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fvckCrosshairs/r/seduction27/02/19 06:30 PM
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fvckCrosshairs/r/seduction16/03/19 10:43 AM
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5 hands that’s amazing
/r/seduction02/01/26 08:01 PM
1

Surfing… keeps you in shape, tanned, and cool
/r/seduction17/10/25 12:58 PM
2

Every guy should move the fuck on when dealing with hard to get girls, it will save so much time and headaches. I do this for the fun of it, to enjoy it, why I should chase and do the heavy lifting? If it’s not from both sides I lose interest and move to the next one. Some dudes like it, and that’s ok.
/r/seduction14/10/25 04:48 AM
8

They're just more experienced, tired, and seen all the games already. You need to be more forward and straight to the point with them, unlike the younger ones
/r/seduction12/10/25 10:40 AM
1

You’re putting the date on a padestal, she’s not the prize and neither are you, you both equal
/r/seduction29/09/25 09:49 AM
1

It’s because the 6s get hit on way more frequently and they’re used to get hit on, so their ego is way up the sky.
/r/seduction25/09/25 07:23 PM
1

Could be many reasons… 1.Chatting for so long and not meeting 2.Lost interest due to another girl he met 3.He expected you to initiate to meet or not feeling the vibe from you
/r/seduction24/09/25 09:34 AM
26

don't get too attached and move on. for most girls its just having fun in the moment and that's it especially in that nightlife scenario, just don't wait for her to respond...you sent the message and that's enough, what will happen will happen
/r/seduction02/03/25 11:17 AM
1

Stand up and walk away? Why you should be the one that puts the effort?
/r/seduction19/02/25 09:41 AM
4

Notice how you’re telling OP that he’s the one that should entertain and do the heavy carrying all along, why? where’s the fun in that? You’re lowkey putting her on a pedestal by doing this. If she’s not responsive she can fuck off, not worth it… find one that entertains/responding and actually shows BASIC interest in you too OP, there are plenty
/r/seduction30/01/25 03:08 PM
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yeah it's fun when it happens and you feel on a high, the problem is maintaining that and being able to switch to that state in the future every time you go out.
/r/seduction27/12/24 02:30 PM
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SUCC OR LEAVE
/r/seduction30/11/24 08:57 AM
7

I got angry just reading this, you sound needy as hell, relax, a month is nothing, it’s not some magic that happens quick. You act like seduction is everything in life and this is your root problem
/r/seduction19/10/24 08:56 AM
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That might be the huge reason
/r/seduction27/08/24 06:36 AM
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Could be many reasons. Do you fap a lot to pornography? Do you go to the gym? (increases testosterone). Just because you live the same lifestyle doesn’t mean it will have same side effects as you get older man, you’re 5 years from 30 and the body and mind changes.
/r/seduction27/08/24 06:11 AM
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Gym is not the solution, it only helps the process
/r/seduction26/08/24 05:59 AM
1

It’s a childish question on her side, though the reason she thinks that is because you probably showed zero interest and didn’t escalate anything when you had the perfect scenario. I think you need to sit and think what you want out of this with her
/r/seduction25/08/24 07:18 PM
4

creepy shit
/r/seduction22/08/24 08:52 AM
2

It only makes sense, the ones that have success on apps probably have a weird vibe irl and have no experience in approaching girls and flirting. On the app, they are more confident because they're behind the screen.
/r/seduction22/08/24 07:03 AM
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Why do you need to be spoon fed with the fact that she’s into you and waiting for you to initiate using the number?
/r/seduction30/07/24 03:47 PM
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A lot of guys here with shattered confidence saying "luck", "it's pure genetics" ,"only works if brad pitt". Sure looks is critical, but have you maxed and improved everything about yourself (gym, clothes, bla bla) that you have control of? Do you go out enough? Do you put yourself in the right positions and not standing awkwardly in the corner? Do you actually have a great time and give good vibes?
/r/seduction24/07/24 06:46 AM
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You’re late already, you gotta push to meet up because else what’s the point of texting non stop? If it’s a no then move on, waste of time
/r/seduction03/07/24 06:11 AM
105

