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| 21 | Women don't understand the only discssuion, around men, from female spaces is always negativeWe get "defensive" when these stats are mentioned because of the intent behind bringing these stats up in the first place. These stats get brought up by feminists in an effort to portray all men as violent criminals and savages. It's no different from when white supremacists bring up crime stats regarding black people or other minority groups. Like when a white supremacist says something like "black people make up 13% of the population but cause 50% of all violent crime", whether or not it's tru… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 30/04/25 11:59 AM |
| 119 | Why are trans women more targeted than trans men?I'm just a cis-man, but from where I'm sitting a lot of transphobia targeted at trans women seems to be based in misandry. When a transphobe sees a trans women, they see a man pretending to be a woman because transphobia is a fundamental rejection of the identity that trans people present themselves as, and to them the only reason why a man would pretend to be a woman is to attempt to do something nefarious, whether it be tricking straight men into having sex with them, cheating at women's sport… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/04/25 07:24 PM |
| 5 | White-knighting Final Bossthe odds of you being single is higher than my dad coming back with the milk Wouldn't that mean there's a very good chance he's in a relationship? The dude can't even insult people right | /r/EverydayMisandry | 15/03/25 08:19 PM |
| 10 | Because of one negative experience, all men are the exact same"one of the good ones" is how Jim Crow era white southerners referred to their black hired help, it's a completely condescending thing to say to or about someone. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 15/03/25 04:43 PM |
| 16 | But if it's fair for the woman yet unfair for the child (abortion), then it's okay.The irony of supposedly Pro-Choice people employing the rhetoric of their political enemies whenever the topic of child support or paper abortions come up is both funny and absolutely infuriating to me | /r/EverydayMisandry | 23/12/24 05:01 PM |
| 14 | Check out r/twoXchromosomes it's misandrist as fuckyeah I came across that one browsing /r/all earlier and I couldn't help but think to myself "Of course the men didn't volunteer to run the office Secret Santa, most men don't care about such things, they'd much rather get their work done and go home" Like, you're really not punishing them by not volunteering for it. Besides, white elephant/yankee swap gift exchanges are better for office Holiday parties. They are a lot less work to set up, people can buy a generic gift instead of something for s… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 27/11/24 10:03 PM |
| 68 | How can we mitigate the current political divide between Young Men and Women; except not misandristic in content.My main takeaway is that even in the more well meaning comments there is a complete dismissal of the idea that young men are facing actual problems. It's all suggestions that young men need therapy, or they need left wing male role models, or they got to fight the right wing propaganda machine, but no actual acknowledgement of the problems young men face or any suggestions on how to address them, which ironically is why the left is losing young men to the right in the first place. Therapy, posit… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/11/24 06:41 AM |
| 68 | I fully, 100%, believe in a woman's right to choose. I also believe in a man's right to choose. Why is this a crazy take?One of the most ironic/annoying aspects of this is when 100% Pro-Choice women bring out many of the exact same arguments that Pro-Life people trot out whenever men want paper abortions, mainly the "If you weren't prepared to raise kids, then you shouldn't have had sex" argument. I am 100% in favor of women having the right to terminate a pregnancy, which I believe for a variety of reasons, but there can be no equality between the sexes if men don't have a similar right to terminate their parenta… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/07/24 05:35 PM |
| 16 | Senate democrats push for requiring women to sign up for military draft, leading to huge backlash.I am against military drafts in general, I find it abhorrent that the government can steal several years of your life from you, force you to put your whole life on hold, and if you are unlucky enough, those years could be your last years or injure yourself in such a way that will be an active detriment to the rest of your life. This is the only life that we get, and as far as anyone can scientifically verify the only existence that any of us get, and given the risks and dangers of military servi… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/06/24 01:16 PM |
| 10 | Male advocacy beyond criticism of feminism and womenI don't think you can have male advocacy without at least some criticism of feminism. Male Advocacy is at its heart a set of gender politics issues, and the current mainstream lens through which society views gender politics is through the lens of feminism, a lens that casts men as the oppressors and women as the oppressed. Male advocacy needs to identify problems that men face and advocate for solutions to those problems and you can't point these issues out without breaking that feminist lens t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/06/24 06:21 PM |
