models, not being taught how to handle frustration, our culture's tendency to solve problems with guns/violence, poor support system, poor family structure. If you think about how hard it is to be a young man in america, trying to get ahead while dealing with all the bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/16 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Q4BP: What is your main issue with The Red Pill?Over generalization for either sex Women are lesser then men, a means to an end, deserving of manipulation, objects. Trp says: use them before they use you. Men that don't look & act like the TRP "Chad" aren't good enough. Women won't want you (supposedly). TRP seems to think there is only one universal definition of attractiveness, completely blind to the idea that different people do find different things attractive TRP success seems to be measured by how many different women a guy can get qui… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/16 04:25 AM |
| 4 | What does it mean to be insecure in a relationship?Insecurity is serious lack of confidence. Often times in debates here, the word insecurity is thrown around here in terms of why people believe the things they do. However, the term insecurity tends to be a bit over used. BPers say RPers are insecure if they don't like a wife going out drinking Depends why he doesn't like her out drinking? Is he afraid she will cheat? Or that he doesn't trust men around around a woman who is drinking? Or is there a specific reason a particular woman shouldn't be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/16 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: How would you want marital assets to be split during divorce?I want to mention to you OP, that you are basing this on an unclear understanding of the complains of TRP about divorce. (Its really men's rights issue more than TRP. TRP says don't marry at all.) The complains (listed below) are specific, and not covered at all in the way you've framed your question. Why are there such as large number of fathers denied rights to see their children or denied custody? I've heard the Mens rights folks claim this. I am open minded and maybe it's possible. But what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/16 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Women who always seem to get "bad apples": Is it a problem with how these women select their men, or is it a problem with men in general?Are some women bad at picking men? Probably. But the same could be said about some places. I'm no so sure what the point is. What you may not be realizing is that a much larger percentage of women are satisfied with the men they meet. You just don't hear them being vocal about it. In our society it's not usually acceptable to state successes. But we are rewarded with attention for complaining. Do not make sweeping generalization about women based on a few vocal disgruntled ones. Or on isolated c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/16 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Anyone can get a divorce for any reason, isn't this a good thing?Women having sex is a completely unrelated issue from whether she can be forced to stay in an unhappy marriage. Unfortunately men and women do sometimes have all the sex they want with others while still married. Mixing women getting laid with legal reasons a divorce is allowed is mixing apples and oranges. Women having sexual freedom had more to do with the 1960s Era cultural changes plus release of The Pill. If you hate that women are allowed the sexual freedom men have, you need to get rid of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/16 02:30 AM |
| 0 | Q4BP: Why would a woman choose to be alone with a man she fears may become violent?Are you saying it's the woman's responsibility to do a psych evaluation on every man before she is alone with him? And if he does turn violent, clearly it was her fault for not assessing his violent tendencies well enough? (There's a name for this : victim blaming) What of the women who are assaulted when others are present? Or was she wrong to be out in public at all, and perhaps American women should have an adult male family member to chaperone her & keep her safe? Crazy idea: instead of blam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/16 02:20 AM |
| 7 | Wage Gap Consideration and Implications of Feminist PusuitsLast I checked, parents spend just as much raising and educating boys. There is no debate if a wage gap exists. The debate is WHY. Some blame sexism, descrimination, and lack of opportunity for women. Others say it's not sexism so much as the natural disruption to a career due to a woman's choice to have kids. Some blame society and parental leave policies for putting the women into a situation where she's the one punished when a child arrives. It's a complex issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/16 01:15 AM |
| 10 | CMV: No rational person can use TRP's advice on "pushing past" LMR and ignore a sincere "no"I challenge your assertion a woman saying no is a "test". Why can't no just mean no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/16 11:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Brock Turner should get Life in prisonAs much as I hate what he did, life in prison doesn't seem quite proportional. He should have gotten the longer sentence the prosecution recommended. The good news is that in a way he will be punished for life: he's on the sex offender registry. Between that and the conviction (plus all the press about him), it will affect his job and social life indefinitely. Can I vote we tattoo "rapist" on the forehead of clearly guilty rapists such as him? It would work far better than just an offender list.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/16 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Is this man a sexual predator or a bad flirt?Did he sexually assault this woman? There is one thing I want more information on: was she intoxicated at the time? she says she might have been. If she was truly drunk, she wasn't able to give consent. No consent = it's sexual assault Is this behavior subject to prosecution or just a fine in the court of public opinion? Needs more investigation. I want to hear his side of the story. I wish a trained professional would question her. Had anyone else seen her in the previous few hours, and could t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/16 02:18 PM |
| 11 | CMV: I would rather have two fingers stuck in my butt behind a dumpster while unconscious than be on the sex offender list for life.What happened to the victim wasn't "finger inserted into butt". After all, in certain situations such as the doctor office, the finger in the butt isn't upsetting at all. What happened is that she was VIOLATED. From now on, if a lover touches that part of her body, it may trigger terrible flashblacks. It may ruin her ability to enjoy sex completely. She can no longer feel safe enjoying alcohol around men. Maybe she can't feel safe around men period. Rape may traumatize a woman so badly she can't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/16 05:32 AM |
