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futianze/r/askTRP27/07/16 09:04 PM
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Good on you to admit it and be honest with yourself, yeah that’s an issue, and sounds like just general incompatibility between you and her. It should just flow naturally. It’s also the dynamic leading up to it, preheating the oven so to speak. Also the faces and noises you make, things you say, etc. If she doesn’t think you’re dominant in all aspects of your life, that will also bleed into the bedroom
/r/seduction19/06/26 05:12 PM
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Ok. Well I will say it’s also how you do it like was it natural or did it feel forced
/r/seduction19/06/26 05:01 PM
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It could be something as simple as grabbing her hands and holding them behind her back while you’re in prone. Or grabbing a fist full of her hair (near the scalp) and pulling it back. Or choking her. Or putting fingers in her mouth. Or biting her neck. Or spanking her ass red. Or pushing her onto the bed to make her feel wanted. There’s so many variations of aggressive sex and the fact you think it is just thrusting hard like a robot tells me that yes the sex was bad lol. There’s a lot of books,…
/r/seduction19/06/26 04:14 PM
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Low effort post man. There's a multitude of reasons why you might not be getting laid even though you have a prime funnel to do so. You need to provide specific details from your experiences talking with these women. That's the problem guys have with seduction, it is such a varying attraction matrix for every girl but I promise you every single girl's matrix overlaps in ways with all the others. I reiterate for you to provide specific examples of your interactions, identify where in conversation…
/r/seduction02/06/26 11:58 PM
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he's 24 you're acting like these girls are 40 and mature. I agree to talk with the girls about stuff other than music though, after talking with them and seeing what they're interested in.
/r/seduction02/06/26 10:38 PM
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brother he is 24 yo and in a band there is a plethora of young women who are fine having a ONS with him. Literally do the concert, go the the after party, then the after afters, bang.
/r/seduction02/06/26 10:37 PM
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I was in a similar situation as you a couple of years ago at age 27. Had the same kind of realization. Similar lay levels, had been in a couple of LTRs that fizzled out, didn't having the financial savings I thought I would. You know what to do, you're just waiting for someone to hold your hand and light a fire under your ass. But it ain't coming and only you can change your energy. You can hear so many platitudes and internalize them but the only thing that truly matters is action. If you don't…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/22 02:45 AM
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There’s a lot of layers of course high n count, goes without explaining hiding her phone from your view new random repetitive vocabulary or hobbies, potentially some that she told you she would never do. Majority of (definitely not all) girls get their vernacular and hobbies from their father or the boys in their lives. girls night out on a regular basis. At my age 27 I’d expect girls to do dinner dates, watch a show together, or do some hobby together. Consistent bar scene from a LTR is a red f…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 02:41 AM
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I’m currently in this situation as an affair partner so I’ll give some details. I’m 27, short, handsome, funny, have my shit together and my apartment isn’t just a couch coffee table tv Xbox and plastic forks. I would say my status among my friends and wider circle is one of respect and people like to follow my lead but not necessarily admit it. I have ok game, I’d honestly like to improve, but if I’m in a situation where I’m in a room with 4 girls I’ve never met, I wouldn’t be fight or flight u…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/22 10:46 PM
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Your sex drive probably falls out cuz of a lack of semen retention. The notion that guys need to jizz every sexual interaction is pretty damn stupid when you factor in the loss of energy from ejaculating. It takes a shit ton of blood and energy to create new sperm. That shit ain't free.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 05:31 PM
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Yeah that is some bad advice on the surface, but it does have some merit. If you're going to be at a job for 8-10 hours a day, that's a considerable amount of energy day in and day out. And if your heart isn't in it, it's very easy for career anxieties and depression to set in. There's a lot of ways to make good money. I live in the midwest, so cost of living might vary, but I would rather make $50k vs $75k if it meant I have more work-life harmony. I say harmony because balance is overused. Lif…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 03:12 PM
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You are aware of your shitty thoughts. You also need to be aware of how you project these shitty thoughts through your personality with other people. Are you actually interested in IT and programming? Or are you just envious of some of your peers? What is the true source of your behavior/anxieties/depression? If it's height, it's out of your control, unless you want to fork over $100-200k to get your legs broken and extended. Personally, I think 5'4 is ok if you build some broad ass shoulders an…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 02:55 PM
