gamechangerjosie Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
31	How to trust men enough to engage in serious relationships?		gamechangerjosie	/r/ExRedPill	24/03/23 09:39 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How to trust men enough to engage in serious relationships? happy with cats versus unhappy with some bum ass loser is not the own you think it is	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/23 02:54 PM
9	There's something horrible growing inside of me as a man Its always 'trauma' from some girl from high school rejecting them 💀 OP get therapy. You aren't in some revenge action movie. Women are sentient human beings, treat them like people. Stop letting sex rule your entire life and all your behaviours and emotions. We've evolved past just our monkey brains.	/r/ExRedPill	26/03/23 04:11 AM
1	A lot of women are writing off perfectly good men because they do not have a college degree. I think its so blown out of proportion because few women agree on what is the beauty standard equivalent for men. I think there are just as many women who hate the super buff Magic Mike kind of build as there are women who love it. Theres tons of women who love dad bods or the women that love the Timothee Chalamet feminine guy kind of vibe, or all the women who like Pete Davidson. Like theres just very few common denominators in what women find ideally attractive but height is one general threw-…	/r/ExRedPill	26/03/23 04:00 AM
1	How can a man build confidence in his interactions with women if his experience is almost entirely rejection? Ive lived 25 years with no relationships other than 9th grade and they've been just fine so far idk why you want an oath. I'm chilling with or without a partner, I post on here and avoid guys bc I'm fr afraid of most of them. I think its weird and sad to be so obsessed with sex. There is more to life, we have evolved beyond just our monkey brains. Get a hobby. Go outside. Free yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/23 03:41 AM
1	How can a man build confidence in his interactions with women if his experience is almost entirely rejection? Sure if they're out there but I'm not going to waste my time or energy on someone thats not. Between my friends, family, job, hobbies, my life is busy and emotionally fulfilling still without a romantic partner. If I enjoy my time alone more than I do with someone, I'm not going to be desperate and settle for shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/23 12:15 AM
1	How can a man build confidence in his interactions with women if his experience is almost entirely rejection? Yes. I really like the life I have now and would never partner with someone if they did not improve it in some way. I find being around people I don't really like to be far more lonely than just actually being by myself which is pretty chill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/23 11:42 PM
1	How can a man build confidence in his interactions with women if his experience is almost entirely rejection? You won't be desperate if you have built a life for yourself on your own that you love. A girl validating that or not should not make or break anything for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/23 11:22 PM
1	How can a man build confidence in his interactions with women if his experience is almost entirely rejection? By not putting pressure on things. You should be happy being alone and not dependent on some girl to make you feel better. Shoot your shot and if she doesn't reciprocate then move on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/23 09:46 PM
–	Where have all the good women gone? You are overestimating what you think you offer women and underestimating how perfectly content most women are just chilling on their own. Good luck trying to find a woman who would ever depend on you fully. Basically all women can support themselves so they have the option and mobility to leave men that don't treat them right. So actually treat them right and offer something positive to their life so that their life alone isn't better than it is with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/23 09:25 PM
1	Relationship status in the 18-24 demographic isn’t as important as that among 30-34. By that point, studies still show most men and women have found LTRs. Sure but thats at the expense of women who aren't benefiting from casual sex as their partner has no need or intention to actually please her, only himself young men should start fucking other young men honestly, get on grindr already if you want very easy and accessible casual sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/23 08:54 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I really hope you start dating men then	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/23 06:43 PM
1	according to polls, young women are more ''sexless'' than young men in 2021. I certainly don't and I don't think there are so many women willing to engage, hence, the gender disparity in availability. If there are so many women willing to fuck, go fuck them then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/23 06:01 PM
1	according to polls, young women are more ''sexless'' than young men in 2021. Women don't benefit from hookup culture. The sex is far more likely to be terrible for us while dudes still get their nut. There are more options for sure but all the options are dogshit because the guys have no motivation to care about a woman and her wants and desires. That men biologically want to fuck everything they can idea and whatever. Then when less women engage and make themselves available because we don't have anything to actually gain, men will whine all day and night about how few …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/23 05:50 PM
1	according to polls, young women are more ''sexless'' than young men in 2021. then why is every post on here crying about not getting laid	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/23 05:35 PM
1	Relationship status in the 18-24 demographic isn’t as important as that among 30-34. By that point, studies still show most men and women have found LTRs. Being seen as attractive is one piece of puzzle for relationships. Its not the life fulfilling compliment you think it is for 18-29 year old women when they know dudes want to fuck them. When male sexual interest is only as shallow as her appearance and nothing else its not satisfying. Women also are being used when its reinforced time and time again on here that women are simply gatekeepers of vaginas and only matter when they are 18-maybe 30 and then otherwise of no value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/23 05:30 PM
