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Maybe that other guy posted on a different sub how nobody was interacting in the coffee shop, except this one guy that was looking at everyone and furiously typing on his phone
/r/seduction20/04/25 08:41 AM
1

Like a vampire
/r/seduction08/04/25 11:14 AM
11

Kiss her neck, whole back and chest (not necessarily the boobs, can be upper chest, kiss her nipples and ask if she likes it) for a while and watch what happens. Also kiss / lick her ear and see if she likes it. Basically men get horny very fast while women take a while. You gotta escalate it little by little..after she's horny from the above actions you can touch her down there (gently, ask her for guidance on what she likes) then at some point she will be begging for it
/r/seduction06/04/25 12:42 PM
2

It's not a shit test
/r/seduction05/04/25 12:54 AM
4

Me, I haven't seen any of this
/r/seduction05/04/25 12:53 AM
1

What? Haha
/r/seduction04/04/25 07:12 AM
7

I'm surprised I had to scroll down this much to find something about women from poorer countries marrying men from richer countries. It does happen with women from richer countries and men from poorer countries, but probably not as often
/r/MensRights04/04/25 05:48 AM
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Need to ask it at r/asksociology
/r/MensRights04/04/25 05:15 AM
2

Do you mean a scam or overpriced? I heard courses are very expensive, but it seems to me they could be effective.
/r/seduction30/03/25 04:42 AM
1

How much does that cost?
/r/seduction30/03/25 04:41 AM
2

How about scouting out a place first to see if there's a couch
/r/seduction28/03/25 05:19 PM
31

Dancing is great, but takes a while. Salsa, bachata, kizomba. It takes years unless you're a natural. You need group lessons and home practice and/or private lessons and go out to dance socials to improve
/r/seduction28/03/25 03:57 PM
1

Back in the day I mainly read Girls chase website. It has lots of articles on very specific issues. Also I just googled specific questions and added a keyword I read models afterwards and it was good.
/r/seduction28/03/25 01:43 AM
20

Kino, touch
/r/seduction27/03/25 02:06 PM
1

Lol
/r/seduction27/03/25 11:16 AM
1

Extroverted but people don't like you? Do you have poor social skills? Do you make inappropriate jokes? Do you ask questions and listen to people? Are you mature? Can you read the room and how the person you are talking with is feeling? What kind of things do you talk about?
/r/seduction27/03/25 03:05 AM
2

A man decides in 5 seconds if he likes you or not? Maybe it's similar, but for us men it's probably more true than for women
/r/seduction25/03/25 12:41 PM
4

Only occasionally lol
/r/seduction25/03/25 08:34 AM
6

This is a great point. What's the diff between the two in your opinion? I see hitting as lore one-sided effort, while flirting is a fun game, like you said
/r/seduction25/03/25 06:20 AM
0

Did your.uncle tell you that? Haha "I banged all the girls there!" Sometimes you get ugly girls too though, or old. What about them?
/r/seduction21/03/25 10:35 PM
-1

Flaking is when she says she will meet you at a certain time or day and then she changes her mind (flakes). Many women don't even say anything, they flake silently haha
/r/seduction21/03/25 10:58 AM
17

Salsa is great, but it also takes a long time to learn. I can dance salsa/bachata and almost any city or a reasonable size (in the world!) has a dancing scene... I don't like going out on my own to regular bars, but with salsa/bachata I do. Additionally you'll start to feel comfortable holding attractive women very close to you. You'll also get more confident with your body and dancing in general. Bachata is even better for this.
/r/seduction21/03/25 10:54 AM
2

Exactly. Women don't ever touch a man they don't like. They know very well what they are doing when they are touching you.
/r/seduction21/03/25 07:09 AM
-4

Americans (native English speakers) wanted to show off their English to you?
/r/seduction18/03/25 12:42 PM
1

😐
/r/seduction17/03/25 07:16 AM
1

"He said that Tanya was asking if I could come." - it depends what she actually said to your friend. Or if your friend said "I'm bringing OP" and she said "ok" and he was being creative lol
/r/seduction16/03/25 06:02 PM
1

