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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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11	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since there's nothing left for them My dude. If you want to take an easier/lower-hours job to live a minimalist life and go to the library more, please PLEASE feel free to do so. Fuck capitalism, fuck patriarchal norms of what you have to do to be "happy". Get a dog and go on a hike and enjoy your vidyas	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 12:13 PM
2	What is personally a hot man for you? Showing care and concern for me. Literally the sexiest thing on the planet	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/23 01:10 PM
2	Silicon human size dolls are now made really realistically, and better looking than biological women, imagine when they are integrated with AI into cute fembot girlfriends, KO for women It's pretty easy to source 😂 And relatively cheap. Much easier time than trying to build an entire fake uterus and reproductive system	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 01:53 PM
2	Silicon human size dolls are now made really realistically, and better looking than biological women, imagine when they are integrated with AI into cute fembot girlfriends, KO for women "No technology could imitate a man" (Has never seen a turkey baster)	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 12:42 PM
2	Women (who aren't cheaters) would actually benefit from mandatory paternity testing Look, it's fine if you're not familiar with CMV posts. Don't worry about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 11:04 AM
2	Women (who aren't cheaters) would actually benefit from mandatory paternity testing For a CMV post...yeah. Specifying is kind of the point. If there are exceptions, you list them - otherwise, exceptions are potential areas for view-changjng	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 10:19 AM
2	Women (who aren't cheaters) would actually benefit from mandatory paternity testing OP doesn't specify that, just generalizes to say it always benefits women unless they are cheaters	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 10:02 AM
1	Women (who aren't cheaters) would actually benefit from mandatory paternity testing I'm speaking on OP's theoretical world where it is mandatory for every child to undergo DNA testing	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 09:52 AM
4	Women (who aren't cheaters) would actually benefit from mandatory paternity testing What about women who aren't looking to have their babies fathers in their lives? Whether because they are pregnant by rape, the father is a bad influence, they actively chose single motherhood, etc.?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 08:05 AM
1	When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many...... When a woman walks into a room with 10 guys, and gets harassed by one guy, she doesn't walk out of the room thinking, "9 out of 10 men respected my boundaries". Instead, she walks out thinking "Men are jerks!". And what if she walked into that room, got harassed by one guy, and then the other nine immediately started yelling at him and telling him that that wasn't acceptable, and that he shouldn't treat people that way? She'd probably walk out thinking "Wow, humanity isn't so bad after all. Ther…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 12:04 PM
2	Women of PPD, what differentiates men who are successful with women? Great personalities. Friendly, open, great listeners, easy-going, easy to laugh with. These are the guys who are successful in LOVE and LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIPS, which is how I would measure success. Guys who are successful at getting a lot of sex? Confident, relentless (not as in harassing the same woman, but like swiping on tinder all day and night), and constantly striving to be better (at the gym, in bed, at work, etc.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/22 11:22 AM
8	The notion that women expect Gigachad because of social media is projection by men onto women. It's what guys tell other guys they should be in order to attract a woman. The only people I've ever heard use the "6 foot, 6 inches, or 6 figures" thing are men on here trying to justify why they can't get a date	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/22 01:20 PM
3	Why are married people on here? What do you get out of this? Best, most honest answer tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/22 02:45 AM
-1	Would most college-aged women be willing to date a 30+ year old man, or are they an anomaly? This is so fucking creepy and sus, and even if a 30 year old manages to land a date or relationship with a 20 year old, all of her friends will think he's a creep, which will put a huge strain on the relationship and be even creepier (because it looks like he's isolating her). I've seen it occur twice, once with a girl with major issues. The one time I've seen it turn into a serious relationship, their social circle shrunk dramatically and family was very uncomfortable	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/22 04:55 AM
2	“Women make their own money now” I agree with a lot of the info here, but I would also consider the autonomy of the people involved - i.e. many people decide to move out of cities when they have children, so the people remaining are disproportionally childless. Especially these days with so many remote jobs, people tend to have more control over where they would like to live, and how that fits with their lifestyles	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 01:41 PM
8	“Women make their own money now” This is not correct. Adoption, fostering, sperm donors, etc. Even accidental pregnancy. There are many ways to have children without being in a romantic relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 01:35 PM
7	“Women make their own money now” So you're asking why men who would be shitty partners but are employed don't have an easier time finding wives? Why would a woman WANT to have kids with a man who is not a good partner? Even if he's financially stable (oooh a whopping $40k income to add to my own...in exchange for having to cook and clean for a soul-sucker every day until I die? No thanks) that's a drop in the bucket. Women, like men, want partners who are emotionally supportive, with compatible personalities, who will pull thei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/22 01:29 PM
9	What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ? See: Elliot Rodger	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 01:51 PM
