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| 7 | kingShe poured a bottlecaps worth of water. It's rude but it wouldn't damage anything | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/02/21 12:33 AM |
| 3 | Substitute teacher, 25, is charged with raping her eighth-grade student after the 15-year-old's mom found photos and videos of the two together on the boy's phone.I'm not theorizing. it's the law the vast majority, if not all, US states that for a k-12 teacher to have a sexual relation with a student is statutory rape. In some states that does extend to college but I'm not sure how many. I do not know if any states have laws for the workplace, I don't think any do with the exception of the US military where it's statutory rape for an officer to have sex with enlistee under their command. edit: Here is an example. Also I'm not sure how many states this als… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/01/21 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Substitute teacher, 25, is charged with raping her eighth-grade student after the 15-year-old's mom found photos and videos of the two together on the boy's phone.Yes, I'm clarifying that the charges are not just because he's a minor. It's also because she's his teacher, so it's not just inappropriate because of the age difference. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/01/21 07:59 PM |
| 14 | Substitute teacher, 25, is charged with raping her eighth-grade student after the 15-year-old's mom found photos and videos of the two together on the boy's phone.He could be 18 and it would still legally be statutory rape. Doesn't have to be a minor because she's his teacher at a public school which he has to go to for a diploma so the power dynamic makes it statutory rape. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/01/21 05:50 PM |
| 3 | Substitute teacher, 25, is charged with raping her eighth-grade student after the 15-year-old's mom found photos and videos of the two together on the boy's phone.Even if he was 18 it would still be criminal statutory rape, it's about power dynamics. Because she's his teacher, and he has to go to school. He can't avoid her and she has control over his performance in school. Even if he doesn't realize it this manipulation can have very negative effects on a persons mental health. For example people who have been sexually assault victims are more likely to commit sexual assault. While the exact reason for this isn't know, it's suspected that being a victim … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/01/21 05:46 PM |
| 1 | How to socialize when you only know one person in a group and they all know each other well?People are and always will be judgmental. If someone stumbles I don’t give a shit ... majority of people operate this way. Your points are directly contradictory. If you come off as creepy due to inexperience you think people won’t label you a creep? Yeah some people will, the decent ones won't though and how else are you supposed gain experience? Hell you can be experienced, smart, funny, characteristic, good and people still won't like you. But you can't operate being afraid that a few people … | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 09:14 PM |
| 16 | How to socialize when you only know one person in a group and they all know each other well?I don't know what experience you're speaking from, but if the group is even half decent adult people they will be working with you to include you in the discussion. Even if you stumble a little people notice and appreciate when someone makes efforts to be prosocial. If they just ran into each other and had a quick discussion yeah don't for yourself in. OP doesn't give much details but I'm guessing they were actively hanging out/with the group for an extended period off time. I think they worst t… | /r/seduction | 26/08/20 10:02 PM |
| 55 | How to socialize when you only know one person in a group and they all know each other well?Don't focus on the person you know, don't get on your phone. Force yourself to be social, accept that it will be awkward. Keep an eye out for 1. People you have stuff in common with 2. People trying to help include you in the discussion, usually those will be the more extroverted/aware people. If it's a big group then you can try to have individual asides with people not participating in the main discussion like if they say something that no one else picks up on or you have a follow up question … | /r/seduction | 26/08/20 04:40 PM |
| 24 | Which hairstyle do girls love?This sub tends to repeat itself a lot. Unnaunced in the sense that even really good advice has situation where it work and were it doesn't. Posts often spend little time on this, failing to add contexts or exceptions to their rule. A classic one is who do you focus the conversation on, yourself or the date? Well doing all of one isn't the best, if you just met someone it's good to talk about yourself but you can't do that forever. Unsupported in that many posts don't explain well the reasoning b… | /r/seduction | 23/08/20 02:50 PM |
| 27 | Which hairstyle do girls love?What are you going to do without the same thing 6-8 unnuanced and not well supported pieces of advice? Arn't you going to miss the paragraphs of 'alpha mentality' fluf that's longer than the actual advice? | /r/seduction | 23/08/20 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Do you always physically escalate (touch) unless you receive clear signs that they're not comfortable with it?its not that unusual. I guess I should specify. Usually the second date is not under the pretense of fucking and has a decent amount of build up. For me personally though I'm insecure so if we haven't had sex by the second date, i just assume they're not into me. If that's not you though then there is nothing wrong with that. Sometimes making them wait a bit is a good thing, builds tension and anticipation. | /r/seduction | 24/05/20 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Do you always physically escalate (touch) unless you receive clear signs that they're not comfortable with it?most of the dates i have these days are coffee dates where I don't touch them at all. Maybe a goodbye kiss but certainly not always. And the next date is at either my place or theirs and we fuck. | /r/seduction | 24/05/20 06:19 AM |
