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I don't have a bullet list of skills I require; only equal effort on whatever typical/daily task is @ hand. Cooking, cleaning, bathing dogs, washing cars, etc. If there's things each person is really good @, then they take that lead, e.g. investing, and educate the other person to they @ least know what's happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 07:03 PM
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I got into that in the other part of the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 12:03 AM
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I agree that it does restrict the depth the pool; it happened for me too. And yes, as a single dad I ran into the same issues there with timing. Limited availability on our part is an issue for someone who is single and is always ready to do whatever. They only have to make choices for themselves, and we are making choices for two (or more). What I was saying is, the majority of men here aren't dads, and they aren't over 25. So of course, with that group, they're like "herp derp I don't want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 11:13 PM
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And the vast majority of men on reddit are in which demo, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 10:59 PM
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Shit, I used to PREFER for a women have a child. My kid isn't someone's training ground for parenting. And yes, her parenting style was a top-3 consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 10:57 PM
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Yes, sweeping generalizations should always be the standard. Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 09:33 PM
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Look, it's great fun for a few weeks. I firmly believe in experiencing as many things as possible (within certain safety lines, e.g. don't juggle chainsaws while drunk). But when you can't take a shit in peace? You can't call a family member without having to peel her off of you? There's no way to get more than two hours of sleep @ a time for months? Nah. A nympho needs a nympho to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 08:00 PM
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This comment is so ridiculous it doesn't deserve a response.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 07:57 PM
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/u/lepetitdaddydupeuple is correct. It's not semantics, it's a totally different thing, and you'd know this if you ever dated one. Source: I dated a nympho. After three months, I was sick of it. Her entire life revolved around sex. You think it would be great, but it's not. Couldn't take a shower in peace. She'd be pulling my clothes off when I was getting ready for work. She'd want to come up on my lunch break to fuck in the truck. she would try to give me a blowjob while cooking. Couldn't stud…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 05:15 PM
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Ah, I thought you meant prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 10:17 PM
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Maybe so, I can't offer any insight on that. It doesn't compute, in any way for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 10:27 PM
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Men almost universally utilize sex workers Gonna need a source for that sort of claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 10:05 PM
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I will defend insta thots all day. I think they get too much hate from both sides. Insta thots are maximizing their value as young attractive women, it's the natural RP equivalent for females. Much more than FDS. Agreed, more power to them. If posting bikini pix etc makes money for them, fantastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 10:00 PM
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why are you saying guys that who masturbate to Instagram models then call them whores don't exist? I think it's hilarious that any man would do this. What the hell, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 09:58 PM
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I definitely understand more from your POV now. I've had girls 4'10 (Korean) and 5'9 (Israeli) so I don't have a type, per se. I do like taller girls for certain reasons (eye contact, kissing, good compatibility with positions, walking stride) but smaller ones are fun to toss around in the bedroom and they enjoy being petite, in my experience. I concur that if you know you're shorter, that you need to work extra-hard on your other traits. My best friend is 5'8, bless him, and in college it was s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 07:49 PM
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I hear you, for real; however, you've used yet another extreme example (someone born in the 40s, what?) while also denigrating any man under a rare height out of hand. To wit, if we flipped your comment's gender: There's no way these pipsqueaks fatties would extend the same courtesy to women men they find unattractive. That's pretty fucked up. To expand on that, if a man said "I won't date a woman within 70% of my weight" that dude would be tarred and feathered. My assertion is that people are g…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 05:19 PM
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This is the the perfect example of taking an extreme position in order to not actually consider the issue at hand. No one is saying that women should turn their vagina into a subway turnstile. Not even remotely. It's that there are other factors to consider besides this singular genetic one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 11:31 AM
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Boundaries, and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 12:45 AM
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As long as it's contextually proper, hell yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 05:22 PM
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Nah, I'm choosy. I sure as shit don't want a young virginal bride either. I'd rather have a woman with some experience. The way you speak provides some insight on why you don't offer enough for men to stick around, which is why you're projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 08:17 PM
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Allow me to offer another perspective on that. I'm going to be blunt for clarity. Take it for what you will. The fact is that I have married to or dated 9-10 since high school. I'm in my late 40s. N count is over 200. I check all of the boxes necessary to do such. I'm seeing a nurse who is a hard 6.5 on her very best, getting-married makeup/glow etc. day. Generally below fitness and looks, compared to the usual. I continue to choose her over women that are physically ideal, with maybe one or two…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:39 PM
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I even tried to date unnatractive men but they tend to go away when I tell that I am abstient We are happy to wait, when the woman is worth our time to do such.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 04:42 PM
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Writ large
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:53 PM
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They're not used to having to take the initiative. Some girls have been really clever and engaging, but a lot of them are awkward and have no idea how to take the reins regarding engagement/the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 06:07 PM
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They guy knew we were there together, lol. He was eyeballing her from the jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 05:29 PM
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My college girlfriend did the following. She went to the restroom, and a guy stops her on the way back. I can see everything because of the shape of the bar. He chats her up, orders her a drink. It's a neat bourbon. He's clearly impressed. When it arrives, she takes it, says thanks, and walks back to me. She looks the dude dead in the eye as she hands me the glass. EDIT: Yes, I married her, but that went wayyyy wrong. See my top-rated post for how crazy she got.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 05:19 PM
