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8	Our friend tells us why #MenAreTrash is a good thing (hint: it's because you're evil) Ooh story time! One of my friends really pisses me off with how nuts he goes with social justice. Tried to kiss me once, I tell him I'm not into it but hey it's cool maybe some other time when I'm more in the mood. Dude proceeds to keep going like 30 seconds later. I wasn't sure whether to be pissed or laugh my ass off so I go with the latter and then schooled his ass on consent. We handled the issue within our friend group and all still chill and play DnD like grown ass adults. Sometimes femini…	/r/MensRights	10/09/19 05:34 PM
22	Another victory in the fight to stop sexism I think unfortunately the reason they had to do this was that it was being used in association with advocating violence. I doubt that the threats of violence were that specific or sincere, but it still crossed the necessary line.	/r/MensRights	08/09/19 03:02 PM
0	Andrew Yang talks about the effect of automation on majority men jobs and mass shootings Hard to say, depends on one party's follow through, which like any party has historically sucked and not resembled what was proposed. But is the other option actually doing much in men's favor?	/r/MensRights	04/09/19 03:02 AM
-1	Andrew Yang talks about the effect of automation on majority men jobs and mass shootings This. I don't understand how people can be so against a social safety net for the (largely male) laborers being replaced in droves every year when our conservative government seems fully capable of funding a safety net for banks and trade policies that cripple agriculture. They're ensuring that their own human rights are less of a priority than keeping the capital gains tax low enough to flood the investment market prior to the next bubble popping. Then everyone's retirements tank, needs for a s…	/r/MensRights	04/09/19 02:05 AM
1	Female privilege in college education Plus there's a huge push for women in teaching roles at universities. They definitely do not take that card.	/r/MensRights	30/08/19 10:33 PM
1	Suicide prevention should be more focused on men than women because that's where the problem is You've provided no evidence related to any of those points however. Where's your evidence that early detection doesn't favor men? I found the opposite with one quick search. I'd give you the links stating my points, but honestly I have better shit to do with my day than Google for you. "In fact" I didn't say any of that was sexist, I said it was gendered. The actual treatment received by men and women with the same symptoms is demonstrably different. The mortality is as well. The incidence rates…	/r/MensRights	27/08/19 07:06 PM
1	Suicide prevention should be more focused on men than women because that's where the problem is Wonderful, so you're completely missing my point getting wrapped up over the specific details of having different symptomatic patterns across genders. It's not a crucial argument, what's crucial is that work had to be done to figure this out late in our medical history relative to when it was codified for men. It's known to be researchers in the field, not necessarily feminists. Even your article says as much. The article also says that it's significant mostly for the idea that the data on rates…	/r/MensRights	27/08/19 06:35 PM
1	Suicide prevention should be more focused on men than women because that's where the problem is I'm not saying that. I'm just saying that's not enough evidence to say that the justice system favors one gender over the other when there are a lot more aspects to it than jail time. There are experiences with the law that one gender can have which the other can never experience, so I'd say it would be challenging and pointless to decide one has it worse.	/r/MensRights	27/08/19 06:19 PM
1	Suicide prevention should be more focused on men than women because that's where the problem is I already did, men frequently get to avoid prison for victimizing women. This puts a lot of women in danger. We know because we've had investigators string together evidence that serial rapists were ignored in numerous major US cities until they'd been arrested for burglary or other crimes against men.	/r/MensRights	27/08/19 06:01 PM
1	Suicide prevention should be more focused on men than women because that's where the problem is They're addressing the mortality rate of heart disease by gender, similar to the way we are arguing to address the mortality rate of suicidal thoughts, as well as mitigating the problems I mentioned above. I did read your links, that's why I specified the symptoms (which you identified as milder, such as nausea) that do occur at an increased rate in women. Show me where feminists are changing the definition of autism, that's interesting. I had no idea there was a movement for anything other than…	/r/MensRights	27/08/19 05:56 PM