| 2 | I just wanna ask the experts here. how to make the girl invest in your conversationYou need both. If you just ask questions it becomes and interview, never ask any questions and you're talking to yourself. What can be smart is asking questions that lead into things your already have answers for / things you're interested in. | /r/seduction | 14/05/20 04:02 AM |
| 2 | I do awful on tinder, Do I have a better chance just going up to girls irl?As someone who had a reasonable amount of success with dating apps. Real life is always going to be better, it just is. | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 06:24 AM |
| 1 | How to not get friend zoned while texting?In person is always going to be better but if you have to work with online, you just have to accept a certain amount of cringe | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 06:05 AM |
| 8 | How to not get friend zoned while texting?Hmm... I spent a lot of time on the internet was like 13-17 just chatting with people and shit. So I guess I kinda got those skills early on. I mean I was cringy but everyone online was cringy back then, even more than now. But to answer you're question, online you do lack those irl ques you would normally use to facilitate discussion. So you have to be more directional with the discussion. Ask questions. Make sure they're how/why question and not yes/no. And here's a trick, ask questions to lea… | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 05:47 AM |
| 8 | How to not get friend zoned while texting?If you want to build a report with someone online you pretty much do the same thing you would do texting someone you met in person but you have to give it a longer period of time to build. There's actually research on this. You can build personal relationships online that are just as strong as real life but they always take longer. | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 05:22 AM |
| 24 | How to not get friend zoned while texting?This is my best advice for not getting friend zoned, treat them like they're already your girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 05:14 AM |
| 7 | You’re on a second date and they just want to “Win”. What should you do?She didn't "win" she wasted the same amount of her time as yours. Stop tripping over some crazy lady. You are letting her win if you keep obsessing over this. Also. Don't space every sentence. It makes it seem like you're trying to write slam poetry. And makes your thoughts seem disjointed and confusing. | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 07:47 AM |
| 2 | What would you do if a women who ghosted you months ago texts you out the blue?One, I don't do the mirroring time thing. It's obvious you're doing it after texting someone for a while. Instead I just respond whenever I want, and give myself time to think about what I want to say. Mirroring as a steadfast rule is just going to waste your time and theirs because if they didn't respond for like 8 hours because they were at work then they're going to be in bed by the time you reply and you've missed a whole conversation. A little bit of mirroring isn't bad though, you don't wa… | /r/seduction | 21/04/20 07:42 PM |
| 7 | This was in Bloomberg this week. I thought same of you might find it interestingYeah, no fucking way it is 1 in 4, probably closer to 1 in 50. They must of fucked up their data collocation somehow. Maybe they only got the number of people who explicitly put that they where male in profile, where a lot of people have no gender listed at all | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Should I text her or wait it out?Text her, she said she had a great time. Just ask her about when she might be free. | /r/seduction | 13/12/19 06:34 AM |
| 11 | Knowing What You Want (The Secret To Dating Success)In advertising we call this knowing your audience. And lets just there is a reason Nielsen makes billions a year gathering audience info, it works. | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 12:56 AM |
| 1 | [Male 26] I have never had a sexual relationship (virgin). I do not smoke, drink, eat out, or attend places with loud music. Where can I meet women?You ever looked into high fidelity ear plugs? I take them every time I go out with friends and when I volunteer at the animal shelter | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 10:54 PM |
| 0 | Kinda scared to have sexI agree however, it might be useful to tell them that you're nervous/inexperienced. That way they can help you out or give some pointers if they are more experienced. | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Going on a dateI went on a date with a girl who wasn't really "my type" once and it ended up going really well. Doesn't hurt to test your horizons and you don't owe anyone anything by going on a date so what's to lose. It might even go better than some other dates if you've ever had issues with getting in your own head. The less you're trying to impress someone the more attractive you appear. | /r/seduction | 10/09/19 09:14 PM |
| 92 | Finally after 11 "No sorry I have a boyfriend"'s I finally got a number today!I hope you don't mean from the same person lol | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 07:07 PM |
