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| 3 | Girls/Women: What if a guy left you a note instead of directly approaching you? | funkmaster322 | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 04:23 PM | |
| 1 | Approaching (minority) women in the Netherlands | funkmaster322 | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 06:48 PM |
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| 15 | Confidence isn’t necessarily attractive. It’s confidence combined with masculine/dominant energy.How do you explain women being attracted to singers and other types of artists? Those males are typically more effeminate than your run of the mill "dominant male"... | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Date planned for tonight but haven’t heard from her since WednesdayWho cares if she has options? You do too. I wouldn't text her back at all. She's aware of the date and so are you. Here's what I would do: Be a man of your word. Go to the date location. Wait for 15 minutes. If she doesn't show up (and, from the sound of it, it sounds like she probably won't) take the loss and head back home. Don't text her or tell her anything about it. If she shows up later than 15 minutes or remembers she missed the date and gets back to you, tell her "Well, I was there, wait… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Date planned for tonight but haven’t heard from her since WednesdayHas she agreed to go on the date? | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 04:31 PM |
| 24 | Has anyone else noticed this?You're 28. Pretty sure you're still hot... | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 11:32 AM |
| 0 | What did I do wrong?Maybe she wanted to give it a try just to "see" if it felt right. Maybe she didn't have the heart or guts to deny OP the kiss in the moment. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 11:34 AM |
| 0 | What did I do wrong?Its not your thread buddy. The moment you decide to make a public post on reddit it becomes everybody elses thread too. The post belongs to you. The thread belongs to everybody. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 07:37 PM |
| 1 | What did I do wrong?WTF is all this with dilated pupils? Where did you hear or read that that was correlated with anything at all? | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 07:33 PM |
| 2 | What did I do wrong?She was just being nice. You read her wrong. The "insane chemistry" was just an artefact of your own imagination. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 09:31 AM |
| 2 | Girls/Women: What if a guy left you a note instead of directly approaching you?Um. Love the enthusiasm. But no lol. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Girls/Women: What if a guy left you a note instead of directly approaching you?Like I wrote in the note, I wouldn't mind if she decided she wasn't interested. It's more like I need to make sure she knows I'm interested so I don't beat myself up over it later... if that makes sense. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Girls/Women: What if a guy left you a note instead of directly approaching you?I do that when theyre not busy with a conference call for their job | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Girls/Women: What if a guy left you a note instead of directly approaching you?What would be "acceptable" or "cute" then, in your book? | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Girls/Women: What if a guy left you a note instead of directly approaching you?Because I had 1) somewhere else to be and 2) other shit to do. What if her meeting took another hour? Should I just wait there like an unemployed loser? | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Girls/Women: What if a guy left you a note instead of directly approaching you?Thanks. will do. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Random sex textI need an emotional connection to be able to do that shit.... | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 02:34 PM |
| 15 | Random sex textThis, kids, is how you increase your chances of getting an STD.... | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 08:45 AM |
| 3 | What hobbies have the most women in their 20/early 30s?It is true that on average men are more likely than women to excel in chess, for example. But there are women who do, and those women are way smarter than you and I, in precisely the rational, objective problem solving way you describe. There are also a handful of highly effeminate men (dancers or singers) who are way more in tune with their emotions than the average women. It's not all black and white like many of you guys would have us think. There are no "rules", only general tendencies... | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:05 PM |
| 5 | What hobbies have the most women in their 20/early 30s?No not all, but many of them are. Just like how many men are highly intelligent. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Do some guys really ask the girl if they can kiss her on a first date? And i also heard this girl who is a dating coach tell guys that one way they can be a good kisser is to ask her consent before you go for a kiss! How do you guys feel about that?Not really. What's your point here? | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 06:03 AM |
