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| 5 | I just can't seem to get over herLike some of the other fella's have said, 12 months post separation, 2 months post-divorce is very early days. Establishing boundaries, which includes asking your ex not to send you pictures, is a very good idea. As far as interrogating "why" she made the choices she made, take some solace in knowing that many of us have asked the same question. The truth, and it's a bitter pill to swallow, is that no reason she gives you will measure up against your barometer of justification as to why your ex … | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/24 07:19 AM |
| 3 | Hyper-focused, physical fit, mentally strong, & financially healthyWell done mate, the capacity to get overwhelmed at just how much is out of one's control is real, focussing on yourself, your choices, actions, and decisions - no matter on insignificant they maybe, is a great way to try and wrestle back some of that. Like most things in life, those choices, actions, and decisions compound into patterns, rituals and behaviours. Your story is an example of just that. Keep going. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/24 07:04 AM |
| 3 | How to not end bitter ?"Bitter" is a label, one with a negative connotation, conditioned through social norms that shun healthy and natural ways of processing trauma. If the end of my 15-year marriage has taught me anything it's the importance of developing ways of experiencing the full array of what lives throws at you, as it arises, moment to moment, in healthy and authentic ways. For me, this means facing into what you're feeling, acknowledging it's impermanence, and then letting it go. If right now, today, tomorro… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/24 06:56 AM |
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