| 1 | I need help unfriend zoning myself!If you want to be her friend than be her friend and maybe she will warm up to you, ya never know. I you don't want to be her friend or think that can't get over your crush of her, than don't be her friend. Don't be her friend just to get with her, and if you do that it will come off as needy and not work. | /r/seduction | 20/04/19 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Secret relationshipGet a car and sneak around lol that's how I did it when I was a teenager. | /r/seduction | 13/04/19 06:33 PM |
| 3 | How do I make the first move without being creepy when a girl invites me to her home?Well first figure out when a girl wants you to kiss her. If she's invited you to her place you're like pretty much already there. Doesn't hurt to wait a little bit to make sure but things like locking eyes, being receptive to touching, a slow placed and low conversion, there are a lot of tiny hints. After you know they want to kiss you the setup for the kiss really doesn't even matter. | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 02:46 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys open on TINDEROn tinder I find some kinda joke or comment about something on their profile works best. Focus on making the opener unique, intriguing, and personalized | /r/seduction | 05/03/19 06:07 PM |
| 3 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were Fatherless | RealClearPoliticsI'd agree it's definitely a big factor and there's a lot of evidence for that but mother relations and home life is also big factor. The old piece of data kinda singles it out though when it plays into a bigger picture | /r/MensRights | 28/02/19 03:59 AM |
| 3 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were Fatherless | RealClearPoliticsthe original article that made this claim comes from 2015 http://thefederalist.com/2015/07/14/guess-which-mass-murderers-came-from-a-fatherless-home/ It doesn't cite a source for that claim and is objectively not true anymore | /r/MensRights | 28/02/19 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Tinder is really starting to mess with my headI've had reasonable success with tinder. My trick is putting out soft feelers (like "we should get together this weekend) to see if someone is actually interested in meeting up and put those out there early in the conversation. Some women are on tinder to hookup and some are on there for validation. You don't need to be direct right out the gate but you should figure out what you're both looking for fairly quickly. If you've been talking more than a week and haven't met/don't have plans to meet … | /r/seduction | 05/02/19 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Career Vs Girls... advice?For that reason, I avoid putting myself out there because I fear failure in business. If you're good an being an insurance agent now then you will be good at being an insurance agent later. Put yourself out there, you can always go back and you're still young so you're not losing as much progress as it might feel like. In fact even if you fail you'll be making more progress, in terms of life skills, than staying in your comfort zone. You have skill, you've admitted it yourself and now you just n… | /r/seduction | 15/01/19 03:29 AM |
| 12 | Orgasm Order Form to get her off.Nothing is sexier than forms lol granted women tend to be very different relative to men when it comes to sex and have widely varying preferences but if you're conformable enough to send a form then you're comfortable enough to just ask | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 07:09 AM |
| 2 | How to prevent false rape charges?leave my phone recording in my jeans If you're going to do this make sure you check your states laws because it might be illegal and thus not useful as evidence. | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 10:36 PM |
| 3 | What flirty stuff do guys like from girls?Most of the advice you see on this sub works on men too. Especially the basic principles. | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Should I ask for a second date?No, let her reach out to you if she's interested. Honestly sounds like some other stuff might be going on in her life which resulted in her change of mind if it was that drastic. There really isn't any way to know though, keep moving on with your chin up high. | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 04:16 PM |
| 16 | How To Approach A Girl In College (Without Creeping Her Out)mainly when you hear these kinda horror stories its because the guy is just approach girl after girl for hours then a rumor goes around of some creep. Especially if you're on a small campus, you gotta space it out | /r/seduction | 20/10/18 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Question for those of you who use tinder:it's hard to remember off the top of my head but match to message (1-3 days), it's usually not long but I've done it after huge periods of time before , message to phone number (1-2 days) usually it's actually a snap chat or instagram but you only really need one short and good convo. Phone number to meet (3 days - 2 weeks) it really just depends on when you're both free, asap is idea because people lose interest fast online. Meet to "netflix and chill" (1-2 weeks) it's almost always the 2ed the… | /r/seduction | 26/09/18 04:50 AM |
| 10 | Does telling a girl that you're dating other girls make her see you as more attractive or less?Don't say you have options, act like you have options. Which it seems like you've been doing, good on you. But you gotta take the next step and ask her out. Forget about setting up any further now is the time to act | /r/seduction | 26/09/18 04:31 AM |