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It's pretty damn great. Women approach you. Calls and texts are returned really quickly. They make a lot of effort to give you their time. When I was fat, this did not happen. I've always worked on my mind, intellect, finances, etc. so I've never had problems meeting/dating quality women. When I got fit? Floodgates opened.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 02:01 AM
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Now you can understand the logic. They "look" larger (get "stacked") because of their frame and proportion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:08 AM
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Another excuse. That's all you are interested in. You can get to at least half of what that man has naturally, and still look tremendous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 04:08 PM
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You get it for sure. It's just unreal the lengths people will go to in order to justify their laziness/lack of ambition. If people would give lifting an honest effort and really discipline themselves, they would understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 04:08 PM
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Guys with skinny wrists are never going to have huge arms. That's just a fact. A fact. Mkay. More horseshit. Look at this man's wrists. That's Serge Nubret, and his wrists are WELL under 7". Does he have small arms? If anything, with a smaller frame, you probably have smaller joints, which will make your proportions absolutely stupid once the food plan and iron are consistent. The difference between him and people like you/the people you're talking about is that one group is making excuses, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 04:02 PM
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Absolute horseshit. You have the exact same damn muscles every other human does. Eat the protein necessary for your target weight, balance carbs and fats, compound exercises, and discipline, literally anyone will gain more than enough muscle. You will see solid improvements in three months. Fantastic results in a year. And if you're a shorter guy? Maaaan, those muscles will stack fast. Source: went skinny to fit to fat to fit again, and staying the fuck fit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 03:33 PM
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There's pros and cons, like anything else. Having said that, I am incredibly grateful to be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 12:40 AM
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Nah, bring it on. You'll know what you're dealing with. Respond accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 04:53 PM
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She is to me, no question about it. I hope everyone finds someone who inspires and fulfills them the way she does for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 01:35 AM
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Thank you, I wrote it and found it almost inadequate. I'm well over four decades deep into life, I travel across the globe for work, and that one? That one there? Singular. She changed my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 05:59 PM
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But some apparently do work out. I don't know if mine will or not, but, I know that it has been a fantastic experience. If it lasts forever, GREAT. If not, I'll still be grateful for the tremendous amount of effort, affection, and time I got to experience with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 04:18 AM
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Every time this topic comes up on any sub it's always full of women saying how bad it is for young women to date older men and then they admit that they themselves have done it in the past. Every single time. I had some lovely responses from women on this topic. I don't think it's quite as cut and dried as you assert.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 04:16 AM
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...but more often it’s a girl in her mid 20’s dating someone who’s 35 to 50 Intentionally because the men their age treat them like garbage and are unstable. This is exactly the case in my situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 04:08 AM
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Thanks so much. Every single day with her is magic. Best to you as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 04:03 AM
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It's a deal-breaker for me. And I wouldn't stay, because IMO subjecting kids to a toxic, loveless marriage is far more damaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 12:48 AM
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Life IS short, and it can be taken away at any time. That's why I am giving this woman, this relationship, everything I have. No regrets. Thanks again, and sincere best to you for your journey forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 12:46 AM
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That was intense from start to finish! And I'm highly interested in what women think as a rule, so thank you for sharing this. I'm hoping a few more share their stories. I am sorry that you lost your love; he sounds like someone I would respect, especially the part about "one woman". I have always been a one-woman man. I think they call it plate spinning, when you date multiple people at once? No thanks. I'd rather invest and get in deep with one person so I can see what's what. I had a moment o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 12:28 AM
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If sunshine took human form, it would look, walk, and be like her. She is an incredible human being; I know precisely how fortunate I am to be with her. What is in between the ears is what will ultimately determine how you relate and, as you said, complement each other. I love that you know another couple that are happy in this way as well. And you are absolutely correct. I wasn't looking for a younger woman, wasn't even really dating when I met her. Like you alluded to, if you click, you click.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 12:21 AM
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It is tough to read about your experience. I admire the fact that you can speak about it so openly. I'm in the same boat, in terms of having loads of support. I had to reframe it for one couple in the following manner: It's two men, and one said, maybe you should just look at this as fun only, nothing to get serious about. One has a sister who is 21. I said, OK, look at it this way. Let's say Tiffany (the 21 yr old) and I started dating. Would either of y'all have a problem with that? They sort …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 11:24 PM
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First of all, thank you for sharing. I wish more people had open minds about this kind of stuff. You would probably have a lot more happy couples. This is what it boils down to. Assuming that grooming etc. isn't going on, if two people are happy, it's their business. It's the same thing LGBTQ face, in that way. Relationships aren't group projects. EDIT: No one said ANYTHING when I was 21 and dating a woman in her 40s. It was like hey, good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:54 PM
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My GF is 22 years younger. She lied to me about her age when I met her, and she presumed I was in my late 30's. It was kind of an "oh, heh" moment when she came clean some months later, but we talked about it and decided that since we enjoy each other so much that we were going to give it a shot. She was exhausted by the men in her peer group. I was tired of the women in mine. She respects my ambition, drive, and experience across multiple vectors. I admire her energy for life, her insightful na…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:15 PM
