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| 81 | I’m done idealizing LVM. | LESSON LEARNED | furstlast390 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 03:19 PM |
| 56 | What are some good FDS-positive female singers and songs? | DISCUSSION | furstlast390 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 05:33 PM |
| 1 | My opinion on Bill Burr’s monologue | DISCUSSION | furstlast390 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 06:31 PM |
| 1 | FDS does NOT endorse women cheating and engaging in poor behavior | MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERS | furstlast390 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 06:10 PM |
| 1 | If you can’t criticize a woman without bringing up her gender to attack her, you’re misogynistic. | RANT | furstlast390 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 10:39 PM |
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| 297 | Don’t ask me if I can cook unless you’re prepared to replace my brakes and do an oil change on my car.Men want women to do all the stereotypical “woman things” but don’t know how to do the traditional “man things” and won’t do them even if they know how to. Either accept or reject traditional gender roles, scrotes. You don’t get to have both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Tale of a scroteI was quoting the title of the article. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 01:13 PM |
| 25 | Tale of a scroteWell, at least there’s some good news here. Chris Brown’s career is finally over. Should’ve been over sooner, but I’ll take it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 08:48 PM |
| 138 | This just makes me so sad :((Why would you put aside your hopes and dreams, a long-lasting career, and your dignity for... sex work!? I’m glad my 11-year old self would watch me get my master’s degree in developmental psychology next semester. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Dating in 2020 when you live in a red state...SAME 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 03:58 AM |
| 33 | Men are never just your “friend.”And then these men made a meme out of the poor woman who said “men only want one thing and it’s disgusting” as a joke. But they know it holds some truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 03:53 AM |
| 104 | Hot tip: If his idea of "being a good dad" is microwaving chicken nuggets, do not procreate with him. The bar is literally on the ground.What kind of parent doesn’t know that plastic plates DON’T GO IN THE OVEN!??? How has this man survived this long smh And you gotta love (🙄) how he prides himself on being “such a good father” for doing the bare minimum. Shameful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 03:50 AM |
| 41 | For all the Pickmes and Cool Girls out there.I am a TA and one of the assignments I had to grade was from this one girl who said she didn’t want to join a sorority because she didn’t want to make friends with girls. Her reason? “Girls are catty and stupid.” This is a college student and this is a serious assignment. Nothing will stop people from being misogynistic, even if it’s girls having internalized misogyny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 03:17 AM |
| 145 | Meanwhile LVM and pickmeshas are talking about dIvOrCe r4P3 and unfair family courtTurns out, when men complain about feigned oppression, women have examples of ACTUAL oppression to counter with. Plus, it was the patriarchy that created the idea that a woman’s job is to be the caregiver, and it’s MEN who often don’t want to be fathers and take care of the child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 09:17 PM |
| 72 | We got the top two trending threads on r/AgainstHateSubreddits this week! We did it ladies! 🥳🥳 Apparently no closeted gay man has ever been misogynist and also we’re the reason feminism isn’t working and not men!It’s crazy how the men who pretend to care about incel/TRP/MGTOW ideology being misogynistic... are the same ones that equate those toxic ideologies to women being critical of men. Like, what!? Believing in high standards is the same as fantasizing about assaulting women??? AgainstHateSubreddits are a bunch of fools if they think what we’re doing is the same as what incels are doing. Yes, gay men can be misogynistic. No, women should not have to split the bill if they don’t want to. How is this … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 12:24 AM |
| 3 | Oh, to be her...Now we need a new condition where we can’t read anything a man wrote... this would save us a lot of trouble when reading bullshit a man writes in texts or online lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 12:19 AM |
| 6 | The partisan gender gap is larger among Millenials than any other generationFrom my experience, men who consider themselves far left (socialists, brogressives) tend to be VERY misogynistic. Just look at how much they bully and berate female politicians and any woman who disagrees with them. They also tend to be class reductionist and not consider the impact of gender and race when it comes to women’s struggles, resorting to blaming class for everything. They call themselves feminists but in reality they’re just as likely to objectify and degrade women than the right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 01:26 AM |
