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| 5 | If a guy replies a girl immediately over text or answers her questions logically, he's just being a good person and down to earth. Can someone explain me why this doesn't work in dating?That's it close the thread we found the alpha. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 07:43 PM |
| 2 | If a guy replies a girl immediately over text or answers her questions logically, he's just being a good person and down to earth. Can someone explain me why this doesn't work in dating?You are right but this isn't how I think of it, I don't sit and plan to not reply overnight and make it a rule. I'm usually busy at night or wanna sleep early for the morning workout, or on a date or hanging with friends.. Etc.. And if you don't have all of that, it's OK I was there start slowly building your lifestyle/work/sociallife towards that goal. If I feel like replying I will, if I'm busy I won't, if I'm free but don't feel like it I also won't, but change your mindset about just doing i… | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 07:42 PM |
| 16 | If a guy replies a girl immediately over text or answers her questions logically, he's just being a good person and down to earth. Can someone explain me why this doesn't work in dating?The only comment thats worth an upvote. It's way less to do with replying fast and actually much to do with how do you reply and how do you come across when you do. In fact replying fast works better sometimes, and you need it occasionally to maybe date close a girl you met recently. For example, Calling/texting a girl after you get her number by 3-4 days doesn't work anymore like the old days. In early 90s and early 2000s there were much less distraction for the person and usually they are less… | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 02:28 PM |
| 8 | My ex broke up with me saying that I texted him too much. I decided to write a program to analyze our text and using hard data to show him wrongI even wrote a sarcastic comment above but I think your comment here is very childish. This post is gold, as long as she doesn't cling too much to her mistake and just start taking action to make a change. | /r/seduction | 08/12/20 05:47 AM |
| 1584 | My ex broke up with me saying that I texted him too much. I decided to write a program to analyze our text and using hard data to show him wrongHe accused you of typing & texting too much? Noway that doesn't seem like you at all. | /r/seduction | 08/12/20 05:35 AM |
| 1 | I think I finally get now: If your only criteria for success is having sex with the girl then you’re gonna have a bad time...The moment I said hi I already won.. Rsdmax's | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 11:01 PM |
| 0 | RSD can't be trusted and they can't take criticism, they are now shadow blocking and deleting Youtube commentsI got shadow banned on YouTube comments after my comment received 1k likes writing how Rsdmax slowly becoming the 'mainstream' that he always asked to avoid. Which is sad because if you look at my posts, I'm very loyal to max and how relatable he sounded at the beginning and how he is very straight forward, natural game etc.. My views are : it will automatically backfire at them and kill their credibility they will have to fix it honestly, with the last media scandals on PUAs and game, you have … | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 11:23 AM |
| 2 | Been reading about shit-tests and I realized I don't like responding to it in immediate super-witty way but...I was waiting for this answer.. I even wrote a similar thing and deleted it to hear it from you first. so I assure you will get alot of rejections from this, bitter attitude from girls, and best case scenario you will get stuck in competition frame with her and not sexual frame. I'm totally against fixing one style for game and I really like where you are coming from. But from humble experiences I would say calling girls out on their shit test will backfire in many cases | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Been reading about shit-tests and I realized I don't like responding to it in immediate super-witty way but...Interesting point but I think it's not appropriate for all shit tests. so let assume the average regular shit test when approaching "Do you do that to all girls" How would you call her out on this? | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 01:06 AM |
| 0 | Is it possible for me to be attractive after weak social media behavior?That's great. This problem is your biggest strength and what makes you stand out. Don't run away from the past, acknowledge it, accept it, and accept that you did what you did for a reason at the point. If you can't accept your past self you won't accept your current. The solution is simply acknowledge that and even emphasize it in a post or two and be genuine in your post or story.. Talk about how depressed you were how you overcome that and you are where you are.. Just don't deny it... Be genu… | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 09:24 AM |
| 1 | First date physical escalationBeen off for a while I didn't notice the rule changes | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 02:17 PM |
| 5 | How do I stop making excuses to approach women, anytime, anywhere?One thing that helped me. Listen to these excuses, hear them, as if someone is saying these to you. Then talk to that someone be like "OK fine I understand, but I will do it anyways" Don't fight it, don't make it make you anxious let it be there listen to it, then go and do it anyways! Without thinking | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 02:12 PM |
| 2 | "Don't hate me" opener"I hate to interrupt" is also key | /r/seduction | 29/10/19 02:55 AM |
