| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 21 | I'd rather never get married🥴 | NAH, SIS | gambino_girl2 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 09:12 PM |
| 1 | First he hit on me in a pervy way then told me I shouldn't be so picky when I rejected him🧐 | gambino_girl2 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 11:59 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 116 | Ladies please be careful while dating! Men like this still exist!Oh it's me and all my trauma. Yes please stay away from used goods like me 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 05:12 AM |
| 20 | Scrotal RecallOh god. This perfectly describes my son's father. So frustrating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 05:45 AM |
| 24 | REMINDER: “The wall” is a patriarchal myth 🙌🏼Thats why they love to critique women behind cartoon avis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 05:10 AM |
| 2 | Do Not Let Him Fool You About His “Friend”I was the friend in this scenario. I feel really shitty about the shit I allowed. I had to cut that guy out and FDS was one part of many things that helped me do that. To realize I was in an emotionally abusive relationship with someone I considered my dearest friend was hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 02:26 AM |
| 24 | Tragic Example of The Mask Slipping AFTER Marriage and Baby. Always be willing and ABLE to LEAVE Sisters!!I've become the person who whenever I interact with women in shitty relationships I'm brutally honest. He cracked my teeth,he hit me and tortured me mentally. I'd rather tell the gritty details then allow a convo to pass with the red flags I ignored. I'd rather overshare my life then let someone walk away thinking it's just them in the situation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 03:19 AM |
| 1 | If men like this communicated this to their fellow men..Right?! Please don't paint us as desperate pickmes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 01:40 PM |
| 13 | I've been seeing so many posts and comments of you ladies speaking about celebrating dumping LVM and I thought you would enjoy this! Truly, breaking up with a trash man isn't the end, it's the beginning. It's freedom and happiness! You've got a beautiful life ahead of you now! Celebrate it Queens!💕Scientology. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 10:15 PM |
| 4 | Witnessed NVM behavior at grocery storeI agree. The sub is definitely targeted unfairly by the incels and what not wlbut there does seem to be a lack of self awareness to the internal flaws. Again, I like the sub but some things I have to take with a grain of salt. Especially the blue collar shaming | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:16 PM |
| -1 | Witnessed NVM behavior at grocery storeUgh omg yes. I do enjoy the content but I saw one comment "and that's on period" or some equally ridiculous butchering of AAVE. I do like the lessons learned here but it's definitely racially skewed in a time deaf way Edit: and also pretty classist looks down upon blue collar workers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:42 AM |
| 0 | “He always forgets teehee” Sure he does 🙄That is not even how you use that slang. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 07:29 PM |
| 3 | I broke up with him! Please laugh at his clownery with me.You dated a neo-nazi is all I took from this. There's red flags then there's red banners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 03:51 AM |
| 3 | Man Baby TantrumYes ma'am. Had a baby with one 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 11:44 PM |
| 3 | List of literary, film, and TV show characters that need to block and delete (and possibly report for stalking, p*edophilia, and r*pe).In my pick me days I joked about finding my aladdin. Its my favorite Disney movie but as an adult?! No fucking thank you I already have a child to provide for lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:21 AM |
| 19 | What is the worst case of pickme you've seen on Reddit?That look a turn. Yikes, glad you got away from that loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 10:22 PM |
| 5 | What is the funniest thing a LVM has said to you?It wasn't funny at the time but every mean thing my son's father wished on me the opposite happened. I thrived despite his evil tidings and I'm going to decorate my home for my son and I for Christmas in complete peace from a time zone away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 04:29 AM |
| 0 | When your values and self worth are the same price as a Chanel bag...Absolutely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 04:41 PM |
| 10 | Pedophile incel mansplains pedophilia in my DMs after my last post.Made me think of this https://youtu.be/MJEAGd1bQuc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 09:08 PM |
| 43 | Ladies, get ready to swoonMade my skin crawl. What a fucking creep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 09:05 PM |
| 26 | Ultimate pickmeisha move - proposing to your boyfriend with a watchHey as a fellow big forehead person be nice 🤣 but agreed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 07:07 PM |
| 67 | This isn’t a dating advice subreddit.Yes! This is for me to improve myself. Not focusing on making myself palatable for a man. I love this subreddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 01:16 AM |