| 10 | What do you guys talk about with a FWB/ Tinder lay when she comes over?Watching a show is the easiest because obviously you're going to be close to her. You can just hangout and talk for a good time a wait for a pause or moment that seems right. Or if you're comfortable with that person and know what they're into you can kinda just jump into it. Really you just gotta wait till the tension is right, being assertive and making a move can be hot but also making them wait can be a good move too so just feel it out really. And for afterwards you just cuddle and listen t… | /r/seduction | 25/08/18 05:23 PM |
| 1 | How do you engage/initiate holding hands with the girl youre seeing?It's always worked for me. I think it works well with younger people like me because it's formulaic, talk at dinner, hold hands at movie, kiss close. It's worked for me every time so far My other go to is coffee, I do this one a lot more now just because it's cheaper and more casual, followed by usually a walk around a park or back to my place if things are going well. | /r/seduction | 25/08/18 03:08 PM |
| 2 | How do you engage/initiate holding hands with the girl youre seeing?And even if you do it at a horrible time and flub it completely, if they like you they don't care lol. | /r/seduction | 25/08/18 02:41 PM |
| 1 | How do you engage/initiate holding hands with the girl youre seeing?I disagree. As someone who isn't 21 here in the US dinner and a movie is a common, granted more serious, first date. The key is though you have to do dinner first for the reason you stated | /r/seduction | 25/08/18 02:39 PM |
| 4 | I thought I was immune to oneitis...It's ok to have emotions and be upset. Humans, as much as we might want, are not beings of perfect rationality. Let the feelings come, let them wash over you, recognise them for what they are and let them go. Sometimes it just takes time | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Super likes on Tinder- are these a bad idea? It feels like straight away you're putting them on a pedestal.my go to line for a super like is "lol I'm pretty sure I was drunk and thought [X was funny/x was interesting] | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 07:27 AM |
| 3 | Use This New Tinder Location Hack To Dramatically Boost Your Tinder Tanking (Matches)Use a location changing app to move your location to a place where you'll be exotic/different/desirable. Get a bunch of matches of have short conversations with those matches. Tinder will think you're a super popular person, move location back and your ELO (priority in which your profile is presented to other people swiping) will have gone up. | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 01:19 PM |
| 13 | Use This New Tinder Location Hack To Dramatically Boost Your Tinder Tanking (Matches)wow I was expecting this to be a bunch of bull but what a dirty trick lol, I didn't know tinder even did ELO | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 06:05 AM |
| 1 | What if how Interested She is has More to do with Her than You?yep my b | /r/seduction | 02/08/18 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Got a cute girl’s number, but I’m hesitant to text her after learning more about her life on social media [x-posted to r/dating_advice]When me and my buds from back home get together we always go to our old elementary playground. It's a pretty popular little park | /r/seduction | 30/07/18 03:45 AM |
| 5 | (27/m) The last couple tinder dates I’ve gotten ended with little interest and I get a text the next day saying “I didn’t feel much of a spark” or just that they don’t feel interested.you know what I notice about all these but the last one? Only one location, you should be going to two places at least for a first date. Dinner and a movie, coffee and your place, ice cream and bowling, etc. also for the last one. If she found a boyfriend right after then it might have been something unrelated to you, like she had a guy she knew and wanted to get with. If you're meeting girls on tinder you're always at a disadvantage compared to guys they've me in person. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 05:00 AM |
| 2 | I'm 26 and I have Asperger's, I'm a virgin and the sexual frustration is driving me insane, is there any way I could be attractive to a woman?Thanks you, although I'm pretty good at dating my skills for facilitating an actual relationship that lasts still needs work | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 01:05 PM |
| 41 | I'm 26 and I have Asperger's, I'm a virgin and the sexual frustration is driving me insane, is there any way I could be attractive to a woman?I'm have aspergers and do fairly well with women these days. I got my start by using tinder and being honest "hey just so you know I'm really awkward in person." I lowered my standards and got dates with girls just for the experience, so I'd be ready for when i really like someone. r/seduction has some really good advice if you can filter out the bs which you seem like you can. Doing your research is a really important first step but experience with women is what will ultimately make the differe… | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 04:34 AM |
| 3 | 7 Mistakes Guys Make in Bed (And How to Fix Them)Then work on your ability to get it back up again and re-initiate sex. Round 1 went too fast? Round 2 you'll certainly last longer | /r/seduction | 29/06/18 05:52 PM |
| 2 | How come I don't experience any success on Tinder with these pictures?I'll add something no one's said yet. They're all low face ratio photos. In research studies photos where the face takes up a greater portion of the imagine are viewed as more attractive than photos with the same person and pose but with a lower face ratio | /r/seduction | 29/06/18 01:02 PM |
