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funfwf/r/seduction26/08/14 06:38 AM
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That's alright op, your sisters taught me female orgasm too. (Just kidding)
/r/seduction26/12/14 12:50 PM
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"Hey could you hold my phone for a second?" "NO BITCH"
/r/seduction14/11/14 08:20 AM
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Then why the fuck are you in this subreddit if you believe that?
/r/seduction14/11/14 01:12 AM
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Heh, I read that too. I expected an article about not letting women treat you like a purse
/r/seduction14/11/14 01:10 AM
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Have you heard of the escalation ladder? Here's an explanation of the model which I think is pretty good http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/?sort=confidence
/r/seduction12/11/14 06:56 AM
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"It's a date" usually means the time is set, not that you're going on a date. You could say it at work even. Take her to coffee, Kino, take her somewhere after coffee, escalate. She'll know it's a date then.
/r/seduction06/11/14 01:00 AM
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This isn't about that man. What you're describing isn't the friendzone, it's a friend. The friendzone is: boy likes girl boy hides his feelings and is "just friends" with her, despite wanting her girl likes him only as a friend because he never made a fucking move Optional: guy whinges that girls only like assholes and not "nice guys like me!" This is dishonest. It's a little bit of "shit or get off the pot". If you want a girl, make a move, don't sit in limbo. If you don't want to fuck her, the…
/r/seduction24/10/14 04:46 AM
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This is really great. Too many guys would've just hung around trying to change her mind and keep escalating, then get resentful at the girl when sex still didn't happen.
/r/seduction18/10/14 03:10 AM
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Why would you possibly think it's too fast? You're not asking to marry her! The point of a date is to get to know her in an environment where you can escalate. Next time you see her you tell her "I like you. I want to take you out on a date." I like the word date because it lets her know you don't just want to friends, whereas inviting her to something otherwise might not be clear. Change the wording so it's congruent to you though.
/r/seduction09/10/14 01:28 PM
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Off topic but your comment actually made me laugh out loud.
/r/seduction09/10/14 01:14 PM
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Don't lie if she asks but I don't see a reason to tell her. It could be good if you've "overgamed" her and she has a player vibe but otherwise it probably won't help you. Maybe wait until after sex if you really want to tell her. And just so you know, by the way you're described it, she probably would've been willing to go further than just kissing with you, but I understand that as a virgin you might have been nervous. Your job for next time is to escalate until you seal the deal, or she stops …
/r/seduction06/10/14 12:41 PM
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I think you're making it a bigger deal than it is. It's a crappy retail job. Most of us have had them. Do your time and get out of there for greener pastures :)
/r/seduction05/10/14 03:02 PM
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Dude I'm going to give you some advice that you'll probably disregard. You're in highschool. Forget this game shit, it's mainly made for guys who missed the boat when they were your age. Your job is to make friends, be cool (not an arsehole but don't a nice guy who people walk on either) and, then, you can tell girls when you're attracted to them and take them out on dates. And for fuck's sake make sure you actually do your work and get decent grades, you'll regret that more than not going to a …
/r/seduction05/10/14 08:08 AM
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Ultimately dude, you're thinking about some dude's relationship who you never met, based on a stylised book he wrote about himself for people's entertainment. Yeah some marriages end and some last until death. Hooray. You should just care about you.
/r/seduction05/10/14 07:55 AM
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Also, people bust your balls because they generally like you. Learn to laugh at yourself and bust their balls back. It's all in good humour. Don't bust their balls back with the intent to offend though, then you'll be seen as petty, or "can't take a joke".
/r/seduction05/10/14 07:52 AM
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The thing is, you work at Wal-Mart. Your job kind of involves letting people be arseholes to you unfortunately. Customers suck, but don't take shit personally, some people just don't have manners. In the end, it's a shitty job. Do enough to do your job properly but if it upsets you when arsehole customers get their way by causing a stink, you care too much. In retail (and any job really) you just want to befriend your colleagues, including managers. Don't only talk about work stuff, feel free to…
/r/seduction05/10/14 07:50 AM
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Just make sure nobody walks in on you
/r/seduction03/10/14 01:51 AM
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Hint: your photos are shit.
