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funk205/r/Divorce_Men19/01/22 02:44 PM
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Yeah sounds about right. My ex introduced our daughter to about 10 new boyfriends over the span of a year. Meanwhile my gf and I waited a year and my ex was still pissed about it. The double standards are incredible.
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/26 01:08 AM
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50/50 on paper. I have 100 percent of overnights and she gets minimal visitation in practice due to her being a bum and living with friends in a dumpy apartment in the hood since she won’t get a job. She’d rather smoke weed all day. It’s been great for my daughter, except seeing her mom live like a bum. But at least she knows what she doesn’t want to be like when she grows up.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/25 05:34 PM
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Yeah that’s probably a healthier way of looking at it. I just have a strong need for justice. Unfortunately that tends to go unsatisfied most of the time.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/25 02:28 PM
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Oh no, she’s a piece of shit too. Don’t get me wrong, everyone involved is an asshole. But I would never be the scumbag to help a woman cheat on her husband.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/25 02:25 PM
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I’m very much ok with holding all parties accountable. Screwing someone who is taken makes you an irredeemable piece of shit.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/25 02:18 PM
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Great wisdom here, listen to this OP
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/25 01:03 AM
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She wasn’t who you thought she was. You’re lucky she didn’t get back together, because she would just cheat again. Cheaters are broken people and they don’t change. It will get better. Good luck out there.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/25 01:02 AM
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Always divorce. Cheaters rarely change and worse yet, even if she does you’ll never trust her again. I went through it and it sucks, but it’s worth not destroying your mental health to get out. It’ll be expensive and exhausting. But you’ll come out stronger in the end.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/24 02:41 PM
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We’ve all been through it here man. Just remember it will get so much better. And you’re not alone.
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/24 04:41 AM
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Wow same here. Mom and granny were also hardcore religious nuts too. But the rules only applied to everyone else. Not them.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/24 09:20 AM
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My ex and her family were hardcore Jesus nuts. She cheated and they all blamed me. Some of the shittiest people I know are Christians. It’s a crapshoot buddy.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/23 12:02 AM
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No
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/23 08:02 PM
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Sure, but the issue lies with PROVING you were abused. How often are men able to do that in court with the ridiculous presumptions we have to deal with? I get what you’re saying and your heart is definitely in the right place. But in practice it’s better to just be able to file no fault and get it over with in the vast majority of cases.
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/23 11:04 PM
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That sounds fair. Fuck family court
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/23 01:11 AM
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Sage advice right here boys
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/23 07:17 PM
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Yeah, I tried this for two years but it was intolerable. All she did was trash my house and have dudes over whenever I wasn’t around. She also refused to get a job and help with bills so basically she was squatting. It sucked and I had to pull the plug despite her and her shitty families threats.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/23 02:21 PM
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Dude, first of all respect yourself. Second of all, she just set status quo by making herself a visitor and you a custodial parent. IANAL but I have to believe you’re in a favorable position for a divorce. I would lawyer up and close the deal.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 03:46 PM
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Holy shit my mother in law went absolutely mental when I asked my wife for a divorce. She was already a whack job but she went fucking nuclear and tried to get her daughter to attempt a move away since they already live out of state. Be careful.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/23 11:46 PM
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Ding ding ding! Don’t forget title 4-D either.
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/23 02:21 AM
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Fuck this sounds familiar. My ex could not handle any criticism, constructive or otherwise, without deflecting blame and pointing fingers. Sometimes getting violently angry.
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/23 02:20 AM
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Mine had an affair and blew our entire HSA buying gift cards for her boyfriend, then was utterly shocked when I told her I wanted a divorce. Her whole family knew what she did and they all acted like I was some monster for wanting out. People don’t like accountability.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 11:33 PM
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Very similar to my situation except with mine there were always red flags. But after our kid was born she absolutely lost it. She never asked for a divorce but she cheated. Hasn’t worked in 8 years. Thankfully I was lucky enough to not have any more kids with her and I’m out now. But this story is super common. Good luck man. There’s a better life on the other side of this.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 09:45 AM
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She’s trying to keep his kid from him dude. No father should take that lying down.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 12:48 PM
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Congrats man, this is great.
