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Discussionfutureruins/r/MensRights07/09/14 02:46 AM
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5

Nah it takes more than this to hurt my feelings but thanks for playing.
/r/MensRights21/09/17 04:11 PM
1

Well why don't you prove that you are here for anything more than to stir up shit.
/r/MensRights21/09/17 03:02 PM
15

Go fuck yourself.
/r/MensRights21/09/17 02:56 PM
1

And why is it everyone else's problem to provide you with this?
/r/MensRights21/09/17 02:56 PM
1

Ah; figures.
/r/MensRights15/09/17 01:42 AM
1

I love this, you have no problem making the leap that MRA and white supremacists 'share some beliefs' based on no data. But just can't imagine any of the feminists having anything in common with Nazis because 'their ideologies are antithetical'. But MRA ideologies are not 'antithetical' for some undefined reason. Just another day in the in the men's rights subreddit.
/r/MensRights14/09/17 11:39 PM
1

They wouldn't see it. Welcome to Westworld.
/r/MensRights30/08/17 02:52 PM
4

My most memorable and supportive teacher in school was also the only male teacher I had during primary years.
/r/MensRights28/08/17 05:39 PM
3

No the feminists don't comment on this. They wait until some mentally unstable dude shoots his wife and they point to that as their reasoning for saying things like "men are trash" (actual t-shirt from my instagram feed).
/r/MensRights28/08/17 05:26 PM
1

They didn't name the lucky guy so I can only assume the victim was also female.
/r/MGTOW23/08/17 09:05 PM
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They didn't name the lucky guy so I can only assume the victim was also female.
/r/MGTOW23/08/17 09:05 PM
3

I would be SHOCKED if the same posters appeared in the women's bathroom.
/r/MensRights08/08/17 11:29 PM
3

People but especially guys out there who say this kind shit about male victims of sexual assault: Shut UP! You're wrong.
/r/MensRights04/08/17 07:00 PM
3

Nobody hates men like those white, baby-boomer women.
/r/MensRights19/07/17 08:42 PM
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Such a landmark to give women the same responsibility men have always had. I mean what's next? Allowing women to be tried for their crimes? Gasp!
/r/PussyPassDenied19/07/17 08:22 PM
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And yet we're supposed to lie down and stop talking every time some drops the mic with the classic "the dictionary says feminism means equality".
/r/MensRights03/07/17 05:29 PM
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Yep, one of the many privileges of manhood. You get the honor of putting literally anyone else from society ahead of yourself.
/r/MensRights28/06/17 05:25 PM
2

She was 'drugged' with the asshole drug, heard of it? She was also drugged with the lying drug before she gave that statement.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/06/17 05:14 PM
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For the last 40 + years anytime a woman has said anything along the lines of "all men are jerks", society's response has been "you go gurl". So naturally as with any idea once it really takes hold all the idiots just start chanting along without ever really questioning.
/r/MensRights07/06/17 08:58 PM
1

Nah, men are the ones who still don't realize they are in the middle of a gender war.
/r/MensRights05/06/17 02:44 PM
7

It seems like every men's rights post that make it to /r/all needs to have this stickies to the top of it.
/r/MensRights03/06/17 03:00 PM
8

They killed all the men's clubs so this is not a fair comparison for them to make.
/r/MensRights31/05/17 10:46 PM
5

No you didn't understand what I meant. The are always comments on popular threads that people here are whiny and acting like feminists. Not the homemaker thing.
/r/MensRights27/05/17 02:43 PM
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Hyper masculinity? Ridicule for being a homemaker? I'm sorry but whose issues are those? You can't be taken seriously if you come in here and tell people what their issues should be. The real reason come here are myriad. TBH, there's one of these in nearly every MensRights post that makes it to the front page. You guys are whiny! You're just like the feminists.
/r/MensRights27/05/17 02:22 PM
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If someone threw dogshit on me, I'd use a lot more force than that shove the officer used. I think he was quite restrained.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/05/17 10:57 PM
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It's about the journey that one young woman takes to find the truth of the world. She was a famous hacker who cracked the IRS dbase. She eventually falls through the rabbit hole in search of the answer. But she knows that really, it's the question that drives her. What is the Matrix? She is given a choice take the blue pill, the story ends. she wakes up in her bed and believe whatever she wants to believe. She takes the red pill, she stays in Wonderland, and finds out how deep the rabbit hole go…
/r/MensRights26/05/17 05:12 PM
2