| 6 | TRP gets attacked because blue pillers, feminists, SJWs and the like feel threatened by it.Can you explain your view. All I see is a vague title. Any mindset that treats women women as lesser is sexist. I believe sexism is wrong and not good for society. Therefore, I admit I will "attack" those TRP beliefs. TRP doesn't seek to make men confident by building them up but rather by tearing the opposite sex down. Trp creates an "us versus them" adversarial relationship between men and women. It reinforces any doubt a man might have that he can trust other women. By making women into the e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/16 05:22 AM |
| 2 | Does TRP make any other woman feel depressed?TRP makes me feel really sad for the good guys that got suckered into an unhealthy belief system. As long as they buy into it, they're never going to find their own voice, preferences, natural confidence. Personally, I dont think a man who must see women as objects, lesser than men, and/or evil will be able to have healthy relationships with women. I feel bad for trp men because it's drilled into their heads that all women only want a man that looks a very specific way. It's a standard that not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/16 05:13 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: What do you guys think about "safe spaces"? Has the world become too "Politically Correct" that we can no longer speak our minds?There are some legitimate implementations of safe spaces. People can be traumatized or be struggling with some mental/emotional health issues. If they need a safe space to act as sanctuary and to work on their issues, that's their right. We need to respect that. For example, if a combat vet comes home with ptsd, he may need a place free of triggers. You have to understand that telling a traumatized person to "get over it and stop being a victim" is about as useful and logical as telling a clinic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/16 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP: would you like if men's and women's sexualities were the same?Would you like if men's and women's sexualities were the same? if men and women had the same sexuality (both qualitatively and quantitatively speaking) the relationships between the genders would be more symmetrical and reciprocal rather than being a difficult negotiation with men being on the demand side and women on the supply side and with women being advantaged as long as they are reasonably young. I don't understand what your assertion is? Are you trying to say women don't desire/pursue/enc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/16 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Is it fair to judge some people for making different choices in life?In my opinion, people should be free to live as they like as long as they don't cause actual harm. If they want to be traditional, let them be traditional. If they want to be promiscuous, let them be promiscuous. If they want to have a Red Pill/Blue Pill/ whatever relationship, just let them be. Absolutely. We need to respect there are other beliefs than our own. TRPillers are often very judgemental of different lifestyles than their own and they falsely assume people can never have happy relati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/16 03:12 PM |
| 0 | If men are allowed financial abortions, wouldn't the crime rate go up?Basically what you would have would be a bunch of children being born out of wedlock and hardly taken care of, forced to live under the poverty line. Why is it specifically the woman's job to be careful? Do men really not have access to condoms or a vasectomy? Instead of worrying about child support, why don't the men just tale responsibility for their sperm? They just have sex in the heat of the moment and then she's pregnant. That ignores the failure rates of contraceptives. Hang out on the fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/16 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever known a guy who was rejected, in person for being too muscular?I can say as a female I tend not to gravitate towards them. Maybe they're not my type? Maybe they're too busy at the gym to have time for a woman? Right or wrong, there is also an idea passed around that really bulked up guys may be hitting steroids. Steroids are known to cause testicular atrophy -- the opposite of manliness. And then there's performance enhancing drugs which may have some negative sexual side effects. And then there's the bodybuilding obsession mindset: so focused on training t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/16 09:24 PM |
| 5 | Should we change the rape laws to include degrees of rape?Date rape, if the guy didn't get resistance or a no should be tossed out. I think you have been misinformed what date rape is. It is every bit as non consensual and traumatic as rape by a stranger. " Rape is sex you don’t agree to, including forcing a body part or object into your vagina, rectum (bottom), or mouth. Date rape is when you are raped by someone you know, like a boyfriend. Both are crimes. Rape is not about sex — it is an act of power by the rapist" http://www.girlshealth.gov/safety/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/16 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What would you think about a guy if he didn't kiss you on the first date?I would reserve judgment until I have more information. With only one date, I barely know him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/16 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Question to all: Women shaming small penis menI'm female. I call bs on this. I've never made fun of penis size or told my friends about a man's penis. None of my girl friends have ever talked about it either. Perhaps they did their interview in the 8th grade girls bathroom? Here's the thing: most women get orgasms more from clit stimulation than vaginal. Penis size really does not matter in satisfying her, as long as a guy has a clue what he's doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/16 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Dating advice for men. Why is "be uncomplicated" rarely mentioned?From anecdotal experience: Most women seem to find "uncomplicated" more attractive and more important than most men do. Yes, when it comes to casual sex, men value "uncomplicated", too, of course. And men with a lot of experience value uncomplicated relationships, too. I have no idea what you had in mind when you said complicated. And based on the comments, it seems like different people have a different idea what you meant. But from what I have seen, the average guy doesn't mind if she is compl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/16 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would women not caring about sex make men's lives easier?But let's not kid ourselves. It's exponentially easier for a man to enjoy the majority of his sexual experiences than it is for a woman. How do you know this? As a woman I disagree. Is this cultural expectation of pleasurable sex making women set the bar too high? I don't agree with your theory why women hold off on sex. I think women hesitate on sex for a few reasons. My theory: One is the cultural memory women have that we risk pregnancy every time we have sex. Even with good birth control, ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/16 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Should I become more promiscuous