/r/seduction27/09/14 01:35 AM
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You handled it fine. I would've said something like "Usually my dates don't bring family along. Look after your sister and hit me up again if you want to see me another time." If she's still interested, she'll likely offer something else. If not, that will be the end of it.
/r/seduction25/09/14 03:32 PM
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I c wat u did thar
/r/seduction25/09/14 03:27 PM
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Nobody's forcing you to wank. If you're having weekly sex like you say there's no reason you can't just stop masturbating. Channel the sexual desire towards women, rather than releasing it yourself. Yes, it will be tough, but if you genuinely think it will be good for you to stop, it's literally as simple as not masturbating. If you keep having trouble, try getting a parental filter on your pc to block porn. Try it for a few weeks, see if it helps.
/r/seduction25/09/14 01:44 PM
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I like it.
/r/seduction25/09/14 11:34 AM
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"You're totally right babe, I am a terrible person."
/r/seduction14/09/14 11:22 AM
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Maybe because his boyfriend took his handbag
/r/seduction08/09/14 07:01 AM
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I wish I could contribute further than just saying that God damn Montreal has some of the most beautiful women I've ever seen in a city. It's fucking spectacular.
/r/seduction07/09/14 04:32 PM
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By the sounds of it, she wants sex too. If you've made it clear you are not a boyfriend, you are a cock she can utilise, she will be fine. Since she really seems to want the sex, I don't think she's going to see it as the dumb idea of "a special gift" or whatever else inane shit society used to believe. Just as men are, virgins women are still able to separate sex and love. Your job is not to get too nice and boyfriendy. Oh and I get it. The sex will probably suck yeah but there is definitely so…
/r/seduction29/08/14 02:18 PM
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Try to set up the date or the foundations when you're there face to face. Rather than saying "why don't you give me your number?" you can go something like "There's this awesome little coffee place you'd definitely love. Give me your number and we'll go". Then while testing you don't need to be making random conversation, just working out the timing of the promised date.
/r/seduction29/08/14 01:57 PM
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Completely agree with everything you wrote. Cheers.
/r/seduction26/08/14 06:56 PM
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I like the girls I meet, and I’m sure they’d be hurt if they knew I was seeing other girls at the same time. You need to make sure the girls know you're not looking for a girlfriend. This is your job and really should do this before you sleep with them. Anyway on this particular girl. I would say to her something like "I find you attractive and I do like you but I'm not after something serious." Which she knows. If you just want to be friends, offer it, but this means you're only friends. If you…
/r/seduction26/08/14 07:26 AM
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I hope you have the basics down: Get your Clothes off the floor, make your bed, have a supply of basic snacks and have a bit of alcohol ready. A little fridge is great if you have one.
/r/seduction26/08/14 02:51 AM
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From the white house to a share house. Coming this spring, it's Presidents.
/r/seduction25/08/14 12:50 AM
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This is the most fratboy thing I've ever seen haha.
/r/seduction22/08/14 12:07 PM
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No shame with asking on Facebook, but you'd probably want to have a chat on FB first, because right now it sounds like you're just one of the many dudes she kind of knows. Otherwise next time you see her, say to her something like "So this might be unexpected but I think you're super cute, so let me take you out on a date." A lot of guys here seem to like to use the "date" word so that she knows you're not interested in just being her friend, and don't end up just going for coffee like you would…
/r/seduction22/08/14 07:01 AM
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At a social environment like uni where you'll keep seeing the same people, compliment people of they have something worth complementing, not because it's a cute girl and you think it will make her like you. Complement men and women, if its authentic. To a girl you know "Really cute dress today." or to someone you just met "Hey, awesome streaks in your hair!". Complementing men gives positive vibes too; dude with an interesting T shirt? "awesome shirt man." from there you can talk to them, be coo…
/r/seduction22/08/14 05:03 AM
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What if she smells like burnt toast?