I understand your point about working on yourself to be more secure, and you gave some excellent advice. How does it go together with clear communication though? Say you do want your girl to text you in the morning and evening at least, how to communicate it in a secure and confident way? Does this clash work conventional relationship advice that advocates clear and honest communication? I mean I guess I get it, that if you are needy it's better not to communicate it lol, but work on neediness
/r/seduction16/03/25 06:01 AM
7

I'd say it's not just high quality but exceptional. Top effort
/r/seduction16/03/25 05:55 AM
2

I'll let you know, and not letting you know - means she had better things to do. Women do this all the time. She would let you know if she liked you more. Women hate being direct, so they prefer going silent, not responding, not doing anything that might cause conflict. They do it apparently for self-defence, as some men, I hear, don't take rejection well if they say it directly. Anyways it's hella annoying when women leave you hanging like this. I wish they were more direct. You can of course s…
/r/seduction15/03/25 07:56 PM
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Thanks. I didn't realise that all I had to do is to be confident.
/r/seduction15/03/25 01:33 PM
1

Write this as a separate post, give A LOT of detail of what you say, how you say it, what body language you have etc. and you'll get good advice. Also mention instances at work or social circle.
/r/seduction14/03/25 06:35 AM
1

Lol why?
/r/seduction14/03/25 06:22 AM
3

You are not screwed, mate. I think you should write a post on how you flirt (maybe the most important thing), how you ask them out, how you treat them, and then ask for advice. Also you don't need a date to try hand-holding with an acquaintance or colleague for example. Or even fooling around and flirting. You can fool around and push a girl away, like how 10-year-olds do, with women that you come across at work (if you have some rapport already). Also do you see yourself as attractive? You have…
/r/seduction14/03/25 06:10 AM
2

Don't worry, I also don't understand his reply and not sure if he read your post
/r/seduction14/03/25 05:52 AM
8

I like your post. You've had hundred of female friends? You can literally get dates from your female friends. If you said "hundreds", then they are just acquaintances mostly. You can hit on them. There's your easy "date-source", more or less. You say you've never been on a date before. I bet that if you met any of these acquintance girls 1-1, they thought it was a date or at least hoped it would be a date, and you didn't treat it as such. A date doesn't have to be declared in advance as a date. …
/r/seduction14/03/25 05:36 AM
6

Salsa bachata kizomba instructor, these guys clean out
/r/seduction13/03/25 06:12 PM
1

Well, ask your buddy and then tell us. I want to know too Also I'd always meet them before somewhere, as they might be Psycho or not as pretty as in their dating profile
/r/seduction11/03/25 07:09 AM
4

The chances of her choosing her clothes based on you are very slim. Also seems to me you are reading too much from a look, "this sad, almost conflict energy". Maybe, probably not though.
/r/seduction11/03/25 05:26 AM
1

How to be the man women want?
/r/seduction10/03/25 04:27 AM
1

There's always a reason why people ghost. Top reason is that people we think it's an acceptable mode of behaviour. Second reason is that they don't like you. It can be men or women
/r/seduction10/03/25 04:24 AM
1

Euroasia
/r/seduction08/03/25 05:53 AM
3

You are quite articulate for white trash
/r/seduction04/03/25 10:10 AM
1

Maybe give us more details? What do you mean "all of the sudden"? Describe what happens? Where do you meet these men?
/r/seduction03/03/25 06:01 AM
2

How much money do you spend on such a date?
/r/seduction28/02/25 04:12 AM
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I don't understand
/r/seduction27/02/25 02:43 AM
3

Knowing how to dance salsa/bachata is like a cheatcode-> meeting lots of girls everywhere in the world. Even if you just do group lessons, you'll meet lots of girls. Also dancing gives you confidence being physical with hot ladies at very close quarters.
/r/seduction26/02/25 06:05 AM
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I can't tell if you are joking or not
/r/seduction20/02/25 08:59 PM
2