You’re overthinking, 2 days will pass and you’ll want to tap again
/r/seduction19/05/24 11:08 AM
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this is probably the worst sub you can ask in lol i mean, if you asked this here, you probably already decided that you do want to cheat, huge mistake but gl with that buddy
/r/seduction17/05/24 02:03 PM
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dinner dates are the worst mistake. can't escalate, both full on food, no vibe, feels too serious, and you'll probably pay triple rather than going to a quick coffee or a nice bar
/r/seduction05/05/24 03:05 PM
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You’re right
/r/seduction01/04/24 05:00 PM
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I can never understand guys like you, what motivates you to keep chasing after her if there is no effort from both sides? You initiated couple of times already, good. Now disappear and see, if she’s into it she’ll write, it’s not rocket science. If not, move the fuck on. A girl that is into you will find 2 second to write a message
/r/seduction01/04/24 11:08 AM
18

totally agree, I worked at a job that I had to introduce myself to strangers (I was that annoying product seller guy in malls). Since then I have a "I don't care" mindset and it feels natural to just approach anyone. I didn't even realize it honestly until I read your post
/r/seduction31/03/24 06:37 AM
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It's great for men that try to pull via IG, many girls (unfortunately) judge from your pics. Otherwise if you try to get girls IRL it's not important. In fact most girls will tell you that not having an IG is lowkey different and that you're not a show off, and living confidently without that shit.
/r/seduction28/03/24 07:48 AM
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For me, the tension and the buildup can be so good, you feel in euphoria at times
/r/seduction28/03/24 07:43 AM
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If you want to play games buy a PlayStation, sounds like a headache but what ever. I’d go hard on the pull and then disappear and then again, have that balance.
/r/seduction13/03/24 10:47 AM
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By stop being a bitch and move on?
/r/seduction14/02/24 10:56 AM
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Yeah you just need to date more, there's girls take things easy.
/r/seduction11/02/24 05:10 PM
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Your post is confusing. What is your goal? You want a girlfriend? This is how a relationship works, you need to invest some time for her (not all of them are like that, busy independent girls are the best and don't seek attention every 5 minutes). You want a fling? Why keep talking to them instead of fading away?
/r/seduction11/02/24 04:57 PM
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Your "friends" don't have the balls to approach. ditch those and find a group with similar interest
/r/seduction11/02/24 07:23 AM
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You don’t need some fucking guy to push you around and say shit that you already know and read about. Not to mention they charge thousands, it’s pathetic. Find a group with similar interest of picking up chicks and push each other and make fun off of it
/r/seduction09/02/24 10:37 AM
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You're just shedding negative light on the night life, which is fine because you simply don't like it. I enjoy it and view it as fun, we always do crazy shit when going out and it leaves us with crazy memories. Any activity can be written in such way that will make people hate it. Meet girls where you do enjoy going...hobby, day to day stuff, etc
/r/seduction19/12/21 05:09 AM
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(night) Just approach until you find the one that clicks, sometimes it can be the first approach, sometimes it can be the 3rd or 4th, numbers game. Just get to know her, flirt, some compliments here and there, be touchy from time to time and when you feel she is comfortable with you go for the kiss. I tend to never push for sex and kinda tease them with that (make out with grabbing and then ejecting coldly) so that they'll suggest to bounce somewhere else (which most chances leads to sex).
/r/seduction16/12/21 06:42 AM
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the apps are great to have on the side or when having a dry spell but shouldn't be your main source ever, most girls I know use it for validation and to just chat when they're bored.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:35 AM
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its corny to ask this
/r/seduction22/08/21 05:21 AM
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Don't agree, you said it yourself, "I tell myself that it just saves me time by filtering out people who aren’t really intent on meeting up." Well you just filtered one out, a girl that is into you would react different. Also I don't know the context of the message you sent her which could also be off putting, not because of the directness.
/r/seduction02/08/21 05:17 AM
