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futterbucks/r/askMRP03/05/17 04:22 PM
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This is exactly where I'm headed to -- partly thanks to the feedback I've been getting here. Things are already much clearer today. Thank you for that.
/r/askMRP04/05/17 02:53 PM
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Not asking for anyone to help justify anything. Simply want external input. Nothing more, nothing less. And your post helps, even if it wasn't intended to.
/r/askMRP04/05/17 02:48 PM
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Solid advices. Thank you.
/r/askMRP04/05/17 12:01 PM
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I want a reaction. Anything. Leading is hard, no doubt, but I did it so far and can keep on doing it. I'm a rather controlling person and I guess I'm taken aback by the fact I basically now have two kids to take care of. I would do anything for my daughter. Not so much for my wife.
/r/askMRP04/05/17 12:18 AM
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Uh, let's say I'm apparently attractive enough. Often had offers from random chicks (even before dread) but never acted on it because I wasn't ready/didn't feel it would be right/was too afraid to act.
/r/askMRP03/05/17 10:17 PM
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CAD is somewhat impressive, but not my style. I would rather get a divorce. Being upfront seems like a better option to me.
/r/askMRP03/05/17 09:59 PM
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Partly because I've worked on myself, partly because I started to detach myself from my marriage.
/r/askMRP03/05/17 09:56 PM
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About everything. Sex is only part of the equation.
/r/askMRP03/05/17 09:55 PM
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Oh I can read her perfectly. Issue is more about me wanting more feedback from her and not getting it (and being a crybaby). Also, built-up frustration leading me to considering fucking around. Pretty typical married man crisis.
/r/askMRP03/05/17 08:53 PM
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I like to keep to myself but am not shy or unable to interact at all. She definitely is though. And also having a lot of trouble reading other people's expressions etc. On the very low spectrum of autism, but on the spectrum nonetheless. Being open has always been my go-to (apart from this particular topic, obviously) -- and yeah, your "nice guy" part is right on. Problem is, I'm having issues keeping up with this dynamic, as u/westernhagen correctly pointed out. This is on me and I need to work…
/r/askMRP03/05/17 08:23 PM
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Yep, already did. Both posts were enlightening. Thanks!
/r/askMRP03/05/17 07:16 PM
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It was just in jest. Not rushing things out, and certainly not taking a decision now.
/r/askMRP03/05/17 07:13 PM
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I'm honored. And sow these oats I might.
/r/askMRP03/05/17 07:07 PM
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OK, I have to say I laughed. You make good points all around. I actually do have a kid. I simply believed being married meant having someone to help you out when needed. I'm still trying to work this out. And you're right about leading, I have to own up to it. As for your last sentence, no, this is not my point. I'm thinking about getting easy pussy outside marriage because now I can. The situation with my wife is an enabler, though.
/r/askMRP03/05/17 07:00 PM
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Cause I'm hamstering like a bitch? Yeah, might be. Working on it.
/r/askMRP03/05/17 06:01 PM
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Initiating convos on serious issues -- finding a house, deciding which school to put our kid in, how to improve our sex life, stay fit, this kind of things. Most of the time, it leads to me taking decisions, and sometimes dealing with the fallout when I make bad choices. It can go from choosing what to eat to having kinkier sex. Leading is nice and all, but it's tiring, especially when the person on the other side is indecisive at best/frightened by what could happen at worst. She truly can't he…
/r/askMRP03/05/17 05:57 PM
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Thanks bro, appreciate it!
/r/askMRP03/05/17 05:37 PM
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Nah, definitely not looking for a full-blown affair. ONS would be just fine. Not looking into making this a habit either. At least that's what I tell myself now. Again, I'm pretty sure it would only be to seek validation at this point, hence the hamstering. EDIT: added sentence
/r/askMRP03/05/17 05:24 PM
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THAT is what I needed to hear. Thanks man. More difficult in real life than in theory (especially with a kid), but definitely makes sense.
/r/askMRP03/05/17 05:07 PM
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Yeah, that's the part that scares me the most I guess. Guilt I could live with. My decision, my problem to deal with. Bitterness less so. Always easy to make the choice and enjoy the fun, way harder to handle the psychological consequences.
/r/askMRP03/05/17 05:00 PM
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I should have been more precise, it's true. I'm essentially a little lost and looking for some guidance on what to do next. Not looking for approval on how it's OK to cheat -- it's not, at least not in my case -- this I know already. As for my wife's issues with communication, they're another problem entirely that unfortunately doesn't really depend on me.
/r/askMRP03/05/17 04:43 PM
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