Here here! I think we have just demonstrated how that could look by having civil discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 08:03 PM
1

This is a fair point and I can accept that they have tried to help guys. However I think the best thing feminism could do is just let MRA's do their thing in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 07:53 PM
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I just don't know what else to say, but this basically feels like: "you don't know what you need, I do". The Everyday Feminism article about sex toys for example. No man I know feels like this is a top issue for men. The two Supreme Court decisions in the Mic article have zero explanation as to how Feminism had anything to do with it. I don't know what you want from me. You keep saying I'm twisting things or ignoring them but I am actually trying here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 07:44 PM
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Twist? I really don't think that's what I'm doing but very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 07:39 PM
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I am not going to link to AVFM. I am not going to link to anything. All I am saying is that I don't think Feminism can claim it helps men. I don't want to ignore your points either, I am looking at and reading those links. I just feel some of the claims in them are dubious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 07:24 PM
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Okay, the Bell Hooks essay which is the first link in that post lambasts men for not helping out Feminism. Another one from the Mic article, point #6 It gave men more reproductive control through abortion legalization: Links to a dead page on the Naral site. Also from the Mic article, point #7 It triggered the FBI to change the definition of rape to include men. This is only true for 'penetration', not 'envelopment' so it really isn't mean to help men that much. From the NOW article which is a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 07:20 PM
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Translation: I am going to ignore posts from that cancerous site because they do not constitute a valid resource. The first link I looked at provided improvements that had been made for men but failed to show how Feminism was in any way related. I don't feel like after so many misses in just a brief scan, that post is not owed any deeper digging.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 07:09 PM
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She's a rare person indeed that Judge Judy. It's too bad the family courts don't follow her lead.
/r/MensRights24/05/17 06:51 PM
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I get why people have accused you of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 06:36 PM
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I didn't go into the depths of that post, but I see the overwhelming majority of the links in it are from Everyday Feminism. The one I clicked into (mic.com), the first two examples were both supreme court decisions. Just because Ruth Bader Ginsberg voted on them doesn't mean this is feminism solving men's problems. (I don't think it needs to, it just needs to get out of the way of people who are trying to solve men's problems).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 06:35 PM
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Being fair in this case is dramatic though.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/17 02:34 PM
10

Hahaha! Yes this is true I suppose. In my experience friends didn't say anything to me directly but behind my back. So to root them out, you gotta find out which ones hate you now because they heard you say something about the subject while drunk at a party.
/r/MensRights18/05/17 09:17 PM
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Sadly it's almost never a good idea to mention that you support men's issues IRL.
/r/MensRights18/05/17 08:28 PM
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Thanks for trying to clarify, it's always so difficult to get points across in text (though it's often even more difficult face to face when talking about this subject). I was raised by my mom and grandmother and aunts and with the exception of a step dad who married to my mom for my years 1 - 12, pretty much exclusively by women. I always considered myself a 'feminist ally' though back in the '90s and early '00s when I was in my 20s I didn't really have a name for it. I just knew that I should …
/r/MensRights16/05/17 07:49 PM
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These first two are definitely MRAs: https://www.avoiceformen.com/mens-rights/opposing-shared-parenting-the-feminist-track-record/ http://thoughtcatalog.com/janet-bloomfield/2015/03/if-feminism-is-about-equality-why-do-feminists-oppose-equality/ Here's a video of the NOW president advocating against shared custody for fathers and in favor of permanent alimony. Both of which hurt men obviously. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rtzpeAhI-Q4 Not Shared Custody, but another example of NOW actively fig…
/r/MensRights16/05/17 03:55 PM
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Its when both sides treat gender equality like a zero sum game that we get Purple Haired She Beasts Screaming into peoples faces with a megaphone. When put simply, I agree with you. But when put in terms like the quote above I really don't. The existence of the MRM has nothing to do with the existence of Radfems except that they are at opposing viewpoints. Radfems existed without ever having heard of the MRM. Look up Valerie Solanas' SCUM Manifesto. So again, while I agree with your simplified p…
/r/MensRights16/05/17 03:39 PM
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While all of western society outside of some subreddits scoffs at the very idea that men might want to have a place/means of talking about their issues, we still need to man-up and make sure everyone else is comfortable first eh?
/r/MensRights16/05/17 02:32 PM
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You are very wrong, look up NOW's stance on shared custody laws.
/r/MensRights16/05/17 02:29 PM
1