to discover my sexuality?I don't judge anyone for them being sexually liberated. Who cares what others think? Besides your sexual history is your private business anyway and nobody should pry it out of you. Do NOT listen to other people about who you should be attracted to. Attraction is a feeling, not something others can tell you. You find a person you are attracted to. Is it possible you're just not into men? Is it possible there's something that's keeping you from feeling a strong sex drive? Is it possible there's s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/16 12:52 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about people who don't want kids?Theoretically that would be completely against our evolution roots. After all, human purpose in life are supposed to be about reproduction. An animal's purpose is to perpetuate their species. Humans shed some of that when we developed abstract thinking, language, civilization, technology. We have an awareness of life and death. We have far more drives than mere food and reproduction. And now that our species has taken over most every corner of the world, it's almost a waste to see bright educate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/16 04:14 PM |
| 3 | The Surrendered Wife; Letting the man take control of the financiesI offered to let him do all the finances. It didn't make sense because he was working long hours and when he got off work bookkeeping was far from his mind. He also wasn't the one available to meet contractors or to take a car to the shop, so how does the "surrendered wife" pay for it? Bookkeeping is work and he's happier having less work to do. It's ridiculous this "breeds intimacy" in the woman. It breeds total dependency which is clearly very different. If the woman has intimacy issues, that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/16 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Which of these, if any would you consider to be sexual assault?A major disagreement between people here on the sexual assault studies is they include a lot of border-line cases, or grey-areas. Therefore, I thought to include some sample scenarios, and discuss whether or not would you would declare them to be sexual assault. A woman is in an elevator with a few other people. At one of the floors, a very obese man walks in, and takes up most of the remaining space in the elevator. In the man doing so, the man's fat arm and stomach rolls are pressing against t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/16 02:45 AM |
| 0 | Both Pills: How common are false rape claims? What should we do about them?Why do people pretend like false rape claims don't happen, or are so rare we should ignore them? Nobody says we should ignore them. There's already mechanisms in place to punish those who make false police reports or public accusations. Both pills, what percentage of rape claims do you believe are false? https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/False_accusation_of_rape According to the wiki page, the FBI says 8% of reported rapes are "unfounded". But that doesn't necessarily mean the report was a lie. It… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/16 02:21 AM |
| 8 | A male's dating blog, vs. a woman's dating blog.Both bloggers sound like, for lack of a better word, assholes. I can't imagine either of them being good representations of their respective genders. Jared wasn't wrong for one night stands as long as he didn't lie to get laid. But clearly he did lie about what he was going to take from the women. It wasn't a mutually agreed on sexual act. It was him getting laid, then making fun of every woman in the most belittling and disrespectful was possible. The funny thing is he makes himself look trashy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/16 02:01 AM |
| 0 | How quickly would this picture be taken down if it was a woman instead of a man?I followed the link but for some reason the image isn't opening on my end right now. I'm not aware of reddit taking a specific stance against sexism? Therefore, a pic (no matter how poor taste the "joke" is) would not be denounced by Reddit management. The only significant action I've seen reddit take was to close some subs that specifically were incubators for doxxing or group harassment of an individual. You still have freedom of speech. Just not freedom to use reddit to form a lynch mob and a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/16 01:42 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women HATE beta males. I have proofSo BluePill... why is it okay to virgin shame, but once you slut shame you're terrible. Isn't there a double standard. It's not right to do either. Who says it's ok to shame anyone? Also more proof of the shallowness of females: https://i.imgur.com/vNnGda1.png Your proof is tweets by a dozen kids (I won't even call them young ladies). It's like eavesdropping at a high school girls lunch table make any generalizations about all females. Kids say things they don't mean just to fit in, because they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/16 01:07 AM |
| 4 | Hawkings baffled by Trump supporters - why so many Trump supporters in our society?I can tell you why, as a Republican and a woman, I was looking forward to him winning the primaries: because I am that pissed off at the state of the Republican party. It's not the Republican party that I grew up with. We needed someone who would shake up the establishment hard. However, as a Republican and a woman do I want him to actually be president? No. He's a hatemonger, sexist, possibly racist, & hypocritical. He's inexperienced in politics. At best he would get zero done, his biggest wea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/16 02:22 PM |
| 3 | How would legalizing prostitution change the US dating and sexual market place?Once society got used to the idea, I don't think it would change dating that much. Some men won't use prostitutes, legal or not. Some men would, but those men might be able to get sex elsewhere -- but choose prostitutes for discretion (cheater) or convenience (eg. Travelling for work). I don't think it will make socially clumsy men feel any more successful. Those men still can't get the women they want. they could use a prostitute instead of a fleshlight, but that experience gets them no closer … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/16 11:04 PM |
| 3 | Studies find: Men are increasingly attracted to a woman's intelligence.It may be hard to prove objectively. But the logic works. I know I've gone through phases where I was drawn to men who were more fun versus more responsible. I also had phases where I was intrigued by completely different body types / looks, I guess a desire for novelty. If women's preferences can shift why can't men's? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/16 12:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Many female incels existed before the later 20th centuryOld maid meant unmarried. And back then "old" was late 20s. Unmarried doesn't mean asexual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/16 01:57 AM |
