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I'm not a lawyer or from the US, so I can't say much to the actual process. Try Crossposting this in FLUS and AskFds, maybe it'll come across to someone with more info. Idk if that's very feasible with divorce attorneys, but try to look into pro bono work. It's good you're looking for legal advice, remember that contact with him should be as non existent as possible. Good luck and much success. 💓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 09:36 AM
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I feel like we tend to overlook this part of FDS when talking about success, being able to deduct from the dating pool is just as valuable as being able add to it by looking out for green flags. Congrats 🎉👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 01:33 PM
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Lawyer up today! You're married I bet 100% he'll come for your business. Even if just to dismantle it, protect your assets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 12:58 PM
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Me too! Savannah just gets right to it in my opinion. Also, she's not north America based wich is a nice change of pace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 05:09 AM
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The Cringe™... it's unbearable 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 05:48 PM
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I agree, long distance is also very time consuming and costly. On top of that, it's only been 2 months of face to face, it's gonna be waaaay harder to spot LV behavior on long distance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 11:40 AM
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I just love how he realizes his house could've burned down, but completely ignores the fact that she's IN the house. Like dude...she could've died, I feel like it's weird to have such concern for the house but ZERO for the human being sleeping in it. I get it's a stressful situation but it's not like she was trying to commit "suicide by fire" like wtf?? It was an obvious mistake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:33 AM
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He's got a part-time job, a (apperetly small but still) scholarship AND he doesn't actually pay any rent....where the fuck is his money going???? I don't get this at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 04:13 PM
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It's no coincidence divorced women are less inclined to remarry. The types of marriages that drive them to initiate divorces sound EXTREMELY annoying Yikes🤮 Side note; this lady looks so polished (and she's obviously also very pretty), this is the type of vibe I want to give off when I'm older 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:29 PM
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You should read/listen to "the gift of fear". It'll open your eyes and further validate your (already pretty good) instincts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:04 AM
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25 is just too young. It weirds me out honestly. Thanks for bringing it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 08:05 AM
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Ah yes men trivializing women's lack of human rights....quelle surprise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 07:54 AM
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Dude in Switzerland there are Grandma's today who weren't allowed to vote on Federal elections. Women have only been granted the right to vote in Switzerland since 1971 (Federal). In a "first world" country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:08 AM
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This just made me realize I've been on this sub since Dec 2019...time sure flies hahaha Thanks for the hard work ladies ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 10:57 AM
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This is such a great outline, can we pin this? Or link it on the side bar? Those are awesome arguments to support our stance towards the sex industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:56 AM
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I'm pretty sure she can delete the number out of that folder. She should do it as the wound is fresh, so no time to change her mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 12:54 PM
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dangelowallace has a very detailed video about her and a follow up video. I used to occasionally watch some of her stuff but just as background filler, I personally do not think she is HV at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 12:52 PM
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Don't quote me on this but didn't the Vikings use to have the women in the household take care of finances? (Apparently they thought of it as witchcraft lmao)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:11 PM
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Even when it's not a date, whenever someone asks me out (boyfriend or my friends) I always ask for the WWW. When, where and what. When: Date AND time. (Exact time can come later but at the minimum a day in advance) Where: Specific location (not just "a nice little place I know" (unless it's a good friend I've known for years) it's gotta be the restaurants name, the specific cinema, a certain Cafe etc) What: Lunch, Dinner, coffee and Cake, picnic, etc it's gotta be a specific activity so I can pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 11:17 AM
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Just letting y'all know that you can put a password on any app of your choice (does not need to be the same as your lock screen), so consider putting a password on your picture app. I also have my pill/period tracker locked cuz you never know what kind of psycho may gain access to your phone. (This is from Android user idk about apple)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:45 AM
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Not sure to down vote or to up vote, yiiiiiikes hahahahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:55 PM
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Naomi, drummer, bobbie 💖 forever the baddest women in space ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:50 AM
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Is there....some tea to be spilled? 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:41 PM
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Lmao the bonus points is extremely true hahahaha they're the loudest about it too 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:31 PM
