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Always just fuck off if you’re bored. Yup but thats just wasted time. this is just sheer antisocial laziness No denying this. I dont want to win over her friends. Also I may be influenced by previous experiences where the friends dont take a hint and go or it becomes to late to fuck if I have to get up in the morning. Or I have to pass through LMR/shit test of being tired from the girl. I want a purely sexual relationship.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 02:44 PM
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So basically a test to see whether Ill supplicate to her demands. She is trying to ensure Im still the same and wont bend over backwards for her. So STFU and A&A to deal with them Girls just want to know "WHO IS ALPHA?" Who Can give them something that most guys can't? Who can put them on an emotional rollercoaster? Never understood how STFU puts them on an emotional rollercoaster? Does their hamster do all the work while I essentially dont even respond to it.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 06:31 PM
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What about once you;ve been banging for 3+months. Then its a shit test of sorts for commitment. So A&A or ignoring them works?
/r/askTRP24/01/21 06:28 PM
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No, you were just dumb for missing out on a threesome. Nope. I dont get this obsession with threesomes. Also since my post didnt have it clear her, her sister and that friend for sure maybe another IDK but No Threesome. So essentially no difference between a Shit test and betafy. Its addressed in the same way as well? Netflix and chill So Netflix without the chill is betafying behaviour. Where she gets her attention/cuddles but the guy doesnt get the sex. Being insecure about it being a power pl…
/r/askTRP24/01/21 06:25 PM
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Basically a shit test. So best way to deal with it is just as a shit test STFU, ignore and withdraw attention Or Agree and Amplify. Some times it is soft next worthy. But I guess its AWALT. Is there much of a difference between this and a shit test? Trying to manipulate you into messaging and calling 24/7 This is pretty much a shit test of you dont message enough.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 06:20 PM
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I honestly think if a girl wants you to meet her girlfriends that's an invitation to take them up on. Met them and some of them are chill but 1 or 2 hate my guts and that feeling is mutual. They always bitch about me etc. She knows I wont be bothered to hangout with them. I;ve also experienced they want me to meet my friends so they can turn it from casual into something more. It's just toxic energy. Never thought of it that way. So more than a shittest its them loosing control and trying to see…
/r/askTRP24/01/21 06:55 AM
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Ah understood. I generally follow what you said. Almost like training them. So I know when they hit me up its my cue for logistics. First some light banter and then a plan. ​ I understood. She may think why is he not replying with anything or dragging the conversation like the orbiters etc. And then we I decide I have time now set up logistics she'll be thrilled.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 06:00 PM
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I just say I’m busy and I’ll set a date further out. Whats the difference between what you said and if I just give a reply like a thumbs up or lol assuming she sent some funny pic or meme. And then hit her up after a few days once I have time.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 04:02 PM
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I wouldnt even set a date unless she earns it first but thats a whole another topic I try to get them to associate hitting me up = me setting up logistics. Because if I always set up the date whether they initiate or not then they think they have me. Not sure if you get what Im trying to say.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 04:01 PM
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Why even try manipulating me with sex? No way Im "only cuddling". I expect LMR on a the first/second/third date not with some bitch I've been balls deep in multiple times. The matrix the glitch and the audacity of this bitch. I mean she gives in and fucks me right now even after spewing her bullshit #Not-a-Slut dialogue to extract a relationship. Do you think not fucking her is a way to get the hamster spinning? Like not initiating at all. I think that may let her no I dont need her pussy. I enj…
/r/askTRP06/01/21 06:25 PM
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Good luck to those guys. Im just mad at the audacity of a plate to even think we can cuddle and not fuck. No way Im "only cuddling". I expect LMR on a the first/second/third date not with some bitch I've been balls deep in multiple times. The matrix the glitch and the audacity of this bitch,
/r/askTRP06/01/21 06:23 PM
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First, is she really a plate? Like have you fucked her before? Fucking a couple of times for the last three months. If you want to keep spinning this particular plate you may have to concede some non-sex time, however that does not mean you hang out and not have sex. Does that make sense? My thought process too. But she previously tried to shit test like "we dont have to fuck all the time" I treated it as the "you should be worried when we dont" . Cuddling is essentially leads to sex. Is She try…
/r/askTRP06/01/21 02:41 PM
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I just cried and told her how much my life revolves around her and how I want to spend every second with her. I just took out a second mortgage to finance her wedding and ring.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 02:39 PM
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Chances are you going to flop with this girl anyway given how easily you overthink things I dont care. I want to improve and learn. RN she is for experience. ​ Basically double texting is a non issue provided you don't write "Please talk to me" in the next text. Your making a big deal out of nothing. Glad to hear its not bad. I know it isnt because she responded. But double texting is needy isnt it?
