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I got kicked out for "smoking inside" I was clearly outside the entire time yet he blew up the second I tried to get back in past him? He has always been a tool really.
/r/seduction09/03/12 07:15 PM
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No you don't need to become "that guy" to F-Close constantly. I think it was Tyler that said he used to be an introverted guy with a few friends when he first started pickup and it took him a while to get anywhere let alone F-Close. These things just take time like everything in life does; experience comes from practice as does the rewards. Faking it helps up to a point but eventually there will come a day when you no longer feel conscious about becoming "that guy" because you are "that guy".
/r/seduction09/03/12 12:04 PM
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I've been reading all your FRs so far and you seem to be having an awesome time while doing pick up which is refreshing as some FRs are like watching a car crash. It seems like the night was a lot of fun but I was pretty surprised the bouncer was cool with you as I got kicked out of a club 2 weeks ago and the bouncer has been an asshole to me every time i've been there since.
/r/seduction09/03/12 10:01 AM
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I feel if I was in your situation I would have been completely lost, IOIs are one of the few ways I can pick up on attraction. Anyway the FR was pretty boss dude I hope you write another one if you meet up again.
/r/seduction09/03/12 09:56 AM
2

You really do seem to get the full spectrum of girls, awesome FR though the final thoughts was very helpful.
/r/seduction09/03/12 09:49 AM
5

XKCD one again showing their depth and breadth of topics, if you haven't got their site bookmarked you need to do it now.
/r/seduction09/03/12 09:43 AM
5

You have what I used to have. I was far too polite and became a doormat and constantly agreed with everyone so as not to cause friction. What helped me most was just speaking my mind and constantly telling myself that I should live for myself rather than for other peoples amusement.
/r/seduction08/03/12 10:58 PM
2

Extremely good advice to be fair, everyone should read this and then look at articles which expand on the points as its an awesome compendium of points.
/r/seduction08/03/12 04:03 PM
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Fantastic
/r/seduction07/03/12 09:49 AM
2

True and I understand that, I myself go out to have fun every time and the pick up is a secondary thought rather than the prevalent point. If i'm trying to approach and things aren't going well putting yourself into this mindset is the added incentive to keep it up rather than to falter and succumb to AA.
/r/seduction06/03/12 12:44 AM
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I think "asshole" wasn't the best choice as people are taking this to be a contentious issue. As I said this gets me into the mindset to approach and keep trying if theres rejection or a blow out, below I said its a state of mind rather than a judgement as you have pointed out.
/r/seduction05/03/12 09:44 PM
11

Its a state of mind not a judgement. If you think that you should be the guy taking the hot girl home rather than someone else then putting yourself into this state of mind helps.
/r/seduction05/03/12 07:10 PM
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If you don't go for the girls then some asshole will be going home with her at the end of the night. Look at it like that it usually pushes me to go for it.
/r/seduction05/03/12 05:27 PM
3

Sweet jesus...do a FR on that one
/r/seduction05/03/12 01:54 PM
2

The way I like to see it is even if you are an average guy with average looks, fashion sense, humor, wit etc then you rank 5/10 on everything in your own head; even if you have a defeatist attitude and you rationalize you have a low chance with women. If you keep going for approach after approach and don't get yourself down after rejection then the numbers game can only play into your hands even if you aren't a chiseled Adonis with PU advice from heaven.
/r/seduction05/03/12 01:42 PM
1

After the compliment try out some 90-10 stuff, its been the biggest improvement in my game that i've noticed after the opener.
/r/seduction02/03/12 12:11 PM
2

All of these seem like they want another compliment or for you to reinforce your original one. As long as you keep it sincere and follow it up well you could get quite far.
/r/seduction02/03/12 12:10 PM
1

Learn from the mistake, its hard getting into this kinda thing because you know what to do in hindsight so the more you practise the more it comes naturally.
/r/seduction02/03/12 12:06 PM
4

Ask them out to a date and make sure you tell them its a DATE. Then flirt more or less like you would normally and try for a kiss at some point.
/r/seduction01/03/12 06:59 PM
1

Many good points about this are covered in PU - mainly under social conditioning etc
/r/seduction01/03/12 04:18 PM
2

I'll give it a go this weekend but i'm skeptical of it
/r/seduction01/03/12 04:12 PM
1