| 4 | Pain, Rage, and Shitty People; why the "right" is on the riseYou lost me at the implication that women were terrorists and the connection of friendzoning to Holocaust denial. I'm sorry to hear that women hurt you. But nobody "makes" a man turn into a bitter asshole after being hurt. That's a choice he makes. I don't know anyone who says a jilted man isn't allowed to feel pain or seek understanding. You have every right to feel what you feel. But you are putting so much energy into training for the emotional assaults you expect to get from women. Instead p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/16 01:56 AM |
| -4 | New survey suggests 1 in 5 women getting sexually assaulted in college is correct, thoughts?nonconsensual touching Lumped in with rape. Who cares about this study again? Umm....Women? Men that respect women. Parents of these young ladies. How would you feel if someone you found threatening not attractive grabbed your junk hard and laughed? why is that behavior ok? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/16 01:04 AM |
| 6 | What would be your reaction if 90% of men in society absolutely refused to get married?I don't care what 90% of men want. I only care what my mate wants. My reaction would be "so what, another Internet survey about strangers". I can understand that some men have misgivings about marriage because they don't understand it comes with significant benefits, too. I could list the benefits but convincing you isn't the point of this post. Ultimately when you're in a long term relationship with someone, you're faced with making commitment: be it a shared lease/mortgage, a child together, o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/16 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Do women value certain betas as much as alphas?Women are obviously more attracted to alpha males, but some high school girls, as well as older women, also seem to highly value their beta boyfriends, even though they're more sexually attracted to alphas. For example, I've heard a lot of stories of girls having sex with their boyfriends just so they won't leave them. I'm guessing their boyfriends are betas, because if they were alpha, those girls would actually want to have sex with them. Here's something the Pill theory doesn't seem to take i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/16 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Stud vs Slut DichotomyBoth words should not be used. it reduces a person's value to a number of different people they screwed. it does create that double standard where women doing exactly the same thing are slut shamed. Double standards = sexist = lack of respect for women. to reinforces to men that their main goal needs to be sex with as many different people as possible. Some take it too far and obtain the sex at all costs it ignores that the man who nailed 100 women may have sex less frequently, and less frequent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/16 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Q4 men who won't get married but still want childrenThe younger generations (male or female) don't value marriage the same way. You find someone who doesn't value marriage. Or you find someone who doesn't believe in abortion and get her knocked up. Or find a lesbian couple who can't afford a medical sperm donor. Sure you probably won't see the kid, but some men are into just passing their dna along and don't care about the actual child. A woman can fear a man leaving, married or not. look at how high the divorce rate is in America. Or the stats o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/16 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Do the gender roles exist primarily because of the other gender?Gravity is a law that can be proven to exist. Your theories about men and women are yours. Is it possible you have deep held personal beliefs for whatever reason -- and that you're filtering what you see to match those beliefs? You claim all women are passive, avoid confrontation, and can't lead. Is it possible you gravitate towards that type of woman? Or possibly you like them this way? I'm a woman, and I have no problem with leadership and assertiveness. I'm standing up to you right now. Sure … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/16 02:34 PM |
| 0 | CMV: It's possible to follow the TRP sub WITHOUT becoming an assholeLet me start off by saying I don't want to make this sound like a personal attack. But you use yourself as the case study so I have no choice but to address you directly. (In other words, no offense was intended) I never had to use "tricks" to do any of it. Manipulation of the mind? Maybe. If manipulation is flirting? And passing shit tests is flirting? Then I guess I manipulated, but I'm not so sure manipulation is a good word. The fact you view certain interactions as "tests" is a sign that yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/16 09:53 PM |
| 1 | What's the difference between slut-shaming, age-gap shaming, and gold-digger shaming?I don't agree with any shaming. What you do is your own business. Who you date is your own business. You're an adult. Others should respect your choices in who you date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/16 06:33 PM |
| 5 | How far do you trust your SO/partner(s)? How far do they trust you?Confidence that I know him really well. I've shown him my ugly secrets, he's done the same for me. Even in our toughest times, neither one of us have ever namecalled or turned verbally abusive. And confidence in myself: even if something bad were to happen, I've already survived a lot and I'll continue to survive. I am not defined by my partner's actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/16 05:13 PM |
| 1 | One argument in support of Nice Guy shaming is that male nerds are "overprivileged". This argument (if nerd means no social skills) usually has no statistical evidence.The issue with the article: it seems to use autistic with male nerd interchangeably. They do not mean the same thing! I'd encourage the author to get involved in the autistic community and get to know a few of them in person. Once you throw away the male nerds are all suffering from autism theory, there isn't anything there to back up why males in Stem are the victims. Have males who ended up in STEM fields been bullied when they were kids? Maybe. Maybe girls who gravitated towards the same fiel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/16 05:03 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If feminists and women's studies college programs cared more about getting women in stem fields, they would change getting a women's studies degree to include multiple stem classesCause having a few engineering courses won't make someone an engineering major -- and definitely won't make the graduate an engineer. Seems like a waste of seats in classes the STEM majors actually need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/16 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Just curious why society thinks it is OK to shame older men who have relationships with younger women?It's not ok to shame anyone else for their relationship decisions. People need to learn this concept called mind your f'ing business. What consenting adults do is their choice. Date who you want. Anyone who tries to give you crap is a hater and their opinion shouldn't matter to you. I'm a woman in my 40s. I'd say given the choice I prefer younger men (8-15 years maybe). If nothing else, the man needs to be able to keep up with my higher libido & energy levels. But some women wouldn't prefer youn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/16 07:10 PM |
