gaelicdarkwater Archive

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1	Semi-approaches vs full-on-approaches? Yes, it's always better to say something than to sit in a corner and fume because she doesn't know how you feel. I just think that too many guys in clubs and bars approach women as if every woman is a whore and treats her like one. I think men would be more successful if they made an effort to interest the woman intellectually rather than just laying it right out there that you want to bang her. You're male. She knows you probably want to bang her. Experience has shown us that most bar guys are …	/r/seduction	30/12/13 12:27 AM
1	Semi-approaches vs full-on-approaches? I usually find that the overconfident guy isn't worth the trouble. I like men who are intelligent and just a little nervous. If I weren't in a committed relationship I'd probably be a cougar. There's something wonderful in taking a nervous, shy guy who can keep you mentally stimulated and teaching him the more adventurous side of life.	/r/seduction	29/12/13 12:48 AM
1	Please help. I get women in my bed and feel so nervous/anxious that I can't get aroused. Mid 20's, feeling like I might as well give up on women, so tired of failing and now self sabotage... Then you might be passing, but you aren't getting an A. When a guy does it right you don't really need anything else. Have you tried fingering her, being sure to hit the G-spot, while you do it? Too many guys go at the clit hard, forgetting that it's pretty damned sensitive. If you aren't good at it or do things that hurt we'll move on to the next step pretty quickly rather than suffer through it. It's not easy to fake an orgasm when some guy is mangling your clit. It's probably about the equiva…	/r/seduction	28/12/13 10:12 PM
1	Semi-approaches vs full-on-approaches? It can be, but not all guys do that. I've had guys walk up to me in bars and just grab my ass or tits. Even had one guy go upskirt as a way to say hello! I know other women who have had to discourage an aggressive Romeo with a little knee to groin massage or, as in the case of the guy who tried to finger fuck me without a word, break a guys nose.	/r/seduction	28/12/13 10:03 PM
3	Please help. I get women in my bed and feel so nervous/anxious that I can't get aroused. Mid 20's, feeling like I might as well give up on women, so tired of failing and now self sabotage... You can also talk to the girl. I dated one guy once who told me flat out the first time we crawled into bed that he's just not capable of having sex the first time he's in bed with a girl. Said it "just doesn't work". He was in college and hadn't had a whole lot of experience. I was okay with it. In fact, I felt a bit challenged. Oh, you can't because you get nervous? Well, lets see what we can do about that! I not only came back for a "second try" but introduced him to enough things that anxiet…	/r/seduction	28/12/13 12:11 PM
1	Does anyone have a French kissing guide? Don't be a mush-mouth! Don't slobber. If I have to wipe my face off after kissing you I probably won't do it again. Also, don't rely solely on the open mouth, move tongue technique. Vary the amount the mouth is open. Nibble on the lips slightly. (Never a hard bite unless she does it first, in which case she's opening a whole different can of worms.) A good kiss has good pressure and a little male dominance to it. Wrap your arms around her, hold her firmly. If you make her know with a kiss you wa…	/r/seduction	28/12/13 10:56 AM
2	[FR] A realization that I've had Zach, you're right. A guy that can make you laugh and smile always has a better chance! If a man wants a real relationship he should be fun to be around, intelligent and easy to talk to. Even less attractive guys have a better chance with a good sense of humor. A guy who is sooo sure he's God's Gift to Women may get the drunk shallow girls, but he's not going to get the girls that are fun to be around and worth spending a lifetime with. Also, I know more than one girl that goes with the rule tha…	/r/seduction	28/12/13 10:52 AM
1	No problem getting a girl, but can't seem to stay. I think you should change the girls you go after. Find ones that you can be friends with outside of the bedroom too. If you have things in common you can talk to about things other than sex then you'll have more in the relationship than just sex. Also, read. I know a lot of women who love guys who read. It shows he's interested in things and in learning. He'll have something to talk about. If all a guy has is cute he's fine for a fling, but if you can't talk to him after sex then he's not worth …	/r/seduction	28/12/13 10:47 AM
1	Late bloomer, anxiety is my Achilles heel My friend Harold was just like you. 22 before he lost his virginity. He's a wonderful guy who really likes women. He treats us all with respect and we all feel special when we're with him. He has a wonderful gift for making each and every girl he knows feel like he really cares about her. He also has a harem. He's currently dating 3 girls, all of which know about each other. The harem has gotten as high as 17, but he had to weed some out because the time crunch was just getting ridiculous. So re…	/r/seduction	28/12/13 10:35 AM
2	Have you made friends at age 25+, without having an already set group of friends? Just curious what advice you could give? It is harder. Making friends at work is risky because the back stabbing doesn't always end at high school. The co-worker who finds something out about you that is personal may use it to get a promotion instead of you and could even get you fired doing it. You have to go out and do things to make friends as an adult. Join clubs, go places on a regular basis and get to know others that do the same, be friendly with the neighbors (even when you want to drop kick their nasty little ankle biter to th…	/r/seduction	28/12/13 10:30 AM
2	Front loaded women! You obviously don't know shit about women. I've never read Cosmo in my life. I can fix a car, build a table, download a song without iTunes, repair a computer and a lot of other things you think only men can do. Maybe if you treated women better and respected them more you'd have more luck.	/r/seduction	28/12/13 10:26 AM
2	Front loaded women! an idiot.	/r/seduction	28/12/13 10:21 AM
0	Semi-approaches vs full-on-approaches? Sorry, but "hey, you're sexy" and grabbing could well get you kicked in the junk. How about treating us as people, not just walking fuck toys?	/r/seduction	28/12/13 10:18 AM
1	Where to go? Yeah, movies are a bad idea. You sit in the dark and don't talk to each other. Never a great way to get to know someone. I love the laser tag and mini-golf ideas! Anything fun and active is memorable.	/r/seduction	28/12/13 10:14 AM
1	Social life based completely on drinking. How to quit? First you need to find something you enjoy that doesn't involve alcohol. Join a group and make new friends. As you grow older most of your older friends will cut back on the drinking as well. It just gets old. Try getting some of them interested and involved in activities that don't mix well with booze. Take rock climbing. Rock climbing sober is a lot of fun, especially in a group. Rock climbing drunk, not as much. Someone is going to get hurt.	/r/seduction	28/12/13 10:11 AM
16	Please help. I get women in my bed and feel so nervous/anxious that I can't get aroused. Mid 20's, feeling like I might as well give up on women, so tired of failing and now self sabotage... Random hook ups aren't all you're making them out to be. Sex with someone you care about is always better. For now though, relax. You might need to see a doctor about social anxiety, but you might just need to learn to let go of insecurities. Frankly, if you're good on the oral exam she's already happy. As for being gay, anxiety caused impotence is not a factor. Sexual attraction to males is a factor. If you don't have that, you're not gay. You're just insecure. You're probably better off trying…	/r/seduction	28/12/13 10:07 AM