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| 1 | Girl only wants sex but I want more and it has me questioning the normal rulesMan, I literally see myself here, in the same exactly situation, a year ago. I was actually considering to maybe share my story one of these days. Anyway, be very very careful, don't fall in the trap of your expectations. Not asking questions because you are scared to push her away is not a solution. This will just give more time to your brain to get possibly hijacked by a person that doesn't think about you as an exclusive partner. Couple of strong suggestions: 1- Clarify the situation and deci… | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 06:47 AM |
| 2 | Ex randomly texts me ?Wow, I thought I met weird girls but this one... Good call my friend. | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 05:39 AM |
| 5 | As stupid as it sounds, I have trouble finding what to say to women.Your mind goes blank since you are scared about what to say because you fear rejection, not really because you don't have things to say! Being aware of this is a step. Also, here couple of things you can do when you want to start a convo: 1- Be there with the million dollar attitude, like imagine you being a millionare and introduce yourself to the girl. This will totally change your mindset since they are the one that will lose if they don't want to talk with you. 2- You can speak literally abo… | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 05:22 AM |
| 2 | Not sure how to respond, would love some advice"I am indeed surprised that it worked ;-P" Anyway, dude, handle the convo on your own now, otherwise you will have hard time later when you can't ask here xD Best of luck! | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 07:47 AM |
| 1 | I'm Having Difficulties Asking Open-ended QuestionsForget about this in the classroom context, imho you've already fucked up xD Suggestion: find out some 'out of classroom' activities in which she is enrolled ( Swimming pool? Gym? ... ), there you will have the opportunity to say something like: "oh, have I ever ask you if you took econ in high school?" Laugh immediately and then "sorry for that, that was a lame excuse to just ask for your name, it didn't go very well ah?" "Anyway, <your name> here, may I ask your name directly today? ;-)". From… | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 11:45 AM |
| 6 | Can you really go from not getting any girls to being a ladies man?"I was so proud of him", that's real friendship! | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 01:44 PM |
| 5 | Conversation skills with girlsKeeping a cool convo is not an easy task and is a skill that actually improve with experience, so unfortunately there is no magic trick... Some tips: 1- it is good to ask questions, but don't fall into the "interview mode" in which you ask tons of questions one after the other, but rather give some elaborate comments about her answers with something personal ( this can trigger questions from her side! ) 2- Keeping in mind to avoid the "interview mode", remember also that you can ask questions ab… | /r/seduction | 09/09/18 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Girls use the idea of sex to manipulate me and I'm sick of itThis. | /r/seduction | 07/09/18 11:39 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to "This is why you are still single."?Mmmm, I mean, if you answer something like this after lots of "that's why you are single" I think that you are not acting like a desperate horndog. I agree with you that it's not a great answer if used immediately after the first time, but OP said the girl is doing that often so... Also, I have mixed feeling about "Well why are YOU still single?": 1- Maybe OP doesn't know if she is single or not, in the latter case she can answer "I'm not" and you have to come up with something to break the emba… | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 09:11 PM |
| 3 | How to respond to "This is why you are still single."?Depending on the girl I would go for a "Well <name of the girl> if you are so concerned about that why don't we fix this with a beer next Friday?" ( Wink wink ) Otherwise if you are not interested in her, a kinda polite answer would be "Don't worry <name of the girl>, I really don't need a girlfriend atm ;-)" | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Great sex with previous casual partners, can't stay erect with gf (a 10)Remember that penis is not the best tool to please a woman! This Friday give her the best cunnilingus ever, she should literally lose her mind. There are couple of good suggestions all over this subreddit ;-) | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Add her or notYou could have at least said a couple of words, that would have been easier eheh, c'mon guys is very easy, especially in a trip that is a close environment! I'm not talking about a deep convo, but couple of words context related that will give you the excuse to escalate to the social ;-) Personally I would not add her without any previous interaction, anyway if you really really want to do that I would open with something like "Are you the girl that was in the same trip this morning? Zuck's algo… | /r/seduction | 14/08/18 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, in your opinion, will that "we'll see" ever become an "i'm down"?If it is really a 10 I think it's worth a try to continue. Try to arrange some activity that she likes ( a 10 is usually fit and passionate about sports, isn't it? ) and invite her. If that fails, move on. Oh, also, just for future reference, "I respect that you respect that" is not a "sexy" answer. Your answer without that part would have been perfect ;-P | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 11:23 AM |
| 1 | What to say to a girl that says "you know I'm classy""Oh, well, I have too, the real question is: 'do you have enough?' ;-)" | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Family friend gave me a number of a random girl. How do I handle it?It's too late now, but a joke about the "haircut situation" was more than enough to open this text game, something like: 'Free haircut at saloon X if you answer "YES SURE" back to this message'. If she actually answer "YES SURE" proceed with something like: "Cool! Sounds like you have a new appointment [ girl's name here ], your personal hairdresser will be [ your name here ], is it ok for you? ;-)". Then I would joke about the Asian mom situation, like saying that you don't know why she is doin… | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 07:55 AM |
| 2 | what type of girl am I talking too?Just kidding dude, but that would have been very funny | /r/seduction | 08/08/18 08:02 PM |
| 2 | what type of girl am I talking too?50$ that /u/chunkycolors is the girl mentioned by OP deheh | /r/seduction | 08/08/18 07:08 PM |
| 1 | how the fuck do i game if i look young for my age...Same "problem" here, I'm 27 and ppl always tell me that I look at most 20. I completely understand the problem about being taken not that seriously, but trust me dude, seriously at the end it's all a matter of self-confidence, nothing else! Moreover, this thing gives me lots of opportunity of funny opener and conversation. You can usually escalate very easily from a "ohh you look so young!" by answering "Yo, but I have all the experience of a 24 yo, isn't that awesome?" ( wink wink included ). | /r/seduction | 08/08/18 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Field report. Feels good, but critique me.Your opener was really good! I personally think that it showed the right amount of interest while not exposing yourself too much. Keep in mind that you can come up with this kind of opener basically always by just observing the social situations. Life is usually so rich of details that you can leverage to start a conv that using a direct opener is usually not necessary ( as for now I consider direct approach as an emergency tool if you really can't come up with something to say and you are losin… | /r/seduction | 08/08/18 12:07 PM |
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