| 1 | If your SO allowed you to bang other people on the side, would you?No because my man is without a doubt the best sex I've ever had. And I'm not saying that because I love him or am currently with him. Maybe is the chemistry? Or maybe he's just naturally that skilled? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/16 12:50 AM |
| 4 | So, a bunch of skinny geeks get photoshopped in Buzzfeed's video for "Body Positive" week. Do you agree with the video's message?Not every man wants to look like a weightlifter. Not every woman finds the muscle bound weightlifter body most attractive. Some men just aren't built to carry a lot of muscle, even with regular workouts. What's wrong with a man being happy with the body he's in? I'd rather date a guy who is comfortable in his own body than some insecure gym rat who feels he must exercise daily. I definitely wouldn't want to date a guy who feels he must rag on any "skinny nerds". Who cares what other men look lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/16 12:24 AM |
| 1 | For personal growth and not political success, which pill offers more information?How about no pill. You are an indivual. The people you encounter are individuals. Stop trying to play a role, defend your gender, or whatever it is you think your favorite philosophy demands of you. Be yourself. If you really truly struggle with interpersonal relationships and it's never getting better, you're better off getting help from a licensed profesional as opposed to some 'Pillers on the net. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/16 12:30 AM |
| 7 | To BP: How can "feminists" claim to be independent when they mostly major in jobs that require govt support based upon productive male taxes?Who defines what careers are "productive"? Why doesn't the theory account for influence males have had in discouraging women from working in "productive" (male-dominated) fields such as engineering? Did you know women who major or work in male dominated professions report unequal treatment, lower pay, and less promotions? You say the taxes are paid by mostly by men. Are you saying women somehow aren't paying taxes? You admit women do work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/16 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Question for everyone in a stable long term relationship: What are you doing right? Would your partner give the same answer?The typical things: stress. Honeymoon period ends. Baby comes along. Financial worries. Him working too many hours. Hardest thing from my point of view: as he got older, his energy levels dropped a lot especially after baby arrived. His sex drive was always lower but now it's a tiny fraction of mine, and lately even just a bj doesn't interest him. He doesn't seem to want to out anywhere anymore as a couple or a family. He prefers to watch TV and play on his phone. I've got to respect his choices… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/16 10:35 PM |
| 4 | Q4 women: when you give LMR, do you really mean it, or do you want him to push through and take you? What is going through your mind when you give LMR?It's yes or no. No means no. Yes means yes. Pushing through a clear no isn't sexy; it can be disrespectful to scary to downright rapey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/16 10:09 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Both women and men rationalize bad behaviors in people they are attracted toEveryone has flaws. It's not black and white. Some women chase really evil guys because the guy hides his mean streak really well. Some women have emotionally unhealthy thought patterns and believe they deserve to be treated badly. Some are horrible people themselves and identify with his behavior. Some are naive young women who had horrible role models and an abusive father, and they truly don't know yet this isn't how men should act. Sure, some might think they're going to tame the wild boy, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/16 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Do women find polyamory or plate-spinning acceptable?Depends what the goal of the relationship is. Are we talking friends with benefits or boyfriend/girfriend? If it's FWB, then there isn't the expectation of intimacy, therefore I see it as just random one night stands with the same guy. In a boyfriend girlfriend relationship, I don't care for the player who tries to keep that type of thing going with several women. Every single time I've come across a man like they, they lie about what their doing and their intentions. I want to ask those type of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/16 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: would you have sex with a hot guy that you disliked?Depends how I disliked him. If it's dislike from arrogance and vanity, it might be a thrill to do it. Or if he's got a personality type I don't usually get along with, I might give it a go just to see what it's like. If I disliked him because he was a hateful racist pig, I think my desire not to give him anything would override any lustful feelings. Or if the dislike was because he was creepy or definitely abusive to women -- forget it. For me, "attraction" is a sum of physical parts but it must… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/16 05:14 PM |
| 3 | The Surrendered Wide: Respecting your manMy first reaction: why does this have to be criticizing only women? Both sexes need to show respect for their partner. I don't agree with the example where the drive (in this case a man) is lost. Politely giving up updated information about the route is constructive. What kind of man wants a completely silent women & is happy to drive an hour out of the way in the name of protecting his ego? Some of the other examples seem the same. The author is confusing total silence with respect. Sounds like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/16 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Why do TRPillers blame women for nearly everything?Because women are evil irrational monsters and clearly must be the cause of society's ills. (If you believe the TRP mindset of how women are manipulative control freaks who use men and don't deserve respect).. Maybe it's just easier to have a mutual scapegoat?. Sort of like how Klan members hung out talking & blamed every wrong in the world on minorities. United against a common enemy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/16 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Women, do you actually like when your man flirts with another woman?No. It's inappropriate and disrespectful. I'd kick him to the curb if a boyfriend acted that way. Any man telling another man this is either trying to trick the boyfriend into failure. Or the advice giver is one of those super manipulative types who tries to play mind games with everyone, and he thinks he's doing other men a favor to teach them his bad habits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/16 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Would a sexually inexperienced man, and a promiscuous woman make a good pair for an LTR or Marriage?The debate question is, would a sexually inexperienced man, meaning between 1 and 3 sexual partners, and a promiscuous woman, over 30 sexual parters, make a good pairing for a long term relationship or marriage? The number of people you had sex with is just a number. It does not define you. If you think it defines you, it's THAT which will mess with your relationship. Who cares how much sex anyone had? As long as there's not a risk of std, why would you even ask how much sex someone had had? If … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/16 01:52 AM |