| 24 | When did you first notice society's shift toward mass-produced misandry? When did it start, and what made it worse?I also feel that the way that Hillary Clinton was shoved down our throats and put on the ballot was a start to a lot of this MAGA crap as well. Hillary Clinton is a deeply unlikable candidate who always feels insincere and phony, which is why when she went up against real competition she lost the nomination in 2008 to Obama. But in 2016 the entirety of Democratic establishment stepped aside and basically gifted her the nomination with an insurmountable super delegate advantage before a single vo… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/06/24 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel safe moving about the world?Generally yes, I'm a not particularly attractive fat white guy which is basically an invisibility cloak. Women generally don't notice me unless I approach them so most problems like that are avoidable by simply not drawing attention to myself, which is my default when I'm public. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/05/24 02:33 AM |
| 90 | Australia's national domestic violence hotline does not accept calls from men. All men are referred to a service which "helps men change their abusive and violent behaviour".No fucking surprise that the original thread got removed for "No propaganda or shilling" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/04/24 02:34 AM |
| 10 | Why are males more likely to be conservative, and females more liberal?It's all about who is talking to whom, most people and parties on the left have embraced feminism and as a result speak to the issues that feminists are concerned with, so women shift to the left. As a result, most people and parties on the left have completely ignored any issues that men and boys face, because acknowledging that men and boys have any issues worth discussing or doing anything about is a fundamental contradiction to feminist ideology. So men don't feel that the left is speaking t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/04/24 01:08 AM |
| 14 | When it comes to hedonism, why is it predominantly called out in men? Why is male hedonism & self-indolence such a thought crime?I think a lot of this is a result of how deep the idea of the Protestant Work Ethic is ingrained in western societies, especially in America where I live. Not only does the Protestant Work Ethic emphasize hard work and disciplined work and equates those things with being a good person, but it also emphasizes frugality and denying oneselves pleasure and frivolities and equates that with being a good person. You can see this in action in a ton of areas in society, like in the hand wringing the rig… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/24 02:43 PM |
| 15 | Does The "Patriarchy" Truly Exist?The Patriarchy is very much a made up thing that has become a socially acceptable conspiracy theory to blame all the world's problems on, people talk about the The Patriarchy in the same way that conspiracy theorists talk about the Illuminati, The Deep State, or the International Jewish Conspiracy. If our society is supposedly a society run by men for the exclusive benefit of men to the detriment of women, then we are doing a really fucking awful job of that. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/10/23 12:54 PM |
| 15 | Hey friends! I have a question in the matter of EQ and the male homeless/education problemsThe arguments used in points 1 and 2 are extremely sexist to the point of being female supremacist, it presumes that homelessness or difficulties in school for men and boys are the result inherent biological deficiencies and not as a result of systemic problems that these men and boys face. These arguments simultaneously allow the woman making that argument to reassure herself that she is superior to men by virtue of her womanhood alone, and tell herself that nothing needs to be done regarding m… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/08/23 02:11 PM |
| 16 | (question) Did men build this system that men suffer in it thousands of years ago?I have several problems with this line of feminist argument It assumes that because the vast majority of the positions of power throughout history have been held by men, that those men used their power to craft a society that uniquely privileges men, and that's simply not true. These men in power throughout history did not craft the laws and policies of society for the benefit of men as a class of people, they did it for the benefit of themselves. The King did not care about the men working in h… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/07/23 12:57 PM |
| 6 | Do we downplay misandry?here's a link to the post when TinMan said he was leaving There's a stickied mod comment on that post telling their side of the story as well | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/07/23 04:40 PM |
| 29 | Do we downplay misandry?There was a lot of drama surrounding that recently, which is a lot to cover but the short answer is that the whole thing is proof that we are indeed a Left Wing subreddit because boy howdy was that some leftist infighting | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/07/23 03:51 PM |