1	Suicide prevention should be more focused on men than women because that's where the problem is Yeah, men have a higher median wage because they do work more. I'm not pretending for a second though that this happens because women just sit at home and do nothing more. There's a parenting and homemaking labor gap just as much as there's a wage gap. If you did a quick Google search you'd also find that it depends on the type of debt. For example, in the case of student loan debt, it's much higher for women. Part of it is more women getting degrees and the degrees they select, but another side…	/r/MensRights	27/08/19 05:50 PM
1	Suicide prevention should be more focused on men than women because that's where the problem is You're the one who started to play it by going into the concept of child support as evidence that people have no control over what happens to them in court. That's pretty tangential and definitely opens up that "game".	/r/MensRights	27/08/19 05:46 PM
1	Suicide prevention should be more focused on men than women because that's where the problem is Sure, but I'm saying it's weird to say that courts consistently provide unfair advantages to women. There are many unfair things that courts due to women, and yeah they don't relate to jail time, but they can absolutely result in increased retaliation for reporting crimes.	/r/MensRights	27/08/19 04:59 PM
1	Suicide prevention should be more focused on men than women because that's where the problem is Yes. But is debt higher for men? Is child support the sole contributor to differences in debt? Or, is it the only one that you'll validate as being a fair reason? How does this support the fact that women have more debt than men?	/r/MensRights	27/08/19 04:56 PM
1	Suicide prevention should be more focused on men than women because that's where the problem is An instance of a female specific foundation for women's heart disease isn't evidence of a disproportionality of funding. It's a clear response to what I said: we didn't begin studying heart disease or attacks in women until the 2000's, these foundations make up for that gap in understanding. Yes, males typically exhibit all the symptoms for both genders. But women exhibit a few symptoms at higher rates. It's worth knowing about, and significant that we didn't know for a long time. That is true. …	/r/MensRights	27/08/19 04:54 PM
0	Suicide prevention should be more focused on men than women because that's where the problem is I'm currently waiting for OP's evidence that "funding only goes toward methods that help women and not men." I've argued for years that psychological treatments are generally ineffective, now I'm finding out that they're designed for women? Were they designed by women too? No, not really. Antidepressants for a long time weren't even tested on women, it was illegal until the 90's. Current research has actually made changes to typical use for the context of women using them, before they'd used rec…	/r/MensRights	27/08/19 04:40 PM
0	Suicide prevention should be more focused on men than women because that's where the problem is Heart attack prevention is gendered. Doctors typically only recognize the signs of male heart attack because it's been studied more, so early prevention and even early detection goes toward men disproportionately compared to the prevalence across genders of heart attack. Funds toward studying it also go more toward men. The sexism here is that doctors don't believe women who are having heart attacks as often, and don't study heart problems in women at the same rate, which requires funding. The s…	/r/MensRights	27/08/19 04:08 PM
0	Suicide prevention should be more focused on men than women because that's where the problem is Stats on this? I googled it and found the complete opposite. Some of the reasons given were also very different from yours.	/r/MensRights	27/08/19 03:59 PM
1	Suicide prevention should be more focused on men than women because that's where the problem is Do we currently have gender segregated programs funded entirely separately per gender? Or female only suicide prevention programs? If we do that sucks, but my impression was that the funding and institutional support isn't currently segregated. It could be nice to have special programs for male suicide prevention because of their higher success rate and the unique issues that go into their struggles, but it would be nice to have a lot of these programs for all kinds of gendered issues related to…	/r/MensRights	27/08/19 03:47 PM
1	Suicide prevention should be more focused on men than women because that's where the problem is Yeah, and ending up booked for crime at a higher rate because of the assumption women can do less wrong. I also think that gets men screwed over in the eyes of juries sometimes. But you still need proof, and every gender suffers in court when they've been victimized without any remaining. Women don't pay child support, but they also can't get justice for numerous crimes they're subjected to at a higher rate. But your personal experience is being wrongly accused, so I don't blame you if you don't…	/r/MensRights	27/08/19 03:29 PM
