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That video is so cringe. I respect the guy for uploading it but I just feel like he's harassing people, and why I'd never do "day game"
/r/seduction20/03/25 10:44 AM
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I mean, I met her IRL she seems very insecure about her looks despite being very attractive.
/r/seduction06/03/25 03:37 PM
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In this case I think she's very insecure as well.
/r/seduction06/03/25 03:33 PM
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Hmm you picked up that I'm insecure, what would you say I'm insecure about? I'm curious.
/r/seduction06/03/25 03:28 PM
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I'm with you on this but I find it rediculously hard to not ask a question. I find myself endlessly asking questions and it turns in an interview, and I can feel how awkward it is. I got a girl's inta the other day and we message for a day or so but she didn't ask me a single question back. I felt I should give up and just left it for a few days. I need a way to spark things back up again but not sure how. I was thinking, she has tatoos and I'm thinking of getting one, so I was going to open wit…
/r/seduction06/03/25 03:22 PM
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It really isn't... I'm the same as OP. Met a girl IRL and we hit it off instantly, constantly chatting, everything clicked. We moved to text and it was like talking to a brick wall.
/r/seduction06/03/25 10:55 AM
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I'm 39... and I'm still useless at it. Get good at it while you're young guys, it gets infinitely harder as you age.
/r/seduction04/03/25 08:43 AM
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EEeeeehhhh be VERY careful with physical contact like that... I'd refrain from anything beyond a playful tap of the elbow or something at least at first while you guage interest.
/r/seduction29/01/25 09:48 AM
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Yeah... I have never had a shit test personally (I think this might a cultural thing), but from what I've read this sounds exactly like a shit test. She might have actually been into you OP.
/r/seduction28/01/25 03:08 PM
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Why shouldn't we have to work for sex though? Remember, it's survival of the fittest out there in nature. You're not OWED sex, you're not entitled to it, you have to fucking work for it. I'm exhausted trying so I get what you're saying, but we have to keep working on ourselves to get better at it.
/r/seduction05/09/24 08:52 AM
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Eh there is such a thing as push/pull in dating... He's pushing away too much though and needs to pull a bit to get her interested again. Either that or he's just hurt she rejected him and refuses to speak to her. Assuming Alex isn't you.
/r/seduction03/09/24 09:45 AM
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Read Models by Mark Manson.
/r/seduction03/09/24 09:09 AM
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I agree with caveats. You have to pick your battles, know when is the right time to ask for help, and know when you need to figure shit out yourself. That's different than "reliance". I definitely have "nice guy" vibes socially, but not professionally. Socially, I've started to be more assertive and become the decision maker and have noticed that people do respect you more. Additionally, putting yourself in a point of authority helps, even if it's just hosting a games night, or organising an eve…
/r/seduction29/08/24 10:48 AM
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Some do, yes, some don't though. A friend told me she deliberately bent over a lot when trying to entice her now fiance to ask her out. But don't assume that this is always the case with every woman!
/r/seduction29/08/24 09:43 AM
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I don't know exactly tbh, but I think it was just persistance and not giving up. Personally I couldn't do that
/r/seduction07/08/24 07:20 AM
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I've found I do this naturally actually, so it's been nice to see this validated, but I don't do it consistently and conciously. Thanks for the examples!
/r/seduction06/08/24 12:37 AM
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Would you share your questions/responses? I really struggle with this and nobody will give examples! I intend to learn from the examples and adapt them to my personality, but I just need something to get me started. I've tried things myself of course, but had absolutely no luck, the time it takes to figure out what works is too long to really be useful. Any help here would be appreciated.
/r/seduction05/08/24 12:01 PM
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Sometimes persistent pursuit does work and some women appreciate the fact that you are willing to pursue them hard enough. I've seen this work and I was astounded and annoyed. A friend who I would love to be with got "pursued" persistently and she gave in, and they dated for a few months. Personally I find that sort of behaviour by the guy abhorrent but apparently it works.
/r/seduction05/08/24 09:33 AM
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I've read that they respond well to going through "emotional" journeys together and that creates a bond. Do you have any advice on how to create or examples of this kind of thing that works? I struggle to understand what is meant by this. I'm a programmer, very logical and literal, I don't think in terms of emotions a lot of the time, even though I can be very empathetic in private. I can't help but see most things in abstract, real, literal or logical terms and I think this does affect my abili…
/r/seduction01/08/24 01:32 PM
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I have absolutely no idea how to dance to club music so avoid them entirely.
/r/seduction01/08/24 11:47 AM
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I think it depends on the context, said the right way with the right level of humour/tone it can work. But trying to change her mood is overtly trying to convince her age doesn't matter too, some will see right through it.
/r/seduction01/08/24 11:37 AM
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So what I'm reading is that I should buy a Porsche. Got it.
/r/seduction01/08/24 11:28 AM
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"I'm not old, I'm experienced"
/r/seduction01/08/24 11:26 AM
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"models" is his dating book
/r/seduction01/08/24 10:48 AM
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He's asking for an example of how you escalate, which is a valid request given where this was posted. Lots of us here can't escalate, so it'd be very helpful to have some real examples.
/r/seduction26/07/24 02:03 PM
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It's impossible through text, yeah, they need to be able to give you something to work with, and most women don't.
/r/seduction18/07/24 01:55 PM
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No.
/r/seduction18/07/24 06:16 AM
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I'm not saying this from experience, but from observation. I have a bald, rather unnatractive friend, who has been in rather intense relationships with several attractive women I'm friends with. I've watched him closely to try and understand what it is that these women like about him. And I think it boils down to this: He makes fun of them, teases them, and makes them laugh. That seems to be it. I once pointed out that he was flirting and he was visibly confused... unaware what he was doing woul…
/r/seduction17/07/24 02:31 PM
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Mate. The fuck you doing. You're wasting a lot of money on a risk. YES of course it could all be legit. But why didn't you both meet somewhere mutually halfway? Why are you doing all the leg work here? It screams scam from my perspective. If you do go... protect your passport well.