3	Feminists having submissive/degradation kinks is a huge contradiction go their belief system Jesus, kinks aren't logical. You think furries think that animals should be in positions of power (government, etc) or that people with foot fetishes don't understand opposable thumbs? This post is very dumb. -10000/10	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 03:19 PM
1	How would you feel about your children struggling with dating? My parents tried to get super involved in my brother's dating life once they realized he might not "grow into" dating naturally. i.e. Setting up online dating accounts for him, encouraging him to go out a lot, constantly strategizing about his OLD presence, etc. Safe to say, it's definitely something they worry about	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 11:58 AM
3	Why does it seem when Western women reach their 30s their expectations get higher(not lower) whenever they are met or not that’s a different story? (Challenging the wall narrative) I think it's because as you gain experience, you realize that it is both easier and more fulfilling to be single and free than to be tied to someone who drags you down. Especially if that someone expects you to cook, clean up after them, have sex with you whether you want to or not, etc. and barely contributes to your life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/22 10:58 PM
5	Agree or Disagree: It’s not that women don’t care about “looks.” They do. It’s more that they’re “turned off” by socially inept behavior and turned on by sexy socially adept interaction. I feel like the other thing is that social ineptness could also signal that a man might be dangerous (i.e. not respecting social boundaries and norms, etc) which is another reason someone might not have sex with a socially inept man	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/22 02:32 AM
3	Ladies - how do you feel about the supposed trend that men are cold approaching less often these days? Definitely positive! I've been approached sometimes in the past, not always in a creepy way, but usually it's a bit awkward to turn them down, even though I try to remain friendly. So to think that this could have been happening more frequently, and hasn't, is great!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/22 03:20 PM
1	What trait(s) automatically puts a man above average? Having a great personality! Confident, chill, fun to be around, funny, easy to talk to (lol idk if this counts as just "one")	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 02:00 PM
6	Ladies, how big of a problem is "Height Insecurity" in men..... I mean, my husband and I are both 5'6". When we met (in high school) he was a black-belt boy scout with zero confidence issues, and I was insanely attracted to him (still am). So I would say that short guys with good personalities are A++ in my book. One caveat is that I generally don't wear heels around him, but heels suck anyway so win-win	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/22 01:44 AM
1	How are people supposed to find partners? The way to find partners is the same way you find any kind of human connection: common interests. If your social circle is small, find other groups in your community that are formed with the intent to socialize. Book clubs, hiking clubs, axe-throwing tournaments, volunteer organizations, church groups, basketball teams, etc. Try a few things and stick with whatever you enjoy most. You'll naturally expand your social circle, and could even wind up meeting someone (directly or indirectly) through …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 08:42 PM
1	When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language? In short, yes there does seem to be a disconnect. What we women are saying is that "X doesn't matter, if I met the right person I wouldn't hold them to some arbitrary standard." From your post, it seems like men are saying "X increases the potential sexual success of a man." Both can be true. A tall, handsome, well-hung rich man could have tons of sex. And, a short, small/avg-penis, avg-salary guy can also meet the love of his life, and she can love him for him. Height, wealth, and dick size may…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/22 11:05 AM
12	True or false, women on this sub are more likely NOT representative of the majority of the population but the men on here ARE "I've found a way to invalidate the opinions and experiences of every woman who posts or comments here, while simultaneously elevating the opinions and experiences of every man."	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/22 02:24 PM
1	Q4women: You’re out with a male friend and your purse gets snatched in a mall, do you expect him to chase after the thief? No lol I would probably shout, maybe run a few steps, then find the closest security guard and figure out what to do from there. The most I would expect my friend to do is emotionally support me, let me use their phone to call someone if I needed, or give me a ride home (since my keys are probably in my purse lol)	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 02:17 AM
2	What exactly is a "Low value man"? Doesn't do chores, doesn't feel like childcare (for his own children) is his responsibility, inconsiderate, always engaged in his own hobbies to the point where everything falls to his partner, doesn't provide emotional support for her but expects her to always be available and responsive in the exact way he needs, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/22 08:35 PM
2	Societal Expectations of Dicks It's kind of similar to boob size; everyone loves the idea of double D's, but very few people (sometimes even those with boobs) have an accurate idea of what that looks like, and the physical side effects do not align with the "bigger is always better" mindset	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 11:21 PM
3	People seriously underestimate negative survivorship bias in dating Yeah, there definitely needs to be some nuance here. Marriage isn't necessarily the marker to look for - more so the ability to establish and maintain a healthy long term relationship. But obviously you need two "quality", mentally healthy individuals for that to happen	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/22 07:08 PM
2	People seriously underestimate negative survivorship bias in dating I usually don't agree with much posted on this sub, but this actually makes sense and also aligns with my own experiences. I started dating my partner at age 16; we're now 25 and married. He's an amazing person and we were lucky to figure out a lot of relationship stuff together early on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/22 07:05 PM
16	Unattractive Women In quantity, probably. In quality....	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 12:01 PM