🙄
/r/seduction20/02/25 08:58 PM
2

😬
/r/seduction20/02/25 08:57 PM
1

Didn't know the 19th century British prime minister Benjamin Disraeli was into seduction
/r/seduction15/02/25 04:48 PM
3

Why was there 2 minutes of silence?
/r/seduction15/02/25 04:46 PM
5

I'd say quite a risk. I'd just not do it, it's only 2 dates.
/r/seduction14/02/25 03:57 PM
3

Dubai has also a terrible male to female ratio, because most foreign workers are men
/r/seduction14/02/25 12:49 PM
1

Touch her knee quickly during lunch while making a point. Her reaction will tell you if she's attracted or not. Often she'll do nothing, but if she pushes back or leans away, you got your answer
/r/seduction14/02/25 04:36 AM
1

Really good frames
/r/seduction11/02/25 11:02 PM
25

"be charismatic", writes down on a notepad
/r/seduction11/02/25 10:10 PM
2

This is the mature answer. I don't even know how all other people are saying "ditch her". The overreaction. Most likely she has guy friends and she does things that friends do. Don't text her needy shit like "I miss you". Let her enjoy her night. Then plan another date and continue.
/r/seduction11/02/25 10:08 PM
1

Mate, men want action/dating/romance at any age. It's your own limiting belief that 30 is too old. Thirty is a great age.
/r/seduction10/02/25 05:24 AM
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Where are you in Latam? Which city
/r/seduction08/02/25 02:41 PM
5

Back in the day I read a lot of that website. It was amazing. That was... 10 years ago. I spent months reading there. Really changed my life. Helped me a lot. A few days ago I did a YouTube search and found relatively recent videos by the creator. I've watched a couple, and it's him doing "lectures" or just sharing his knowledge. I'm planning to watch/listen to more.
/r/seduction06/02/25 05:05 AM
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Happened to me many times haha. I normally move on and focus on other things and other girls. However as soon as she does show a little interest again, I fuck up and I am often back on it, and blow it with too much interest. I remember once managing to do it by focusing on other things and other girls, and when the girl showed some interest, I was still distant / cold, and she didn't understand why and tried to get close again, and viola we slept together. But normally I fail at this. I think yo…
/r/seduction05/02/25 05:39 AM
1

Haha alright. By the way THIS which you just wrote (taboo topic) is a relevant detail and people can give you advice on that
/r/seduction03/02/25 08:49 AM
1

That part about your cousin is irrelevant to the story
/r/seduction03/02/25 08:32 AM
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Finish her!! Haha
/r/seduction02/02/25 07:37 PM
1

Tell us what happens on the dates
/r/seduction02/02/25 12:32 PM
5

But women also like to laugh
/r/seduction23/01/25 04:27 AM
11

So really your question is "how can I stop sitting next to her?" Find an excuse, come on. "How can I stop thinking about her?" - date other girls, think about other girls, think about a project you have in life etc. Stop spending time with her. Are you in high school or college/uni?
/r/seduction22/01/25 11:48 AM
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Me, I try to spend 10 USD on first date. Coffee date haha
/r/seduction07/01/25 08:46 PM
3

Do you mean like a lips on lips kiss? I only might do that as a greeting if she's a long-term girlfriend. I dislike even doing that. Why would you kiss her as a greeting? She'll probably find that weird.
/r/seduction06/01/25 05:25 AM
2

I got used to the good life. Coz that happens to humans. I wish I could be grateful and just as amazed as how I was when it all started to work.
/r/seduction05/01/25 08:08 PM
2

Like many said, I sucked with women, I was frustrated about not having ANY romantic life. I was like, is this how it's meant to be? This sucks. I wanted to have some romance/dating/sex as I was having none. Anyways I'm not frustrated anymore but also I don't appreciate what I do have now. I WAS very happy when seduction started to work.
/r/seduction05/01/25 02:59 PM
1