| 3 | Instagram can help your Dating LifeTo add to point 3, a mutual follow increases their follower count. Giving the incentive to hand it out. Plus if you're younger (20) like me, people don't text nearly as often as they use snapchat and insta | /r/seduction | 28/06/18 01:40 PM |
| 1 | ISO: pro tips for when girls come over to my cribI don't know why you wouldn't have her over for the second date. Like either have a simple second date like coffee and invite her over after or just have the date at home like cooking something together. Also don't have music aready on when she gets their. Too try hard, just turn it on at some point when she's there. It's polite to offer a drink but they will probably decide, not wanting to seem too eager to take a drink or get drunk. Def clean up but don't go overboard. It should like you were … | /r/seduction | 16/05/18 07:25 PM |
| 1 | SICK OF ITI live in a college town and finding someone on tinder or at a party who is looking for casual relationship isn't too hard. If youre having a hard time finding people who want to hookup than yeah you're a bit out of luck | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 09:48 PM |
| 15 | SICK OF ITI started because I had literally no idea how to flirt being introverted and having Aspergers. Spent a lot of time reading stuff on this sub before actually starting to talk to girls and man was it bad, as awkward as could be. But I pushed through and now it's no big deal. I'm still working on my relationship skills but getting a date (and follow up dates) or a quick hookup is pretty easy these days and I do better than most of my male friends | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Movie pass subscribtion has gotten me lots of dates and laysOh I thought it was just a promotion pass for some theater | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 01:26 AM |
| 23 | Do hot women get rejected ?Like for a date or sex? Very unlikely, but ofc if they try to get with someone who is in a relationship or has other complications in their life than yeah they would get rejected. But broken up with, cheated on, or ghosted? Yeah things like that happen to everyone | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 02:54 PM |
| 29 | How To Challenge Girls To Kiss You (Huge Succes Rate)lol this seems needlessly complicated. Once you've read a girls body language and know she'd be ok with a kiss then you can do literally almost anything to go in for the kiss. Mostly I just do whatever feels right for the setup but one of the best setups I've used for a kiss was saying "I want to kiss you but I don't want to mess it up." Most girls will find this endearing and if they don't object than you know they want you to go for it | /r/seduction | 06/04/18 01:23 AM |
| 6 | Should you tell a girl you’re about to have sex with that you’re a virgin ?Just tell them you're inexperienced, they'll pick up what you mean. If she already wants to mess around with you, which it sounds like it, she won't care. | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Just how powerful is body language reading really?Non-verbal communication > verbal communication | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 06:04 PM |
| 33 | What’s the best way to get a girlfriend or get laid in college?Parties are certainly one of the easiest ways to meet someone and mess around. But don't be surprised if you don't get a text back in the morning regardless of how much you talked about seeing each other after | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 04:22 PM |
| 1 | If someone flakes on you.. DONT forget about them just yet.It's only a flake if she cancels plans that have been made | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 06:28 PM |
| 101 | If someone flakes on you.. DONT forget about them just yet.I use a 2 strikes policy. If they flake the first time, maybe they were busy, people often force themselves to socialize even when they're not completely feeling up to it. If they flake a second time then they don't respect your time and you should move on | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Is RSD Fake?Tyler's stuff, at least what I've seen is real. He approaches women in clubs and bars which is believable compared to all the on the street, instant date bs vids I've seen | /r/seduction | 21/02/18 10:22 PM |
| 13 | The worst thing a guy can hear: "Well it was nice to meet you"Rejection is going to happen. You can do everything right and still get rejected | /r/seduction | 31/01/18 05:58 AM |
| 1 | In the army..date someone who is also in the army, that's how my parents met | /r/seduction | 27/01/18 06:39 PM |
| 3 | If a girl says she gets wet from your voice does it mean she’s also physically attracted to me?You met on an online dating site so you can already assume physically attraction, this just reinforces it. | /r/seduction | 09/01/18 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Girls sucks. It's all over. I don't really care."no love for sluts. It's a natural law." Yeah? is that why you can't find it because you seem like a pretty big slut to me. But don't put yourself in a box and say that's the way things gotta be. And stop feeling special because your a psychopath with trust issues, no one is special. We are all the same in that we are all different "But there's no such thing as real love." yeah sorry if Disney got your expectations up, it's never gonna be perfect. We are humans, not puzzle pieces made for each o… | /r/seduction | 02/01/18 07:44 AM |
