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Dated a borderline for 4 years and she nearly ruined me financially and emotionally. Stay the hell away. Not to be fucked with is an understatement of epic proportions.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/24 10:42 PM
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How about “this community is for people down on their luck”, rather than using the word losers to describe men who are just in a bad place in their lives. The word loser is a derogatory term. It should be exclusively used for those who either try and bring others down, or make no effort to improve their lives in any way.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/24 11:23 PM
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Good looks and a pretty cat. Don’t underestimate the power of cats, women absolutely adore cats and not as many men do (stereotypes of cats being female pets), so when a guy appears to be a cat lover it adds bonus points to his appeal.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/24 12:01 AM
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Idk man this has happened often enough to me that I don’t think that’s the case. I’ve already gotten a few numbers and about to set up a date with one girl already. All hot women at least in my eyes. From what everyone’s written here I had another theory, perhaps these 9/10’s are just girls that I’m very attracted to so they respond better to my advances? Whereas the girls I place in the cute category they can sense I’m not being as genuine with my attraction so are cold towards me? What do you …
/r/seduction01/06/24 03:17 AM
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So what you’re saying is a hot girl has an even larger ego but because she expects everyone to approach her they’re more open to the attention? Stuff is complicated to understand tbh.
/r/seduction01/06/24 03:12 AM
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I think the real question is can it turn a genetic 7 or 8 into a made up 9.
/r/seduction01/06/24 03:08 AM
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Woah that blew my mind. That makes perfect sense to be honest.
/r/seduction31/05/24 06:48 PM
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Well that’s why I asked. It was just my own personal experience, obviously I’m not drawing any major conclusions from this until I get other opinions. Nothing is an absolute there are always exceptions I understand that
/r/seduction31/05/24 10:39 AM
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While the demand for hot women has not changed, the supply has gone up just due to the greater emphasis on beauty and skincare in future generations. More women have access to cosmetic treatments and skincare products that maximize their beauty. Couple that with the vast amount of internet information regarding exercise, diet, hair care etc and becoming a hot girl has never been easier. When I go out at least in my city hot women are literally everywhere. It’s amazing to see but yeah simple supp…
/r/seduction31/05/24 08:47 AM
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Virtue signal all you want. I’d still rather be sleeping with women than not sleeping with them.
/r/seduction30/05/24 02:22 AM
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Still better to drown in success than to die of thirst.
/r/seduction29/05/24 09:04 PM
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lol man you typed all that out just to bash me. Every relationship is transactional in some sense let’s not be politically correct and try and act “holier than thou” as you are attempting to do. It’s no one’s job to do anything, we are all free to behave in whichever manner we please (provided we don’t break the law) but one of the beautiful things about friendship is mutual benefit. My friend is more social and opens up more doors for me, so what? I’m introverted and knowledgeable about busines…
/r/seduction28/05/24 06:26 AM
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Ah I see. That’s definitely on you then, I would absolutely mention it to him. I mean you know that he’s a virgin has no success with women, so I’m sure he won’t judge you about your insecurities and struggles. He’s handsome and tall and his luck could change quickly. If he’s cool and a good friend like you mention, then you need to open up to him so he’s aware of how you feel. Your envy will quickly dissipate and in the future when his luck changes you will benefit massively (since he’s a good …
/r/seduction27/05/24 06:23 PM
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Being short sucks, definitely. Dating is going to be harder. But a good friend is a good friend regardless of what they look like. It’s understandable that at times you may be envious of your friends, but if he makes you feel this way there’s a possibility he’s not in tune with the way you feel or doesn’t care. It’s possible he’s actually a douche and not a good friend at all. For example if he knows he’s handsome and tall this can actually be a huge benefit for you because you can capitalize of…
/r/seduction27/05/24 08:34 AM