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Kennie JD reference? 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:00 AM
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On the orgasm question, I can orgasm from vaginal stimulation (🥳) and those are also like you described "possessed by a demon" in terms of visual cues and whatnot BUT clitoral orgasms are like gentle waves of pleasure and I'm not even sure how visible that'd be honestly. Ps: love the content, I catch myself laughing out loud soo often it's just chef's kiss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:55 AM
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Could you have called your manager "in confusion"? Like. "Hi Boss, apparently I'm not on the list and can't get in? Could you come down and help me?" And do it every time too coz the manager would for sure have more say in wether these scrotes get to keep their jobs. (They're higher up, so if they complain to building management directly it might have a stronger impact)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:31 PM
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Idk why but "bench press me daddy" took me out 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:12 PM
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Not OP, but I'm assuming Br. (I am too)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:06 PM
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Also I'd like to point out that....even if there were mass shooters and bombers incel women, unless the numbers were significantly higher...they still wouldn't be worse than male incels, they'd just be as bad as male incels. Like their argument would be null either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:19 PM
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I thought it was a sarcastic use, like how dudes will go on twitter and complain about "females".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 09:51 AM
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Not OP, but I wouldn't date in my own field, you never know how it can come back to bite you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 09:47 AM
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I looked up her channel, I wish she would film videos instead of doing mainly live streams. Jamila Musayeva also does videos on etiquette and class, nothing about men, just etiquette and class. (Anna is a bit, I honestly don't know how to put it in words, maybe bland? Idk)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:45 AM
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Minimum 600 million ✨🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 01:28 PM
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Another big name one is detective Conan (but it's hella long haha) the girls (highschool/elementary) are portrayed like real humans and LOOK their age and not like middle schoolers. The grown ups have depth and character. (Rans father is a LVM through and through doe)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:41 PM
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u/savevideo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 02:04 PM
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Omggg I used to listen to this sooo sooo much omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:21 PM
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I thought so too, that's why I recommended inviting the girls boyfriend ti join as well. Maybe it'll click for her if she isn't the only one who's weirded out by their behavior. Let's hope for the best🤞🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 12:04 PM
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Try Billie, I heard it's nice. Or you could switch to a double-sided safety razor, it's really cost effective and better for the environment :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 12:44 PM
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Same here, I wax my armpits and private area but the legs I shave (it lasts really nicely on my legs for some reason), rarely get ingrowns anymore 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 12:40 PM
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I think she meant to gauge their reaction. As in do you wanna share a life with me or do you just wanna own me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 12:17 PM
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Also! Also! He can shape shift 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 09:07 AM
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Guys, watch the video. She goes in way more details with her opinion on the show than I've summarized in this comment. A lot of times it's not really a question of what they portray but how.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 07:39 PM
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This youtuber highlights why she's uncomfortable watching and/or making commentary on the show "Euphoria". She explains that her problem with it is not the topics it's centered around but much more how it's portrayed and especially how it's shown in explicit detail and with overwhelming ("teenage/underaged")nudity to a target audience of adults. To an extent also how it may romanticize the issues to the younger audience members through it's use of aesthetics. Honestly while I enjoy the acting an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 04:43 PM
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People in the comments being like "they don't actually live there" "they're only there about 3 times a week" etc Yo that's not the point omg. It doesn't matter how long they are there for why do they live in filth??? Actually the fact that they DON'T live there makes it kinda worse. You're telling me you're there only a few days a week and as senators you can't have someone come in and clean the place while you're home? Wtf????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 10:39 AM
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Isn't the post is the story of Kylie's make-up artist? I'm confused now 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:57 AM
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I would also like to know 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:23 PM
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I loooove this one 🥰 she's sooo good omg. O also like Nines development, normally when the Female Lead is strong and smart the male leads are so god-damned useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:17 PM
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Wow I didn't know that, in her video about dating in korea she also talks about guys wanting to pump and dump foreign girls and to only give it a try if it's been set up through friends. I guess I wasn't paying close attention then. Thank you ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 10:13 AM