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/23 12:19 AM
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Man there’s a lot of truth in this post.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 10:26 PM
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Honestly looks don’t matter as much in the long run. My ex wife was gorgeous when I married her but she was a total pain in the ass and she ended up cheating on me. Finding a woman who will treat you as an equal and bring you peace is 1000% better in my opinion, even if she is average looking. It’s about personality for me now.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/23 02:47 PM
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Yup same here. Worked part time until our daughter was born then refused to go back to work when our daughter was in school. Also drained our health savings account to buy gift cards for her fake internet boyfriend. To the tune of 12k. Never cooked or cleaned either.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/23 09:14 PM
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Personally I would never take back a cheater. It’s rare that they change. He’s probably just upset about the consequences.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/23 11:14 AM
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Religious nuts are the worst. My ex came from a family of die hard Catholics. Ironically, they supported her when I caught her cheating and I was the piece of shit for not “honoring my vows” when I started the divorce. Bunch of hypocrites.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/23 11:49 AM
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I’ve found that tik tok is among the worst offenders of this. What an incredible cesspool of entitled hags.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/23 09:16 PM
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Holy shit, this sounds like an amazing deal. She should have to pay child support but goddamn I wish my ex would have offered to give me sole custody and just gtfo my life.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/23 04:32 PM
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Hahaha
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/23 02:34 PM
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To expand on this, family courts stealing kids away from their fathers has to be a contributor as well.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/22 05:42 PM
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I didn’t suggest it but that was 100% the case. She couldn’t stand not being the center of attention while bringing nothing to the table herself.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 04:09 PM
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Me ex used to always get mad at me because our friends didn’t talk to her enough when we all got together. You can’t win with some of these people.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 12:41 PM
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Married a week ago? You’re in better shape then 99% of the people here man. If you want to get out you should be able to do so with minimal damage at this point.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/22 07:12 PM
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Best of luck to you too man.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/22 06:22 PM
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Yeah they actually met at the mall I guess, but that was his place of employment. APs are almost always losers. It was humiliating though for sure. Oh, and he was married with two kids. His wife bought her lunch one day and tried to be her friend, she thanked her by fucking her husband. Real quality woman right there.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/22 07:40 PM
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Any time I talked to my wife about her ridiculous spending habits or general unwillingness to help out around the house, her default response was “yes father”. After a brutal year of sleeping in separate rooms we finally have our first mediation appointment in a month. I have a feeling she’ll be ridiculous and we are going to end up in court but it’s worth a shot.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/22 07:39 PM
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I mean, I filed because my wife was banging the stock clerk from our local wal mart. So we are out there lol.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/22 03:20 PM
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In my state it’s very hard to get the court to allow you to relocate your kids away from your spouse. Not sure what the law is like in the UK but I would recommend fighting to be a part of your kids lives. We aren’t second class parents. Fuck that bitch.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/22 10:52 PM
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This is what I have been doing. It isn’t easy but it’s been mostly tolerable
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/22 09:24 PM
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This is fucking sickening. In my state at least you can challenge paternity with a DNA test but it’s expensive and you’ll spend money in court even though a dna test is like 100 bucks. Because it’s family court, so fuck you!
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/22 10:31 PM
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Hmmm… I would let her move out. Just make sure you document it. IANAL but moving out before a divorce can be devastating to her case. I would play it cool then go along with it for a while, then file once it’s established that she has been gone a while. Edit: talk to a lawyer, also, she’s probably banging someone else already
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/22 12:39 AM
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When I found out that she had a boyfriend
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/22 01:19 AM
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Good shit man. It’s a brutal process for sure but unfortunately it’s the only path to a better life. Happy for you man. You earned your freedom, now go enjoy it!
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/22 12:00 AM
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Same to you man. Not sure where you are in the process, but best wishes. Also, your post is probably the best advice I’ve seen on this sub for men who aren’t already married with kids. Wish I would have listened to my gut.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/22 11:13 PM
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Hah. My mother in law said she was surprised at how small the diamond was. It was 1.5 carat. Currently going through mediation. I had the same thoughts as you but ignored them. Funny how this shit works.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/22 10:53 PM
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Ohhhhh buddy… this is my situation almost to a T except in mine there are kids involved. Don’t walk, run. Run far away and don’t look back. And whatever you do, don’t get her pregnant. Take it from someone who’s there right now and feel free to look at my post history, it gets worse, not better. Listen to these guys, we’ve lived it.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/22 12:28 PM
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This is kind of what I’ve been doing. I head off to work fairly early so generally I still have plenty of time to spend with the kid. My daughter and I do almost all of her outdoor/playtime activities together, plus homework. Her mothers idea of quality time is giving her an iPad while she watches Netflix, and occasionally taking her on a play date so she can drink wine with the moms. Problem is we are broke because I’ve been the sole provider for seven years. It sucks biding my time but for now…
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/22 04:30 PM
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Sorry that happened to you man. Keep your head up.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/22 03:36 PM
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What? That’s insane, can’t believe that a judge didn’t order her to return your stepdaughter, that’s basically kidnapping. Our court system is a joke. I’m sorry this happened to him.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/22 03:35 PM
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