1	Suicide prevention should be more focused on men than women because that's where the problem is I think the biggest and most complex issues we really deal with aren't gender based. We all have financial issues (no all women can't just find men to support them, if that were so then ALL men would be rich and looking for a live-in girlfriend without caring how she looks, acts or what she weighs. If you don't think this is the case for a majority of men, than a majority of women are dealing with their own financial resources. If you think the male pressure to do so is sufficient to show that t…	/r/MensRights	27/08/19 03:21 PM
2	Suicide prevention should be more focused on men than women because that's where the problem is Pretty sure it relies on your prior actions, having a lot to do with what you've done instead of what you can do about it now.	/r/MensRights	27/08/19 03:09 PM
1	Suicide prevention should be more focused on men than women because that's where the problem is The government could easily pick up those child support bills. I don't know why the perception runs that we lack funding for social programs, we positively shit money in other areas of the budget. I like the idea of men having more time with their kids, but you'd have to trade suicides in for homicides. I guess if it's worth it and you're that sick of supporting children.	/r/MensRights	27/08/19 03:06 PM
1	A great analogy for the earnings gap That depends on who "they" is. Coworkers, managers, bosses, all of them have every opportunity to put successes on the team and failure on individuals. There's also the infuriating process of coming up with ideas in which people will often restate your idea a little differently and suddenly it's brilliant. It seems like when I fix something crucial it's regarded as a regular part of my work, and when I have a solid idea they have someone else executing it. You have to have the perception availab…	/r/MensRights	27/08/19 02:41 PM
1	A great analogy for the earnings gap So many of the phenomenas like mansplaining or catcalling crop up extremely rarely when anyone else is around to see it. But the second you're alone it's like there's this crazy loss of accountability because your response isn't regarded as something that could damage their reputation alone. Like some crazy societal game of gaslighting in which only a few assholes have to participate and get away with it over and over again, until it's a fixture of the experience of society.	/r/MensRights	26/08/19 06:09 AM
1	A great analogy for the earnings gap That's a huge way to show support. It's a weird culture of exclusion, I'm hoping it'll improve over time. I'm all for stay at home dads, so many men I know would be amazing at it.	/r/MensRights	26/08/19 05:17 AM
1	A great analogy for the earnings gap I've known some men to be successful at it actually! The customer base is widely other men, and I've heard at the top end is more profitable, just not on the aggregate.	/r/MensRights	25/08/19 04:55 PM
6	A great analogy for the earnings gap It wasn't easy to go into computer engineering as a female. For whatever reason, nobody trusts you. Some people are scared you're going to fuck up their work by being a part of the team, others think it's super cute that you think you can engineer something. You constantly get offered to be shown around and introduced to something on a surface level, which may be useful learning if you sincerely were a gender studies student come to visit the lab. It's not life ending but I can't see wanting to …	/r/MensRights	25/08/19 04:23 PM
1	A great analogy for the earnings gap I'm pretty sure not every woman can make money getting naked. I was actually refused a job as a stripper, as well as forced to take a "fitness test" for a grocery store stocking job. After I passed it they still refused to switch me over from customer service to stocking. I had to quit and wait for them to call me with an offer to do the job I wanted. I never had issues with the weight. But no, there are a lot of women that truly nobody wants to see naked and plenty of men can make money getting…	/r/MensRights	25/08/19 04:02 PM
2	As a father and man who has sex... I got my daughter labiaplasty, because it was my choice as her father. I’ve had sex with big lip girls, and prefer labiaplastied. I also know a majority of men like myself don’t like roast beef sandwhiches lol I prefer uncircumcised substantially. More aesthetically pleasing, better texture and mouthfeel. Yeah, mouthfeel. Foreskin is great. This is just their opinion, pretty much both look incredible if you're into dick. I really can't see complaining about either cut or uncut when you're being given the chance to be so intimate with that part of a man's body. Just enjoy it.	/r/MensRights	21/08/19 04:29 PM