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Not a lady, but long eye contact is always the good default signal..at least from my experience. Looking for these indications and scanning is alright but it doesn't mean that a girl in a venue that gave you no signs would not be interested. I've had girls that I'd never would've thought that anything could happen because I was in 0 contact/indications (not even saying good morning at work) with them, flirting hard with me AFTER I showed interest.
/r/seduction30/07/21 07:30 AM
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It's because you're putting the girls you like on a padestal, you're not nervous about girls you don't want anything with because you're not afraid to fuck up
/r/seduction28/07/21 04:57 AM
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You're tired of having this life while saying you're not even trying? You don't even have any results to base off to say that negative shit about yourself, you literally assume that you're shit for no reason. If you don't value yourself no girl will...change that mindset asap my guy
/r/seduction09/07/21 07:40 AM
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best of luck
/r/seduction03/07/21 09:11 AM
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Sorry to hear that but the world doesn't work this way, I've never heard of something like that and sounds like being handicapped. I'm from a place where its the opposite, women want you to make moves because its natural that a man desires a woman.
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:51 PM
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its easy, stop relying on dating apps
/r/seduction02/07/21 06:51 AM
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You just know, it's a gut feeling. But generally - nothing to talk about, her body language is off, shes not open to touches here and there, one worded answers, not holding eye contact, at some points you can tell she doesn't want to be there. 2.If she's willing to make time to meet you THE SECOND time, then yes, there is an interest and most chances shes into you.
/r/seduction02/07/21 06:44 AM
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YES YOU'RE LATE ALREADY always go for it on the first date (unless the vibe is way off, but you had a 2nd date)...you just need the right moment and there will be plenty of those...
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:03 AM
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Surfing , lifting and sometimes I produce beats
/r/seduction01/07/21 03:56 AM
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guys still rely on apps and its sad af, this shit will drown your confidence, go outside and approach ffs
/r/seduction27/06/21 07:35 PM
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lmao what
/r/seduction20/06/21 05:10 AM
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Then you just answered your own question, you can improve/learn characteristics. Financial status is irrelevant
/r/seduction11/06/21 06:00 AM
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First of all, yes, always try improving in all areas. Seduction wise? I know guys that don't have jobs or work at minimum pay places get tail more than anyone else, it has nothing to do with it, just might help you a little bit- status wise and make you come off more confident.
/r/seduction11/06/21 05:53 AM
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Sometimes you need to build a little more rapport in order for them wanting to meet, some girls will go out with you right off the bat, some need to be comfortable first. If she continues talking a day or two and she's still not down, move on bro
/r/seduction29/05/21 08:43 AM
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Numbers game doesn't mean "chasing" all the time, it translates to knowing how to and when to move on from a girl, keep trying until finding the ones that stick. Agree with everything else though
/r/seduction26/05/21 05:09 AM
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These things are only valid to people who exploit it on the daily, if used in moderation, I don't agree with this
/r/seduction17/05/21 07:30 AM
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Guys like that will always have more chances of getting laid because they go balls deep without giving a f, they don't overthink and wonder, he just needs to know good balance and know when to stop. I would say that until she clearly shows hard disinterest/ a no, keep trying
/r/seduction05/05/21 05:04 AM
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Think it's OK as long as you do it in a crowded/central place especially on weekends.
/r/seduction29/04/21 05:13 AM
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That texting and caring for her after that night was not necessary, she clearly wanted to have a moment with you (makeout / maybe fuck) at that time, not a boyfriend. There was no escalation on your part, that's why she never replied again too. Talking from experience, almost identical to your night out
/r/seduction29/04/21 05:08 AM
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where is the approach?
/r/seduction24/04/21 05:24 AM
8