Not even gonna read your post (lazy) but I love your title hahaha
/r/seduction03/01/25 10:15 AM
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I concur. Stick to simple adjectives and lower level intensifiers (a bit, kind of, somewhat, a little) and nothing like really/very/quite/extremely. 3 dates is nothing, don't get over excited. If you have a good hand (poker) don't start smiling like a blissful idiot. You hardly know her. One of my friends went on a weekend trip with me and friends, and he had seen this girl TWICE and texted her that he misses her. Face palm. Another strange piece of advice: if you have any other girls you texted…
/r/seduction03/01/25 10:11 AM
9

You can also imply it. "I'm not looking for a girlfriend" "I'm not looking for a serious relationship"
/r/seduction31/12/24 06:24 AM
2

Good answer.
/r/seduction27/12/24 07:09 AM
2

Don't don't ask her if she prefers you two only or to invite others. You need to suggest it yourself or at least imply. For example "let's meet for coffee" is implied it's just you too. Let's meet for a drink is the same..if she says "sure, let's see if x,y,z are coming" then it's generally not a good sign. You can sat "let's go the two of us for a coffee". Anyhow if a woman likes you, she'll make it easy to meet her alone. If she doesn't, she'll make it hard.
/r/seduction25/12/24 07:44 PM
2

Just message her to see if she's willing to spend time with you just two of you. It can be anything. Coffee, drinks, walk, whatever. If she says no, you know your answer. If she says yes, then come back for more advice on this sub
/r/seduction25/12/24 06:45 PM
2

The less often you see them, the less likely it is to happen. If you are seeing her "casually" 3 times a week, you'll both get attached pretty soon. And like others said, communication
/r/seduction20/12/24 07:53 AM
6

I 100% agree. Location, country, culture changes how you are viewed. In economic terms, you are a commodity, or perhaps a product. You are competing against other products.
/r/seduction16/05/22 02:18 AM
24

The most profound thing was that there is such a thing as "game", "seduction" and that it is a skill I can learn. That blew my mind
/r/seduction16/05/22 01:03 AM
24

If you are hot and confident (and know game), they will like you even if you don't like yourself
/r/seduction16/05/22 12:51 AM
102

I second this. Friends don't fo that. That's not a friend.
/r/seduction14/05/22 01:22 PM
1

Firstly, words don't mean what they mean on the surface. Words have a meaning underneath them there's meaning behind words like Let's sleep , let's cuddle in bed, let's watch a movie on the sofa in my house, Secondly, are you feeling horny with them in bed?
/r/seduction14/05/22 01:09 AM
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Post a picture
/r/seduction12/05/22 10:20 PM
2

See if shes willing to go for drinks with you at a bar at night, tease her a little and touch her occasionally (shoulder, back, arm), say honest things thst she might not like but you show you are not there to please her. Buuut don't make effort if she's out of line. Don't continue to see her if she's not a cool person. I often forget that when im around very attractive women. Stick to your values. If she does something that you wouldn't like if a friend did it, tell her or stop seeing her. Don'…
/r/seduction12/05/22 10:09 PM
0

Yes it is worth it. This sub is all about keeping your virginity
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:18 AM
2

She definitely doesn't LOVE YOU. She probably doesn't want anything romantically with you - you have your answer in "She has a boyfriend". You are probably too young for her anyways (most likely). "she is texting me daily (small talks and long conversations)" - that's what friends do, most likely. I mean she might like you romantically, but that is extremely unlikely due to age difference, her having a boyfriend etc.
/r/seduction10/05/22 01:16 PM
4

It means she isn't attracted to you now. She might in the future, but that's unlikely and don't count on it. Trying to make her attracted to you will fail, almost always. You might be able to attract her if you stop giving her attention and start dating other women. Best is to move on You might be the hottest person on earth, but she deems you not good enough now, or not a good match or whatever. One girl's opinion doesn't matter. If all girl's think this and say this to you, then you have a pat…
/r/seduction10/05/22 01:07 PM
2