| 21 | What hobbies have the most women in their 20/early 30s?Women will know if you pick a hobby for the sole purpose of hooking up with them. Contrary to what many posts in this subreddit imply, women are highly intelligent and social creatures. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Do some guys really ask the girl if they can kiss her on a first date? And i also heard this girl who is a dating coach tell guys that one way they can be a good kisser is to ask her consent before you go for a kiss! How do you guys feel about that?What are you talking about my friend? A word of advice: punctuation is a wonderful thing. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Do some guys really ask the girl if they can kiss her on a first date? And i also heard this girl who is a dating coach tell guys that one way they can be a good kisser is to ask her consent before you go for a kiss! How do you guys feel about that?Good. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Gaining some confidence back. My local barista gave me her number and agreed a date, then stood me up... I just saw her againI dont think you should really ever drill down too much into the "why". The "why" is not that interesting and pretty easy to explain after all. It's typically a combination of narcissism, laziness, low moral standards and general immaturity. So who cares? Instead I'd lean more into the "I'm speaking out my mind because it's the right thing to do." mentality. Almost like a parent teaching a child some manners. Which is exactly what you did. Though I would have administered it in a bit more of a p… | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Do some guys really ask the girl if they can kiss her on a first date? And i also heard this girl who is a dating coach tell guys that one way they can be a good kisser is to ask her consent before you go for a kiss! How do you guys feel about that?Did he have you sign a contract before you guys boned? | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Do some guys really ask the girl if they can kiss her on a first date? And i also heard this girl who is a dating coach tell guys that one way they can be a good kisser is to ask her consent before you go for a kiss! How do you guys feel about that?You did the right thing. Women objectify men too. Im not just a walking cock and balls thank you very much... | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 09:03 PM |
| 6 | Do some guys really ask the girl if they can kiss her on a first date? And i also heard this girl who is a dating coach tell guys that one way they can be a good kisser is to ask her consent before you go for a kiss! How do you guys feel about that?Which cheek are we talking about here boss? | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 09:00 PM |
| 10 | Should I break up with my girlfriend?I dont like you at all man. This whole post reeks of narcissism and selfishness. Have you paused for a moment and thought that she might be going through a hard time, might be depressed or sad? Have you entertained the thought that you are not meeting her needs? Which is why sex is becoming a "no go" for you as a couple? If this were my daughter or sister I'd be kicking you the fuck out of her house. Prick. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 01:24 PM |
| 3 | Is this is test from her?This is what happens when you watch too many pick up videos and follow too many dating gurus online. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Guy at work i likeCare to elaborate? Lol | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 07:16 PM |
| -1 | Guy at work i likeYou should be bold and confident but talking about yourself like that is a bit gross IMO. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 08:44 AM |
| -4 | Guy at work i like"I'm quite a bit more bold then others" Quite full of ourselves aren't we? | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 06:14 AM |
| 8 | Guy at work i likeId argue that getting a cookie and a compliment for my shirt/how I look would be a very clear sign of interest from a girl. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 06:12 AM |
| 5 | In the process of flirting, how do I avoid dropping into asking questions?Be comfortable with silence. Guys typically ask a lot of questions when we're nervous or the girl is not showing signs of interest and not contributing to the discussion. Let silence sometimes float for a while to see if she will ask a question or contribute to the discussion. If she doesn't, then you know where you stand. She's not that interested in you. So take that and move on. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Went on a date with a coworker, and it went alright. She throws out mixed signals, and I talked to a few coworkers to get their opinion. What are the odds they told her?I mean before you talked to your coworkers about her | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Went on a date with a coworker, and it went alright. She throws out mixed signals, and I talked to a few coworkers to get their opinion. What are the odds they told her?By definition, anything a person communicates is through the lens of their reality. There's no escaping that. I speak through my reality and you speak through yours. The only way to get a glimpse of objective Reality is through debate and consensus. I simply edited my comment to more objectively address the points you raise. I refute your claim that the essence of what I said has changed. Social dynamics in the workplace do not differ significantly from social dynamics in general. Those carrying… | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Went on a date with a coworker, and it went alright. She throws out mixed signals, and I talked to a few coworkers to get their opinion. What are the odds they told her?Just because I disagree with your reality, doesn't mean I'm ignoring Reality. Men and women are treated differently. In some cases, this is justified. In others it is not. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 04:50 PM |