| 1 | How to react to high SMV colleague shamelessy flirting with the girl you like in front of you?That's a good start, and even if you are higher value, if he is the very bold guy (I don't see how that can be wrong except for a work environment) in your words he is shameless. It means if you put yourself in the position of competing he will win since that's his persona and probably he did for a long time and he is natural at it. And pushing them to be together should be done subtly, not directly and it's not meant to make him play in your frame, its meant to show the girl that you are high v… | /r/seduction | 27/10/19 01:25 PM |
| 2 | How to react to high SMV colleague shamelessy flirting with the girl you like in front of you?Your example is nothing but bullshit. Apples and oranges don't even compare. 1, the girl isn't a land and getting to know her doesn't mean that you are entitled for anything about her and that you 'discovered' her. She does not owe you shit. 2, its a work environment and even if it wasn't, competing with the guy will literally put you and him in the same position and the girl will be thinking "you or him" which obviously gonna be him because you mentioned he is higher value than you, on the othe… | /r/seduction | 27/10/19 12:55 PM |
| 1 | How to react to high SMV colleague shamelessy flirting with the girl you like in front of you?You know what OP before even thinking about that girl of yours cause with this mindset not only you won't get her, you won't even get any other girls and if you do you will lose them. What you really need is a huge mindset shift. | /r/seduction | 27/10/19 12:42 PM |
| 1 | How to react to high SMV colleague shamelessy flirting with the girl you like in front of you?Regardless of OP & his dilemma..im wondering how a good girlfriend is helpful with game? | /r/seduction | 27/10/19 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Beta GameBesides your terminologies I get you. But why not have these two kind of "games" ? Do both | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Got a pretty girls i.g after we did an interview together, should I dm her?Reply to a story or send low investment text, meme, or anything funny that doesn't require an answer. Also try to set a date, an outing for you together before starting to work together, if you don't you might be framed as her work buddy but if you go out before you are something more. | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 09:33 PM |
| 0 | Thinking of going out Every Saturday to game and here’s my plan to get rid of Anxiety. What do you think? I’m not allowed to return home until i complete them.Stopping them for directions is just a way to open them talking to you.. Once you get them talking why would you just end it there? You are not alone in your anxiety we all have it. Don't worry about closing for now but also don't just go for asking for directions and end it there. At least try to stay in set with her as long as you can (challenge yourself) , talk about anything about you being unfamiliar in this area, ask her what shes doing where she is from what she does etc... Yes this will … | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 11:49 AM |
| 3 | Going back to “My Place”That's the the thing, you don't mention your place by the time of the pull at the end of the night out of no where. You have to seed your pull earlier with the girl, by that I mean, you mention your dog, your stamps collection, your balcony view or the new TV screen anything it can be anything and you talk about it for 20 seconds. When you want to pull, you can say some along the lines of "You gotta come and see my insert something" "I have to feed my dog" or "shit I forgot my lights/laundry on,… | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 07:09 AM |
| 1 | RSD contentPersonally I would suggest you start with RSD max content. but as the other comment suggests... Don't sit and watch tons of videos and theory without taking action... For every like 30-60 minutes video you should be out gaming and taking action around 3-4 hours. Note what you are good at, what you are bad at.. And then find related content to what you are missing watch it during your free time, not like "oh now it's game & pick up videos" just during your free time.. Also, when you do take actio… | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 02:50 AM |
| 2 | RSD videos being uploaded on internet archiveIf you (or anyone) can get a hold of RSD max and have them on the archive that would be great. | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 02:41 AM |
| 3 | I used to be able to attract girls, and now i cant to save my life??The best answer here! This comment should be on top. simply what OP needs is what PUAs call it "Inner Game" Inner game is just having your source of validation and confidence from within you and not dependant on others. In addition, what can help is to make a drastic change in any aspect of his life, anything... Physically (gym) or work or studies, business or family any huge improvement that teaches you that all you need is yourself and to make you believe in yourself more | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 09:42 AM |
| 2 | Help! I accidentally fell for one of my girlsGood luck man. Opposite to what everyone was saying about just forgetting about her I support that more. As long as you forget about the idea of locking her down so it doesn't show on your actions, and just have fun with her like every other girl or as you said friendzone her when needed you are good to go. Update us | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Help! I accidentally fell for one of my girlsI agree with you OP. A girl that shows and is clear about her sexuality is actually HSE and can be high value. Now this other dude might be a shit test and maybe not you will never know. But what I know for sure is that you are attached to her now but she stated earlier she makes guys fall in love so maybe she does these long talks with everyone and that's just her, it doesn't seem like she's looking for a LTR. So ghost her because you both aren't on the same page or change your frame about her … | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 02:01 AM |