| 79 | I would have called the policeI’ve heard some terrible stories about men bringing cameras just to slip them under women’s skirts and take a picture. How could you live with yourself and do these things ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 01:20 AM |
| 46 | THIS is why we have FDS - at least he’s more honest about it than some men are. Gross!!These types of men must have had a very negative relationship with their mother... still not an excuse to behave in this way. I had a terrible relationship with my abusive narc father and I don’t have these weird fetishes... what is going on with these men!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 01:18 AM |
| 86 | Congratulations to the first female Vice President of the USA ❤️Not to mention a woman of color too. And if Joe Biden steps down around 2024, she could become the first female president of the United States! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 06:50 PM |
| 58 | You can literally be Beyonce and still be devalued by LVMAnd there are a lot of misogynistic men being disgusting towards Beyoncé. I remember NBA fans degrading her for wearing Philly merch during a Lakers performance and calling her “Jay Z’s wife” instead of her name. Or when NBA fans said Michael Jordan will forever be more iconic than her while being sexist towards her. Then I scroll through Beyoncé and Jay Z news and all of them are praising her for staying with him despite the cheating. It’s sad how much society hates women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 06:46 PM |
| 106 | The concept of female privilege??They think women making money off of OnlyFans and getting jobs in the media because of their looks is “privilege.” As if being objectified and degraded by men is a privilege 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 03:11 AM |
| 134 | Won’t Somebody Think of the Men??Men want to be oppressed so badly. Every time women talk about their rights and their issues, men view that as a jab at men’s rights and issues. I remember some female athletes wanting better (not equal) pay and suddenly there were men crying about how women wanting to be equal to men would hurt men’s sports... It’s like once women are at the same level as men, men suddenly lose their rights. It’s sad seeing men play the victim yet criticize feminists for victim-playing 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 08:04 PM |
| 8 | NoUgh. I hate this idea that women have to do EVERYTHING in a relationship. They have to make the money or else they’re a gold digger, they have to cook, clean, wash the dishes and do the laundry, they have to take care of the child, and SOMEHOW they have to have the energy to act like emotional support to the man. My mom was the sole breadwinner of my house, and she worked all day and had to come back home to do all the housework. Meanwhile, my dad stayed at home, watched movies and ate junk food… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 05:05 PM |
| 24 | John Gray in his ted talk explains that studies showed than women’s stress level is higher than those of men in a relationship (4x more at home to be exact). This is insane. If your relationship brings you stress, stay single ! No one In Nature is able to survive to long term stress .I’m 23 and look like I’m a teenager. I’ve never been in a relationship (I’m aromantic) and I’m not interested in being in one, ever. My stress is solely due to grad school stuff, but otherwise I’m glad I don’t have to worry about a toxic relationship on top of that. I feel like I will look younger than my age my whole life, unlike my mother who had to deal with my abusive father and looks tired now. It makes me sad to see how young and pretty she used to look. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 10:41 PM |
| 306 | But if I say "respect me and don't watch porn" my standards are too high 🙄🙄Number seven is ridiculous. People with anger management issues are going to find ways to be aggressive, violent, and angry regardless of how people act towards them. Even when I was a child, crying helplessly, my dad still found ways to be physically and verbally abusive towards me. This is a huge red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 05:49 PM |
| 3 | What are some good FDS-positive female singers and songs?I love All Men Are Pigs! It always makes me laugh how much the title of the song offends men lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 08:57 PM |
| 9 | What are some good FDS-positive female singers and songs?LOL I don’t even like that song, don’t worry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 08:02 PM |
