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| -1 | I'm 26 and I have Asperger's, I'm a virgin and the sexual frustration is driving me insane, is there any way I could be attractive to a woman?This sort of thing is why you don’t have a girl. Stop doing it. | /r/seduction | 05/07/18 03:58 AM |
| -3 | I'm 26 and I have Asperger's, I'm a virgin and the sexual frustration is driving me insane, is there any way I could be attractive to a woman?Now that I have a chance to get to know you a little better...I’m convinced that you’re screwed. I just keep thinking about Darwin. Lol. | /r/seduction | 04/07/18 01:38 PM |
| 1 | I'm 26 and I have Asperger's, I'm a virgin and the sexual frustration is driving me insane, is there any way I could be attractive to a woman?This is kind of a nuanced area…but it's not that simple. First, it is a fact that money and status serve to attract women. This is a deeper principle of evolutionary psychology—women need a mate that can care for them while they nurse and raise a child, even if they aren’t consciously aware that this is why they like men with money. Be aware of the fact that there are a number of other things that attract women equally well, such as a sense that the man will protect her, or is willing to emote a… | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 09:11 AM |
| 3 | I'm 26 and I have Asperger's, I'm a virgin and the sexual frustration is driving me insane, is there any way I could be attractive to a woman?It is possible to use Asberger’s to essentially destroy it. I did. I believe that Eckart Tolle’s book “The Power of Now” is an important place to start because you need to reach a higher level of consciousness to make a lot of this stuff work, shedding your ego which creates the fear of failure among other issues your are experiencing. You must fully accept that you have some serious behavioral/social shortcomings (which it sounds like you have accepted this) and then read as many books on picku… | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 07:32 AM |
| 2 | Friends think I'm weird and creepy for cold approachingYeah true, and if they aren't socially savvy, or trying to improve, they could bring down his game with women. | /r/seduction | 21/06/18 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Friends think I'm weird and creepy for cold approachingI love this comment. Totally exposes the truth about people and their insecurities. Cold approaching isn't creepy, it's fucking called being normal and talking to chicks. I've met guys like this and they are scared of you cold approaching because of a couple things, a) that it will work b) that it will subsequently force them out of their comfort zone c) that they will leave their comfort zone and get rejected. So really, it boils down to their fears of you evolving into a better person, because… | /r/seduction | 21/06/18 11:17 PM |
| 0 | WHy do I always think of what to say after the fact fuckBecause you are thinking, not in the moment, so your brain is 1/2 step behind everything as it plays out. By the time your brain computes everything, it's over. I found the answer to be in RSD Tyler's teachings, starting with a recommended reading of Eckhart Tolle's book The Power of Now. Then I would watch this video, https://youtu.be/O8c-ijxS8CY As far as the ring goes, chicks do this so often you can have a few lines of your own. If nothing feels right, Just laugh condescendingly at her, you … | /r/seduction | 21/06/18 11:04 PM |
| 3 | 21 Life-Changing Lessons I’ve Learned From Over 5 Years Of Doing Cold Approach Pickup & Developing My Own System For Meeting And Attracting Beautiful Women At WillI love this! | /r/seduction | 21/06/18 10:56 PM |
| 2 | How should I carry on this conversation?Great advice. | /r/seduction | 21/06/18 01:22 AM |
| 1 | How should I carry on this conversation?Abandon ship. She’s friendly not interested sexually. This is mostly because you broke a few important general rules. As stated already, in pickup texting is a businesslike operation, you are coordinating seductions not seducing over the phone. Don’t break this rule or you blow yourself out of the seduction. This text exchange is her blowing you out. Second, you must remember to maintain an attitude of the playful but disinterested screener of women. You are seeking her validation, which is unat… | /r/seduction | 21/06/18 01:21 AM |