| 6 | Advice is appreciatedSocial warm up is what you need. Start off by talking to EVERYONE at every single chance you get before reaching the venue. Chat up with, flat mates, family, friends before leaving. Always always open the first group of girls, or guys or mixed group on the way there, small talk with people on the streets and if any chance for a funny comment rises throw it at people make their day, make them laugh, feel your positive energy being thrown at people (This also helps to make you sound like you are o… | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Last second flake-out insanityLast minute resistance | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Truth about RSD max dating content (from his mouth)That's an acceptable unpopular opinion makes me wonder, can you list me your ideal mentor/mentors for game? | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 11:17 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to “What does the last person you fucked look like?”Yes best answer here so far | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 10:41 PM |
| 5 | Truth about RSD max dating content (from his mouth)350 videos, full of breakdown, infield, theory practical inner game... If you have seen all the videos on YouTube, you would know that it's all what a chode with brain and intention to take action needs to really get good with girls. With the books recommendations of course. Out of all rsds, max is the one everyone can relate to. He stayed super real during the journey.. I can't be mad at him for that even though it's a real shame to take them down like that | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Truth about RSD max dating content (from his mouth)500$? That's crazy.. Trust me his YouTube content was worth a lot more than all of the programs These were really pieces of art | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Truth about RSD max dating content (from his mouth)But I know people who are selling it for cheaper if you are interested. I'm interested only in his old content | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 09:51 PM |
| 1 | How to teach her how to treat you after a flake (Indirectly)No man, she knows that she didn't get back to me that day and of course since the day I didn't even acknowledge her existence so she texts a week after so you need to let her know what she did was wrong other wise you will seem like you accept such treatment | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Last second flake-out insanityActually you can make negative negs, for example for very obvious skinny/fit girls I go like you are fat! They love it. You can do and say anything in game, as long as you are always calibrated with the situation and the person. | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 03:56 PM |
| 4 | Last second flake-out insanityIt's not LMR, this is stupid part from you.. LMR is called resistance cause it only resist and you only have to brush it off be cool and let it pass smoothly like you did getting home and going to your room. This is last minute stupidity from you, jokingly teasing is nice but there is two things to consider here which leads us to the next point. To tease a girl, neg her and be playful is part of game and needs to be done to show high value and that you aren't afraid to lose her at any point but:… | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 03:49 PM |
| 1 | I want to give this letter to a girl I like at school; is it creepy, and what can I do to improve it?That sounds like a really good idea to get rejected, throw it away! Now!! | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 03:05 AM |
| 0 | Switching from "competitive frame" to "Us in a sexual way frame"However that technique seems to me might work sometimes, and not all the times and some girls even build up your whole interaction over that teasing and seems hard for them as well to see you other than that. It's really isn't that easy as Lance shows it.. | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Switching from "competitive frame" to "Us in a sexual way frame"Smooth max smooth..! .. May I get your book list recommendations? | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 03:45 PM |
| 1 | I trust this seddit more, are we really gonna ignore the fact that she was cheating?Why don't you then breakup like a normal human being, and then get whatever needs you have from whoever you want without being a terrible fucking human? I only agree that ldr are a bad idea. | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Girls at the gymWhy are cheaters so afraid of being alone? Grow a pair, breakup with your girlfriend and approach whoever you want, unless she knows you guys aren't exclusive and she's OK with you approaching other girls telling them you like them. Otherwise it's a weak ass move and the outcome of it will hurt you badly more than anyone. | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Girls at the gymThe amount of racism and stupidity in his comment is far beyond measurements. Op I think you need a mindset shift before you start doing any cold approach. | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 12:59 AM |
| 3 | I trust this seddit more, are we really gonna ignore the fact that she was cheating?Breakup with you ok. But cheat on you? Cheating should not be justified no matter what. | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 12:58 PM |
| 1 | I trust this seddit more, are we really gonna ignore the fact that she was cheating?If not an open relationship, then just break up and be with whoever you want. Which she did eventually | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 12:57 PM |