| 31 | Every day my faith in men gets closer and closer to zeroI remember doing some texting for a campaign, and a guy I was texting started harassing me and sent me naked pictures of himself 🤢 Men will be absolute creeps under the guise of texting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 07:01 PM |
| 128 | 🙄 also, why do men insist on calling us “females” tfShe’s... not even being sexual!? It’s just a part of her body... You know, it’s very telling when men get distracted by a woman just standing there and get mad at HER (not themselves) for being distracted. Projection at its finest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 05:48 PM |
| 95 | THIS!! I see women on here sometimes arguing with men and posting their “sassy” or “savage” clapbacks, he doesn’t care he just enjoys getting a rise out of you. Bad attention for men is still attention. Block them and pay them no mind.These men are simply psychopaths. Psychopaths enjoy seeing others in pain and feed off of others’ suffering. The best thing you can do is not give them the satisfaction of seeing you in pain and unhappy, and ignore them. They hate being ignored. They want to see a reaction. If you ignore them, they huff and puff and move on to a next victim. It’s best to not be one of their victims. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 05:35 PM |
| 35 | Woman changing her looks and working on herself = she wants to belong to the streetzzThis is why I want nothing to do with the NBA and its fan base. Full of misogynists that do nothing but spend all their time shaming players that are much more successful and rich than they are. Not to mention happier and fulfilled with their lives, unlike these people who project their unhappiness and failures on others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 07:22 PM |
| 76 | Apparently calling out men when they post dumb sexists and racists comics is 'shaming' them 🙄Why are “anti feminists” so obsessed with us? We have standards and look out for ourselves without hurting any men, and they take offense to that!? They claim we’re the ones who hate men yet their entire existence is solely based on hating women and feminists... yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 05:22 PM |
| 87 | LV Men: women are psycho, also LV men when women break up with them:Often times, women become “psycho” because of the mistreatment they’ve had to deal from men. Men become psycho because of their deeply seated hatred of women and their unresolved mental issues. Yet they complain about how society doesn’t care about men’s mental health... but don’t take accountability for their issues and project on women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 05:20 PM |
| 15 | When men hear the term “feminism”, this is what many of them immediately think of.I recently saw a meme with the guy and the dog, where the dog says “feminism is about equality” and the man says “oh no... the dog’s stupid.” These men think feminism is about female supremacy? For centuries what we’ve had in the world is male supremacy, and as soon as women say “we want better treatment and equal rights” they say “OH NOOO THEY WANT SUPERIORITY” like seriously??? Wanting autonomy over our bodies and not being discriminated by society means we want to rule the world? No, that’s Y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 10:48 PM |
| 41 | POOR MENWhat makes me laugh is when male “comedians” (or just plain misogynists) make sexist “jokes” and women go “hmmm that’s pretty sexist” and the men start crying about how they’re being silenced and canceled... like no, criticism and calling out sexism is not the same as canceling lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 09:50 PM |
| 82 | A man trying to red pill his 14 year old son.And now the red-pillers are starting to indoctrinate their children. Do people seriously think this ideology is “just on the Internet” and has “no real-life impact”!? There’s a reason why some states and countries have started listing these people as terrorist groups. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 02:57 PM |
| 137 | In case anyone asks...I will make a point that, while any woman that has suffered greatly from the patriarchy should be a feminist, women who have only marginally suffered and have otherwise had a good life free from abuse and trauma from men should ALSO be feminists. It doesn’t matter what your life has been like. Even if your life has been sunshine and rainbows and no man had ever laid a hand on you, you should still be a feminist. Because we women should stand in solidarity with each other even if we have not shar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 02:11 PM |
| 24 | I kept asking myself if I should post something so trite. This dude handed me a tip and then told me to wait as he went back inside and brought out more money. He gave me the extra tip and asked for my number, I said no and hopped in my car, then he sent me this through the app. Don't smile at themThis is why I always ask the Dasher to leave the food at my door, ring the bell, and leave. They don’t even see my face. But then again I only do delivery so I don’t know what pickup looks like 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 02:07 PM |