/r/askTRP13/12/20 03:59 PM
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This shit is so fucking minor dude, just fucking relax. You must be a nervous wreck around this chick People get flak for double texting. I just want to improve.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 03:57 PM
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the context is most important I dont understand? What context. Isnt it in my post. Am I not clear, I can maybe explain it better.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 03:21 PM
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>between feminine chaos vs emotional abuse or disrespect Isnt all female behaviour in a way manipulation which people term as emotional abuse. What I find conflicting is the advice to not play these games, give her space (i rather give her all the space and eject) and when she reaches out set up logistics. But doesnt that reinforce bad behaviour? Or am I missing something.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 08:58 AM
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Going to give them a read. Thanks. Keylogger is mentioned here quite a bit. I remember going through it and his 10 examples.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 08:56 AM
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In this day and age most people have their phone on them and if not during some meeting Im sure they have a couple of mins during a quick break to check and send.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 08:55 AM
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The spying was an inadvertent blessing in disguise. Curiosity got the better of me and that comment of "The fastest way to get redpilled is to read a girls chats" Anyway got the shit off the laptop. Didnt want to deal with knowning shit I didnt want to and getting to invested.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:57 PM
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Nah dont tell her shit. When she gets back to you turn the tables on her and say something else came up. Sit in alone if you have to. A decent person will know whether friday is possible or it might depend on xxx factor and will have to get back to you but these stupid games arent to be encouraged.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:34 PM
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I wont double text. And if they dont respond to a call or a logistics text in a reasonable time, I assume its a flake and make other plans or will stay in but not involve them. This is my guideline for setting up plans.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:16 PM
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If a woman thinks that contributing to your success benefits her, and that by betraying you, she directly harms herself, you will have more than a companion. You’ll have a first class lieutenant. So its just like at work. The partner keep us happy and when he gets an offer he only accepts it and takes along his key men. The key men who now get this new opportunity with the partner dont really betray him because hes the rainmaker unless its to get his job but they arent high enough in the hierarc…
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:14 PM
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The woman’s fear of being abandoned by you can be assuaged a bit, since it’s unlikely that some other woman could steal you away if she were to commit to you. To be fair neither did I have this insight. But currently not looking at some serious shit. Its nice to have a nice clean constant companion but extremely difficult in todays climate. Im currently focused on my building my career.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 03:13 PM
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She's trying to corner the pussy supply. What she hasnt realized is I would rather stay with my left hand home than accept that shit.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 03:10 PM
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Exactly. Hard to get becomes hard to want. one time I stayed with AW chick pulling this off because I knew her birthday was in a few months. I was on the verge of breaking up but decided to keep at it to give her the best birthday gift ever. The gift of freedom.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 02:41 PM
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Women are master plate spinners. They spin orbiters for attention. Funny how few orbiters even stay around after their LJBF rejection not getting the hints. Same as plates advocated here. I used to have the same mindset: "We fucked, can we skip this bullshit games now and be more chill?" Sometimes they even agree that it's what they want, but they cant. It's not a game, it's their nature. Interesting.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 02:39 PM
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If you’re a woman and you’re trying to get a guy to commit, you’ve essentially lost a position of advantage after y’all have sex, especially if you (the girl) have nothing else of value to offer. Reminds me of that Patrice question"if tomorrow your pussy wasnt there how would you keep me?" Its like an addict going cold turkey. So the only way to win is to literally do nothing.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 02:36 PM
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I get the thing its easier not to play these games but sometimes it just feels like I have to. I dont sit and text them. Infact to an autistic degree my texts are only logistics. If she takes too long to respond, I;ll spend the night by myself but I wont let her come over. Rather masturbate than fuck her. Maybe after a few day's Ill hit her up to fuck but not that day. If it’s easier set logistics on the phone, it’s not as in there frame as texting because you’re not waiting for anything Till th…
/r/askTRP02/12/20 11:10 AM
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You need to take some responsibility here, you’re validating her or failing some availability test or something. How much is she in her feels when she’s with you? I may be too aloof and indifferent. I only knew I failed a comfort test when she messaged some shit. In person she jumps to hug me and gets a bit clingy. So the text playing games gets annoying. (assuming you have no boundaries but regardless you’d only be annoyed at her for that) She is free to do what she wants as long as I am too Do…
