Haha nice theory but no. Women don’t approach men because we don’t need to. Also because if men don’t take initiative initially they’re never going to do it.
Oh because @badgersonice was right on! Neither women nor men should date people as placeholders. When women settle they risk losing years of their lives with the wrong man. No one—not men or women— wants a toxic relationship. You seemed to disagree which I found puzzling.
Men don’t seem to get this. Women choose to be single because they don’t want to settle. Why not? Because settling often leads to abusive and/or toxic relationships.