4	As a father and man who has sex... I got my daughter labiaplasty, because it was my choice as her father. I’ve had sex with big lip girls, and prefer labiaplastied. I also know a majority of men like myself don’t like roast beef sandwhiches lol I know that how women feel about how circumcision looks isn't the point here. The point is the gruesome mutilation of boys' genitals without their consent and the disgusting societal acceptance of it. That being said, the preference is so far from ubiquitously pro circumcision. To all the people without circumcisions facing shame for how their dick looks, that's not okay and I think women say that shit because they've heard others say it or because they saw ten circumcised penises before their f…	/r/MensRights	21/08/19 04:24 PM
11	I'm pretty sure kissing someone without their permission is sexual assault but whatever. She's so fucking disgusting. That anyone would defend her is awful fucked up.	/r/MensRights	19/08/19 03:13 AM
2	Now I've seen everything. A feminist calling out Katy Perry. No, not really. Even on Reddit I see feminists regularly come in support of male victims of sexual assault, tell them it was real, and offer sympathies that more resources don't exist for male victims. It's just not the typical content created by feminists that typically reaches this sub, for obvious reasons. Feminism has a lot of issues (give me an ideology that doesn't...) and one of them is there are a lot of conflicting views held by proponents of it, heck even factions like those which spec…	/r/MensRights	17/08/19 02:58 PM
3	What a way to stereotype men! What do you guys think of this? There are a lot of men who have made me regret being nice to them, and rethink being nice to people by default. That being said, it's worth the risk to be who I want to be, and for me that's a friendly person who gives everyone a chance. People deserve that no matter how many fuck up the opportunity.	/r/MensRights	17/08/19 02:50 PM
3	How is this even consent and why do we still have to register for the draft? Ah fair.	/r/MensRights	06/08/19 05:02 PM
15	How is this even consent and why do we still have to register for the draft? The government tolerates trans people, but it doesn't accept them. Hard to expect them to even tolerate them when most of the citizens think they're a joke.	/r/MensRights	06/08/19 04:52 PM
6	How is this even consent and why do we still have to register for the draft? Perhaps even so the tragic elites with bone spurs get access to the most desirable women instead of having them shipped off along with the portion men they don't care about.	/r/MensRights	06/08/19 04:50 PM
1	UK: Ex-High Court judge tells police to stop calling people who make sex offence allegations 'victims' because it creates a 'presumption' that they are telling the truth following bungled 'Nick' the fantasist inquiry A disturbing number, the justice system has serious issues.	/r/MensRights	05/08/19 12:51 PM
1	Suicide is the biggest killer of men aged between 15 and 45. I am making a documentary to raise awareness and take a stand against male suicide. Please share this message I didn't say shit about what you identify with, I said what you identify them as. Uhuh, thanks for letting me know that these individuals I didn't know of who are pushing to kill all men are essentially the pope of the feminist movement. Clearly they gained attention by being chosen as leaders and not because of any controversy.	/r/MensRights	05/08/19 12:17 PM
0	Suicide is the biggest killer of men aged between 15 and 45. I am making a documentary to raise awareness and take a stand against male suicide. Please share this message And there's circles of Christianity that call for the murder of all homosexuals. Surely you don't identify them by these circles?	/r/MensRights	04/08/19 05:49 PM
-2	Suicide is the biggest killer of men aged between 15 and 45. I am making a documentary to raise awareness and take a stand against male suicide. Please share this message That stuff typically doesn't make it to the front page in my use of the sub. Plus I see shit removed all the time for edging too close to condoning violence, which attests to the toxicity of some users but says something about the community. Often I see people happy to have made achievements in life, or stood up for themselves (instead of doing shit they regretted later), or jokes which perhaps don't make sense to those outside the community. I never understand why the same people who get so mad…	/r/MensRights	03/08/19 05:31 PM
0	Suicide is the biggest killer of men aged between 15 and 45. I am making a documentary to raise awareness and take a stand against male suicide. Please share this message Bro I'm here from TwoX and just happy to see some recognition for men's mental health needs. Some people actually aggressively hate women, not believing that is part of the problem.	/r/MensRights	03/08/19 02:46 PM
0	Why is this a question? Removing part of your own living tissue, actually.	/r/MensRights	26/07/19 03:11 AM