1	according to polls, young women are more ''sexless'' than young men in 2021. Are lots of women positively reinforcing it? or are women's standards too high and thats why men are sexless and struggling? because it can't be both	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/23 05:22 PM
1	You shouldn't bother getting married or having kids if you are primarily attracted to 18-21 year old's. Yes. If you aren't ever going to find 40 year old women attractive don't commit to one for life. You are lying to your partner if you marry her til death to you part when you are 60 years old still frothing at the mouth for 20 year olds. Just don't get married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/23 04:46 PM
1	according to polls, young women are more ''sexless'' than young men in 2021. Men trolling for pussy, trying to rack up a body count because they think its cool, while never satisfying a woman because he doesn't care about her wants beyond getting her to sleep with him makes women more defensive. Men having demand for constant casual sex is why hookup culture exists and women trying to weed out the shallow and sex obsessed weirdos is the reason they're not all succeeding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/23 04:39 PM
3	How to trust men enough to engage in serious relationships? The not like other girls bit is because I absolutely do think its a red flag for a guy to be putting down other women thinking its a compliment. A guy should have a generally positive view of women. I know it sounds hypocritical when I don't have a generally positive view of men, but this is derived from what men say about themselves. 'They only want one thing' is told to girls and internalized EARLY. That they'll hook up with girls they don't even like or think are attractive, make shit up or f…	/r/ExRedPill	25/03/23 04:09 PM
1	Question 4 Women: Has PPD and TRP made you less trustful of men or dislike them? when they can't see my face, they're...less kind. This makes me more uneasy, like this is what more men than i thought would think since its behind closed doors. The niceness is a facade to try and win you over, that makes me feel worse not better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/23 06:41 AM
1	Guys, you have 2 options, which would you choose? you're the most deranged poster on here, i hope you're on some watchlist	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/23 05:45 AM
3	How to trust men enough to engage in serious relationships? other cultures who sexualise women less and possibly men who come from cultures which are less individualistic (Indian, Or other Asian countries) Indian and Asian men absolutely still sexualize women, if not far worse if you look at things like sexual assault in Japan on trains and how pervasive upskirting and groping is My issue is, I'm a girls girl lmao, I don't want guys to think 'oh shes not like other girls', I want them to be normal and see women as human beings equal to them	/r/ExRedPill	25/03/23 05:40 AM
–	If coming on too strong is so unattractive why does love bombing seem to work so often? I feel authoritative to answer this as someone with BPD very susceptible and has been receptive to love bombing lmao Love bombing is that its so individual, that they make you think you are the most special and beautiful person in the world and no one will ever compare and we will get married and die together at the same time while holding hands kind of stuff Coming on too strong denotes that its mostly sexually charged, just desperate for pussy kind of thing. Its not special or about you, its a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/23 02:14 AM
–	Women should not have any social media if they are in a serious relationship CMV Ok well you shouldn't be surprised if a woman doesn't care to coddle your insecurity and moves on. I'd maybe look inwards and think if you actually offer enough to the 8/9/10 out of 10 woman you speak of that she'd want to make such sacrifices for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/23 01:39 AM
–	Women should not have any social media if they are in a serious relationship CMV Your view of the purpose of social media is not universal. Instagram is not a dating site. Id guess the people I follow on instagram is at least 95% just other women and my own account is on private. Your desire for control over a theoretical partners social media is just your own insecurity speaking. Very very very few women are the gold digging BBL instagram models that red pillers spend the majority of their time talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/23 01:33 AM
1	If A GF Can Post Bikini/Half Naked Pics, Can Her BF Like Other Women's Pics as well? You are reading in key context which doesn't exist in this hypothetical. Maybe she's just accustomed to posting online in a certain way? Fashion and fitness are common interests and post topics for women online which would comprise of gym pics, outfit pics and whatever. Its not always about attracting a partner. Seeking to change how she has been posting online prior to you shows your insecurity that she'd be open to another man which may not be true. Just because maybe you like girls photos wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/23 01:26 AM
1	Relationship status in the 18-24 demographic isn’t as important as that among 30-34. By that point, studies still show most men and women have found LTRs. loved, desired, and romantically successful as young women Those who are 18-29 and feeling loved, desired and romantically successful are those who are 18-29 and in a loving long term relationship regardless of gender. 18-29 year old women receiving sexual advances does not mean they are feeling loved or romantically successful, it means men want to fuck but don't care about them as a sentient human being to commit to spending time or doing anything else with them. Maybe 18-29 year old men would…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/23 01:12 AM
1	Women of PPD, how big of a red flag is a man having no relationship experience? Many women are repulsed by an inexperienced man I have no idea where you got this from, I know soooo many women who think a nerdy guy with little experience is a massive plus in that he's not going to be fucking around, will be much sweeter and will value her and her attention more. You lose this upside entirely if you're a douchebag, shallow or desperate though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/23 12:57 AM