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I've been watching her content for a while and don't really understand your comment?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 09:49 AM
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Congrats 🎊 it's well deserved ✨ I also LOVE that coz we're all women, not only do we congratulate you on the accomplishment but also the fabulous nails 🥰 #ILoveItHere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 03:07 PM
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You guys, there's a YouTuber Megan Bowen she is american and lives in Korea and her relationship with Mr. Moon (her husband) is so healthy looking. If you wanna check out a good example of a healthy (korean+non korean) marriage, check it out https://youtu.be/qP4igV81V6c
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:14 PM
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I'm sorry this happened to you, but try to take the bad with the good: He is your ex, you weren't actually pregnant and you've found FDS. You can only go up from here ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 07:42 AM
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Bring your own. Use wet wipes or something. Take your purse with you to the bathroom and stop changing the toilet paper. See how fast one of them starts changing it. (Yes I know it's annoying but since you'll be annoyed anyway 😌)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:35 AM
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Yes, I feel like she's grown so so much from her past...if only she published music again 😭😭😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 03:07 PM
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"I ain't never seen two (2) pretty best friends, it's always one of them gotta be ugly" -some Tiktok scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:50 PM
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"I ain't never seen two (2) pretty best friends, it's always one of them gotta be ugly" 👁️ 👁️ 👃 👄 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:49 PM
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She's making fun of a guy that makes these types of tiktoks he also stares at the camera like that and talks like that haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:44 PM
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Another one: Bi. Salp. ✂️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 01:01 PM
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She also has an youtube channel ✨😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 12:55 PM
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Ngl got a chuckle 😌 but it's best to Block and then delete. What's the point of having him in your contacts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 09:25 AM
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Make it 3 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:46 PM
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Honestly, while his mom was treating her like absolute garbage he didn't say/do shit. He didn't warn her not only about his family and status but also all the other people and relationships. (Bru he didn't even help her find an appropriate attire for most high class parties, she would've been a laughingstock if her friend didn't help her out) And then he's all like "I'll give up my family for you." Putting her in the position of being the bag guy for breaking up the family, instead of him standi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 10:21 AM
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When he enters the "tinder" room someone shouts let's meet at the rail road tracks hahaha it reminded me of the field a guy knows 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 01:30 PM
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Tag her here sis omg 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:04 PM
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That's the original post that triggered it all https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hdtxf8/thought_this_belonged_here/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 11:01 AM
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This one and the shallot one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 09:37 AM
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I looked on Netflix and they don't have it either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:13 AM
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Yes sadly :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:12 AM
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I also live in germany (I am Brazilian doe), and here's the thing: If you meet online- forget it. -100 in value. If you meet at a social gathering- better chances but expect anything. If you meet through friends/hobbies/school- best chances to find someone worthwhile. (Does not mean there won't be LVMs and NVMs) That being said 50/50 is prevalent here and so is early sexual activity and moving in together after a few months of being together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:46 PM
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I think they changed it so that apprentice can post but newbies can't anymore. But I'm not 100% sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:11 PM
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Also the fact that he seems to have talked to delilah (aside from when they were all drunk) about having a threesome without his girlfriends input? Even when they were drunk he is the one who suggested a 3some even doe his girlfriend is the one who's gay. Like ofc he'll wanna sleep with the otherwise unattainable lesbian, but what about the actual person delilah was interested in? Reads like cosmic justice to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 09:23 AM
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Wait...there are male only subreddits??? I don't even wanna imagine what goes on there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 09:09 AM
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Can't watch it here :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:31 AM
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Yeah do this, but don't deactivate your old mail. His attempts will go into the void without him realizing you have a new email address. Same strategy for phone numbers ladies 🤗 Source: The gift of fear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 09:05 AM
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He's trying to appeal to 'mens rights activists' by focusing on the fact that he's the only male human in the household. He wants them to come to his aide in the comments because " he's being oppressed" by these women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:15 AM