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Ya I mean you can’t read too far into it, and need to establish the proper physical, mental, and monetary economics as you know. I find that when I am monetarily stressed, my physical and mental stresses get backlogged and any woman I’m with at that moment, her personal problems are added to my backlog. So I try to stay monetarily advantageous cuz my confidence for all other areas like the physical and mental are more pronounced, and I’m able to have the abundance mentality necessary in every in…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/20 02:13 AM
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So the new friends (Chad and Alex J) were passing around the wife while simultaneously giving you compliments/basically lying straight to your face? Damn.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/20 02:57 PM
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For your financial situation, it would be best to discuss this on the personalfinance or financialindependence subreddits. TRP can help you become a man. Those can especially help with finances. Try to find information for free.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 02:04 PM
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Focus on other shit in your life. If she cheats, she cheats. Start creating more abundance in your life because it seems like there isn't enough atm. I respect your post as you are trying to learn, but stop worrying. You're feeding her exactly what she wants. Give her something equivalent to worry about. Somewhere down the line, casually mention going out for drinks with her work friends. See how she responds to that suggestion. If it's like, "Oh, [Dude] isn't going to be there so I don't want t…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 04:09 PM
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Ya I hope more people see your comment and my story. Thailand is a crazy place with near perfect branding as a tropical international tourism hotspot where the unwritten rule is savage partying and sexcapades (islands especially), although there are some downsides to that like human trafficking.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 08:04 PM
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I stayed in Koh Samui at a party hostel like that 2 years ago. Got laid at least once a day on that island. My favorite example was our last day on Koh Samui, my group started drinking at the bar at 11am and 2 hours later I had a sexy Norwegian sucking me off in my room. She had friends, I had friends, everyone hooked up. Worst part is, her dad had a mansion on the island and she and her friends were staying there for a week. That was our last day tho so we went for the night which was a literal…
/r/askTRP20/11/19 07:33 PM
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Lmao incredible troll brother
/r/askTRP01/11/19 04:14 PM
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Why would you purposefully create the perception that your anus is getting fondled and yoked
/r/askTRP01/11/19 04:11 PM
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No. Unless you want someone balls deep poking around in your anus. You have or should have your bros regardless lol. Just stay single.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 03:36 PM
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Never been an issue. I’m handsome fo sho tho, and girls tell me I’m hot as fuck. It’d definitely be easier if I were taller tho and I’ve had multiple girls just be like “ugh I wish you were taller” only to straight up tell them “ABC I’ll still make you cum faster than you can’t say don’t stop” with a smirk. Then I can visibly see their panties start to drip at the confidence and proceed to bag them. Height isn’t something I can control and luckily I had a father that instilled great confidence i…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 01:34 AM
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I've found that women like when I'm a mix of stuffed and lean. I feel best when I'm lean. So I mostly go for about a 70-30 lean/stuffed. You can see my abs and veins. I'm 5'7 so me being stuffed makes me look like a bowling ball. Just do what you feel and don't worry too much about what women are thinking. The aesthetics get you through the door but they'll vibe with how you feel more.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 07:55 PM
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That's a great self-reflective line of thinking. You literally need more human connection in your life. Talk with (with, not to) everyone! And don't have a preconceived outcome ready.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 07:04 PM
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I want you to expand on this, because it seems like there's a lot of meat here. Why live with 3 women if you're just avoiding them all the time? What type of energy are you putting out in the world? When you enter a coffee shop, when you go to the grocery store, when you enter the room with the 3 females? People can sense when you try to avoid them, and they usually don't have a warm response. Answer this honestly: Why do you avoid them? What goes through your mind and how are you thinking about…
/r/askTRP15/10/19 06:41 PM
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Sounds like you are becoming self-aware. Enjoy your 30s brother.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 08:21 PM
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There's so much that goes into having a good night's sleep. I'm sure I'll miss some but here's what I try to focus on: getting shit done during the day. Mentally, I work in a stimulating field that challenges me nearly everyday. If it doesn't, I will seek out challenges. Physically, I exhaust myself nearly everyday by working out, doing cardio, and going for a 15 min walk each day. make sure I am in a cool dark place. 66 degrees and pitch black is perfect for me. In this case, sometimes I'll fal…
/r/askMRP01/08/19 03:47 PM
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How old are you?