/r/askTRP02/12/20 10:19 AM
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That's stupid. I can understand at the beginning. But after fucking it just becomes a headache and turn off. I dont expect replies in 5 minutes but in this day and age for most anything over a few hours is just stupid. What I find conflicting is the advice to not play these games, give her space and when she reaches out set up logistics. But doesnt that reinforce bad behaviour? Or am I missing something.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 09:51 AM
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Yeah I got out of it after about a week or two. One of her orbiters was trying to explain to her how hooking up with me is a low of her life and how she deserves better. and 2 days later was sucking my cock. Woman being hypocrites how typical.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 09:42 AM
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Exactly. I though I rather rub one out than stoop down to fuck her.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 06:29 PM
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I didnt really mention the training bitches guide. It is useful. Though.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 06:15 PM
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Sorry I tried to keep my post short missed out a few details. Infiltrated as in she got their number and now tries to keep hanging out with them.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 09:52 AM
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True. But who the fuck wants to fight for no reason. Like the guy going to a bar looking for a fight. Verbal sparring and banter is one thing. Next thing I know she'll have evidence that I was abusive.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 09:52 AM
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I dont think its degrade me. Tried that in between but she said she misses fighting with people. Sorry I tried to keep my post short missed out a few details. Infiltrated as in she got their number and now tries to keep hanging out with them. Has she befriended them and is getting in to your circle and meet-ups through them, rather than through you She's making them think she is more than a plate to me. Friends wont really understand.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 09:39 AM
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Yup going to start the slow fade out now. But I feel me always reaching out even if they agree for a Disney plus and Thrust puts me in the chasing position.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 04:33 PM
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So if I always reach out even if they agree for a Disney plus and Thrust puts me as the leader and not the "chaser"
/r/askTRP02/09/20 04:30 PM
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But I feel me always reaching out even if they agree for a Disney plus and Thrust puts me in the chasing position.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 04:30 PM
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But I feel me always reaching out even if they agree for a Disney plus and Thrust puts me in the chasing position.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 04:30 PM
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I had a plate who would send me a random image or text every 3-5 days I didnt reach out. That was my cue to set up a date. Currently I've been reaching out after waiting at least week or after a week. I get the pussy then I'm cool. But I feel me always reaching out even if they agree for a Disney plus and Thrust puts me in the chasing position.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 04:29 PM
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if she start playing games, withdraw. So at this point she has to initiate.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 12:28 PM
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So Real alphas don’t really give a fuck as men should lead? As long as she puts out that's all that matters
/r/askTRP02/09/20 12:26 PM
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I was asking more for a plate of a few weeks. Before that I have to pursue her. But post banging. I always initiate and setup logistics. Very few actively initiate something like send a meme or text after a couple of days. That generally is my cue to text logistics
/r/askTRP02/09/20 12:16 PM
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I dont want an LTR until Im sure. Cant say she has some potential but also some red flags. Whats the difference? Why does it matter? Is it because an LTR she expects me to call to show I care or something?
/r/askTRP02/09/20 12:12 PM
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What do you mean? Care to elaborate? Pursuing is hitting up once and if plans are made well and good if not on to the next. Maybe a 2nd chance at most. Chasing is continuously texting to meetup?
/r/askTRP02/09/20 12:09 PM
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Ego issues. I guess. Or more like she should pull her weight a bit.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 12:08 PM
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Nah, you’re leading her. Okay. So initiating with plates is me setting the agenda. Them accepting is in a way them submitting to me. Here is the thing... with any woman, you don't know whether she is or isn't interested in you. And leading is the best way to find out. I got this. Medium is the message. If she accepts its good. If she flakes a lot its time to cut losses. ​ As long as your making the decisions, setting up the meets, making the plans, taking off her clothes, telling her what to do,…
/r/askTRP02/09/20 11:36 AM
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So whats the right balance. Let her reach out 60% of the time with some shitty meme or whatever and maneuver to logistics from there?
/r/askTRP02/09/20 07:43 AM
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So whats the right balance. Let her reach out 60% of the time with some shitty meme or whatever and maneuver to logistics from there?
/r/askTRP02/09/20 07:43 AM