I was meaning to piggyback.
/r/MensRights13/05/17 02:45 PM
1

True, true. I do acknowledge this. I should have also said, I do actually know feminists IRL who are nothing like the loudest on the internet.
/r/MensRights13/05/17 02:44 PM
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NAFALT! Just all the ones you hear from, like every single day.
/r/MensRights12/05/17 10:32 PM
1

Turn on network TV for an hour in the morning.
/r/MensRights12/05/17 10:31 PM
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This. It's the only reason she was yelling at the judge. She was trying to make herself seem more crazy than she really is for that sweet, sweet mental health evaluation. She's going to in jail for months! Months I say!
/r/PussyPassDenied11/05/17 11:08 PM
9

I went on walgreen's website (I did a google search for the product) and both the 'mens' product and the regular one were 5.99.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/17 06:30 PM
3

Yeah I'm sorry, but our society does not condone rape or rapists. Nobody I have ever met in my life would want to hang out with a dude who had raped someone, so I agree that we don't live in rape culture. We just live in a world where it exists and it's awful. We all agree on that.
/r/MensRights09/05/17 10:03 PM
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I would say all women could benefit from the Women are Wonderful effect, but I wouldn't say that all women (or any group of people) anything.
/r/MensRights28/04/17 04:16 PM
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I think they care more about destroying men than protecting rape survivors, just sayin'.
/r/MensRights27/04/17 10:29 PM
3

I snorted quite loudly!
/r/MensRights20/04/17 11:10 PM
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Who loses their job, not the fucking moron who edits HuffPo SA that's for sure. Saying that Huffington Post is a cancer on society doesn't go nearly far enough.
/r/MensRights20/04/17 08:28 PM
1

I see a lot of examples on Reddit of men being talked about like this by women. Since our society is so "misogynistic", you'd think it would be the other way around.
/r/MensRights03/04/17 06:57 PM
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Your assessment that my revenge would be a physical attack is in founded. I just said that if someone did this to me I would want to fuck their life up...get them fired from their job and things like that. And really you should just reconsider what you are willing to accuse of, there's no basis for saying someone you never met is the same as a psychopath who throws acid in people's faces. I'm done.
/r/MensRights18/02/17 05:15 PM
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Sorry I don't follow you.
/r/MensRights18/02/17 05:06 PM
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I'm sorry but a 3000 dollar fine is scot free. She glassed someone in their face. No it wasn't premeditated, and I didn't consider that part when I made the comparison. But this fucking woman walked away with a fine because she lives in a place that doesn't like to punish women as harshly as they do men. That makes me angry. Hence my emotional comparison. But this if you think you are going to convince me that his not needing stitches and is at all meaningful here, well you won't. The only reaso…
/r/MensRights18/02/17 04:22 PM
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It's okay I know my comments are emotional too.
/r/MensRights18/02/17 03:43 PM
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Well I equate them because the criminals who commit these acts walk free. Your appeal to emotion shows that this guy didn't get as badly injured as the victims I invoked for comparison. But perpetrators who commit these crimes are free as birds and that is the way their respective societies like it. That's the equivalency. That's why I feel my comparison is not ridiculous. I'm sorry but unless people in our society are willing to get angry about this kind of travesty of justice, nothing will cha…
/r/MensRights18/02/17 03:10 PM
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I fail to see how this is different than a man throwing acid in a woman's face. If I were that dude, I'd want to start plotting the long revenge and fuck that asshole's life up in every way possible.
/r/MensRights17/02/17 11:03 PM
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Try this google search. I don't know Nigerian websites, but surely one of these is credible: https://www.google.com/search?q=A+Malawian+Revenue+Officer+MRA+is+battling+for+his+life+after+suffering+incidiary+burns+caused+by+his+wife&rlz=1C5CHFA_enUS729&oq=A+Malawian+Revenue+Officer+MRA+is+battling+for+his+life+after+suffering+incidiary+burns+caused+by+his+wife&aqs=chrome..69i57j69i64l3.405j0j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8
/r/MensRights15/02/17 12:58 AM
1