/r/askTRP31/07/19 08:49 PM
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I had the same thinking years ago and got burned from exactly that. I can remember times I would be with a girl for a few months and be thinking more than I'd like to admit, literally while having a conversation with them, that they would kick me in the balls later on, instead of just enjoying myself and her. Frame is everything. Frame your thinking for enjoyment, creating value, and love.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:40 PM
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Your thinking that women will never love you and that any connection will always fizzle out is depressing af man. It's just not true. Reread your post from a different perspective and ask if the person that posted it would, in their current state, be capable of being in a loving relationship. I've experienced real love (what I think to be love, it's not the fairy tale bs, but close, a genuine, affectionate, passionate love for each other in a solid state of polarity between masculine and feminin…
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:26 PM
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Wash your fucking body. A lot. Do you wash your back or chest? Or do you sit around in your sweat?
/r/askTRP24/07/19 12:49 AM
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TRP is about driving men to realize their highest potential sexual value in the market. At its core, it is men becoming attractive to women, but it doesn't discriminate. There was an old post on here from a 100% gay dude who acts and behaves like a woman and found that he's most attracted to guys who are RP, which further validates TRP.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 09:16 PM
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Honestly though, what are good responses to that?
/r/askTRP08/07/19 12:00 PM
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Yeah that’s a totally reasonable stance that I’ve thought about before. I mostly let stuff like this fall off my skin like it’s nothing. I am aware that this could be annoying going further and might resemble some disrespect. But like I said, I’ve upped my game recently. I hit a trough about 2 months ago due to quitting my job, starting a business, and a close relative’s passing. Bouncing back better.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 10:02 PM
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Doesn’t matter if you’re intelligent you sound like a fuckin prick man
/r/askTRP26/06/19 01:08 AM
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He’s right, by saying that you made her feel like she owes you something. It doesn’t seem like she likes you bro. You guys haven’t kissed and she literally said you’re doing too much. Which you are. I don’t think this one is salvageable or if it’s worth it.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 01:43 AM
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In my book, it’s all percentages. Based on your 9.5, it means that 5% of women are hotter than Adriana Lima, which just isn’t the case.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 09:44 PM
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Not at all. Check out Lambda School. They offer full-time tracks that you could finish in 6-9 months and part-time tracks that you could finish in a year, and their students graduate with skill levels on par with top universities. Think about it. You could be a master in 5 years. The only question after that is what will you create...?