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I usually say 2 no's and you're out but if ya'll have been fucking for this time and NOW you're getting a no then she leaves. Full stop. I only wish I saved myself time and didnt try escalating with her after the first time.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 03:14 PM
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Too much time was wasted on trying and occasionally bedding mildly interested women when I could have been prospecting for more I agree. I could have pushed through to get the lay but I thought fuck it Ive fucked her multiple times if she is behaving like this its not what I want. Plus I rather not waste my sleep time.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 01:54 PM
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Plates spin, plates fall. This was a version of the "What are we?" shit test. Ive always gotten asked this question. Always so Overt and direct. Never covertly like this. I had a gut feel that her withholding sex shit test was trying to get me to commit without her saying it. Essentially getting me in her frame. If you want to cut through the bullshit next time float it out there about your intentions, "I like you, I think you're hot. So this was a sexual relationship and if that's not what you'…
/r/askTRP25/08/20 01:25 PM
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She's 25. So she's trying a power play to get me to commit to her pussy? A wet hole is not worth such a hassle.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 01:13 PM
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You don’t control people. You control yourself. Took me long enough to learn this. Either they have similar ideals or not.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 12:21 PM
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Yeah. What made me decide not to see her again is that she had the audacity to joke on her way out how we both made each other horny. I just smiled and said "nope im tired". It took me longer than I realise but I didnt feel like spending another 20mins just to get through her ASD/LMR thats why I called it a night. Plates are supposed to be fun. Though what was refreshing was that a change though her actions matched her words.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 12:14 PM
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Fuck I have a long way to go but you should know she'll drop as a friend once her new guy enters. "These hoes aint loyal"
/r/askTRP20/08/20 08:35 AM
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As soon I read the title I cracked up.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 08:34 AM
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Understood. Its about being constant. Even if I want to distance myself and I say something a little differently she can pickup on those cues.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 05:36 AM
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GOt it thanks. SexSLA gave an example of the words that youre saying. It's very subtle. It's like when I'm texting one of my plates to come over and she responds she's busy. Yeah I get this. When she really is busy but then messages again saying she can make it at night or gives a long winded explanation. Her wording mirrors mine.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 05:20 AM
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If her little canceling plans actually affects a high value guy like you then she must be either just as valuable or you're not worth her. So forget she even cancelled and move on if they reach out. Use them for their wet hole and send them their way. ​ TRP guys are usually so scared of the slightest hint of beta that they next anytime a girl isnt' worshipping them. I think this may be the issue. If my other plates are submissive and worshipping me why should I have to put extra effort into this…
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:51 PM
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When did she flake the second time? Messaging her and she's busy doesn't constitute as a flake. Fair enough. If she offers again and she's only flaked once go for it. Tbh Im only keeping her around till I get another in the rotation.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:46 PM
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When she reached out to you and you ANSWERED, that means the soft next is over. This means you should have suggested an alternative date because you’re on speaking terms again. So youre saying I should have not said "Im busy" but something more like "Busy tonight. Come over at yyy on xxx day" Yeah and if she reaches out with a date in mind isnt that a powerplay. So then there's the IDGAF if Im free I'll accept else alternative and there shift her to my frame so provide another day.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:20 PM
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The difference is subtle but massive and girls can pick up on it rather quickly. The latter one is needy and incongruent with his own behavior. Interesting point. What are the main differences? Care to elaborate?
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:17 PM
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If nothing's changed or she didnt text in the meantime, move on. Im not gonna text her again. Flake two times she can go. Im more fascinated knowing if a girl flakes doesnt offer an alternative then hits me up later in the week with a day, is it a powerplay? Do I accept it or agree but offer another day.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:14 PM
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Agree with your words but continue doing what you were. Its a shit test ot check whether you ReSpEcT WiMmEn
/r/askTRP15/08/20 06:04 AM
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And rationalize how getting a ho as a housewife is a win because in the end when she had no options left she picked him. "Yeah Chad, Billy Beta gets her from 30-80 you only got her for a few years when she was young wild and immature. What she and billy beta have is true love. Go back to your other young ones chad."
/r/askTRP15/08/20 05:53 AM
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Every time I hear someone say genderfluid I keep thinking that theyre made of cum.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 05:46 AM
