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I can relate. Was living in a 5 bed house, now in a 2 bedroom old condo, accounts depleted as well. Just can’t relate to the happiness part, as still can’t get over the sadness. She still isn’t working so whatever I earn gets split, so not being able to replenish my accounts either. Can’t tell if I regret the divorce or getting married at all, but do love my kids a LOT so can’t imagine life without them
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/22 01:46 AM
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I started out hoping for 50/50, she wanted 100% to start and then negotiated at 80. Eventually settled to 10/28 nights with me in the school year, and vacations split equally, so I’m getting 40% of the nights roughly. I did have an extra weeknight dinner added on, this way I’m with them for dinner half the time during the school year too. Would’ve loved 50/50 but I’m the only one earning, and since our situation is already tight, kids would’ve suffered even more with not having money either. I d…
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/22 08:54 PM
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I suggested something similar, but ended up having to go through not only a traditional divorce, but having my kids be with me less than 40% of the time - while she lined everything up to go through the divorce after I suggested this. I was still looking out for my family in calculating support payments etc, she just looked out for herself, and was successful
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/22 02:38 PM
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🙋‍♂️ Had been mentioning for years that I likely am depressed but high functioning, but she thought it’s all attention seeking behavior. Last year started to realize I likely have Aspergers, she dismissed that again. Now separated, I’m figuring out I have pretty bad ADHD which is why I couldn’t finish anything I started, or kept on changing jobs every couple years. She still feels I’m trying to make excuses, and I just need to try harder. I do wish I would’ve sought professional evaluation earli…
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/22 11:55 PM
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Better to decide this now then get divorced 15 years later (fellow Pakistani American)....no one will bat an eye if you don't marry; but people including some of your own friends might cut you out if you get divorced (going through one right now)
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/22 10:27 PM
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