Pretty much this. Escalation would be the next logical step as "Hopefully you had a fun. I feel like I was talking your ear off." sounds like she took at least some level of rapport from your meet up. Text and arrange another date.
/r/seduction01/03/12 02:28 AM
1

Doesn't mean a thing really just keep it up, pick up on visual clues as well as physical such as the handshake.
/r/seduction01/03/12 02:26 AM
1

This could work but after a while some girls will get freaked out if you just hold on for a long time (sometimes they are too polite to just pull away). I think you should hold on for 5-10 seconds, any more seems a bit ridiculous.
/r/seduction01/03/12 01:30 AM
0

Best just to move on IMO. There was a girl I tried the same thing with once at a party, she was all up on me then the second I talked to another girl she was gone. She later told my friends that I was just out hunting girls and I wasn't into her...all of this over me talking to another girl. anyway tl;dr some girls get jealous and blow it off
/r/seduction29/02/12 12:24 AM
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This has been discussed a fair bit in RSD etc it seems to come down to confidence and inner game. Most of the guys that do conventions and talks aren't 10's themselves but the confidence gives them the buffer zone to get what they want.
/r/seduction28/02/12 12:48 AM
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"I gave her a bit of crap about probably not doing anything again tonight" ding ding ding. You could have played to this and worked it on from there, you could have gone with "Yea i'm not doing anything tonight either you should come with me after work for coffee/dinnner/drinks/ice cream". Anyway good job and make sure you actually ask her dude and see how it goes. Start a conversation first and then ask for the number.
/r/seduction27/02/12 05:38 PM
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Yea I had this problem too but as long as you can play it off as a joke then people don't find it as annoying. There was a guy I know who was cocky as fuck and people hated him for it whereas one of my best friend has a cocky-joke-thing going on and people find him hilarious.
/r/seduction27/02/12 04:34 PM
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You could have played this one off pretty well. When the girl asks for someone to dance with her friend you could have said "Yes, but make sure you are free after this dance because you are the want I want" then boom you satisfy both of them and you can build up the feeling that you are with another girl and if she wants you back she will have to try.
/r/seduction27/02/12 04:32 PM
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You are in the friend zone for a reason usually because you didn't show interest early on. If the girl is used to that then she won't break out of it.
/r/seduction27/02/12 04:28 PM
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I find that I have a very unique sense of humor and a lot of people just don't laugh so I try to pander to them
/r/seduction27/02/12 02:50 AM
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It doesn't usually work so well in my experience as the girl can just take it or leave it really whereas if you get hers you can place the emphasis on her replying to you. Anyway just my 2c good luck with it, ill definitely keep track of this one.
/r/seduction27/02/12 02:41 AM
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I think the toughest thing first time out is summarized well in point 4 "you must always keep a sexual element/tension with the girl. You're not there to entertain, you're there to hook up" its tough to get past that as you are always trying to keep her laughing and entertained yet the best approach is to get her into a zone where she knows what you want to happen and you are willing to actually get to it.
/r/seduction27/02/12 02:38 AM
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Getting blown off is tough to handle but you shouldn't let it get to you much. Of course there will be girls who won't give you the time of day for various reasons but having your friends tell you that confidence and actually taking the shots doesn't matter is just toxic to your entire approach. You should try to find a guy who is more like you and head out to bars with him instead. A proper wingman that is out to help is infinitely better than having friends sitting on the sidelines bringing yo…
/r/seduction27/02/12 02:34 AM
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Completely differs from my opinion. Confidence can make up for a lack of anything in most cases, if you portray yourself in the right light then things usually end up going better than you would expect.
/r/seduction27/02/12 12:47 AM
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Completely agree but even if you have all the positive mindset and set up the opportunities you still need the luck. The reason why biographies share this one characteristic is that most people are just lucky and this gets them to where they are.
/r/seduction27/02/12 12:45 AM
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It seems fairly hit and miss I suppose however you can usually gauge by what the guy looks like and whats hes wearing if hes a d-bag that will start something. Ill try that one sometime. My friend does this to everyone to be fair and last week it nearly ended up in a brawl, he even does it to a set of girls and singles one out to ask if she has a boyfriend and that he'll be back once he hits up the bar to talk to her. It works a lot more than it fails because the girl already knows you are inter…
/r/seduction27/02/12 12:20 AM
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About the girl wanting to go outside, only if she makes it damn obvious she doesn't want you there just keep rolling with it and even if its a 50/50 and you can't quite tell it still works out well because you have her isolated and can continue there. To be honest dude on ruining the first date it seems obvious from the way you are telling this that it was doomed from the start. Even if she was shit testing her date on you taking her dancing he failed hard and even gave up. Its a shitty place to…
/r/seduction27/02/12 12:16 AM
2