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Yes, every woman will push for a relationship if she wants you. Or she is lonely? But yeah I wont just get in a relationship unless she is vetted thoroughly. Burnt far too many times in life.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 05:42 AM
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I would straight up say something like I am not cool with meeting your friends/family this soon I like to wait a few months to see how we jive rather then complicate things. "I like you. lets not dive headfirst. Lets see where this goes"
/r/askTRP15/08/20 05:41 AM
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Meeting family and friends is a serious thing for me. Just weird to start so soon. Plus friends family have so much influence on her then it means she isnt independent. But for you, she’ll think you actually take her serious and want to see if things will go in that direction. So basically a version of the talk.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 05:40 AM
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make them feel good about themselves Is this basically dont be a simp like their orbiters.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 05:39 AM
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Once you've fucked her everything should revolve around sex. Hanging out (other than 1v1 for the purpose of fucking later), going on anything resembling a real date is going to put you in that category. Precisely my thinking. I mean if I show Im ok with no sex for my attention then she's only going to get worse.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 05:38 AM
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So much of what I've read here has come true. Wish I found RP in my college days. See her actions for ex we started out as purely sexual and she said she wants to have fun. But now she;s sizing me up for a beta bucks. ​ Although it seems counter intuitive Im gonna do what I feel like doing. I know thats the right move, because its the opposite of what my BP woman appeasing days me would have done.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 07:56 PM
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So do what I want? I know thats the right move but it seems counter intuitive.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 07:54 PM
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Yeah but isnt it a lose lose either way. If I go and her friends approve she wants more which I dont right now. If I dont her friends bad mouth and plate breaks. Assuming this one is broken how tf do I prevent this in the futre. Also why cant chicks be independent. Why do they need other people's approval.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 06:50 PM
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succès de scandale Fair enough. So they'll accept the attention from guys as long as they dont heve to put out.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 09:49 AM
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So she'll lead on this beta and gain his attention to bide her time. But wont she be a little disgusted if he is as unattractive as she claims? I mean if I fucked an uggo, I would be embarrassed of myself. Dont women feel the same while accepting a beta's attention? So he'll be the emotional tampon while I "get her off". And if I dont agree to commit to her then she has billy beta as backup. And Hamster how she always loved him and didnt date him because she didnt want to lose him.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 09:40 AM
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Billy Beta can have her. Im more curious why she took 3+ months to agree to meet billy beta, didnt find him interesting but uses him for attention? So she'll lead on this beta and gain his attention to bide her time. But wont she be a little disgusted if he is as unattractive as she claims? I mean if I fucked an uggo, I would be embarrassed of myself. Dont women feel the same while accepting a beta's attention?
/r/askTRP08/08/20 09:38 AM
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I get your higher value attention point. But if she took 3+ months to agree to meet billy beta and doesnt find him interesting then why use him for attention? So she'll lead on this beta and gain his attention to bide her time. But wont she be a little disgusted if he is as unattractive as she claims? I mean if I fucked an uggo, I would be embarrassed of myself. Dont women feel the same while accepting a beta's attention?
/r/askTRP08/08/20 09:37 AM
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Sounds good!
/r/askTRP31/07/20 05:29 PM
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I have no idea how to be the sweet talking don juan beta. Any suggestions, links or material?
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:51 PM
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But when is pulling back the right move? Is it the right move with a new plate? Sometimes isnt persistence just plausible deniability for them to say "it just happened" or "he was very pushy and one thing led to another"
/r/askTRP29/07/20 10:00 AM
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Preferably dick that’s a known quantity and won’t raise her N count. Wait so this is their way to hamster going back to the asshole/jerk ex or stay with a guy whom their friends have warned her about?
/r/askTRP29/07/20 04:09 AM
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Out of curiosity the example I gave in my post was that a one off where I told her Im coming and she accepted it. Would that work with a plate? Or pulling back is better?
/r/askTRP29/07/20 03:20 AM
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So its better to pull back and let the hamster spin in most cases. And I guess my example was a one-off situation.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 02:55 AM
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- Doesn't have social media or low activity. This.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 02:53 AM
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But sometimes they just want to feel chased and there persistence works. Like in my example with exgf. Pulling back is appropriate for all flakes and let the attraction grow. What about being persistent.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 02:35 AM
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If youre not in the west then n<5.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 02:31 AM
1