2	Why is this a question? Just... Unacceptable. I'm sorry you have to deal with that. Probably healthy to go no contact.	/r/MensRights	26/07/19 12:11 AM
3	Why is this a question? You also raise a good point here by bringing up technology: we don't have the technology to make it fair for a man who wants his kid and a woman who wants an abortion. On the reverse, at least there's paper abortions as potential for a solution. But it's absurd to decide the humanity of a fetus based on whether the woman carrying it wants it. If it's a part of her body when she aborts it, it should stay a part of her body when someone else ends up killing it another way.	/r/MensRights	25/07/19 05:46 PM
-1	Why is this a question? Would you support a law requiring parents donate organs as possible to their children if they needed it? In many cases not doing so could result in their child's death. They are responsible for bringing their child into the world. Both organ donation and giving birth alters the body and may result in death. We don't have laws in place requiring organ donation from parents in the case that the child will die without it. The circumstances leading up to a child needing this procedure may be entirel…	/r/MensRights	25/07/19 05:39 PM
2	Why is this a question? The thing I find weird here is the idea that "new group think" is where we got the idea men can't be raped. I'm pretty sure that idea is extremely old, and that the new idea is that it is actually rape and men can indeed be the victims of it.	/r/MensRights	25/07/19 05:28 PM
10	Why is this a question? I've had two partners now who both experienced it within their families, and nearly their entire family practically disowned them over "making up impossible shit like that" and I just couldn't fucking stand these families. How you would do that to your own child outright disturbs me.	/r/MensRights	25/07/19 05:25 PM
1	Why is this a question? Damn I saw a post recently in a women's discussion subreddit from a man asking if he'd been raped, describing this sort of situation. The responses were resoundingly "yes, that is rape." Many recommendations on how to deal with the trauma and empathy for the lack of resources available for men to do so. If a bunch of women on a female centric subreddit understand this, what the fuck is wrong with those who dont? Who are these people so certain it isn't?	/r/MensRights	25/07/19 05:22 PM
1	This is why we need this sub. That is absolutely not the point of the first trial. The first trial determines only if there is enough evidence beyond a reasonable doubt that there was a rape. This does not necessarily meet the requirements to show without a reasonable doubt that there was NOT a rape occurring, and can ABSOLUTELY occur when there simply wasn't enough evidence in a case of actual rape. The problem is that some cases in which it is additionally clear that it did not happen cannot be categorized differently by o…	/r/MensRights	18/06/19 08:16 PM
1	One of the biggest feminist instagram accounts posted this today Yay! I'm so happy so see other feminists fighting for the cause of actual gender equality. Progress comes from groups like MensRights, and continues when feminism allows it to be seen as just another part of the movement.	/r/MensRights	18/06/19 08:11 PM
1	This is why we need this sub. I'm saying that while it would be valid to allow people to charge someone with a case of falsely reporting after a rape case is dismissed or found not guilty, but that having a rape case dismissed or found not guilty should not result in an automatic criminal charge for the accuser. This is because the dismissal or not guilty verdict can mean there wasn't enough evidence to charge someone with rape, not that there is sufficient evidence that it did not happen and automatically is a case of false…	/r/MensRights	17/06/19 08:12 PM
0	This is why we need this sub. They'd have the ability to turn around and charge the accusor for falsely reporting, ideally publicizing this to decrease the impact of the false accusation. Also as many people have mentioned in this thread, identifying men as the only ones involved in rape allegations asserts the idea that women are incapable of rape. How about the lives of innocent people?	/r/MensRights	17/06/19 07:34 PM
5	This is why we need this sub. What they don't seem to get is that not being able to prove a rapist guilty is not the same as proving a victim guilty of lying about it. If it was, that would go against the innocent until proven guilty precedent. If indeed a failed rape prosecution did result automatically in the victim being charged with a false accusation, this would be truly horrific. There are far too many cases where it's a matter of not enough evidence being available to successfully get the charges to stick. Especially …	/r/MensRights	17/06/19 04:16 PM