The bad rep is hard to shake to be honest but you can just have the approach of DENY DENY DENY unless you have actually banged the girls in the room. If they call you a player ask them to describe what one is and neg/laugh or agree and escalate on it.
/r/seduction27/02/12 12:06 AM
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That almost seems like you are re-affirming the friend zone rather than pushing it towards something else
/r/seduction27/02/12 12:04 AM
1

Usually if you do this in the wrong way it ends up in a complete ass kicking. My friend did this one last weekend and the guy took a massive offense to it (my friend is a bit brash) but even so the guys head nearly exploded because they were dating.
/r/seduction27/02/12 12:02 AM
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The age thing may come back a little bit later on but just tell her you thought the bar was 21+ (thats if your in europe, if your in america thats a valid excuse) and the whole business school thing is fine because I guarantee she wouldn't remember exactly what you said. You should be home free on this one to be honest. You built a rappore and got her number so just go for it.
/r/seduction27/02/12 12:00 AM
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It seemed like you left it open enough to be honest and you shouldn't feel bad about it. If you just met her its fairly obvious that if you did have ambitions to make her long term she would already know.
/r/seduction26/02/12 11:56 PM
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"You're only as shitty as you feel." This sums it up perfectly. Get into a position where you are happy with yourself then build some confidence and things just go from strength to strength from there.
/r/seduction26/02/12 11:55 PM
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Doesn't seem like a bad night all in all dude. Maybe you just didn't mention it but you used the “Hi I thought your beautiful and wanted to talk to you.” but you just follow it up with talking and absolutely no Kino. If you aren't doing it then you definitely should because getting # can escalate quite well if you follow it on well. p.s don't drink and drive
/r/seduction26/02/12 11:53 PM
1

This is fairly solid advice to be fair; you need to set yourself up like you are the coolest guy in the bar/club and the girls time doesn't mean shit to you unless you want it to. Anyway big props for going out and doing it by yourself, we all start somewhere and once you get past the AA stage its only onwards and upwards.
/r/seduction26/02/12 11:48 PM
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Just don't go to the club again. Those guys attract a certain type of girl and the girls are as douchebaggy as the guys. Some clubs just have a shit reputation and crowd theres no way around that sometimes.
/r/seduction26/02/12 11:45 PM
2

Pretty awesome night to be fair dude. You deserve a medal for showing the patience to wait out the other guys. It was a big play to get the HB7 on your lap and get your arm around her, hope to hear how this one pans out.
/r/seduction26/02/12 11:36 PM
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I had this problem too. I had no real options due to depression and when I finally got a girl I was with her for a long time even though I didn't feel much for her. Forming attachments is a real problem especially if you are trying to keep options open when things are going well.
/r/seduction26/02/12 11:25 PM
4

I have learned to drink a lot less. I need to few drinks to take off the edge as i'm quite new to this but this weekend I went a bit overboard and ended up catatonic before closing time.
/r/seduction26/02/12 11:21 PM
2

You should try to isolate one of the girls and try to work on her from there. Its quite hard to get a girl to break off from her friends especially if you are meeting them for the first time. If you get one girl isolated KINO KINO KINO. Work on her but keep your options open for others at the club/bar. Good job anyway its extremely hard to go over to groups and initiate.
/r/seduction26/02/12 11:20 PM
2

I think that for super successful people that came from nowhere with nothing they themselves put it down to a positive attitude but sometimes its down to dumb luck that they get where they are. For every person who had a good mindset, believed in themselves and made it there are thousands more who didn't get the same luck.
/r/seduction26/02/12 09:41 PM
11

You know the advice is good when you have PUA tips from Yoda
/r/seduction26/02/12 09:36 PM
4

If only it would be so simple. What if she doesn't elaborate on the "why..." and she expects you to fill it in, that could be hella awkward.
/r/seduction26/02/12 09:34 PM
2

Only when the conversation breaks down and you know for a fact the girl doesn't want to be there, everything else is free game
/r/seduction24/02/12 10:14 AM
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