| 19 | Woman is grateful that her amazing hook-up doesn't want her to die and informed her of a possible breast lump. How low is the bar exactly?I like the formality. Also, yeah this gave off vibes of incel fan fic. Like a woman wouldn't describe a man who was that good in bed with a violent ass term like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 02:00 AM |
| 16 | Why do LVM get so mad when they see a woman being loved properly?That guy is insane. I had a long debate with him years ago about how he considers women wanting dates is just prostitution. I was like 19 but knew he was full of shit then. Fucking incel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 12:35 AM |
| 7 | Pickmesha calls us InCeLs 🤡That description is so strange because what I get from this group is women bonding building and growing without having to knock anyone else down. That's bad bitch energy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Facebook photos, and photos for validation.I see this with the women I'm friends with in Alabama who are married. Picture perfect moments but it doesn't seem real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 08:24 PM |
| 3 | To the men who would like to take all the main decisions in the relationshipThis is how I felt when I was pregnant by my lvm ex. I'd be happy to let you make a decision if you knew what the fuck you were talking about! The entire 9 months I researched and Googled and tried to share info with him, it was our first child I had no plans for kids and I felt woefully underprepared and he grew up with his mom doing daycare so he felt qualified to be a dad. Spoiler: it did not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Dear men, I can't speak for every woman, but using photos of yourself holding a baby 🍼 or with children 👨👧👦 on your dating profile does *not* make us more attracted to you. It's *always* an automatic left swipe for me regardless of anything else on the profile. 📸I use it as a "hey I have priorities" but a man doesn't need to know anymore than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:32 AM |
| 3 | Dear men, I can't speak for every woman, but using photos of yourself holding a baby 🍼 or with children 👨👧👦 on your dating profile does *not* make us more attracted to you. It's *always* an automatic left swipe for me regardless of anything else on the profile. 📸God no! I refer to him as my son, no name, I don't know you like that. It's crazy how easy it is for them to put children out there like that. Being a single mom has me hesitant to date at all much less bring a man in his life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:16 AM |
| 22 | Dear men, I can't speak for every woman, but using photos of yourself holding a baby 🍼 or with children 👨👧👦 on your dating profile does *not* make us more attracted to you. It's *always* an automatic left swipe for me regardless of anything else on the profile. 📸I have a child and there is absolutely no reason to have my son on OLD. It makes me feel like that's a shitty parent exposing his kids like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:18 PM |
| 5 | Goddamn, the breaking mom subreddit is just one disaster LVM story after another. They should change the title to their sub to "breakingmyspirit" insteadAfter I left my son's abusive father I've spent less and less time on that subreddit. I'll read a post here and there but it bums me out so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Bet he'll still want her to go half on bills and dates. lolMom from Umbrella Academy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:34 AM |
| 2 | ‘What should I do?’ Really???Rarely do I geniunely gasp after reading something but holy fucking shit. What should I do?!??!??!?? I want to grab my son and hug him because, how is it a question after the first comment? Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 02:54 PM |
| 13 | This is harsh but true. Married women with pickme tendencies don’t like single women because they have agency. It’s important to remember that marriage is a patriarchal institution that advises women to deprioritize themselves.Without realizing it I distanced myself from the group too. I'm a single mom but they're all so bitter and resentful. FDS is so much more positive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 08:37 PM |
| 6 | DeadBedrooms Man Marries, Has Kids With A Woman He Is Not Remotely Attracted To.People consistently are surprised at how old I am because I don't look it. I just say I left a shitty relationship and aged backwards 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 04:11 AM |
| 8 | I'd rather never get married🥴Lol I'm not sure who she's trying to impress with this. I already have a son to provide for 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 09:58 PM |
| 8 | Fuckboys who treat their new girlfriends to all the things you wanted but never got do so because they're desperately trying to prove you were the problem all along. Recognize it for the manipulative tactic that it is, and don't take it personally.Wow. That makes so much sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 12:41 AM |
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