2	Well, I guess some hope remains Thank you, you as well. I'm a little nervous about telling people on here I identify as feminist, but just like we can come to men's rights groups and learn, empathize, and recognize that you're here for your rights and not to be "incels", I have faith that you can look past the label and see the genuine concern me and a number of feminists have for the impact society and feminism have on men. If only this were the most vocalized sects of the movements.	/r/MensRights	14/06/19 10:15 PM
1	Is consent to sex consent to reproduce? \| A key legal right that women have but which is explicitly denied to men by our current laws Yup. He shouldn't be retroactively strapped with the bill like we do now. She'd prove it by sending out the paperwork to be served to him. If he didn't receive it, or didn't respond in time, I could see it being fair enough that he'd still have to pay child support. There just isn't a good way to require the woman to prove she informed him of something, and if he's avoiding being served paperwork that would allow him to not have to pay a shitton of money, that's really kindof his bad. That's the…	/r/MensRights	14/06/19 10:08 PM
1	Is consent to sex consent to reproduce? \| A key legal right that women have but which is explicitly denied to men by our current laws So why not make child support unavailable for women who failed to notify the father of the pregnancy with enough time to opt out?	/r/MensRights	14/06/19 08:31 PM
1	Well, I guess some hope remains Still going to school there, which is a huge achievement for me. I also want to make a shout-out for the people who have been wrongfully accused: there are many of us who believe you. Women are capable of lies, manipulation, and playing a victim role to ascertain attention. Men are just as capable of rape (as are women). Pretending one happens and not the other is one example of feminists being sexist as fuck. But at the end of the day, while third wave disgusts me, I'm not going to call my view…	/r/MensRights	14/06/19 06:21 PM
2	Well, I guess some hope remains Sort by controversial, unfortunately it didn't glean as much support...	/r/MensRights	14/06/19 04:18 PM
1	Well, I guess some hope remains I mean, I did get raped at the same school as mattress girl. Not saying that case was or wasn't real, just that it's not beyond the scope of what happens there. Title 9 failed me then too, for no reason other than "his story sounded more accurate" when it was central to the case that he'd drugged me.	/r/MensRights	14/06/19 03:52 PM
4	Well, I guess some hope remains If you think there are no women furious about the rights of fathers in regard to their children, appalled at people downplaying male rape victims, and fully ready to fight to either remove the draft or put women on it, you're just not seeing us. A lot of hope remains. It's not us vs them for everyone, some people can realize that making things right has nothing to do with who has it worse. It's about rectifying injustices for everyone who experiences them, and it shouldn't be controversial that …	/r/MensRights	14/06/19 03:43 PM
13	Faced with the prospect of reproductive Rights equal to men feminists suddenly decide that forcing someone to pay for a kid they never wanted is slavery. But only for women. While I completely agree, there is the case that birth control has complications with a person's health/medication. But it's hard not to see the hypocrisy of supporting a child, financially or otherwise, being the decision of one person who can terminate the pregnancy, but the responsibility of two after the fact. I just can't think of a solid solution to it.	/r/MensRights	07/06/19 05:32 AM
16	Female pedophiles get an absolute pass from the media, almost every single time. Seriously disappointed in Fox network for this one.	/r/MensRights	27/05/19 04:59 PM
-2	Saw this woman complaining about how men don’t fight for women’s rights, she then goes on to make a bold statement... I'm not denying it matters. I'm denying it's the ONLY reason we exist. I'm not denying it's why we have certain freedoms either, and I'm grateful for that. But it's not the only sacrifice that leads us to exist.	/r/MensRights	12/05/19 05:44 PM
1	Saw this woman complaining about how men don’t fight for women’s rights, she then goes on to make a bold statement... Those are the numbers for 1980-2010. Getting more recent is problematic for security reasons, but if the average spiked dramatically in the last decade I'd be surprised. Those numbers include suicide, which is a disturbing percentage of the deaths each year in the range specified. PTSD is a huge problem for both groups enduring both traumatic experiences, and the illness needs more recognition, study and support for it's victims. The shit you claim she's "entitled" to includes such legitimate co…	/r/MensRights	12/05/19 05:42 PM
