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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Cold Approach is BrutalMost women aren't looking to sleep with someone who hits on 60-70 women per month. What are you bringing to the table? | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 08:33 PM |
| 6 | Do you guys lie to have sex? how do you handle the guilt?If you can only have sex by lying about who you are and what you want, you are a shitty person who will only hurt people while bringing nothing of value to their lives. Just break things off. You don't even have to tell her the truth, just don't go out again. | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 06:31 PM |
| 4 | I’m now starting to realize why you not text too long before meetingExactly. The key here is IF THEY'RE NOT EMOTIONALLY INVESTED. Women get so many matches, it's almost like you're not even a real person if you haven't met in real life yet. You're just words on a screen like every other guy who is messaging her. There's no attachment to that whatsoever. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 03:20 AM |
| 8 | Am I delusional for thinking i can score hot women despite being short, skinny, mediocre job. Should i settle?What is considered settling? Settling is what a hot woman does to date a 5'6 below average looking audit associate. If you're only considering "hot" to be their looks, don't expect the woman to focus on anything beyond superficial qualities either. From your own description, it doesn't sound like you're bringing much to the table to attract a beautiful, but superficial women. You obviously don't want someone smart or professionally successful, just someone good looking enough to boost your self … | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 05:23 PM |
| 3 | why do women share their nudes knowing 99% that it will be shared. what is the psychology behind thisThey didn't expect you to share them. Just like you wouldn't expect someone to publicize a private message. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Effects of Porn and Masturbation on Approaching Girls. Thoughts?Unexpectedly wholesome post! I don't know about approaching girls, but cutting off porn will definitely help you perform when you actually get a girl. Porn is a big reason so many men have erectile dysfunction even at young ages. Seeing an attractive person naked is no longer stimulating if you're used to constantly seeing videos of women with fake bodies being degraded or behaving as though they love blow jobs like they're candy. And cutting porn out of your life will make you more in touch wit… | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 04:15 PM |
| 11 | How do I stop girls from assuming I'm just a player?Yes, more info. It sounds like something about your approach is making them think you're not a serious guy. You said you get numbers, what are you saying when you text them? Or if you ask them out in person, what are you asking? Are you making small talk or doing anything to get to know them at all before asking for numbers? It would be good to establish rapport or some things you have in common first before asking for a number. If they think you're asking them out ONLY for their looks, and they… | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 12:45 AM |
| 83 | How do I stop girls from assuming I'm just a player?This is what a player would say to many women. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 12:41 AM |
| 6 | Trying to flirt with a escortWhy are so many r/seduction posts about trying to find out if you can be in a relationship with someone you pay for sexual services? What is there to seduce? You already pay her for sex. Are you trying to get sex for free? Convince her to quit her job to see you exclusively and lose her income? What do you even want out of this? | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Camgirl wants to meet upThat men are talked about as humans with wants and needs and feelings, and that women are talked about effectively as holes. Talk of body counts and how to get laid, rather than how to actually be a good partner or person who can make a woman happy in a mutually beneficial relationship. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 10:06 PM |
| 2 | My curse is that I love women too much - how to manage?Well, being honest with yourself is a good first step. It sounds like you're writing this post because you realize this type of lifestyle is somehow not satisfying for you, or at least not consistent with who you want to be in the long term. | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 12:56 AM |
| 4 | My curse is that I love women too much - how to manage?It doesn't sound like you love or even like women very much. It sounds like you just like sex and attention and are really into yourself. The only quality you even mention that you enjoy about women is that they're beautiful. And yet you have a list of eight bullet points about why you think you're so great. Do you treat women as individual human beings with their own wants and needs? Do you treat anyone this way? Do you care about these people and their lives? Or is it just about them fulfillin… | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 02:53 AM |
| 62 | Women who implement FDS are "groomed, hot, successful, with standards", says FDS-hating manWhy do so many guys say FDS is the equivalent of incels or PUAs? Seems to me that FDS philosophy is that it's better to be single than to lower your standards, and we're certainly not trying to trick anyone into sleeping with us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 02:16 AM |
| 7 | Why he will punish you for giving him second chancesThey love taking us out to sea where there are no rules. I have literally had men propose first dates at sea and then get offended when I said I didn't feel safe doing that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 01:55 AM |
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