/r/seduction22/08/14 04:25 AM
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I think the key to tinder is to get her off there asap. It feels stale after a while because texting is so much more boring than real life. You'll want to set up a date, get her number and get her off tinder. Kal's tinder guide on here actually has some pretty good pointers if you haven't seen it. I can't seem to find it right now but I'm on mobile. Maybe someone else can link it.
/r/seduction20/08/14 06:51 AM
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Agree with this post. She probably sees you as "better" than her. Like an unconfindent guy who tries to ask out a girl who's "out of his league". Part of your job is to bring her up and show her that you like her, and she's as good as you, because you're awesome and so is she.
/r/seduction20/08/14 06:41 AM
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She is definitely attracted to you and you definitely could (and probably should) have pushed the Kino a bit further before you took her home. Most guys here I think would agree that despite what Hollywood says, waiting until goodbye to kiss isn't ideal. Not to worry though, she likes you and you should take her out again! Keep on kinoing, but you'll probably need to escalate slower than with a more confident girl who will more readily respond to your body signals. Oh and I find that compliments…
/r/seduction20/08/14 06:36 AM
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You know, it would probably work even better to your boyfriend. It's easy in relationships to let that fire burn a bit low, sending that to him the next day would be sure to drive him wild until he sees you next. Your post Just got me thinking.
/r/seduction20/08/14 06:26 AM
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As a casual observer, what I would take from why your method works would be the reserved confidence without the cockiness which might otherwise give off a player vibe. Approaching direct takes balls and this is sexy, but you do it in a way that keeps you seeming like a real and genuine person who just found this other particular person attractive. Your above average looks should help too, but I wouldn't be surprised if an extremely good looking dude couldn't pull this off as easily as you seem t…
/r/seduction20/08/14 06:22 AM
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What you're talking about is usually called day game here. There are many resources about the situation you're describing if you search the net for daygame. About seeing a girl in a Dr who shirt: "Hey I saw your shirt. Are you a Dr who fan?" "Hey awesome shirt, you seem cool so I thought I'd come meet you " Or the classic day game example usually goes something like "hey I saw you from over there and thought you were cute, so I thought I'd say hello "
/r/seduction18/08/14 02:13 PM
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Yes and no. I think "modern" material is a lot better at making you a better man, more interesting person etc. But to call shit like MM which did work 5 years ago outdated is a bit much, considering women haven't changed. The community has moved on, and for the better I think, but bashing mm comes from the same mentality of thinking that guys from outside the community could never possibly get laid, which obviously isn't true. The VH1 pickup artist show I found a pretty interesting watch even th…
/r/seduction18/08/14 02:08 PM
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To reference Patrice O'Neil, 2 girls 1 cup exists, and she won't kiss you? These made up boundaries aren't normal.
/r/seduction16/08/14 04:05 AM
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What was teeth whitening like? My dental hygiene is fine but my teeth are somewhat yellow and ive been thinking of doing something about it.
/r/seduction15/08/14 03:58 PM
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You sound like a pretty cool guy. I'd sex you too.
/r/seduction13/08/14 09:38 AM
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I'm from Sydney and never heard that term, where in aussie you from?
/r/seduction08/08/14 09:02 AM
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Just because I've got a great secretary, I don't shut down my HR department.
/r/seduction06/08/14 02:36 AM
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If you don't have anything better to do - don't say no to a social event.
/r/seduction28/07/13 01:51 PM
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I disagree, she will let you know if she's not ready for whatever you try. That's what she did with the top. Awesome on the text message, I'm stealing that one.
/r/seduction14/01/13 07:59 AM
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Think about how when you talk to a mate you're comfortable and don't worry about what you should be saying. You want that mindset. You're just having a conversation and when things you realise you don't know come up you can ask questions. Edit: this is also why active dates ate recommended here. Things like dinner are high pressure, and can be uncomfortable for her also!
