functionequalsform Archive

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2	I'm a piece of shit, just turned 26 and still a virgin. I need some fucking help. Fuck it OP we're rowing the same boat. Pretty normal looking and social dude here as well, although there are a few things lingering about that keep me from full confidence. The usual story is I'll go out with friends, get high and drunk.. Feel good. Then we'll meet some girls, talk/dance/flirt/grope but once it's time to be the man and close the deal I 100% of the time back the fuck out. At the final stretch, the finish line, I NEVER close. Being a man is pushing through that final pass of judg…	/r/seduction	21/12/15 08:18 PM
2	How is a 25 year old virgin supposed to build attraction with a girl? If you're not comfortable with mild intimacy, what makes girls think you're comfortable with them seeing your body completely naked?	/r/seduction	18/12/15 08:27 PM
2	Giving up already, because I'm aware it's all a fucking lie. I'm the opposite of everything women want. Fact. Hahah you think these things like jobs and age matter. You ever see 2 wonderful looking people together in public? Sometimes rich, sometimes poor. They're brought together by the simple fact of they give what they have to each other. My last 10$? It's yours babe. 3 hours total this week to socialize? They're your 3 hours babe. It's not... How much you give, or what you give, it's what you can give. Give your time, give your trust and all that shit. Your mental disposition is the biggest obstacle…	/r/seduction	18/12/15 08:18 PM
2	Getting over attached and clingy too fast because lack of women in my life You are correct, you have no solution. Because there is no problem. I understand, you feel like you missed chances with girls? It's all about how you look at it. Here's 2 ways you can see your situation right now: A. I'm a jaded lonely guy who was never good with girls, therefore I'll never be good with girls. I feel hopeless because of my lack of experience. B. I'm a normal guy who doesn't stress about female acceptance because it's not that important to my life. I enjoy hanging out with girls …	/r/seduction	15/12/15 03:41 PM
2	Getting over attached and clingy too fast because lack of women in my life You need to understand that there will never be just 1 female who sees interest in you. It's funny because I thought the girl who fucked me over was my type. I thought she was everything I wanted. I learned the truth is, we don't know what kind of person we want until someone comes along and shows us what we want. I know what you're like because you're like me. You can either understand now, that women are going to fuck you over, or you can wait for it to happen and learn the hard way like I did…	/r/seduction	15/12/15 03:16 PM
2	How to respond to finding out she has a boyfriend? God, so much truth here. Actually, I was in a similar scenario without realizing it until now. She was probably a 7 on average, just went thru a long term break up, sought attention from me and 1 other dude. Checks up on me from time to time even though she's dating the other new dude currently.	/r/seduction	14/12/15 08:20 PM
2	Why would someone act interested and then stand me up? Can this be put in some guideline somewhere?	/r/seduction	14/12/15 07:59 PM
7	Getting over attached and clingy too fast because lack of women in my life Honestly dude? She's probably gonna shit all over your heart at some point. But the first girl who takes that 1 big shit on your chest is doing you a favor.. Here's why. A few years ago I met this girl who was a few years older than I was. We hit it off pretty easily, just 2 pretty laid back people getting to know each other. I wanted to have sex with her so bad but she seemed pretty straight forward with what she wanted so I took it slow for about 6 months. Not a single kiss. Well one night she…	/r/seduction	14/12/15 07:51 PM
2	Narcissism and egoism will DESTROY your game That's a very good sign that you're able to recall your behaviors (which is why I believe you're not a true narcissist) and it's good that you empathize with people you talk to. As a mild narcissist myself I agree it's really easy to get caught up in that mindset because it can become a conversational comfort zone. I do it all the time. I think you are/could be an awesome non-narcissist just based on the amount of empathy you demonstrate. You understood how you made them feel, now you can do the…	/r/seduction	11/11/15 08:00 PM
3	Narcissism and egoism will DESTROY your game Blanket statement. The biggest narcissistic egotistic "every conversation leads back to me or how I feel" mr. 1 upper I know has a lot of game. He has more than enough naive women swooning at every one of his travel stories. Every sentence is some declaration of boldness with this asshole. However depending on what you're looking for, I can agree that mindset will get you nowhere.	/r/seduction	11/11/15 05:47 PM
1	does being a "nice guy" hurt your game? If you're too nice to escalate things then yes, your game will be fucked up.	/r/seduction	11/11/15 03:56 PM
1	The Power of Eye Contact I'll preface this with saying I don't think eye contact is a 'good luck charm' as much as just a good social exercise. In any case I believe it adds to your internal confidence because you're essentially exposing yourself in a sub-intimate way, without internalizing too much. I went from 10% or so to about 75%+, by perceiving eye contact as the connection of 2 minds. I read everyone's pupils. When you make eye contact during an engaged conversation you're telling the other party that you're inte…	/r/seduction	10/11/15 06:04 PM