| 2 | Girls sucks. It's all over. I don't really care.I don't really know the point you're trying to make but dude. If you're gonna blame girls than blame guys too because we are more similar than we care to admit. You're calling are these girls sluts talking about how you don't even know how many people you've fuck, dude everyone likes to fuck that's just the way it is. "There's no such thing as a decent girl" and there is not such thing as a decent guy. We're all assholes just look in the mirror. A relationship is all about communication, and you… | /r/seduction | 02/01/18 07:26 AM |
| 5 | Should I ruin Snapchat streak?Don't keep streaks at all. And I'm saying that as a college age guy not some old curmudgeon. Way too much pressure is and value are placed on snapsteaks by a lot of people when they literally have zero value and offer no function and contribute nothing and should have no impact on a relationship of any kind. Like its fine if you just happen to have one but if you're going out of your way for it because you think it provides some symbol to relationship statues honestly just let it go | /r/seduction | 02/01/18 05:18 AM |
| 6 | Have any of you been able to cure your Nice Guy Syndrome?I’m the type of guy who gets “friend zoned”. I’m not sure how to fix this. Well you got two approaches. You make you intentions clear from the start and if they're not ok with that than just don't be friends with them. Boom no friend zone. Or you can just be ok with being a friends with women and don't fucking complain that you didn't send clear enough signals and now are just hanging out with someone on the off chance they want to fuck you sometime. Like if you're in the friend zone it's becaus… | /r/seduction | 25/11/17 02:14 AM |
| 2 | I hate the way this sub has gonelooks similar. I feel like there is just a lot more "one easy trick", "here is the one thing not getting you laid" style posts. spoiler, seduction is highly nuanced and there is no "one trick". | /r/seduction | 19/11/17 03:33 AM |
| 2 | I went from nudes to flirting with emojis, help me please asap lolOk nice comedy bit but it's time to stop. Same something along the lines of "the real thing is better" and try to make plans | /r/seduction | 16/11/17 03:47 AM |
| 6 | Is it wrong to save your virginity till marriage?This isn't the best place to ask that question. I'd go over to r/sex or r/women I'd say it's not worth waiting, virginity is way overhyped and it's much more fun to be with someone experienced. it's nothing more than the stretching of the hymen and if you've already had that happen through other forms than it's really just all mental. With that said, if you're going to not wait than do it for the right reasons. Do it because you want to not because you feel bad for someone. Like sex life is impo… | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 06:51 AM |
| 12 | Is it wrong to save your virginity till marriage?Wrong? no. Worth it? lol I wouldn't say so, virginity is way over hyped and has way too much importance placed on it I've been with a virgin, honestly I'd rather someone just be experienced but if waiting is fulfilling to you and makes you happy than go for it | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 06:40 AM |
| 15 | How to get a guy to have sex with mePretty much the majority of the advice given on here can be applied to female on male flirting. From personal experience I would I'm more likely to with a girl who's less attractive than I'm used to if she has a lot of confidence without being bitchy/rude/vain. Make your attentions clear with flirting early and read their reactions and how receptive they are. Shy/awkward guys might require a bit more direct approach but the golden rule is "always assume attraction". From there it's physical esca… | /r/seduction | 04/11/17 04:11 AM |
| 62 | Is it normal for a man in his 20’s to not like casual sex/ hookups?Yeah, I mean I do hookups but aren't particularly fond of them. Would much rather have something emotionally fulfilling. | /r/seduction | 19/10/17 11:15 AM |
| 2 | Met a girl and we hit it off until I mentioned my race, what do I do?Whatever you do don't let it get to you. Act like it's no big deal and don't even really think about it. If she brings it up joke it off like "my parents wouldn't approve of me dating someone like you" "damn you must be a real bad bitch then". Insecurities are you're greatest opportunity to stride in confidence. | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Invited overKino is the process of physical escalation, you would do well to read up on it as non-verbal communication is more important than verbal. Yes tell her she's attractive but use tact, don't be like "hey you're hot" find something about her an complement it like her hair or jewelry (a complement means a lot more if it's something they can control about their appearance. Be yourself and flirt, read her reactions to the flirting. Don't be afraid to be honest, if you're nervous for example it's ok to … | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 03:22 PM |
| 9 | Invited overDude she's inviting you to hangout just the two of you after you met online, of fucking course she wants something sexual all you gotta do is just not make her change her mind. Just be honest, speak your mind, have fun and kino kino and uh kino. and play with the fucking puppies too! because I mean why the hell wouldn't you? | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 05:32 AM |
| -3 | 21 year old male with very low sex drive. What do you think it could be?Your body has this sort of "use it or lose it" policy. There is a reason that we and many other animals have masturbation tendencies, it keeps your gears greased and working well. Also after you masturbate you're body releases chemicals that actual make you want to do it again which outweighs the loss in sex drive from slightly lower testosterone. Reducing masturbation is good for those who do it too often, use it as replacement for sex, or are porn addicts. Generally though masturbation is a go… | /r/seduction | 12/07/17 05:32 AM |