I think that people are probably here for more reasons than to be better than feminism about social media use. I hear you though I am not saying we should blindly hate on women or feminism but not everyone is here to be a better representative of human rights than other groups. Some are just here because they've been burned or hurt really badly and need support.
/r/MensRights15/02/17 12:53 AM
1

Oh, I didn't know about that. Seems like there's a lot of meltdowns/subreddit drama lately.
/r/MensRights13/02/17 05:18 PM
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This actually doesn't require a sarcasm tag.
/r/MensRights11/02/17 10:59 PM
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States that have primary aggressor laws on the books: https://www.avoiceformen.com/feminism/government-tyranny/primary-aggressor-listings-by-state/
/r/MensRights10/02/17 12:11 AM
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No she wouldn't, it's not illegal.
/r/MensRights04/02/17 06:26 PM
4

Men's human rights in a nutshell.
/r/MensRights02/02/17 07:05 PM
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I was specifically referring to NOW's campaigns against shared custody and parenting...most recently in Florida.
/r/MensRights27/01/17 05:05 PM
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If a man has no right to tell a woman what she can do with her body, why should she be to make choices about what he does with his (working for 18 years to pay child support)?
/r/MensRights27/01/17 04:15 PM
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To pretend that the agencies are acting with no outside pressure from organizations like NOW is not a fair analysis of the situation.
/r/MensRights27/01/17 04:12 PM
8

I hear what you're saying but I disagree. I don't think that you can separate and ideology from the people who practice it or claim to practice it. The ideology failed if it attracted those "in name only" people in the first place. Therefore in my mind neither the ideology nor the "in name only" people get a pass.
/r/MensRights03/12/16 04:01 PM
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Whatever it's supposed to be about, what it actually is is what it's followers do.
/r/MensRights03/12/16 03:47 PM
9

Fuck yeah it is. And never having to recognize said privilege.
/r/MensRights21/11/16 07:06 PM
1

Why is this goon popular?
/r/PussyPassDenied11/11/16 07:38 PM
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This might be the same woman too, I can't tell. http://m.ripoffreport.com/r/jody-allard/seattle-washington-/jody-allard-jody-knight-james-johnson-euphrasie-jsj-livejournal-craigslist-internet-1038432
/r/MensRights17/09/16 03:18 PM
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The article pisses me off right at the start. "Reigniting the gender war"? Only someone who hasn't been paying attention to the media slamming men at every turn would use the word 'reigniting'. Only someone with a feminist perspective would frame it this way. Did they say that "Suffragette" was reigniting the gender war?
/r/MensRights12/11/15 03:29 PM
1

Not that I'd ever be in the position this preacher was in, but shit like this makes me feel like I should carry pepper spray at the very least...get a concealed carry permit at the most.
/r/MensRights12/11/15 03:24 PM
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You know what sucks about people like this is that even with all the alleged rampant misogyny, they will never experience turnabout. Men won't ever hate women enough to go around and start saying shit like this in the public sphere.
/r/MensRights08/11/15 06:51 PM
1

I think he's using the term 'The Red Pill' here to indicate waking up to the feminist society we live in. I don't think he's trying to be an expert at THE Red Pill like this sub-reddit is using the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 06:46 PM
1

Thanks I'll check it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 01:02 AM
1