| 51 | Do we downplay misandry?I've found that there are a lot of parallels with feminist denials of men's issues and the narcissist's prayer Many feminists will deny the existence of misandry (i.e. That didn't happen), and if they admit that it does exist, they say it's not that bad, like with the aforementioned "Misandry irritates, Misogyny kills" (i.e. If it did, then it wasn't that bad), and if they admit that it is bad, they'll downplay how bad it actually is, usually by saying its much worse for women (i.e. If it was, t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/07/23 03:49 PM |
| 12 | The future of LWMA (with poll)Honestly my apathy and skepticism towards the current protest is largely derived from how that protest 8 years ago ultimately didn't amount to anything, reddit didn't die, voat became a small hang out for a niche group of internet weirdos that died back in 2020, and everyone else moved on and kept using reddit. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/06/23 01:36 PM |
| 71 | The future of LWMA (with poll)I don't think it benefits male advocacy to intentionally remove ourselves from this site, there are very few places online to talk about male issues that don't derail into the various pill ideologies or become toothless as they try in vain to reconcile male advocacy and feminism, and to remove this space here and move it elsewhere is I think a short-sighted move. I'm still not convinced that kbin.social and the other alternatives presented are anything more than the 2023 edition of Voat, and I'd… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/06/23 12:59 PM |
| 93 | How to argue against the "(cishet) men are inherently more dangerous" rhetoric?Exactly, the same statistics that are being given to OP have also been used by racists to justify their bigotry of Black People, and if you refute those stats by pointing out that it is a small minority of men who are perpetuating these violent crimes, these people will hit you with that bowl of jelly beans with one poisoned jelly bean in it argument that racists also use to argue against allowing refugees into the country. Anti male feminists employ the same stats and arguments that racists use… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/05/23 11:28 PM |
| 33 | What will it take to change your mind?I disagree with your initial metaphor at the beginning, A properly cooked and seasoned french fry does not need any sauces, but the rest is spot on. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/04/23 01:12 PM |
| 144 | "The Future is Female!"Even removed from that context "The Future is Female" is an inherently female supremacist thing to say, there is no cute or lighthearted way of interpreting that statement. It's very clear that by saying "The Future is Female" that they mean that the future belongs to women to the exclusion and detriment of men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/03/23 02:30 PM |
| 30 | The "Gender Wage Gap" is why I was (formerly) a feministThe sports one always gets under my skin as a sports fan. A lot of people fail to realize the obvious, that Sports are an entertainment product, the whole reason we have professional athletes is because people find watching them play their sports to be entertaining. Thousands of people pay money to go and see their teams play and Millions more will tune into broadcasts and watch their team play. The reason why female athletes get paid less than male athletes is because fewer people buy tickets t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/03/23 05:10 PM |
| 53 | The "Gender Wage Gap" is why I was (formerly) a feministYeah, if you really could pay women 77 cents for the same work that they'd have to pay men a dollar for, then they'd hire exclusively women. To argue otherwise is to argue that corporations aren't ruthlessly profit driven. There isn't a single business in this world that would turn down a 23% savings on their labor costs | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/03/23 12:25 PM |
| 41 | Let's stop using 'incel' as an insultIncel was a self identifier at one point, /r/incels was a subreddit these people used and /r/braincels after /r/incels was banned. Incel was a word that these people self identified with back then. But the reality is that language is fluid and the meanings of words change when their usage is changed, and in the past several years the usage of incel has changed to be a pejorative, and as a result, the meaning of incel has changed as well. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/01/23 09:11 PM |
| 17 | Why does nobody give overworked fathers any credit?Stuff like this is why I am Childfree and have no intention of ever becoming a father, because I never want this to become my life. I dread the possibility of becoming the guy that takes the long way home from work because his commute is the only "me time" that he gets. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/01/23 04:49 PM |
| 19 | What's happening to boys in school?I also have doubts about "redshirting" being practical in the real world. Would parents really be ok with paying for an extra year of full daycare or delay reentering the workforce for a year because they have a son instead of a daughter? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/10/22 02:56 PM |