No. Maybe you wont get sick. Maybe you will with no long term impact. Maybe youll get sick with some long term issues. Point is no one knows. If I offered you a bowl of skittles and said 10% are poisoned would you take a one?
/r/askTRP29/07/20 02:28 AM
3

Did I put her on the backburner for too long? I would feel so. But women like what theycant have so maybe you have a shot aslong as you dont become too complacent.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 02:26 AM
0

Australian kiss
/r/askTRP27/07/20 05:45 AM
1

True but I first called her out on it and then we enjoyed till she became bitchy again. I learnt that I should have cut it off first rather than call her out and then observe her behavior. It was the right call but my execution was shit. But I learnt the hard way what to do with other plates.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 03:31 PM
13

they're addicted to attention on social media, or alpha widowed So all of them.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 01:56 PM
2

Once in a while as a change from home.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 01:39 PM
1

Yeah. This time I called out. Next time with any plate its a direct cut off. Its a soft next for this plate now.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 12:19 PM
2

if you feel like staying and think you can still fuck her and escalate, try it, but it probably won't work Learnt this the hard way.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 11:46 AM
1

She's a plate since a few weeks. ASD got activated. I tried escalating on a secluded part of a trek. Then I called her out, she was fine for a bit before becoming bitchy again. Then I just turned around and said I feel like going back and cut the date short.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 11:43 AM
2

Cut it short. Your job in the date is to do what you wanna do, not to entertain this girl. I did cut it short. But do I call them out on it and then if it goes well continue as if nothing happened, or if still in a bitchy mood just walk away.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 11:41 AM
8

Important thing is that if you cut the date short you don’t look butthurt about it So call it short asap no salvage. Like do I call them out and then if they are enjoying continue if not walk away?
/r/askTRP26/07/20 11:40 AM
2

she’s prudish in public WITH YOU. No doubt she's attracted to you but not that attracted. Story time: Old GF fucked her ex in a car and was caught by security. When I once got her late night and tried to escalate in the stairwell she became prudish. Didnt understand it then but I now I do.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 08:38 AM
0

Muscles - Understood this one. Started lifting. Still on noob gains but some old friends have commented on the difference. Money - I have an sizeable inheritance but I rather keep that discreet. Have other bitches - weirdly this worked out well even The less attention you give her the more she'll value yours Text for logistics but I want something to buy for myself from the company she works for. Should I go through with her for the product maybe get a discount. Or do it from some others.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 07:01 AM
1

Simply put, You want her to trust you however not be conformable How do you make them not feel comfortable. Some of my other plate's friends dislike me because they feel I should be in a relationship to fuck. It might seem basic to you but I've been BP my whole life. WHatever views I had which were similar to RP views were beaten out of me saying its misogynistic or sexist. I've only just started my RP journey and grateful I found it now before Im 30. Some principles seems counter-intuitive but …
/r/askTRP23/07/20 06:15 AM
13

"no, I'm monogamous with <husband> but polygamous with the others". Hamster level 9000
/r/askTRP21/06/20 12:39 PM
8

And they dont even need to fuck anymore to be a AW.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 07:54 AM
1

Yup.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 07:53 AM
22

Too much fucked up shit. They'll encourage each other to be hoes and to "totally go for it" Then they wonder why the good guy doesnt call back and "he's an asshole and Im done with him". But a few weeks later "OMG he messaged" and everyone from anti asshole is now pro asshole. She says "Im just gonna meet him to let him know to fuck off" of course she also sucked him off and "one thing lead to another" all while she was in a relationship. ALso she has some beta simp who is an acquaintance. The a…
/r/askTRP21/06/20 07:53 AM
8