Sure I'll read it, send me over a link to his TRP content if you know of any.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 03:48 AM
7

Paul Elam is an MRA, not really a red pill thing, but I suspect you already know that and are really just trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 03:42 AM
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I agree that this guy is a nobody and with his hateful speech, would not be welcome in the MRA spaces I frequent. Manboobz over there trying to say this guy is speaking for anyone but himself is pretty much always trying to stir up shit using questionable tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/15 09:12 PM
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Fuck yes!
/r/MensRights18/06/15 02:10 PM
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You are quite mis-informed to come in here and try to say that thousands of years of society's oppressiveness was men oppressing women. I think men have been every bit as oppressed for thousands of years. Oppressed right to the death too. 10 Million men lost in WWI. But I guess we should just 'man up' and continue to pretend that ugly truth isn't a reality? Happy trolling.
/r/MensRights16/06/15 05:07 PM
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There is an angel investor in Seattle who says he won't invest in a company if there isn't at least one woman founder. EDIT: ISN'T, not IS
/r/MensRights15/06/15 10:06 PM
1

"Freedom of speech applies to the relationship between citizen and state, not citizen and other citizen." Oh really? That's news to me.
/r/MensRights15/06/15 05:59 PM
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This idea is so controversial. People who I consider to be very smart, still won't accept the idea that maybe, just maybe men never did have all the power and privilege.
/r/MensRights10/06/15 06:52 PM
1