| 1 | They are full of hateI'd argue that there is value in having dedicated gender-exclusive spaces for all genders, a space to be free of the expectations of the other genders and be able to engage in comradery with other members of one's gender. There was a lot of problems with the way things used to be, a lot of gender-exclusive spaces in the past prevented access to resources and opportunities to the excluded genders, and all exclusionary places run the risk of becoming echo chambers, but when done right, these space… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 22/09/22 01:44 AM |
| 1 | They are full of hateyou could bet men would do everything in their power to invade and ruin it, calling upon "rEveRSe-seXiSm", even though men periodically have spaces women are barred from entry We used to have spaces where women were barred from entry, but women did everything in their power to invade and ruin them, calling up Sexism. The lack of self awareness of these people. Seriously, what men and/or boys only spaces are left anymore? Because when I look around all I see are women's only spaces. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 21/09/22 11:59 AM |
| 1 | On "Men are trash"Most of the feminists that claim that they want men to be "Allies" aren't really looking for allies, they want men to stand by them, be quiet, and make it look like they don't hate men. They don't actually value the presence of their so called allies as people, they just use them as a prop. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/09/22 08:46 PM |
| 14 | Help me understand rhetoric surrounding men emotionally "opening up"I think the only thing to really understand about the feminist rhetoric surrounding men opening up about their feelings is that feminists are only performatively concerned with men's issues if they show any concern at all. If they were being honest, they'd just say that they don't give a damn about men's feelings, but they know that will make them look like terrible people, so instead they tell men to open up, but only in a way that is impossible to actually do so that they can always having som… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/07/22 01:27 PM |
| 15 | Is there any truth to the idea that modern society highly values fulfilling the sexual desires of men?The existence pornography, sex work, and sexual paraphernalia are not endorsements of male sexual desires by society at large, that's just capitalism doing what capitalism does, providing goods and services where there is a demand for such things, regardless of morality or social attitudes. If anything, male sexual desires and male sexuality in general is largely shamed by society at large. Men who express their sexual desires are routinely shamed and considered to be perverts or degenerates for… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/07/22 09:02 PM |
| 30 | The current obsession with vasectomies is creepyJust to clarify, I am a childfree man who has contemplated getting a vasectomy myself, but I do find it concerning that people are going about vasectomies like they are anything but permanent. One thing that you didn't mention that I feel is worth bringing up is how the chances of a successful vasectomy reversal go down the longer it has been since you got the vasectomy, The NHS source you got the 75% reversal success rate from also lists theses reversal success rates: 75% if you have your vasec… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/07/22 08:36 PM |
| 31 | Why are men being blamed for the overturn of Roe v. Wade when recent surveys show that the majority of men AND women are pro-choice?Yeah that's something that really irritates me as well, especially because some of the strongest opposition to Abortion rights comes from women. The attack on abortion rights was not led by men, it was led by Evangelical Protestant Christians, both men and women. I am still staunchly Pro-Choice and there is nothing anyone can do to change my mind about that, but the blatant misandry of other Pro-Choice people has made me not feel welcome to join them in protests and other advocacy for Abortion r… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/06/22 04:41 PM |
| 57 | Senate version of the NDAA 2023 includes women registering for the draft. Adding them will be the quickest way to end the draft since nobody cares when only men have to register.Good. It was bullshit that when I turned 18 that I had to register for the draft or face felony charges or not getting FAFSA money to go to college. I don't think we should have a draft, military service should only be done by people who willingly acknowledge and accept the risks of such service, but if we must have a draft then women should be forced into it too. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/06/22 03:42 PM |
| 9 | What do you think of the possible future restrictions on abortion? Will men feel the effects of it?It genuinely fucking scares me, as a childfree person I never want to have kids and I think that everyone should be able to choose whether or not they want to be parents, and if so, they should be able to decide how many kids they want. Sterilization is not a viable option for everyone, and in a world where the government says that you can't have an abortion, the government can also say that you can't get a vasectomy or a tubal ligation, or that you can't take birth control. Curtailing abortion … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/05/22 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Scrutinising feminism, is not 'anti women'.I'm saying you shouldn't scrutinize women as a collective group, but that doesn't mean ignoring the shitty behaviors that are prevalent among women. There's a big difference between saying that a behavior is shitty and that women shouldn't do it and saying that all women are shitty because they engage in said shitty behavior. Women aren't a monolithic hivemind, they aren't the Borg and we shouldn't scrutinize them like they are, even if a lot of women treat us like the Borg. To me it's important… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/22 10:35 PM |