| 13 | CMV: Sex/Love bots would actually make the world a better place for everyone.You can never completely replace the experience of sex with another person. I can get perfectly physically satisfying climaxes now without it. But I want more out of sex than orgasm. I want passion, challenge, excitement, the feel of another's skin. A robot is boring. There's no chase, no randomness, no fire. They might make the world a better place for a very small % of people. Perhaps someone who struggles with serious anxiety in relationships, in conjunction with therapy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/16 01:35 AM |
| 2 | The Surrendered Wife Introduction reviewSounds like a flaky book Here's my thought on nagging: if a man doesn't like to hear nagging, he needs to address the problem in a timely manner. Or communicate why he cannot do it. I don't want to control him. What I want is not to be the mommy figure taking care of a man child. Act like a responsible adult and no reasonable partner should feel the need to nag. I have a hard time respecting an adult who can't seem to complete any tasks without someone reminding them. Write yourself a to do list… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/16 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Do women dress revealingly in order to attract sexual attention from males?Consent and creepiness are feelings, they are not actions. A guy can slap his girlfriends ass and if she loves it, and feels ok with it, she doesn't have to say anything. It's inly consensual, if she feels it's not consensual. That's where you make your mistake. Creepiness is a feeling, sure. Consent is the agreement of both parties to engage in or continue a sexual behavior. If a women likes her ass slapped, of course it's fine. But if she says no and pulls away, for him to slap her again would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/16 06:03 PM |
| 0 | Do women dress revealingly in order to attract sexual attention from males?And for the men who act inappropriately (creepy, sexual assault), they blame the woman for their bad behavior. And this is how we have rape culture: a woman's clothing justifies rape. And there are plenty of men she can be fine with giving her sexual attention. This is a feminist fallacy that creepiness is tied to behavior, its tied to a man's attractiveness. a woman wont object to Justin Bieber or George Clooney hitting on them. I can't speak for other women. As a woman, I will say with confide… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/16 10:51 PM |
| 0 | Q4all... would you be gay if you could, in order to bypass most of the issues you guys argue about all day?I think this sub and the related ones are NOT a good example of what modern hetero dating looks like! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/16 03:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Every male is a potential rapistRape is about power, dominantion, humiliation, and aggression. Any rape counselor will tell you that. To have the potential to rape one needs to have those strong feelings towards someone, lack the respect that would inhibit the behavior, and have poor emotional control -- a perfect storm. Some men have too much respect for others to harm another person. Or too much self respect for themself. Some have plenty of self control and would never act on inappropriate urges. Some simply don't get into … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/16 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Do women dress revealingly in order to attract sexual attention from males?There is a wide variety of why a woman dresses a way. She may identify with someone famous who dresses this way. She may have learned the style from her upbringing, just as an overly modest dress tends to be something the woman was raised to do. She may not even be concious that some men think she's sending a message. It's a mistake for a man to see clothing he likes and assume it's all about him. He may even blame his lustful feelings on her. And for the men who act inappropriately (creepy, sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/16 02:51 PM |
| 5 | Do Men Love Unconditionally?Unconditional love is I think hard for any adult to do in our society. Our culture puts so much emphasis on personal happiness, self centeredness, self serving. for example if you have a serious relationship problem and ask others, very likely the answer will be "if you're that unhappy you need to leave". Out culture sees relationships including marriage as disposable. Look at the high divorce rate. In fact, I wonder if it's hard for many people to unconditionally love themselves? We're immersed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/16 02:26 PM |
| 1 | A short theory about rapeIt may also be that on average men are physically stronger than women. It may be that statistically speaking men tend to commit more violent crimes. Keep in mind rape is about power/domination/aggression, not about getting sexual release. It could be that our culture raises men to take our their frustrations in more physical ways. Or that we're raising young men to measure their worth by being able to get laid when they want to (at any cost). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/16 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Can a couple have a good relationship without sex?Yes, provided that frequency is satisfactory to both people's needs. Not everyone wants sex all the time. Personality, mental illness (especially depression), some medications, excessive exercise, stress, & hormone levels all can result in a lower libido. Put 2 people together who really don't have a drive, and sure why couldn't they still be happy? I personally can't imagine being in that situation and being happy. But some people are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/16 01:16 AM |