Yes!!
/r/MensRights10/06/15 04:49 PM
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IF this guy makes an progress, N.O.W. will come in and do everything they can to stop it from happening.
/r/MensRights13/05/15 09:09 PM
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A welcome change to see something uplifting about men and boys.
/r/MensRights11/05/15 11:03 PM
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"Defence barrister Geoff Seaholme said Stephens came from a "dysfunctional" background and had been the subject of abuse during her childhood." There is a version of this same sentence in just about every article about a violent woman criminal. Maddening.
/r/MensRights11/05/15 10:29 PM
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How is this not libel? He should sue. We have to stop allowing these assholes to ruin innocent men's lives (or at least trying to). Remember that woman who assaulted a minor at the beach because he was flying a drone?
/r/MensRights11/05/15 04:48 PM
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Based on their assumption that culture is experienced the same by men and women of the same race? Also what do they mean by this: "NPD was associated with mental disability among men but not women."
/r/MensRights05/05/15 10:07 PM
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Oh yeah it was here: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18557663
/r/MensRights05/05/15 09:21 PM
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I don't know. I guess I expect more than anecdotes from a professional on a professional blog. But that is fair enough. There is no rule saying this author can't use anecdotal evidence. Just like there is no rule saying I have to take their articles seriously.
/r/MensRights05/05/15 08:54 PM
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This is exactly what happened to me when I left for the gruelingly long (10 weeks) bootcamp.
/r/MensRights05/05/15 08:40 PM
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This author seems to have some kind of fixation on men being narcissists. However, from doing a cursory Google search I was able to find this: "Prevalence of lifetime NPD was 6.2%, with rates greater for men (7.7%) than women (4.8%). NPD was significantly more prevalent among Black men and women and Hispanic women, younger adults, and separated/divorced/widowed and never married adults. " This suggests to me that there is enough data to rationally assume that more not most narcissists are men. A…
/r/MensRights05/05/15 07:48 PM
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Damn I was going to make the rare foray into a movie theater for this too.
/r/MensRights05/05/15 04:47 PM
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I would go further and say that if you are a feminist (a good one or a bad one, doesn't matter)...it's probably just not going go over well if you start making 'jokes' about castrating men.
/r/MensRights13/04/15 11:17 PM
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No justice anywhere to be found. Don't bother looking for it.
/r/PussyPass13/04/15 06:55 PM
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I haven't read this book by Dr. Sax, but if one of his three main points is that boys spend too much time playing video games, I don't really want to. Whether or not that statement is true...there are so many factors that don't involve blaming boys themselves. We changed the education system to favor girls and now that system is no longer rewarding to boys. Playing video games may be. Don't blame the boys for looking for an outlet that satisfies them, fix the schools so they have other satisfyin…
/r/MensRights10/04/15 11:36 PM
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Prison anywhere.
/r/MensRights09/04/15 05:35 PM
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That was predictable.
/r/MensRights09/04/15 04:27 PM
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What's going on in Florida, did some women have to pay alimony?
/r/MensRights09/04/15 03:25 PM
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Poor father. I imagine he'll be responsible to pay child support even though he'll probably never get to see his child.
/r/MensRights03/04/15 06:52 PM
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I totally agree with you that suing is over the top. I do commend your effort to get people in this thread to keep a level head. I just don't think we should silence anyone. It doesn't sound like you do either, just that you have to pick your battles and I totally get that. Good day to you sir.
/r/MensRights01/04/15 07:14 PM
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You know, I've seen the same sentiment expressed on the sub many times. Whether you think this particular issue or the last one or the next one qualifies as 'important', you have to realize that discrimination is important. Discrimination is a men's rights and a human rights issue, so it can't just be ignored. Nor should we be asking people here to ignore discrimination. That being said, I do agree that we don't need to over-react. I just also think that we ought not stifle communication about t…
/r/MensRights01/04/15 03:48 PM
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So much, yes.
/r/MensRights29/03/15 05:11 PM
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There certainly is no shortage of evidence that human society just doesn't value men as highly as it does women.
/r/MensRights27/03/15 11:26 PM
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I feel like I'm taking crazy pills!
/r/MensRights26/03/15 10:13 PM
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He got grease on the wall in the kitchen though. Surely that's worth 50K.
/r/PussyPass17/03/15 11:15 PM
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Why do people always respond to the parental rights discussion this way? Why in the world would anyone want to force a person to have an abortion? That does not mean however that I want to be responsible for somebody else's personal choice. If she chooses to keep the baby and I don't want it, I shouldn't be financially responsible for it. This concept is completely and fundamentally different from forcing a woman to have an abortion. There was an article here in men's rights a couple of weeks ag…
/r/MensRights06/03/15 04:35 PM
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Dude, I'm over 40 it was this way when I was in school too. At least in my day we had adequate recess.
/r/MensRights26/02/15 04:19 PM
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Planned Parenthood is absolutely correct in that there was one study done in Uganda that showed some evidence that circumcision slowed down the spread of STIs. That study has become a parroted talking point. But it did not slow down STIs as much as wearing a condom, but evidence phooey. The geographical region and the incidence of STIs are completely different than the UK or the USA as well and I think it makes a poor comparison.
/r/MensRights24/02/15 04:15 PM
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If it had been a man, CNN would be going on and on ad infinitum until the next thing came up. But this...crickets.
/r/PussyPass13/02/15 08:47 PM
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We're glad you do.
/r/MensRights12/02/15 04:53 PM
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Truth
/r/MensRights10/02/15 07:08 PM
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They should do this with garbage collection jobs in the USA!
/r/MensRights10/02/15 12:37 AM
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Smart men get out of Britain.
/r/PussyPass04/02/15 07:52 PM
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I've heard it called "automatic in-group bias based on gender".
/r/MensRights30/01/15 01:13 AM
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Ooh this writer doesn't like the Men's Rights movement, so everybody pretend male circumcision isn't an important men's rights issue.
/r/MensRights25/01/15 04:48 PM
3