-5	Saw this woman complaining about how men don’t fight for women’s rights, she then goes on to make a bold statement... You do realize that the death rate of soldiers is only 3.5 times higher than the maternal death rate? Yet men are the only ones dying for their existence? I'm going to get a lot of downvotes I'm sure but show some respect. It's fucking mother's day. I'm fine with appreciating the sacrifice but nobody is calling for the deaths of more men here. And no, men don't exclusively die for the existence of further people. Women have a huge role to play in that, sacrificing in huge numbers every year to g…	/r/MensRights	12/05/19 05:07 PM
-12	Saw this woman complaining about how men don’t fight for women’s rights, she then goes on to make a bold statement... Wait, you believe that without waging wars women wouldn't be able to exist? Where do people get the idea that war does anything to help women? Try not having one in the first place.	/r/MensRights	12/05/19 04:41 PM
5	man and woman homeless experiment. the woman got food the man was told to die. There's also one I think by these same people where they get Tinder dates with normal pics then go on them wearing fatsuits. There's definitely a lot of cherry picking to these videos.	/r/MensRights	12/12/17 07:22 PM
1	Chores that men are expected to take care of Well clearly by the fact it's a trans woman the perception of not being serious or responsible has nothing to do with the woman's actual level of responsibility. I've heard the same for trans men in reverse, they say it's actually really sad because they can feel the respect that men just give them automatically and know that if it weren't for their facial hair and bound tits they would be ignored. Unfortunately I think women need a little more forgiveness in some ways. Our minds are built a lot…	/r/MensRights	05/12/17 07:36 PM
1	Chores that men are expected to take care of I was aware of a lot of that. I've never wasted my time on female circles, I can't stand the lack of truth. It just gets me paranoid because I seem to be able to sense when people talk shit about me, they're so transparent about it. Women never liked me, always held different interests anyways. But unfortunately male circles didn't prove much kinder. Some of them are respectful enough to allow you to stand your ground in the room if you're intelligent in what you say. But that's not the majority…	/r/MensRights	05/12/17 09:13 AM
2	Why feminists are winning the cultural wars I literally can't have a dialogue with that many generalizations in one argument. I'm sorry man. I just don't see equal opportunity being provided, and while I'm sure there's plenty of women who want special access to jobs they can't do, I don't think that is the majority or what's really happening here. I remember when I joined my robotics club, it was the culture that I'd do fundraising. Every one of either genders assumed I was on that part of the team, with the other girls, before even discu…	/r/MensRights	05/12/17 04:51 AM
1	Why feminists are winning the cultural wars And women have statistically larger brain centers for emotional processing. We've long known that the genders are specialized for specific functions. However a potential 5 pt drop doesn't make women unfit for a job requiring intelligence. And indeed, you may have many women of average intelligence who could certainly do the same jobs intelligent men can. If you need to be a genius to do CS or engineering or other decent jobs then thank you. -^	/r/MensRights	03/12/17 05:12 PM
1	Chores that men are expected to take care of Well, my ideas err on the feminist side sometimes. I guess I was expecting to be banned from the sub by now.	/r/MensRights	03/12/17 12:04 AM
1	Chores that men are expected to take care of Left wing identity politics and it's adherents are arguably different than the massive community of often academically based women's studies proponents: fucking adults who act like adults, thus you don't find them on Tumblr. So a little of it is cherry picking. You can find crazies who just want more rights and an easier life in every community pushing for anything. Heck, some of them even exclude trans women from their feminism, which is BAFFLING and per actual literature goes against feminism …	/r/MensRights	02/12/17 11:37 PM
1	Chores that men are expected to take care of My mom taught me this one, but not in the positive sense. She wanted my dad to do or say certain things? She'd act passive aggressive until he realized it without ever mentioning what specifically was getting her upset, or what she needed. If you don't know what it means it's probably because you don't struggle with it. I think a close, emotional relationship absolutely is who we should share these struggles with. But if we only have one of these relationships, or heck even zero, we turn into do…	/r/MensRights	02/12/17 10:28 PM
2	Chores that men are expected to take care of Not the reaction I was expecting coming to this thread, tbh but I'm finding there's a lot of really good eggs in MRA.	/r/MensRights	02/12/17 10:10 PM