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OP get her here. She'd fit right in 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 08:42 AM
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One moment of Silence for our fallen sis...she chose the wrong brother. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 08:29 AM
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Breaking up is not an option...what is this? Prison? Why can't you leave? Girl bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:27 AM
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🤏🏽 🙅🏾‍♀️ 💅🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:38 AM
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I want this video omg. Where is it from?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 11:52 AM
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Tumblr introduced it to me too. Kik is still associated with shady conversations for me. I wish I'd never downloaded 9chat back then. You live and you learn I guess, hopefully the next generation will learn from mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:24 PM
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PM her if you can :) you never know what can come of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:24 PM
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I mean even Angelina, after they Split she came back to the acting world. From what we can tell she's doing way better now even if not 100% over the bullshit. Ps: they have a 12 years age gap..yuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:49 AM
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Am I the only one who's confused about the house buying part? Sis how come he can wanna BUY A HOUSE with you...but still hasn't asked your hand in marriage? This alone is not sitting well with me. Don't mix your finances with a man (who doesn't wanna marry you).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 09:25 AM
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And never forget that's a viable option sis. What he refuses to do, another will gladly offer up :) But hopefully your deal with remain stable 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:24 PM
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Big Oof
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 12:35 PM
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I don't know if it's like that to anyone else, but I cannot STAND men with soft bodies. Even if you're 'not fat' and dress well, the moment I place my hand on your shoulder/chest and it's soft??? Dry. It also indicates 0 stamina. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 10:33 AM
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He's got such great eyebrows... I'm jelly :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:28 PM
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Yeah I was just letting you know the reason. It is what it is 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 11:01 AM
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It's actually good that you didn't crosspost. We might get reported for it and we don't wanna give reddit a reason to ban us. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 10:57 AM
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Mdr 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 10:34 AM
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As a latina woman: we don't want him Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 11:46 AM
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I mean I would have paid my part, but you can rest assured this human would never see me again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:35 PM
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You're absolutely right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 11:39 AM
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What. Do. You. Mean. 'You. Don't. Know.' ?! What. Do. You. Meeeeaaaaannnn. Wtf WTF What is there to do???? He's a rapist who's proud of it!!! Wtf! This is beyond 'pick me' behavior. Has she never heard of self preservation??? This hurts my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 10:12 AM
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You can look into CBD if you want. It'll mellow you out and calm your nerves but it won't get you high or addicted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 09:39 AM
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I don't think that's the point, it's more about how men don't even know wtf they want. But YES let's not pull each other down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 09:26 AM
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Hey :) I joined 💕💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 07:49 AM
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Not a DOLLAR 😂😂😂 I'm dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 07:57 AM
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Like everyone said, don't engage with her. Block and delete her number. If you're in a gathering together with her and all other friends, you may greet her like you do everything else (as long as it's not hugs and kisses lol). That's it. Do not concern yourself with her. Do not ask your friends about her. Don't engage in conversations about her or her new/old dude. Focus on you. Also make new friends outside of that specific group of friends, so that you're aren't constantly surrounded by her pr…
/r/askFDS26/07/20 12:34 PM
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Her song btw https://open.spotify.com/track/1YrgbwVse66pH7ysXLlgO8?si=TolpfjoWSkq5DXzccuQGaw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:13 AM
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The projection. Also, at least you'd love yourself, which is more than we can say for him. 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:40 PM
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I dropped the ball on that, I pressed ignore and now it's gone 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:11 PM
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Oh 💯 They're always angry. They make their own lives miserable and blame others for it sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:39 PM
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Thank you siiiiissss omg 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:18 PM
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If that's the case...he failed miserably, how are you 'pure' or whatever when that's the first message?? Men really ain't it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 09:23 AM
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I mean can you blame him? It's a well established fact that men are indeed delusional 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 02:21 PM