| 148 | Ladies, look out for each other! We are all queens, and we need to support each other as suchThis warms my heart. I love seeing women standing up for each other and not letting men get in the way of their happiness. I’ve gone from being jealous of women who had what I didn’t to supporting their goals and working on myself to reach my own goals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 01:50 AM |
| 7 | “Womanly” activities are cooking, cleaning, caretaking & appearances 🤢This has GOT to be Abby Shapiro on another account lmaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 09:31 PM |
| 5 | Blaming women for their own sexual exploitation and somehow making it about how oppressed men are... just what?Dude: “I’m not misogynistic!!!!!” Also dude: insinuates that women doing OnlyFans and porn is manipulating men and will destroy society | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 09:06 PM |
| 5 | I'm not sure if this belongs here. This is so disgusting!Fortunately some people who came on there did not like the post, as shown by the angry emoji reaction. This disgusts me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 09:04 PM |
| 147 | Why do LVM get so mad when they see a woman being loved properly?Stephen Curry is absolutely a HVM and he cares so much about his wife. It saddens me how much people send Ayesha hate. They’re both wonderful people and deserve happiness. Sadly many NBA fans are massively misogynistic, considering their entire personality is hating on women and women’s basketball... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 09:02 PM |
| 14 | A reminder that when dealing with LVMs, their words, actions and beliefs are NOT your responsibility.I like to use this mindset when thinking of LVM I idealized as part of my BPD. I felt bad about them getting hate for their mistakes and their words, and felt like I had to defend them. But now I tell myself their words and actions are none of my concern. I need to care for myself and not care about low value people and the hate they get, regardless of how valid the criticism is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 06:34 PM |
| 14 | Girl (16) gets free from creep boyfriend(20) in a close call situation.And yet, if a woman were to do this, people would be going on about how she’s a “crazy ex-girlfriend” 🙄 Thank god people were defending her in the comments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 06:32 PM |
| 43 | This woman posted about her ex threatening/stalking her, contacting her family, breaking into her house, etc., this smooth brained waste of oxygen decides to bring up the fact that “men can’t be violated when girls go through their phone” and some stupid pick-me agreeing with him.Wait, so this guy is telling me that “females” also stalk, harass, threaten, break into houses, and kill men just because they looked through their phone!? At the same rate as men do it? No. I’m not saying women can’t get violent, but it will never rise to the level of what men are capable of. Breaking and hitting things out of anger is nowhere near as dangerous as breaking into someone’s house to MURDER them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 08:02 PM |
| 31 | REMINDER: No, You Don't Have "Resting Bitch Face"There’s this idol that I really like and she has been told that she has RBF. As a result, people often attack and mock her and say she’s arrogant and a bully, even though she’s super nice and sweet. Casual misogyny at work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 05:57 PM |
| 171 | Uh, sure guy. Men are victims more than women 🙄🙄Men are more likely to be victims than women? Well, who are the perpetrators most of the time? That’s right, men. If anything, if he’s right and men really are more likely to be victims than women, it’s other men that are making it harder for them. Use the same energy you use to discredit women’s issues to criticize your fellow men for engaging in this behavior. Thought I would really like to know the stats on some of these, especially the domestic violence one. I’m not entirely sure if that’s a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 07:03 PM |
| 18 | Choose love not toxic love no matter what!I keep hearing this ridiculous phrase: “it’s better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.” No, I would rather love myself and take care of myself than to be in a toxic relationship and suffer. I’m glad I’ve never had to look back at a relationship and cry over how wronged I was and how much someone hurt me and how much I still love them. So many expressions are just telling women to settle for bad relationships and feel bad about being alone, but I’m not falling for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Look at us poor men suffering agugugu why is life so unfair nNnnNn women have it so easy i hate those bitches why wont they let me fuck them aaaaaaFunny how these men will go on about how men are oppressed and women have it easy... on unpopularopinion where every post is downgrading women’s issues and complaining about the poor men 🙄 Hey, if everyone’s saying the same thing, maybe it’s not an unpopular opinion??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 05:42 PM |