/r/askTRP09/04/19 01:20 PM
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Overeating is one of the biggest problems. You probably eat way too much all the time, with stress eating and the fact that food is fucking delicious. It's a simple switch though. Check yourself every time you have temptation and eat way less than you are right now
/r/askTRP08/04/19 12:24 AM
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Wow, she really didn't log herself out. I'd leave her account logged in and just check in on the messages periodically. You're already suspicious. She could give you cold hard evidence without even realizing it, and this eliminates any need to bring it up. At the same time, it looks like she's doing her job by supposedly not agreeing to meet up. For a real test, go visit a friend out of town and see what happens.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 08:23 PM
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Women do wear heels to filter out their preferences for height. I'm not sure it's the primary reason though. The average height difference in relationships is ~5 inches, so heels sometimes are a good proxy for that. Women love to feel empowered. Women's legs absolutely look better in heels. Their muscles are more toned, the ass is more pronounced, and the legs look longer. Women who aren't fat love to show off their long legs.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 08:16 PM
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This is true, it's a major worldwide problem. I recommend the book Why We Sleep by Matthew Walker to anyone looking to gain knowledge about the science of sleep. It's worrying that as a society, we partially neglect and don't fully respect 1/3 of our lives that we are naturally programmed to shut down and go to sleep. After reading that book, it should be a matter of national security that so many millions of people walk around sleep deprived every single day. The sheer amount of deleterious eff…
/r/askTRP25/03/19 05:08 PM
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Just chill the fuck out man. You're 19. You're placing validation on women seeking you out. As others have said though, you're not in a place where women are. Be patient. Go out and experiment. Fail. Lose. Look at Lambda School for coding - much better than college.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 05:01 PM
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If you're actually committed to coding, look up Lambda School. Bar none probably the best coding bootcamp out there. Everything is taught online. You can defer to pay tuition until after you finish, which flips the incentive towards Lambda actually giving a shit about you and making sure you understand the material. It's 17% of your salary for 2 years, capped at $30k, or you can pay $20k up front. They have full-time and part-time of nearly every CS discipline out there. Full-time takes 6-9 mont…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 04:14 PM
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When is this trip? If you come off as unexcited for her trip then she’ll probably assume that it’s because you’re insecure or jealous. They can pick up on that shit super easily, it will be written all over your face. Hold your frame when talking about the trip. You have to give her something that she’ll be excited about to come home to. In the meantime, use those 3 weeks to learn a new skill, broaden your social network, and get 3 weeks closer to where you want to be physically. Other than that…
/r/askTRP17/03/19 08:15 PM
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Picasso was 5'4, Bruno Mars is 5'4, Kevin Hart is 5'4
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 02:16 PM
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Sex can and should be negotiated if it’s in a playful manner, there’s layers to it. If he plays it off with the right tone, saying, “I didn’t invite you in to have you do your hw. You know that. there’s compensation to be paid for this...” In this instance, the sex wouldn’t be transactional, it would rather be validational, because he passes the shit test playfully and knows why she came in to his crib.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 01:19 PM
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Lol she’s not a pothead man
/r/askTRP05/03/19 09:47 PM
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Sit down and write out a list of events or organizations where you can practice your social skills. Could be anything from Toastmasters to yoga class or volunteering at a hospital.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:48 PM
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ya some girls won't initiate. as long as she isn't consistently denying. which doesn't appear to be the case
/r/askTRP18/02/19 06:35 PM
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Business and sport. Eliminate bad influences in your life Not being in the band will allow, ironically, for more time to practice guitar by yourself. You can find people to play with all the time or join a band later If you see the people that are playing ultimate frisbee as a value-add now and later in your life, stay with that. Relationships built to last will pay off in countless ways. Plus you need to exercise. If you want to be an entrepreneur, continue with the business. The best business …
/r/askTRP15/11/18 12:03 AM
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Awesome. Congrats on making the move, you won't regret it. You'll have so many stories to tell back home too. Do all the things we advocate before you move. You should get as jacked as possible. You should get 8 hours of sleep. You should eat well. You should meditate. Read. Get new hobbies. Have good hygiene. Groom well, have a good cologne, take care of your skin, teeth, etc. I know this is a shitty stereotype but if you have shitty teeth look into getting invisalign or something similar. Teet…
/r/askTRP13/08/18 03:38 PM
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JFC dude, girls can be social and have guy friends. OP, maintain frame, don't indulge too hard, but if you notice it continues or her behavior changes, then find a way to look more into it.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 03:06 PM
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Where in the US? (you could give a region — PNW, Midwest, West Coast, South, Texas, New England, etc and that would help us out a ton)
/r/askTRP13/08/18 03:00 PM
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I had a fuckton of high school sex. I became kinda beta and and didn't fuck as much in college. Back to fucking a fuckton. Sometimes it ebbs and flows given your life's circumstances. Just look forward and focus on making it all flow.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 02:53 PM
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Why have you been in a relationship for 3 months with no sex? This should be the honeymoon phase where you can fuck her in the ass and then finish down her throat. Genuinely ask yourself this. What about her makes you stay? Or, more importantly, what about yourself is keeping you tied down like this?