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I read that post, girl you are thriving and I have no other choice but to STAN 💖👑 You deserve it sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:37 AM
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Run. Don't even be friends with him, he'll make things unbearable sooner or later anyways. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:28 PM
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That's such a shitshow on so many levels Jesus Christ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:48 AM
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I'm not sure she can actually do something about it :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:24 PM
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https://solitarybeast.com/blog/n62bswb9x9vqodr6njmvblqwd3fueo And I'll do you one better and send you a screenshot :) edit: http://imgur.com/gallery/uipxn5F
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:14 PM
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Did they really choose a picture of nappyheadedjojoba (Ti) to illustrate a 'failed 30 year old woman'? Sis is hot, smart and funny. Idk what these people are on. It must be crack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:53 PM
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Excuse me, I would like to inquire about the fuck. So, what in the absolute fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:43 PM
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Why are you posting that here? I feel like r/relationshipadvice would be the sub for you. Not trying to discourage you from posting here, I'm just saying that its very obvious what kind of response we will give you...and I don't think it's what you want to hear....sooo what's the point ? Like, are you actually willing to leave him? edit: I'm illiterate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:27 PM
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Lmao it'd even more insulting if the guy is 'rich'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:31 AM
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And ps: he's triangulating you and her while also future faking. Search for it in the sub you'll find loads of examples.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:58 AM
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Girl, the title alone is already it. Why would you do that to yourself? You wanna be a rebound? You have agency over your thoughts, feelings and actions. You do not need validation to do what you know is best for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:56 AM
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This woman is just soooo beautiful omfg Also...QUEEN👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 05:14 PM
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Exactly hence all the extra steps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 10:07 AM
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This just sounds like exclusivity with extra steps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 09:05 AM
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His name is Jerryrigseverything on YouTube and he has a very smooth voice. I used to watch his videos when I was looking for a new phone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 07:35 AM
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I did too, and then sorted by new and liked the reviews of the other women so it'll show up as 'relevant' ;) hopefully this will bring some awareness. 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 09:36 AM
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Yeah honestly, I don't think she 'missed' the red flags, she looked at them directly and ignored them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 06:57 AM
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If the band bends or even breaks, it's relatively affordable to get it fixed :) So don't worry too much about it! I only know coz my grandma only wears solid gold and has had that problem before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 10:53 AM
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Piggybacking on the support thing, I also can't code... but if you need monetary support we can make a GoFundMe or something of the sort, no? I'm far from being rich, but if everyone helps out we could achieve something :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:17 AM
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Should we also rate the app on play store?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:45 AM
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If he's really into you, he'll come to you. You are not desperate, never desperate, for a man. Keep yourself busy and entertained. If it's ' now or never ' for you, it is for him too. If he doesn't act, it's because he doesn't want to act. I Kno it sounds harsh but it is what it is. Ps: Congrats on getting out of that relationship, you did great! 💕💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:44 AM
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Girl reading this... I realized when I did some of these things subconsciously or when I had the chance to and missed! I love how unapologetic you are. This is fantastic advice. 👑✨💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 07:00 AM
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No, I'm sorry maybe I haven't expressed myself correctly. I'm not saying like addicts in the sense of highs or whatever, I'm saying you can only do so much for someone else. If they don't wanna leave they won't, they'll go back or they simply won't press charges. Like you can't force an addict to become sober, they'll either lie about taking anything or just relapse. Hope it makes sense :) I'm sorry about what happened to you, but I am happy you had the strength to get away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 02:21 PM
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Don't say anything. Block his personal number, don't engage with him when you are by yourselves. Get a date with someone else. He's breadcrumbing you btw. Also...maybe look for a transfer? Or a different job altogether.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 07:07 AM
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Abuse victims are kinda like addicts (from what I've witnessed), they won't get out of that situation until they've reached their 'rock bottom'. All you can do is try to help them help themselves. You did what you thought was the right thing to do, you stood up to someone today, even though you didn't have to. Be proud you were a better person than that guard and hope you're not the only one. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 06:28 AM
22