"It is best for them to approach us or show signs that they like us rather than us chasing them". That's the worst mindset you can have, it's your job to initiate things.
/r/seduction19/04/21 05:19 AM
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warm up and talk to everybody before approaching, get into a social state
/r/seduction19/04/21 05:12 AM
2

Find it crazy how your story is almost identical to mine, sometimes it's hard to cut off a relationship when seeing red flags because you need that someone, but it's worth it in a long run and should be done. I've had a 3 year relationship between 21-24, she broke up with me. Kinda fucked me but when looking back it gave me drive to go out and be 10x better in life. Everything happens for a reason, find the good in it. Good post.
/r/seduction18/04/21 05:41 AM
2

Enjoyed reading that, sucks it didn't end up with sex though you successfully seduced her no doubt
/r/seduction16/04/21 06:45 PM
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This all comes down to the old saying: never take advice on women from a women
/r/seduction13/04/21 05:56 PM
2

Honestly I only come here to read FR's because I personally find it interesting to see other guys' journey, you can learn from it too, and it's missing here
/r/seduction07/04/21 05:12 AM
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A girl smiling back at the club is the greenest light you could get, know this for next time.
/r/seduction04/04/21 05:22 AM
2

You have value Be flirty, show intent off the bat Be positive in every interaction Abundance mindset, it's numbers game (find the ones that you attract, it's not about saying the right thing but the vibe) Talk to everybody all the time, build that connection skill + it's good for warmup
/r/seduction04/04/21 05:16 AM
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That's why he said it's for intorvets
/r/seduction29/03/21 04:59 PM
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I don't know what's clicking photos but nice going bud
/r/seduction28/03/21 05:58 PM
2

Sooner or later this crap will disappear, so it might help temporarily doing daygame. But after that it's back to square one
/r/seduction27/03/21 09:24 AM
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Because game is so dynamic you can't go by the script with it, especially when it includes other women which are different in their way all the time, all the techniques and game that you read about will never work on ALL women. Comparing coding to game is not a good comparison, it is different. Coding is straight facts and game is not, we're not seducing robots.
/r/seduction27/03/21 09:12 AM
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I know deep down I don't need to come here because I feel like i'm doing good attracting girls for quite some time now. I honestly only come here to read FR's and see how's it going for other guys and maybe throw in some comments.
/r/seduction02/03/21 06:59 AM
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this is the only comment you need to hear OP
/r/seduction27/02/21 07:43 AM
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wha the fuck are you talking about
/r/seduction24/02/21 10:41 AM
2

Looks like she came for sex but you didn't escalate things/ were flirty with her off the bat, especially if she's from Tinder, it could've happened on the first date. That's fine though, good luck on the second one.
/r/seduction22/02/21 06:46 AM
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Matches don't mean shit man and don't take these apps seriously, alot of women use it for validation/ig following. Move on from this one because it looks like you're on your way to her simp mobile, many luck
/r/seduction19/02/21 08:33 AM
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do you really need someone else to tell you that this person will hurt you forever? you'll fuck him and he'll be gone again, simple logic
/r/seduction13/02/21 08:09 AM
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throwing compliments here and there, show intereset without expecting her response, just say it casually and not in a simp'ish way.
/r/seduction08/02/21 06:54 AM
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I think its maybe because you're not showing interest and being bold enough/vulnerable/ open up to people to have deeper conversations. If the only thing you do on dates is exchange information then that will always be the result, there is no spike of emotion.
/r/seduction04/02/21 06:33 AM
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No matter what you say, as soon as you open her she knows why you're there (especially in a club), so be direct in any case and spark a conversation, introduce yourself and ask some stuff about her/say something that you noticed about her/environment and hope for the conversation to flow. At the end of the day it doesn't matter what you say but the way to you say it and if you're her type - everything will fall in place.
/r/seduction01/02/21 06:43 AM
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ok
/r/seduction30/01/21 09:32 PM
2

wow do guys really ask girls for kiss permissions/preferences? that's lowkey beta. You should just guy for it (when it feels right) and the worst that will happen is that she'll reject you. Because its a normal thing. A week a go I went on a date with a girl that told me that she NEVER kiss on the first date, but she did go with it when I leaned for the kiss that turned into a make out session, and then said she never does this with other guys. Go figure. Women don't know what they want, the poi…
/r/seduction30/01/21 09:27 PM
3

sounds like you're just existing
/r/seduction30/01/21 09:05 AM
1

Yes, plus sprinkle some compliments here and there, things that you like about her but be genuine when saying it. I'll tell you this, I am also not a bad look and I've missed tons of opportunities because I didn't think I was enough, I always had this feeling that I did not have enough women in my life but then I realized...why the fuck am I complaining? I am barely trying and not approaching enough or trying to meet girls in any way (most of the girls I've been with back then flirted with me), …
/r/seduction29/01/21 07:33 AM
1