/r/askTRP02/08/18 06:44 PM
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Take it easy. You're overthinking way too much. You haven't passed her comfort tests because she knows you won't commit. You also tried to bang one of her friends lol. She'll naturally look for other options.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 06:37 PM
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interesting. may i ask what you do for your job?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 04:57 PM
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can you give more concrete examples of your intermittent reinforcement?
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 06:18 PM
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I understand where you're coming from, would you say that if he included my notes/thoughts on the theory in his original post that it would have been a better post? I'd say so. I think it's a good FR regardless because what he says in his post confirms the RP theories through his actions and it was a foundation for his success.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 05:10 PM
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Started lifting and learning the game muscles give the tingles She wanted to do it Wednesday. I had work all week but instead of justifying I told her I was busy and I'm free Sunday lunch and she agreed. abundance mentality, he's busy and has options and doesn't jump on the first open opportunity. he shows his availability and compromises. She gets there a little earlier. The place is about half a mile from my place. I just walked there for brisk energy. he's not a nice guy nervously getting the…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 04:37 PM
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it's a field report. he's showing how he successfully gamed and fucked a girl. also might give confidence to shorter guys out there that tingles all stem from how you make them feel.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 04:14 PM
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may i ask how you got such an advancement in salary? I'm 23 and in a similar boat trying to build that path as well.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 01:55 PM
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I wouldn’t have the expectation that the offer will still be there in the future. You should plan on building out your own future still. 2-3 years goes by fast, though so much can change. Keep talking with those people about it because it will give you more context and content in your relationships with them and it could increase the likelihood it happens.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 12:41 PM
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Sometimes the truth will set you free!
/r/askTRP07/07/18 03:13 AM
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don't be too agreeable though, it could backfire as people can tell when you aren't being genuine with your principles.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 04:19 PM
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Yes. Sedentary lifestyles are linked with high cortisol secretion. Supplement with zinc if you have a job where you sit on your ass for 8 hours a day. It certainly helped me.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 02:40 PM
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What type of stuff would you say falls under the "You get there by doing shit others fear doing" ? Curious as an early 20s lad.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 03:59 PM
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so where did you live in the meantime between going to 3 places are meeting the people there?
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:25 PM
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Tips for becoming a good programmer? I'm sure when you were fat and poor you weren't a good programmer
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 01:59 PM
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You answered your own question
/r/askTRP26/04/18 07:44 PM
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This is so true. I've been working on my neck for the past 6 months. My neck looks like a lean tree trunk right now. Girls love it too, in conversation and in the sack. I've noticed girls blatantly staring at my neck while talking and girls have been kissing/licking/lite biting my neck more and more in the sack.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 08:39 PM
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So can you explain why being bisexual is a defect?