Ugg that makes my blood boil.
/r/MensRights15/12/14 11:18 PM
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Too true. Too true. I feel more afraid of the social justice people than I did the bible thumpers though. There is a very real and credible threat for anyone who voices some opinion that is not in line with the authoritarian SJ crowd.
/r/MensRights15/12/14 06:22 PM
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I seriously doubt female prisons are overcrowded.
/r/PussyPass15/12/14 06:13 PM
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Believe men!
/r/MensRights03/12/14 07:59 PM
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To me the interesting data point is that men and women experience near equal number of incidents.
/r/MensRights27/11/14 04:29 PM
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Thanks for the well researched comment. I can't speak for the commenter before, but I don't see how this changes the fact that many men were pressured into going to war and literally giving up their lives. We don't need to hear about how some of the feminists were not white feather girls. Some were, and those very people demonstrated great covert and overt power during that campaign. I don't see why we need to defend the people who shamed fifteen year old boys into enlisting. Why should we defen…
/r/MensRights09/11/14 05:19 PM
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It's beyond absurd.
/r/MensRights04/11/14 02:29 AM
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"Women on gender-imbalanced campuses are paying a social price for success and, to a degree, are being victimized by men precisely because they have outperformed them" That article made me sad. Not one iota of empathy for men. Nobody cares that men have been falling behind since the '80s. They only care that women don't have complete control of the dating pool anymore. Wow.
/r/MensRights03/11/14 11:49 PM
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Agreed. I think I heard somewhere there was a law in China that men are legally obligated to take care of the parents.
/r/MensRights30/10/14 06:41 PM
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Oh yeah I'm sure the law will be there to make sure the daughter takes care of him when he's too old to work...
/r/MensRights30/10/14 02:48 PM
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I'm new at this too :) Biologically, I think women or men are both going to be better off if they are a more desirable mate. One way of measuring a movement up or down the gene scale is by their social status/financial status which often equals protection. Men are objectifying women by looking for healthier looking mates and women are objectifying men by looking for a greater or equal success/social status. Both sexes have societal gender roles enforced on them is all I'm trying to say.
/r/MensRights24/10/14 06:13 PM
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The cost associated with a successful sexual encounter was smaller for a man. A teaspoon of fluid vs. nine months with another human growing in the uterus. As men, we most likely would have less reason to spurn physical objectification and in fact would benefit from it. Instead, we deal with social/financial status objectification.
/r/MensRights24/10/14 03:55 PM
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That makes me feel angry!
/r/PussyPass16/10/14 09:30 PM
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The respect I used have for Vice has been gushing away in the last few months.
/r/MensRights03/10/14 12:06 AM
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A good Karen Straughan video is: me a feminist? no way. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PqEeCCuFFO8&list=UUcmnLu5cGUGeLy744WS-fsg Also The Tyranny of Female Hypoagency https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KBgcjtE0xrE&list=UUcmnLu5cGUGeLy744WS-fsg and really just all of her top 20 most popular uploads.
/r/MensRights16/09/14 12:34 AM
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Yay us! Oh wait. Now I'm sad.
/r/MensRights15/09/14 07:05 PM
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This is exactly it for me too. Caught somewhere between liberal democrat and libertarian.
/r/MensRights10/09/14 03:07 PM
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A new 'breakthrough' seems to crop up every few years.
/r/MensRights08/09/14 07:21 PM
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Thanks for your thoughtful responses everyone. This helps and I think I may still have a few stumbles but I know I'll be better prepared when it does seem right to talk about it (or when the right course of action is to not talk).
/r/MensRights08/09/14 05:28 AM
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A male pill would be great. The right to opt out though I don't claim to know the details of how this would work. Definitely no forcing of people's bodily rights.
/r/MensRights08/09/14 12:41 AM
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Yes you did, I mis-interpreted.
/r/MensRights08/09/14 12:15 AM
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He is harsher than others I've listened to/watched. Perhaps he is a bit too inflammatory and not the best person to have used as one of my examples, but alas I won't change it as it would make this part if the thread seem strange. Do you have a particular incident that pushed you to dislike him so?
/r/MensRights07/09/14 04:42 PM
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After reading the responses here, I have to agree. Workplace/co-workers are going to have to be off-limits.
/r/MensRights07/09/14 04:24 PM
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I've always disliked that term 'butthurt'. Didn't really put together how insulting it is to gay men and women for that matter. Making the feminine position an insult seems to be a hypocrisy considering who usually uses the term.