| 2 | I trust this seddit more, are we really gonna ignore the fact that she was cheating?If not an open relationship, then just break up and be with whoever you want. Which she did eventually | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Rsdmax Content and VideosGuys I have been getting shit tons of messages on my DMs. Probably because of my comment here. I do not have the videos I wish I do. I DMed the guy asking about the name of the user who posted it on archive.org...(there was a username, if we find him we find the videos) Can we work together to find out.. Search everywhere to find Rsdmax YouTube channel videos... I will not be exaggerating if I told you that last year these videos are what made me have the craziest sexual experiences. | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Rsdmax Content and VideosGuys I have been getting shit tons of messages on my DMs. Probably because of this comment. I do not have the videos I wish I do. I DMed the guy asking about the name of the user who posted it on archive.org...(there was a username, if we find him we find the videos) Can we work together to find out.. Search everywhere to find Rsdmax YouTube channel videos... I will not be exaggerating if I told you that last year these videos are what made me have the craziest sexual experiences. | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Talking for a month, def had a good connection, had sex, texted too much she said better off as friends. Can I get out of friend zone?3 scenarios: You genuinely see him as only a friend after sleeping with him then yeah the point is to end the conversation with this exact statement. It's a conflict of interest and we should be mature yes but when the friendzone is initiated from any side it's a kick on the balls, if a person loves & values himself/herself enough they need to stand up for themselves and be a little teasy & rude if that's what you wanna call it. You aren't 100% sure about the claim that you made, and in that cas… | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 01:27 PM |
| 9 | Talking for a month, def had a good connection, had sex, texted too much she said better off as friends. Can I get out of friend zone?"Easy cutie, I've got enough friends" One of your mistakes was texting too much. Drop the above text and leave it there, don't text longer past that, don't invest anymore, game other girls, let her see your cool lifestyle somehow. Your frame should be she's cute I enjoyed her company and she might have misunderstood my attention as being needy so I'll give her space Don't act butthurt though, you are the prize. And lastly, if you apply it properly invite her to a party or a brunch or any kind of… | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 12:45 PM |
| 2 | I will leave this hereOf course. We are talking about percentages. This applies to every context but let's talk in context of game: 1% for a total beginner who never approached in his entire life, never spoken to girls for more 2 minutes unless it's the cashier or his teacher.. That 1 percent for him can be as simple as saying hi to the next cute girls he crosses path with. 1% for someone advanced doing pickup for 15 years and he can't keep track of how many lays he had, is probably approaching a set with two 10s hot… | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 11:42 AM |
| 2 | I will leave this hereYes it's not, but we are talking about only 1% consistent change. Imagine a 2%, 3%, 10%? You miss a day of taking action, so what? the next two days you give 2%. You need to read "the power of habit" if you make taking action a habit you will achieve great things and yes you will be a robot cause you will start doing it out of a habit not like a burden that you have to do. Also an important point of this is people need to judge themselves less in terms of what they are achieving on the short run… | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 11:31 AM |
| 1 | The Key to Talking to Women is to Make Yourself the Focus of the InteractionWhat do you mean creating fantasies? | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Drop your best text message for asking her outI totally agree with you. | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Drop your best text message for asking her outIt seems like you are waiting for an answer, don't get me wrong I'm not over thinking it and I don't care. I'm just a perfectionist | /r/seduction | 20/09/19 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Am I a fool for wanting the girl to text first?Yes they do, but then stand out by texting properly, fun free of outcome texts & texts to setup dates only. | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Girl got offended that I wanted to use a condomYes exactly your edit is what I meant. | /r/seduction | 15/09/19 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Girl got offended that I wanted to use a condomThe way she is into me shows that if I push a little more to get tests together she will do it. But also I mentioned in my post that she might be also sleeping around so it's like an on-going situation. What do you think? | /r/seduction | 15/09/19 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Girl got offended that I wanted to use a condomOf course losing her :) I'm working on my abundance and so far its going fine. | /r/seduction | 14/09/19 04:48 PM |