| 5 | 21 year old male with very low sex drive. What do you think it could be?To an extent, going a few month without masturbation be very detrimental sex drive. Not masturbating will slightly increase testosterone and sex drive but maxes out at about a week. | /r/seduction | 12/07/17 05:22 AM |
| 1 | So are we actually making women's lives worse by not getting better with women?Naw you don't owe anyone an approach. I only really approach at parties and sometimes I won't even approach someone who is giving me the eyes just because I ain't feeling up for any of that stuff atm. And if that hurts their confidence than that's on them, it's called self confidence not "the confidence I get from from other people validating me" | /r/seduction | 26/06/17 10:08 AM |
| 7 | How To Use Tinder From Your PCor go to the windows store and download "6tin". It's a free desktop tinder app. You can change your location too. | /r/seduction | 06/05/17 03:12 AM |
| 4 | 3 Things You Can Learn On Girls From 50 Shades Of GreyA fictional man who us based on a fan fiction version of Edward from Twilight is not the best case study for a how you should act with women. | /r/seduction | 23/03/17 06:08 PM |
| 2 | 7 Funny Texts That Will Make Her DayI work and go to classes. My friends who work (full time that is) and we all text fairly often. There is no way you could get someone my age to go out after a handful of text like I see other, early 30's, people on here do. | /r/seduction | 22/03/17 01:27 AM |
| 1 | 7 Funny Texts That Will Make Her DaySame here, I can always kill on text and it works wonders. They guys who say to keep texting to a minimum are probably a bit older, it's a generational thing. | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 08:54 PM |
| 7 | I feel like a girl can't like me sexually?Yeah I know a bit of what it's like to be in this boat so here are some pointer. Lets talk about that party scene real quick. If a girl is giving you the eye, give the eye back. Strong eye contract, if she is reciprocating then you're good she wants you to escalate. Women want attention and want sex just as much men do. So that's when you start to close the gape between two, watch her body language and see if she looks like she is into it. Once your next to her that's the time to say an opener o… | /r/seduction | 20/02/17 12:00 AM |
| 9 | Nice Tinder approach I discovered accidentallyIf they don't respond to me I usually go with the "(your name) used (whatever gimmick you used as an open), it's not very effective..." | /r/seduction | 16/02/17 06:49 PM |
| 7 | Any tips how to not approach a girl in a creepy way?Put yourself in there shoes. Be polite, be friendly, have fun with it, practice. If after all that they still don't want to talk than that's their dilemma not yours. | /r/seduction | 11/01/17 10:31 PM |
| 5 | "No Hookups!" .....what?I'd like to know to because I've had hookups happen. Usually it's combination of good flirting, making sure the girl feels comfortable and non judged, and good kino but I do feel like mine have always been the result of the girl having that idea before the date really. | /r/seduction | 04/01/17 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Silence is Safe, Seductive, and SexyI slightly disagree but maybe it's because I'm a younger guy. I respond when I can/want to and natural silences will occur in the texting conversation. I feel it's a pretty easy to tell when someone is forcing waiting in a texting conversations and it's annoying, just talk to each other. Though I can probably agree with not texting for a while once date is set up, just don't let that gap be too long or the interest will die down. | /r/seduction | 03/01/17 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Picking up fat girls?Use the normal stuff, this is mostly about getting practiced and comfortable. Just don't give them the impression your looking for sex until you've built a rapport. They are starving for good sex. | /r/seduction | 09/12/16 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Picking up fat girls?RSD Tyler recommends this. They don't need to be morbidly obese but I've hooked up with girls below me league just to get some experience. | /r/seduction | 09/12/16 01:54 AM |
| 2 | How to "work the room" at a college party?As a person with ASD who wasn't born with the level of innate social skills normal people have this kind of stuff is my life line. | /r/seduction | 26/09/16 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Do you think RSD Tyler Durden is as terrible as he is depicted in "The Game"? What is your opinion?Having watched several of Tyler's videos, he does make reference that it is very likely he has some form of Autism because he had a lot of trouble with social q's growing up. | /r/seduction | 21/09/16 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Girl getting seemingly annoyed by 'not being able to read me'Somewhere on reddit pretty sure. Might have even been this sub. | /r/seduction | 17/07/16 11:25 PM |
| 5 | Girl getting seemingly annoyed by 'not being able to read me'Seems pretty simple, she's just not a fan of sarcastic humor. It's not uncommon because different types of humor resonate more with different types of people. Or it could be your delivery. Perhaps she doesn't read sarcasm well and you really need to exaggerate and articulate in a manner that makes it clear your joking. I remember seeing a nifty chart on different types of jokes and delivery but sadly I can't find it right now. | /r/seduction | 17/07/16 06:58 PM |