Any redpill advice from a guy has NOTHING on overhearing girls talk. Second best is reading their messages to their bitches or on their bitch groups.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 07:49 AM
1

Yes. Thank you.
/r/askMRP21/06/20 07:47 AM
4

Who isnt? Serious question.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 07:46 AM
28

And simps inflating their ego. 4s think they are 9s
/r/askTRP21/06/20 07:46 AM
12

lol. But then I'll have to stay there. No woman is worth marriage especially if they come in contact with western women. Even the russian farmers daughter will become a ho.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 07:45 AM
9

Bane?
/r/askTRP21/06/20 07:44 AM
13

Theres a book "The Key Logger: A Forbidden Glimpse into the True Nature of Women" Changed my outlook on women.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 07:44 AM
31

Wrap it before you tap it.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 09:00 PM
45

delete that waste of brain space Facebook btw. Agreed Got rid of it 10 years back. Only use sms and whatsapp which is more for messages only. I wont go out of my way but if she is logged in on my laptop...... Their messages reveal a whole new word. I found trp only because I managed to copy an ex's phone and the shit I saw there opened my eyes to AWALT. It killed the boy and the man was born.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 07:09 PM
0

Security monitors people entering. Yeah guess so.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:12 PM
1

They have some security guy monitoring the cameras to check how many people enter for what passcode. And they have some sensor system at the door so it counts how many people enter and they tally it. Got a letter few days back about when a few friends came over to chill.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:11 PM
1

Escalate and then maybe drive around in circles and say "some road head would be good"
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:10 PM
0

Probably wont happen. Large city cant just park and fuck on the road. Might as well wait it out.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:09 PM
1

This is the first time she's trying to find wiggle room. All for someone who is just a friend and not a close friend. Thing is I dont make exceptions and if she wants my commitment she needs to give me hers which includes cutting out exes. She was pushing for an LTR, I have expectations, she didnt want to submit fully and now she's blowing up my phone telling me she blocked them etc. Im not very convinced. It can be a slippery slope if I gave her leeway.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 08:00 PM
1

So only drop her once I know the boundary is crossed. And not that she tried for an exception/test the verbal limits because that was a shit test? If she wants my commitment she needs to give me hers which includes cutting out exes.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 07:52 PM
2

I realised what's to be done. Basically if she wants a LTR, I tried setting a boundary along the I dont talk to exes and I expect the same lines. SHe tries to justify being "platonic" friends. Morning she messages 1km of text about me being right. She hesitated at the boundary. Could be a shit test but I feel its easier to demote her. I guess I didnt vet her enough. If she cant give up an ex I cant give her an LTR. Side note Im in an Asian country and an LTR is important from the perspective of …
/r/askTRP15/04/20 07:49 PM
1

I was told to drop only if she crosses the boundary. Which so far hasnt happened. But the fact that she went to try and test the boundary/ask questions about it. You don't own her, let her do whatever she wants to. Right. Conflicted about options one is to drop her when she crosses it. Other is to demote.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 07:45 PM
2

Deep down I knew the answer would be spin more plates. LTR is on hard mode. I can make an excuse for BP conditioning or traditional asian society but I'm pretty sure that's not it and its really because I haven't internalized RP completely. She’s not ready to be an LTR. Tell her that the two of you can be non-exclusive, and she can text anybody she wants. But if she wants to be your girlfriend, that shit is over. My thinking too. If she wants my exclusivity she needs to give up shit too. Of cour…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 08:57 AM
2

While fwb she can do whatever. I completely agree with you. But she was pushing for an upgrade for the past few weeks. Of the red flags I've noticed most are minor and not as many. She can talk to whomever she wants to but if she wants to be upgraded there are certain dealbreakers for me. I know if she wants to she can go behind my back too. I rather not deal with their baggage Im not their shrink. ​ I'm bringing this up because there's a stark contrast, but telling her who she can and cannot ta…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 08:44 AM
1

Started as FWB she wanted the upgrade multiple times. Best time to set boundaries is when she wants something. Thats what I said while setting the boundary. Cant go and say you cant speak to past flings. So thats the way I phrased it.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:59 AM
1