It's a quality of problem, and I prefer to be getting laid and be dissatisfied with my life than not getting laid and being dissatisfied. I was very happy for a few years at overcoming the inability I had with women. After I started getting with women, for a while I feared that I might revert back to not getting laid. I sort of got over that fear. I still go to the gym a lot because it makes me feel attractive and i think if i stop, I'll become unattractive again. Before this journey, perhaps th…
/r/seduction10/05/22 12:02 AM
92

Work out - calisthenics Get a pet or cat, it will help your mental state l
/r/seduction04/05/22 06:55 PM
1

Why nevermind why? Don't it if you don't want to
/r/seduction01/05/22 06:44 PM
1

I have confidence that came through a hoe phase haha, but also inner game. I'm no longer desperate. Probably did a hoe phase coz I used to be desperate, to prove something to myself. Probably did my hoe phase coz it's hard for me to say no to sex and pleasure. I don't know if it's mentally or emotionally healthy, but my path did bring me confidence. Sometimes I didn't like being a man hoe, felt like was doing it out of momentum as opposed to enjoying it. Anyhow I'm through with it.
/r/seduction28/04/22 09:16 PM
2

So you are saying you badly need her? That's your first problem. Your negotiating power is weak, from a business point of view. You could/should improve that, so that you are not desperately holding on to her. It gives her more power. You might accidentally hold on to a horrible person, because you have no alternatives, and badly need her for your mental health... If you improve this, she'll have less power over you, and would be attracted more to you - go to the gym, feel good, do things you lo…
/r/seduction10/04/22 10:35 AM
1

So you are in a committed relationship after one date? That's seems way way way too soon, but stranger things happened. Well, how don't you blow it up? Why are you afraid of blowing it up? You don't even know this girl, she could be horrible. You don't need to keep a giro at all costs. You keep her if she's good for you.
/r/seduction10/04/22 05:31 AM
-4

UK girls are kinda ugly/fat
/r/seduction14/12/19 03:08 PM
2

Cook the puppy
/r/seduction09/12/19 01:27 PM
-6

Wtf man
/r/seduction06/12/19 11:44 PM
30

Good stuff bro, audacity is part of the game
/r/seduction03/12/19 03:14 PM
1

Yo man, maladetz, davai rabotai :D
/r/seduction26/11/19 09:26 PM
3

As someone who speaks 6 languages, I can tell you that just speaking multiple languages is not enough. Perhaps it is equivalent to doing 2 PHDs, or being a nuclear scientist, or being able to play 3 instruments. As the guy above wrote, performing on a stage and grabbing attention, seeming powerful and leading, that's attractive. So if you run a language event/group, if you teach in a classroom, you will attract those present. If you become a public speaker, a public figure, that's attractive. Ju…
/r/seduction26/11/19 03:17 PM
1

Going out a lot means I have a lot of practice at night. Dancing with girls, talking to girls. But going out means I drink a lot and the next day is spent in hangover.
/r/seduction22/11/19 02:04 PM
1

True that. Practice making small talk with anybody around you anywhere
/r/seduction22/11/19 02:03 PM
1

I'm successful too where I am, and often girls make it easy for me. But I realised that the girls that make it easy for me are not of the calibre I want I realised that I will need to make more effort and be brave in order to get the girls I truly want. Also not all girls go out to bar and clubs
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:43 AM
1

I am in Latin America but in a small country, I'm probably in the top 80% for looks and I'm white (they seem to like Europeans here). Taller than average here (but not back home). Fit
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:39 AM
1

I don't know, 2 of them sort of made it easy, but I just decided I got to ask girls out even if convo is not going long or they are busy. I will keep doing this, if in run into any girl I like and we are talking to any length of time, then I need to ask her out. Simple.
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:37 AM
1

I'm 32. Waitress girl is 24, gym girl was 20 (too young for me, but she looked older) and mall girl I think is mid 20s. I'm in Latin America by the way.
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:36 AM
1

I go out a lot, so night game is a bit easier.
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:35 AM
1