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We need more scientific resources with a good UI. There's some incredibly dense PDFs that neither of us want to wade through.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 03:04 AM
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I'm chatty as well, so you are 100% good by me. Yeah there are some REALLY interesting stats out there. I'm so sorry for linking The Sun, but check this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:59 AM
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I am going to do so now, as my curiosity has been piqued. Thanks again for your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:48 AM
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I presumed the video was about sexual partners & outliers (I know what outliers are from my field, marketing) in this regard, but I do appreciate the link and the time you took to get it. There is something to your assertion, as the area I went to school in and where I am currently living are only three hours apart. My experience would be skewed due this fact, resting on cultural similarities and my peer group (fitness-minded, white collar types). I appreciate the continued discourse. If there's…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:45 AM
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I will watch and respond, since you took the time to share that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:38 AM
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There's no reason to be rude. It's fairly common within my GenX peer group as well, Simply take my personal anecdote for what it is, as it relates to the time period mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:36 AM
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Yeah, I've had more than enough of casual dating. I've been lucky to have some tremendous relationships, and that is absolutely what I prefer. Intense monogamy, where you can't get enough of each other, is what I prefer, and what I have right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:26 AM
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Again, I was doing things for the wrong reasons, but I wasn't unique in that space. Plenty of men and women were having loads of casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:22 AM
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we got after sex drug’s and rock and roll hard We did. The reckless abandon was real. I lived off of coke, Camels, Long Islands, Wendy's, and the local chicken finger shack. ALL of us did that. I think a lot of that scene had to do with the fact that there was no tentative dancing around bullshit re: texting/dating apps/etc., no monitoring likes and views or any of that shit. If you wanted to see people, you had to get the hell out there and GO to parties and concerts and bars. And since you wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 02:37 AM
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My college roomie was with at least 100 women through our four years of college. Granted, there might have been a 3 or a 9 or a 6 on a given night, but he got plenty. I had about half of that, but I was more discriminating. This was in the 90s BTW. EDIT: Before some of y'all get mad and nuke me, I'm adding framework around the person I responded to. I enjoyed the experience, in a certain way, but I don't advocate having tons of partners for the reasons I had at the time. I was trying to put a ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 03:41 AM
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Understand that there's not some subtext to mine with everything we say. Say what you mean, mean what you say. edit: a word
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 01:10 AM
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To be perfectly blunt, when I was out of shape a great suit was THE equalizer. With those on, women were far more likely to approach me, since they inferred a certain level of status. You may already be in shape, I don't know. I'm far more confident and poised now, as well as in a shape that's magnitudes better. So while a suit still gets attention, letting them see more of me, along with the presence I've managed to develop, generates greater attention. Also, as I said elsewhere, being "accessi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:26 AM
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You girls love those foreams, haha. But make no mistake, I agree with you; you are 100% correct that a killer suit is a winner. I had a LOVELY Hugo Boss suit once upon a time... I loved it so much. That was when I was larger (not in a good way) and the materials were so choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 07:31 PM
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I spend time in the gym for sure. Having a strong, well-formed body is a major marker. And my ink is tasteful and well-executed. There's no doubt that my suits gets attention. And the ones I get are custom. I see an appreciable increase when I'm dressed down, and that's due to the fact that 1) you can clearly see I have the physique and 2) as I have been told many, many times, it makes me more "accessible". Just my experience, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 07:16 PM
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It's more about your presence than anything else, IMO. I also have a strong income, and enough "signs" that it exists, but it's more about how you carry yourself that gets the first notice. After that, you must listen, engage, and follow through to attract and retain quality partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 07:12 PM
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I pay a lot of attention to my clothing, but I actually get more positive female attention/approaches when I'm in a black tshirt with my sleeves showing than I do in my suits, and mine are fairly decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 07:09 PM
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I know you're being sarcastic, but I'm not doing anything unique or special. It's just a matter of making the decision to be better, and committing to such.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 10:35 PM
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When I was overweight I never had a problem with dating quality, attractive women. I developed all other areas of my personality, my intellect, and made a point to try new experiences in terms of culture and personal development. I listened, remembered what was important to them, and I followed through. They didn't care that I carried extra weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 10:14 PM
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Fucked a chick with a gymrat fiancé just a few days ago. This tells me that your friend is great with women of low character. That isn't impressive in the slightest, no matter how "hot" she is. Low-hanging fruit is rarely the true prize on the tree. To answer the question: If you are sharp, humorous, experienced culturally, you have a better chance with a quality woman than someone who just lives in the gym. Women are a little more forgiving of looks because society creates that pressure for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 04:28 PM
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My brother, you are wasting your breath. Some men don't understand that they need to 1) be masculine, decisive, and maintain transparency of self and standards while 2) handling the business of being a great partner with someone that shares similar interests/values. The ones who continue to overthink and placate and turn over the reins to everything will keep frustrating their partners and getting left/cheated on because they can't do the work of being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 10:58 PM
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Most definitely. Foreams, lips, shoulders, chest, the list goes on for what I have heard women compliment or desire in men. Even if you have a nice looking cock, with a bit of size, don't ever lead with that. EVER.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 01:56 AM
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Yeah those won't see so much as a sniff of review. There is a definite double standard.