| 8 | Scrutinising feminism, is not 'anti women'.It is wrong to scrutinize women as a collective group because it is a shitty thing to do and when a woman does the same to men she is doing a shitty thing. Just because a lot of women are doing this shitty thing to us, we are not excused in doing the exact same shitty thing back at them. Not only is doing so extremely petty and childish, but it actively works against what we're trying to do with male advocacy because it makes us look like assholes and cost us support from otherwise sympathetic p… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/22 06:43 PM |
| 27 | Scrutinising feminism, is not 'anti women'.Well scrutinizing a woman or a well defined group of women is perfectly acceptable, but scrutinizing women in general isn't really any different than how many feminists scrutinize men in general, so I'd say that's not ok. This post is a push back against the idea that criticizing feminism is an attack on women in general, which I think is an important distinction to make and I'm glad that OP is making that distinction. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/05/22 09:26 PM |
| 18 | Men supporting abortion rights by sharing their stories… and still getting shamed“you should have worn a condom!” This one really pisses me off because it is pretty much the exact same thing that anti-choice people say to women when they want an abortion. The anti-choice crowd will scream at women that "They should have been on birth control" or "They should have kept their legs closed". Abortion advocates correctly know that saying those things to women is a shitty thing to do, but they fail to see the hypocrisy of telling a man that does not want to be a father that "He sh… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/05/22 12:25 PM |
| 32 | Roe v Wadeyeah, my biggest pet peeve surrounding the justifiable rage over the imminent overturning of Roe v Wade is that feminists are misplacing the blame over why this is happening on Men and not on Evangelical Christians. According to Pew 56% of Men agree that Abortion should be legal in all or most cases and that the only group that really has a strong opposition to Abortion are White Evangelical Christians of which 77% believe Abortion should be illegal in all or most cases. This is not a case of me… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/05/22 01:59 PM |
| 16 | An Important Reminder for Valentine’s Day SoonI like how they do it in Japan, on Valentine's Day the girl gets the guy chocolate and a month later they celebrate White Day and the guy returns the favor. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/02/22 01:33 AM |
| 6 | LWMA supports unions and r/antiwork's efforts to help Kelloggs' workersJohn Harvey Kellogg did that and was the one who invented Corn Flakes. However it was his brother Will Keith Kellogg that took those Corn Flakes and founded the Kellogg's Company that we know today, doing so caused a big riff between the brothers. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/12/21 06:35 PM |
| -3 | This complaint by a woman is strange to the brink of being incomprehensible; did she ever even give a thought to the possibility of there being invisible men?That is not what I said at all, I am simply acknowledging that this problem is not specific to one gender. Too often these discussions get caught up in who is suffering more; it's not a competition. Saying "yeah, but this group is suffering more" doesn't help anybody. I am not going to start minimizing the suffering of others because I feel some other group has it worse, that is why I am here on this subreddit, because society constantly minimizes men's suffering by saying that women have it wor… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/11/21 08:20 PM |
| -2 | This complaint by a woman is strange to the brink of being incomprehensible; did she ever even give a thought to the possibility of there being invisible men?Honestly the only thing wrong with this article is that it is gendered. We are living in an age of profound loneliness and it cuts both ways and there are tons of men and women who are practically invisible to the opposite sex. Sure there are differences as to why this is the case for each gender given the ingrained cultural belief that men must be the pursuers and women must be the pursued, but the end result is the same, tons of lonely bitter people who despite their best efforts are alone, an… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/11/21 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Words matter.Facebook owns Instagram, they bought it back in 2012. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/09/21 09:01 PM |
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