| 4 | Girl got offended that I wanted to use a condomMan, are you going to keep saving me everyday? Thanks man for a second I had doubts that maybe I'm wrong, I was in LTR for 4 years so it's like I just came out to the world. this girl I number closed last night is really into me tons of IoI if it's not for her friends that cockblocked we were going home together. I gamed her right but she's like super into me and she texted in the next morning to come over and we spent the day. But when this thing happened, I got anxious about the situation and … | /r/seduction | 14/09/19 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Girl got offended that I wanted to use a condomSorry I should have mentioned in my post. But yes it was about her feeling that I meant she was a slut, I didn't and actually she didn't give off that vibe, she claimed she didn't have sex since 4 months. Also she mentioned afterwards she doesn't like how they feel. So mainly these are her two reasons. And for pregnancy she said she was on a the pill and literally grabbed the drawer to show me. So I trust that and pull out can work fine I guess not effective but with her pill it sounded like a n… | /r/seduction | 14/09/19 03:51 PM |
| 5 | Girl got offended that I wanted to use a condomYeah but she literally said that I was right and she feels bad that she judged herself that she trusted me while I didn't. She said that I was right about it specially its our first time. But the question is how to go about this with her from now on? | /r/seduction | 14/09/19 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Friendzoning her after feeling a little friendzone vibe from herWhat's your view on physicality, currently it's none existant except for the hellos and good byes.. What frame should I have? How how to spike it | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Friendzoning her after feeling a little friendzone vibe from herThis is gold. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Friendzoning her after feeling a little friendzone vibe from herI love your breakdown on this. But one note is that in this particular situation there wasn't an actual rejection it's just a vibe that I'm sure I'm in the process of being friendzoned, it could be due to my mistake maybe I'm late on physicality or I texted so much. So my fix was, oh let me text less and change my over friendliness and give less attention and increase passive attraction (social media) and then maybe increase physicality when we are together. So that change of attitude was easily… | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Friendzoning her after feeling a little friendzone vibe from herThat was my response man | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Friendzoning her after feeling a little friendzone vibe from herI said what made you feel that way | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 12:49 PM |
| 2 | archive.org - RSDMax YT ArchiveI second that. | /r/seduction | 03/09/19 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Girl got gay friend to introduce me to her at the bar last night, now won’t respond to me? What do I do?You gave the string to the cat too fast... So she lost interest... | /r/seduction | 02/09/19 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Rsdmax Content and VideosCheck your dm | /r/seduction | 01/09/19 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Rsdmax Content and VideosIt's deleted now... Tell me you downloaded it somewhere? | /r/seduction | 31/08/19 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Rsdmax Content and VideosI swear since I saw the views were increasing I wanted to just incase, It was on my mind to download it all last week... I was watching it from there and now we lost it again... It's definitely RSD are requesting removal.. Let me ask OP if he downloaded... | /r/seduction | 31/08/19 02:48 AM |
| 4 | I want to ask my friend (girl) to hangout this week and I kinda like her. How to respond to “is this a date?”Best response out here | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 06:15 AM |
| 1 | "When a man is really hot it's a turn off"Great break down thanks. I'm thinking two things: There's this instinct in girls when everything seems perfect about a guy they tend to get suspicious so for an appearance kind of view that might be the case. Your assumption about the mainstream hot, cause during the same conversation she mentions that "bigger muscles, smaller everything else" (I guess it's coming from her experiences, two previous ex were gym freaks) But still I didn't agree with her, you know because a lot of girls say a too s… | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 03:19 AM |
| 3 | "When a man is really hot it's a turn off"If I understood I wouldn't post. And maybe yeah, just maybe. | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 03:04 AM |
| 3 | "When a man is really hot it's a turn off"I like your analysis. She's not my gf but we are in screening phase but there's a small tension so according to your analysis that still stands the same? | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Need to pass this shit testIt's already going bad, so this will either backfire and end it anyways or it will actually save the situation. | /r/seduction | 28/07/19 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Rsdmax Content and VideosThanks. I get it's a business move but it's a bit disappointing. Fellow redditor just shared the archive below. More than enough. | /r/seduction | 27/07/19 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Rsdmax Content and VideosBro!!! How can I be thankful? Thanks man! Really | /r/seduction | 27/07/19 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Rsdmax Content and VideosThanks buddy | /r/seduction | 07/07/19 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Rsdmax Content and VideosOK your feedback made me happy that its not gone but one thing... Remake!!? Check the dating advice Playlist on his channel, videos started around 2015 these were golden really, remaking all of these can take years... I trust Max, but it feels like he de-attached from RSD and he is just into his business mentoring nowadays.. Also max is such a perfectionist... | /r/seduction | 07/07/19 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Just broke up with my girlfriend because...Good job bro. | /r/MGTOW | 07/07/19 08:58 PM |
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