/r/MensRights07/09/14 04:21 PM
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I've never watched Scrubs, going to check out that Coxisms site!
/r/MensRights07/09/14 04:17 PM
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I have used this to varying degrees of success. Male circumcision is the easiest topic to reverse the genders in my experience (albeit limited).
/r/MensRights07/09/14 04:15 PM
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This seems to be a little bit of a theme. It's great advice. Just steer clear if the labels and focus more on the issues as they relate to a direct situation or person.
/r/MensRights07/09/14 04:12 PM
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Oh the first sentence makes me sad, but thanks for telling me this because it's always good to know what people might think when hearing a word like egalitarian.
/r/MensRights07/09/14 05:19 AM
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Maybe it is better...nice to hear this viewpoint because I think it may be the best approach for me for now.
/r/MensRights07/09/14 05:11 AM
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I have found myself doing this a bit too. Egalitarian is a great word which is not really a label per se.
/r/MensRights07/09/14 05:09 AM
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I like this approach, and in all fairness I do have a woman friend who has brought it up and that was one of the good conversations.
/r/MensRights07/09/14 05:08 AM
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Thanks for your thoughtful response. It really helps to have a little supportive advice. I think I'll take your advice and limit my discussions to the net and who knows? In time, it may not be so hard IRL.
/r/MensRights07/09/14 03:13 AM
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If people want to try for Egalitarian or Gender Equality, I can get behind that. But I am really not interested in giving feminism any more chances to 'account for the men' right now.
/r/MensRights27/08/14 11:41 PM
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I really think the word 'feminism' is a divisive word not an inclusive one. I don't want feminism's help. How about if society allows men to prioritize their own needs without the approval of women?
/r/MensRights27/08/14 06:07 PM
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This is not surprising in the slightest.
/r/MensRights27/08/14 05:28 PM
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I'm stunned that this seems to be a balanced report.
/r/MensRights11/08/14 09:27 PM
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This article is absolute crap. Why submit it here? Every shitty mis-conception of what men should be according to the gynocentric viewpoint is represented here. Viewpoints, that I might not have been aware of were it not for this sub and people like Karen Straughan. I am not down-voting, but I do almost feel like this is a troll.
/r/MensRights08/08/14 08:53 PM
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I worry that one day men will will just stop finding reasons to compete this way. We're already falling behind or (nearly) completely out of other fields like veterinary medicine, and pretty soon...technology too.
/r/MensRights04/08/14 05:20 PM
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No way would that man be referred to as a gentleman. But I think it is possible for people who would be considered classy by most or many to still be actually scummy.
/r/MensRights28/07/14 06:01 PM
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There is nothing preventing 'lady' from bring scum.
/r/MensRights27/07/14 02:40 PM
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Organizers: April, Davina, Lauren LeBlanc Shallcross, Niki Duncan
/r/MensRights03/07/14 10:49 PM
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What in the ever-loving fuck?!?
/r/MensRights27/06/14 05:16 PM
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That statement bothered me too. There is always this ominous 'most of act x is committed by men' narrative even in 'sympathetic' articles.
/r/MensRights26/06/14 09:07 PM
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You should know that telling people to man-up isn't going help your argument.
/r/MensRights21/06/14 04:11 PM
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No mention of the fact that he's a minor and she's not either...is 17 too old for this to be considered 'assaulting a minor'?
/r/PussyPass20/06/14 05:21 PM
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I used to respect Vice, but I have to say they have been really pushing the things men need to do to understand Feminism articles lately. Feminism has been a prevailing sociological mode of thought the entire 40 years I've been alive. I don't need help thanks, Vice.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 06:50 PM
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There are legal services available for military members. I know the feeling. I was in the Navy and paid child support for years with basically zero contact. I got some pictures about 3 times. He's 22 now do we can talk directly on Facebook. I was young and inexperienced then, I just lost out on most of my son's childhood.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 03:45 PM
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I find IRL there is hardly any situation where you don't get either blank or dagger-filled stares or worse if you bring up any men's issue.
/r/MensRights12/06/14 10:40 PM
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I know, right. This kind of talk goes nearly un-noticed lately.
/r/MensRights09/06/14 11:35 PM
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done
/r/MensRights09/06/14 10:49 PM
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