Yeah. Been fwb for months now.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:39 AM
1

When she brings up being exclusive/LTR upgrade thats the time I should bring it up. Have some leverage. Either she will hamster, deny, deflect, etc. Which just makes it easier for you to next her, or you she will feel disgusted with herself, apologize and happily comply. So she'll hamster or say stop being controlling/insecure but reiterate and then if she doesnt enter my frame, Hard Next. Since this is non-negotiable its easier to find someone who shares this with me rather than try to change s…
/r/askMRP05/04/20 07:09 AM
1

I see no issue with this and practice this boundary in real life. How did you go about? Brought up during the beginning or when you noticed it? No kids.
/r/askMRP01/04/20 07:44 PM
2

If they don't get the hint from that... "But you said you dont you didnt say I cant...." Considering how dense some of them are. They know its not really required. Guess I should start looking for alternatives. ​ A lot of women think it's normal to stay in touch, but really they just want orbiters and to leave the door open in case they want to swing back to that branch. Fucking women and their Validation requirements.
/r/askMRP01/04/20 07:42 PM
1

Not hypothetical. But she is pushing for an upgrade. Im willing to drop her if she says she cant stop. But I prefer a few things said upfront because previous experience shows that they say you were fine with not knowing till now so why change etc.
/r/askMRP01/04/20 07:05 PM
2

Not worried I cant get my head around being in contact with exes. Arent they exes for a reason. I also feel that it shows you havent gotten over that person.
/r/askMRP01/04/20 07:02 PM
1

Yeah I am. But I also hate baggage. I mean my exes dont exist for me. Dead to me. Not everyone sees it that way. Previously when I was with someone else, in our regular group a carrot asked me isnt it awkward to hang out in the same group as her ex. Truth me told I didnt care he fucked her coz that was before I knew her what got my blood boiling was being in the same room as that guy. Oneitis or whatever it felt like he kept smirking as if to say enjoy my sloppy seconds.
/r/askMRP01/04/20 07:01 PM
3

Which is my point how do I explicitly state it without looking insecure. Because lots of women think its ok to follow and message/ be in touch with exes As you said I rather express it at the beginning that later on with her saying but I used to now whats wrong blah blah. Question is how to go ahead verbalizing the boundary.
/r/askMRP01/04/20 06:37 PM
1

Hmm. I assume this is only something I'll have to deal with. So how do enforce a boundary which she isnt aware of that exists. Now if she goes out to "catch up" with said ex thats a direct plate status and no more LTR or a hard next. But if she texts I shouldnt be bothered or if I am I should find someone who is more "compatible".
/r/askMRP01/04/20 06:13 PM
1

They like what they cant have. Like a cat will not bother/play with a dead mouse but a live one is completely different.
/r/seduction16/07/19 05:37 AM
1

Thanks. Look forward to your thread.
/r/seduction16/07/19 05:35 AM
2

When solo, OP doesn't have the same allure as he's no longer on the pedestal and probably has a personality that works much better in a crowd and not directed on to a single person. Possible maybe she has different taste and she saw me in a group and like it. But she was disinterested from the beginning of the date.
/r/seduction16/07/19 05:34 AM
3

If she tries to get my attention on a group or when with others should I just quickly end it or change the subject or a small neg?
/r/seduction15/07/19 04:27 PM
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smarek13 asked something similar my comment below Its like as soon as she realized that Im interested that flame dimmed out.
/r/seduction15/07/19 04:03 PM
15

Not really. I mean she was chasing and then once we set up the date she seemed excited but when it came to the actual night you could make out she isnt as excited. Case in point once I couldnt make it out with the group. But we happened to cross paths, I was on my way home and they were heading for one last outing of the night. They spotted me and this girl immediately calls my number and tells me to join them etc. According to some of the guys she got a sudden burst of energy then. ​ What do yo…
/r/seduction15/07/19 03:33 PM
7

So I guess the only way is to move forward if she was really interested she will reach out again.
/r/seduction15/07/19 03:30 PM
4

That sucks. Its like once they realise they can get something they aspire for 1 ladder higher. ​ Relevant joke
/r/seduction15/07/19 02:43 PM
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