| 44 | A man can never do anything by himself, a woman has got to manipulate him. (Context in the comments, please read)And then these men go and complain about false accusations... yet have not a peep to say about this woman falsely accused of murder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 03:36 AM |
| 0 | This new song by LM is fantasticHe’s a basketball player, his name is Kawhi Leonard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 08:03 PM |
| 0 | This new song by LM is fantasticOh, sorry about that! Yeah, just a fan, lol. I tend to get very attached to people, including celebrities 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 07:56 PM |
| 3 | This new song by LM is fantasticAs someone who hasn’t been in a relationship, I want to use this song to separate myself from a low value trash celebrity who tormented me and made me overly defensive of him. I cut him off and I feel so much better 🎶 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 07:47 PM |
| 17 | Do HVW feel lonely?I’ve actually never dated, so I can’t really relate. I’ve never been interested in being in a relationship, and while I’ve gotten offers for dates and sex, I’ve declined them all because it doesn’t interest me. I’ve found myself wondering what it would be like to have a boyfriend, but the idea wasn’t very appealing to me. But I know for people coming away from relationships, they can definitely feel alone. I would suggest replacing the men who were in your life with friends. I myself don’t have … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 07:04 PM |
| 160 | As a former gym rat (thanks covid), this makes me angry. Just a few, sadly predictable, comments.This is disgusting. I mostly wear leggings when I work out because I don’t like shaving often and wearing shorts, which exposes my legs. So I wear long leggings when I haven’t shaved my legs, and sometimes I wear shorts when I have. And I have never checked out a man at the gym. I never look or stare at their bodies. When I wear leggings I am not asking to be ogled at. Men are just admitting they can’t control their urges around women, nothing new. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 06:02 PM |
| 105 | Saw this Q on relationship advice, and this was some of the "advice"Men will say stuff like “it’s our instinct” “we’re men, it’s what we do” and “we have hormonal urges” yet when women literally repeat exactly what these men are saying (men are controlled by their hormones and will jerk off to anything), they get mad at us and say “MISANDRY!!!!!!” lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 05:20 PM |
| 46 | Am I the only one who despises this absolute nutcase?!It’s sad, because there are a lot of women like this. They will put down other women around them so that they can seem like the “one true girl” who is the only good one in a sea of “bad women”. I’ve seen so many anti-feminist girls on YouTube making content trashing women and women’s rights just so that their mostly male audience will give them pats on the back. As a progressive, our movement has accepted former MRA racist anti-feminist Shoe0nHead as a left-winger... what’s so left wing about ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 03:06 AM |
| 242 | “Equal rights, equal fights.” Like, why is that the first thought in these guys’ minds when girls say they want equal rights?This always weirds me out, because men would never treat their bro friends this way, they just want to harm women. Would they hit their male friends and break their bones? So why do they want to do it to women? How is that equality if you only specifically want to harm women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 12:58 AM |
| 22 | The torture, rape and murder of Junko Furuta. The men who did it are walking free today after mostly 6-9 year prison sentencesAnd the worst part of this is that the “notallmen” crowd would somehow find a way to distract from how horrible this situation is. List of things they could say: 1) Not ALL of us are like that! Don’t generalize! 2) B-But sentencing biases that benefit women!!! 3) They were just kids! Boys will be boys! 4) It’s in the past! It’s not like that anymore! 5) BUT insert bad things that some women have done And yet they probably wouldn’t have done a thing had they seen this atrocity happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 12:21 AM |
| 48 | What made you question or doubt if your abuse was abuse?The reason why I doubted my abuse was because my parents always told me it never happened. Every time I told them things from my childhood that I CLEARLY remembered, they would either tell me it didn’t happen or it wasn’t as bad or as frequent as I remember it. Like, what? Even if my dad only abused me once a week rather than everyday, that’s still too many times. No parent should ever hit or gaslight their child. I would question myself and think I was in the wrong. But it doesn’t matter, becau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 05:04 PM |