/r/askTRP19/04/18 04:38 PM
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Oh I agree. Our culture enables that
/r/askTRP19/04/18 04:24 PM
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Wtf mate
/r/askTRP19/04/18 04:19 PM
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yeah but he also said offer 2 has lots of room for growth
/r/askTRP18/04/18 03:52 PM
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You really don't need to qualify yourself with a humble brag (I'm sure you got a nice ego stroke typing out "N-count at 26"). He's right though: girls do become more intrigued with a mysterious guy who is always busy or has something better to do than text with a girl. OP, If you're looking for theory clarification - read the sidebar. It's always said around here - for a reason. I had a similar question not long ago. If you need more clarification, google it. There was a recently a good post on …
/r/askTRP11/04/18 08:18 PM
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"Ok, take care" if anything lol
/r/askTRP11/04/18 06:32 PM
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at most she is just playing with the fact you directed her to do something like a literal boss would. don't overthink it man
/r/askTRP04/04/18 07:44 PM
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there's a lot to unwind with that question, and others are more apt to answer, but personally, whenever I find myself thinking I'm hot shit I lose my cool, it's noticeable, and I can't be the competent captain of my ship going through the storm. i'll find myself slacking in the discipline department, make silly mistakes, forget things easier, can't connect dots the same, I'll defend myself in conversations when nobody was attacking, and it shows that I'm insecure about something. having a big eg…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 02:05 PM
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jfc man chill with the defense of your ego
/r/askTRP30/03/18 01:54 PM
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Curious because as an American I am interested in doing something similar. Mind if I pm you with some Q's?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 01:24 PM
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no lmao he was kidding
/r/askTRP23/03/18 08:17 PM
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you're moving the ball forward. good mindset to have. some girls have different buttons that need pushed. a rule of thumb i've learned is that if she's at your place after a date, she either is down or is down in the near future, just gotta figure out which it is. don't overthink! you'll overwhelm yourself. can't be thinking all the time about hand placement, which show to watch, what to say, how to say it, etc.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 07:52 PM
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so she was in your place and you guys smoked and were watching Netlfix. that means she was interested. were you nervous? or terrible body language? were you guys sitting on the same couch? any kisses? it seems like it was there, maybe try just being more direct. at that point and she's over, and sex/bodily contact somehow don't come up in the conversation, you're allowed to be more direct in my experience. I've spilled my interest and intention out so many times just looking into their eyes and …
/r/askTRP21/03/18 07:42 PM
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Are you blatantly asking for their number? I like either asking for snapchat, relating a date to one of their pics or something in their profile, or flipping the script and giving them my number - telling them "I'd like to get a drink (or activity) at (location,date) here's my number (X)" or something of that nature.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 05:51 PM
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I'd take a cold hard look at your photos. I had some pictures that were low quality and didn't display the type of emotional connection that girls want. So I found pictures of me that were taken with a DSLR and put those up on my profile. There's a big difference even if they are the same photos - it shows you care about quality and don't half ass shit. So that would be my first recommendation, to put up high res photos. Start from there, and accept that some girls are there just for pure valida…
/r/askTRP13/03/18 03:45 PM
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Stop comparing yourself to others. Immediately start sending out job applications, boost your resume with certs or something that looks like you're willing to make an effort (CPR cert for example). Have a pdf of your resume on your phone so you can quickly send out apps on the go on something like Glassdoor. Go to any interview you get to polish up social skills. Go to meetup.com an join some clubs (salsa dancing, martial arts, cooking BBQ). By little life experiences, do you mean something like…
/r/askTRP09/01/18 08:57 PM
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I’d follow 5th year on instagram to get a little bit of a taste of some of the crazier shit that happens in college, but for plot lines, not like movies.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 04:49 PM
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I’d say around 26-30 it becomes more of a determinant. Not THE determinant though. As others have said, a lot of it is about security and looking like you’re healthy, wealthy, and fun. Girls need the 3 C’s : Comfort, Cock, and Cash. Sure, she might be dating some real estate developer with a comfortable downtown loft who’s raking in $200k a year, but she might meet some dude who can tickle the ivory and plays at local taverns. Here she’ll go for the fun side of things, the cock.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 02:08 PM
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Please do update us on your situation. You could also try to ease any potential anxiety you have that can be robbing you of the moment by meditating. If you haven't yet, check out the r/nootropics sub.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 03:38 AM
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Like Pitchfork said, start talking to older guys - not limited to HS, talk to your parents' friends too - they've been in your position before and then a lot more. When drinking, use charcoal pills. Essentially, charcoal is used in water filters... the charcoal molecules attract the toxins and the water filters out. Same thing happens in your body. Also, don't smoke a lot of weed. Smoke a little here and there.