2	Q4W: How much do you contribute to traditionally male household duties? Dude, I'm literally reading through your responses, not interested in your cherry-picked favorites	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/22 01:33 PM
8	Q4W: How much do you contribute to traditionally male household duties? I don't know why you're being so aggressive to people sharing their experiences lol Yes, in apartments, the most "traditionally masculine" tasks include hanging shelves and filling holes in the wall when you move wall decor and stuff. Which is all pretty easy for anyone, even gasp a woman, to do/learn	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/22 12:15 PM
1	Q4W: How much do you contribute to traditionally male household duties? We do still have bugs once in awhile but everything else is so true 😭 If we ever have a lawn, I promise to mow it too	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/22 12:11 PM
1	Q4W: How much do you contribute to traditionally male household duties? We just have our maintenance guy do most of that stuff. Apartment, so no lawn. He takes out the trash, but I'd say we kill bugs somewhat equally	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/22 12:08 PM
6	Do you think you'll be with your current boyfriend, fiance or husband until death do us part? Mine will. I think it's dumb to say that with certainty most of the time, but...mine will.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/22 12:04 AM
1	Is virgin shaming common in women groups if one is a virgin at a “late” age? Personally, as a woman, I would never be mean to someone for being a virgin. However, for male virgins in their mid-twenties or beyond, I assume that they would want to have sex but have never had the opportunity/been comfortable enough to pursue a woman. For a female virgin of the same age, I assume that they are too reserved (because of religion or otherwise) to choose to have sex, or that none of the options of people to have sex with have been appealing. So, slightly different I guess	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 08:21 PM
-1	Men's worth should NOT be based on women's attraction I have literally never heard someone say that all single people are flawed/worthless/unhygienic, etc. I can see the other way - I.e. if you suck, then it makes sense that you’re single. But not single => bad	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/22 07:16 PM
1	If all men who don't have success getting sex/ relationships with women suddenly start hitting on women constantly, subs like thus wouldn't exists and men would be happier. I don't think this is "woman logic", considering OP's name appears to be "Jonathan" Just a guess, though. I could be wrong. I am using "woman logic", after all...	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/22 01:37 PM
2	Q4W: Where would you go if you wanted to be approached by guys (and didn't drink)? I would join clubs or groups with similar interests. Churches for religious people, book club for readers, etc. Then meet new friends (and potential romances!)	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/22 12:46 AM
1	Scenerio: One of your close friends "My Husband is leaving! How could he do this?" I mean, if we're going with that logic, I technically didn't "say" OP cheated on anyone either	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 10:13 PM
1	Scenerio: One of your close friends "My Husband is leaving! How could he do this?" He's leaving her for "another gym bunny", that heavily implies cheating	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 07:37 PM
6	how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you? My husband wore concealer when he caught a frisbee with his eye and didn't want to get questions about it. And he's let me do his makeup for fun tons of times ☺️ In fact, I've probably done makeup for, or seen make on, almost all of my male friends. Not all of them will leave the house with it, but most of them are down for some drinks and eyeshadow for funsies during game nights!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 11:40 PM
0	What do you think is the solution to most of the guys struggling immensely with women You specifically asked about red pill men	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/22 12:07 AM
-1	What do you think is the solution to most of the guys struggling immensely with women No, I believe in matching up compatible, nice people. Not guys who just want to use women to gain humanity	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/22 07:36 PM
0	What do you think is the solution to most of the guys struggling immensely with women I don't believe in pushing "red pill" guys upon women, or giving incels "strategies" to "game" women into sleeping with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/22 12:13 PM
1	How do you filter f$$k boys, vet guys better for a LTR? Do you actively try to keep a relatively low body count? how? Wtf is this post, stop trying to "game" relationships. Find someone you connect with, have sex (or don't) and keep seeing them for as long as you're compatible. Maybe get married one day, who knows	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/22 10:23 AM
2	Women how does your sexual attraction work? Everyone is different. For me, being able to banter with a guy is important. Someone who smiles and can make me smile. Someone who doesn't come off as desperate or needy (i.e. someone who is confident). Being funny, friendly, etc. doesn't hurt at all Edited to add: Usually, within a few minutes of chatting with someone, I can tell if they are my type. I haven't been on the dating scene in a very long time (and wasn't on it for very long then, either) but I can still tell when I meet someone who …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/22 01:55 AM
1	Scenerio: One of your close friends "My Husband is leaving! How could he do this?" I can't tell if OP is really the shitty friend or actually the shitty husband who doesn't want to be held accountable for cheating? 🤔	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/22 12:50 PM
1	Now that abortion rights are overturned, will you be more wary of casual sex? I’m married and its making me more wary. I’m on bc but going to discuss a vasectomy w my husband	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/22 01:41 PM
0	would you be in a relationship with someone if sex is off the table I think it depends on the reason for no sex and the stage of relationship. For example, if my long-term partner developed some kind of disease and their energy and libido were drastically decreased, I would take care of my sexual needs on my own (masturbation). If it was a new relationship and the person was asexual, I'd probably ask for an open relationship or just keep them as a friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 11:21 PM