| 4 | Why You Should Do NoFapUgh, not this shit. It's all placebo as bad as homeopathy. Creatures have been masturbating for thousands of years. It's scientifically proven to be health for the sexual organs. Yeah if you're masturbating all the time and using it for a substitute for sex you probably need to cut back but nofap? please. | /r/seduction | 26/04/16 12:33 AM |
| 13 | 13 Habits of Exceptionally Likeable PeopleBrowsing forbes is like piloting the fucking International Space Station. There's 13 billion moving parts, like 3 assholes who faces are on my screen for no reason, I need to enter like a 13 digit code to get on the webpage, I think I saw someones TSA report at some point, and I've gotten fucking information overload looking at this shit. | /r/seduction | 10/04/16 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Introvert guy with poor social circleYeah I remember see that pop up. But he said he approached about 100 in one day, which I don't think op needs to worry about. I also looked through his comment history a bit and he also had a run in with the cops over a drug issue and just didn't seem to all "with it" in general. | /r/seduction | 10/03/16 12:03 AM |
| 10 | Is it creepy to approach girls during the night time.Inside the library? Perfectly fine. In the libraries creepily lite outside ally? probably not. | /r/seduction | 08/03/16 03:01 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Eye contact is more powerful than you thinkAh the classic Germanic Stare Down. Basically in Germany, unlike most places where we break eye contact every 3-5 seconds, it's considered insincere to not maintain constant unbroken eye contact when talking to someone. | /r/seduction | 17/02/16 09:21 PM |
| 0 | I don't like my beard, but girls like my beard-HELPIt's a bit of a wide comparison. Op's problem is he's worried about prejudices associated with his facial hair. This guy's problem is he lives in place were religious law prevents him from shaving even though a beard doesn't look good on him. A worthy sentiment but it doesn't really help OP that much. | /r/seduction | 21/01/16 03:32 AM |
| 11 | Cologne: what to get and how to wear it.In France once they showed me to apply cologne by spraying it once on your right wrist, rubbing your left and right wrists together, then dabbing you wrists on your neck in the area kinda behind and below your ears. I don't use cologne often but it seems to be a good application strategy. | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 09:05 AM |
| 6 | Best Responses To "I Have A Boyfriend"It's one thing to get a girls number when she has a boyfriend because that's chill and all but intentionally cheating? Seems kinda sleazy to me, rather just find someone else. | /r/seduction | 08/01/16 12:05 AM |
| 1 | I'm 16. Is this 33 year old woman interested in me, or have I been friend-zoned?Depends where he lives. Totally legal in my state. She would be barred from ever teaching again though. | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 04:57 PM |
| 34 | I thought I was the only one who felt this kind of anxiety around women, then I saw this film...I won't lie, my eyes got a bit more than just a little watery. | /r/seduction | 08/12/15 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Can a person with Asperger syndrome / autism be a great pickup artist?I was diagnosed with mild Asperger syndrome. I suppose, as of right now, I'm not very good at pickup myself but someone I really resonate with is RSDTyler. He talks about his early life a few times and from the sound of it I'm pretty sure he has/had Asperger potential. I've watched a ton of his videos, they really help me get on trace and think, I haven't watched a single one not worth seeing. His free tour videos https://www.youtube.com/user/rsdfreetour/videos?flow=grid&view=0&sort=p His more p… | /r/seduction | 08/12/15 05:43 AM |
| 9 | "Nobody can hurt you without your consent."The quote is "Nobody can hurt me without my permission." -Gandhi In this quote he is referring to his spiritual and mental strengthen. Gandhi and his followers would get physically beaten and it would be painful yet they always maintained their resolve. Nobody can weaken your spirit unless you let them. | /r/seduction | 06/12/15 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Americans on seddit, have you PERSONALLY known an Indian guy that had a lot of success in your country?Oh, when he said not asking for PUAs I thought he meant success in general. | /r/seduction | 09/11/15 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Americans on seddit, have you PERSONALLY known an Indian guy that had a lot of success in your country?I hate to pull out the stereotypes but, at least where I live, Indian doctors and business owners aren't exactly uncommon. | /r/seduction | 08/11/15 10:33 PM |
| 6 | This opener will get you laid!This is satire right? | /r/seduction | 06/11/15 08:01 PM |
| 48 | The "Are you Gay?" question.My favorite is the response Neil Patrick Harris gives in Harold and Kumar, "Yeah I'm gay, gay for that pussy." | /r/seduction | 04/11/15 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Sometimes you just gotta be honest with yourselfRight there with ya bud. First step in not sucking is admitting you fucking suck, really badly. | /r/seduction | 26/10/15 03:02 AM |
| 2 | I love seddit, but...It's only manipulation if it's unfair, if the rules are fair for both parties and the outcomes are fair for both parties then it's fair. Otherwise it's not manipulation it's just influencing. If a women is more influenced by subtle insults than veneered grovelling than whose fault is that for giving them what they want? I've only seen someone encouraging actual manipulation once on this sub and as far as I'm concerned, as long as you take no for no and aren't manipulating women to do things that… | /r/seduction | 14/10/15 11:33 PM |
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