| 24 | The worst of "female qualities" usually have to actually come from a man. Because we don't actually pull crap like this, and are usually way too accommodating. :)These types of men will hurt, abuse, and manipulate you to the point where anyone would snap. And when you do, you’re the crazy one. My father was physically and emotionally abusive to me from a very young age. Whenever he would yell or attack me, I would just fall to the ground or go to my room, and cry for hours. As I grew up, I began resenting him and started feeling angrier and angrier. I started yelling back, and even becoming physically aggressive, though I never hurt him. I felt awful for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:56 PM |
| 43 | Yeah, how dumb of you to give up the privilege of having no choice other than to bear children and be maid, who can easily be discarded for a "newer model". It is mind-blowing how men think of the position women were once in. They literally see no problem with and think we had a easy job.It saddens me how much men think women have it easy. They think all the struggles women face are so trivial they would gladly experience what we do. I remember telling a bunch of men how frustrating it is as a woman to be told by men to “get back in the kitchen” or “make a sandwich.” They responded but saying they wouldn’t mind because they love cooking. When I told them the word “female” as a noun could be used in a derogatory way, they said they wouldn’t mind be called males. What they don’t u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:47 PM |
| 9 | Bf wont work, OP is $45k in debt from supporting him.I don’t understand why he’s not seeking help for his depression and gaming addiction. I say this as someone who’s been depressed, but if you’re so much of a burden to your family that you cause your girlfriend or wife to go in debt because of you... you need to get help. And if he refuses to get help, she needs to leave ASAP! It angers me how so many men just don’t want to get help for their problems and want to make everyone around them miserable. My narc father never admitted he was wrong and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 02:46 AM |
| 145 | I never heard women complaining about 18 yo men bodies. Why do they keep doing this?These creeps have been waiting years for Billie to turn 18 just so that they could make these disgusting creepy comments about her body... nah, scratch that, they didn’t wait. These comments existed even before she came of age 😰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 09:25 PM |
| 33 | Men telling on themselves lol. Just a reminder a HVM will never let you take on unneeded stress!And of course his username comes from that meme that anti-feminists used to mock women who call out cat callers. Very telling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 06:35 PM |
| 12 | “How many of you have ever felt personally victimized by a man” 🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️It’s disgusting how society will blame women for other men abusing and traumatizing her. My father was physically and emotionally abusive towards me when I was young, causing me to develop BPD. And yet there are people out there who are mocking the traumatized women on this sub by joking that we’re mentally ill and therefore have distorted views about men... the same men who abused and hurt us! Like it’s our fault our bodies and minds reacted from all the trauma men gave us and made us mentally … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 05:46 PM |
| 282 | Good men hold other men accountable. End of story.This is the problem we face. Even if there are a lot of men who are not overt misogynists, they either defend misogynists or turn a blind eye to their misogyny. I’ve been let down by so many men I used to follow. One of them defended Joey Diaz admitting to assaulting a woman. Another one used misogynistic language. Yet another retweeted misogynistic tweets. I thought they were good guys because they didn’t outwardly say negative things about women. But sadly, their alliance with dangerous men, w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 05:26 PM |
| 123 | This is why we don't let men post on this subreddit. We don't want to clutter our feed with a bunch of sea lions DEMANDING that we drop everything to engage in "civil discussion"Thank God we have a space for women only. Imagine what this sub would look like if men were allowed to interject their opinions. Actually, it would just look like the rest of Reddit. Any female-centered sub on here is run by men, and every time a woman has a concern, there are always men invalidating her. Even the more “progressive” “leftist” subreddits still have men saying stuff like “oh, don’t get offended, it’s not that big of a deal” or constantly pivoting to men’s issues. I hate to say thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Saw this in a FB group, some comments were telling her to deal with it and “boys will be boys”... other queens came for them saying how rude it is for people to bitch about the OP and not about the rando asking about “that chick on the car”‘s PRICE.So according to this guy, women are objects that can be won over with money. They’re not even denying that they don’t see us as people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 09:53 PM |