/r/askTRP22/07/17 06:00 PM
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What do you do if you don't mind me asking?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 04:12 AM
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Chill the fuck out dawg you are overthinking this. Relax and realize that you have your best years ahead of you. Don't think about petty bullshit like "omg is I top 20 ?!?" Focus on hobbies, lifting, staying healthy, getting good grades so you go to a good school, and connecting with people.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 11:22 PM
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Realize the amount of time spent on video games. Don't fret about the past. Channel exercising into the future time that you would've used to play games. You could even make games out of lifting, such as upping your score each time you hit the gym. Do NOT run or jog just yet. You will kill your knees at your weight. I'd say walking for at least an hour a day should be priority number 1. Clears the head, soothes the soul, and burns calories.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 12:19 AM
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Cool stuff. I'd watch the oneitis with the 18yo, you're saying shit like "I can't find anyone hotter." Also, more importantly, probably should protect your brain if you plan on going to med school lmao.. maybe consider not fighting but sparring idk.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 02:36 PM
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Getting women is a lagging variable to success. I saw that earlier on here and wanted to spread it. I've seen it in my own life too. When I got sloppy with my physical health, women slowly exited my life. Now, I've been lifting and getting back into peak shape like I was 2 years ago, and I have several plates spinning.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 09:14 PM
1

She was wondering where the good places are to eat? Sounds like she wants you to insert the pipe.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 03:43 AM
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Came here to say this... I am reading Emotional Intelligence right now and the book has enlightened me on so many things.
/r/askTRP15/03/17 11:44 PM
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Either brilliant, or your friends aren't smart enough to ask to meet the landlord. Or both.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 11:13 PM
2

Congrats! You've reached the "unlocked" phase. Picture your life like a video game... You've just unlocked what could be called "unlimited women" and this is very lucrative. Once this is achieved, you can focus on other things, like going to the gym more often as you said. Focus more on your career. Learn a new language. Travel. Read. Learn to play an instrument. Learn carpentry. Learn how to dance. Etc. At the same time, don't lose your involuntarily lose touch with women. This is the point whe…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 01:19 PM
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You shouldn't be spending 2 & 1/2 hrs in the gym. That's an additional 2-3 hrs added to the flex each week
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:50 PM
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Definitely.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 01:49 PM
1

Are you following a certain program?
/r/askTRP05/01/17 06:38 AM
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That's awesome. What made you want to do that/how old are you? I'm about to graduate and I'm considering doing something like this.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 03:27 AM
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Might still be too young to start lifting. Pick up some unique hobbies, such as learning a language, learning how to invest money, learning how to program, etc. Most of your friends won't give a damn about this, and it will put you ahead. Likewise, read often. Spend more time with adults and try to earn the respect of people older and wiser than you, it will pay off in the long run. As an anecdote, I smoked a lot of weed in high school, and it definitely hindered my motivation and probably dinge…
/r/askTRP08/12/16 09:45 PM
1

I'm drawing comparisons with young Bobby Boucher from the Waterboy lmao
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 12:42 AM
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Aye Columbus! Go Bucks. 12th and High is always busy, what a great spot for this.
/r/seduction02/11/16 03:38 AM
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Ah, just from the "wtf" I thought you were denying. I've just been reading recently that everything is accelerating. Considering population growth projections, if places like Africa and India don't apply renewable energy to fuel their growth, we're probably fucked, and will start to experience massive refugee crises and resource shortages by that time.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 11:36 AM
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What are you basing that on?