| 4 | How do you know if a guy is just friendly chatting with you or its something more? I'm a girl btwAs a guy I would never just strike up a conversation with an ugly girl. I avoid making eye contact and I give one word answers so they know I’m not interested. Before I knew game I would do the exact same thing this guy did to you and then go back to my dorm and have some alone time because, “she talked to me today.” Small victories. If you like him do the same thing back to him, tell him good job, etc. | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Give me a refresher on important outergame stuffMore signs? This is an entire dimension of pickup in its own right. Hand Test The textbook answer for the average person is to check her state using a kino method called the “Hand Test” although I did not invent it, I read it somewhere. If done properly, this is a pretty solid method. You basically ask to see her hand at some point during your conversation, this usually occurs while you deliver a routine. Just make sure this hand test is not the focus of the conversation, you should be doing thi… | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Give me a refresher on important outergame stuffIMHO you know you have it when you observe her behavior. She is happier, laughs more at your jokes, tries to touch you, starts random conversations she didn’t before, looks at you from a different angle of her face, not straight on but looks down with eyes pointed at you, etc. | /r/seduction | 18/06/18 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Give me a refresher on important outergame stuffIt’s not even really what you say, it’s how you are saying it. First, based on what you wrote, your room mate probably busted your frame and effectively ruined your image as the alpha. This is asshole behavior on his part. He likely created sexual tension with her and dominated you during the conversation, turning her onto him. It’s just animalistic attraction. He should be your wingman not your competitor. Second, if you are projecting yourself as confident, using DHV stories, escalating kino a… | /r/seduction | 18/06/18 11:19 PM |
| 2 | 7 Mindsets That Will Make You AttractiveSummary. Below is a quick breakdown for those who don't have time to watch. Mindset 7. Everything will be fine. This makes you more comfortable with people, more relaxing. Mindset 6. No need to prove yourself. Attraction is not a result of effort, too much of it is a turn off. Throwing out game can be needy. How can she prove herself to me? Never a good reason to convince a woman of your value. Mindset 5. What emotional value can I give? Project a cool, fun vibe. Good conversation. Nonjudgmental… | /r/seduction | 18/06/18 09:54 PM |
| 1 | What single change to your lifestyle made the biggest change in your game?When you first get it, you might think it’s a lot of Zen Buddhist sounding nonsense. Just read it all and give it a chance. | /r/seduction | 18/06/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | What single change to your lifestyle made the biggest change in your game?Eckhart Tolle wrote a book about this called The Power of Now. Go buy it or download it online if you can. | /r/seduction | 18/06/18 07:20 AM |
| 1 | How to go from a nice and friendly conversation to sexually arousingRight on, great video. | /r/seduction | 16/06/18 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Sub-communication is soooo much more important than anything else in gameCouldn’t agree more. Sub communication is everything, it is authenticity, and it is the real language of seduction. Presence too, goes hand in hand with this. Words mean nothing but what our tone and nonverbal clues make words mean to others. A lot of newbies struggle here, though. It is hard for some guys because they have either a) never had sex before or b) just become too self-conscious and suffer from a related self-esteem problem. The solution is to fake it until you make it, basically. I … | /r/seduction | 16/06/18 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Is it normal for women to quickly change how attracted they are to you?If she is sending you indicators of interest (IOIs), my feeling is you can return them but be conservative because some women give out fake IOI’s to fuck with guys. | /r/seduction | 15/06/18 01:38 PM |
| 3 | Is it normal for women to quickly change how attracted they are to you?This is the heart of the matter...this comment should be paid far more attention. Treat women as though they are there to amuse you, never be “reaction seeking.” Play with their hand then toss it away. Have a mood like you are evaluating her. To do this you have to not only train yourself to be truly unreactive but also to be working on multiple girls to trigger a competitive preselection between them. When in doubt, DHV, then act bored and walk away. This works amazingly well. She will then pur… | /r/seduction | 15/06/18 01:30 PM |
| 1 | How should I feel about being 25 and temporarily unemployed? I have a lot of experience, am job searching now, but still feel self conscious about taking money from my parents.School is your full time job! This is because college is the beginning of your professional life. College is where you network and develop your reputation in your chosen field. If you mess up by working instead of getting the best grades possible, you will get burned out fast and your performance will decline. If you are bored, join a club, work in student government, or start playing golf. Why be self conscious? You're the truth, you've done it all, and you're smart for heading down a road that… | /r/seduction | 12/06/18 12:20 PM |
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