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Bro we’re men we don’t follow the same timeline as women, it’s definitely not too late. Men are at their peak physical attractiveness in their late twenties to early thirties, with a slow decline after. Statistically you are at an age of peak attractiveness to the opposite sex, so get your shit together and hit the ground running. Don’t waste another minute of time. Don’t make women your focus necessarily, but focus on making yourself as attractive as possible. This can include improving your so…
/r/seduction23/05/24 10:03 AM
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Well if you’re not at least 12-13% bf that would be step number one. You instantly become more handsome when you’re lean because your jaw and cheekbones become more defined. Also being lean and having a nice body is a huge plus that makes you more attractive. If you have a weak jawline you can make it stronger by chewing hard gum, training your neck area and mewing. It’s a lot of work but trust me you will be surprised at the difference even at 5’4”. No comparison between a handsome, ripped shor…
/r/seduction22/05/24 02:42 AM
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Hey man I’m short as well and I’m gonna be honest it’s rough. Girls will reject you way more just for being 5’4”, however it’s not over because there are other attributes you can maximize. It sounds like you’re doing well on the social side of things so I won’t comment on that, but imo that’s not going to be enough. Focus on building a nice physique, learning how to dress nice, and look as facially attractive as possible. If you have good facial hair some good stubble can make you look more matu…
/r/seduction21/05/24 08:27 AM
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Mannerisms are part of physical attraction imo. I bet if you work on your awkwardness and body language you’d get better results.
/r/seduction13/05/24 03:27 AM
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If you’re physically unattractive it’s not worth your time. I recently went out with an unattractive wing who doesn’t have any approach anxiety, he was approaching left and right and was getting blown out so hard. It’s worth it if you are attractive though.
/r/seduction13/05/24 02:32 AM
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You’re either ugly or unconfident or both.
/r/seduction12/05/24 06:27 PM
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This is wrong, you’re not white unless you look white. If you’re mixed but do not look white you are not treated as a white person nor do you reap the benefits of it.
/r/seduction09/05/24 10:45 AM
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If she’s a legit liberal Muslim then that means it’s very likely her family is at the very least moderate Muslims. If this is the case then your chances of success are close to the same as any other girl you meet.
/r/seduction08/05/24 10:01 PM
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lol you seem like a cocky motherfucker I wonder what the point of your post was. The truth is that Muslim women are some of the most conservative in the world, it’s not that you won’t have success but usually they are quite strict in terms of abiding by religious doctrine and usually date other conservative Muslims or those in their close circles. I and many other guys had a huge crush on a Muslim girl in high school (Arab women are gorgeous), but it was impossible to date her. She just rejected…
/r/seduction08/05/24 09:53 PM
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This is a load of bs 6’2”-6’3” has consistently been shown to be the perfect male height, with diminishing attractiveness after 6’3”. 6’5” would be considered too tall for some women (barring say the Netherlands and Northern Europe), whereas that would rarely be the case for 6’2”.
/r/seduction30/04/24 01:53 AM
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a) I’m 6’2”… Stopped reading after that. Being tall is literally a status symbol, bros height is doing a lot of the leg work. For some reason a lot of tall guys fail to acknowledge that they in large part are successful due to their height.
/r/seduction30/04/24 01:49 AM
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I’m telling you man it’s not worth it. The girl had BPD and damn near ruined my life by destroying me financially and emotionally. If you catch feelings for one of these women you better pray she doesn’t suck you dry (not in the good way). How to get women like this? Be good looking, charming, and chill. Don’t chase them, be the chill guy that balances out their chaotic energy. I can tell you right now just from your eagerness you are gonna have a hard time. They are drawn to guys who don’t need…
/r/seduction26/04/24 08:06 AM
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Dated one. Freak in the sheets lady in the sheets, was polite as can be and absolutely crazy behind closed doors. Sex was amazing but unfortunately the crazy also spilled over into the relationship. Would not recommend/10.
/r/seduction26/04/24 07:05 AM
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It’s terrible. It’s like approach anxiety on steroids.