/r/askTRP31/10/16 11:06 PM
1

True. Just was thinking that if I was truly unplugged, I'd be recycling, changing my diet, not consuming as much, etc. Which I am steering toward, as I know that the most Redpill thing out there is to make our Earth habitable so everyone can thrive.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 09:27 PM
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Too many to list man... If you are a climate change denier today it's essentially the same as being a creationist or thinking the Sun orbits the Earth when those debates were relevant.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 09:26 PM
1

I wish there were a book about Sidney Weinberg. He is the quintessential rags to riches story... Starting at Goldman Sachs as a janitor's assistant to becoming the CEO and saving the firm from bankruptcy in 1930 and leading the company until his death in 1969.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 07:59 PM
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I'd say so. We see it in men as well. Although, if you are fat as a child and remain fat for a significant amount of time growing up, the effects of all that extra weight can become irreversible... Anything from hair thinning to looking older than they should be. Brains of overweight people age an extra 10 years compared to lean peers. All other organs are impacted as well. So I think it depends numerous variables such as how fat they are, the total time duration of them being fat, etc. I would …
/r/askTRP14/08/16 07:29 PM
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Yep, start lifting 3-5x a week. What are you interested in? Based on your information, I know that you are 18, skinny, and have a girlfriend. Cook her dinner. Go on inexpensive dates. Learn a new language. Become financially literate - read about investing and how to build wealth. Money isn't everything, but having no money sure is. Etc. Internet is your best resource for these as I'm sure you know.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 07:08 PM
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Take some melatonin or find other ways to fall asleep. Long term mental health is far more important than your current physical appearance.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 10:51 PM
1

I try to break up what everyone says into different threads of potential conversations. For example: A girl says: "I took Spanish last semester." Questions I immediately start thinking about: Is she a Spanish major, was it for a gen ed requirement, does she ever want to study abroad, has she ever been to a Spanish speaking country... Etc, and then guide the conversation towards what you would like to talk about. Or, don't ask a question, maybe say something in Spanish if you know how to speak it…
/r/askTRP15/06/16 02:06 AM
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Oh awesome. Great explanation. Thanks
/r/askTRP22/05/16 03:36 PM
4

What do you mean by 14" - 16" drop? In waist size?
/r/askTRP22/05/16 03:16 PM
1

You're probably right lol
/r/askTRP21/05/16 08:24 PM
1

Ya ik, I'm just interested in seeing how other people would start the conversation. Recently got her number from a mutual friend.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 08:20 PM
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Look especially into meditation or talking to a therapist. I know it is easier said than done and you've heard it all before, but there is a reason why people say it. You could be depressed and it will impact the entirety of your life.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 01:49 AM
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I'm assuming you're in the US, and I'm going to advise about the long-term. Your long-term goals should consist into getting into a good college. This means priority 1 should be grades. After that, it's the extracurriculars. A friend of mine started a 'thon' at our high school (cancer fundraiser), become a student mentor, play sports, get a job... find ways to bolster your résumé. During your sophomore year, take 2 AP classes, be absolutely sure to pass the tests at the end of the year. Then jun…
/r/askTRP22/04/16 03:37 AM
1

It says she wants spousal fees and attorney fees. Although there is no mention of a prenup in the divorce filing, what are the odds she actually goes after assets/shares?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 05:39 PM
0

Get a Tesla Model S. Well within your reach. It is the best car ever made on multiple fronts.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 01:42 PM
2

Damn that's cool
/r/askTRP20/03/16 06:33 PM
1

The mindset that "if I don't pull, I'm still blue" is impeding your progress. You don't need to pull every time you go out with friends. Just focus on advancing yourself and having fun. Those girls were clearly flirting with you, and now you know for the next time.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 03:57 AM
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GOD DAMN THIS SHIT GOT ME AMPED
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 06:16 AM
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How did you initially approach her? I've been struggling trying to find that IDGAF attitude
/r/seduction12/03/15 06:15 AM
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