| -3 | Went on a date with a coworker, and it went alright. She throws out mixed signals, and I talked to a few coworkers to get their opinion. What are the odds they told her?Not really man.... not really.... | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Went on a date with a coworker, and it went alright. She throws out mixed signals, and I talked to a few coworkers to get their opinion. What are the odds they told her?This is pretty decent advice IMO. Owning up to his mistake and seeing her reaction. If she doesn't mind that he ran his mouth then it's a very good sign for him. Most girls would drop him in a second for this. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 03:30 PM |
| 5 | Went on a date with a coworker, and it went alright. She throws out mixed signals, and I talked to a few coworkers to get their opinion. What are the odds they told her?"Worse for her than it is for you" what makes you think that? Just good old sexism? A man who runs his mouth loses a lot of status in my eyes, and in most people's eyes. Unless they live in a super conservative country like Pakistan or Saudi Arabia, most people would take the girls side in this one. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Went on a date with a coworker, and it went alright. She throws out mixed signals, and I talked to a few coworkers to get their opinion. What are the odds they told her?I think its OK to date girls at work, but 2 conditions MUST be fulfilled: 1) Your intent needs to be very genuine. Like you must consider this person to be a potential life partner or at least a long term relationship with plans for more. 2) You need to be SUPER discrete and smooth in your approach. No one in the office needs to know except you and her. If things concretize later on then yeah, people will figure it out, but you should be several months into the new relationship. Like almost a ye… | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Went on a date with a coworker, and it went alright. She throws out mixed signals, and I talked to a few coworkers to get their opinion. What are the odds they told her?Should have asked for advice before running your mouth... | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Went on a date with a coworker, and it went alright. She throws out mixed signals, and I talked to a few coworkers to get their opinion. What are the odds they told her?You have a significant amount of growing up to do my friend. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Is this acceptable/creepy?It's not really asking for permission. Its more like getting clarity over whether the mistake was intentional or not. But i get what your saying. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Is this acceptable/creepy?Its just to be sure she did or didnt do it on purpose. OP seems very interested in this girl so its worth getting the added certainty. But yeah definitely walking away is the "path of least resistance". In all likeliness she probably did do it on purpose. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 08:50 AM |
| 1 | High interest from before and after the date to low interest - How do I go about this?I dont think it matters. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 08:47 AM |
| 1 | High interest from before and after the date to low interest - How do I go about this?I feel like either option is viable in your case... With A) she might be less likely to think you have hard feelings about it. Which displays a bit more strength/independence in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 10:05 PM |
| 10 | Is this acceptable/creepy?I'm will to bet money you're not a woman. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 09:59 PM |
| -7 | Is this acceptable/creepy?You can text her the following: "Hey I think you might have given me the wrong number. I'm not sure if you actually intended to, but if you did please let me know and promise I'll leave you alone. 🙂" But then really do leave her alone if she explains she did it on purpose. If she doesn't answer then let it go. For good. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 09:56 PM |
| 11 | When you’re trying to bring a girl home with you and she asks you “what are we gonna do?”, what’s a good answer?Its nice we have some women in here to shut some of this bullshit down. I'm male by the way. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 09:51 PM |
| 6 | She was doing this to me at the beach, does she like me?I think I have a boner lol | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 10:03 AM |
| 5 | next stepsYou got into this with the wrong intentions. You knew she was cheating and you helped her do it. Your relationship with her is already on the wrong foot. Let's suppose you actually do end up hitting it off. Let's imagine she breaks up with her boyfriend. You think she wont cheat on you just like she did him? What makes you so naive my friend? | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 08:09 PM |
| 8 | Was he flirting?Shes a scumbag too because she helps him cheat apparently. So it makes sense she got defensive like that.... | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 01:33 PM |
| 11 | Was he flirting?Umm... it kind of does. Sorry to break it to you. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 01:32 PM |
| 0 | what places are an absolute no-go for cold approaching?The train | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 08:22 AM |