/r/seduction17/02/24 10:10 PM
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Ok man whatever you say. You’re not being very helpful so I don’t understand what you’re trying to accomplish with these replies. But I’ll take what you say into consideration I guess.
/r/seduction17/02/24 11:02 AM
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Ok you may be right, I’m not denying what you’re saying. But I used to be halfway decent at this in my early twenties. I would see signs like this, capitalize on it and end up dancing with girls on the dance floor. I’ve brought home girls like this by just looking at proximity signals. But for some reason my game is just horrible after breaking up with my gf. I see the same signals but instead of doing something I feel embarassed and freeze up or just walk away. I don’t even remember how I did i…
/r/seduction17/02/24 10:49 AM
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Thanks man that’s a good idea
/r/seduction17/02/24 09:52 AM
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Its proximity. Like the girl will make eye contact with me from across the room, then all of a sudden end up in front of me shaking their ass. Before I got in a relationship i knew how to watch for signs and then capitalize on those signs. But after 4 years idk something’s changed, i think I have so much social anxiety that I can’t make a move
/r/seduction17/02/24 09:32 AM
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I guess you’ve never heard of cuckolding before. When i first went to college i joined this club and went to a party the first week. I was getting a lap dance from this girl and this guy kept looking at us. He looked embarassed and upset but didn’t do anything, so I shrugged it off. Next day i found out it was that guys gf, i was so embarassed and ashamed but other people in the club said “don’t worry he’s totally fine with it, they do that sort of thing all the time he likes it.” Apparently he …
/r/seduction31/01/24 10:11 PM
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Definitely a demoralizing moment not gonna lie. But it just shows the power of game and masculinity. Looks are important but not enough on their own for men. No one can tell me otherwise regardless of what people say on the internet.
/r/seduction31/01/24 07:27 PM
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Look up what a rave bae is, sounds like that’s all this is.
/r/seduction31/01/24 10:21 AM
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I think the environment matters. In a high energy environment like the club i definitely agree that it’s an extroverts playground. You really (at the very least) have to be more outgoing than normal as an introvert to have success here.
/r/seduction31/01/24 06:46 AM
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He’s into that. It’s 2024 and people are sexually liberated and diverse. Partner sharing is common and in fact sometimes a major turn on for one or both partners. They probably wanted you to be player 3. Next time that happens you should make a move for sure.
/r/seduction31/01/24 06:17 AM
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Oh yeah it ruined my night, buts it definitely motivated me to work on my social skills and game more.
/r/seduction31/01/24 05:17 AM
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I just want to say that you’ve hit the nail on the head. I’m one of those people that have lookmaxxed and get a lot more female attention, but when you’re shy and unconfident nothing remarkable happens. I went to a salsa bar and this attractive girl came up and talked to me, I was able to hold the conversation well but didn’t physically escalate. We ended up going to the dance floor together but I kind of just awkwardly swayed back and forth next to her without making a move. I shit you not, not…
/r/seduction31/01/24 03:11 AM
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Don’t mistake social anxiety/social awkwardness with introversion. You can be a smooth and confident introvert.
/r/seduction31/01/24 03:00 AM
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Thats the overarching long term goal yes, but I have realistic expectations. Realistically coming out of a 4 year relationship I’m not gonna just jump into the bar scene and get laid the first night. So the benchmarks I’m trying to hit are simpler (starting a conversation, making the approach) so I don’t get discouraged. My social anxiety has gotten a lot worse compared to a few years ago, just even walking up to a woman and talking to her is a big deal to me.
/r/seduction28/01/24 08:38 AM
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To be honest my goal isn’t even to get laid, it’s just to be able to have fun with women, dance, build attraction, hold a conversation stuff like that. I’m taking baby steps because I’ve been out of the game for a while.
/r/seduction28/01/24 03:43 AM
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I think that’s not true. I have to dig out the study, but IIRC women found men less attractive when they smiled compared to when they didn’t. I think a smirk might be better.
/r/seduction13/01/24 09:26 PM
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