Honestly? It's only a few days, smile and nod slightly, then come read some sanity posts here ;) I know it sounds stupid, but fighting their view isn't gonna do anything, they're happy in their misery and that's where they'll stay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 06:16 AM
6

If you give in on this 'small' matter now, you'll be giving in way more often in the future. He can either step up and realize his role here, or he can gtfo. It's simple. That being said don't give him an ultimatum, just state what your standards are(which I think you've done already), he'll either comply or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 09:52 AM
16

Leeeavvveee? He started crying so you'd stop calling him out for being a disrespectful little bitch. It's that simple. He's not gonna stop, he'll just deny it or stop doing it when you're there but keep doing it when you can't see him. You got 2 options: be single or be a clown, your choice 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 09:18 AM
2

Preach!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:28 PM
11

You could message her this sub? Maybe she'll find herself right at home, just like we did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:36 AM
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I love how they always pick and choose from what we say... we're like ' sure having a nice size is good, but you gotta know how to put that to use.' = Having a big dick is not fun if you're bad in bed. What they hear: it's ok to be Teeny tiny, just have good rhythm 😎 Lmao typical
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:27 AM
2

Honestly, become comfortable with the words 'deal breaker'...a red flag is for example: You: i don't like to have guys over after 7pm. Him: Oh c'mon, I can't even come up for a little chat? Y: I'm sorry it's late I'd rather not. H: you know me, we've been on three dates blah blah blah can't I????? That's someone who is pushing (or at least trying to) your boundaries, if he does that about this, what else can you expect? That in my opinion, is a red flag. It's signaling what's to come. What you d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 02:05 PM
3

I don't like this for you, honestly. You've wanted to get with this guy for a long time, surely he must've picked up on that, yet he only confessed when you weren't available. Also the fact that he isn't even asking you out on a date, but instead wants to 'hang out' indicates to me that: he's aware of the fact that you're weak for him and that he's using a vulnerable time for you to lower your standards. Idk something's fishy. If you really wanna stick with it, you could just say you're not read…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 07:50 AM
5

Wtf did I just read?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 06:49 PM
5

This is not normal, I repeat this is not normal. Even if it was a normalized behavior, would that natter? No. Why? Because you think it was mean, that's all that matters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 07:48 AM
2

Yes girl. Make that lemonade! 💖💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 05:33 PM
1

N O .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 05:00 PM
3

Did you block him AND delete his number? Also delete the chat history? If yes, great 💕💞🤗 If not, please do it... don't let yourself be tempted 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:30 PM
6

Ask yourself how important sexual satisfaction if for you. Are you willing to work on it even though it might produce no results? I feel like that's something specially personal and subjective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:00 PM
2

Oh hahaha sorry 😅my bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 06:22 PM
4

I assumed you weren't because you didn't label him 'ex boyfriend', sorry. Honestly a month is fine in my opinion, like I said it would have been generous for a person you're just dating. I don't think under a month is very polite doe. (In a actually acclaimed relationship)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 06:16 PM
8

So you guys dated... that's it. If he were after a relationship and tried talking exclusivity with you that's one thing, but that never happened so you don't owe him anything lmao. You were gracious enough to tell him a month in advance...most jobs only require 2 weeks and there's more commitment there. Don't worry about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 06:04 PM
10

I wanna tag her in this comment sooo badly. I hope she goes through with the divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 05:36 AM
13

The height, the 'beard' and all this audacity??? Homeboy gotta pick one coz all three is overload.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 07:10 PM
4

Honestly I wouldn't see it as a red flag, I'd see it as an insult to my person. Doesn't respect your health, time or money ( what do you wanna bet he'd expect you to carry the cost or do 50/50 even doe he is asking you to visit him?) Honey this whole thing is a deal breaker. You don't go out of your way for a first date with a guy, to that extent. He wants you? He can come to you, if you like him after that, we can revisit this topic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 05:58 AM
1

The comments on that video...yuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 08:22 AM
9

Maybe she meant in tinder years hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 06:30 AM
4

This might be weird, but while I draw more attention from others when I have make up on, I get hit on/approached way more when I'm bare faced. That's why I never understood the whole ' you use make-up to attract guys!!! ' stereotype...like they are way more intimidated when I'm looking "my best". Now I'm talking exclusively on the make-up part, coz when I'm out in sweats and my hair is in a bun, it's like I'm invisible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 05:59 AM
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Use a throwaway or else they'll fuck with it just coz you post here too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 02:14 PM
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I feel like it's not an unpopular opinion for most women tbh. Also, SAME sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:23 PM
3

scoliosis has entered the chat either that or he really is dummy thick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 08:59 PM
3

From what I see here, it's more about the willingness to pay. In the beginning of the relationship you don't pay a dime as in: you are not prompted to pay anything that you guys do together at the very least. Now if it's an established relationship and everyone has a role and there is more complexity in the picture, you obviously figure your own system out. Just keep in mind; you should always be able to walk away. Don't be dependent on someone else's money. Enjoy the security of a man with his …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 08:55 PM
11