/r/seduction17/07/24 01:34 PM
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Ok so I need some directed examples. When chatting on OLD, I always start with "Hey, how's your <week|day|etc>?", to me this is a way to just get the ball rolling. Then I move on to questions about their hobbies to find a common ground. Then the conversation usually dries up unless they're particularly keen on me, otherwise they just aren't reciprocating by this point. Where do I go from here? I find that if I have nothing to work with, it just falls flat. I need something to run with, some bit …
/r/seduction11/07/24 08:25 AM
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Yep, it's the main reason I advocate for only masturbating once a week, and not using porn at all.
/r/seduction11/07/24 08:13 AM
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You were probably just a bit too drunk. In my experience alcohol makes me super horny, but unable to actually perform. Also if you masturbate a lot, you get used to it, and it can be an adjustment to see sex as the main source of orgasm.
/r/seduction10/07/24 03:23 PM
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I mean, to have the option to date one would be nice. Not that I'd like to date someone so vapid, but where and how are you meeting them? I assume you live in a big city in the US?
/r/seduction09/07/24 11:38 AM
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jfc 30 isn't old ffs.
/r/seduction02/07/24 09:30 AM
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Yep was confused. Any idea why?
/r/seduction07/06/24 03:49 PM
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I'll check them out, thanks.
/r/seduction07/06/24 01:19 PM
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I'm not sure I follow. I was asking who the "famous uk game guys" were, and then indicating that I'm distrustful of anyone claiming to be good at it on the internet. Willing to investigate, but wary.
/r/seduction07/06/24 12:40 PM
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Hm I never even thought of finding a group. I'm in the North West. What game guys are you referring to? I'm wary of a lot of people who claim to be good at "Game".
/r/seduction07/06/24 11:37 AM
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I think you need a bit of all of the above.
/r/seduction07/06/24 09:25 AM
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You're asking the wrong question. Why are women scared of your approach? You can't cold approach anyone, there has to be some signal she might be interested. Eye contact, a smile, etc. Cold approach is generally a bad idea imo, unless it's in a place where it's socially acceptable like a bar/club/etc.
/r/seduction07/06/24 07:58 AM
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I was in a LTR for ~16 years from the age of ~21. At first, no, I never felt I missed out because I was happy. But the final 8 years of the relationship as serious issues arose, yes, I felt I missed out. Because I did. I don't think being in a LTR in my 20's was a good idea at all. It's left me with 0 skills in the dating game and I'm nearly 40, and oppurtunities are dissapearing fast. I've had one other 3 month relationship that I completely fucked up and all I feel is regret because of how it …
/r/seduction07/06/24 07:55 AM
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Maybe it's different in the UK but I'm very much struggling in my late 30's. I keep finding women in their early 30's who think I'm too old, and have been told as such. I don't old and frequently get told I look early 30's. I work out constantly so I'm very toned and I'd guess 18% body fat. It's all down to your technique ultimately. I know several fat slobs that have hot wives and gfs. I'm just crap at gaining interest.
/r/seduction07/06/24 07:45 AM
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TRT at 28?? Howcome?
/r/seduction07/06/24 07:41 AM
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Cyanide has 0 filter, maximum confidence and a sense of humour. I'm not at all suprised he can net a hot one.
/r/seduction06/06/24 09:52 AM
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I agree here. Approach when there are strong, overt signs otherwise it's quite rude. Also I'm not sure having the mindset of absolutely everyone you see as a target is healthy, you do need a filter. If she's made 0 eye contact, has headphones on and/or is clearly busy and occupied, don't bother. She's in that mindset for a reason. If someone interrupted me in that mindset I'd be annoyed, hot or not. If she's open and receptive to chatting, give it a go. Also... not every conversation needs to go…
/r/seduction06/06/24 09:24 AM
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I'm having absolutely 0 results there. On apps at least. I don't approach or really interact with anyone in their 20's though so that doesn't help. Early 30's is what I'm after anyway. Where do you find you have the most success meeting 20 somethings? Apps are useless. Walking into a bar with people that age makes me feel out of place and old, so I don't go to those places, heh.
/r/seduction04/06/24 10:40 AM
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Treat the ones you like as though you don't like them. In my experience the moment you're over 30 getting someone in their 20's is difficult. NOT impossible, but difficult. You have to find someone that really syncs with you and age becomes a non-issue. I'm 38 and had someone a mere 5 years younger than me say I'm too old for her... so yeah. I've noticed the younger generation seem way more against age differences than when I was in my 20's.
/r/seduction04/06/24 10:07 AM
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Honestly, I'm fairly well built but don't yet have a six pack/low level body fat (somewhere under 20% atm) and it's not yet made a difference in any way. I do have the "triangle" shape, very broad shoulders and slim waist. I've found most women I interact with, while complimentary towards me, still go with the ordinary guy. Personality wins over everything imo unless you're after extremely shallow girls, who'll only ever want the Jersey Shore, orange and roided up type anyway. In fact in some ca…
/r/seduction04/06/24 09:49 AM
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Yep, that's why I'm asking for help/advice here.
/r/seduction29/05/24 09:24 PM
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I fail at flirting and escalation, definitely.
/r/seduction29/05/24 03:53 PM
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but knows how to lead things to sex very quickly This. How do I do that. I feel I do very well meeting women, I'm confident and have no issues getting a number or two on a night out. But I've never managed to hook up the same evening as meeting them.
/r/seduction29/05/24 03:34 PM
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No there isn't, common law ceased in the 70's.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/07/20 10:19 AM
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