| 2 | Keep attraction during/after holidaysWith that attitude I believe most females would leave in a heartbeat. In a healthy relationship one person doesn't get to make all the rules | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 08:51 PM |
| 8 | Keep attraction during/after holidaysHes 8 years older than her | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 01:45 PM |
| 16 | Keep attraction during/after holidaysIts kind of weird to impose your "rules" like that on someone else. What if she's really into OP and WANTS to text a lot? | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 01:45 PM |
| 2 | How would you address someone who comes late?Exactly. This shouldn't just apply to women you're dating but all relationships in your life including work relationships. I've even done this with meetings I was supposed to have with my manager and colleagues.... | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 01:41 PM |
| 1 | How would you address someone who comes late?Its your fault for waiting for 40 minutes. 15-20 minutes does it for me. I'll just up and leave. If she calls later asking where I was I'd just say "Sorry... I left". If she starts bitching about it just say "Well I was waiting there for about 20 minutes so I thought you wouldn't show up and left" | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 01:38 PM |
| 3 | How successful are you with meeting women through Instagram or Facebook dms?Correction : (most) WHITE girls have a negative perception of Indian men. In fact many of them have a negative perception of brown men in general. Including Arabs (which I am) and Latinos. With black men there's some fascination due to a combination of white guilt and the "black men are well endowed" stereotype, especially in the US. But it's still a stereotype that simplifies the complexity in terms of personality, culture and social norms that prevail among afro-descendants. Furthermore most w… | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 09:00 AM |
| 2 | What's something you've learned about women during your seduction/dating journey?With a cold approach from a stranger "working a little harder" means he has to ignore your signals for him to back off and insist on dragging out the conversation or insist on getting your number. Wouldn't that be a turn off? | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 05:13 AM |
| 2 | What would you do in this situation?Well then if she doesn't she doesn't right? Just start approaching other women.... | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Do girls ever tell guys to stop contacting them as a test?😆 | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Do girls ever tell guys to stop contacting them as a test?Lol I know right...Nice way to avoid rejection by calling everything a 'test'. Like women have nothing better to do... | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 07:25 PM |
| 5 | How could I have approached that girl?"Hey... I hate to bother you guys in the middle of a conversation, but I just want to say I saw your friend here and she looks very nice. I couldn't leave the store without saying hello..." | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 07:16 PM |
| 1 | She played the BF card but all signs show she's interested. You judge!Approaching women is challenging enough as it is. There's no need to make it worse by doing it in a place which you know you have to come back to regularly. Also, she did tell you she had a boyfriend, which, despite her body language, is a very clear signal that you need to back off. I'd let it go if I were you. Plenty of other fish in the sea. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 12:22 PM |
| 3 | She played the BF card but all signs show she's interested. You judge!The problem with approaching people you see regularly somewhere (at work, in the gym or at the library) is that, if they reject you, you've now condemned yourself to having to see them everytime you're there. More often than not, it ruins your idea of the place itself, and you end up having to find another place of the same kind ( another library for example) to go to. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 04:51 AM |
| 4 | She played the BF card but all signs show she's interested. You judge!So you're basically telling OP to manipulate her into cheating? That's not a good look. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks.I like to call mine a Rocket lol | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 04:15 PM |
| 122 | Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks.She's not that smart if she told you that lol | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 04:14 PM |
| 4 | Being willing to be offensive makes you more attractiveWith the wrong people | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Being willing to be offensive makes you more attractiveThis is the correct answer | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Did I make it awkward with my coworker?"Kinda interested" doesn't cut it. If you're REALLY interested you could have just told her upfront (i.e straight up asked her out) instead of this wishy washy flirting nonsense. | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 05:18 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]What a cunt lol | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Did I make it awkward with my coworker?Now why did you go weirding out your coworker.... now you've made job more uncomfortable than it needs to be.... | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 08:32 PM |
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