nah you good look-wise, honestly. You have a big plus here compared to other guys, always remember that and it might give you a little confidence boost next time you approach. Are you bold in your interactions and do you show interest right off the bat? I'm asking this because It's kinda familiar to me, I used to exchange information with the girl and it led to nowhere. Being bold, showing interest changed my mindset and allowed me to be more carefree during my interactions, physicality should h…
/r/seduction28/01/21 12:22 PM
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It could be, also,I cant really tell you why, I don't know your vibe, the way you talk, your body language etc... There is no way all girls are like that with you, I feel like you don't approach enough. How many times do you approach/try to flirt during a week?
/r/seduction28/01/21 11:31 AM
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I agree with that, girls are automatically attracted to guys and it basically doesn't matter what you say. If she finds you attractive, it less about saying the right thing and more about not saying the wrong thing.
/r/seduction28/01/21 07:10 AM
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Slow yourself down, always tell yourself that there is always a possibility that this could be not it, lets see how things go, she cant be perfect. I just realized I described dating basically lmao.
/r/seduction28/01/21 07:07 AM
0

No one really cares and actually will admire that, you just fell on shit friends my guy.
/r/seduction27/01/21 06:49 AM
1

So your advice is literally: fuck up your sleep routine and be tired most of the day, instead of working on your social skills and talking to girls like a normal person? okay
/r/seduction23/01/21 08:31 AM
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I think most guys experience this, I noticed that if my day had a lot of interactions/fun time/going out of my comfort zone (doesn't have to be related to seduction), I am am more free minded and not caught up with my thoughts. Basically warm up, talk to everybody.
/r/seduction23/01/21 08:15 AM
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She's trying to put herself as high value and trying to tell you you've got some prize in your hands. You should not care. Most girls get attention from guys all the time, she aint special.
/r/seduction20/01/21 07:10 AM
10

The part where you said that you have to fight for the one's that are your type is true. Usually girls that hit on me are never my type or somewhat not attractive. Never go for that even if you have the need to be validated,because you know you'll have to end things eventually. The pretty ones definitely worth the battle, and eventually when you end up hooking up she'll spill everything and tell you you're handsome etc..
/r/seduction20/01/21 07:01 AM
2

bruh clubs are open over there? lucky
/r/seduction19/01/21 06:51 AM
3

It's not everything but definitely puts you in easy mode if good looking, all you have to do is literally be normal and don't do dumb shit.
/r/seduction17/01/21 06:29 AM
1

Car was my only option before I moved out, hated it, but if it's a big car it might be alright
/r/seduction16/01/21 09:07 AM
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Depends on the situation, if it's a girl I just met I would initiate a couple of times in the beginning of things, then I will disappear to see if she comes back and initiates, this means interest. Try it, if she likes you she'll message you, its not rocket science.
/r/seduction16/01/21 08:12 AM
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too much texting my guy (might be any other reason ofc), leave something for the date itself, over analyzing and thinking why haven't she responded yet will get you nothing but built up frustration and negative thinking, get busy, or atleast act like it, text her once a day or two. disappear and test if she initiates conversations which is a sign of interest. you'll do good next time
/r/seduction06/01/21 06:49 AM
1

most women on dating apps are there for validation, period
/r/seduction31/12/20 06:53 PM
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Its funny because when I came here I already "knew?" everything, because main/most of the advice here is making sense to me and knew about it, and I didn't really change anything about myself. Some people just don't need this sub, I guess I come here for motivation that's it.
/r/seduction29/12/20 06:09 AM
1

nah...only in a serious relationship
/r/seduction22/12/20 08:42 PM
1

Good advice, but I think you need to find good balance, women like attention, you need to be present at least once or twice a day for a talk, that's from my experience, even with women that are not hard attention seekers and have a busy life.
/r/seduction15/12/20 06:32 AM
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For me it's going out with a single friend, no more than that. It just makes it more enjoyable for me idk, you laugh off rejections together,push you, and generally have fun between approaches.
/r/seduction13/12/20 06:22 AM
1

Next time you find yourself in a situation like that, think of the regret you will have not asking her out, and then going to seddit to write about it.
/r/seduction09/12/20 06:19 AM
1

Well done, next time build some connection, talk about anything, it will increase the chances of her to respond to a date.
/r/seduction06/12/20 06:32 AM
1

Maybe because you never make a move or show sexual/relationship intent?
/r/seduction05/12/20 09:11 AM
4