Oedipus complex but make it x1000 Yuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 01:41 AM
6

Hey guys, can't we tag her here? She's so young...maybe we can help her? This is so sad to see
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 11:39 AM
2

Listen to 'the mean lady talking' podcast. She's really good at giving advice, she was a lawyer and is now a certified therapist. She's very direct and will NOT sugar coat it, but it is really good advice. She has personal experiences that you can relate to too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 11:22 PM
16

Often we (as women/girls) put more meaning into words of flattery that we receive by men, than there actually is. Men on the other hand take advantage of this judgement flaw and don't correct the misconception. (Also not native but I thiiiink that's it, please correct me if I'm wrong)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 02:53 PM
3

And when he found out she was his mom, he gauged his own eyes out. Greek mythology is fun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 08:32 PM
8

Simple logic hahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 08:57 PM
13

Why did he have to add so many 'x's on Netflix??? 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 12:12 PM
2

Are we putting these in the urban dictionary??? We should....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:26 PM
2

u/suzanxo just read the comments here, do whatever you think is right, but read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 05:33 PM
4

Dude how come it's always a woman or a group of women fighting for men's rights and stuff? When will men fight their own battles? Rarely have we seen men make waves or start movements towards women's rights so why tf do we keep fighting for someone who wouldn't and didn't fight for us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 05:05 PM
10

u/HorrifiedFlattered you may be flattered now but soon enough horrified is the only thing left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 02:03 PM
11

The court heard the pair had met in early 2019 on a dating website and been in an “up and down” relationship - partly because he was in a long-term relationship with another woman, who he is still living with. That is a whole other level of pick-me. Trash will be trash will be trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 08:02 AM
2

Read. The. Handbook. Also, please seek professional help if at all possible. Otherwise self-help books can be a good band-aid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:50 AM
18

X
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:54 AM
1

Honestly, this is giving me weird vibes...he polished the ring...to wait a few years to propose...? I feel like he's planting this idea of 'soon...but maybe not THAT soon' to motivate you to wait around longer, or so that when he moves closer he can be all 'oh we could move in together, you already know I plan to marry you anyways...' Idk but it seems fishy, if he really cared that you're stressed about the idea, he could've played it down " oh it was just a dream I had before the trip and my dr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 08:48 AM
13

Are you planning your way out yet? It's not gonna get better. Hope you move on soon X.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:30 AM
7

Scrotes mad ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 07:17 AM
3

Listen to the mean lady talking podcast. Right now your ex is using space in your mind, rent free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:42 AM
16

I am appalled at this absolute vacuum of a human, I'd like to call him a piece of shit but even shit can be useful and he's just a piece of space that doesn't contain any matter. I'm sorry this happened to you and I'm very glad to hear that he's an ex. I know you're doing soooo much better now that you lost that waste that was dragging you down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:54 PM
19

u/bigstona imagine this ^ scenario
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:51 AM
5

u/imalittlecreepot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:17 AM
16

Yeah I had a FWB once, who always invited me to hang out with him and his friends or go get a coffee/eiscream before or after the D-appointment. I literally had to text him 'stop asking me to hangout, I'm not your girlfriend and I don't wanna be your girlfriend.' it was also really annoying coz he was blatant with me about how he didn't want a relationship with anyone at all...but kept asking for date shit. Had to throw him out and get a new one 🤷🏽‍♀️ Ps: my friends would always comment on how h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 10:14 AM
18

This interview and Chers 'I am a rich man' interview have always resonated with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 04:43 AM
73

Destruction 100
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 10:58 AM
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What did you answer? "Oh btw I don't have time for the date after all, I lost my planner and as a single woman haven't had the time to update my new one."?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 10:48 AM
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u/metisviking please read all the other comments HERE we have YOUR best interest in mind not his.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 07:53 AM
8

Got it from r/astrologymemes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 07:45 AM
11

I'm Brazilian and that's how I feel when they go all 'you're soo exotic' In my mind 'thank you, next' by Ariana Grande starts playing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 10:38 PM
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