| 3 | Hate sex, hate relationships, hate work. What could I possibly do with my life?I think therapy is called for. If you didn't like the results when you tried it, see someone different. And it only works if you want change. I'm sorry to hear you didn't like the medication you tried. But there are many many medications. If one doesn't work, you need to talk to the psychiatrist about it and try another. Change is tough. A breakthrough can take many visits. It may take seeing several psych doctors to get the right diagnosis. But what's the alternative? Clearly you're craving som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/16 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Would you support giving people a *unilateral* opt-out from paying child support if *every* person (*including every* child) will have a sufficiently large unconditional basic income?No because the child support is NOT for the custodial parent to spend on themself. Child support is for the child. If you don't want to ever pay child support, you have the choice not to have vaginal sex with women. Or you get a vasectomy. Otherwise, both people need to take responsibility for the result. It would also be nice if the men so outraged about child support would help us women out so we don't deal with an unwanted pregnancy. Stop writing laws or making legal judgments that restrict o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/16 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Husband gets no BJ's for 2 years, gets advice to be kinder to the wife and don't pressure her. Sex life goes from everyday to never. What are your thoughts on this?Any guesses you make about this will only be wild guesses. You have only one side of the story. And you can't even chat with him to hear tone of voice, ask questions, explore his feelings. You have no idea how his personal biases might be affecting how he interprets the situation. We don't know her history or his. We don't know exactly how he implemented suggestions people give. We don't know how truly committed he (or his partner) is to making the marriage work. Sex problems are never in a vacu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/16 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Question for BP: Do you agree with the sentiments expressed in this thread?I think you're comparing apples to oranges. Rape =/= the financial aspect of divorce. The men's who try to calm upset women about rape with their statement #notallmen may make sense to the men. " Of course not all men are rapists. Why don't women get that? Why don't women trust is?" What men don't get is that rape affects ALL women. And that although only a small % of men ever commit sexual assault, all men are part of our culture -- our rape culture -- a culture that blames the victim and defen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/16 11:26 PM |
| 1 | The awkward moment when TRPillers and Anita Sarkeesian are saying the same thing.I was watching this vid and I realized that if you think about it, TRPillers actually agree with Anita Sarkeesian here. TRPillers often say that mainstream media like movies and video games have brainwashed them to think they can get a girl or that they're owed a girl for being nice or something. They say it's feminist brainwashing. Video games reward men with the girl for winning part of the game. It's not about being nice, a good listener, compassionate, or respectful. So I'm not clear on how … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/16 04:23 AM |
| 4 | Can couples counseling actually help for sexually related issues?I don't see how couples counseling can solve anything sexually related, because it attacks the problem from the wrong angle. A lack of sexual satisfaction or sexual attraction has almost nothing to do with love, respect or "insecurity". It's about not being attracted to your partner. Some people can't feel attracted to someone who constantly treats them as a doormat. Would you find it sexy if your long term partner was nasty to you, talked crap about you to others right in front of you, complete… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/16 03:04 AM |
| 1 | how common is for women to be attracted to weak/shy men?Do you mean weak as struggling to make it through the day kind of weak? Or do you mean what I consider normal: average guy who probably has a desk job and isn't a gym rat? As a woman I'd say it's fine if he's not an athlete. But I'd be concerned if he was so weak he struggled to get off the couch because all he does is lay around watching tv. Are woman are attracted to introverts? Depends on the woman. I'm an introvert. I'd rather be with another introvert so I'm not being pressured to go to par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/16 02:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The no BJ/Anal with me but did it with past lovers/ex's is an issue of low masculinity/confidence, not resourcesI have a completely different perspective. First off: any time anyone of either sex posts about sexual or relationship problems, you gotta understand even if OP is being as honest as he/she can, you are never getting both sides of the story. It ignores that as people mature they change. Their preferences, libido, energy level, stress level, everything will change over time. It's foolish to compare the wife of today with the person she was 10 years ago married to someone else living a different l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/16 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Who are all these moron women telling men all of the things theyve done sexually with other men?I've told a man I was dating about previous sexual experiences. It must be done in a context of a lot of trust. If he's secure, he may even be intrigued about it. A man is an idiot if he tells himself his woman never did anything with anyone before. Why do men create this sexist narrative: he is proud of his conquests but she's not allowed to have done anything? I dated one guy who I can best describe as high libido but couldn't bring himself to try things. He got excited when I told him the unu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/16 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4 Red Pill Men: If a woman is dealing out "shit tests" left and right and trying to toy with you, why continue to pursue a relationship?Can you define what a shit test is? I'm not familiar with the concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/16 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Would you prefer an LTR with a girl who slept with 5 guys who were all less attractive than you, or 1 guy that was a true chad?or just 1 or 2 guys, but they were extremely attractive guys (6'5" height, college athlete, total chad). As a woman that's not my description of an extremely attractive man. EDIT: For reference, the extremely attractive guy i have in mind would be someone like this Not my type at all. On a scale of 1 to 10 he's like a 5: meh. I'm not saying he's not attractive to some people. He's just not what I am super attracted to. And if he's playing a sport seriously enough to be on a team like that, his f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/16 08:25 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Sometimes the manipulator can be the manipulatedYes it's possible two manipulators try their tricks on one another. The funny thing is that most of the good (non-manipulative) people will learn to avoid a manipulator. Pretty soon all he/she has left around him/her are people just like him. Then they whine on facebook how nobody calls them unless they need something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/16 04:05 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Sex is an extremely extroverted activity, and thus any introverts will have a huge disadvantage getting sexual opportunities.I'm not sure you're using those words correctly? One simple definition: " Introverts (or those of us with introverted tendencies) tend to recharge by spending time alone. They lose energy from being around people for long periods of time, particularly large crowds. Extroverts, on the other hand, gain energy from other people. Extroverts actually find their energy is sapped when they spend too much time alone. They recharge by being social." This does NOT mean introverted means scared to be naked… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/16 03:53 AM |