It only makes sense to me. A guy in his late 20's living with his parents will come off as dependent and does not have his shit together (even if you do), girls don't want to meet your parents when they enter the house (especially when you pull and it's a one night stand). You are free when you live alone to do what the fuck you want and not rely on your parents. It's simply more comfortable if you cant afford it. You have no idea how many smashing opportunities I missed because I was still livi…
/r/seduction05/12/20 09:01 AM
3

I don't know your history and how long you've known her but - I actually think its not a bad move,be bold, you just have to do it in not a simp'ish way, have abundance and don't care about the outcome, if she feels the same shell be back.
/r/seduction29/11/20 06:08 AM
1

plus abundance and you're good to go.
/r/seduction28/11/20 06:39 AM
1

im blown by your naiveness
/r/seduction26/11/20 06:16 AM
1

can relate. most of my life people always assume I have women piled up for me/getting tons of pussy, not true though and not really sure why they think that, in reality its nothing crazy and pretty regular and nothing like they think of me.
/r/seduction25/11/20 06:26 AM
2

I usually give it a week TOPS. If shes into you she'll find the time. 2 months? it aint it chief
/r/seduction25/11/20 06:17 AM
2

Women will not start chasing you, though self improvement is an important base to start with, the rest should be experiencing in the field.
/r/seduction15/11/20 06:01 AM
1

You go to the gym by wanting to grow bigger and improve yourself in that area, not to get girls. Girls will fall in place over time.
/r/seduction11/11/20 06:09 AM
5

COVID definitely affected my game due to working from home, clubs and bars are shut and the streets are basically empty.
/r/seduction28/10/20 06:08 AM
1

Does it turn a guy off if a woman initiates? that's a no
/r/seduction22/09/20 11:09 AM
1

There is no good way, girls get DM's all the time and you're not different from any other guy. Chances are higher when you're good looking and that's all
/r/seduction04/09/20 08:26 AM
1

BLEU by channel
/r/seduction30/07/20 06:39 AM
2

abundance, always think that there are plenty of other girls that will want you, some without even trying on your part.
/r/seduction25/07/20 06:56 AM
3

big facts
/r/seduction25/07/20 06:54 AM
2

shes sounds trash and shouldn't even make you feel worried about this whole situation
/r/seduction15/07/20 06:53 AM
1

good one
/r/seduction20/02/20 06:28 AM
1

doesn't matter, just make sure to end it on a positive note, you don't want to show that she's the only girl you're talking to and you have more options.
/r/seduction10/02/20 07:18 AM
3

You're not bad at conversation, it's just some girls give you nothing to work with. It might be that you're not her type/your vibe or any other reason. Honestly, if a girl that I approach gives me one word replies I just get bored an disinterested in her and move on (of course after trying on my part).
/r/seduction08/02/20 05:21 PM
1

really? I'm usually just surprised and thinking good for them, why should I care more than that
/r/seduction05/02/20 06:20 AM
2

she has huge problems
/r/seduction03/02/20 06:30 AM
1

The obvious one is going out with younger girls, BUT, I go out to places of my age area, so girls my age are not attracted to me due to looking way younger.
/r/seduction05/12/19 06:24 AM
4

Really depends, Iv'e heard it from couple of girls that they don't like to be approached and it makes the feel uncomfortable, some girls like you like it. It all comes down to approach anyway, cause you'll never know.
/r/seduction26/11/19 06:26 AM
1

You won't get over AA after one night, even if you approach 30 girls that night. I've had nights I was approaching like a madman, then couple of days after I had AA outta nowhere and did nothing, like I was another person, I cannot explain it. It really takes a time to kind of get "used to it" and you eventually you'll do it without thinking about it too much.
/r/seduction25/10/19 08:05 PM
2

how can you "master" game without approaching lmao
/r/seduction15/09/19 07:01 PM
1

3158 that's bananas
/r/seduction14/09/19 09:21 AM
3

hits home with the rejections i'm getting, good going though my friend, very nice
/r/seduction12/09/19 05:25 AM
2

the club looks crazy what the fuck
/r/seduction16/08/19 08:06 AM
1

Its tinder, there is no need for deep conversations and knowing each other too much and all that. Iv'e found more success when going straight for the meet up rather than mumbling around talking about boring stuff both sides don't care about, they will unmatch or stop responding from my experience.
/r/seduction30/07/19 05:30 AM
20