| 77 | Just thought this was funny (not sure what to flair it, but oh well)It’s ridiculous how people will deny the wage gap, then when shown real statistics about how a gap exists, they backtrack by justifying the gap and saying it only exists because of “women’s choices.” So tell me, considering you claim women are innately more attracted to jobs that just so happen to pay less... two things. 1) Are you calling women stupid? Like we are dumb enough to purposely pick lesser jobs? 2) Where’s the biological evidence women are hardwired towards certain jobs than others? … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:06 AM |
| 33 | What posts do you enjoy seeing on FDS and what would you like to see more of?I enjoy reading feminist theory and ways for women to feel confident in themselves. Posts that boost self-esteem and teach not to get too affected by misogyny. I like coming on here whenever I see misogyny on the Internet just to remind myself there is a community that understands how horrible that is and doesn’t try to talk over women saying “it’s nothing, just a joke”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:37 AM |
| 26 | They already wanna go to strip clubs & watch porn, now these sex-obsessed scrotes are trynna convince us to hire naked women for our partners‘ birthdays! The audacity! I wish men would do half the stuff women get demanded. How about naked men for us? They wouldn’t even THINK about it. DisgustingI hate the fact that men don’t think going to the strip club and enjoying the company of naked women around them counts as cheating. As a basketball fan, it disgusts me how much basketball fans justify players going to the strip club and getting lap dances when they have a girlfriend or wife, and EVEN KIDS! Not to mention how they think obsessively following half-naked models on social media isn’t cheating. Look, if a man is looking at another woman in a sexual way and is interested in sexual fa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 11:41 PM |
| 122 | The 'funny' ways in which men hurt women. 'It's just a joke!'For some reason, men enjoy seeing women in pain. They enjoy seeing us sad. My narcissistic father straight up LAUGHED at my face as I cried and begged for him to get therapy for his mental health problems. He was the same guy who cried crocodile tears when I confronted him about the years of abuse he dealt me, which I ended up apologizing for. I feel like a lot of men suffer from egocentrism. This is a skill that is usually learned in TODDLERS around the ages of 3-5 as part of their preoperation… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 09:51 PM |
| 139 | They wanna take all and give back nothingI think it’s time to ask men, what do THEY bring to the table? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 09:37 PM |
| 16 | Who else wishes "men age like wine" was actually true? I hear about these sexy older men (mostly from men on reddit lol) but where they at IRL? In reality the average middle aged man looks like...a middle aged manI hate the fact that I have such low standards for men... I’ve been attracted to balding, overweight, ugly men with boring personalities :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 09:36 PM |
| 19 | The truth of the crazy ex girlfriend trope. Funny how the crazy ex boyfriend trope just never gets popular. (And I should know this because I did have a crazy ex boyfriend.)As a woman with BPD I know how these men view women like me. I hear all these horrible stories of men shaming women with BPD and assuming all of us are manipulative and abusive. I’m not denying that some borderline people can be those things, but they immediately blame and attack borderlines, especially borderline women, when most of us are like this because we’ve been abused, traumatized, and invalidated from a young age. I worked hard to eliminate my symptoms by doing DBT, and many of us are i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Societal gaslighting about women and their “mood swings” when in reality men have mood swings way more often. Do not be silent about this any longer! Bring it up! Are they having erectile dysfunction mood swings? Is it porn induced? Request they see a mental health professional about this!People who claim women are the irrational angry ones and men are the logical gender ignore that... ANGER IS AN EMOTION TOO? When men get enraged and hurt/kill people, that’s an emotion. Men have been taught to bottle up their emotions and release them in a socially acceptable way for men, which is basically lashing out. If a woman were to lash out like that, she’d be considered hysterical. I’m sick and tired of the whole “men aren’t allowed to show emotion” trope. Men shouldn’t be shamed for hav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 07:16 PM |