| 0 | Is there any benefit to spreading TRP to you?In our world, women are a scarce resource. Not true. There's roughly an equal ratio. If someone gets an attractive woman, that means there's one attractive woman less on the market, Not true. Men are individuals and what each man finds attractive varies. The other flaw in this logic is that women don't go off the market when a guy gets laid. Since the goal of TRP seems more about getting laid and not about a long term commitment, in the TRP mindset there are always women to say yes because men a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/16 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Do you believe that differences in biology lead to differences in behavior?If biological differences between men and women make for people that think differently, couldn't bio differences between individuals account for different women having different drives/thoughts/personality? As soon as I hear "women" (all women), I want to face palm. Women are individuals. The only thing women always have the same as other women is the XX chromosome and the vagina. Otherwise we are all individual people. Some women are driven to want kids. Some are in different. Some are content … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/16 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Q4BP: can't you technically phrase any interaction between humans as 'manipulative'?If a guy asks a girl out and takes her to a nice dinner and makes her laugh and he then hooks up with her at the end of the night, didn't the man 'manipulate' her? Manipulation implies coercion or deception. If he went out with her cause it was fun to hang out with her, and later sex happened, he did not "manipulate" her. The sex just happened as an organic thing when the time was right. A manipulator would spend a little time reading a woman to find her insecurities. He would chat with her at t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/16 03:03 AM |
| 1 | are women repulsed by the idea that their man has been with prostitutes?are women repulsed by the idea that their man has been with prostitutes? Women are all individuals. Their views on prostitution and therefore their views on men who use prostitutes vary widely. I have no problem with prostitution. I wish they'd legalize it in the us, so there can be protection for the women, health testing, and such. should he avoid to disclose his past sexual experiences with prostitutes? I have been with hookers a few times and I've been told by other women that I shouldn't co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/16 05:22 PM |
| 5 | Q4Women: How do you view success?Inspired by a brief conversation with /u/ofspock where she said: People are happy when they aren't significantly behind anyone else. Successful people make average people unhappy. That's a very Western (american?) view of success. It's what we may be taught in a culture. It's not what all human kind naturally need. So, in your opinion, what is a successful woman? Someone who achieves her own goals. and in my opinion does so without clearly hurting others (stealing, lying, scamming). What kind of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/16 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Looking at the fundamental beliefs I found something pretty contradictory.If the primary goal of the redpill is tomake better "men", then why are the fundamentals all about women? The primary goal of red pill is to make men FEEL better. Their target demographic are those are unsuccessful with the opposite sex. What better way to make a group of jilted men feel better than to convince them 100% of their bad feelings are women's fault and what horrible creatures women are. "Machiavellian": TRP emphasize the idea that women are devious & manipulative, because it makes it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/16 02:56 AM |
| 0 | Women think men owe them their money - Why?Alimony isn't automatic. It only applies in certain situations. Keep in mind too that when kids come into the picture usually the woman is the one setting aside career goals for the sake of the family. Why shouldn't she get a little support if 5 years later he wants out? Be aware that some money is shifted to women because women are still paid less to do the same type of work and they're still expected to do the lions share of childcare/housework. In some situations the man earns less and the "w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/16 06:35 PM |
| 5 | Q4Women What good reasons are there to NOT get prenup?When the assets/income are not significantly different than the partner. When both people have very little assets/income. Plus hiring a lawyer at $300+ an hour may not be a good use of resources when a person is on minimum wage. When both people are firmly rooted in a culture/religion where divorce rate is very low and where extended families always look after someone should something horrible happen. For example Amish whose divorce rate is almost zero. I don't think Americans realize how high o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/16 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Men thinking women owe them their time - Why?I think you're making a lot of assumptions. You're assuming someone that the only reason a man approaches a woman he doesn't know is to hit on her. You're assuming there is a uniform standard of attractiveness. You don't know for sure if the man wouldn't have approached another man. He might if he was gay/bi. He might if there was a reason to interact or conversation starter. Sometimes it's also to network with other business people, to sell something, or even to talk about their religion. Only … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/16 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Is TRP a post-assault crisis rehab center?Now, despite feminist and blue pill fantasies, no one is born red pill. What makes you believe this? Why couldn't some men be born with a temperament that makes them more likely to feel bitter or disenfranchised? throughout history it's been human nature for some people to scapegoat the group least like them. When I comes to jilted lovers, why wouldn't some men choose to blame the opposite sex? It's so much easier to blame the other person rather than to take responsibility for one's own happine… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/16 03:42 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Creep shaming is a by-product of college consent campaigns and rape hysteria.To properly debate this, I need to be clear what you mean by "creep"? As a woman, creep to me doesn't mean less attractive or socially clumsy. Creepy is the feeling a guy gives you when he doesn't respect boundaries, won't take no for an answer, doesn't stop to find out how you feel about his behavior. He isn't necessarily a potential rapist but he may make me feel somewhere between really uncomfortable to threatened. Women were uncomfortable around creeps long before the rape awareness stuff. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/16 12:37 AM |
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