funkysealthnarwhal Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	[FR] Follow-up date with karaoke ex-boyfriend girl	funkysealthnarwhal	/r/seduction	08/11/10 05:34 AM
2	[FR] Experiences from October	funkysealthnarwhal	/r/seduction	02/12/10 06:25 AM
2	[FR] First date overall successful with strange ending	funkysealthnarwhal	/r/seduction	04/11/10 07:29 PM

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2	whats the worst that could happen [fr/dr] I went on a third date last night with a girl who I knew was a smoker. We smoked a bowl in a park, and there was a similar vibe change that you experienced, where it went from being a good dynamic to a more awkward feel. Fortunately, the plan was to smoke in the park and then walk over to a bakery to get fresh baked cookies and cupcakes. Awesome. Then we went to my house to jam on some musical instruments and have fun times in the bedroom. What I learned: Unless it's with a girl you're really co…	/r/seduction	07/12/10 07:19 AM
1	Seddit, how many partners have you had? 25, male. 11 women (4 of them this year), 2 guys (several years back).	/r/seduction	06/12/10 09:43 PM
1	[FR] Experiences from October Good idea about using stories of other people involving drugs as a litmus test. I'll try to remember that technique. Bringing up those kinds of topics is great when it clicks (I live in town with more medical marijuana dispensaries than bars, so I like hanging with girls that are 420 friendly), but it's extremely hit or miss. I like your approach. How do you move from the initial message to the number/date? I would message back and forth about three or four times. Usually the messages would get …	/r/seduction	02/12/10 10:06 PM
1	[FR] Experiences from October Indeed. I've done gone out several times in regular life to meet girls in bars, and I meet lots of girls at parties from my extended social circle. In the both cases I've been playing it fairly conservatively, since I've been pretty busy with the girls listed above. I work about 55 hours a week, so I've felt nearly saturated for the past month or so. I am, however, going sarging with a friend on Friday. He hasn't been trying recently between traveling and being sick, but he has good dive-bar gam…	/r/seduction	02/12/10 04:26 PM
2	[FR] Experiences from October I followed a general format that's been suggested on here and the okcupid subreddit. An example would be Hi, {username}, how's it going? What was it like in {place you traveled to, listed in profile}? I met some people from there when I was at a hostel in Australia, they had some amazing stories from back home. Have you heard about {thing or event}? I'd often not have a subject line for the message. Another frequent format was: High five for {thing x}! How long have you been doing that? I starte…	/r/seduction	02/12/10 04:20 PM
1	[FR] First date overall successful with strange ending I wish I knew more about the answers to these questions. She actually whispered some things in my ear about him while we were at karaoke, but it was so loud in there I couldn't really make out what she was saying. Something about him not being able to let her go? meh?	/r/seduction	05/11/10 06:42 PM
1	[FR] First date overall successful with strange ending Thanks for the feedback, everybody. It really is valuable to get other people's perspectives on this sort of thing. For the first half of the evening I felt like I had a pretty good control over the frame and our location(s). I suggested we split from the coffeeshop once things were going well and we had been there for a little while, but I could have been more decisive in choosing the following location. Agreeing to go meet her friends at Karaoke was clearly where the trouble started - I'm much…	/r/seduction	05/11/10 06:40 PM
1	Not seeming desperate and needy. This might seem like a random suggestion, but doing a daily yoga practice has done wonders for my confidence and being able to focus on my own happiness and stability. The combination of physical exercise, mediation, and metabolic changes seem to work really well. I'm sure lots of other things could give you similar benefits, but if you don't already have some kind of physical practice perhaps you should consider starting one. Oh yeah, developing six pack abs is a pretty sweet side effect. :p	/r/seduction	04/11/10 07:42 PM