/r/seduction25/12/12 02:28 AM
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"i don't kiss and tell" "I'm pretty vanilla" It depends, are these potential girlfriends or just casual chicks? Casual girls i understand why it would be a problem, it means you will be bad at sex and potentially needy. Girlfriends I'm not sure what the huge deal would be, it might be your delivery.
/r/seduction25/12/12 02:23 AM
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This. It can be frustrating seeing the crap people spew about this place so I get why you wanted to share the post, OP, but it's impossible not to make your way through here without realising "that haters gonna hate". Seddit is about self help, fuck what people think. The "nice-guy" will always have issues with places like this. Some guy underneath posted this 'All the asshole techniques are exactly how those guys get the gorgeous women. They may be on to something, since following reddit's "log…
/r/seduction11/12/12 12:59 PM
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First of all, best of luck to your brother and you. I don't see a reason though why you can't be going out with girls though still. You don't need to drink, you don't need to be going bungee jumping or anything like that to enjoy yourself. Obviously put your medical situation as priority 1 but as long as you're honest "I can't do x because I'm preparing for surgery" i don't know why you can't be dating. If you want to be a bit scummy you can use your selfless story as a huge dhv as well :)
/r/seduction27/11/12 02:17 AM
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Depends on what you want to do: You can say "guess" You can give a dumb answer "I'm 62" "I'm 12". When she pushes you, you'll need to tell the real age though. You can give a fun/cheeky answer. "Young enough to have fun. Old enough to know what I'm doing." Don't lie about your age, it will make you look bad and unconfident about out when she finds out.
/r/seduction27/11/12 02:11 AM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/yh01m/a_couple_years_of_this_material_helped_me_travel/ IMO this is similar. The consensus was "man the fuck up". It helped. The reason i know is because i posted that thread in a throw away, too embarrassed at the time. I am no longer a virgin. Dont know if i can attribute it to that thread but i feel it was important to me. Hopefully it helps you.
/r/seduction27/11/12 02:01 AM
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What do you mean by what do you do? And what do you mean by on hold. Sorry i just don't understand your question, i think if you elaborated a bit you would get some helpful answers
/r/seduction27/11/12 01:55 AM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/12m8tw/how_do_i_break_the_nice_guy_i_am/ I thought this thread was pretty good for "nice guy."
/r/seduction26/11/12 11:07 PM
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You sound like you want a coupon.
/r/seduction24/11/12 02:27 PM
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Syntax error, unterminated string constant.
/r/seduction07/11/12 05:13 AM
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Fucking this. Stop filtering what you say and you will be amazed how much things change. My input: I honestly believe i am a good person, but in recent years I've worked hard to shed my nice guy. I want to be a good guy, not a nice guy. It sounds like semantics but there's a massive difference. A nice guy does nice things although he doesn't want to, a good guy does them when he believes it to be right, but isn't afraid to say no. He stands his ground, and is willing to risk someone getting upse…
/r/seduction05/11/12 08:22 AM
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Twist: OP lives in Compton. Jokes aside, what you say is extremely true. Just being a person who is friendly, and open to experience and strangers, you open up a huge number of "acquaintances" which is a good step 1. Especially if you've established yourself as a cool guy, like you seem to have.
/r/seduction30/10/12 07:50 AM
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I enjoy screaming Lil Jon's bits in it. OKAY!
/r/seduction22/10/12 08:57 AM
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http://www.attractionexplained.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/MLTR-Handbook.pdf That's an ebook i once read about juggling multiple girlfriends. Perhaps it may prove handy, it's not long, but in essence it involves not hiding that this isn't a one to one relationship and being willing for her to decide if she'd rather have some of you or none of you.
/r/seduction08/10/12 01:41 AM
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Love the footsie line.
/r/seduction05/10/12 08:23 AM
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You're a fucking badarse. That was great. If i can make one lesson from this - don't be afraid to be mental.