/r/MensRights31/01/20 09:25 PM
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Answer: Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:20 PM
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Also accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 06:25 PM
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I thought you were leaving, salty and uninformed redditor!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:09 PM
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Or, I live in a state with lots of sunshine and loads of body-conscious people? Take off though, and don't forget your L.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:03 PM
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Dude. He's not natty by a country damned mile. No one thinks that, and if someone does? I've got some supps to sell them. You're conflating prep/comp conditions with dedicated fitness people; you don't have to do all that to look like this, period. I am sure some do, and they fuck up their health, but what the above takes is real work in a gym, some steady-state cardio, (not garbage like CrossFit where the only form around is the paperwork), and adherence to food plans. Maybe it's your location …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:48 PM
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Precisely the response from someone who has been proven wrong. The location of the venue has nothing to do with the competitors, LMAO. There are SO MANY people who have done this. Those of you who haven't even given the SLIGHTEST effort towards reaching these goals are the first ones to bitch, and say it's not possible, because then you have to face your excuses and weaknesses on why you look the way you do. Buh bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:28 PM
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More evidence that you don't have the first clue. 50+ is its own freaking category in bikini comp. Stop while you're behind. And of course it takes hard work, anything difficult or rare does. If you stop staring at your phone or watching two hours of Netflix every night, you can do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:20 PM
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Yeah, I go to a gym with about five hundred members, and I've been there for years. We have huge groups of couples work out together, take cruises together, etc. I'm sorry that you only have Bronies for friends. One of those girls cut water for one pic, the other two aren't REMOTELY CLOSE to show prep. Period. Insinuating otherwise shows that you have a superficial understanding at best of the sport. Keep being mad and lonely, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:17 PM
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You are right across the board. What he did was incredibly intense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:08 PM
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Exactly. You HAVE to work the abs to give them the shape and size, but your diet will reveal them. Otherwise diet alone will "show" some definition, but they won't have scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:06 PM
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Those girls aren't remotely in prep or show condition. Lol. Next. EDIT: Well maybe that one in particular. But women don't need 7% to look like that, they carry more fat %-wise and look KILLER with 13ish. Dieting down KILLS your gains. You have to eat to maintain muscle, because it is resource-heavy. You definitely don't know what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:04 PM
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It's training and diet, of course. I should have expanded on that (thought I did say smart eating). There's a reason I added the * for breasts. Some girls lose them pretty badly. People busier than me with less money work out just as much as I do. I've seem women who really turned around, and their bodies could not even get close to those, except maybe for those who started earlier in life (13-15 years old), used hard aesthetic surgery or worked particularly hard (like 8hrs per day hard). EDIT: …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:01 PM
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You can always tell people who are into the sport and who isn't. It takes serious discipline and effort to get to where dudes like Evans and Hemsworth are. You don't have to be a Hall or Levrone to have accomplished some serious work. Tossing out 10% BF like that isn't something you really have to focus on, especially after 30, lmao. Mkay. I'm super-curious as to what to sort of programming/macros OP adheres to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 08:51 PM
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It would be like a man asking for this kind of body. And lets be real, unless you are in the beauty business, or some extreme in your day to day, you'll never gonna get Tangent. No, your example easily within reach of most women (and men). Almost everyone can have a killer body. Source: former fatty. To expand on that, I could give you 30 names of RL female friends who look like this or this or this. A lot of us are former fattys who stopped making excuses and extra trips to the pantry for cooki…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 08:45 PM
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