2	Why feminists are winning the cultural wars Incorrect. The reason is because they see them as victims, imagine them all as refugees, and get a bleeding heart over the anti-islamic sentiment that they perceive as not being about anti-immigration but rather anti-someone else's religion, and they must be fair to "oppressed" religions. You have to pay attention to why they want social reprogramming, it's not a hatred of Christianity but a hatred of whatever values they hold within them being stifled by Christian traditional values. They value…	/r/MensRights	02/12/17 09:28 PM
1	Chores that men are expected to take care of I've seen a lot of people of both genders dump all their problems on a significant other, and rely on them exclusively for emotional support. It comes from a common and misleading idea in modern society that what you need to be happy is a relationship. It also comes from people without friends and family to reach out to, or people not mature enough to talk through their feelings with someone other than their SO. Both genders are guilty of this stupid shit. I don't think men do it more often, but…	/r/MensRights	02/12/17 09:19 PM
4	Chores that men are expected to take care of Female checking in. There are totally women who don't even do their fair share of regular housework. Or women like my mom, who worked two jobs and still did regular housework, just not quite all of it. Still mowed the lawn, gardened and raked when need be. My dad did a lot of the same. My mom's gone now, so my sister and I fill in. I'm more prone to fixing shit, yard work, facilitating everything tech related, as well as small in house medical procedures because of my strong stomach. She's more …	/r/MensRights	02/12/17 09:13 PM
5	Why feminists are winning the cultural wars It's funny you would identify the threats of liberalism and Islam as connected. Sure, liberals try to promote immigration and religious tolerance, but Islamic communities are almost TOO conservative by right leaning standards in the West.	/r/MensRights	02/12/17 08:57 PM
4	Why feminists are winning the cultural wars As much as the perception of women as victims remains, so too will the perception of them as bitchy, demanding and shrill every time they seek out power. You can't have both victim status and the perception of being powerful. Feminism is actually experiencing a transformation into a newer wave (fuck, another one? Fucking pick one) that vilifies trans-exclusionary feminism to the extent of actually achieving some intersectionality. It's going from "support women and feminity" to "stop making ever…	/r/MensRights	02/12/17 08:51 PM
1	Why are there still so few MRA groups? Start one.	/r/MensRights	02/12/17 08:01 PM
7	One of three teammates on a group project is going to fail the class because of our evaluations. She has reported us to Title IX coordinators because of it. Tbh I wouldn't worry that much. I've been through these investigations on the other side, when something did happen. They really just looked to minimize it, and after investigators informed me I was full of shit I asked some other women at school and they'd gotten similar results. She has no proof on you, their hands are tied that it's he said vs she said and they can't just take what she said as truth. Not bitter, just want you to know you're gonna be just fine and it won't be a big deal. Just …	/r/MensRights	01/12/17 01:15 AM
0	How to respond to the "we're not blaming men, we're blaming patriarchy" line That's a really good come back to that. But I don't think it's a requirement that men USE the definitely imbalanced power to favor men for the imbalance to still exist, and thus the patriarchy to be a legitimate structure capable of favoring one over the other. I think it gets used to reinforce gendered roles, in a way that confines men as well as women rather than benefitting one over the other. I don't think the reason that happens is the power imbalance, but rather that it's profitable and tr…	/r/MensRights	30/11/17 08:23 PM
1	How to respond to the "we're not blaming men, we're blaming patriarchy" line Yeah in the case it's a suffix it's short for human, not man. The human in the chair. The chair human. The chair'man. But I've met non feminists who argued dumb shit because they didn't know much about grammar, so I don't really see why you're that annoyed by generic stupidity.	/r/MensRights	30/11/17 07:53 PM
0	How to respond to the "we're not blaming men, we're blaming patriarchy" line Well, what they're saying here is that they're blaming the existence of a system in which it is normal for most of the leadership positions to be held by men, not the men themselves, for the oppression that has resulted from that system. It's sort of saying "it's not your fault that things were implemented in accordance with your benefit, you were in charge". The goal in their mind is to get you to see that the system can exist which harms them without the inherent belief that men want to hurt t…	/r/MensRights	30/11/17 07:49 PM