/r/seduction05/10/12 08:18 AM
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Don't cancel. Aside from being rude, if you sit at home, that's going to do nothing for your slump. Going out, having fun, getting to know someone, this will help. When i feel down, i like to listen to my favourite music and talk to someone I'm close to about it. It can really help to just say to someone "i need to borrow you as my Temporary therapist". Try to get excited for the date, plan something fun. Good luck my friend.
/r/seduction03/10/12 11:11 PM
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This place is never that useful for women, for the same reason that women give rubbish dating advice to men, we don't know how to attract ourselves. That being said, try subtle ways to convey interest. Light touching - men notice this. Touching his arm when you talk is a good initial a way to convey interest. You also want to come across as a woman, not a man with long hair. When saying goodbye, open yourself for a hug goodbye, never a handshake. Take pride in your appearance, its amazing what d…
/r/seduction03/10/12 11:02 PM
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Only do this if you two are alone. Otherwise you are punishing her for showing you an ioi, she'll think twice before showing you interest again if you're going to embarrass her for giving you ioi's. I probably wouldn't do it at all. respond to an ioi with an ioi. You want to reward good behaviour; she should feel that good things happen when she shows you interest. Depending on how far along you are and if attraction is assumed yet (pre or post kiss) I'd acknowledge it, maybe with just a sly smi…
/r/seduction03/10/12 12:27 PM
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My style would be next bus ride, once she comes onto the bus, move and sit next to her. "Hey i see you every morning and I'm tired of being lonely on public transport, so i thought I'd say hi today." Move to introduction, joking, light flirting, etc. If the interaction goes well, "let's grab a donut" bam mini date already set up. You'll be wanting to try and run attraction here, but you should have laid that foundation on the bus also. (don't know how long the ride is) After the donut, you can g…
/r/seduction03/10/12 07:12 AM
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General rule: if she hits you, shit's golden.
/r/seduction03/10/12 03:50 AM
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colt 45, and two zig zags, baby that's all we need...
/r/seduction23/09/12 10:40 PM
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she may think you are China get a... FTFY
/r/seduction21/09/12 03:01 PM
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I enjoyed your post immensely.
/r/seduction21/09/12 10:49 AM
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I have a name which is also foreign and hard to pronounce - I just use a nickname. A common interchange: "Hey I'm x" "Is that your real name?" "No, x is short for xx, but x is easier." I usually make a joke about how I don't even know how my name is supposed to be pronounced because everybody says it differently. I also noticed that the only people who then ago and use my real name are girls who are attracted me to. Easy IOI :P
/r/seduction21/09/12 10:48 AM
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Just chiming in here. Don't take this as a personal attack because we all do and have done the same thing, but just reading about this stuff is absolutely useless if you don't try to apply it on women. You can't suddenly become a better person by just reading an internet forum.
/r/seduction15/09/12 12:39 AM
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I would strongly recommend just trying to meet as many new people as possible, and making new friends. Key word, friends. This is where you will spend the next few years of your life. University is about social circle game, cold approach is not hard at uni because everyones on the same ground but you want to build up a strong friends network. Join clubs and societies that interest you. I know that one of the single best things I did at uni was sign up for salsa dancing classes. You meet a lot of…
/r/seduction15/09/12 12:16 AM
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As a former retail salesman, it helps with the outcome independence. There will be times that you do badly, and times that people are rude, and you learn to separate your emotions from the outcome. This is great for interacting with strangers, once you get off the salefield. Best of luck with the new job.
/r/seduction15/09/12 12:02 AM
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Well this guy might
/r/seduction14/09/12 12:37 PM
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Like a boss.
/r/seduction12/09/12 12:44 PM
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Urfaselol gave you a good starting point. But being Asian as a problem is all in your head. Look at the biggest population in the world and then try to tell me your race will stop you getting laid. Nerdiness in itself is not a problem, however its symptoms can be. Things like poor hygiene, inability to speak clearly, too much spare time and no social life might be the symptoms. Luckily though, they're all things you can work on. You never said what's nerdy about you. Are you smart? That's a good…
/r/seduction11/09/12 06:18 AM
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Excellent porn name
/r/seduction30/07/12 08:54 AM
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