I didn't quite understand...
/r/seduction08/07/19 05:30 AM
3

I just don't understand what they get out of lying on reddit, that's just weird
/r/seduction02/06/19 05:14 AM
1

feel bad for the guy, too bad he didn't escalate
/r/seduction11/05/19 07:23 AM
13

gotta disagree with that one, any human that seems positive and happy attracts a lot of people, they wanna be a part of that.
/r/seduction08/05/19 03:54 PM
1

silence is the rejection, and if there are one worded responses or no responses at all it's a turn off for ME and I move on, again, look at it as "Lets see how she is, I hope I will like her". and not - "i hope she will like me".
/r/seduction06/05/19 05:23 AM
1

wheres the approaches my guy
/r/seduction06/05/19 05:20 AM
0

to me it just sounds like a problem related to...looks? I mean...1k approaches and 40 numbers?
/r/seduction04/05/19 08:42 PM
0

kill yourself
/r/seduction26/04/19 01:53 PM
1

cool, update us
/r/seduction15/04/19 08:28 PM
7

How inviting you to her place didn't light a bulb in your head? having a condom in your wallet is a must for situations like this, she definitely wanted to fuck. Try to reconnect with her and arrange another sitting like this..
/r/seduction15/04/19 05:30 AM
3

4 years ago I used to get at least 6 matches a week, I started a relationship so I stopped using it, now 4 years after I ended the relationship, I get maybe 3 matches a month. Tinder gold did not exist back in the dayt, so i think its something to do with that
/r/seduction10/04/19 05:24 AM
1

Crystal clear sign, go in
/r/seduction07/04/19 07:40 PM
4

lol thats why dating apps are trash and it's not worth it at all, you'll always feel you'll doing everything, if a girl is not engaging into the conversation also (which is impossible on dating apps), gtfo
/r/seduction03/04/19 05:16 AM
2

unfortunately, looks play a big role for some girls no matter how good your game is, ... that's just how it is
/r/seduction29/03/19 02:04 PM
1

For me personally if a girl is pulling out and finding excuses to talk to her friends, I ditch, It's not worth it imo, you've done what you could and if shes not interested stop trying so hard and move on, why would you waste your energy on a girl that plays these annoying games? Would go for the number for the heck of it and dipped to the next one, having more confidence.
/r/seduction24/03/19 08:56 PM
2

.4. don't be unattractive. just joking, thanks for the tip, will try
/r/seduction23/03/19 11:08 AM
3

yes e s
/r/seduction11/03/19 05:44 AM
1

with that attitude, yeah
/r/seduction05/03/19 08:46 PM
3

sorry for this unhelpful comment, but what's stacking?
/r/seduction24/02/19 07:31 PM
1

best thread on this sub hands down, motivated.
/r/seduction22/02/19 02:43 PM
1

You definitely should move things faster in a club/bar and be more directed about your intentions, because you can't really have a deep conversation in that environment . That's just my experience edit: you should always be clear about your intentions no matter where, just escalate faster is what I meant
/r/seduction20/02/19 08:01 PM
1

do it before someone else grabs her and you'll feel sorry for the rest of your life
/r/seduction20/02/19 06:47 AM
1

I agree, but you should mention that it differs in the situation you are, when your'e in a club for example, you can't do slow game
/r/seduction20/02/19 06:42 AM
2

Just remind yourself of that shitty horrible feeling of regret you had last time, that it was so shitty you had to post about it on reddit
/r/seduction17/02/19 06:54 PM
1

true story, it does make you question your looks, but its all BS. it is really different as 3s and 4s have ridiculously high standards and there are no matches with at least a 7
/r/seduction17/02/19 06:10 AM
1

probably, and expecting for the girl to come back and re-initiate the conversation is pretty rare
/r/seduction16/02/19 08:26 PM
1

Well done man. I also experienced this thing where a friend just pulls the girl away from you. As I started chatting this girl at a bar her friend just took her away right when we exchanged names and other small talk bs, never saw her after that, don't know if its rejection...
/r/seduction16/02/19 10:58 AM
2

classic approach anxiety, let your ego go and stop tip toeing on egg shells, put yoruself out there
/r/seduction10/02/19 06:23 AM
1