| 122 | I think I hit the goldmine here. “Imagine how a man feels thinking that you are scared he will rape you.”Yes, because in order for women to understand their own rights and freedoms, they have to think in a MAN’S perspective. How about they think in our perspective? Imagine walking down the road late at night all alone, worried about a man harming or raping you. Think about why there’s a REASON why women feel uncomfortable around men. Also, what rights and freedoms do women have that men don’t? Do they mean women are more likely to win child custody? Isn’t that because women tend to be the caregiver… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 07:10 PM |
| 38 | NEVER beg for a relationship! NEVER settle for off and on! NEVER take nudes!Wait... you’re telling me there were people on that subreddit who WANTED HER NUDES!???? That’s disturbing as hell. Not to mention the fact that he was so mad with her being with someone else that he planned to engage in revenge porn. I don’t know the state of their relationship and I don’t condone cheating, but he is messed up for having wanted to do this, and I’m glad his friends talked him out of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Women do not have a “right” to not be raped or molested by menMen think that just because there’s no law explicitly saying women are barred from a right that men have, this means men and women are equal. First off, there is no equal rights amendment enacted in the United States where I live, so women technically do not have equal rights to men here. Second, even if they did, women still face much more discrimination, oppression, and sexism in society that men do not have to face. This guy thinks that as soon as the law says “men and women are equal,” misog… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 01:37 AM |
| 24 | Too many women out there willing to throw another woman under the bus instead of holding men accountable for their parasitism and low efforts.I remember watching this black woman who made commentary videos. She made a series of videos bashing women and black people just for (white) male validation. Examples of videos she made include a video bashing women’s sports/basketball, a video mocking black people for speaking up against injustice, and a video claiming a female reporter only got her job because she’s a woman and we need to stop “forced diversity” by hiring women to jobs... :/ And her comment section? Full of men praising her an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 11:24 PM |
| 84 | So many things wrong with this 🤦♀️And the fact that he would mock her and act like SHE’S in the wrong and SHE’S the crazy one... Why do these types of men get off on pissing women off!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 09:40 PM |
| 101 | Hope she drops this pathetic scrote, rooting for the FDS-minded momIsn’t it sad that the word “princess” is being used to mock women with standards? It’s always used in a derogatory way, too. Any woman who thinks she deserves respect and good treatment will be mocked and called a princess. What’s wrong with wanting to be a princess? I think men should step up and act like princes, to be honest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 08:12 PM |
| 2 | My favorite thing a man does ... 😉This makes me feel better about never having used OLD. There was a time I considered it, but reading all the horror stories on here made me reconsider, and I’m happy I did. Thank you, FDS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 07:31 PM |
| 34 | Men find new ways to astound and disappointment me every single dayIgnoring the fact that this man compared women to LITERALLY ANIMALS, which is dehumanizing the hell out of us, he used the typical incel “alpha” language, which is immediately a red flag. Isn’t it true that the creator of the alpha/beta dynamic ended up rescinding it and claiming it wasn’t scientifically accurate? Also this: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/head-games/201412/are-alpha-males-myth-or-reality%3Famp Turns out the term “alpha” can’t really be used for huma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 07:27 PM |
| 209 | And there are STILL men AND WOMEN in the comments saying "not all men 🥺🥺🥺". DisgustingAnd the worst part is she couldn’t fight back, because they were outnumbering her. She could only smile and hope they would leave her alone. My heart hurt just watching this. Disgusting. Why wasn’t there a man defending her amongst all of them? No one stood up for her against these horrible men? You’re right, “not all men” is a joke. Would these men claiming “not all men!!!” have stood up for her? Probably not. They would be complicit, which is terrible as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 06:14 PM |
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