I chased my dreams and became adventuruous and experienced. I went traveling and moved to Latin America eventually. Also going to the gym helped a lot. I look better and clothes fit better. I used to be skinny and now I am sort of lean muscley.
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:33 AM
1

Sure, pm me
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:28 AM
2

I was near her in the gym, and I literally just said to her "what does this machine work out?" (It's the hamstring machine). Then we started talking, she was all smily and friendly, it was a Saturday and gym was half empty.
/r/seduction22/11/19 05:00 AM
3

The bright lights, the lack of music (the silence!), And how unexpected it is for both her and me.
/r/seduction22/11/19 04:35 AM
3

Bring wine. If she drinks wine with you alone in a room, it's pretty certain she likes you. Or just sit next to one another talking on the bed, escalating with kino, until you just go for a kiss.
/r/seduction22/11/19 03:47 AM
2

Yes I am going to do it consistently in order to form a habit.
/r/seduction22/11/19 03:41 AM
1

Haha good answer
/r/seduction12/06/19 09:15 PM
1

Well man, playing games is immature at best. Do you want a girl like that? At worse she might be crazy. Or she might not be interested. If you chase a confused girl, be aware that you might end up with an immature/unstable chick. I cut that shit out of my life, because while you get to date a chick, you disrespect yourself by lowering your standards for chicks that play games/are not sure about you. Unless you are just chasing pussy and your sole target is fucking. Then by all means go ahead and…
/r/seduction12/06/19 09:14 PM
1

What is this? No info, no details, troll question?
/r/seduction12/06/19 09:10 PM
1

Take bachata lessons, a great way to get comfortable dancing close with girls
/r/seduction12/06/19 07:15 AM
1

Can you explain more? I'm curious
/r/seduction10/06/19 08:19 PM
5

You didn't fucked up. The girl showed interest and you took her number - excellent. You only fucked up if your end goal is to fuck a girl the first time day you meet her. Then yes, you fucked up. Or maybe she would have said no anyways. Who knows? But you shouldn't measure your success with women with this metric. Other metrics - I had a nice connection with a girl, she wanted to see me again, I asked for her number and she gave it to me, I had a nice interaction with her and things could have d…
/r/seduction10/06/19 08:09 PM
2

Understanding humans is one of the hardest things in life. It sounds like you have some dating success, so don't worry about anomalies. There could be a million reasons for why she did it, and they might have nothing to do with you. Like Interloper said above, she might have had a flashback, ate some bad meat at the BBQ and her stomach hurt haha. Only worry if it happens often.
/r/seduction10/06/19 01:23 AM
5

Maybe, dude, she just didn't feel it. Sometimes girls don't feel it, and sometimes you don't feel it. Don't worry it about and move on.
/r/seduction10/06/19 12:58 AM
1

Where do I find that?
/r/seduction07/06/19 10:31 PM
1

That's true. I watched this video yesterday about how you need to just have fun and a decent conversation, and if it is going well (for both of you!) then you should ask for her number. It reminded me that talking to girls shouldn't be about trying to get her number, but rather seeing if she's a decent human being who's interesting. Anyhow thanks for advice!
/r/seduction03/06/19 04:56 PM
1

I was just kidding about the fact that I'm bald, it doesn't stop me haha. Approaching girls on the street - I haven't been able to do that ever, but I have approached in public places where I run into a girl in a cafe or some place else. I want to give a compliment to a girl that is serving me, a waitress, or a girl I strike a convo with, but it is very difficult for me. The reason I want to be able to give a compliment is that while I can make small talk, it often doesn't go anywhere for me and…
/r/seduction03/06/19 12:10 AM
2

Go do bachata lessons, that did the trick for me. It's basically a sensual almost grindy Latin dance, and it will give you some moves and you'll get used to dancing that close with women. Kizomba is algo great. Alternatively do salsa lessons.
/r/seduction02/06/19 01:19 AM
1

3 sex, 3 makeouts. The first one was my girlfriend but I broke up with her
/r/seduction26/05/19 11:59 AM
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