That's just how it is right now, I've had plenty of matches yet 90% of the don't answer and the other 10% just dont continue the conversation and it dies. Their standards are so high, even the 2/10s It's just a shitty side way to get a lay if you're lucky, the best way is to meet them IRL.
/r/seduction05/02/19 06:16 AM
1

Is that a retorical question?
/r/seduction01/02/19 02:13 PM
1

Just becuase you are on a diet doesn't mean you can't look at the menu. -somewhere from youtube
/r/seduction02/01/19 06:14 AM
1

ignore obviously... why would you want to do anything with a girl that faked and then ghosted
/r/seduction14/12/18 09:06 AM
4

This, I have no problem when it comes to approaching and opening random people, idgaf about these things, i just cant hold a convo
/r/seduction29/10/18 05:00 AM
0

No one says that looks dont matter, its a huge addition for first interactions and having more chance to score, but you need a good personality/confidence to come along with that pretty face. I'd say confidence is 50%, definetly not 25% bro.
/r/seduction25/10/18 05:08 AM
1

I was on the same boat at that age, took me a while to develop a desire for girls, idk why. Give it some little time
/r/seduction22/10/18 05:07 AM
4

wtf this is the most unsure of herself person iv'e ever heard of
/r/seduction08/10/18 05:06 AM
1

I don't get your advice at all
/r/seduction29/09/18 10:25 AM
1

🤦
/r/seduction10/07/18 05:05 AM
14

"I noticed your cleavage from over there, and I had to come over and to tell you that I'm in love right now." I'm having a hard time to believe that this sentence would work on any woman
/r/seduction30/06/18 09:41 AM
-1

do not agree at all, sometimes I blurt out things without thinking that actually makes people laugh and can get a nice conversation flowing. it can get helpful at times, it is also important the way you put it out there
/r/seduction28/05/18 05:17 AM
6

She was being nice I think, move on, its cool
/r/seduction16/04/18 05:07 AM
3

It seems like you were already friendzoned at the time she showed you the pic of the other dude, you should tell the story before that, not this
/r/seduction12/04/18 05:24 AM
2

lol i got angry just reading that, what a cunt, it is pretty obvious you wouldnt continue this "date" ... its a pretty bad sign when she comes with her girlfriend but with a dude... nah fk that
/r/seduction12/04/18 05:14 AM
1

Just tell her you've noticed that something is wrong and you want to know about it, shes obviously into you, try to level up with the flirting and make yourself clear about your intentions. On a side note, the way she acted gives me a vibe of a crazy ass bish. excuse my english
/r/seduction05/04/18 08:21 AM
1

I can't understand how guys can take this man seriously with these dumb suggestions, its pretty obvious you need to be more open and bold. Deflecting questions will make it weird at some point and the girl will start to think things.
/r/seduction05/04/18 07:51 AM
0

I would stop at 2... all these other questions make it seem canned and un-natural in some way, these things should come up with time
/r/seduction05/04/18 07:39 AM
1

being playful/joking around has always worked for me, show them you don't take the situation too much seriously, just relax and try escalating in a way that will seem like a total norm,like you do it everyday, when you do it in a way that will seem like its your first time ,they will be turned off, I think fake it till you make it makes sense here?
/r/seduction02/03/18 05:53 PM
2

I was like that too until I joined the army. I meet new people all the time and I can truly tell the difference, it feels easy and natural now.
/r/seduction15/09/14 07:53 AM
1

Put her in her place.
/r/seduction04/11/13 09:44 AM
2

This. After I finished Models I barley go on seddit now, just for the FR's.
/r/seduction04/11/13 07:43 AM
1

"You miss the 100 shots you don't take". - Michael Jordan
/r/seduction29/09/13 04:27 PM
1

This is a good example for friction like Mark Manson explained in his book.
/r/seduction29/09/13 04:17 PM
-4

Good one, but I hope no one will really try this dumb shit
/r/seduction25/09/13 07:08 AM
1

You take this too seriously, so what she saw and didn't respond anything could've happen. Try again later
/r/seduction01/09/13 09:28 AM
2

Tell her you want to meet,escalate. Txt game is shit
/r/seduction26/08/13 09:19 AM
0

Why are you so worried? It's a good thing that this mistake happened now she knows your intentions and that you're interested in her.
/r/seduction25/08/13 01:34 PM
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